❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men... Part 1
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- čas přidán 1. 07. 2020
- ❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men...
In this video, I want to share multiple reasons why mature Vietnamese women in Vietnam prefer to be with Western men. By mature, I mean women who were born before and within a few years after the Vietnam War since that’s a crucial event in the country’s history.
If you are looking for more information regarding dating/marrying a Vietnamese woman, please check my other videos in my channel.
I have come up with 14 reasons so far and will share them in multiple videos. They are based on my own experiences and from the women that I have talked to. Here are the first 4 reasons why these Vietnamese women prefer being with Western men in general.
Before I go on, I would like to emphasize to you that the most important factors have to come from your sincerity and for who you are. I just want to remind you that a gentleman is still a gentleman no matter where he comes from.
So here they are:
1. More Likely To Be Treated As An Equal
Vietnamese culture has evolved a lot but in many ways, it’s still male dominated. Because of that, many women especially if they’re educated and/or have a career, dislike not being treated as an equal. The woman’s input doesn’t tend to be valued as much, even if the woman is more educated or more successful than the man.
2. Less Drinking And Smoking
Heavy drinking and smoking are far more common with Vietnamese men than Western men because Vietnamese men view both as macho activities. Because Vietnamese women value their health and skin complexion, they much prefer men who don’t smoke since second hand smoke can ruin both. Likewise, they don’t like heavy drinking because of what it leads to.
As a whole, Western men know that it’s OK to decline either activity and expect their friends to respect those choices.
3. More Romantic
Being romantic is more commonly found in Western men. As for the older generation in Vietnam, there was no such day as Valentine's Day. Growing up in Vietnam, I didn't see my parents celebrate any special occasions. My Dad didn't give Mom any flowers or surprised gifts. Then came my generation, majority of the Vietnamese men in Vietnam were still influenced a lot by our parents generation. Lately, Vietnam has started to celebrate Valentine's Day and a few more western holidays in which the females will receive flowers. Then many older Vietnamese men in Vietnam have adapted the act of giving flowers mainly due to the trend's pressure. IN the other hand, throughout the year, Western men tend to do more romantic things such as buying flowers and similar things just because they want to surprise or they feel that their women deserve it. Likewise, they celebrate anniversaries of their weddings and maybe of their date even whereas this is quite rare with Vietnamese men.
4. Compliment More
This is related to the previous point. Western men tend to compliment their women more. This is very important since many women value a compliment more than a physical gift. As a typical woman, and a Vietnamese, I would appreciate this more because it shows that he pays attention and really cares about me.
That's it for this video.
Thanks so much for your time. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to share them in the comment section below. I, Vanessa Ho, would do my best to respond to them.
I am looking forward to seeing you in my next video where I'll share other reasons why mature Vietnamese women prefer to be with Western men.
Do you have any questions you want answered about dating or marrying a Vietnamese woman? Please feel free to ask them in the comments below...❤️
Yes Venessa Do you feel the Western man is more manly and more masculine and more real than the Vietnamese man cause I can see that.
@@TRD315 not necessarily more masculine as much as willing to be more open minded to her needs. The Vietnamese culture is still male dominated, and women want to be treated more as equals.
@@marryavietnamesewoman6384 Really Cause In my Culture its very messed up and us guys have low testosterone and we can't be natural. Do Viet guys like Sex and enjoy sex cause I do cause you said mama's boy and mama's boy are pretty hazardos and I find it annoying and shit I think disrespecting you're parents is Natural cause I don't like to let people tell me what to do and its annoying. And Asian men don't have muscle in general and they look weak and gullible (my Culture.) so the women go for the White guy too in my Culture but going out being stupid is not cool.
@Marry A Vietnamese Woman-
How do you ask a Vietnamese girl out? I live in the US. I only work as a part time Sub-Custodian. Meaning I fill in for other Custodians at the schools here in my hometown Starke Florida. I have an open mind. And well definitely like to learn about different culture.
