Why Do Women Lie About Being Manipulated By Men?
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Wow! You’re a Star 🎉❤ I just ran across your video/content right now but immediately could sense your journey as a “Way Shower,” for the collective.. you’ve earned your seat Beautiful Soul.. I commend and honor you for doing what most can’t or won’t do and that is step into their power and use it for the good and betterment for everyone & their decedents to come ❤ Breaking generational traumas is no easy task🎉🎉 F him.. 😉🥳😎 (sorry the ramble sesh-lol)
I agree with you my sister this dudes be weak
❤ 🙏
Didn’t you get pregnant by a married man
Knowingly
I watched this short. That's not necessarily true. Bad men do exist, but toxic women do too. I know some personally that have claimed that I'm manipulating them when I've never been like that at all.
The problem with many women is they personalise feedback like this, so they assume you must be talking about them.
It's either the hit dog hollering (because they know they do what you're describing) or they just stupidly include themselves and then argue that they don't this (which is a strange way of pretending the behaviour doesn't exist).
And women project A LOT, so they're often guilty of exactly what they complain about, and when shown this in the right way by the right person they'll even laugh at their nonsense.
That man seems to hate all women and if they dare to speak on anything affecting them its they own fault 🙄😒 he ain't worth acknowledging at all
Nobody wants him, is all.
According to him only men have life hard and no good dating options. Women ain't sh$t none of us
@MB I really believe that you guys do not know what it means to hold someone accountable. So, here's the definition: to make someone responsible for what they do and demand a satisfactory reason for it.
To you, woman haters, there is no satisfactory reason for a woman's behavior because you will always find a way to villainize the woman to make men look good.
Based on the definition, what responsibilities does a woman who has no relationship with you have to provide you with a reasonable response for their actions? Knowing that we are all subject to and biased by our own opinions, should a woman subject herself to the reasoning of a strange male? You can not hold someone accountable who you do not know, nor is your subjective opinion valid. That would be like me saying I'm holding men accountable. Like how? By commenting on CZcams?
Also, I'm sorry that you guys think that we are really lamenting you guys going abroad. Goodbye, sayonara, arrivederci.
@MB with all the comments you have responded to I can definitely see that your projecting that you can't take accountability about only picking modern women. I'm a traditional house wife with only traditional female friends. Well most men pick the modern women over the traditional and most men are to weak and modern themselves to actually deserve to be with a real traditional women. Stop projecting, work on your anger and healing yourself from your bad past choices and actually go the extra mile to find a real traditional women instead of wallowing in your self pity projecting your anger in the CZcams comment section. Traditional women need a man with a healthy strong mental state so she can feel safe to fully submit to her man and to trust in that man leading her.. Not a man full of anger towards women. Also stop fishing for traditional women in the modern sea because I swear there are a lot of traditional women in the western world, I've seen them, I'm friends with them, most guys are just looking in all the wrong places for them. I'm just tired of seeing women being blamed when my traditional lady friends, who would worship their men and fully submit are lonely because men keep picking the modern women.
@MB Stfu. Whenever you males are held accountable, you guys would always deflect on the woman instead of acknowledging your wrong doings!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
F that guy. Sister, you don’t have to justify your amazingness and your truth just because your truth got under someone’s skin. He obviously feel some level of guilt for him to react this way. You are a queen!
Exactly! I was not impressed with him at all. In fact, he came across as a angry, black man!
Lol! I second that! EFF that scalywag! He's ignorant AFFFFFFF!!
Ur both delusional and completely wrong! I watched both these channels and it is obvious Women can't handle the truth about themselves and avoid any sliver of accountability!
@@mrmoses393 accountability for being hurt by damaged men?
Y’all women are definitely hilarious lol Queen …. With a baby for a man tht doesn’t want to be with her lol
Girl look at him… now let’s laugh together😂
😅😂
sad!! and he is very much right!!! she full of shit!!
😂🤣😂!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You won this comment section I'm crime 😂😂😂❤
The dark hate the light.
@MB who cares what you see. Go blind 🦮.
@MB The western woman? Lol. That is millions of people, if you just count Europe and The US. What on earth are you on about?
@MB That would include your mother too
@MB yikes… this is what happens when people get stuck in their little echo chambers of andrew tate and direct all their issues towards women 😂
A con man will blame you for their evilness. It was a man who said this to me.
Proud of you Sis 👍🏿👍🏿 You are definitely appreciated. Might not agree with all you say but I respect that you aren't afraid to speak your mind unapologetically. ✊🏿✊🏿
When you create content people only have your videos to base things from. Sure you know this so that is irrelevant.
