Reacting To Andrew Tate | What Red Pill Gets Wrong, Gold Diggers & Should Men Have Female Friends?
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
- One of my most requested reactions of all time... and I can see why. In this video, I react to Andrew Tate.
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How To Handle Gold Diggers: • Shorts
It's Pointless To Have Female Friends: • Shorts
8 Girls vs Tate Debate: • Video - Jak na to + styl
being just friends with a girl who you are attracted to or have feelings for is really self torture. its really a horrible feeling
Some women don't get it. For them "it's fine" to be friends.
@@EduardoSantos-pv8yo they get it very well :) women arent dumb, they know exactly what they are doing with the "friendzone"
@@EduardoSantos-pv8yo because women get what they want out of it. They get attention while not giving anything up. SO yeah they will think it's fine.
Who does that? It doesn’t even make sense
@@agz873 a lot of dudes do it hoping she might change her mind.
This woman is one of the few people on the internet who seem to actually live in reality 😂
Yes, we are constantly being bombarded by illusions in today's society.
Yeah she's not like all the other one's!🤣
Survival of the fittest.
Shout out to ma G Darwin
These delusional women will grow old and end up alone.
Newer generation will hopefully fix this delusional mindset.
I’m glad I wasnt the only one who noticed that she seems a lot more settled down.
I like Courtney. I turn to Courtney for balanced views. I will never forget how she put friendzoning into perspective--without misogyny or extremism.
9:14
A few years ago I made myself a rule that if I'm attracted to someone and would want to date them, I will either take it forward or cut the ties, I decided to not tolerate friendzones
It's the best decision I could've made in that regard
That's the game, and played well
Facts! Same here
Smart move - no fuck no company
I give this advice to every dude. I say, the friend zone only exists if you allow it to exist. If they friend zone you then its time to go. If you REALLY made an impression they will miss you and come back. its very simple actually
@@artillary3725 Finally someone who thinks the same way I do - we are a rare breed. These men stuff things up for all - if they all adopted no friend zone and no attention, women would open their legs. Remember - male attention is a drug for women and depriving them is like taking away a drug supply from a drug addict
Never settle for friendzone
Never give any validation
Never show any emotion for someone who doesn't give a shit about you.
Self Value
Self Hustle
Self Respect
You are Number One...
you wont get friendzoned if you are a man... she will want to fuck you .... be a man that women want to fuck
Give validation just make sure you keep your validation rare and valuable
@Gilgamesh4238 simp
TOP G
No lie detected^^
Andrew Tate is everywhere right now, and that's his plan; The more publicity he gets, the better for him. Doesn't matter whether it's negative or positive publicity.
Negative is even better cause that spreads a lot faster
48 laws of Power Law 6: Court Attention At All Cost
What are you doing
@Alexander Graves yeah i heard Tate say he likes Trumps book the Art of the Deal and he uses the technique of when to walk away from women/or negotiations
I have a theory and please bare with me.
Leftists starting gaining ground fast after the Cold war ended cause the west was unchallenged. So they wanted a society that had docile male for the population to pose no challenge and a fragmented social structure that can’t function without government heavy regulations and control.
That was when western real gdp combined was 67% of the world economy.
Now it’s 42% and there are only 20 non western allied countries today having 42% and they have 5 nuclear powers between them.
In the next 5 years these 20 countries would have 45% and the west would have 38%
Current tensions between these non western countries would probably lead to more hardship on every front in the west and across the world. Hard times need strong men. The west can’t face that with over 90% of it’s population ranging from women to children to old people to lgbtq…
So i think the algorithms are intentionally pushing tate and in the short term you would see tens of men like him gaining popularity to change the narrative and culture.
Maybe i am 100% wrong but what if am right though ?
What women say is one thing and what they do is another.
Exactly like men. They say they love you, then they just want to f*ck.
You get what you give.
Actions always speak louder than words.
Women tell, and teach, you to be a simp. They are attracted to the men that do not adhere to them.
@@sanaon7453 Correct, hard truth as always.
Yeah that's true
I was friends with a girl who almost married a man that beat her, cheated on her numerous times, and never kept a job. We got along miles better than her and her ex but she still rejected me. I'm just gonna have to accept the fact that some people put WAY to much into physical attraction. Like sure that's part of it, but if that's all you have, you don't have much.
This has happened to most guys, myself included. You could be simping but often the damage was done long before you came along.
Consider it a blessing not to have to clean up the mess.
Another thing I have noticed is that women don't like when an ex moves on. I think the attitude of most guys is good luck to the new guy and I hope they are happy.
@@timothybogle1461 no simping I never did anything out of the way for her it's just confusing to understand that some women will put up with that bs. She even told me she was considering being with someone she was friends with first. Guess I got the wrong idea.
@@h12180 they often remember the emotional highs over the lows. That make up s*x was probably awesome (not sure that's going to make you feel better). They actually don't know what to do with a stable guy and self sabotoge it.
Stems to nature and emotional traumas that you can offer help if you choose to. Often women who fall for these men had fathers that were abusive or absent. Sounds like this is a past friend so that is probably moot.
you havent been friends.
@@alexandermilanovich2500 what?
I can't be real friends with a woman whom I've had romantic feelings for, to then be friendzoned. I immediately distance myself from her.
Exactly. Unnecessary distraction from the grind
That messed me up fr
Just shoot your shot, if it don't end well, you can still be friends as long as you end things smoothly and gently. At least you now know it's not meant to be rather than, never checking and then distancing yourself because of fear of rejection from a potential partner.
If you find her attractive and she's cool, why not?
People you spend a lot of time with are people you probably enjoy the company of. Time is a valuable factor. Why would you spend time around people you have no interest in? And if you are hetero, enjoying the company of a person of the opposite sex will more likely than not lead to some form of bonding. I don't see a way around that. But you can still be friends but maybe not close ones. Definitions, sure...
I am friends with my ex, but I avoid spending time with her. I can talk to her about things, okay I mostly listen but I don't want to get back to a romantic relationship so I won't spend time with her.
Don’t be friends with women at all. Free attention from men is like free sex from women.
She's just so damn pleasant...I don't understand how some people can be this authentically calm and kind. Beyond happy for her and her fiancé.
Thank you 🥺
You don't find girls like Courtney on the F&F panels (she's asleep at 10pm). You find her at a cafe or an art gallery.
@@CourtneyRyan can u make a Video about, how to find out about the past of a Person? like how you ask/ make the transicion of aksing about past relationships for example. Thank you and best wishes!
@@timothybogle1461 guys please wake up. what the hell is happening in this world right now...what the HELL. THINK !!!!! ITS that easy to listen to bullshit as long as it come from a "calm" women ??????
She is doing something really smart (mostly thanks to her attitude and other details) and it does not benefit you my guy. Stop listening to this
@@SquallSZ Men aren't very emotional creatures and as a male I think what she's telling is logical, besides that I appreciate how she speaks in a gentle tone so its not annoying to watch.
