HOLY GIRL DIARIES: let's go shopping
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- HOLY GIRL DIARIES: let’s go shopping
Hi friends! I hope this video helps you on with dressing modestly, dressing cute and classy as a christian girl in this day and age! I love y’all SO much. Xoxo Ash
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0:00 welcome
0:38 let's talk modesty
0:41 what does the bible say about modesty?
1:36 my story with modesty
4:08 inner beauty vs outward appearance
5:24 is it wrong to shop?
6:43 modest outfits pinterest
7:02 modest outfits that are fashionable
7:44 let's go to the mall
8:28 try on
9:28 are crop tops okay?
10:25 clothing haul
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hi friends i hope you enjoy this video 🎀🤍🎀 what was your fav fit?! love y’all sm!
I loved the cargo pants! So cute!
Definitely the outfit with the green cargoes! It’s so cute!
Where was the bikini
The Levi's and black top are so cute!
Thank you for this video! More people need to talk about this topic more. I’m in high school and most people think it’s odd I dress modest but it’s what I feel comfortable with plus I say it’s what God calls us woman to do! I’m in a junior in high school, and this topic means a lot to me. This year the juniors are hosting prom which I’m so happy about it’s going to be at the aquarium! Me and my family for the past two days went prom shopping the first day I did not find anything and the 2nd day I did! ❤ which was good. It took me forever because I made it clear that I wanted to be modest. My mom wanted me to wear this one dresss I tried it on for her but I felt not feel comfortable and my feelings are saying I look good and yes, I may look good in some of the dresses, but I never want someone to say well then lucky plus I would like to be modest. That’s what I feel comfortable. That’s why I went every time we went to with Dress shop I said no no no so many times because I want to be modest and glorify God it is what I try to do every day. The last shop we went to was wonderful because we went to a great place and the owners where Christian so good nice to know that my opinion mattered. Which was nice! God calls of us to be different from this world! Nan’s I may be different than all of my friend and that’s okay becusse I believe it’s truly important! And God loves me and that matters! ❤❤ don’t listen to people make fun of you for being modest, I don’t who care have confidence! In your self!❤❤
Ask yourself, "Would I wear this in front of Jesus?" I always do this
i need to remind myself of this..
OOOH, yes. so good!
Yes so true, I think this also
I like this
Yes
Love this verse: "Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised."
Proverbs 31:30
love love love 💖
Ikr I’ve seen this verse 3 times today 😁🙏
@@ashleyhetherington_ very nice video fam, and your style of dress is modest and chic you look good. It's very refreshing to see a woman who is dressed modest and does not have her goods exposed for all to see. I tell my females friends that sexual attention from a male does not mean long term attention. Anyway, much respect to you sis, keep dressing for the LORD.
"just because you look good in it, doesn't mean you should wear it."👌🔥
ooooof. 💖
Personally we should be comfortable in our own skin. But we need wise decision too.❤
Yes it does. Stop tearing that other woman and their confidence because you’re insecure, and you hide behind religion to give you a sense of purpose. Sweetheart.
At the time Proverbs was written, the significance of purple was huge. It was a color that only royalty could wear. So the purple gown is a representation of dressing yourself as though you are royal. Taking care of your appearance because you know your worth.
was looking for this context. thank you
What a good point, thank you!
Modesty as a believer is really important and although people think dressing modest is boring and “grandma style”, it’s not. Dressing modest is something we do because our bodies are temple BUT dressing modest isn’t boring or plain at all.
Amen. You said it 💓
Yes completely agree🙌
I really needed to see this. Ive been struggling with my relationship with God for a while. And also just broke up with boyfriend of 3+ years. I fell into temptation of pursuing other men dressing immodestly and lusting. And relaized how bad it is. You’re like an older sister teaching me while also reminding me of who God is❣️
aww sis you are not alone. thank you for being here. 💖
You got this, God will hold your hand along the walk of faith!!
That’s amazing we’re here for you 😊
This is the same issue am struggling with everyday. I really need help in finding Jehovah again
Lmao
As a Muslim girl, I love seeing other people dress modestly and devote their life to God, knowing that this life is very temporary and seeking heaven ✨️ ❤️
LOVE THIS! Have a beautiful day xx
i love the fact that not only christians watch her
Hi.🤍
If you're reading this I just want you to know that the LORD, JESUS CHRIST loves you so much.
He is the way the truth and the life, may GOD show you his truth and may you open your heart to recieve it in JESUS CHRIST'S name.