I'm thankful for you today
People see your glory but they don't know your story
Is it true she faked her own death?
@@eachoneteachone30 idk but she definitely doesn't love herself seriously with this horrible filter 💯
She tells it 20 times a day
More than anything, they want to be able to keep doing what they do and being what they apparently like being. The only way to do that is to try gaslighting. The fact that you are clearheaded and strong enough to see it only makes them crazier. Old story, old as time. :)
I do believe that we all need healing. I as a black man am just tired of hearing the same ole narratives. I agree that there are some weak and even evil men who treat our women very wrong. Some of you women have been abused and manipulated by these men. I apologize on behalf of all us men for that. But because they've treated you so badly now many of yall speak from your experiences with them. Howbeit, your experience isn't all that exists. It just may be all that you've known, thus far.
Likewise, there are men who are the same. I personally have never experienced a healthy relationship with a woman. I've been used, verbally abused, manipulated, discarded, and then slandered, etc, etc. But I am still willing to start again and go in with an open and pure heart. I refuse to make the next LADY suffer for what the last GIRL did.
Now with that being said, I think the reason some other men feel like it's all cap when y'all say how men are (based on your experiences) is because of their own experiences. Many men have been good to the women (that the previous man has destroyed) but the good one gets blamed for her issues. So even in us loving, giving sacrificially, even raising someone else's kids (like I did): If that woman is damaged, she is still seeing the man through a broken lense. She is expecting you to cheat, manipulate, etc just as her ex did... And in cases like this that woman becomes delusional. She will project stuff all day every day onto you thats really what the ex did that you arent doing. So when the man gets fed up and leaves, she will say, "he did xyz to me" rather than admit that she came in to the relationship unhealed from past trauma, carrying tons of inner insecurities. Therefore many men assume all women crying victim fit this description. Truth is some women really are being done wrong. But others are doing themselves wrong while blaming a good man and still holding on to what her ex did. And we all have different experiences and all need to just love harder, listen more and let others heal. Women are hurt and men are hurt....
I just pray we all heal and learn to stop hurting us!
Dude half these female's throw stones and hide there hands and you up capeing for these fairy tales she's telling your apart of the problem and why so many men are weak nowadays you should be embarrassed 😒🙄
I really enjoyed reading this! It was coming from a place of vulnerability and authenticity. Like I actually FELT IT.
I dated two men who clearly needed therapy. Once they both rejected the idea of going to therapy, I stopped dating them. You continued to build a whole relationship and played step daddy to an unhealed woman, why 🤔
I hate that you get projected on. I'm sure most men are amazing. And don't be so quick to think that you won't in some ways make a woman pay for the past. Until both people are healed then both will cause at least small issues. If you are choosing healed women and you are healed and are single you might want to reflect upon yourself.Boundaries are important to learn and enforce.
you said that very well
Dude is definitely a 🤡 he doesn’t get girls not matter how much money he got but we can always learn even from a fool 😅
Right !
Girl…they are soooo angry and the more they listen to and repeat those lies to themselves the angrier they become. I foresee something big popping off behind this and hope you ladies are taking this time to learn to protect yourselves.
I wish You were wrong, but I agree.
@MB right right 🤣🤣
You are so together he can’t imagine that it could possibly be true
Keep teaching
And this of us who adore you will keep tuning in
I’m so sick of this toxic internet beef between men and women. Instead of making each other better it’s the battle of the sexes every day. 😢😢😢
He is definitely NOT the man who'd say that. He'd rather bash from a one-sided & uninformed opinion.
Matter of fact he's prob the exact type of man he's saying doesn't exist🤦🤦😭😭 a whole gaslighting manipulating Tyrone.
Girl...uh nobody with eyes can deny that you are lit from within. Did you struggle to claim that light? Uh.. yup. But girl...nobody cannot see you are as bright as possible because you are authentically clear AF.❤
Wow 😮 what a beautiful compliment 😊😻 to her 🌼
Continue to walk in blessings !
Keep being you and I think you are always straight forward wit positive energy..everyone has a story and no one can judge someone else...but when you speak the truth it hurts the ones that it applies to😉💯
Don’t lower your standards ever for a slithering snake 🐍. Seems like that’s all that’s left 😂
✅
@@vanessalandry9825 just about 🧐
…“The person you see now, is me fixing some shii”
That line is HEAVY, but so relatable‼️
I can't staaaaaand that man😂😂😂
All he does is belittle women.
