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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2022

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  • @renarouge5558
    @renarouge5558 Před rokem +10655

    What's wrong with these people? When we dress too little they call us sluts. When we dress modestly they call us grandmas etc.

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem +70

      Allah instructed His Messenger, Muhammad: "So remain steadfast as you have been commanded, O Prophet, along with those who have turned in submission to Allah with you. And do not overstep the bounds. Indeed, He is All-Seeing of what you believers do."
      Have a good day

    • @vikiselfcare6814
      @vikiselfcare6814 Před rokem +251

      ​@@ibrahimalharbi3358Please this is a Christian video please go and spread your islamic comment in a islamic video

    • @alexianeves
      @alexianeves Před rokem +187

      @@vikiselfcare6814that’s not what a believer should say to another brother.

    • @vikiselfcare6814
      @vikiselfcare6814 Před rokem +72

      @@alexianeves I dont mean in it in a offensive way.Thank you

    • @violetsynthesis8322
      @violetsynthesis8322 Před rokem +214

      @@vikiselfcare6814yeah, you did. I’m an atheist and this is why organized religion is terrible. You call yourself a Christian yet you so obviously hate people of Islamic faith while not understanding that both have the same fundamental principles.

  • @MysticOceanDollies
    @MysticOceanDollies Před rokem +6623

    Christians are supposed to dress modestly. What an odd remark.

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem +100

      Those who breach the First Commandment should not be surprised if they don't emphasize the importance of modesty.
      Muslim women do not compromise their faith for the sake of liberalism.

    • @MysticOceanDollies
      @MysticOceanDollies Před rokem +330

      @@ibrahimalharbi3358 I’m a bit puzzled. Christians don’t breach the first commandment, and if you are talking about the trinity, we still worship one God. I’ve also met Muslim men and women who have compromised parts of their faith for liberalism, this isn’t a problem that is exclusively Christian.

    • @farahomar1250
      @farahomar1250 Před rokem +68

      ​@@MysticOceanDollies هناك العديد من المسلمين للأسف يرتدون ملابس فاضحة وحجاب كاشف للشعر ليس مقتصر على المسيحية فقط هذا أمر مؤسف

    • @teshamiller6001
      @teshamiller6001 Před rokem

      @@MysticOceanDollies it isn’t “exclusively” Christian, of course not, but in the states, it’s majority Christians or people who don’t subscribe to any religion. Look how many celebrities claim Christianity and then show up on the red carpet literally half naked. Most of them are NOT Muslim. Lol. Most of the influencers we see scantily clad online are NOT Muslim women. Be real. Lol. Yes there are a few, but we’re talking about the majority.

    • @teshamiller6001
      @teshamiller6001 Před rokem +47

      @@MysticOceanDollies also, Christian’s regularly breach the 1st commandment. So many make money and fame the priority before god it’s unbelievable. Of course not all, but enough for it to be a major issue in the Christian community, whether you want to admit it or not.

  • @biscuit_honey7188
    @biscuit_honey7188 Před 11 měsíci +59

    “You’re Christian, you don’t need to dress modestly”
    *confused screaming*

  • @jennynyle89
    @jennynyle89 Před 10 měsíci +22

    "you're christian, why you need to dress modestly" that got me. Someone seems to be missing church lessons 😊

  • @spamzz._xqc
    @spamzz._xqc Před 11 měsíci +607

    Its sad that no matter how you dress people will always have something negative to say about it, if you show clevedge, thighs, or your stomach, you're "dressing for attention" or "asking for it" but if you dress modestly its "boring" or "old lady like" so at the end of the day dress however you like sadly we will always be judged for what we wear but in 100 years non of its gonna matter anyways!!! Btw you look gorgeous!!

    • @bernadette.kirwan
      @bernadette.kirwan  Před 11 měsíci +53

      I absolutely love and totally agree with this comment, you’re so right! 💯💯💯 And thank you so much 🙏🏼💕💚🥹

    • @Shield954
      @Shield954 Před 10 měsíci +8

      The sexist remarks made to women wearing clothes showing more skin is way worse. They're called every derogatory slur under the sun.

    • @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
      @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic Před 10 měsíci +6

      ​@@Shield954as they should be. Shouldn't be publicly showing your goods, disrespectful to married women.

    • @evilevilhorriblebad
      @evilevilhorriblebad Před 10 měsíci +16

      ​@@Sunnysidestoriesandmusicwhat's it like to be miserable

    • @harrietxo2310
      @harrietxo2310 Před 10 měsíci +13

      @@Sunnysidestoriesandmusichow does it feel to have rocks, sticks and sawdust where your brain is meant to be?

  • @warriorprincessforthemosth8945
    @warriorprincessforthemosth8945 Před 11 měsíci +6

    🤣🤣🤣. The “You’re Christian so you don’t have to dress modest” one cracked me up the most. Ayyyyeeee.

  • @sasousousa5071
    @sasousousa5071 Před 11 měsíci +317

    People always find a way to be disrespectful. You don't owe them a thing, the most important is that you feel good about yourself, your body and your choices. Don't let bitter people in your life.