Chasing women and a high notch count sounds so emotionally draining. It’s far more important for a man to know that he CAN get beautiful women not necessarily that he actually gets them. Hookup culture is really bad for women but it’s also really bad for men too. And endless stream of bedmates is not good for the soul.
bayzed
Good for my soul
Facts. Stats also show that Men with a high body counts tend to fall out on their partners more often as well.
Great points. I mostly agree with you and i respect your opinion however , there can be exceptions to the rule. I can understand that it can be emotionally draining but then again there are exceptions where there are people that can handle that to some degree. i agree, It is important to know that the man can get anyone of high value women and not just randomly get with anyone to create a high notch count.
Hookup culture has its negatives but it has showed several harsh realities of human nature as a whole. I'd say having several partners and experiences is fine but endless stream of bedmates does sound pretty troubling for the soul and body especially if you are pursuing a serious relationship. Some people aren't into serious relationships at all, so i understand their choices as well.
@@remekbrat Its True, although there can be several factors to that. I'd say they should they should try to be monogamous to a healthy relationship and if not, be more casual and not pursue serious relationships if it does not work for them.
Being monogamous and in a relationship with the right person is the best feeling in the world.
Again your opinion
@Smoke some weeeeduh nah
...he is just saying the truth
the best feeling in the world is being a mayan emperor with hundreds of concubines. You were sold a puritan ideal
Until she leaves you for Chad or cleans you out in the courts. Or worse!
It is always men desires that get demonized, anything that men do get demonized nowadays. But when it comes to women, their desires and everything else is okay and should be normalized. Think about that.
we live in a reverse reality now they have made the world feminine and women have all the power and it causes unhappiness in everyone because women dont really want that power so it confuses them
I’ve seen a few of Courtney’s videos now and I’d say she’s actually pretty fair. I’ve not seen any man bashing from her. She doesn’t seem the type.
She’s not a bad person. But her advise is too feminine for men to take it 100%
Obviously she’s gonna try to be fair and socially correct because women are driven more to do that by their biology. Ut seems like she the 50/50 type pf relationship that doesn’t work unless you’re a feminine man which in my opinion and the opinion of most men that’s not what we want.
@user-ih5wz2dy6w: I thinknthe opposide 😅
@@Anastazka00 of course you do
Courtney Ryan just told the truth. Men and women are different. Thank you for telling the truth!
SIMP
She showed a lot courage telling the truth
Boys and girls have similarities but do indeed have differences as well. You find out this by simply putting yourself out there
“Thank you”? for telling obvious things nobody disagrees… i don’t think you can be more of a simp.
The left will call her a transphobe and pick me girl now
Andrew is right about the most things he says but not everybody is honest enough to say he is true.
No cap,literally
Facts
💯
Just because people disagree with him doesn't make them dishonest. Come on, man.
I believe he is true about his opinions. It's too bad he thinks all his beliefs should be facts for everyone else.
Tate isn't wrong you know... Women themselves don't believe in platonic friends. They are friends only if 1) you have use for them (colleagues, classmates, simps who worship her etc) 2) she sees you as potential mate material. I lost almost all my female friends after they are attached. Don't believe it when women say we are "friends", it's just manipulation
RP is evolutionary biology backed by data and the scientific method, You should check out rollo tomassi
Yeah, my girlfriend had these two guys that she thought were just friends. Then we started dating and I think the guys thought it wouldn't last. But then when we became exclusive they both got really jealous and angry becoming the over emotional male. Both guys knew her way before we got together. She didn't really understand why they became that way as she'd known then for a while but I certainly knew. She asked for my opinion. So i said that they were lying to themselves for however long she knew them and didn't want to risk rejection. I said in my opinion she dodged a bullet cause their reaction just oozed insecurity and should have risked asking you out even though they may have got lost the friendship. In the end trying to win a lady over through the friend zone route is a first class ticket to rejection in my opinion. Never accept it if your wish is date and be intimate with someone. This goes both ways. 👍🏻
But is it just your turn?
Yes, establish that you find her attractive from the get-go and then also be friends which might or may not lead to somewhere.
If you lead with 'friendly' first and not let her know you find her attractive then... it ends like that; badly.
lol. it's just your turn
True.
She understood why they became that way. She knew her guy friends liked her, she just acting dumb bro
Years ago I worked with a girl that I became friends with (she was married). The more I got to know her, the more I was attracted to her. It came to a point whenever she was around, all I wanted to do was pull her into my arms. Luckily, I was transferred to another position at a location across the state from her. It is hard for a man just to be friends with a woman he is physically and emotionally attracted to.
I always looked at it like this. Men don’t seek external validation from the opposite sex. Women do, they like the validation and attention that comes with a best friend with a man. That’s the real reason why men can’t remain friends, it’s not because we are calloused. It’s because a friendship with a women becomes one-sided, it’s an unbalanced relationship. You’re a noble person though, you never crossed the boundaries with the woman you speak of. I myself am put off by women that emotionally cheat on their men with me. Why? Because if they are willing to do that with me. What’s going to stop them from doing that if they are in a relationship with me.
@@neogbfe3587 what is emotional cheating though? very difficult thing to define. It's sounds like jealousy from your part
@May August better to know, it's worst if you don't know, you start wondering what if, nightmare
@May August I bet
@@neogbfe3587 Good observation.
You're one of the few women in the dating niche that I'd have no problem recommending her content. I don't agree with most women because they are not that aware or conscious about how social dynamics work but you nail it.
They're aware of how social dynamics work because women are extremely social creatures which explain why most teachers, nurses, social workers, event planners, flight attendants etc.....are women as well as the fact that they tend to be more successful on social media but they're not aware of how INTERSEXUAL dynamics work.
@@SharpshooterSensei man full knowledge op
@Gilgamesh4238 Men are more or less. Even the biggest simps know to some level how women operate. Intersexual dynamic is just common sense.
u a fool if u think that
I agree. He says a lot of things that are true and polarizing. It really depends in the type of relationship you want. If you and your SO decide that it’s ok for you to see other people, then it’s ok for you.
In a scenario where you're dying to be in a relationship with a particular person, a friendship likely won't work out. But you can be casually attracted to someone and still be friends with them. There are plenty of romantic candidates out there, and friendships are valuable too. Also, by not being friends with people of the opposite sex, you can isolate yourself, making yourself more prone to generalizing others, also hurting your ability to talk to the other sex when you do want to find a partner.
What needs to be understood about Andrew Tate is that he says a lot of outrageous things for shock value because he KNOWS people will react to it, which gives him more clout and attention. I don't take him serious but sometimes he does say some meaningful things, and the reality is that while the Red Pill community does have some insightful and helpful things for men a lot of the guys in that space aren't the type of people you should take every piece of advice from because they're mainly focused on being entertaining rather than educational.
Absolutely!
Massive cope. He's being honest. He isn't saying anything for shock value
As much as Courtney Ryan bring us the illusion that most men can have success with women. She sells hope and desperate men here buy it. Everyone is trusting her. (And I keep coming to see of someone will get it ). Most men are invisible to women, especially the women of nowadays. And yes, I'm toxic for a good reason. This have to end. Stop exploiting men's suffering please.
