@@eraldocoil2719 I read that as "I don't trust A man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity" and was torn between laughter and agreement. If a man got hands....he shady...,ladies....take his piano walkers right off. Now I KNOW you won't be texting.
The inability to reload is the least of problems in “game” attitude. More like don’t treat it as a game cos people aren’t freaking objects, toys or robots.
As a woman, one of the best things you can do as a man is just talk to us like we are actual human beings. If some guy comes up to me with the mindset of “omg! i’m talking to a female!!” it’s obvious, and it will instantly make the woman feel uncomfortable
Also they should lessen their expectations as we also do. When a gentleman whom I hold affection for displays kindness towards me, I do not immediately presume that I will have a romantic opportunity with him. Building a romantic relationship necessitates mutual attraction and can be best achieved through the friendship approach, allowing us to genuinely connect and determine if we are better suited as companions or romantic partners. So I encourage the same advice for men, lower the high expectations. We encountered a gentleman at work who had envisioned a romantic opportunity with his boss's daughter. He harbored lofty expectations, only to have them shattered upon discovering that she was already contentedly involved in a romantic relationship with someone else. It turns out that her professional demeanor towards him was simply a matter of maintaining a proper work dynamic, though he mistakenly interpreted it differently.
The title is absolutely correct. If any man approached me in this way, I would try to get away as fast as I could while calling someone so they know my location.
He sounds like an indian, but dont want to say something wrong since its in black and white. But if he is one, then the students are all scammed by him.
What do you recommend? A puppy? A warm smile? Feats of strength and agility? Approaching anyone for the first time is hard. I just try to be friendly and receptive and immediately take no for an answer, if that is the answer. And if it's not maybe I'll make a friend. :)
I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I'm honestly starting to think these pickup artists are actually people working for the government to weed out men who need to be on a watch list.
This sort of happened to me once. I’ve had the opener “you’re coming home with me tonight” (no question or anything) said to me before to which I left that bar with my friends so fast out of pure fear. He would not take no for an answer for like 5 mins though and his mates were getting involved too and surrounding me (I was in a queue initially for the bar but felt like I couldn’t leave after being surrounded). The bar queue was kind of like a huge mob normally so nobody really noticed that I was surrounded as it is normal for groups to be sprawled against the bar. My friend thankfully came looking for me and pulled me out after a concerning look I threw them and they said like “we need to leave the taxi is here”. One of the most scared I’ve ever been. Glad my friend found me but this also shouldn’t be a situation to begin with.
They don't see us as actual humans with thoughts and feelings. We are the side characters who only show up when they need something. Why put any work into the help?
5:16 I'm absolutely wheezing imagining someone actually walking across the bar yelling this shit. People would be running away screaming as quick as if someone pulled a gun at the club if a creep of that level wandered into your space
Here's my genuine advice, talk to them like people. Go into every conversation looking for a friend. Even if it doesn't go beyond that you've gained a friend. I don't know why people feel that's a bad thing.
The problem is that those men are obsessed with the concept of 'sex with (many) women' as something that gives them worth as men, before other men. They don't see women as people or themselves as something with any value beyond this warped ideal of 'a man as something that gains power through sexual prowess'. I don't know if they're hopeless but they're definitely not okay enough to be socially adjusted. It reeks of self-hatred. People like that can't stand other people so they don't care about getting to know anyone, let alone making friends.
never a bad thing, a guy once made friends with me and stayed friends after I told him I wasn't interested in anything else. 10 years later and he's married to my sister and has 2 kids with her lol. you never know who you'll meet through women who are just your friends.
"being normal" isn't working for most guys now because they don't know what normal is, they have severely warped views of how social interactions are supposed to go and when they try, it goes disastrously wrong. The *right* (not a con-artist/pick up artist) person can help them with that.
Don't let them know you are afraid, just be brave in general since a ton of these creeps get off more when they know they creeped out someone or scared them. It's weird but you can check even online discussions held by such weirdos
I have this guy I work with who's 37 and can't get a relationship and he always talks like it's a game "if she doesn't reply for an hour I'll take an hour to respond I have to match her energy" I'm like bro that will only make her think she doesn't mean anything to you be confident funny driven and disciplined. those are traits that matter. there are no tactics tricks or games. get any tactics out of your head, work on yourself, build a better life for you that she wants to be apart of
You JUST said a tactic thou XD There IS NONE Just BE YOURSELF and do not work on your behavior to pleas eothers but yourself only and the rest will come together!
How is suddenly telling someone you want to engage in coitus with them supposed to generate attraction again? If they're not attracted to you already, they're going to be even less attracted to you when you suddenly come out of nowhere with that 💀
what ever happened to just be yourself? what ever happened to only accepting those who accept you for you? your "charming" personality will define your relationship.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Trying not to think about someone is like telling people "try not to think about polar bear in miniskirt". They are going to think about polar bear in miniskirt even if they never thought of either of those things. Human mind doesn't work like that. Keep busy, focus on yourself, don't ruminate at the beginning but don't run from the feelings, either. End of relationship brings up a chemical storm in your brain that is affecting the way you feel and think - read up about neuroscience of love to understand it more deeply. Getting insight into how neurotransmitters are affecting your behaviour will make you feel less hopeless and confused. Know that it will pass, like all things. When the chemical storm is over, you can analyse the past - preferably with someone you can trust,a good friend and therapist. And please don't get scammed by people preying on those with broken hearts.
I have some actual advice incase someone is lonely here: Be casual and friendly, especially in clubs. Try to make subtle advances before talking to someone for example if you lock eyes with someone -> smile -> if you get a smile back -> slowly make your way over on the dance floor or at the bar -> start up a conversation and don't forget to ask her questions, don't let you be the only one talking. If she isn't engaging it's fine just say enjoy your night and go on, in most cases her body language will immediately let you know if she's interested or not. Don't be pushy. If she engages with you give it some time and roll with the conversation, then ask for a number or instagram if you feel comfortable. After that on the dance floor see how she reacts to light touch on arm or waist while talking, just a careful approach and be sure she is comfortable, if so and she seems into you, you can try leaning in for a kiss. There's no magic to this no retarded pick-up lines or creepy shit like whatever the fuck this guy is doing, this is just what I used to do. But listen one night stands are not what you should look for, sex isn't/should't be your main goal, it's not that fulfilling. Sure it's fun and feels great but that makes you happy for like a day and that's it, try to find someone you can fall in love with instead. I hope this helps, Charlie covered most of what you shouldn't do and here's some stuff of what you should do.✌🏻
Is there a way to approach a specific girl in a friend group? When I go to the bar girls are either with a guy or in a group. Seems rude to just jump in and take one girl’s attention away from her friends.
I hope people read the last part of your comment. The hookup lifestyle is so glorified by young dudes while it's not fulfilling at all. Worst part is you only realize that after putting in all the effort
Pick up artists have always baffled me. Like... it isn't that hard. I'm not saying I'm casanova over here, but like... just talk to women like human beings. Without drenching every interaction with the overtone of "I'm only speaking to you cause I want in your pants." Like, you know, conversation. And then you either hit it off, or you don't so it was never meant to be and you move on, cause you're not entitled to anyone. It really is that simple, fellas.