  • @Ella007-
    @Ella007- Před 11 měsíci +9

    I am on the same journey . I am Muslim and wore my scarf when 13 and took it off in 2013. And the worst thing I heard was " you just want to take it off to wear tank tops". I took it off because I was pressured into wearing the hijab and needed to restart my journey by wearing modest clothes then hopefully one day wear the hijab again

  • @luisapinal3287
    @luisapinal3287 Před rokem +615

    The top is so cute, love the colour

  • @wordnado9788
    @wordnado9788 Před 11 měsíci +851

    It’s not bad to be asked. Unfortunately I knew a few folks whose boyfriends had them wear baggy clothes so they didn’t “tempt men.” Doing it for yourself is one thing but when someone pushes you to do it it can feel icky.

    • @abjectmadness1111
      @abjectmadness1111 Před 11 měsíci +144

      I’ll never get men who think they’re entitled to “not being tempted” like bro go pray 💀

    • @user-ug5uz9zg8z
      @user-ug5uz9zg8z Před 11 měsíci

      I hate that. If the only thing stopping you from assaulting a woman is that you can't currently see her tits, you need help lmao

    • @wordnado9788
      @wordnado9788 Před 11 měsíci +17

      @@abjectmadness1111 lol love your response

    • @gowlerphoto
      @gowlerphoto Před 11 měsíci +48

      When I was 18 years old, I had picked out an outfit to wear to a music festival. Shorts and a cute shirt. My boyfriend was like "Dont wear that. All the dudes will be looking at you." So, I bought a different cute outfit, but with jeans. It ended up being an unseasonably hot day. I was so pissed that I listened to him. I get it. He wasnt a big guy and didnt want to have to defend men if someone did do something, but it was a real turn off. We broke up the following year, and I married a Marine.

    • @wordnado9788
      @wordnado9788 Před 11 měsíci

      @@gowlerphoto how long have you been married? I hear about military men “misbehaving”. Thoughts?

  • @Sarah-tj1tq
    @Sarah-tj1tq Před 11 měsíci +6

    My favorite was when a guy said I looked like a nun 😂

  • @ilevel007
    @ilevel007 Před 11 měsíci +171

    Your look is awesome. As a woman, i love long and flowy. You can still feel feminine and sexy in modest fashions. And you can also move freely without fear of wardrobe malfunctions 😂

  • @enderf-r1722
    @enderf-r1722 Před 11 měsíci +655

    You do you, boo. I don't know your reasons for this, but if it makes you happy and no one is hurt, love yourself however works!

    • @The_Devil_Child
      @The_Devil_Child Před 11 měsíci +14

      Honestly dress how ever! What ever makes you happy❤

    • @urfavleo07
      @urfavleo07 Před 11 měsíci +3

      frfr

    • @ArtisticAbee
      @ArtisticAbee Před 3 měsíci +3

      We are dressing because our Lord tells us too😊 he died for us because we disobeyed the one rule he had for us, so we are doing what he says so we don’t perish for eternity

  • @knightwoman6595
    @knightwoman6595 Před 11 měsíci +30

    I get compliments that I look like a princess whenever I wear my cottagecore flowy dresses

    • @drilonkennedy-gorne2049
      @drilonkennedy-gorne2049 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Where so you buy flowy cottagecore dresses? I've been scouring the city for some!!

  • @rachaellynde9463
    @rachaellynde9463 Před 11 měsíci +660

    You should not be shamed for what you choose to do with your body, but women who choose not to dress “modestly” should also be given that courtesy.

    • @person6768
      @person6768 Před 11 měsíci +1

      No you should definitely be shamed for things you do with your body but not this. You should be shamed for looking like a ho, for doing the do out of wedlock, for child sacrifice, and for all bad behavior. Life is so backwards the line, woe to those who call evil good and good evil is under utilized. There are standards, there is good and there is evil and just because people seer there minds on a lit of the concepts doesn't suddenly make what's wrong ok.

    • @gracefulhealer935
      @gracefulhealer935 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Yes you should be shamed

    • @rachaellynde9463
      @rachaellynde9463 Před 11 měsíci +62

      @@gracefulhealer935 You should be ashamed of having such an opinion. 😘

    • @revelove4eva
      @revelove4eva Před 11 měsíci +23

      True! And she shouldn't be a called a "grandma" either. Women should wear what they like without being shamed for it.

    • @lillimay5
      @lillimay5 Před 11 měsíci +18

      @@rachaellynde9463 on behalf of Christian’s and the actual Bible I apologize for people like this. They got religion not Jesus.

  • @charlotteleise
    @charlotteleise Před 11 měsíci +55

    I couldn’t do this cus i’d sweat my ass off but honestly good for u I love love love seeing people dress freely how they want💕

    • @ducklingscap897
      @ducklingscap897 Před 11 měsíci +12

      If you choose the right clothes then long light clothes are usually way cooler in summer than shorts and a top. The sun doesn’t heat up your skin directly but it only heats up the outer layer of your clothing and you still stay “cool” (I mean as cool as you can be if the air is 35 degrees hot, modest clothing is not a magic refrigerator).
      Ever since I discovered that I only wear thin long sleeved light colored jackets and long maxi skirts in summer. It’s so much more comfortable.