@@Lords.Beloved You didn't catch it, but this woman is Muslim 💕
If you're a part of a religion then God doesn't know God is not a religion or part of a God is Kings of kings and Lord of lords he is the creator only way that you can no God is that you have to be born again so if you're like a Muslim Buddhist or any other religion God doesn't know you I'm just telling you the truth
For me personally, I feel comfortable wearing long crop tops with baggy pants, or tighter shorts with baggy shirts. It’s definitely all about balance for me. One tighter article of clothing with a loose one is my go to 💜💜
I love the message here. It’s so hard as a 13 year girl living in a society that says wear this and wear that, but knowing that wearing those things will only draw the wrong attention. It’s a great reminder for me that my confidence should be in Christ and Christ alone, and never the things of this world such as immodest clothing. Your such a positive influence and I appreciate your channel, keep it up🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
i am so so glad this video helped💖 you are so loved in this community!
💯🥰Absolutely agree with you!
I'm 13 also and I love this video!!!♥ thank you Ashley!
Im 13 too and I agree with you
as a 37 year old woman… I wish I’d watched this at 16
Amen
Me too
I feel the same way
Exactly
Haha I’m 16 😂 trying to dress modest out here
Modesty also really just shows that you respect yourself well enough and do not have to look for validation from others.😊😊
So true:)
YES!
Absolutely! I also don’t want to make any man fall into temptation, although he is also responsible for his own salvation as well.
@@just_shaeee so true!!
I love this video ❤ I have dress modesty my whole life and my current boyfriend my godly boyfriend told me that seeing me dress that way in school was one of the things he loved about me ♥️. He said that I shine differently than others, God is amazing
So cute❤️ sounds like a godly guy
That's amazing! 😊
Crop tops are great for laying under things like jumpsuits or sweaters without being bulky or hot. They can actually help an immodest outfit be modest 😊
Thank you for dropping this! I recently made the decision to pick myself up and part of that meant redoing my wardrobe. As a Christian girl who’s 13 and easily influenced, I want to dress more modestly, and I know it gets really hard especially during the summer when everyone is wearing short shorts and bikinis. I really needed this!
I'm not sure why you have one life what's the point living like that
@fresh.prince Hebrews 9:27. It is appointed for us to die once, but after death is judgment. And no one knows when it's their time to die. So, as a Christian girl, she's doing the right thing. Set an example for other Christian young people.
@@simoneshallow9967 it must be true then if Hebrews said that Lol
i’m proud of you 💗
@@ashleyhetherington_ thank you! God bless! 💖✝️
As a Christian CZcamsr myself... I just want to say that you are a VERY big inspiration to me too ✨️ I pray your videos will reach MANY more viewers 🙏🏼 thanks for your obedience in sharing God's word so faithfully on your channel. Such a faithful servant. You will be rewarded ✨️
So much love to you sista ❤️
P.s. Ashley please lock your car doors when you're sitting in your car. I had more than one bad experience when I was younger from not doing that. Now I lock them immediately after getting in my car. This goes for everyone really. Stay safe y'all! 💗
I think everyone needs this reminder, tysm! 💗
@@littlebodybigheartxxxx you're welcome! 💚
My dad taught me to do this when I started driving. Super smart tip to go by. Thank you for sharing.
@imaamericangirl1406 It's a lesson I wish more women knew! So glad your dad taught you that. 💗 And you're welcome. 💛
I'm 13 and trying to be more modest and closer to God! You have helped me so much!!!
i am sooo glad you are here 💖
I switched to just dresses and skirts about 2 years ago. This is huge if you know me. I used to try to find the shortest shorts and the outfit that was the tightest and showed the most skin. Men (and woman) treat me with a lot more respect now. I would love to see you wearing more modest workout gear. You’re just too beautiful for those tight skimpy clothes. 😬 saying this with so much love.
I agree 100% modest all the way
Me too! I have the same opinion sis. ❤
My husband and I met in high school. I wore a hoodie and jeans. Every single day. No matter the weather. I didn't do my hair, I usually pulled it back or put it out of my way.
We've been married for three years this July. Have a beautiful baby boy and another on the way. Everyday I thank God for sending me him. His timing is truly best.
What I was going through in my life is a long story, but I needed a man of God to help me through it. And He sent me just that.
I still dress modestly, but I've gotten better at ditching jeans and hoodies. Thankful for that too 😂
*I didn't realize this video was older until I read the other comments*
love this you should do a modesty look book!!
Yessss! That would be really nice actually! She could fall/winter looks and then spring/summer looks! Great idea!
aww i LOVE this idea!
@Ashley Hetherington and for each season (Spring, Summer, etc) Thank you!
@@ashleyhetherington_ I love this idea! Please make one!