@Marry A Vietnamese Woman
And well how would I make a long distance relationship work? What would be the propper steps to take to ask a Vietnamese Woman when I live in the State of Florida?
you are such a lovely woman. you make me want to go to Vietnam and find a lady for myself.
Buddy, I would encourage you to explore that. Let me know if you'd like help with that.
@@marryavietnamesewoman6384 I am going to explore that. I am planning a trip to the Philippines and Vietnam as soon as those countries open up. I am looking for a long term relationship there because i am not happy with the American culture as it concerns the man/woman relationship and the disadvantages American men have in Family Courts here in the United States. I am definitely going there and I am definitely looking for a long term relationship. I know that Asia is not like it was 50 years ago and women are more independent everywhere. But all I am looking for is a happy home and I think that my chances are better in Asia then here in the United States. I am retired so I can live anywhere without having to find a job which is another big problem that I won't have. All that's left is for me to find the right one. I don't know how the language barrier, or the culture barrier will be but I am willing to try. I appreciate your CZcams Channel and i listen intently every time you come out with a video. I think that many American men who listen to you are listening for the same reasons. Of course I certainly appreciate any help or advice you can offer. You are in a unique position to be of service to American men like me. Thank you for all you do. You are certainly a glorious example of the Vietnamese woman and why western men desire them so much. Thanks.
I’m dating a 50 year old viet woman. I’m 72 year old Texan.
She is very traditional, a strong character and very respectful.
I’ve learned from her actions we are together that food is an expression of love. She will probably come live with me in a few months. She is getting advice and permission from her many siblings.
I hold a deep affection for her and am very happy
good info
Great video!
Thanks. More to come. :)
Very helpful video
Thanks soo much 🎉
Very informative video. Great presenter. She’s not just beautiful. She’s very insightful. Very educated. Very articulate. speaks Great English. Very informative.
I enjoyed hearing your well described insights towards the Vietnamese mature female. I think that you are very smart and lovely. Thank you.👍
Thank you for this excellent video. I have learned much from you. I have found a beautiful young Vietnamese woman that I have a very sincere interest in. You advice or help me be successful with her! 💐
I came here out of curiosity. I grew up with a friend whose father was American and her mother was from Vietnam (My friend and I were born in the mid to late 60s). I honestly don't think her mother ever went back to see her family in Vietnam. She was a very devoted woman to her husband and her husband would never allow the kids to speak out of line to her at all. He was extremely protective of her.
It was somewhat similar to my family. My mother is from another country and married my American father during WWII. In fact, she said all the girls looked for an American man. She came here very young. She too was very devoted and my father was extremely protective. I know my mother was very, very lonely when she left her 11 siblings and parents to come to the USA. But in contrast, my mother did get to go home to visit her family and the culture she missed and knew so well when my father could afford it.
So, I can't imagine what my friend's mother must of went through if she never saw her family again. My friend's family didn't do much as far as socially with others it seems. And her mother didn't get out much, only to the store and laundromat on certain days. She did beautiful flower gardens around their home. They stayed very much to themselves.
I always wondered how she really felt. She seemed ok. There was no talk of any Vietnamese family at all. Even as a young girl, maybe bc of my own mother, I often wondered what her life was like before she came here and why no one ever spoke of Vietnam. Seems very sad.
Vanessa, When you refer to women born during the Vietnam war do you mean women who were born between 1965 thru 1975?
Very close. I mean between 1970 to 1980.
I will have to visit Vietnam! I went to school full time in Bangkok and have been visiting Thailand for years, but sadly it is so tough to find a woman that is looking for a life mate there.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.You are a very beautiful down to earth women. Thank you😅
your dimples are adorable as you are :)
You didn't mention that the western men tend to have more money, too?
Vietnamese women are very beautiful and feminine. I enjoy learning more and more about them.
Thank you for your channel and your insights.
Continued best wishes from 🇺🇸
Absolutely beautiful 👍💙
Hi,
I don't think that western men smoke less than vietnamese men.
I had been lived in both the sides for almost 2 years.