They think dating is about being tactical, as if the right move or line will always work, when it's all about being personal and respectful and meeting people on their level
@@theCommentDevil It's such an insane, creepy mindset to have. And dehumanizing too. Like that women aren't people. They're... like... a lockbox to open. Just find the right password and they'll swoon over you and that's such imaginary nonsense. They'd rather spend money to go to weird workshops full of incels than just have a personality.
Fr. There isn't a magic way to make things happen. Women are human beings and you can't control how they will feel about you. Just treat them like humans and respect them, and see what happens.
lowkey the best option, requires both rapport, and nonchalance. I started talking to a girl younger than me, who went to my highschool, and now lives in the same city as me. Don't be a freak, be chill, actually be interested too, they are people. If you treat a person how you want to be treated you will be fine. she didn't know me specifically, but she knew of me, and that was enough to kick off a conversation. Slow down, have income, and want things for YOURSELF. you got this kings.
I will never understand why guys look for dating advice from other guys. I struggled for many years to find a relationship. After countless failures I changed my approach. Instead of taking advice from guys, I started asking women for advice and you know what happened? I immediately had success. It’s almost like women will tell you what they want and you just have to listen. But for some reason guys just refuse to change how they do things. I see it constantly in these comments sections. Women will say “don’t do this stuff, we think it’s creepy and no one will ever respond well to it” and guys respond saying “no, you’re a stupid woman. You don’t know what you want and you’re lucky that we even acknowledge your existence”. It’s absolutely insane to me how guys think a woman will want you if you harass her and act like a pervert. Smh
You see, people who get advice from pickup guys have the idea that ALL of women act certain way and it's a bit frustrating and sad to see. The answer is right next to you (just talk to them) but pickup artists will get you far away from actually talking to a woman like a normal person bc it keeps them insecure and with the idea that those people actually need their advice.
Not that this is bad advice, but I will say that men shouldn't assume this will up their chances of successful relationships, if not because they have to implicitly adapt to being an enjoyable person, but also because in my own experience of taking women's advice, doing exactly what they don't suggest has worked better for me. Women have this tendency to speak for all women and it will end up causing failure. It is why we still see women being objectified, as many do it to themselves and many others encourage men to do so whether they actually mean to or not. No demographic of people are all in the same page despite how hard they try to act like this is the case.
I call my wife “buddy” “pal” and “dude” but I also call her names of affection and other things she likes that I cannot say on public forum. Your relationship is yours, and don’t worry about what other people think when it comes to it. Not supporting the loony toon in this video by any means but calling your S/O “buddy” ain’t no thang
Hearing them saying the sentence "You need to be invading their space" with a straight face is really something else. They do know that the word invading has a negative connotation right?. It's not something people do unless it's with ill intent.
Women are making it difficult to even have conversations these days. I had to smash a water cooler in the waiting room because she couldn't just have a normal conversation without harboring the assumptions that you just mentioned.
I am convinced many of these “coaches” are essentially just trying to gate keep relationships in the most stupid yet aggressive way possible. By playing the role of the serpent in the garden of eden and baiting desperate people into brutally and irreversibly fucking up their entire lives.
I agree. Dating and relationships are in a terrible state, but these grifters exist to make money off a segment of people who can't work from a worse scenario and move up from there.
These types of people treat women like deers you dont want to startle as you get closer because they dont see them as people with their own thoughts. "Oh, if you invade their space theyll be put off, so just inch closer and closer so they cant tell exactly when its "too much" for them until you are touching them wherever you want"
One time I was waiting alone at a train station and a man came and sat down beside me and asked if he could sit. I said sure. Then he asked if he could have sex with me. I thought I misheard. He repeated himself. Uncomfortable does not begin to describe how I felt. It was immediate fear. I’m not even someone that usually feels unsafe when going around alone. I’ve lived downtown in a large city for 20 years. But it really shook me honestly. This is my long way of confirming - do not talk to women this way.
Pro tip: Just don't. Don't do anything. Just improve yourself and wait around. Either someone becomes interested or they don't. Because of pick-up "artists" like that, even approaching like a normal, sane individual is seen as bad and suspicious. So, just don't.
@@kadeemvaughn9 Approaching puts you at risk of false accusations, being shunned, and/or scorned, regardless of how it is done. The people who make these accusations face little punishment, too. There is little benifit in the U.S. when it comes to approaching, hell, even marriage (divorce courts are insanely biased). We're in a different world, friend.
@@just-linx8271 i am aware of all the issues with females and the legal system in the 🇺🇸 but in general woman don't approach you so if you want a girl you gotta risk it or be alone but waiting for a girl to just fall in your lap is unrealistic
the real cheat code is to just genuinely think of women as people. just regular ass people the same way men are. some are attractive, some arent, some you get along and have shared interests with, some you don't. like deadass just approach us like normal ppl worthy of respect and with inherent value regardless of if we sleep with you, cuz you dont suddenly deem men worthless if you don't become best friends so why do women lose all value if we arent romantic partners?
Also having platonic women friends gets you laid. Women know other women. You being able to handle rejection and not be a creep will get u reccomendations lol.
No. Thinking women like they are the same as men is exactly how we got into this situation. Men and women are different. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging this.
@@crappyaccountits a debate going around rn!! if women would feel more safe alone in the woods with a man or a bear, majority of women said they feel safer with the bear
To be honest, in the US I would choose the random guy. But. In some countries I would choose the bear. Like, parts of India where they have an insanely high r*pe rate.
i love whenever they bring up the "female mind" like it's some sort of lovecraftian hivemind enigma and i'm just here, one of these so called female entities, not relating to a single thing they say. also it's hard to put into words but i find it most entertaining how they dissect the "female mind" like it's an alien concept and in that case, wtf is the "male mind" then? like they make so many literally normal run-of-the-mill responses and personality traits seem like elusive, female-only concepts and it's just hilarious to me like "ah yes, ofc, guys dont do this, only girls, they're like animals running on instinct or something" like i cant even be mad it's just funny
it is fr insane when men try to analyze women and talk like we all didn't evolve on the same earth from the same ancestors. they're wrong pretty much every time but the absolute conviction with which they believe what they're saying is remarkable. they literally all just talk like that one friend who minored in psychology and thinks they're a therapist or something
"... My agent said this video would be good exposure even if the pay is shit, but what the actual fuck is this? Maybe if I stay completely still he won't see me and go away."
The only place you should be straightforward about wanting sex is on a dating app. Most people would prefer to know up front that you're just looking to hook up rather than being led on, used for sex and then abandoned. And you do it in a polite way, like "hey, just so you know, I'm only interested in hooking up atm." But doing it in real life, that's a new level of stupidity.
What’s more infuriating is how women on dating apps will specifically say in their profile if they’re interested in hookups making it stupendously easy for men to find women who are actually interested in hooking up, all men have to do is be just as forthcoming in their own profile and start matching with people who are on tinder for the same purpose. If they don’t have success with the women who participate in hookup culture (as the selection criteria is often based entirely on high standards of physical attractiveness) they can always consider going to other websites to seek out a consensual hook up with a sex worker. As for IRL scenarios where it would be conceivable to consider a woman might be interested in hookups, there’s always certain night clubs that become known for a higher prevalence of that sort of thing, but even then-and this applies whether in person or online-men should NEVER obfuscate the fact they’re ONLY looking for a hookup, a man intentionally framing his interest as romantic in nature and love bombing a woman when a one night stand is all he’s after is an inexcusable manipulation tactic used to circumvent the fact most women are only interested in having sex under the belief there’s mutual romantic attraction and the subsequent belief this is the start of a relationship that will extend beyond that night. Men should just be honest about the type of relationship (or lack there of) they’re interested in and be respectful to any women who says they’re not interested. Also, the internet (especially the manosphere) continues to mislead men to think all women participate in hookup culture, but they shouldn’t be making that assumption about the women they meet, hookups are still predominantly unappealing to the majority of women and sex remains exclusive to their romantic relationships.