I never comment but as a muslim struggling with who I am and dressing modestly this video was much needed and the way you explained things, was so insightful and you hit the nail right on the head. Thank you for promoting such a positive message and honestly in this day and age it can be hard but if we stick to what we believe in, god will make it easier. New follower here :).
i’m only 5 mins into the video and i truly and so thankful i’ve stumbled across this. i’ve never thought about dressing modestly in that way before. Because as much as I do want attention at time I ultimately want and NEED the right kind of attention. I need to do what’s best for me. Thanks for making the video, i can’t wait to finish it and pls continue to make more videos like this :)
This is my favorite video of yours! It gives me a lot of hope that my son (26) will find the one. He really wants to find a girl, aka future wife who dresses modestly, but he also appreciates one who is stylish. His guy friends feel the same way. So I love that there’s such a great response to this video!
This could not have come at a more perfect time, it’s like it was meant to be. The Lord has been working hard in my heart these last several weeks and has compelled me and made me realize that my wardrobe needs to change along with my heart. I ransacked my closet the other day to get rid of all of my immodest clothes and am now searching of new modest pieces to put in. I never understood modesty really until I followed the Lord more closely and I realized that it truly is about glorifying God and emphasizing what matters most about us: our hearts, minds, souls, and the light of God within us. Immodesty distracts from those things. Thanks for this video, it’s nice to hear another young woman talking about this and the importance behind it.
Hi, God Bless You 🙏🏼💗
Glory to God! Being modest in both heart and clothes is really beautiful!
May I ask, how did you get rid of your inmodest clothes?
@@sea__789 I went through my closet and looked at all of my clothes, then I asked myself “If Jesus was standing right next to me, would I feel comfortable in this outfit?” If the answer was no, I put it into a bag to be donated. ❤
@@HiHi-sq5og Beautiful question! Thank you. 🙏🏼💕
Ashley, i love the new Holy Girl Diaries series! i love how God has planted this absolute ✨dedication✨ inside your heart💕. the best is yet to come. it was no accident that i found your channel last summer when i needed it the most. God has gifted me so so so much wisdom through your ministry. i look up to you as a fourteen-year-old and see something in you that not a lot of people have. you are seriously changing lives around you for the Kingdom of God. amen!! 🫶🏻💗
i am so so glad you are here in this community sydney! 💗
I’m muslim and this was recommended to me. I love it, modesty should be a trend. Periodt
We welcome our Muslim brothers and sisters. May peace and God be with you ❤
I’m just here to tell you that God loves, I love you, and Allah can’t do anything for you!!!!!!
@@serenityb9879 if God does love me then he can do anything for me
Going shopping during the summer especially is difficult especially on a budget🥲
I dress in T-shirt and jeans a lot because I hate dressing inappropriately and I was insecure when I was a teenager about dressing immodesty. But, this inspires me because I want to shop more for modesty clothes. Thank you Ash❤
cmon sis! i am with you
Ever since I gave my life over to the lord I realize how I used to dress was taking more from me, and ever since I started dressing modest I’ve gained a whole new self confidence that I never thought would’ve been possible. I feel more empowered than ever knowing that I’m following the good word from God! Thank you so much for this video ❤️
Loved this video! Take us shopping more often haha ❤
aww i totally will 💖💖
The first outfit was my fav! I am so glad I can look up to you. I am 13 years old and a Christian and understand some of my outfits are not fully glorifying God. Thank you so much for helping me on my path to becoming a Proverbs 31 women.
"if you have a purple gown go of sis" 😂😂😂 how are you this funny! 🤣
just the vid i need tbh. Christian, modest, classy, trendy.....what else could i ask for? xx
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Super happy and inspired 💓
It makes me so happy to see Christian content creators talking about, valuing and practicing modesty. You go,girl 💓 God bless you, sis. You're a gem💓
i am so so glad you are here 💖💖
AMAZING!!! Go Ashley!! 🌸
Very true! Don't short change your self. Short term satisfaction = long term pain.
really need this!!! loved this!! so motivating!! 🤍
I needed this video thank you. I’m a single Christian Dad and my teenage daughter is really giving me resistance with her half naked clothing. I just had to take her phone again because of half naked clothes pics. Im planning on showing her this video. Thank you.
So happy you posted
idk why but Ashley’s most recent vids have really helped me. She keeps talking about subjects I’ve been really struggling with and has been a big inspiration. I feel like God is using her to take me out of the dark place I’ve been in. Thanks so much Ashley ❤️
wow thank you so much. i’m so glad you are in this community. 💖
girl i absolutley LOVE your channel
I actually am falling in LOVE with your content! Lol. This was well laid out, reasonable, responsible, & simple to the point.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this video… this is so lovely and personal. I’m for it!