    • @charlotteleise
      @charlotteleise Před 11 měsíci +8

      @@ducklingscap897 yea I can totally imagine that! A nice flowy maxi skirt would be really cooling and nice

  • @tatiannaarce
    @tatiannaarce Před rokem +687

    As a Pentecostal Christian who expresses myself through fashion let me tell you I get more compliments dressing modest in my long skirts and dresses then I did when I used to be provocative half naked at the clubs

    • @shaysworld1701
      @shaysworld1701 Před rokem +46

      Same here. I get stopped all the time with compliments, and people be very respectful in gen. I love it so much more now, and I don't feel awkward or uncomfortable wearing clothes that are too short or tight or revealing

    • @bazinkaa
      @bazinkaa Před rokem +24

      God Bless you!! I’m glad that God showed you the way, and this is my first time seeing another Pentecostal Christian on CZcams!! God bless you and always pray in tongues

    • @farahomar1250
      @farahomar1250 Před rokem +2

      لماذا تلبسون ملابس كاشفة أو عارية هذا يجعلكم عرضة للمضايقات وهذا ايضا يجعل الناس تتمعن فى جسدكم

    • @bazinkaa
      @bazinkaa Před rokem +23

      @@farahomar1250??? She said that she thinks it’s better to wear less revealing clothing. You are wrong

    • @farahomar1250
      @farahomar1250 Před rokem +11

      @@bazinkaa اوه أنا اسفة لقد قرأت خطأ اسفة حقا

  • @chrissynessrussell2467
    @chrissynessrussell2467 Před 11 měsíci +5

    For those of us that dress modestly and are Christians, thank you!! It is so hard to find clothes that are flattering but not revealing. Do you do any business attire?

  • @drjones6567
    @drjones6567 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I'm so against showing everything. Modesty is respecting yourself.

    • @Maplebear1203
      @Maplebear1203 Před 11 měsíci +6

      I don't think how little or how much fabric you wear determines your self respect especially considering how much clothing people wear can change literally depending on the weather I'm sorry but I'm not going to be wearing jeans and a long sleeve top in 110° weather

    • @drjones6567
      @drjones6567 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@Maplebear1203yeah I didn't define what I thought was modest. But whatever. Letting everything hang out is not respectful of yourself.

    • @internetperson3926
      @internetperson3926 Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@drjones6567respecting yourself is wearing what you want to wear regardless of what other people think of you.

    • @drjones6567
      @drjones6567 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@internetperson3926 wrong.

    • @afckingegg7585
      @afckingegg7585 Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@drjones6567how does it feel to have to hide the fact you don't have a personality by being judgemental about how much clothing others wear?

  • @besha8069
    @besha8069 Před 10 měsíci +13

    I strongly believe that dressing modestly is a form of self respect. I teach my girls this as well. Love the outfit!

  • @shania9305
    @shania9305 Před rokem +56

    Celtic and Arab?!? Beautiful absolutely amazing ❤

    • @MsSimpleMovies
      @MsSimpleMovies Před 11 měsíci +8

      My boys are Egyptian (from me) and Anglo, including one third Scottish. 😊

  • @ShavonJames-cm3mh
    @ShavonJames-cm3mh Před 11 měsíci +6

    Yesss a woman who respects her body you go girl keep it covered ❤

  • @breakdown4o148
    @breakdown4o148 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Fashion is almost always a choice and you should wear it however you want. Sometimes I don’t understand how people don’t get that. Fashion is for the person wearing it to feel good in their own skin

  • @Rose-cq8gg
    @Rose-cq8gg Před 11 měsíci +9

    Western society is sick to the point they can't understand why a woman choose to wear clothes, love what your doing ❤

    • @internetperson3926
      @internetperson3926 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Or people can just do and wear what they want like this woman is doing

  • @KatherineRickards
    @KatherineRickards Před rokem +36

    You look beautiful, and don't let anyone ever make you think otherwise

  • @elizeviktoria
    @elizeviktoria Před rokem +12

    My little sister sometimes tells me "you look like a grandma", to which I respond "a cute grandma😌".

  • @ashleydodd9145
    @ashleydodd9145 Před 11 měsíci +236

    I'm convinced that no one actually told these people these things and they just make them up in their head.

    • @astriddeslandes2373
      @astriddeslandes2373 Před 11 měsíci +16

      My thoughts exactly! Only meant to promote one's beliefs / lifestyle.

    • @donnafiegel6770
      @donnafiegel6770 Před 11 měsíci +51

      @@astriddeslandes2373actually no❤everywhere ppl will say weird stuff bc your modest

    • @kpapi2454
      @kpapi2454 Před 11 měsíci +25

      I wouldn't put it past people. People are weird and say out of pocket shit these days.

    • @afckingegg7585
      @afckingegg7585 Před 11 měsíci +21

      Yeah it's fake, I dress "modestly" like half the time and I've never heard anything beyond "I like your outfit".

    • @Poopydiapergremlin1
      @Poopydiapergremlin1 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@afckingegg7585...That's your experience, dawg what..

  • @sacredweeds
    @sacredweeds Před 11 měsíci +106

    Honestly I appreciate cultures that understand that even fully naked is NOT provocative.
    Dress whatever way makes you feel your best and boo to the naysayers on both ends.

    • @abjectmadness1111
      @abjectmadness1111 Před 11 měsíci +12

      LITERALLY. Bodies aren’t sexual!