I feel like something that isn't talked about is that people (in this case, women) can very easily sense when the other person doesn't perceive them as a differentiated human being. As a woman I have met SO MANY men, generally the majority, who have no issue with relating to women, are able to have normal conversations with me and others, and are able to be mutually respectful. Even when their only interest is sex and even when I'm not receptive to their advances, they still manage to convey that they respect me as a human being. Then, these pick-artist, incel types walk around like women are an esoteric hivemind that need to be treated in a very specific way to produce to desired output, like a sex vending machine. It's crazy to me how this minority of men cannot even pretend to respect women as sentient beings. What makes dating and 'cold approaches' so difficult for these types of guys isn't due to the female hivemind being cold or unforgiving, it's because the majority of other men have shown that you can be respectful and inviting even in the pursuit of a sexual relationship. Why would anyone ever choose someone aggressive, blunt, and/or impersonal when there are a trillion other people who don't make you feel like an object?
men deal with this same stuff too, being objectified and touched when we dont like it. i couldnt tell you just how many times ive been helping family/friends move furniture or doing some outdoor labor and the women in the household feel fine just putting their hands on your back or patting your neck, or acting like their gonna hit you and playing it off as a joke, or constantly telling you "oh youre so tall, and your shoulders are so broad." theres even times when im out in public at an event, and i can feel women just staring into the back of my head as i walk buy, or walking right in front of me (we're talking inches from my belly) when theres way more space behind me to walk. i can tell you for a fact thats theres plenty of women out there who dont know how to actually talk to men they like and act weird around them (especially when you say something completely normal like "no i dont like concerts theyre too loud" and they laugh like its the funniest shit ever.) and we have to feel like an asshole for telling them "hey i dont like that" or "yeah i get that a lot." those experiences definitely give you an understanding of how women must feel from guys who do the same, but i just wish we were taken more seriously when we express our discomfort
That's a great point, however my life experience has been the opposite, unfortunately. I've met so many creeps ever since I was a little kid, and MOST men were gross and condescending. I'm glad that for you the majority were decent, but to me it still seems like most of them are awful.
I can't help wondering if it's really the minority of men who can not (or at least don't) respect women as sentient beings. I REALLY hope that is the case.
There is no “correct definition” of what a woman should be. The only criteria is being an adult female, that’s literally it. Women can be whatever and whoever they want to be. The fact that you need “proof” to even consider that they aren’t some indecipherable homogenous singularity and are instead individuals with their own unique thoughts and experiences is as telling as it is worrying.
Rofl no joke, was looking for a comment like this, it does look just like that, similar to a certain film that was blamed for an uprising many years ago. Really does look like some type of interrogation technique/counter espionage tactic being used by the modern forces.
As a guy, it would even be weird/suspicious if a random woman approached me like this. I'd think she'd be setting me up or try to rob me in the worst case. The main problem would be that I'd feel like something to be used not as a genuine person. To be fair, I've had it sort of happen once although I had known her (amically) for a while and it wasnt the first thing she said to me that night.
Ever notice how younger women, like in their teens and 20s, often get little crushes on their gay male friends? Why is that? The men are certainly not communicating any sexual "intentions" their way. It's because they will actually *look a woman in the eyes* and the friendship grows out of the fact *they just like each other as humans.* It's sad how REFRESHING that can feel as a teenage girl or young woman.
exactly. I find Queer men are just safer. they also listen and empathise with social issues I deal with as a woman and help out (for example calling out misogynistic 'jokes') instead of calling me sensitive etc
I had a girl saying “I always wanted a gay friend”. Reminds me of Trevor’s mom from GTA 5 “I always wanted a gay son” 😂 I honestly don’t understand the gay friend thing.
These insane dudes will take the most direct approach ever, come off creepy as hell, and then get hostile or even dangerous when they're rejected! To avoid this, I typically act puzzled and pretend I don't speak English. So far, none of the creeps I've used this tactic on have known Russian, but I'm inclined to learn more languages just in case
Based on the clips Charlie showed, the guy in the black shirt next to the pickup artist is either there under duress and just waiting for his moment to escape, or he's already dead and this is a Weekend at Bernie's situation. There's no way someone with _that_ facial expression is actually paying attention to what's being said, or is even there of their own free will. (What even _was_ the point of that other guy? He doesn't say anything or react at all. They could've just just filmed the pickup artist talking directly into the camera.)
27 f i work nights in a gas station-open carry. A guy strait up interviewed me for 10 min on why I was married, why I wouldn't cheat with him. Clear I was married. He only stopped when another guy came in and saved me
Tho I do have a question. How do you guys with night shifts juggle the rest of your life? I'm genuinely interested cuz I don't know anyone who has a night shift. Especially sleep n relationships.
This comment is so funny, because it’s true. I wonder how he talked that guy into helping him for this video. It’s probably his brother’s roommate or something, and they promised him $40 and they said they’d invite him to the next party they throw.
Protip: Never say anything to a woman that you wouldn’t want a man to say to you in prison.
That's unironically pretty genius advice.
Jokes aside, that’s actually pretty good advice.
probably the best advice out there
Damn, that's huge. I mean the piece of advice, of course.
i like ya and i want ya
"You need to be dominating" "You need to invade their space"
You need therapy.
And handcuffs.
And a strap..... On@@Blackheathenly
He assumes people think he sounds smart because he sounds like sadhguru 😅
@@Blackheathenly Straight jacket. I don't trust that man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity.
@@eraldocoil2719 I read that as "I don't trust A man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity" and was torn between laughter and agreement. If a man got hands....he shady...,ladies....take his piano walkers right off. Now I KNOW you won't be texting.
There's one thing you'll never see in these pickup artist videos: a woman agreeing the advice will work.
YUP.
Or in the comments. Amazing these 'gurus' can't figure that out. But...then they wouldn't be insufferable tools 🤷♀
Women are not allowed to have any input in these types of videos.
Unless they hire a prostitute to say it. Maybe I wouldn't give them ideas. But you would think there would be some in the comments
As a woman I find penguinzo way more attractive than any of those red pill/pickup guys lmao
huge tip for talking to women: dont treat it like some sort of weird game, because you sure as hell cant reload your save file
That’s actually a good counter to the whole “game” aspect they push
The inability to reload is the least of problems in “game” attitude. More like don’t treat it as a game cos people aren’t freaking objects, toys or robots.
@@MisterIncog thats what im trying to say, life isnt a game and people arent objects in a game that you can just reload lmao
Treating a woman like she's a human being! What a radical concept! That's going to blow most mens minds!!!