Alcohol is a big part of mainstream western culture
Well I am Indian & to be honest, an overwhelming 60% of men in my country abstain from alcohol completely for all their lives & on the other hand only 15.2% of men in America & 12.6% of men in Europe are lifetime abstainers.
I agree with this. From the US and I was someone who for the entirety of my youth believed that I would abstain from drinking and smoking for my entire life, but the social pressure eventually got to me when I was 20. A few years of heavy drinking, vaping, and cannabis smoking until I started doing yogic practices and quit. I am forever grateful for the indian culture for having a science/technology to help me rise above this social pressure and to live up to my values again.
Did you find the language barrier different please thanks
Sorry difficult lol
@@garym8589 yes the language barrier can be there and it depends on the woman. Having said that, if both parties are willing to learn from each other, then the relationship can work.
Would you recommend Vietnamcupid?
Jackson, I don't have personal experience with them, but from what I know, it's a dating site, which means you have to spend a lot of time going through a lot of profiles to find somebody you click with.
Our model is a matchmaking model where we interview each woman and man (as well as do a background check) before they're admitted into our community. We then introduce each person one at a time to the other party.
I love Vietnam woman can I get one here 🤗
Mexican American and I’m so in love with a girl from Vietnam
Glad to hear. Can you share more what you like about her?
I’m crazy about those veitnamase goddesses they have a magnetic attraction 🇦🇺
Your English Uhhh-May-Zing.
Keep up the Gr8 Work.
Thx 4 the Post.
I've had an unusual experience with a Vietnamese woman online, she told I had to buy a house in Vietnam and I need to get a job there.
So I told her I'm going to work as an English teacher in Vietnam, and she said I was to old to be a teach teacher ( I'm 59 ), she also told me I'm not aloud to work harder than she does. I am confused because of all I've heard about the Asian women.
Needless to say she just stopped talking to me,
Not sure now if it is a waste of my time or not to move out of the US and find me an Asian woman.
Bro. Don’t do it bro. Cmon bro. Like bro. Wtf bro. Bro.
This is so weird. True VN woman is not that so demanding and somewhat crazy. Good women are relatively same everywhere I think
dont be desparate....
Hey, as someone who is riight behind you in age, I hear your 100%. It sounds like she was a gold digger and you're a 1,000% better off with out her. I would strongly advise you learn some Vietnamese and take a trip with the intentions of just taking women for coffee. Get comfortable with low pressure dates and have fun!!
“ A gentleman is always a gentleman “ … what’s the feminine for gentleman? Gentlewoman is always a gentlewoman ,,, sounds good, right?
Mahalo
Can you make a video on why old white men prefer Vietnamese women?
@Mike P LMAO TRUE 😂
Vietnamese women likes western Men is because they can have a one way ticket out of Vietnam 😂
Do Vietnamese women like Indian men
No woman like indian man
Western women are not too submissive, clingy, or as racist as Asian women. They are strong and respect their man even more than asian women. Not to mention western women are much more beautiful, just preference and my experience though.
Your viewpoint is appreciated but I strongly disagree on nearly every point.
@@jamesconnors8095 same, its the exact opposite lol
Yeah, here in the west, being nice is regarded as being weak and needy. And I'm not saying "being weak and needy is regarded as such". Complementing women is immediately seen as aggressive and trying to make a move.
There's a cliché that asian women (in this case vietnamese) are submissive which, from what I've seen on this channel, seems to be untrue. Being polite and reserved is not being submissive, believe me, if you fuck up at home you're likely to get a hurricane of either words or punches. But in public, men AND women have the "save face" attitude in Asia.
So thinking a woman is submissive cause she didn't cuck and shame her boyfriend in public (and the opposite shouldn't be a thing either) kinda gives bad juju vibes....
Many believe being "a strong woman" means trying to undermine and nag men at every opportunity, which is a shame.
Have a good one!
The robo voice is annoying and impersonal. It would be much better if she did it herself. Ala The Philipina Pea.
Vietnamese-Americans are DIFFERENT.... Since 1975, mass immigration gives rise to men that are close to 50 years old now. Look for Vietnamese-American men!!!!
because they "love them long time"