    • @jessicab5448
      @jessicab5448 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Honestly we live in this world , where the body has become very sexualized. There is very few cultures left if any that don't view being naked sexual. And even then, we don't know what abuses go in in those communities.

    • @marias6583
      @marias6583 Před 10 měsíci +17

      @@jessicab5448I believe in covering up but that doesn’t mean that I sexualize the body. Preaching modesty is not only about sexual things but anti-Christian people like to twist it like that to make Christians look bad. Just because the body is natural doesn’t mean it should be shoved in other peoples’ face. Your body is personal to you and not everyone’s business.

    • @sacredweeds
      @sacredweeds Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@jessicab5448 when I went to visit Papua the traditional dress is very minimal. The men wear a long gourd over their pênïs the women wear grass skirts under their bums. Anyway I was at the local shower taking a shower, literally a waterfall with a 1x20x8’ rock separating the men’s side from the women side, a guy on the men’s side forgot his soap. I’ll never forget how apologetic and embarrassed he was covering his pênïs with his hand, not his testicles, apologizing the whole way as he scooted over to get his soap.
      The moral? Even though the only thing his culture thinks needs to be covered is their pênïs they are a very modest group.

    • @aliyahrhodes6041
      @aliyahrhodes6041 Před 10 měsíci

      @@marias6583your hands are personal to you yet you don’t have them covered up and you shove them in everyone’s faces. You need to realize that Christianity preaches modesty in women because not doing so will “tempt men” which fucks up their plan of purity. Women’s body parts are pieces of art whether they’re displayed in a museum for everyone to see or locked in a safe in someone’s house, the art being covered up or not does not make it lose its value or lower how much respect it deserves. Women simply existing being comfortable in their own skin does not equate to them shoving it in your face.

  • @ventislyre5092
    @ventislyre5092 Před 11 měsíci +17

    These are fuckin' hilarious! The best answer to all of them is "who cares" lol 🤣

  • @ayaaymankhttab
    @ayaaymankhttab Před rokem +21

    Keep wearing modestly cuz you look beautiful it suits you❤❤

  • @Sabrina_Creates
    @Sabrina_Creates Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love that you dress modest! Thank you! It helps me to not feel alone:)

  • @paulkitchen1300
    @paulkitchen1300 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Modest is self-respecting and classy. Classy is better than cheap and easy any day, all day.

  • @foreverdolls33
    @foreverdolls33 Před rokem +239

    I think dressing modestly as a Christian is a beautiful and wonderful thing. I usually find the most rude comments come from women. Real men are usually admiring or complimenting how I dress. Keep dressing modestly because people respect those who respect the body God gave them.

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem

      Thank you for your comment. Muslim women do not compromise their faith for the sake of liberalism.
      To be honest with you, I am not surprised that Christians compromise their faith for liberalism and the LGBT agenda, as their beliefs are not based on reason or rational thinking

    • @farahomar1250
      @farahomar1250 Před rokem

      أنا مسلمة واتفق مع كلامك

    • @anastasiamartinez5862
      @anastasiamartinez5862 Před rokem +8

      Yes! I was dressed like I was in the 1960s at the store the other day and very covered up, and a guy said he loved my outfit :)

    • @TheSarahskaninchen
      @TheSarahskaninchen Před 11 měsíci +33

      People should respect all people, No Matter the clothes 🙏

    • @ishitapandey2037
      @ishitapandey2037 Před 11 měsíci +24

      But we came naked, human's didn't dress for few thousand years of our origin. Stop putting people who don't believe this down.

  • @ninaahs_lolo
    @ninaahs_lolo Před rokem +6

    1 Timothy 1-3 in the Bible explains why you should wear modest clothes

  • @kaitymarie8358
    @kaitymarie8358 Před 11 měsíci +16

    We should just dress in what makes us feel comfortable! If you like what you wear then I am happy for you! We should never dress for the approval of others but to make ourselves comfortable and happy wether “modest” or not 😊

  • @someoneontheinternet16
    @someoneontheinternet16 Před 11 měsíci +33

    You do you girl, as long as you dont push it on people or judge others for dressing their way that's awesome. I really like your sweater!

  • @vineyard3273
    @vineyard3273 Před rokem +6

    The best fashion is modest fashion ❤

    • @minnowartscrafts
      @minnowartscrafts Před 11 měsíci +7

      Fashion is subjective. That's the point. There's nothing wrong with dressing modestly, but there isn't one "best" way to dress.

    • @vineyard3273
      @vineyard3273 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@minnowartscrafts It's the best for me tho. If you think otherwise that's a you problem 🥰

    • @pastelmoon1966
      @pastelmoon1966 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@vineyard3273that was literally their point. It’s subjective. So to YOU its the best type of fashion but to someone else it may not be. Which is why they said it’s subjective.

  • @muslimah42
    @muslimah42 Před rokem +5

    My muslim self feels all of these

  • @Texas-yeehaw
    @Texas-yeehaw Před 11 měsíci +1

    As a Muslim revert I RELATE TO THIS HEAVY.
    we can't forget the "but aren't you soooo hot??"