@@brentboost2879 both. The shock value is here but he is at least more honest than most bullshits right here. (I love how she didn't pick a video capable of exposing her. I also love how Courtney is managing to validate comments that's complimenting what she's saying. With this simple trick, those comments keep coming...)
I think people like yourself need to speak up about this more. Some more impressionable minds take his words seriously and they'll find themselves in a world of trouble if they take his worldview literally.
Andrew Tate is so correct half the time and so wrong half the time that he’s worth listening to since you have to actually think about if he’s correct or not and can form your own opinion.
Hmmm I'd say he's correct most of the time. However, he always give a logical explanation for the things we say he's wrong about. And the issue is that people think logical means fairness, they think unless something is fair it's not correct.
@@SharpshooterSensei no he is not correct most of the time.
@@crimsonking7179 Nah, he’s correct most of the time.
@@SharpshooterSensei his really not. His advice is a joke, and no serious person takes him seriously
Agreed, I would say 60 to 70 percent of what he says I agree with
I've never felt so empty after taking a summer to be with lots of women. I became charismatic and took advantage of something I thought I would never have. My ego kept me safe at the moment, but after a few months, the late-night thoughts and dread got to me. I feel better distancing myself from that mindset and more interested in having a more robust foundation with a potential significant other.
Burnt the candle at both ends. Sounds like you had fun for the first 2-4 weeks
I think male and female friendships can thrive as long as you both have no motives of sleeping with each other and interact due to some other reasons like similar hobbies or goals
And both of you have individual relationships.
I think there is such a weird interpretation to what “high value means”. To me, high value refers to a persons character, integrity and values. A by product of that is often a man who is driven and highly motivated and so material success follows……but simply earning a high salary doesn’t make you in anyway high value as a stand alone component.
Agreed!
High-earning does not mean high-value.
@@CodingJesus exactly my point, but in discussions on modern dating I feel this is the misconception people often make. I think it is a reflection of our cultures value system.
last time I checked a woman wouldn't be friends with a guy unless she sees herself being with them anyway
You can't just make up a definiton for a high vale man. Kevin Samuels defined it for all of the Red Pill community. Any other definition does not count. If you don't agree to it, then it's the wild west of making up your own crap. Then guess what? You'll always be swimming in your own crap!
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I’ve practically never seen a guy make an effort to be “friends” with a girl who was not conventionally attractive. That says a lot about wether men and women can be friends although I think they sometimes can.
I’m friends with not so attractive females but most of the time for me when I’m friends with them they are attracted to me
@@Ibrahimk.74 that’s interesting, it can certainly slice both ways. If you are sincere than you are a noble guy but honest men are a dime a dozen if that. Most lurk in the friend zone flirting with their female “friends” hoping to get their chance one day. Usually when a girl says they have guy friends it raises a red flag for me. Again there are guys with integrity out there but the chances that her guy friends are noble are overwhelmingly against you.
@@fitforlife3168 yeah the friends that like you usually come and go, but the ones that are real friends you wouldn’t treat them like the opposite gender you treat them like one of your guy friends (as a guy)
I have a female friend for years and i think the key here is that she has to be not physically appealing because that coupled with a decent personality will carry you easily into catching feelings.
I’m friends with women because I get on with them and have known them for years. Some I find attractive some I don’t. But I see them all as friends
Just wanted to say that I think you're such an important voice. In the age of everyone being offended by everything, you have a very measured, common-sense approach to these topics! Even the first clip for example, although you disagreed you focused on the message and weren't offended. Great to hear well thought out opinions and not purely driven by emotion. And you also seem to actually understand the male PoV a lot more than most women
That men with women friends thing is true. I literally told someone this morning that it won't work if there is attraction and romantic feelings. Especially if you were already more than friends to begin with and there's a downgrade to just "friends" Nope.
Her reaction after watching that Andrew Tate video @12:15. 🤣
She gives great advice at the end about following people who you want to be or what we strive to accomplish in life. Really enjoy watching your videos and keep up the great work. 👏🏽
😂❤️ thank you Henry!
She is learning the philosophy of the Certified G.
I stopped watching Fresh & Fit videos because my reactions were the same, they always have the same "kind" of women on their podcasts and that is just simply another world.
@@ricardosanchez9154 oh it's worse than that. You should watch some of the videos about them that explain who there are
and what they've done off their show. I stopped watching them.
@@ricardosanchez9154 Fresh and Fit are mostly hot girl summer types that think with their feelings and do not really care about what men think.
I think it's fine to be friends with females the caveat is to not be attracted to them unless she is unavailable (in relationship). Having female friends can show some status. However if you are attracted to her, you might fill that emotional space with that girl. I totally agree with you Courtney
Direction and stability are what I found to be gamechangers. I never had feelings towards a girl/woman until I was 23 working in an office. Being a late bloomer, I made all the mistakes people made and learned from in grade school: essentially my day and thoughts revolved around her and I was doing nothing for myself. I was heartbroken for years and felt pity for being such a late bloomer.
Now that I’m in law school with a mission of personal growth at 28 I find relationships with women to be far more seamless and natural. I’m now secure in myself with a defined future strapped to my belt. Before I was floating through life after college and didn’t have much structure or direction. My current direction has made me almost bulletproof: I am fine with any degree of relationship a woman wants to have with me. I’ve finally experienced heartbreak and depression and it has ironically given me such an optimistic view of my future. I fell so hard that I have become tough. I fell down but I got back up. What did not kill me only made me stronger 💪
Heartbreak + personal evaluation after heartbreak + career goals = unstoppable me
I don’t cling, I don’t worry, I don’t obsess, and I don’t make plans around a woman of interest like I did at 23 with my Guinea Pig of a crush. My experiences at 23 taught me how to be with women by teaching me what NOT to do.
I now have lady friends I study with, go to concerts with, party with, sleep with etc. I’m doing well with women because I’m living my life for ME, not someone else like I did at 23. I do the decency of not sleeping with women in the same social group and telling them I’m not exclusive. Afterall I’m in law school in New York City. Romance of the serious type is not a priority, being the best version of myself is.
This girl is incredible guys. One of the few who actually lives in reality. She is what defines a girl/women & whole female gender together. Smart, beautiful, intelligent & knows how the world is turning into something irregular. I hope to see her on Andrew’s podcast on day.
I've just grown mostly with female friends, and as a heterosexual I still find difficult to feel attraction for someone. I see my friends as what they are, friends, even if they're objectively attractive or not. I've got a lot of female friends through time and I can count with my fingers the ones that made me feel some sort of attraction, sometimes even only feeling like they're somewhat interesting.
But I've got a bunch of those female friends attracted to me when I wasn't into them, and I've got to say that it made me feel (very) uncomfortable.
I really hope I sometime get attracted to a girl who is also attracted to me!
You’re gay
@@KOSerg-vo2qb I saw your comment pop up and had a laugh, you're not the first nor the 100th that says me that, if you were trying to hurt me you really failed.
Grays do actually exist, the world is not black or white. And I am just a not-with-a-d***-on-fire heterosexual.
