❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men... Part 2
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2020
- ❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men... Part 2
In this video, I want to share another 5 reasons why mature Vietnamese women in Vietnam prefer to be Western men. By mature, I mean women who were born before and within a few years after the Vietnam War since that’s a crucial event in the country’s history.
If you are looking for more information regarding dating/marrying a Vietnamese woman, please check my other videos in my channel.
I have come up with 15 reasons so far and will share them in multiple videos. They are based on my own experiences and from the women that I have talked to. Here are the next 5 reasons why these Vietnamese women prefer being with Western men in general.
Before I go on, I would like to emphasize to you that the most important factors have to come from your sincerity and for who you are. I just want to remind you that a gentleman is still a gentleman no matter where he comes from.
5. Willing To Be Included In Social And Physical Activities
In Vietnam, many activities are often separated based on gender. Thus, it’s quite common that a woman spends most of her time with her friends and the man spends time with his friends. For example, it’s rare for a couple to work out together, go hiking, biking or similar activity together as a couple.
6. More Open With Their Goals
Western men are more likely to share their goals and dreams since they tend to treat the women in their lives as equals and therefore value their input. This of course communicates to the women that they are important, which means they are more likely to support the men’s goals and dreams.
7. Believe People Can Change
Self development and the awareness that it’s possible to grow internally is predominantly in a Western concept and almost non-existent in Vietnam. In Vietnam, it’s common to say, “He was born that way.” or “That’s the way she is.” Thus, it’s common to label people as who they are vs. seeing who they can be. This can lead to stagnation vs. healthy growth.
8. Willing To Seek Professional Help
Vietnamese men tend to bottle up their feelings and not express themselves. Thus, if the relationship is not working, it’s unlikely they will explain why, and it’s even less likely they will be open to professional help. This is partly because couples therapy is so new in Vietnam.
9. Less Judgmental
Vietnamese men tend to be more judgmental than their Western counterparts. If a woman is divorced or has kids, she can sometimes be viewed as damaged goods. A Western man tends to be less judgmental about some of the choices a woman has made or of her circumstances. Similarly, if she wishes to advance herself by going back to school or focus on her career, it’s more likely these choices will be supported by a Western man.
That's it for this video. Once again, I would like to remind you that if you are looking to settle down with a nice, decent mature woman in general, and Vietnamese woman in particular, you, yourself must be that person first.
Thanks so much for your time. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to share them in the comment section below. I, Vanessa Ho, would do my best to respond to them.
I am looking forward to seeing you in my next video where I'll share other reasons why mature Vietnamese women prefer to be with Western men.
Do you have any questions you want answered about dating or marrying a Vietnamese woman? Please feel free to ask them in the comments below...❤️
Love to meet a Vietnamese Woman.
@@starone1296 Please email me at findavietnamesewife@gmail.com and we can discuss further.
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Does this also work with this generation of Vietnamese girls ?
It seems like Vietnam is where I have always belonged. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing your ideas on this topic Vanessa. I appreciate the content.....keep up the great work!
Much appreciated. Thanks for sharing your feedback!
Very insightful. Thank you for sharing!
Vanessa, I just love your presentations. They are always very informative and you present the material so very clearly!
Awwww, that red polcadot dress looks sooo cute on u! Im a sucker for red ❤ thanks for the vid, i personally love Vietnam and i'm learning the language in order to come live there
Hi, chị thích em vì cách diễn đạt nghiêm túc, phát âm tốt. Chị là Phương Dung
Em cảm ơn Chị PD chia sẻ cảm nhận. Nhờ chị góp ý thêm để kênh video của em có thêm những chia sẻ hữu ích và tốt hơn chị nhé.💞
You have the best thumbnails very nice.
Glad you like them!
The old saying that was drilled in my head is "you dance with the one who brought you or you brought". In other words we sre a team. If she or myself is not that great doing certain things, the partner is there to help improve each other. When we go out together we are a package deal not to be seperated. If friends want to seperate us to boy girl, its time for new friends. Just me and the way i was raised.
Very good series. Your English is quite good, you are to be complimented on it. My Thai girl has excellent English and every day I'm thankful for it, it really does enable our relationship.
Also, I believe the "damaged goods" view is prevalent in much of Asia; I know its the case in China and Thailand. That the men of these countries have this attitude is entirely their loss.
Thanks for your feedback. Yes, unfortunately, the "damaged goods" is too prevalent in Asia and is a double standard for sure.
What is the best Vietnamese City for a westerner to find a Vietnamese woman for love.
Buddy, you're most likely to meet women by visiting the major cities. Additionally, they're more likely to speak English. The 3 biggest cities by population [in descending order] are Ho Chi Minh City [also known as Saigon and in the South], Hanoi [in the North] and Hai Phong [also in the North].
We're also launching a service where we'll introduce Western men to women in Vietnam as well. Let me know if you're interested in knowing more.
@@marryavietnamesewoman6384 Thank you. You're adorable.
Vietnamese culture fascinate me. Truth be told, I would love to marry a woman from there.
You make some very good points about the relationships, and why most Vietnamese women do not like Viet men...
Thanks for sharing your feedback.
you say that is not true then everyone has different standards or something some people don't like but most Vietnamese women don't like Vietnamese men
I as a Middle Eastern men wouldnt even shit on westerns and vietnamese.
I live in HCMC i like the Vietnamse girls in general but i felt the girls were somewhat a little to compicated for me to undersand becasue the cultural and language differences. But can you tell me is the Ethnic Minority woman a better chioce becasue they are more simple and less complicated?? I only marry for one reason that being i like the girl i mean love is the only reason . I understand the Ethnic Vietnamese girl has really very little education
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This is how Pakistani women feel about Pakistani men. Don't blame you Venessa Ho I see the picture.
Im very interested. How can I meet this kind of lady? I dont like American women
Glad to hear. We have an agency that connects you with women in Vietnam. Please email us at findavietnamesewife@gmail.com, and we can discuss further.
I dream I can have so I have someone to leave everything to. Thats the best way
I would say that with a woman who is divorced part i do not believe that is always the case. Personally i would never date a woman who divorce another man but another man may it depends. I look at it like credit... men risk the most so why would i take a chance on a woman with a bad relationship score. If she did it before she will likely do it again and its not an attractive trait to me
This is completely delusional!!
Girl! No matter what man in any culture is the same!!! Never think that Asian man is so different than a western man!! This is only your perception. This view is not shared across the board.
I wouldn't marry one again...the one I married is a joke.
Salty much? Lol
How do you think a black man would be received by women in Vietnam? Do you think they would be interested?
Yes, you would be well received.
@@marryavietnamesewoman6384 Honestly? Because I find Vietnamese women really attractive but I only hear about them and Western WHITE men.
It cause u viet girl stress the man so much they need there space with the guys
They always blame the men, but will never sit down with the men and talk it out. She is lying
Hello are you married you’re very beautiful
Western as is any race but live a western lifestyle? Or you mean white?
That's depressing.
Can you clarify in more details? Thanks.
Have plenty of MONEY!!!.
B.S.
You couldn't get better
You can't even speak English right and you slave to the white men