@@sholondaflynn6483 ...exactly! He's trying to keep that Kevin S. Bullshit going. If everyone keep listening to all this shit. EVERYONE will be single!
Just entirely avoiding the fact that some women lie. But she NAILED the part about "weak a$$ men." 😂 Ok.
This dude. Every time I see his face on social media I swipe next because I can’t even. I listened to exactly one of his videos because I like to give people the benefit of the doubt but his energy is all sorts of toxic macho and I just can’t.
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH U TOOK THE WORDS OUT OF MY MOUTH
that is 1000% right about this lier!!!!
I hate it because men say well that’s the man you chose…I’m like no man wants to admit that that’s the man he became to destroy you
Because that's false.ITS THE GOD DAMN MAN YOU CHOOSE.
Isn’t that the goal. Invalidate both side’s feelings and thoughts so the bm and bw can stay at odds with each other over nonsense. Unity of the black family and community scares the power structure cause we can achieve a lot together in a short time.
I don’t think he was coming at women who actually been through things ,I think he’s only talking about women who actually lie about being manipulated cuz there are
Women love critizing men but cannot handle the same criticism when it is directed back to them. Miss me with this hypocritical double standard,,, Make it Make Sense,,,,,
I'm proud of you too.
@MB I don't and I'm STILL proud. Hater.
GIRL!! I dunno why you even gave anything he had to say about women any credence at all… he is usually so off base it’s funny. Chile ignore that shit and keep minding yo business boo 😂
He look's insecure, There's nothing to Lie about...🙄
He's saying that because he's doing it himself. He's manipulating us with that question.
I remember when mr. Let go used to uplift women.... his true colors showed real quick. He hates women. 🤷🏾♀️ he even said his mom is one of the women he talks about. He wanted to save his mom. But that made him resent women. To me, i have empathy for him, but i just don't have sympathy for him. He needs to go to God and transmute his pain into healing. Please don't take anything personally especially from an unhealed person. His pain is just showing. The truth, will always be the truth. Some people just can't handle the truth. So it has to be someone else's fault 💁🏾♀️
That should show you what type of person he is. SMH
Sis, that is bcuz HE IS THAT MAN. He ain't no good dude.
HURT PEOPLE HURT OTHERS!
I'm tired of black women and black men attacking each other. If you'll don't want each other, it's time to go your separate ways. All this other stuff is so unnecessary. Go be with whomever you want and do it without verbally abusing each other.
Are you black?
can't we all just get along? I don't think the world needs more anger and fighting and name calling.....let's stop the petty judgements and just try to make the world better
The only way to get along is to address the source of the contentiousness in which she is doing. She is addressing “Mr. LetGo”. His rigid pov about single moms (unmarried women with children) is driving men and women apart even though he and most of his followers believe that’s how to go about bringing us together in marriage. It’s very counterproductive.
I think he is morally correct about men and women needing to be married before bringing a child into the world but his delivery SUCKS. He tried to get his point across by demeaning us so we strike back in return and that’s why I feel he’s only making matters worse. And then we wonder why homosexuality is escalating… men and women not getting along or coming together effectively🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Shame insult guilt an the need to be right
I'm sorry my sista, I do not know you, but I hear victim mentality and see a lot of man related insecurities including a constant need to prove something to people about who you are.
We all have insecurities. When you get to know yours, you can start to work on them.
My life been screwed up since birth. I think she is acknowledging her issues when she says this and that she is ‘fixing’. Why does speaking about your experience get conflated with having a victim mentality?
@@gee_emm Beacaue out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
We can't always be talking about our past.
@@visitnamanga Didn’t you say you don’t know her? How would you know what she speaks? She may be experiencing her abundance right now!
See that guy just made a perfect example of how some Men are emotionally immature, emotionally unavailable, dismissive and invalidate everything you and most of the Women who share their experiences. Your truth is your truth! And even if some Women have not experienced the same to the nitty gritty, that is perfectly fine because every single Woman is unique but may share common ground. For the Men who acknowledge your own story, how you feel and how you have been affected by hurtful Men, big ups to them for that. That guy and a few others in these internet streets will continue to be ignorant and never work on solutions to the problems they help create.
Some woman have been done dirty and have done dirt. Some men have been done dirty and did dirt. People talk about marriage as experts and have never been married.
One, he’s an idiot. Two. Men want to throw out that women lie about how they’ve been treated by men. That happens for sure, and it shouldn’t and those women should be held accountable. What they forget (conveniently) is that there is sooooo much DV and SA that NEVER gets reported that the statistics still hold up and then some.