Lmao you reminded me of that Super Seducer game
The random guy on the right staying dead silent and uncomfortably nodding along to the worst dating advice imaginable had me absolutely dying LMAO
"Look man, I was promised 100 bucks for a simple acting gig, just get through your bullshit monologue so I can get paid and go home"
👁 I see your pfp
@@furthings I see yours too, and it's very cute! 💜
The fact that he couldn't even get a woman to be on camera to rp this is probably the most damning evidence against this "method."
Bel prob wanted to say yo I left my dog inside I don’t want him to shut in it just speak tf up
the sentence "I'm going to approach you with sexual intent" is both hilarious and terrifying
I am your 100th like 🫵🏻
The classic Hank Hill school of post-marriage flirtation.
My favorite Law & Order show
"Do you want to do a sex with me"
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As a woman, one of the best things you can do as a man is just talk to us like we are actual human beings. If some guy comes up to me with the mindset of “omg! i’m talking to a female!!” it’s obvious, and it will instantly make the woman feel uncomfortable
@@anonymity2882you are providing an excellent example of what Justina said, it is extremely obvious what your intent is in a very uncomfortable way. 😅
Also they should lessen their expectations as we also do. When a gentleman whom I hold affection for displays kindness towards me, I do not immediately presume that I will have a romantic opportunity with him. Building a romantic relationship necessitates mutual attraction and can be best achieved through the friendship approach, allowing us to genuinely connect and determine if we are better suited as companions or romantic partners. So I encourage the same advice for men, lower the high expectations. We encountered a gentleman at work who had envisioned a romantic opportunity with his boss's daughter. He harbored lofty expectations, only to have them shattered upon discovering that she was already contentedly involved in a romantic relationship with someone else. It turns out that her professional demeanor towards him was simply a matter of maintaining a proper work dynamic, though he mistakenly interpreted it differently.
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@@anonymity2882 ummm no
@@anonymity2882 u misunderstood the OP with ur comment which is deleted now, weird
He tries to put his students in prison so they won't be able to refund their money🤡
big brain move XD lol
You just gave me an idea.
He gets the bail out money
Shitting myself in front of the date would be more romantic than what these guys are teaching, holy fuck
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
How don't put yourself down like that, I'm sure you're shit covered underwear is very romantic.
Considering there are actually people that are into that you are not wrong. :x
I swear. If some dude walked up to me and just shits their self... I'd be on the floor laughing so dang hard xD
I had no idea the bar was that low when it comes to dating
"generate attraction" saying it like we playing the sims💀💀
*The sims be like:*
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🕺
My SIMS family was brutally murdered.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
You need to put extra points into charisma
Some people do treat life like a sims.
The title is absolutely correct. If any man approached me in this way, I would try to get away as fast as I could while calling someone so they know my location.
He sounds like an indian, but dont want to say something wrong since its in black and white. But if he is one, then the students are all scammed by him.
What do you recommend? A puppy? A warm smile? Feats of strength and agility?
Approaching anyone for the first time is hard. I just try to be friendly and receptive and immediately take no for an answer, if that is the answer. And if it's not maybe I'll make a friend. :)
@@nono99136just don’t be creepy bro and work on yourself at the gym. Be normal and talk like you’re talking to a friend
@nono99136 I would recommend not approaching random strangers, or just not being a creep.
As you should, and FAST. Clearly some weird fucking Men in this world.
"you need to invade their space and get used to the feeling of mace"
bars 🔥🔥🔥🔥
and I meant you're behind bars
"You need to invade their space," is FUCKING CRAZY
Next time you straight up ask a random girl for sex, bring handcuffs so she cant run away. That´ll make her love you
I was drinking water and spit it everywhere when he said that. Is this not satire?
I hear the Indians are very good at invading the spaces of foreign women visiting their country.
It is overt and I do not like it
“…and start honkin on her tiddies.” 😂💀
Young guys are afraid of approaching woman, and this man wants them to become straight up predators. BRAVO.
I mean, if they do it often enough, they're gonna get love.
From the prison gangs because they got there on SA charges -.-
@@Nerobyrne almost had me there… pfffft
Thats probably the story of most predators
Andrew Taint too, what he spouts isn't too far off from this.
It’s just sad at this point
I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I'm honestly starting to think these pickup artists are actually people working for the government to weed out men who need to be on a watch list.
It’s not that. There are just a ton of men who are socially inept which people profit from.
But why would there be a list? Government sure as hell doesn't give a shit about unsafe men harassing women.
I fucking wish
@@nelli5320 idk maybe some feds are trying to fill in their quotas
This sort of happened to me once. I’ve had the opener “you’re coming home with me tonight” (no question or anything) said to me before to which I left that bar with my friends so fast out of pure fear. He would not take no for an answer for like 5 mins though and his mates were getting involved too and surrounding me (I was in a queue initially for the bar but felt like I couldn’t leave after being surrounded). The bar queue was kind of like a huge mob normally so nobody really noticed that I was surrounded as it is normal for groups to be sprawled against the bar. My friend thankfully came looking for me and pulled me out after a concerning look I threw them and they said like “we need to leave the taxi is here”.
One of the most scared I’ve ever been. Glad my friend found me but this also shouldn’t be a situation to begin with.
Sorry you had to go through that that hurts to read really
they say you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, but i think this man has a better shot not taking them.
God tier comment lmao
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
😂
He has a better shot at getting a date with his anime pillow
@@ZetaCancri *He has a better shot of having an anime pillow come to life and ask him "I wanna fuck you, what's your name?"
I love how every single one of these "techniques" and "methods" treat women like either wild animals or robots or wild animal robots
That's the sigma male way
Don’t spook me or I’m gonna run away 😭
They don't see us as actual humans with thoughts and feelings. We are the side characters who only show up when they need something. Why put any work into the help?
That's incel logic. Woman will fulfill need. Must get woman.
Horizon zero dawn?
5:16 I'm absolutely wheezing imagining someone actually walking across the bar yelling this shit. People would be running away screaming as quick as if someone pulled a gun at the club if a creep of that level wandered into your space
Here's my genuine advice, talk to them like people. Go into every conversation looking for a friend. Even if it doesn't go beyond that you've gained a friend. I don't know why people feel that's a bad thing.
The problem is that those men are obsessed with the concept of 'sex with (many) women' as something that gives them worth as men, before other men. They don't see women as people or themselves as something with any value beyond this warped ideal of 'a man as something that gains power through sexual prowess'. I don't know if they're hopeless but they're definitely not okay enough to be socially adjusted. It reeks of self-hatred. People like that can't stand other people so they don't care about getting to know anyone, let alone making friends.
I agree. If it leads to romance, great, if not, you have a new friend. Either works for me.
never a bad thing, a guy once made friends with me and stayed friends after I told him I wasn't interested in anything else. 10 years later and he's married to my sister and has 2 kids with her lol. you never know who you'll meet through women who are just your friends.
Agreed!
Or think that sex or company is "necessary". No it is not.
pick up artist seminar: $3,000
being normal and just talking to people: free
Being normal is too easy!
@@ZetaCancriCorrection: It's too hard. Which is why I need to spend thousands of dollars so that weirdos can teach me how to be normal!
The slave bidding shall start at $500 dollars
"being normal" isn't working for most guys now because they don't know what normal is, they have severely warped views of how social interactions are supposed to go and when they try, it goes disastrously wrong. The *right* (not a con-artist/pick up artist) person can help them with that.
