@@SoshiStars I feel like she would love having a boy and going to his sports events and hosting his friends over and stuff. Either way, your right she’d be happy with either gender I don’t think it matters
@No Name no not always. But usually u put boys in sports teams just like people put their daughters in ballet. That’s not always the case but u understood the point.
I am still with Adrienne.. even as someone trying to get pregnant if she was to change how she speaks and tell us that she was preparing, we would start to speculate and think she actually is pregnant and when she doesn’t have a baby she would look bad. So i think what she said still applies today because she’s trying even if it doesn’t work, as she said. I think being overtly positive and ignoring the possibility of a negative result sets u up for bigger disappointment if it doesn’t happen so i prefer to be realistic than optimistic.
@@lopezgarcia1074 that’s not always true. I have hashimotos disease and I got pregnant at 19 lmao. Granted I’m sure age plays a factor as well. I had the same doubts about being able to get pregnant so I didn’t try to prevent. In retrospect, it was very stupid notion but I got pregnant pretty much immediately.
Guess what, no matter how well you choose your words and winning attitude sometimes your uterus or ovaries are just not meant to make babies. I'll try saying we are preparing. 🥺 Let's see if that works.
Exactly it's just a word. It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is your attitude and how you carry yourself in the experience you're going through
These ladies are awesome and in no way am I trying to bash but just giving my thoughts on the solution they’re proposing, cause this is an interesting topic: I understand the words we use make an impact and can reframe how we think of things. At the same time, changing the word “trying” to “preparing” in order to not feel bad about pregnancy not working out yet, is sort of keeping us from addressing the problem they’re talking about: which is feeling bad about not succeeding yet and then also feeling bad about the judgement of friends/fam. How about instead of “getting rid of those words all together,” like Jeannie said, we just accept that life has it’s dissapointments and it’s a natural normal part of the human condition? And we just remember to keep on going and yes, TRYING. Not saying it’s easy. Aint nothing wrong with trying and not succeeding yet. And for the second issue they raised about judgement from others, how about we just do what they said in another episode, which is: you have a friend with multiple miscarriages? Just be there to listen and support them through it.
I'm with Tamera, when you're actually trying.. it's almost impossible! But when you act like you're just having fun... that's when you get pregnant 😂😂🤷🏽
You having “fun” is trying... I hate when women aren’t on any sort of contraception but then say “I didn’t try to get pregnant” girl... that’s how pregnancy happens 🤦🏼♀️
That's actually not trying though. It's an 'if it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't' kind of situation. 'Trying' is going the extra mile of taking pregnancy vitamins in preparation, making fertility charts and marking out your most fertile time of the month. Just because I dont want to ultimately prevent pregnancy happening doesn't automatically mean that I'm trying to get pregnant
@@Ebunoluwa13 I guess it’s how u view it in your head. I just laugh on the inside when couples say “it was an accident” it’s like girl.... were u not taught how pregnancy occurs
But we also have to think about how common it is for women to have issues getting pregnant right off the bat. Sometimes it takes time and maybe even years or doesn’t happen at all. I think using the word “trying” just means they are hoping for it to happen soon and are taking extra steps to help the process. It doesn’t always mean just stopping the use of contraceptives, because for some it’s either been like that for awhile and/or the woman isn’t getting pregnant from that, so they have to try other things in addition.
I've realized they talk about the same topics like they're new then tell stories they already told and react as if they never heard it before 😂😂😂 so much for being "real"
I’m still trying to understand what tamera’s story about her parents means. If a couple is *not* “trying” for a baby doesn’t that mean contraception *is* involved when having sex? While trying to get pregnant is when they’re *not* using contraception? So does that mean her mom got pregnant while actively using a method of contraception?
Maybe she just means they're not tracking cycles and her periods and ovulation or trying to have sex multiple times a day every day. They were just having a good time with no pressure. I don't have kids yet but i watch enough content about children to know that sometimes when there's so much pressure about "it has to happen" mentality that the body is under a lot of stress making it difficult for the conception to happen. Does that make sense?
trying make it seems like a task/ work/ and tried takes the fun away adding pressure (i know alot of people she tried and once they said f it that when they got pregnant)
Jeannie isn't making fun. She loves her mom. She just is really good at imitating her mom's accent. Her mom became famous because of Jeannie's impressions and she herself has no problem with it.