Men can have female friends, just as they don't all want to sleep with every woman that walks. I think it's much more likely though that a guy might develop feelings for her. Even so, there are those that would respect the friendship for what it is and not pursue her to anything more if she's given no indication she's interested.
If you are an attractive man or female it just won't work! That shit works when you are both unattractive and even then you would still try it with each other.
@@nodaysoff2005 I do believe the more someone is attracted to the other the more unlikely you'd want to be friends, or should be friends, otherwise you'd be putting yourself through "self-torture" (unless you'd like to strengthen your self-control). You can always get out of the "friendzone" in the future if you find yourself wanting more and if you aren't satisfied with the friendship, you should move on like any other relationship if you can't work through it. If either is using the other as a back-up option, you probably shouldn't be friends.
Andrew Tate is like pretty much anyone you find on the internet: Take what good advice you can, but you gotta spit out the bones.
I'm convinced that casual sex ruins sex, I'll even say that sex means a lot more if it's with one person in life long commitment. Also the guy I've known that brags about sleeping around were either lying or just had low standards.
The dude saying he doesn't need female friends just sounds like he doesn't like women in general unless he's getting sex out it. But it would be complicated to a close female friend and a serious relationship at the same time.
Hit the nail on the head with every factor on this topic & never surprises me when you do !
I kept an open mind while watching everyone you mentioned on here for a while, but it never sat right with me with how or who they portrayed with their topics. They did have some key points here & there, but not many that I felt aligned with my own morals.
I became friends with a girl I had met online a year ago. From experience it was...very confusing. We truly cared about one another but we were there for each other emotionally and we both found each other attractive. We would talk to each other almost everyday. To the point where my family thought we were dating. Eventually we finally meet(she lived in Greece) and we shouldn't have. She was seeing someone and I was staying with her at her place. We planned this before she was dating him. Well long story short the last day before I leave it would be the last time we would see each other. She blocks me from all social media.
Pissy
As a greek guy I have to say: heheheh
@@giorgosmaragkopoulos9110 I will say your country is amazing. Been there two times now.
@@614Michael Thanks mate and sorry for my sarcasm. Just don't trust these greek girls too much.
@@giorgosmaragkopoulos9110 haha no problem.
Tate is a persona ... a character he created. the sole purpose is to be very polarizing because that's what gets the clicks... that's what gets the subs, likes and follows... and that is what leads to the money. And as a result its becomes a self reinforcing project until the man he was is no longer and the character he created is what he truly becomes.
He ripped off his look from former PUA Neil Strauss (aka 'Style')
right down to the snakeskin jacket.
It feels like regressing to early 00's pick-up... 😒
I think that guys and girls can be friends even if they're attracted to each other as long as they're not "in love" with each other. A lot of my female friends are attractive people, but I know that our personalities wouldn't work in a relationship. The experience of being in a relationship with mismatched personalities might play a role in that, but I don't think attraction will become an obstacle to a relationship unless people allow it to be.
Depends upon how attracted you are. I can’t imagine agreeing to “just be friends” with a woman I was extremely attracted to. I would ask her out and if she didn’t want to go out it’s time to walk away. Why would I hover around her, watch her get into other relationships, and eventually wind up heartbroken?
@@countryboyred ... While I understand where you're coming from I would argue that once you know who you are (decide what your core values are) you aren't going to want to tie yourself to people who don't fit that even if you find them attractive. I have dated some incredibly beautiful women, but when our values didn't align the relationship became a hell, an cage of pain, and after experiencing that I won't let attraction overrule my better judgement about the kind of person I'm willing to allow into my life.
I don’t think I’ve ever been true “friends” with a woman. I don’t talk to the girlfriends/wives of my friends outside of polite greetings when we run into each other and just don’t find them that interesting. My boys and I have similar senses of humor and make inappropriate jokes that are laughed about and then forgotten later. It’s a very simple world we live in when it’s just us and I’ll never risk it colliding with the entirely separate world of emotional connection with women, whether it’s mine or theirs.
it's true unfortunately, unless you're a low test modern man, I've only been friends with girls until I made my intentions known. Don't get it twisted ladies, the attractive desirable men are your friends because they want more eventually and itll either fizzle out or he'll gather up the courage to tell you.
Good to see someone else’s point of view but I disagree
I see where you are coming from, but you need to open your mind up a bit and not limit yourself to only being friends with one gender, that's how one becomes close minded in my opinion. I disagree. Gender should not have a impact on friendship.
@@NFSMAN50 I'll clarify, I don't intentionally screen women out as friends, it's just how things have always sort of played out. The ones I've had zero romantic interest in, have either taken an interest in me or vanish when they find love, which is understandable. To this day there aren't any female friends I can just call up or text and pick up where we left off like I can with my boys.
@@sosinati3358 sneako pilled or just red pilled
I love Tate man, not everything he says….but most of it.
same man!
Anyone who has the balls to say whatever they want, I’ll tip my cap to. I may not agree with what’s being said but the fact that they’re not worried of the consequences is admirable.
It is refreshing to hear someone be so blunt lol I have watched more interviews with him since filming this and I find him funny hahahaha
It would be different to me if he had a jaw or at least other experience outside of the fact that money has led to his status which has helped him get to the point that he is at now but to me that only makes him half as impressive
I agree, most of the time - he’s right on the money!
But he knows what he’s doing, he knows how to mess with your head, he’s got a reason for everything.
Just take what you can from him to apply to your life, and throw out the ones you don’t need!
Just remember, he’s at a different level than you are, he’ll get away with a lot more than you can. Cheers!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Emotional connection is essential and unlocks the door to an amazing physical connection. I have had several very good female friends over the years. And we really were just friends and enjoyed shooting the shit, or even go out and shoot pool together, but nothing else. It is possible and it was completely platonic. At least on my part, and I think most of them as well.
Steve Harvey said it best ,if ur in a relationship you create a 2 handed circle and don't let anyone in it ,not ur guy bestfriend, girl bestfriend, no one , anything u wanna share he/she is right there!
Here's the thing with Andrew Tate, he MEANS everything he says but also knows what will get him attention too. He does attract incel like guys but also guys who want to improve and become better versions of themselves. Because society now is becoming more and more anti-men and I think he's that character the world / internet needs for guys who don't follow NEW societal norms now and who simply don't agree with it. I agree with A LOT of what he says because it's actually what I think about and talk to with my own friends, his opinions are very popular opinions and it's obvious with the following he's garnered because why wouldn't a young 20 year old who has the same opinions - follow a rich, strong and high value guy who also has the same opinions. This was a good video, most people rage at Andrew because they simply don't agree with one thing he said but this was good. I think you can agree with a few things someone says and not be a dick rider and I also think you can disagree with someone on most things and not hate them lol. But this is the internet so you have to hate someone because you disagree with them.
There are far more better role models for young men than Andrew Tate; Working class men like Paddy Pimblett mma fighter, god tier men like Buddha and Jesus Christ. Rich men like Steve Jobs. What Andrew Tate is teaching far worse than Jesus Christ teaches.
Society is definitely not becoming “anti-men” lmao this guy
this.