It's like treating women like equals an human beings is a foreign concept to a huge amount of men.
Dude in the black shirt in the pickup videos looks like a hostage just waiting for the guy to slip up so he can escape
He looks so uncomfortable! I felt so bad for him
Poor guy. He looks like he doesn’t wanna be here at all. Which, looking at the advice… I don’t blame him.
He LOOKS like Tom Scott.
He also looks concerned.
He looks like he realized he just wasted 3500😂
She looks so uncomfortable, lol 😂
As soon as he said "It's the intention."
All I thought was: "Because of the implication..."
Exactly!! Because she's out here, on a boat, alone with us...
The internet has done a great job of showing people who to watch out for at your children’s playgrounds
men?
As a woman... if someone tried to start a conversation like that with me... i would immediately start laughing outside but inside be scared shitless
You should be running to more a populated area in that case
Immediately find the closest bear
your opinnion doesnt matter, you just get fucked
Don't let them know you are afraid, just be brave in general since a ton of these creeps get off more when they know they creeped out someone or scared them. It's weird but you can check even online discussions held by such weirdos
@@mantis8856yeah a lot of them are more aware of their weird behavior then they let on 🤦🏽♀️
I think the guy listening to him speak is genuinely being held at gunpoint behind the scene. He looks T E R R I F I E D
Like blink twice if you need help my mans!
@@ThugShakerCentral54hell blink at all while you're at it ☠️☠️
@@Jules.69 EXACTLY 💀
I honestly feel like he’s just socially awkward. It’s sad cus he might think those advices from that creep will help him
Bros like: 😐
I have this guy I work with who's 37 and can't get a relationship and he always talks like it's a game
"if she doesn't reply for an hour I'll take an hour to respond
I have to match her energy"
I'm like bro that will only make her think she doesn't mean anything to you
be confident funny driven and disciplined. those are traits that matter. there are no tactics tricks or games. get any tactics out of your head, work on yourself, build a better life for you that she wants to be apart of
You JUST said a tactic thou XD
There IS NONE
Just BE YOURSELF and do not work on your behavior to pleas eothers but yourself only and the rest will come together!
How is suddenly telling someone you want to engage in coitus with them supposed to generate attraction again? If they're not attracted to you already, they're going to be even less attracted to you when you suddenly come out of nowhere with that 💀
This guy has definitely tasted every brand of pepper spray.
That's funny. I bet a video of him doing a pepper spray tier list would do way better than him doing PUA type content.
@@goatbabe0666 exactly! He just walks up to a woman and says “hey I wanna fuck you.” Then boom! Instant content.
I think jalapeno might taste better than habanero. Might be good on some wings.
With lines as charismatic as " I want to eff you what flight did you take here?" I'm sure he is a big fan
Like quagmire he’s immune
I like how Tom Scott is just standing there contemplating whether it was worth interviewing a potential serial killer for content
LOL Tom scott 🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Not how i thought his retirement would play out
you did Tom so dirty. but I see it too.
TOM SCOTT 😂😂😂😂😂
This is why women go for the bear.
True
I’m picking tree
what ever happened to just be yourself? what ever happened to only accepting those who accept you for you? your "charming" personality will define your relationship.
Charlie going “HEY SEX??” with the biggest creepy smile was the funniest thing I have seen today
HEY NOSE?? Got your sex!! Wait...shit, no wait
That smile actually made him look genuinely happy.
I screen recorded that so fast
I'm gonna start saying "Hey Sexy" to my girlfriend
It reminded me of a scene from the Sitcom Taxi where Latka goes up to a woman, puts his head on her shoulder and says "Bed?"
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
I’m weirdly fascinated by this interaction 🤔
Trying not to think about someone is like telling people "try not to think about polar bear in miniskirt". They are going to think about polar bear in miniskirt even if they never thought of either of those things. Human mind doesn't work like that.
Keep busy, focus on yourself, don't ruminate at the beginning but don't run from the feelings, either. End of relationship brings up a chemical storm in your brain that is affecting the way you feel and think - read up about neuroscience of love to understand it more deeply. Getting insight into how neurotransmitters are affecting your behaviour will make you feel less hopeless and confused. Know that it will pass, like all things. When the chemical storm is over, you can analyse the past - preferably with someone you can trust,a good friend and therapist.
And please don't get scammed by people preying on those with broken hearts.
@@margodphd This entire comment thread is a scam to drive traffic to some bullshit median or similar snake oil salesman type deal. Don't bother
Bro treats women enconters like undertale pacifist run encounters
🤣🤣🤣
The video game mindset is nuts 😭
I already tried this, it worked! She gave me her number! She yelled it out as well, I’ll say the first 3 numbers
“911”
my farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
She must of been fire burnin
@itz_me_aziza_21tf r u saying u fucin npc
classic
What's the rest of the number?¿?
New go to prison any% speedrun just dropped
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
I think bro has the world record at this point lol
@@WendysBiggieBag21not until Charlie takes it from him 😂
The way you snuck the ad in there was so clean and diabolical
I have some actual advice incase someone is lonely here: Be casual and friendly, especially in clubs. Try to make subtle advances before talking to someone for example if you lock eyes with someone -> smile -> if you get a smile back -> slowly make your way over on the dance floor or at the bar -> start up a conversation and don't forget to ask her questions, don't let you be the only one talking. If she isn't engaging it's fine just say enjoy your night and go on, in most cases her body language will immediately let you know if she's interested or not. Don't be pushy. If she engages with you give it some time and roll with the conversation, then ask for a number or instagram if you feel comfortable. After that on the dance floor see how she reacts to light touch on arm or waist while talking, just a careful approach and be sure she is comfortable, if so and she seems into you, you can try leaning in for a kiss. There's no magic to this no retarded pick-up lines or creepy shit like whatever the fuck this guy is doing, this is just what I used to do. But listen one night stands are not what you should look for, sex isn't/should't be your main goal, it's not that fulfilling. Sure it's fun and feels great but that makes you happy for like a day and that's it, try to find someone you can fall in love with instead. I hope this helps, Charlie covered most of what you shouldn't do and here's some stuff of what you should do.✌🏻
sounds like you need to make a course
Is there a way to approach a specific girl in a friend group? When I go to the bar girls are either with a guy or in a group. Seems rude to just jump in and take one girl’s attention away from her friends.
I hope people read the last part of your comment. The hookup lifestyle is so glorified by young dudes while it's not fulfilling at all. Worst part is you only realize that after putting in all the effort
I ain’t reading allat 😭
@@pixelotilz I know reading is hard for you people.
God forbid a man actually WANTS to have a platonic conversation with a woman
Edit: wow there’s a lot of discourse in these replies
Nah not possible
What's the point of that?
@@DarkandBroody gender politics has broken you brother
@@DarkandBroodycome back to the light
@@DivinityAwakened I can only hope you’re joking
Pick up artists have always baffled me. Like... it isn't that hard. I'm not saying I'm casanova over here, but like... just talk to women like human beings. Without drenching every interaction with the overtone of "I'm only speaking to you cause I want in your pants."
Like, you know, conversation. And then you either hit it off, or you don't so it was never meant to be and you move on, cause you're not entitled to anyone. It really is that simple, fellas.