"I'm not trying to be rich,I'm preparing to be rich." FACTS! 😊
Lol
Am preparing to get married and to have kids
I hope Adrienne has a baby, I think she would love to have a baby girl.
I think as long as it’s a healthy boy or girl she’ll eat elated
@@SoshiStars I feel like she would love having a boy and going to his sports events and hosting his friends over and stuff. Either way, your right she’d be happy with either gender I don’t think it matters
@No Name no not always. But usually u put boys in sports teams just like people put their daughters in ballet. That’s not always the case but u understood the point.
Well she needs to hurry I'm 35 and just got pregnant and I'm almost 8 months and it's hard on someone older
@Jenn wow
I hope Adrienne gets her baby soon
Awww, this was back in the day when people can cough like Lonnie did 3:11 and no one gives you the side eye.
We are gonna be traumatized for life 😂😂😂
🤣🤣 😷
I'm curious as to how Adrienne feels now?
Bring Tam back!
I didn't realize she's the reason I watch the show often until she left.😥
Tam is wonderful! ❤❤❤
this didn't age well. im sure adrienne regrets saying those things. however i really hope she will have a baby soon, she has been trying now for years
I am still with Adrienne.. even as someone trying to get pregnant if she was to change how she speaks and tell us that she was preparing, we would start to speculate and think she actually is pregnant and when she doesn’t have a baby she would look bad. So i think what she said still applies today because she’s trying even if it doesn’t work, as she said. I think being overtly positive and ignoring the possibility of a negative result sets u up for bigger disappointment if it doesn’t happen so i prefer to be realistic than optimistic.
Hashimoto's disease is linked to infertility. I doubt she will get pregnant.
@@lopezgarcia1074 that’s not always true. I have hashimotos disease and I got pregnant at 19 lmao. Granted I’m sure age plays a factor as well. I had the same doubts about being able to get pregnant so I didn’t try to prevent. In retrospect, it was very stupid notion but I got pregnant pretty much immediately.
May 2021 be the year Adrienne gets her baby. AMEN
I love what Jeannie says! Its so very true ive seen it in someone i know! There is power in what we speak out!🦋
"Dust yourself off and try again" come on Adrienne 😕
Hi BLINK 🖤💗
@@eneobande7433 Yeah, I really hope she does
@@MayaPapayaaaa_ yess
That’s the thing, I don’t understand what’s negative about the word ‘trying’
@@mimilo6326 same.. i think she would still have the same opinion now that she is trying since that is what she is doing TRYING
whenever adrienne said “dust yourself off, and try again” i thought she was singing aaliyah’s song “try again” 😭😭
Loni look so good wear yellow color
Chileeeeeeee. Adrienne ought to watch this one back.
I miss the live studio audience The Real is not the same 😔
Ade will be an awesome mom🥰🥰🥰🥰
Honestly Loni’s chart was very easy to understand😂😂😂
Trying is not a positive look. Trying doesn’t mean that it will come to pass. And you have to be careful who you tell your business too🤷🏽♀️
But realistically, 'preparing' doesn't mean it will come to pass either.
Guess what, no matter how well you choose your words and winning attitude sometimes your uterus or ovaries are just not meant to make babies. I'll try saying we are preparing. 🥺 Let's see if that works.
Exactly it's just a word. It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is your attitude and how you carry yourself in the experience you're going through
@@simonnader8173 Exactly and how you accept the bad news.
Jeannie was on point👌
I love the longer videos
These ladies are awesome and in no way am I trying to bash but just giving my thoughts on the solution they’re proposing, cause this is an interesting topic: I understand the words we use make an impact and can reframe how we think of things. At the same time, changing the word “trying” to “preparing” in order to not feel bad about pregnancy not working out yet, is sort of keeping us from addressing the problem they’re talking about: which is feeling bad about not succeeding yet and then also feeling bad about the judgement of friends/fam.
How about instead of “getting rid of those words all together,” like Jeannie said, we just accept that life has it’s dissapointments and it’s a natural normal part of the human condition?