All the sexual assaults men have done. All the "friendzone" stuff that shows men are thinking with their d*cks.
Of course you create hate towards yourself. Start thinking with brains. Stop this "hump and dump" bs.
@@joshajcip 🤖 🐑
Can I make a suggestion? Try viewing the JustPearlyThings podcast? I like this woman who really has her finger on the pulse and gets it from a mans perspective and can hold her own when facing off against modern entitled feminist women who don't like accountability for their treatment of men and have selective application of equality when it suits them....just saying.
I was thinking that!!!
I saw Red Pill and was thinking of Pearl!
This dude was just an aggressive woman hater. Red Pill, I think male rights, social dynamics of modern culture, and how successful families are to rise.
Red Pill and women hatters are two different buckets in my opinion.
I don’t like her she’s such a hypocrite she’s not married has a career and no kids how can she preach about it when she isn’t it 🤣
touching down on the point of having female friends, i really believe it can work without having feelings.
When i'm stressed out i can have a panic attack, and interesting enough almost always will a female friend calm me down.
I think it is their caring character that they want to do this, and my guy friends don't really feel comfortable doing that.
And no for the moment i don't have feelings for any of these girls, my eyes are set on another price hehe.
Men's attraction to women is not limited to their beauty and popping out a baby. There is nurturing, supporting, caregiving. Men don't need women without those qualities.
The top G is all over the Internet! Well done, Andrew, you won👍
Polyamory doesn't work for anyone, no matter what they may try to tell themselves
Ends up in drama and unbalanced attention to the spouse.
Tate's not polyamorus in the modern sense. He's polygamous in the old world sense.
From what I've seen it's usually the woman who suggests it. Then the guy just pretends to go along with it, but what he's really doing is looking for another woman that he clicks with, and when he finds her he drops the hammer and it's over.
@@fdblade1529 Yes, poly couples are often woke couples. Any guy with half a brain who is operating in his own best interest should realize it's a pretty terrible deal for men. The world is full of thirsty guys wanting to sleep with his girl, meanwhile most guys have to put in some WORK to attract women. Ergo, she'll be having a lot more fun than he will. Other than that if a woman loves and respects a guy she'll be naturally monogamous. That's why it's feminist chicks with beta guy(s) who tend to fall into these relationships.
@@fdblade1529 Looking for something better for him that fulfils all his needs without having to have many people fulfilling different needs.
Platonic friendship is a lie, thank you for clearing it out, atleast one women out there who admits it on a public platform.
Soo true, huge red flag if they have allot of male friends.
@@53strat55 Exactly bruh.
1. You were not listening, she put it exactly right: it's not possible once there is sexual attraction / tension. You can be friends with the over sex easily, if there is no physical attraction to begin with. And that goes not only for looks but esp. for smell. Our bodies communicate nonverbally via pheromones. If you are not compatible genetically, you'll not find each other attractive naturally. The big problem here is, that hormonal contraception seems to mess with the female antennas in the worst way possible. So much so, that they decide for the guys who they are least compatible with. So once they want to start a family and get of the pill, they won't get pregnant AND her attraction to him subsides significantly.
2. Good relationships build on a good friendship. You can't love someone you wouldn't even be friends with. Being friends with someone gives you time to test the waters, whether you are compatible as potential partners. If not, you just stay friends. If yes, you build from there. Problems occur only if there is a disconnect: one wants, the other not. In this case it's the decision of the wanting part how to deal with the situation. Parting ways is one option. Going on w/o hard feelings and stay friends the other. This takes some emotional maturity though. But as you can fall in love, you can fall out of it. It just takes some time. Courtney said, it always ended that the guys in her friend circle wanted more and that led to the end of the friendship eventually. But she did not elaborate how exatly. I tell you how: the guys either couldn't take a hint and wouldn't stop chasing her, so she ended it. Or they left immediately after rejection because they were after her from the beginning and never platonic friends to begin with.
3. Female friends are invaluable for any guy. Women basically have an unconscious vouching culture regarding men. If a woman vouches for you, your threat potential drops a lot and you are much more approachable for women. Hence the cliché that all women suddenly show interest in you once you are taken, but show the cold shoulder while you are single. A female friend is the best wingman you can get. Next best thing is a wedding ring on your hand.
@@rainerminusunfug All I'm trying to say is friendship is fine, like on the surface level like you're on talking terms, greet each other when you meet and stuff but this best friend shit is what I don't agree to, you can't just hang out all day night long, know everything about each other, enjoy each other's company and still not get into relationship I mean that's a cap, humans in general are not wired to work that way, as a heterosexual man myself I can confirm for the average man if I girl shows interest in you and relates with you more than any other girl no matter what their intentions were initially but they are going to persue her eventually and it's a fact.
@@gauravingle Ok, thanks for clarifying. I agree at some points, but I see it a bit differently still. In the end, that's a personal thing anyway.
See, I have and had close female friends and it does indeed work out for me. Mostly because I'm simply not attracted to them (and vice versa). But they are great people still. I get the notion, that you'll eventually fall for someone when you get close and emotionally intimate for a longer period of time. Humans work like this indeed. That's how set up / forced marriages still worked out back in the day (and in some places still today).
What is definitely true is, that when a friendship becomes a relationship and this relationship ends, the friendship usually won't survive the breakup. I saw some people in my life, pulling this off, but I'm not one of them. So you'll always have to keep in mind, that pursuing a friend romantically, will jeopardize the friendship. That's why I don't consider FWB or any other shenanigans with my long time female friends.
Maybe YOUR catch is, that you subconciously only chose women as close friends that you also deemed to be good potential partners? This would make sense, since who would consciously hang out with unattractive people anyway?
On another note: even if you end up pursuing a friend and get rejected eventually. What's the problem with staying friends afterwards? The hurt ego? Lovesickness? The jealousy of seeing her getting it on with other guys later on? I get that this can be difficult, but it's not rocket science either. The question is: do you value the friendship higher than the potential relationship? If yes, that might justify the effort you are willing put in. This only works of course, if the woman truly sees you as a friend and not as a beta orbiter simp in a constant friendzone. You have to be on equal footing.
I got into hookups after a VERY draining breakup and I knew it wasn’t a good substitute for a genuine emotional connection but it was something. The sex stopped being as fulfilling because I knew that’s all I was there for and was never as good sex with a strong shared real emotional connection.
I slightly disagree regarding female friends. I have an incredible female friend who I love talking to and going on trips and spending time with her, and we both have never thought of anything else between us, and it is one of the deepest and most important friendships that I have cultivated throughout the years. I completely think that men and women can be friends, and they should. We all benefit a lot from that.
Are you gay?
Are you gay Pablo?
Not trying to be offensive, just curious.
@@RickyBobby42069 he is most likely gay or that girl is ugly. That's the fact 🤷🏻♂️
@@RickyBobby42069 Why is that automatically what you think? Is the idea of a man and a woman being friends that much of a foreign concept to you?
Not trying to be offensive, just curious.
There are some opinions of Tates that I don't particularly agree with , but I like him. He is a breath of fresh air for our generation of men to follow to be honest , and i feel men need someone so abrasive honest and confident to look up to as a role model in today's very feminist empowered society .