  • @JesusLovesEVERYTHING
    @JesusLovesEVERYTHING Před 11 měsíci +1

    I've been called grandma as well by my own family in my age group.. But i make it cute and it never stops any man from trying to cuff lol it was a best decision ive ever made and it makes me more creative trying to figure out ways to make my outfit look cuter. Holy Spirit told me to wear what i want but to keep it modest and i was like, "i can do that." Lol He told me that when i was going off the deep end and started dressing frumpy because I had been through stuff and was trying to cope but im happier and it was very healing for God to give me this word

  • @Mikaeeee_
    @Mikaeeee_ Před rokem +7

    Christian’s actually encourage modesty so whoever said that should take it back..
    (I’m Muslim I just know a bit about other religions)

  • @seashelle73
    @seashelle73 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I believe in this current society it’s more important than ever for Christians to dress modestly. Modest never means dowdy or unfashionable! People are weird😂

  • @blossom_ink
    @blossom_ink Před 11 měsíci +3

    I saw someone say you're losing your culture because of modesty and how they feel bad for you 😂😂 Yeah cuz sticking to your culture just HAS to mean wearing less 🤦‍♀️

    • @Maplebear1203
      @Maplebear1203 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I mean some cultures traditional dress can be considered non-modest to people outside of that culture

  • @kaytlindanielson4445
    @kaytlindanielson4445 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I've been dressing modestly ever for the past year and it makes me feel so safe and comfy. It's the only way I can leave the house.

  • @valsett3385
    @valsett3385 Před 11 měsíci +9

    It’s okay as long as you don’t put down other women

  • @jeasterbunny
    @jeasterbunny Před 11 měsíci +4

    I dress modestly when I’m not attempting to because I simply just do not like to accidentally brush up against people when I leave the house

  • @elliewellie_YouTube
    @elliewellie_YouTube Před 11 měsíci +2

    I think some of these comments are defensive from women who have been shamed into modesty. I am immodest and proud. You do you. Nothing wrong with a fashion choice.

  • @Collectivevibe
    @Collectivevibe Před 11 měsíci +8

    Sometimes I just want to be half naked sometimes I want to look like a boy sometimes I want to be covered up
    Why can’t we wear what we want. I always say
    I didn’t ask for your opinion

  • @ArtisticAbee
    @ArtisticAbee Před rokem +8

    Modesty was never a thing. Women in biblical times covered their entire bodies. 2023 and modern fashion causes us to dress showing off way too much skin. Stay holy girls❤❤

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem

      Thank you for your comment. Muslim women do not compromise their faith for the sake of liberalism.
      To be honest with you, I am not surprised that Christians compromise their faith for liberalism and the LGBT agenda, as their beliefs are not based on reason or rational thinking
      For instance, the concept of the Trinity.
      from bible:
      God cannot die vs Jesus died(1 corinthians 15-3)
      Jesus was and is a man. vs God is not a man Numbers (23:19)

    • @whizkeysh0t
      @whizkeysh0t Před 11 měsíci +10

      nuh uh. it's never too much skin. don't complain about being shamed then shame.

  • @Mikaela777
    @Mikaela777 Před rokem +117

    We are Christian and dress modest and feminine! All Christians really should be dressing modest, it is a sad commentary that most do not know that, but the Holy Spirit will get a hold of their hearts if they die to self daily! Stay positive, humble and modest for The Savior!

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem +4

      Thank you for your humility. As a Muslim, I empathize with my wife as she endures comments from those who claim to be truly following Jesus when in reality, they are only pursuing their own interests.
      "So if they fail to respond to you, then know that they only follow their desires. And who could be more astray than those who follow their desires with no guidance from Allah? Surely Allah does not guide the wrongdoing people.

    • @neonloneliness1
      @neonloneliness1 Před 11 měsíci +36

      "all christians should be dressing modestly" how about all christians should be minding their own business and not judging others for how they dress?

    • @drilonkennedy-gorne2049
      @drilonkennedy-gorne2049 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Wait why does Jesus care what we wear? Isn't that super mysoginistic? If dressing with what we feel good in is a sin, what power do we have over own bodies?

    • @clearlynotchloe
      @clearlynotchloe Před 11 měsíci +9

      i hope you keep being judged the way you judge others ❤

    • @LovedLamb
      @LovedLamb Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@neonloneliness1💯 cuz Jesus cares more how you treat others than how we dress.

  • @stephsteph4503
    @stephsteph4503 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I think dressing modestly is great! I'm always comfy, it's like dressing in blankets!

  • @serendipity.mp3
    @serendipity.mp3 Před 11 měsíci +3

    But yet it's this same people who call us sluts or too provocative if we wear short stuff.
    Face it.. You can't please human beings so do whatever the f you want.

  • @iamURHO
    @iamURHO Před rokem +44

    Modest is rare! ❤

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem

      Muslim women do not compromise their faith for the sake of liberalism. Muslims have almost two billion
      "It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter. Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray."
      Muslim women experience true freedom when they willingly submit to Allah, not their husbands, as some may believe. contrary to what some may think. On the other hand, exposing their beauty for all to see does not represent freedom, but instead, a form of enslavement.