They think dating is about being tactical, as if the right move or line will always work, when it's all about being personal and respectful and meeting people on their level
Treating dating as some sort of video game is kinda crazy
@@theCommentDevil It's such an insane, creepy mindset to have. And dehumanizing too. Like that women aren't people. They're... like... a lockbox to open. Just find the right password and they'll swoon over you and that's such imaginary nonsense. They'd rather spend money to go to weird workshops full of incels than just have a personality.
What? Women are human beings? Why did nobody tell me????
Fr. There isn't a magic way to make things happen. Women are human beings and you can't control how they will feel about you. Just treat them like humans and respect them, and see what happens.
5:25 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this destroyed me!
lowkey the best option, requires both rapport, and nonchalance. I started talking to a girl younger than me, who went to my highschool, and now lives in the same city as me. Don't be a freak, be chill, actually be interested too, they are people. If you treat a person how you want to be treated you will be fine. she didn't know me specifically, but she knew of me, and that was enough to kick off a conversation. Slow down, have income, and want things for YOURSELF. you got this kings.
I love how unenthusiastic the other guy looks, he did nothing the whole time
Military level training in not laughing
The dude on the right kinda looks like Nathan Fielder
Hmm I feel like he know this shit weird asf
he does the 1000 yard stare silently for the most part of the video
Bro looks straight up uncomfortable lol
I will never understand why guys look for dating advice from other guys. I struggled for many years to find a relationship. After countless failures I changed my approach. Instead of taking advice from guys, I started asking women for advice and you know what happened? I immediately had success. It’s almost like women will tell you what they want and you just have to listen.
But for some reason guys just refuse to change how they do things. I see it constantly in these comments sections. Women will say “don’t do this stuff, we think it’s creepy and no one will ever respond well to it” and guys respond saying “no, you’re a stupid woman. You don’t know what you want and you’re lucky that we even acknowledge your existence”. It’s absolutely insane to me how guys think a woman will want you if you harass her and act like a pervert. Smh
Do you think it would work in reverse? Could I as a woman ask guys for advice on dating guys?
@@fomorians it 100% works in reverse, just like single men keep men single, single women keep women single
You see, people who get advice from pickup guys have the idea that ALL of women act certain way and it's a bit frustrating and sad to see. The answer is right next to you (just talk to them) but pickup artists will get you far away from actually talking to a woman like a normal person bc it keeps them insecure and with the idea that those people actually need their advice.
Not that this is bad advice, but I will say that men shouldn't assume this will up their chances of successful relationships, if not because they have to implicitly adapt to being an enjoyable person, but also because in my own experience of taking women's advice, doing exactly what they don't suggest has worked better for me. Women have this tendency to speak for all women and it will end up causing failure. It is why we still see women being objectified, as many do it to themselves and many others encourage men to do so whether they actually mean to or not. No demographic of people are all in the same page despite how hard they try to act like this is the case.
@@accelerator1666 This comment is real dumb, dude
Charlie you are making this man sound far more entertaining than they deserve
Thank you for keeping "Insano style" alive, Charlie.
I bet he calls her “buddy” 😂
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Just like nixon to his wife
😂yooo that’s a war crime sir ima have to cal the icc
I call my wife “buddy” “pal” and “dude” but I also call her names of affection and other things she likes that I cannot say on public forum. Your relationship is yours, and don’t worry about what other people think when it comes to it. Not supporting the loony toon in this video by any means but calling your S/O “buddy” ain’t no thang
@@AMediumSizedKodiak unless theyre a stranger ofcourse
Mans is the personification of the "Show bob and vagene" meme💀
I shouldn't have taken a sip of water before reading this. 😆 🚿
you beat me to it. Dropping the ,, I wanna fuck you" in the first minute definitely set this tone.
Damn he even got the accent
Dude I’ll be completely honest there is no chance in hell I’m taking pickup advice from an Indian
It's cause he's brown isn't it
Even the dude on the right looks uncomfortable
This must be the bobs and vegana guy
I was thinking exactly the SAME thing
😂
holy shit its res
Hearing them saying the sentence "You need to be invading their space" with a straight face is really something else.
They do know that the word invading has a negative connotation right?. It's not something people do unless it's with ill intent.
For real. That line rubbed me the wrong way big time.
I don’t think they care about if the woman doesn’t like it, they just wanna be horny and weird
Or like, by accident because you're clueless. But willingly? Oh no
S
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I've had guys do this. My immediate and unconscious answer has been "eww" while I back up like Im waiting for a wild animal attack.
Easiest way to get yourself arrested 😂
I was listening to the video and ad was so smooth I didnt even realize you brought it up
as a woman i was very afraid watching this video
Hi Maria
@@Kigxdy86tt you tried , :( maybe next time
@_index_1328 Well, I did it was worth a shot. Peace out ✌🏻
@@Kigxdy86tt The issue here is that you didn't say. "I Want to Fuck you Maria."
Istg the only situation I see this having a chance of working is if you’re talking to a goddamn prostitute thats how bad it is
If a dude comes up and starts talking to you for no professional/ friendship/ pragmatic/ familial reasons, he doesn’t need to say he wants to eff you
Right? His approach sets the tone. 🤣
Women are making it difficult to even have conversations these days. I had to smash a water cooler in the waiting room because she couldn't just have a normal conversation without harboring the assumptions that you just mentioned.
@@Zenigundam what 💀
@@ZenigundamWhat kinda conversation were you having to the point you FOUND it mandatory to smash the water cooler 💀
@@Zenigundammy mans u have the most interesting comment history on this channel ive ever seen
When he turned to the camera to say it I literally screamed NOOOOO ,let's not give a example.
Congrats on 15 mil 🎉💐👏
I am convinced many of these “coaches” are essentially just trying to gate keep relationships in the most stupid yet aggressive way possible. By playing the role of the serpent in the garden of eden and baiting desperate people into brutally and irreversibly fucking up their entire lives.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Snakes are sneaky- this a Skinwalker.
Very odd way of putting it, but very plausible given how "assertive" he was. Kinda makes me think of that one line from Adam Smasher.
I agree. Dating and relationships are in a terrible state, but these grifters exist to make money off a segment of people who can't work from a worse scenario and move up from there.
gotta keep the clients bro, can't be giving actual tips.
These types of people treat women like deers you dont want to startle as you get closer because they dont see them as people with their own thoughts.
"Oh, if you invade their space theyll be put off, so just inch closer and closer so they cant tell exactly when its "too much" for them until you are touching them wherever you want"
Ughhh that's so fucking gross, I hate that that's genuinely how they think
This is a great way to describe it
@-localbard- cry about it 🤓
No, they treat them as video game characters, as if they can do anything they want to them lmao
@@TheDivineShiver or don't be a fucking creep??
The fact that he says that so confidently is mind bogling
Thank you for sharing with the class Charlie.
Brother the sexual offenders rate going up
It's probably going to, if young boys keep getting told this kinda shit is normal
Also cause people like the Prince gets away with it too this day
Not sure if this is a joke, but I honestly wouldn't be surprised if this was true.
Pre Andrew tate: look it’s going down because of increased awareness!
Post Andrew tate:
🫥
@@Epic-so3ekandrew tate?! the fuck does he anything to do with this?