Your inner beauty is definitely radiating! You're so beautiful. Thank you for being such an inspiration❤
I really liked this video, even though it's absolutely not my style - I love dresses and have a much more girly style. I'm also a bit older than you 😉
It's really encouraging to see God working in the heart of their children regarding modesty.
One thing I've noticed over the years is that the perception of modesty also changes according to culture. As an example, I've just moved countries after 11 years of living abroad, and I quickly realized I had to change most of my beloved wardrobe, because people's perception of modesty here is different. And my current wardrobe just doesn't fit the bill. The Holy Spirit started making me feel uncomfortable with it.
I'd like to leave a word of encouragement regarding this topic. I've loved clothes ever since I was a kid and have even considered going into fashion design - so clothes are a big thing for me in the sense that I express myself through them and they make me happy. So when I realized that I had to give up a big chunk of my beloved pieces I was sad. But - as with everything else - the Lord comforted me, changed my feelings towards those pieces I loved, and showed me pieces that I now love even more and fit the modesty bill that I wanted.
Notice that there was nothing wrong with my other clothes until I moved countries. But it's important to live in a way that honors God where we currently are ❤
What country are you currently living in if you don't mind me asking ?
@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife Portugal (where I'm originally from). Moved from Norway. Portugal is more conservative in some areas. Not necessarily a bad thing either. In any case, it's just an example of how different cultures that share many of the same principles (both European countries, developed and with high level of education, for example) can have different takes on what is and isn't modest. You wouldn't notice it just by walking around, tho 🤔
@@000SunFlower000 ohh that's interesting!! What would you say are some adjugments you've made?
Btw, I also agree how you say that culture can influence modesty levels, because modesty is overtly subjective for time periods and countries.
@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife mostly the length of dresses/skirts. While they weren't super short and I wore them with opaque tights, there's a huge difference in people's overall reaction to that here compared to Norway. In 11 years living there, I haven't been catcalled once. People mind their own business. Here, people love to mind other's business 🤦🏻♀️
... the amount of times I had women in my family making remarks on how short a garment was, or how it would look great with leggings - while I was wearing 100% opaque, coloured tights...
In the beginning I was like: seriously, so judgemental. This IS decent! I'm not showing anything wrong. And they would *reluctantly* agree and concede that they were not being reasonable. But at one point I just realised that it was the culture for (most) of the people above 30 in Portugal. So, being over that age 🤣, I've just been adapting and adopting a style that is *perceived* as being more modest.
And I think that this is the key: perception. As children of God and His ambassadors, we have to be mindful of how we are perceived.
I didn't start wearing a different style. Staying true to whom God made you is important. But I now opt for longer flowy dresses, which I love, and am thinking of ways to transform the other, shorter ones.
THIS!!!!!! Beautifully said, you are beautifully radiant and so anointed, I love the scripture you back it up with ! 🥰♥️
loved this vlog Ashley!! praying that you are keeping well. so grateful for you, my friend 🤍
Yes!God bless you for this ❤️.
Thank you for putting this kind of content out there!
I love this vid, it's so cute! and I love how you presented it so gently, you literally sound like a cool tough antie giving advice rather than telling ppl off. It can be so great sometimes just to remind yourself what your looking for in clothes that are modest, expressly if you are about to have a style upgrade, so thank you! the three questions by the way are very useful! Have a good day ppl :)
Oh my gawsh You Are So PRETTY !
We’ve got so much in common! We both love God, we both like Pinterest and literally shop for what is on the Pinterest board and we both like cargo pants! (I also have a long black leather skirt)
ahhh so fun! i am so glad you are here in this community 💖
You are so refreshing and inspiring ✨
I think we don't truly realize what a grace this channel is for us and how NECESSARY it is.
thanks so much ashley and thanks Jesuus!
I love this video soo much. You were so happy it made me happy!TYSM❤
We needed this ❤❤❤
Thank you for another awesome video Ashley.
I needed to hear this ❤.
When ever I listen you I always feel calm I love to listen you Ashely you're doing great work❤
I just subscribed!! It’s so hard to find videos of ideas what to wear when dressing modestly and I absolutely love that you made this video!! Thank you!!
Nice to see videos like this! Love your hair😊
I absolutely love this video!❤️
Thanks for taking us shopping with you. I love dressing modest because I have confidence in myself.