    • @akazaynab
      @akazaynab Před 11 měsíci +5

      Not in Islam, it's very common and encouraged

    • @donnafiegel6770
      @donnafiegel6770 Před 11 měsíci

      @@akazaynabSame in Christianity❤❤❤

    • @spreadIslamicmessage
      @spreadIslamicmessage Před 11 měsíci +1

      ⁠@@donnafiegel6770 Unfortunately, in modern Christianity, the churches are saying that certain things that were previously prohibited are now okay to do in order to gain more followers. I’ve seen some Christians sick of this stupidity, and I feel so bad. For the Christians following what Allah sent down (we both believe in the same God! just minus Jesus/Isa AS), may Allah guide them to Islam. Ameen.

  • @lovecore3828
    @lovecore3828 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Having self respect and respect for other is key. Nothing wrong with that and I think it says about that person!

  • @thetalungbarrow325
    @thetalungbarrow325 Před 11 měsíci

    I’ve just been rocking the “Tom-boy” my whole 34 years, and the right Man STILL found me🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

  • @lahelshams2639
    @lahelshams2639 Před 28 dny +2

    I'm muslim and your videos inspires me😊❤

  • @i.s.9451
    @i.s.9451 Před 11 měsíci +3

    As a person who has been modist all my life, can't relate. No one has commented on my clothing like this. Everyone (even my LGBTQ+ friends) respect my manner of dress and 0 tolerance of cussing. They're very respectful and it's sweet. Sorry you get criticism. It's odd that people will do that. I was cat-called in a long sleeve shirt at 12 though. So some people just don't have boundaries.

    • @drilonkennedy-gorne2049
      @drilonkennedy-gorne2049 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Oof I'm sorry you've been catcalled so young despite your best efforts. It goes to show that it really doesn't matter what you wear, you'll get comments (or worse). Your friends sound cool, and I hope you feel safe, confident, and beautiful/handsome/whatever term you prefer in your current style!!❤

  • @JessicaN555
    @JessicaN555 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I've always dressed modestly and get the grandma one a lot lol. Or "let the girls out!" 😂 I simply don't want to, but don't care if others do!

    • @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
      @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic Před 10 měsíci

      You don't care if women publicly display their breasts in front of married men?? Ick

  • @lyna7614
    @lyna7614 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Showing skin is empowering to some women, modesty is for others.
    can we stop judgikg her and apreciate how gorgeous she looks

  • @pnwlady
    @pnwlady Před 11 měsíci +1

    Modest dress feels respectful of myself and others. Sometimes I like my short shorts. 😂

  • @cookiemonsterhijabi
    @cookiemonsterhijabi Před rokem +43

    It’s Like the same thing for hijab is they say out father fources us which is not true

    • @vaw796
      @vaw796 Před rokem

      Ok then, why are children wearing a hijab? Their parents tell them it must be done. If you said no to your hijab let's see what you post about your parents reaction. You are forced by religious indoctrination from a child, if you questioned it and refused to wear it, THEN you know how you'd be treated. Oh yes, the hadith of poor Sauda trying to relieve herself and pervy Umar follwed her and dictated Muhammad tell his wives to cover up shows it is not about anything religious. Sauda couldn't even do something private without a nasty man spying on her. You live in your brainwashed version.

    • @aminaadarmohamed2053
      @aminaadarmohamed2053 Před rokem +3

      Yes Allah brought down the revelation to [Muhammed peace be upon him]

    • @SiminaDar
      @SiminaDar Před rokem +5

      I have the distinct pleasure of retorting with the fact that I'm a revert and my father wasn't even Muslim.

    • @louie_me
      @louie_me Před rokem +3

      ​@@jayden.wright and some country banned women to choose their clothes

    • @DJG184
      @DJG184 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Hijab is going overboard. If you wear it, you do not appear human.

  • @gigioz74
    @gigioz74 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Modesty is a virtue that shows self respect.

  • @NewLifeMinistry_
    @NewLifeMinistry_ Před 5 měsíci

    I love modest fashion, it’s so easy to look “good” with showing off our body but takes creativity and style to still look beautiful covered up modestly. It’s beautiful and your style is awesome 👏

  • @spikesecho724
    @spikesecho724 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Using the term modest pertaining to ones wardrobe makes me wildly uncomfortable....I don't think it should ever be used to describe how a woman styles herself (makeup, clothes, etc). I think it is detrimental to women

  • @hellfaerie
    @hellfaerie Před 11 měsíci +5

    When the Bible tells us women to dress modestly, it isn’t referring to how much you’re covering or showing, but rather refers to decorating yourself in expensive things that hold material value. The Lord does not care how much we show or hide, and all women deserve to be respected for dressing how they like

    • @taxat10n1sth3ft
      @taxat10n1sth3ft Před 11 měsíci +3

      Read Jeremiah. God says that the exposure of what should be hidden under skirts is shameful.

    • @marias6583
      @marias6583 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Yes but it also says to dress appropriately

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 Před 10 měsíci +4

      It means both. You can't dress like a hoochie if you're a practicing Christian. That's a no, no. Our bodies are a temple and are not meant to be shared with everyone. Only between your spouse and the Lord.

    • @serenity2010sh
      @serenity2010sh Před 10 měsíci

      Only your husband and is worthy of seeing your breast and naked body. So yes it dose matter what women allow the world to see.

  • @brigittejoan7139
    @brigittejoan7139 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I started dressing modestly late in life and wish I had done so sooner. Going on near two years....two summers without sunburns is the first big plus!!