The invading her space line should be reason enough to lock this guy up 😂
He's literally saying the advise is to sexually harass a women to be so afraid she can't escape. That's the cult he's promoting.
One time I was waiting alone at a train station and a man came and sat down beside me and asked if he could sit. I said sure. Then he asked if he could have sex with me. I thought I misheard. He repeated himself.
Uncomfortable does not begin to describe how I felt. It was immediate fear. I’m not even someone that usually feels unsafe when going around alone. I’ve lived downtown in a large city for 20 years. But it really shook me honestly.
This is my long way of confirming - do not talk to women this way.
Damn some random dude too?
Pro tip:
Just don't. Don't do anything. Just improve yourself and wait around. Either someone becomes interested or they don't. Because of pick-up "artists" like that, even approaching like a normal, sane individual is seen as bad and suspicious. So, just don't.
Waiting around is not good advice the pick up artist is shit advice but telling people to wait around and do nothing isn't good either
@@kadeemvaughn9 Approaching puts you at risk of false accusations, being shunned, and/or scorned, regardless of how it is done.
The people who make these accusations face little punishment, too.
There is little benifit in the U.S. when it comes to approaching, hell, even marriage (divorce courts are insanely biased). We're in a different world, friend.
@@just-linx8271 i am aware of all the issues with females and the legal system in the 🇺🇸 but in general woman don't approach you so if you want a girl you gotta risk it or be alone but waiting for a girl to just fall in your lap is unrealistic
the real cheat code is to just genuinely think of women as people. just regular ass people the same way men are. some are attractive, some arent, some you get along and have shared interests with, some you don't. like deadass just approach us like normal ppl worthy of respect and with inherent value regardless of if we sleep with you, cuz you dont suddenly deem men worthless if you don't become best friends so why do women lose all value if we arent romantic partners?
Also having platonic women friends gets you laid. Women know other women. You being able to handle rejection and not be a creep will get u reccomendations lol.
Jokes on you, men are worthless if they aren't my friends.
Insanity! You dream Impossible dreams!!
No. Thinking women like they are the same as men is exactly how we got into this situation. Men and women are different. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging this.
Instructions unclear, I've been treating women like individuals and respect but still get called creepy, gaslighted and been taken advantage of
This is why women would rather be stuck with a bear
what
@@crappyaccountits a debate going around rn!! if women would feel more safe alone in the woods with a man or a bear, majority of women said they feel safer with the bear
@@crappyaccount This is a reference to something
what
To be honest, in the US I would choose the random guy. But. In some countries I would choose the bear. Like, parts of India where they have an insanely high r*pe rate.
i love whenever they bring up the "female mind" like it's some sort of lovecraftian hivemind enigma and i'm just here, one of these so called female entities, not relating to a single thing they say. also it's hard to put into words but i find it most entertaining how they dissect the "female mind" like it's an alien concept and in that case, wtf is the "male mind" then? like they make so many literally normal run-of-the-mill responses and personality traits seem like elusive, female-only concepts and it's just hilarious to me like "ah yes, ofc, guys dont do this, only girls, they're like animals running on instinct or something" like i cant even be mad it's just funny
it is fr insane when men try to analyze women and talk like we all didn't evolve on the same earth from the same ancestors. they're wrong pretty much every time but the absolute conviction with which they believe what they're saying is remarkable. they literally all just talk like that one friend who minored in psychology and thinks they're a therapist or something
the switch to the add was so clean i didn’t even notice
I love how they do all of this when all they gotta do is treat them like an actual human being and not a sentient fleshlight
Oh they AREN'T though! They're not treating women like they're sentient
Then you get friendzoned, what's the point?
@@jmz2144You've gained a friend, what's the problem?
@@jmz2144 GENUINE HUMAN CONNECTION BRO 💀
Woman are human? Erm, what the sigma?
I like how uncomfortable the other guy looks in this, you can almost hear what he is thinking lol
"... My agent said this video would be good exposure even if the pay is shit, but what the actual fuck is this? Maybe if I stay completely still he won't see me and go away."
@@dyerseve3001Damn, you beat me to the "Struggling actor REALLY needed the money" joke
The transition into the ad was really smooth though
Best GS ad transition, hands down. Came out of nowhere and delivered that sacred message. All hail moist Jesus
Meat rider.
That guy to the right is contemplating all the mistakes he's made that led him to this moment lmao.
Yeah, that mistake being following the advice of, "just be yourself."
I tried this.. got slapped in the face, kicked in the balls, maced, and now I'm facing criminal charges.
But it worked, right?
That man? Joe Biden.
But did you smash?
I am 69th like
😂😂@@magnusgreel275
"Greetings! Sex? Maybe?!" 10/10 quote
perchance
3:39
Cursed Technique: Gloved Raking
I will do 0 pushups for every like this gets
*We need a video proof of the 0 push-ups*
Nice
Divide it by 0 and give it to the next one
Ngl some like would be nice
So brave, bestie
The only place you should be straightforward about wanting sex is on a dating app. Most people would prefer to know up front that you're just looking to hook up rather than being led on, used for sex and then abandoned. And you do it in a polite way, like "hey, just so you know, I'm only interested in hooking up atm." But doing it in real life, that's a new level of stupidity.
@JustLift-ep9vrmaybe most guys
@@franjkav Unfortunately you're both right. Most dating app users are men and most of those men just want sex 😔
@@franjkavnah women too
Or a swingers orgy.
Always polite to ask who's up for it or just fancies the visuals/ atmosphere ;)
What’s more infuriating is how women on dating apps will specifically say in their profile if they’re interested in hookups making it stupendously easy for men to find women who are actually interested in hooking up, all men have to do is be just as forthcoming in their own profile and start matching with people who are on tinder for the same purpose. If they don’t have success with the women who participate in hookup culture (as the selection criteria is often based entirely on high standards of physical attractiveness) they can always consider going to other websites to seek out a consensual hook up with a sex worker.
As for IRL scenarios where it would be conceivable to consider a woman might be interested in hookups, there’s always certain night clubs that become known for a higher prevalence of that sort of thing, but even then-and this applies whether in person or online-men should NEVER obfuscate the fact they’re ONLY looking for a hookup, a man intentionally framing his interest as romantic in nature and love bombing a woman when a one night stand is all he’s after is an inexcusable manipulation tactic used to circumvent the fact most women are only interested in having sex under the belief there’s mutual romantic attraction and the subsequent belief this is the start of a relationship that will extend beyond that night.
Men should just be honest about the type of relationship (or lack there of) they’re interested in and be respectful to any women who says they’re not interested.
Also, the internet (especially the manosphere) continues to mislead men to think all women participate in hookup culture, but they shouldn’t be making that assumption about the women they meet, hookups are still predominantly unappealing to the majority of women and sex remains exclusive to their romantic relationships.
3:53 lol, after a stunt like that, they better be praying those gloves don’t fit in the courtroom.
3:59 was a FIRE transition to an ad
I feel like something that isn't talked about is that people (in this case, women) can very easily sense when the other person doesn't perceive them as a differentiated human being. As a woman I have met SO MANY men, generally the majority, who have no issue with relating to women, are able to have normal conversations with me and others, and are able to be mutually respectful. Even when their only interest is sex and even when I'm not receptive to their advances, they still manage to convey that they respect me as a human being. Then, these pick-artist, incel types walk around like women are an esoteric hivemind that need to be treated in a very specific way to produce to desired output, like a sex vending machine.