I would love to see how you shop for the summer because I feel like as someone just starting covering in the winter is easy but in hot weather I am not too sure unless I wear long dresses but I don’t always want to wear a dress because I am a sporty girl.
Can you do an affordable version of this? I’ve been working on dressing modestly but I can’t afford Aritzia. Love your videos! ✨🖤
thrift shops!! target!! amazon!! brandy, etc. look on pinterest! simplistic outfits are good too. like a simple pair of jeans and a sweater are easy and modest.
Winners/Marshall’s has cute shirts for under $15!
I personally love shoping at thrift stores, it’s usually very affordable and exiting cause you can find fantastic pieces if you are patient og creative 😁
i definitely recommend thrifting too! you can find a lot of great basics but it may take a few shopping trips to different ones
Go to a thrift store! 🥰 i love dressing with 80s-90s vibes and i always find really good quality clothes at really affordable prices 🤍
I love how you formatted this video :)😊
Thank you I needed this ❤
We need more CZcamsrs like Ashley!! 💕💕
I loved this this was everything 🎀🍓💗
you spoke full truth girl!! love ur videos
so glad this spoke to you 💖
I'm actually creating a new wardrobe for my self, so this is very encouraging and helpful. Thank you!!!❤❤❤
such a needed video in a time like this! Keep it up sister!!
This video was so CUUUUTE and helpful at the same time
"Long skirts are in right now- So glory to God." 😂 The cargo pants are giving me Kim Possible vibes and I'm here for it and I'm so glad you bought them!!!! The pants in the first outfit, you can wear those pants with boots!
awesome video. clean, quick, and inspiring! love it ❤
i love this!! and your hair is soo pretty!!!
thank you sis! i am so glad you are here!
hi sister! loved this video. i got saved two years ago and my style has completely changed! for the better :") all i used to wear were crop tops and revealing clothing. i feel so much more confident and beautiful dressing modestly rather than showing off/exposing my body parts! i thank the Holy Spirit for convicting me and changing me from the inside, out! thank you lord 🤍✨
I'm so here for this 🙌💗
ash, you should genuinely be a motivational speaker. this brought me to tears.
This was very helpful, thank you girl
This is the first video I'm watching of yours and it made me reflect on myself and the behaviors I'm adopting (clearly for bad reasons). Thank you for this video. Thank you for spreading the Word of God. Thank you for everything you are doing for this community. God will surely reward you. Please continue doing this.
The black basic long sleeves n d blue jeans along with d green cap 👌 Go girl ..my favorite ❤️
Love this! Thank you sm!
Woo! I felt the Holy Spirit when you talked about focusing on clothing ourselves with beauty from within. As soon as you mentioned honoring God - I felt Him. God is moving in the Kingdom. Go girl! God is using you. Hallelujah!
Very well done video!! Love love love it!
Love this! Thx for teaching me! ❤
hey Ashley! i started following you on your pinterest, and ive found that i love you and your content! I llove your love for God and you inspire and motivate me
In love with this king of videos!! It feels like I’m with my older sister ❤Thank you so much
aw this is so sweet.
ashley!! i LOVE these little diaries they are THE BEST!! i love to watch them☺️ praise jesus🫶🏻
Thank you for your message, I really needed to hear that, I just started looking at your channel and it is awesome, bless you and thank you ❤️😊
thanks I needed this
Love this! God bless you sister ❤
Love that you first started with scripture THEN shopping 👏🏻
Ash I needed this. It's so easy to focus to much on our appearance instead of character and relationship with God. I've been tl dressing now modestly and the struggle is real sometimes to find beautiful, sustainable and affordable items which reflect my style. Thanks for the info! 🤗🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️
Loved this! 🙏🏼💕
Needed this as I've noticed how I'm trying to dress up for the wrong kind of attention. Loved how you "research" for inspo on Pinterest before going out. It definitely helps in being responsible and staying focused while shopping. 😂 Will do this. Also the three questions at the end! ❤🔥 Thanks, Ash!
I want More of these videos! So helpful!!
thankful for this feedback.
grateful for you being here.
I’m so here for it, take us on some more shopping!
so glad to have you hereeee💖
firstlyyy fave outfits were definitely the hat fit and levi + black tee fit!! also wanted to say that i feel so so blessed and happy to have found your content, ashley!! you really have inspired me in so many ways and have been a great "modern, CZcams, social media" outlet representing God during a time where i'm trying to build back my faith! having such encouragement from you and being fed with the Word is honestly everything!! really enjoy all of your videos girlie pop! have a blessed and amazing day and week!!
the levi’s were FIRE! i am so glad you are in this community dear one 💖
You're so pretty! I love your style :)