    • @afckingegg7585
      @afckingegg7585 Před 11 měsíci

      Literally just wear sunscreen lol??? How stupid do you have to be

  • @boyinblue.
    @boyinblue. Před 11 měsíci +1

    Not a Christian, but someone who loves old fashion. I own floor-length skirts that I wear in public on occasion. People will stare me down to the point where I panic. I'm not someone who dresses modest regularly, and I don't think I could with the amount of attention it gets me.

  • @audreybiggs4388
    @audreybiggs4388 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Why does western culture think keeping things private is a bad thing. Freedom is not always blatant exposure.

  • @FabChicModest
    @FabChicModest Před rokem +31

    Modesty is beautiful!

  • @KinnyWhoo
    @KinnyWhoo Před 11 měsíci +4

    I’m a fellow Christian and I just found your channel! I always see fashion channels but they never make modest clothes, so it’s nice to have some modest CZcamsrs!

    • @ragnarroo5784
      @ragnarroo5784 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes! I struggle with trying to look cute or put together but still be modest.

  • @Codiscreams
    @Codiscreams Před 11 měsíci +1

    LET PEOPLE DRESS HOW THEY WANT. I’m not that modest usually but grandma clothes are CUTE

  • @Emerald_Lonis
    @Emerald_Lonis Před 10 měsíci +1

    It’s Biblical to dress modestly. That is what God has written for us and I’m glad that you are doing so ❤

  • @chlobosoup6940
    @chlobosoup6940 Před 11 měsíci +6

    modest fashion is underrated it doesn’t have to be anything deeper than i wanna wear these clothes and not those ones

  • @darthvader0107
    @darthvader0107 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I’ve always been modest, and I’m even wearing a white cardigan over my wedding dress. I’m more comfortable with just my future husband looking at me than everyone else. It’s my prerogative what I show to the world.

  • @Freepalestinesos
    @Freepalestinesos Před 6 měsíci +1

    As a muslim teen girl. Mad respect for you 🫶. Sending love from Australia 🫶🇦🇺

  • @katrabbit
    @katrabbit Před 11 měsíci +1

    I've gone back and forth between modest dressing and dressing to show my body my entire life and not one person has ever asked me why or made any nasty remarks thankfully.
    I'm not sure where you're getting these hateful comments, but I'd just ignore them and go about my day because a strangers comments mean NOTHING. Like less than nothing. They aren't even on the radar.
    That's what I find SO silly about people on public comments 😂 They don't matter. But it's a feeling of superiority.
    Even I know the comment I'm making right now is going to go unnoticed, because it doesn't matter!!
    That's the beauty of it as well 😂

  • @CatsAndClassicalMusic
    @CatsAndClassicalMusic Před rokem +4

    (I’m a Christian) personally the reason I dress modestly is because it makes me uncomfortable to wear crop tops/super short shorts/etc, and also because I know that even if I did God doesn’t even see my sin because all He sees is the blood of Jesus. When you’re under the law, you sin more and when you’re under freedom, you sin a lot less (automatically, not as an effort).

  • @YouTubes_NPC
    @YouTubes_NPC Před 11 měsíci +8

    I started my hijab and modesty journey a year go, midyear during my time at a new school. My sister and I got called called grandmas for the scarf and the loose/modest clothes we were. I went off on the dude who said that lol. I'm honestly so glad I did it because dressing with more revealing clothing always made me so insecure. I'm so glad others are recognizing the beauty of modesty too. It's refreshing to see after everyone saying dressing too little is 'empowering'.

    • @sacredweeds
      @sacredweeds Před 11 měsíci +2

      I’m sorry our cultures don’t respect women more.

  • @cziegle3794
    @cziegle3794 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Modest-
    Adjective
    Latin/French(?)
    Definition-
    "dressing or behaving so as to avoid impropriety or indecency, especially to avoid attracting sexual attention (typically used of a woman).
    "the modest women wear long-sleeved dresses and all but cover their faces"
    (of clothing) not revealing or emphasizing the figure.
    "modest dress means that hemlines must be below the knee"
    Note - I wear shorts at times, so I don't agree that women have to wear shorts below the knee. But that's my personal opinion. Do I wear capris and skirts and dresses below the knee? Yes. But I also wear shorts and dresses with hems above the knee at home or in the yard or to leave the house - when I want to, or when it's the only clothing I have available. I don't necessarily like to, but if needed, then that's my choice. It doesn't always matter in my life. I wasn't convicted to wear modest clothing like some Christian women are. I wear long skirts and dresses because that's how I'm comfortable.
    It's not anyone else's business how or why you dress the way you do.

  • @Josieisnotmyname
    @Josieisnotmyname Před 11 měsíci +1

    The thing is you can dress however you want, modest or provocative, as long as you aren’t policing what people wear it’s ok.

  • @arronz5325
    @arronz5325 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Anybody who wants to dress modestly, should❤
    Anybody who doesn’t, shouldn’t ❤

  • @MrsBonsu
    @MrsBonsu Před rokem +21

    Thank you for reminding Christians that God also has called us to be holy in apparel.

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem

      Thank you for your comment.
      Christians do not forget what God wants; as you assume but they sold out Christians for liberalism and the LGBT agenda, as their beliefs are not based on reason or rational thinking
      Muslim women do not compromise their faith for the sake of liberalism.