It's crazy to me how this minority of men cannot even pretend to respect women as sentient beings. What makes dating and 'cold approaches' so difficult for these types of guys isn't due to the female hivemind being cold or unforgiving, it's because the majority of other men have shown that you can be respectful and inviting even in the pursuit of a sexual relationship. Why would anyone ever choose someone aggressive, blunt, and/or impersonal when there are a trillion other people who don't make you feel like an object?
men deal with this same stuff too, being objectified and touched when we dont like it. i couldnt tell you just how many times ive been helping family/friends move furniture or doing some outdoor labor and the women in the household feel fine just putting their hands on your back or patting your neck, or acting like their gonna hit you and playing it off as a joke, or constantly telling you "oh youre so tall, and your shoulders are so broad." theres even times when im out in public at an event, and i can feel women just staring into the back of my head as i walk buy, or walking right in front of me (we're talking inches from my belly) when theres way more space behind me to walk. i can tell you for a fact thats theres plenty of women out there who dont know how to actually talk to men they like and act weird around them (especially when you say something completely normal like "no i dont like concerts theyre too loud" and they laugh like its the funniest shit ever.) and we have to feel like an asshole for telling them "hey i dont like that" or "yeah i get that a lot." those experiences definitely give you an understanding of how women must feel from guys who do the same, but i just wish we were taken more seriously when we express our discomfort
That's a great point, however my life experience has been the opposite, unfortunately. I've met so many creeps ever since I was a little kid, and MOST men were gross and condescending. I'm glad that for you the majority were decent, but to me it still seems like most of them are awful.
I can't help wondering if it's really the minority of men who can not (or at least don't) respect women as sentient beings. I REALLY hope that is the case.
Prove you aren’t a hivemind and give the correct definition of a woman
There is no “correct definition” of what a woman should be. The only criteria is being an adult female, that’s literally it. Women can be whatever and whoever they want to be. The fact that you need “proof” to even consider that they aren’t some indecipherable homogenous singularity and are instead individuals with their own unique thoughts and experiences is as telling as it is worrying.
did someone read a CIA manuscript on interrogation techniques and rebrand it as PUA techniques
At this point I wouldn't be surprised to learn this is some type of elaborate psy-op
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Rofl no joke, was looking for a comment like this, it does look just like that, similar to a certain film that was blamed for an uprising many years ago. Really does look like some type of interrogation technique/counter espionage tactic being used by the modern forces.
the CIA manuscript will get you laid despite the infamy surrounding it.
How dare you tell everyone my pick up line. I've almost got several girls with this technique and collected alot of imaginary noses 😂😂😂
Dang are u the notorious nose thief?
The smooth promotion in the middle of that made me crack up
Alternate title: Creepy guy gives Tom Scott lookalike a pro restraining order speedrun route
This is the equivalent of wearing the “let’s not turn this date rape into a homicide” shirt.
Tf
The what shirt???
A shirt that says that really exists? Lmaoo wtf 😭💀
Fucking what
Maybe, but at least that's comedic in a dark manner. This is just sad in a funny way
As a guy, it would even be weird/suspicious if a random woman approached me like this. I'd think she'd be setting me up or try to rob me in the worst case. The main problem would be that I'd feel like something to be used not as a genuine person.
To be fair, I've had it sort of happen once although I had known her (amically) for a while and it wasnt the first thing she said to me that night.
that ad transition was so smooth
Ever notice how younger women, like in their teens and 20s, often get little crushes on their gay male friends? Why is that? The men are certainly not communicating any sexual "intentions" their way. It's because they will actually *look a woman in the eyes* and the friendship grows out of the fact *they just like each other as humans.*
It's sad how REFRESHING that can feel as a teenage girl or young woman.
for real bro, that is actually just insane. and people are STILL confused over the bear argument
exactly. I find Queer men are just safer. they also listen and empathise with social issues I deal with as a woman and help out (for example calling out misogynistic 'jokes') instead of calling me sensitive etc
I had a little crush on my gay friend in high school 😭
I had a girl saying “I always wanted a gay friend”.
Reminds me of Trevor’s mom from GTA 5 “I always wanted a gay son” 😂
I honestly don’t understand the gay friend thing.
“Dated” a guy for 4 years in elementary school and he ended up coming out as gay in middle school, LOL.
Talking with intentions?? Is he talking about ... flirting?!
When he looked directly into the camera and said that it activated a primal fear inside me
I finally found a tutorial how to get women scared of you
These insane dudes will take the most direct approach ever, come off creepy as hell, and then get hostile or even dangerous when they're rejected! To avoid this, I typically act puzzled and pretend I don't speak English. So far, none of the creeps I've used this tactic on have known Russian, but I'm inclined to learn more languages just in case
it’s sad how women are having to learn more languages to get out of a dangerous situation with men.. jeezus
Feel sad for you...but at least you have a laugh later
Look into getting an equalizer, you can't compromise with a twisted mind bent on pushing further.
I will use that from now on since i know a few languages😭
@@TheDivineShiver no one's gonna let you hit with your predatory, rapist, creepy behaviour, my guy.
Based on the clips Charlie showed, the guy in the black shirt next to the pickup artist is either there under duress and just waiting for his moment to escape, or he's already dead and this is a Weekend at Bernie's situation. There's no way someone with _that_ facial expression is actually paying attention to what's being said, or is even there of their own free will.
(What even _was_ the point of that other guy? He doesn't say anything or react at all. They could've just just filmed the pickup artist talking directly into the camera.)
There's a thing that somehow makes people more believable when they are talking to somebody to the side on a camera, podcasts use and abuse it a lot.
@@Cascade-Rise I suppose anyone smart enough to see through such manipulation is also going to be smart enough to not follow this pickup advice...
He couldn't find a woman to play the part like he wanted so he used a man
Wtf is that claw machine in the back!? I'm dying that thing is amazing! XD
the funniest thing is that the "student" has a face that he is not buying this shit at all lmao
27 f i work nights in a gas station-open carry. A guy strait up interviewed me for 10 min on why I was married, why I wouldn't cheat with him. Clear I was married. He only stopped when another guy came in and saved me
That is nightmarish!
@@LandonStrauss-hc1sc yeah.. I have a list of customers not to be alone with
37 m. I also work in a gas station and I get the rambling tweakers sometimes. Sorry that you get harassed by weirdos. That shit ain't cool
Tho I do have a question. How do you guys with night shifts juggle the rest of your life? I'm genuinely interested cuz I don't know anyone who has a night shift. Especially sleep n relationships.
I feel like at gas stations all bets are off when it comes to interactions. I’m glad you open carry!
Haha. I adore the random dude he asked to stand there silently and listen to this, he couldn't even convince a lady to stand in for the tutorial lmao.
This comment is so funny, because it’s true. I wonder how he talked that guy into helping him for this video. It’s probably his brother’s roommate or something, and they promised him $40 and they said they’d invite him to the next party they throw.
@@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesisnobody would want to go to their parties so I doubt it’s that
I love how the advice is so bad people finds the guy in the black shirt more attractive than the main clown in the video😂