Keep doing what you are doing. Class beats crass every time.
We could say the same thing about them🤷🏿♀️
They have stats on this most DV is initiated by women and men mostly don't report DV. Also women are more likely to get away with SA than men. How many female teachers are in the news SAing a chile
Most BUT NOT ALL modern women want the power of men, the privileges of women, and the accountability of children this video is a perfect example of that. P.S. Mr. Dusty
I always think of the Koopa Troopers from the original Super Mario Bros. movie when I see him. 😂
It is not manipulation, it’s trauma 😢
it's because they hate taking personal accountability
The guy you are referring to is Mr. Letgo. I have seen some of his videos on CZcams and TikTok.
I found tell you been threw it, your experience is life changing and I like your broadcast. I don't always agree but you are touching many. The munches things is nice , proud of you, I pray that you continue to heal and grow.
It’s definitely men out here like that and women do meet those type of men. Just because your not that type of man don’t mean that type of man doesn’t exist 🤷🏽♂️ That makes me thing he is that type of man. Smh. Lame
Indeed Truth ✋️
I don’t like that man. He seems heartless and mean spirited 😡😡
My childhood wasn't bad but when my mom and I moved out my grandparents when I was in 4th grade things started to change. My dad was never in my life and we won't get into that. My mom worked full time so I was alone a lot and I had undiagnosed mental illness since a young age. I'm bi-polar and always had mood swings and bouts of depression more than what is normal for kids. Anyway I made a lot of bad choices and been through hell. Here I am 48yrs old, 7 years clean so I lived 90 lives. I made mistakes and learned from it eventually 😂
I agree with you girl,,, 💯🙏🙏
I was hoping these man vs woman discussions and pods would have fallen off by now but nope, they still going hard lol
Everyone is different based on their experiences and their environment! I'd rather give advise to one person vs. A whole group of people.
Manipulation occurs from both men and women everyday.......so talking about just one side of the coin isn't worth it
He lie so bad, God took his lips. Ain't nobody studying him! 😂 girl, continue on your journey!
Look sis. They will always try to dim the light of the MorningStar. Glad to share the same name and it makes us special
She is 💯%right. My ex husband did some really fucked up things to me and literally put my threw hell. He was the worst provider, husband and father in the world. I thought that if I continue to be a loving, respectful, nursing wife and do all my wifely duties that he would change. But nothing I did was never good enough. He treated my like as a wife , that that’s how I had to behave. Regardless of how he treated my and what he put me threw. So I make to figure out , that in his mind . That I had to be all wifey and submissive towards him. But he didn’t own my and our kids anything. And he can fuck up as much as he wanted. And that’s when I told myself, not to stand oft his shit anymore. He didn’t appreciated anything I did anyway. So I left him and it was the best decision I made in my life. And when I would conversate with other men about my experience with him . Some would look it me like my lying or exaggerating. And some would get kind of defensive, like my talking about all men in general. And that wasn’t the case. I know that what happened in my marriage was my experience. But that doesn’t mean that all men are the same. They are good men out there . That are excellent husbands and fathers and they appreciate their wife’s. But for a single women these days. It is very hard to find one bc good men are responsible and smart. When they marry a woman he commits and settles down. So most of the good men are already taken. But I’ll tell you now that I will never bend down backwards for no man ever again.
When does women ever hold themselves accountable?
Never
what about men? 🤡
men refusing to see the problem …. you lot just don’t give a fuck about us i swear 😂 self centred selfish boys. only worry about your ego and self image and your own experience, never anyone else’s and then use it to fuel your hate for women
I talk about people I don't know , common sense I know people ‼️👀 Most people are Liars ‼️ They talk about who they want to be or aspire to be and when it doesn't work that's who they are ‼️ APIDTA ‼️🛐 Ramadan Mubarak ‼️🛐
Girl he don’t care so neither should you. He’s just happy to have a platform to talk on regardless of whether what he has to say is meaningful. Keep shedding light in the darkness, you’re doing great! ☺️❤️Be blessed!
Mr let go is an uncle ruckus
The problem is that when you see the "bad" in that man or woman. You chose to stay in that relationship. You chose to stay with that "weak" man or woman.
Unfortunately, "bad" men and women tend to be amazing actors who mask their true nature for a very long time. So when their true nature is finally revealed, a lot of damage has already occurred. Reality is a lot of people out here on 😈 time. Only The Most High can reveal their deception.
Exactly. This is word for word what he called her out for...