Just keep in mind that .. he is a billionaire at this point so ofc he can say that he sleeps with multiple ladies bc he HAS other options that average man with average income don't have . Models etc It's his life style so he speaks about it . Im actually surprised that ppl haven't presented this argument to him but .. yeah . If you are an average man it's OKAY you don't need to be rich to get a good woman
I live in Portugal and most men here are not even close to millionaires but we still love them and respect them
Love you Courtney and the face you made made me laugh bc that was shocking to hear I agree 😂
Oh Portugal.... Land of classy women in long summer dresses 😌 I went to Porto and Braga, loved it
He makes many valid point in which I could expound on even further.
It's because he has said that most men can't do what he does and that the average life for the average man is depressing
You're completely wrong about Tate... but you do you I guess lol I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you haven't watched many of his videos because dude is borderline a psycho who promotes unhealthy relationships and promotes holding women in subjugation.
Respect
I have a lot of female friends, and asked a couple out. It never worked out, but has never been a problem I think it depends on the person.
There is so much power being with one person.
That is a respectful opinion and so true.
Thank you for balancing out Tates craziness. he is right then looses when his narcissism kicks in at the end of a sentence
technically, if we ask "can a man and woman be just friends", we just have to find one example of a man and woman being just friends to be able to answer "yes". And I think most people either are friends with someone from the other gender or know someone who is.
Platonic relationships exist and then there are dude's whom are friend zoned because they fear rejection or can't make any moves.
@@Zoran69 For sure!
One thing with Andrew, he's not a mark for himself, others become marks for him but one thing that he's shown everyone is that if you want be recognized you have to be out there and market yourself as a product. In turn everyone wants to check out the product. I enjoyed this reaction video.
If I have a friend that is a woman, if I value the friendship and have moments of feeling sexually attracted to her, I acknowledge the feelings and that I'm human, its natural and I let it go. Those feelings don't need to control my life. I have female friends that I think are hot but in all honesty, I don't believe we would be a good fit in a relationship, I need the friendship, I just let it go, it's just not important. Being stuck on feelings of sexual attraction rather than being able to process them is an adolescent trait that people often don't develop out of.
Actually I'm so happy that I found that comment I was searching.Finally a person who can control his desires.
Can't say I've made the experience that m&f can't be friends. I've had female friends all my life, many of them very attractive, and I've never fallen for them or the other way around. That being said, that doesn't mean there isn't physical attraction from either party, but that's a long way from emotional attraction.
I think a lot of people are prone to fantasy and indulge thoughts they shouldn't and that plays a part. If internally, you have strong boundaries, what does physical attraction matter? A lot of people seem to just act based on their urges.
Exactly, just be in control with your attraction. I can be friends with women and not have to sleep with every one of them.
Same. And my life (and my personality) are much better now than 20 years ago, partly because I have male and female friends that helped me evolve in all kinds of ways. For us it just works.
Men and women can be friends. 99.9% of the time they shouldn’t.
I had a female friend for 5-6 years before i met my girlfriend and i think that because od that friend i got to understand women better, what they like and what they dont like in general. But i also think that it would not be posssible if i found my best friend attractive in that way. Yeah, when we met i found her attractive at first, like you said because of her looks, but while i got to know her i just did not find her attractive in a way of wanting her to be my girlfriend, today i look at her like she is a part of my family and she and my girlfriend also respect each other. We were friends for a very long time and i dont see a point in stopping that because of my girlfriend and my girlfriend thinks the same.
A female friend can provide 'social proof' to other women, introduce you to HER female friends, and communicate a few insights.
That's why it's worth it.
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I have a lot of female friends . I can be friend with a girl if I don't find attractive .
Great point on the 2nd clip. I actually fell in love with a woman I met online before I ever saw her. We met on a message board about a TV show, started to DM each other, got to know each other, our conversations became more personal, and in depth, and I soon realized that I loved (and still/will always love) her.
When we finally did see each other it didn't change anything. She is beautiful, but that had/has no bearing on my feelings.
Unfortunately there does need to be some initial spark of attraction, and while there was definitely a mutual spark, or curiosity/mystery/intrigue when we first started to communicate. (Playful bantering, teasing, debating about the show, etc), I completely sabotaged any possible shot I may have had by being a self-centered, selfish, narcissistic, non thinking, JERK! (Which makes me even more furious, and unforgiving of myself since I know that honestly isn't how I ever wanted to be.)
We had exchanged photos, and things were fine, but it was when we decided to have our first video chat that I blew it. (This is where I wish I had, had videos like Courtney's to learn from about making first impressions, appearance, grooming, etc)
I didn't give 2 thoughts about my appearance, I had dirty dishes in the background, etc; all the while she made a concerted effort to look her best. My selfish, narcissistic mindset was, "She should like me however I am "
Then to make matters worse, I started acting completely differently. I started to pedestalize her, always agreeing, etc. I went from being/acting confident, to being a SIMP!
She literally told me I had changed. That I had become boring. She told me, "I don't want/need a girlfriend."
I apologize for the extremely long, and mostly irrelevant reply, but just wanted to say how IMHO it has to be more than just about "looks", and honestly they do play a role; but moreso it's about the complete package that you BOTH present, and bring to the table.
We're still good, close, friends; but unfortunately because of MY mistakes (and not having videos like Courtney's back then lol) that's all we ever will be.
U really spent 10 minutes writing your life story that no one cares go do something
You can turn around things though, don’t be friend to her. Tell her that, and she might open the tour to something mor serious. If she declines, move on and forget her.
@@FreeAgent99 Maybe; but IMHO that would basically make me an a$$hole who is only interested in ONE thing. She means more to me than that. I'm not fixated on HER, just saying I realized too late the mistakes I made, am not do self centered that I can't admit I made them, and was just saying.
I just think there is too much of a "ME ME ME" attitude/mindset these days, and everyone seems to think, or act as if their s#it doesn't stink, and that they somehow deserve the very best; when if they took a good, HONEST look in a mirror, they'd realize they really aren't "ALL THAT".
@@jasonhurst8599 try fixing things with her man
@@julianfelix7652 Thanks; have been trying for a while. Learned the hard way that you really do not get a second chance to make a first impression.
I will never give up, but I am not waiting...if that makes any sense. She will always be a part of my life in some way.
On the subject of female friends...I agree with you. I couldn't be "just friends" with any woman I'm considerably attracted to. Watching this, I was thinking of one of my few, close friends. We've been friends for nearly a decade....she's an attractive 34 to my 48...but, god!...it gets tiresome when she want's to talk about her work all the time! But....perhaps because this trait doesn't appeal to me at all...I am completely honest with her, and I value her friendship quite dearly, as a result.
I like how you carefully break down your reaction and control your emotions in your responses. This was my first time watching your videos and I’m impressed. You just got a new subscriber ☺️.
You made an excellent point about why men and women can’t be friends unless they aren’t attracted to each other. It has to go both ways cause like your anecdote, most men will befriend a girl and in the back of their mind will want to sleep with them if they are attracted to her causing the friendship to end at some point.