And we just remember to keep on going and yes, TRYING. Not saying it’s easy. Aint nothing wrong with trying and not succeeding yet.
And for the second issue they raised about judgement from others, how about we just do what they said in another episode, which is: you have a friend with multiple miscarriages? Just be there to listen and support them through it.
I'm with Tamera, when you're actually trying.. it's almost impossible! But when you act like you're just having fun... that's when you get pregnant 😂😂🤷🏽
8:22 Jeanies pictures 🤣🤣🤣 The Wednesday face with the bra. I can't with her she's too much
You having “fun” is trying... I hate when women aren’t on any sort of contraception but then say “I didn’t try to get pregnant” girl... that’s how pregnancy happens 🤦🏼♀️
exactly like if your not on anything or using condoms then what else they expect😐
Good point
That's actually not trying though. It's an 'if it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't' kind of situation. 'Trying' is going the extra mile of taking pregnancy vitamins in preparation, making fertility charts and marking out your most fertile time of the month. Just because I dont want to ultimately prevent pregnancy happening doesn't automatically mean that I'm trying to get pregnant
@@Ebunoluwa13 I guess it’s how u view it in your head. I just laugh on the inside when couples say “it was an accident” it’s like girl.... were u not taught how pregnancy occurs
But we also have to think about how common it is for women to have issues getting pregnant right off the bat. Sometimes it takes time and maybe even years or doesn’t happen at all. I think using the word “trying” just means they are hoping for it to happen soon and are taking extra steps to help the process. It doesn’t always mean just stopping the use of contraceptives, because for some it’s either been like that for awhile and/or the woman isn’t getting pregnant from that, so they have to try other things in addition.
I've realized they talk about the same topics like they're new then tell stories they already told and react as if they never heard it before 😂😂😂 so much for being "real"
Do they have a 3 day work week?
I'm not trying to break up with my Boyfriend, I'm preparing to dump my Boyfriend.
Loni's chart tho..... She's something else lol
Bringing those 3m engineering skills back.
I’m still trying to understand what tamera’s story about her parents means. If a couple is *not* “trying” for a baby doesn’t that mean contraception *is* involved when having sex? While trying to get pregnant is when they’re *not* using contraception? So does that mean her mom got pregnant while actively using a method of contraception?
Maybe she just means they're not tracking cycles and her periods and ovulation or trying to have sex multiple times a day every day. They were just having a good time with no pressure. I don't have kids yet but i watch enough content about children to know that sometimes when there's so much pressure about "it has to happen" mentality that the body is under a lot of stress making it difficult for the conception to happen. Does that make sense?
love it
trying make it seems like a task/ work/ and tried takes the fun away adding pressure (i know alot of people she tried and once they said f it that when they got pregnant)
When was this? G was talking about Freddie but now she's happily married to Jezzy❤️
@@eneobande7433 she married to Jezzy not Jeezy isn’t that obvious
Awhile ago. She's not married to Jezzy yet.
And she is having a baby with jezzy too
I am with Loni
I need her chart
They have 3-day work weeks? That’s what I wanna know 😏😏😏
They said ghosts🤣🤣🤣
Who reads a cook book for fun? Dont u just read them when u need the recipes?
Sometimes its therapeutic lol
Joseph and 😃🇮🇪
Loni🤣🤣
Why do they upload like 2 years later??? They need to step up their CZcams game, its horrible.
I don't know why Jenny always making fun of the way her mom talk
Really?
Jeannie isn't making fun. She loves her mom. She just is really good at imitating her mom's accent. Her mom became famous because of Jeannie's impressions and she herself has no problem with it.
Nooooo!!! She's not making fun, honestly I love when she does it, it is so funny
Omg they don’t know a thing about of infertility…
Uhmmm Jeannie u might wanna come back and change ur statement
Now we know why Adrienne is not pregnant yet! Bc of that comments🤦🏽♀️😂
Be compassionate. It takes a lot of courage to show up.
And why is that funny
100% agree
There isn’t nothing about that at all. She will have her baby. I’m being positive that she will
$AbdulPhillippe