Please. And then y’all turn around and still blame women for leaving a toxic relationship or better yet refusing to get involved with someone after seeing red flags, because then our standards are too high and we’re delusional. Y’all can’t have it both ways now. This whole “you chose wrong” bs is played out. A woman with pure intentions most of the time will give (too many) chances before realizing it’s not worth her sanity. Same goes for men. It’s called life, you learn better and move on. Sure there are those who have wrong intentions from the start. But that’s not everyone. Stop with the gaslighting. It’s getting really old.
Keep that Inner Light Bright Queen!
This man definitely hates women. I'm sure he's been rejected, and walked out on whatever relationships that he had.
Sad, he needs to get a life
Basically that is what entire manosphere and redpill movement do- gaslight women's experiences every day of the week.
Ace is one of the men u speak on daily
Always framing it from a victim standpoint to poison the well. He’s right
Coming from someone who is broken and needs to fix himself bf he spews his projections on you and others
Facts! I've been manipulated and dumped
@MBMany so-called average men lie, cheat, manipulate and dump women. It's all about ego, pride, power and control. But, you know that already. Stop gaslighting, blame shifting and victim shaming.
@theosaka69 no the men you choose. I notice that narcissist women tend to attract narcissist men. Ain't shit women attract ain't shit men. Been like this since the dawn of time
the dude is 1000% right!!!
That's a lie! We literally tell you to stay away from those dudes yet you keep going back!
Have you maybe thought about men have been lied on so from the male perspective that's something we thnk about?
Misogyny on social media is the new way to grift. It beats going door-to-door, trying to sell MLMs.
My thing is I need to hear how these dudes trick y’all in detail
You ALWAYS get the "representative" in the beginning
Cynthia G destroyed that boy on Taz's channel. He sounded like a bumbling bafoon. He was NO match for her. 😂😂
Most Ppl wont care about your past traumas. Theyre YOUR traumas so deal with them.
now you would cry foul if women says that to men and then complain about your high suicide rate 😂
@@raf3765 i wouldnt. Just like we shouldnt automátically believe women who cry rape.
What was she wearing?
Why did she put herself in that situation?
This lady seems rather wise. Bravo indeed lady.
Thank you foe being honest!!!!!!❤ we know who is real
I don't gravitate towards his talking points at all and he's rather annoying
I don't have any children. However, I advised my friends that had boys to stop babying them. The world and women were going to eat them alive.
He obviously has been rejected by women his whole life. That's why he's so angry towards women. He has never been chosen first. He was never lead in the game. He has always been the bench warmer. Just look at him and tell me I'm wrong😂
I'm proud of you too!
Women lie too yall try being a black man for a year and get back with me.
most black men are dogs that would fuck anyone with a hole. you can deny all you want but deep inside you know it’s true. 😂
No the manosphere is saying own the damn choices you’ve made instead of spreading the all men are trash narrative. Maybe he was outta bounds lemme go watch…
It's always Jermaine's fault...
The dudes try to keep the lie alive and will gaslight to make it seem like the other men are so innocent
Haters gonna hate. You’re awesome. Keep shining brightly ❤
I can't staaaaand him! He needs to heal his inner child and come out the fucking closet! He blames women for eeeeverything!
This channel does the EXACT same thing,, Call out BS ,,, Women can call out men all day but the minute a man calls out Women he gets shamed or called gay,,,
They say that bc they are INDEED the type of man that would do whatever it is you were accusing the another men of. A hit dog will always holla
I agree with you on this. This type of media is often one sided. I try to regulate my comments accordingly.
🤔 🤷🏽♂️
So weak that they let their child who is being controlled by their ex, tell them what to do. My experience😉
Factz!!!
Smh. You literally do the same thing. Everyone needs to just push away from the computers and come back when we have mastered offense and mastered ourselves
I’m proud of you too, sis. You look beautiful! Inside and out people that refuse to work on themselves have all the comments about people that are working on themselves. I watch your Contant and I think you’re wonderful! Keep going.❤
Why is this lady obsessed about men or relationships anyway? Focus on God
😮He was manipulating women with his title!😂
The more i see and listen to the content coming from both men and women in this community, the more i realize that black people like me that came from loving, caring and supportive 2 parent homes, that don't have trauma to heal from and generational curses to break, will probably have to leave the country to find other black people to build a relationship with because the culture is different or unfortunately look for mates outside our race. It's just not worth it for us to deal with y'all anymore.
God bless you, proud of you.
“Weak-ass men.” Exactly! And he presents himself to be a particularly malicious, malignant and malevolent specimen, who is characteristically misinformed. I think the most appropriate descriptor these days is, Beta.