You should've reacted to a clip of Andrew Tate talking about men's mental health in kind of a debate with a woman.
High value men or rich men have a lot of options. They can pick and choose what they want. Fresh n fit and tate are still really young. sleeping with other women gets tiresome when a man reaches an older age. In the end a man just wants respect, tranquility and happiness (peace). You give that to a man you’ll always be in his world.
The entire point is men at some point in their lives want to have many s3xual partners as they can. Does it get tiresome? Yes but to ignore the general male inclination to wanting many is naive.
@John Grigg some men don't get tired. 🤷🏾♂️
Women do not really commit long term....the marriage statistics back this up. There is no other option than hook up.
@@HenryDube72 Exactly what i was thinking and saying. There is a reason why alot of men when they become successful and have alot of options of women. It is biologically built into us. it can get tiresome but not for everyone. There can be exceptions.
@John Grigg Exactly some people can't get tired and they are cool with it.
My best friend is a girl, never had feelings for her ever, but It causes complications with her and her boyfriend.
that "ohh okayy" at 12:00 had me dying LMAO
I find it easier to find an emotional connection with women i want to be friends with or are my friends than the ones I want to sleep with. I guess there is something wrong with that but its the truth
At least you're honest about it. Tate seems to think emotional connections are a waste of time, and gets in the way of treating women as only good for hook-ups. That is sooo not healthy.
Thanks for making this reaction video! I’ll take the gloves off Courtney about what goes on in young guys’ minds right now. They want to be like Andrew Tate, Dan Bilzerian, Bradley Martyn, or any other handsome guy that’s in shape + successful who brags about sleeping with numerous women. It’s very sad, and people on social media networks + CZcamsrs call these guys “Chads” or “Alphas”. The whole notion is “if you’re not sleeping with 100 guys per night you’re a loser”.
That mindset isn’t just hurting young men, it’s DESTROYING them.
I’ve said this to all my friends and people I know… do not give them a platform to spread poison!
you mean not sleeping with 100 women per night?
Its possible for men & women to be friends, but its most of the time someone catches feelings for the other most of the times its the guy, and if things don't turn out the way that person wants it & gets friendzoned things just become awkward & never the same again, & unfortunately end up holding a grudge & hatred when they start dating someone. The best thing is just to detach yourself from them, that way one can start to focus on themselves & pursue someone else.
It’s a lot harder for young men and women to be friends with each other in the 21st century compared to the previous because nowadays everyone is programmed to take advice and listen to what social media in general has to say about this topic or anything related. Plus people are getting more and more immature thanks to social media and it’s bringing out their inner kid again.
This was my first introduction to this Andrew Tate guy. I had high hopes for the first video. It actually started really low when he generalized "red pill guys" as guys who want to sleep with as many women as possible and not have emotional connection. The more I see of "red pill" stuff, I can see two very distinct camps. There is the "Fresh and Fit" camp and the Jordan Peterson camp. One camp seems to want to abuse culture, take revenge on society turning "anti-men," and essentially reap every bit of pleasure that they can get out of that. The Jordan Peterson camp wants to accept culture for what it is and realize that it is just a signpost of where not to go to be successful.
Basically "red pill guys" aren't strictly boys who want to hook up with all of the women. From my perspective, that is actually very blue pill. Fresh and Fit basically takes the red pill, spits it out, and goes back to the blue pill, in my opinion. So Tate absolutely lost me when he had the audacity to say "you can truly love a women and also sleep with other women."
I agree with the gold digger video. Men "gold dig" too, but in a very different way. So those people tend to attract each other. Their lack of desire for an emotional connection and only view interactions with people as transactional is what draws them together. Whatever works for those people, cool. Not for most people though, from my experience.
Coming from recent personal experience, I do think that having female friends (even if you aren't attracted to them) muddies things a lot. I used to be friends with a handful of women because we all played the same mobile game and that is what bound our friendship. All of them were in their own committed relationships with people in or out of that friend group and I was one of the few people who was single in the group. So I wasn't attracted to any of these women, but I did not get the same feeling or satisfaction as I get from hanging with my guy friends. It was nice sometimes, but I eventually withdrew myself from that friend group (for political reasons unfortunately). I have not looked back though. It could be really toxic sometimes and made me think what I was doing there.
EDIT:
I just watched the other video that Courtney did not show in this video. As usual with Fresh and Fit videos, there are some nuggets of truth (small red pills). However it is like I said above, Fresh and Fit want to take Red Pill ideas and still partake in the Blue Pill culture. They want to manipulate just as much as the people who are ultimately trying to manipulate them. That ain't it, chief. That ain't it.
I really don’t mean any harm or offense to any woman when I make this statement, but women can’t understand what men go through because they don’t go through the same things we go through. I’ve spent a lot of time trying to explain to women what it is to be a man and what we go through but ALOT of them just lose interest in the conversation cause they don’t understand “why is he so sad all the time” even though it’s explained why, it’s not that women don’t care, I’m not gonna lie alot of them don’t, they just don’t relate or understand. And I 100% agree with Tate when he talks about women not giving attention to sad men unless a man completely ignores his feelings cause most women, at this risk of getting flak for saying this, women don’t want to be stressed with your problems and sadness. Like the song says “Girls just wanna have fun”.
@Laura UK Unfortunately the reality that we live in is not all sunshine and rainbows and it’s not about who has it harder which always seems to be a response. Each sex has their own struggles somethings that women struggle with are greater than what men experience but reality is not what alot of people like to live in there’s always deflection of the topic “I have it harder no I have it harder how about we just be there for one another? Is it that hard? I would love to see these women that are not “crying” about it as well.
@Laura UK hogwash...There's tons of videos on Tiktok of women crying about Men. You just refuse to look at them or to knowledge them.
There is no Gender Wage Gap, and Women today have it so good compared to your grandmothers and great grandmothers. Men have it way harder. And always have. When a women is having a problem a number of white knights will show up to save her. When a man is having a problem he's told to Man up. Why do you think suicide for men is higher then women? In the Western world, males die by suicide three to four times more often than do females. You literally don't know what you are talking about.
Zip, Nada.
Sometimes it's hard to accept things that just work better. A very good female friend I had, the last times we spoke was bragging about this guy and the other, I just had to cut her speech and say "u know what? this is just not gonna work, I think we are getting so much apart" Don't wait for the girl to leave or dump the guy they're with lol, it's so beta
Andrew tate I think has ascended past all of these debates. He is truly in a league of his own while most of us are still boxed into whatever popular opinion that was fed to us, or influenced to think so we dont get punished for wrong think. This guy is not just a kickboxer, salesmen, social media personality, business owner with casinos, he is truly in his own league from what Ive seen. Its about time we start breaking free from the chains of society
He just wants to sell his bullshit courses and get views, form your own opinion. No hard feelings.
@@walkingalive1093 I went down a Andrew Tate rabit hole, Im on the fence. I was actually thinking about his program but there was an interview with the Nelk boys where he admitted to scamming people with the webcam thing and had no remorse so I decided to not to. Then another interview it came out was like a pyramid scheme, I will have to pass on that. He does say a lot of things I agree with, I dont like how our government thinks they can use their power against us, and highly respect his kick boxing career
@@guerrillaj You sound smart to me, saw right through his own hypocrisy.