  • @Puppies-z9h
    @Puppies-z9h Před 11 měsíci +1

    A couple of translations for you:
    1) "You couldn't possibly have thought for yourself and come to a different conclusion about modesty than I, a feminist, have."
    2) "Wah! Give me visual access to your body! Wah!"

  • @GodsDaughterQ
    @GodsDaughterQ Před 11 měsíci +2

    Purity culture makes us believe that dressing modestly is the capstone of womanhood. Sigh. Modesty is a requirement but doesn’t and shouldn’t define us.

  • @miss42310
    @miss42310 Před rokem +22

    I swear what's with the grandma or even aunt comment! Why can people just wear whatever

  • @someone3195
    @someone3195 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Oh, that sounds cool. It's a shame that most ppl who promote modest clothing do so out of superiority complex or slt-shaming.
    But I think, when wanted for the right reasons, modest clothing is a needed diversity. I don't find very tight or revealing clothing to be attractive at all, and think there is more ground for creativity in "covered up" clothing.
    Maybe the term "modest" should also be changed to smth else.

    • @bernadette.kirwan
      @bernadette.kirwan  Před 11 měsíci +8

      Do you know I’ve often considered not referencing it as modest and just simply showing my outfits, out of concern that people are assuming I think it’s, as you put it, “superior”. Which I definitely don’t, but I do keep that in mind 💚

    • @someone3195
      @someone3195 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@bernadette.kirwan That's even cooler :)
      I like your style🌟

    • @bernadette.kirwan
      @bernadette.kirwan  Před 11 měsíci

      @@someone3195 aww thank you so much 🙏🏼💚

  • @beththegreen
    @beththegreen Před 11 měsíci +1

    As someone who dresses both in men's XXL baggy modest clothing, and in some pretty punk less modest stuff, andbwho supports women and men wearing as immodest or modest stuff as they want,this is bullshit
    People can dress however they want!!! It's okay if you personally don't want to dress a certain way, but don't judge others for their decisions on how they dress! It doesn't affect you!
    If you dress modestly, that's great! Don't judge or insult people who don't! If you don't dress so modest- that's great! Don't judge people who do!!
    Life is so much better when you dress how you want, and support others dressing how they want without judgement too!!

  • @smittysmeee
    @smittysmeee Před 11 měsíci

    "So you're Amish now?" is my personal fave.

  • @roxannagulhan8988
    @roxannagulhan8988 Před rokem +3

    Ohhh yesss and the question; don't you wish to show more skin? Like NO! We do not want to look like the unbelievers in this world! May God Bless your modesty journey! I am so proud of everybody who is trying!

  • @goreysins
    @goreysins Před rokem +16

    YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW ANNOYING IT GETS! When I dress modestly people think I’m trying be white….I’m sorry but I love feeling adorable from fall-spring but will be a full blown hermit with 65 degree ac in the summer

  • @amshyllsekhmet6631
    @amshyllsekhmet6631 Před 11 měsíci +1

    lol I remember when I started covering up a bit more, my husband thought I was depressed and kept asking me if I was okay and why I don't wear my cloths anymore. I had explain to him why I changed things up a bit and give him a hug to reassure him that I was okay. he even asked if I was going to postpartum lol.

  • @puredust5797
    @puredust5797 Před 11 měsíci +2

    We need more modesty these days. Alottt more

  • @gracewaceke4416
    @gracewaceke4416 Před rokem +6

    You're Christian so you don't have to dress modestly?!!!
    I'm at loss!!

  • @amrygalaxy7139
    @amrygalaxy7139 Před rokem +3

    Starting my journey too!! Stay strong

    • @ibrahimalharbi3358
      @ibrahimalharbi3358 Před rokem

      This is great. be like women Muslims who are almost 1 billion, dress modestly.
      Their faith supports them because is based on reason and rational thinking.

  • @amkii2
    @amkii2 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love when people say 'but you have such a nice body, why cover it up?' or 'your baggy clothes make you look heavier.' Loooove that. Thanks. How about we stop objectifying or caring about what a person's body looks like? Maybe I just feel most comfortable not showing you my shape, no matter what it looks like? Fuuuuck.

  • @TazHall
    @TazHall Před 5 měsíci

    I personally love the sweater, headband and earrings you're wearing. Your outfit brings attention to your hair and beautiful face.

  • @brokenbutworthy308
    @brokenbutworthy308 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I think one of the most empowering things as a woman this day in age, is dressing modestly and knowing you're valued without having to show your goods to every body and their mother ❤

    • @lorelange
      @lorelange Před 11 měsíci +4

      "the most empowering things as a woman this day in age", really???...lol

    • @afckingegg7585
      @afckingegg7585 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I dress for myself without worrying about being "valued"

  • @CATsissta
    @CATsissta Před 11 měsíci +6

    people in the same breath: “youre showing too much skin”

  • @nwrsgirl
    @nwrsgirl Před 11 měsíci +1

    as a muslim, I can relate! its always fine when a girl goes out half naked because its "her body her choice" but when I wanna cover up all of a sudden I'm "oppressed"

  • @mikaylakooper
    @mikaylakooper Před 7 měsíci

    Modesty is important and beautiful! It glorifies the Lord. May God bless you girl!