I agree that he's a successful martial artist and has interesting thoughts from time to time. Then again, keep in mind that it's never a good idea to glorify any person because that just makes you biased. Always listen to people that provide value but never lose your ability of critical thinking and weighing different opinions.
Just my two cents on the current Andrew Tate trend, lots of people seem to blindly believe every word of his simply due to his flashy millionnaire lifestyle which I don't respect at all. Obviously you think for yourself though which is a good thing.
@@walkingalive1093 I still do believe he found his way out of the "matrix", and out of the box to where he doesnt need anyones opinions, or be apart of any debate which makes him a different category. I am a guy just at the bottom of society looking for love or something, so all of the rules, opinions, debates or thoughts affect me being in the matrix for life. As for his followers, I think they will be better off because many of us guys are getting chewed up and spit out by the world and we are pissed off. We try our best at our jobs, staying on top of bills, pay our taxes, try to be good sons/fathers/brothers/boyfriend's/husbands coming from single mother households where there wasnt a father to learn from, obey all the laws, and be honest people just to be trashed by feminists, gillett commercials, told we are insecure if our partner has girls nights out with ex boyfriends showing up we were not told about, ruined in divorce courts, used for meal dates and ghosted, cheated on, society telling us how we should be when other guys that dont have to follow any rules we have to follow yet get all the attention from women, while we get called incels if we have to go 6 months or more without intimacy because we are labeled "friendzoned", "nice guy", and other demeaning terms and insulted by our peers for being friendzoned (and the same person that friendzoned us). Yea I definitely see the appeal of this guy, but I just dont click with his style personally, but I do like to see him shake up these feminists who have done nothing but attacked us regular men, and turned/tricked out the last few traditional women left in the world who now feel like they are settling for us. Theres a reason why this guy is gaining a MASSIVE following in such a short time, because many of us are done playing by the rules just to be treated really bad. Thats my rant, but I am telling you I am not some one off case. "Who hurt you" where tf do I begin
I guess its easy to say its just his wealth is the reason for his success but its not, its a middle finger to feminism for a lot of us. Men have had enough, and we are not 16yo boys that think his car is cool like Dan Bilzerian and other frauds
It's so refreshing to hear your perspective on these topics Courtney, it's a very honest, to the point & genuine response.
True, her videos have little filler and are constructive.
I have had friendships with attractive women where it was more of a Bro/Sis relationship. Especially true when we each had our own strong relationships and we know the others partners. It is a great opportunity to get a perspective on your own relationships from someone on the other side.
In Alabama? Lol
People need to grasp the difference between Friend and Acquaintance. Men & Women can be acquaintances just fine. The problem is when they try to be friends in the "best buddy" sense where they hang out with each other on a daily basis and in particular "one on one".
Have always had female friends. Some of them I developed a crush on, but that ran its course with no lasting problems. These are people I've liked (and like) who happen to be women - but that's not the only thing that they are. They have other things to like as well.
I would love to see more vids like this. Obviously a lot of us men think of you as a high value leveled headed individual. We love to hear what you think about these topics.
Once I realised that women who should be in my ball park, and even women I’m not attracted to- brush me pretty much because I’m 5”7…I realised it was a hopeless game. To the streets with them all. At 51, I’m too old for flakey women, and going through any sort of heartache. “We are biologically wired to be gold diggers- according to science” Rrrrrrrrright 🙄
The whole friends with girls thing isnt fun if you're attracted to them. Told my female friend I liked her pretty late sadly but she rejected me. So now I cut contact and I've never felt better.
"If you're a guy who's dating beautiful women and you don't like anything else about them and you're worried about women using you for your money you're both using each other" I might've messed the quote up a little but well said. Women often use their looks to attract men whereas men use more status, money, social standing etc. I know it's a generalization but I feel like it makes sense
Great tips! And speaking of “Emotional Connection…”
One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant.
If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game.
One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman.
Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I will be honest I quit listening to all these pills cause I feel it makes it more confusing then anything so I just try to be best version of myself f be myself and it works best for me
I am friends with a girl who at first was attracted to, and she told me from the start that we can only be friends, however later she told me that I put her in a friendzone and didn't pursue a relationship with her... girl... wtf...
Have had plenty of female friends through the years. If I dig someone's personality, it doesn't matter if I find them physically appealing or not. When I'm attracted to a woman, the friendship approach is best because that's where you stand a chance to actually know them. I respect boundaries, and I've had friendships with good-looking women where friendship was a good idea but sex wasn't.
this is the first time i have seen Courtney lie
Really? She lies a ton
My two cents on the opposite sex friends thing:
If two people are emotionally mature and (most of all) are high value enough where they have many people constantly attracted to them, they can definitely be friends with people from the opposite gender. For example, I make friends with people I get along with. I don't care if they're male or female. Why would I not want to be friends with someone just because I can or can't sleep with them? That's a shitty way to view people. That's incel logic. If you're secure in yourself, you won't see people as benefits, but as people. Andrew Tate is a massively insecure man and his advise exposes him as such. He is a very fearful and paranoid (and emotional) person.
Preach, Sir.
He makes a great point though. As a man I’ve never said that our fondness for a beautiful women isn’t shallow….. but u can’t compare that to a woman who only wants a man for his success, wealth, height, confidence, charisma, ability to provide etc…..
Finally a female who talks real and clued on 👍🏻
I think Tate is the man we men have been waiting for. He’s real, successful, also Tate has given more good advice to men than any other person I’ve seen on many years. I mean this sincerely.
the next man close to him is Hamza
Courtney you need to watch and react to the female African doctor who explains biologically why men aren't designed or wired to be monogamous.
Facts
Women aren't either....they are hypergamous. Men are more promiscuous. Monogomy was a sacrificial design by both sexes to have family units and raise children.
Courtney, I have a couple of quick thoughts about opposite sex friendships and advice.
About opposite sex friendships, normally one person feels "friendlier" than the other; i.e. one person wants more than the other is willing or able to give. Are they possible? Yes, but they're rare.
How do I handle it if a gal says she just wants to be friends? I look elsewhere! If I'm seeking a relationship and she's not, what's the point? To me, it would be like seeking marriage from someone who just wants to play the field. You've said in many of your videos that, for a relationship to really work long term, both the man and woman must share common values, common desires, and so on; IOW, do you both want the same things? For me, it's really as simple as that.
As for advice, I have one, major rule: whatever I'm seeking to do, is the person way better than I am? Have they achieved success in what I'm asking about? For example, if I seek investment advice, I consult my brother. Why? He's done well enough to live in a million dollar house-'nuff said! So, I think I'm in basic agreement with you; you said to seek someone's advice if their lives are what you want for yourself.
the brutally honest truth is no men cant be true friends with women unless they are physically not attracted to them or are gay. feelings will always get in the way regardless of time. the longer it goes on the harder it will be for the man to take being just a friend.