How I fell from a Luxury lifestyle and back to the trenches | South African YouTuber

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  • čas přidán 14. 07. 2024
  • Hey loves,
    just a little piece of what my life has been like for the past 3 years. I really hope this gives someone hope for a better future. I hope I inspire someone not to give up, but just keep trying.
    #storytime #travel #johannesburg #tohellandback #luxuryliving #downfall #trenches #inspirationalvideo #southafrica

Komentáře • 136

  • @zethumpama9653
    @zethumpama9653 Před 2 měsíci +35

    Why does she remind me on Naomi Campbell, I love this wig and the make-up

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 Před 2 měsíci +36

    Same thing happened with my niece & her friends. Were you being braggadocious abt the car etc??? My niece was crying that she lost her friends but the truth was she was insufferable. She all of a sudden acted like she was better than her friends & made backhanded remarks to them & became cohtrolling. She also had no idea why they were no longer talking to her & called them jealous.

    • @juicykindess3129
      @juicykindess3129 Před 2 měsíci +8

      lol learnt a new word braggadocios

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye Před 2 měsíci +6

      Some people lack self awareness and are allergic to accountability

    • @sandindlovu3521
      @sandindlovu3521 Před 2 měsíci

      @@thefeminineeye Very true hey, you can tell.

  • @Eksemandisa
    @Eksemandisa Před 2 měsíci +11

    Hello my baby i hope i am not overstepping but i feel like the first friend was there for you during your hardest times and was hurt when she had to find out about your accomplishments on Whatsapp. If my friends venting to me and im checking on her everyday during her hard times and doesnt share her good news with me id be really hurt, especially finding out on social media. Thats just me though,

  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 Před 3 měsíci +17

    Oh baby, I love you ❤❤️
    LISTEN
    there’s 3 type of people in your life
    1 )People are in your life for a reason until something happens then they leave you
    2 )People are in your life for a season
    3) People are in your life for life no matter what happens

  • @levylegodi1264
    @levylegodi1264 Před 3 měsíci +27

    Mmh Khanyisa , your ex friends are dangerous .. as much as it’s not nice to lose friends , it was for the best .❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 3 měsíci +3

      I believe so too 💖💖

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist Před 2 měsíci +1

      I love this comment and support. When you wish your friend well you love to see them thrive and we are all human but jealousy is dangerous.
      Darling God is protecting you. Seek Him first. I am sorry I know the pain. 🙏🏽❤

  • @thembelihledunjana
    @thembelihledunjana Před 2 měsíci +19

    When u said “I had to use a taxi”😂😂

  • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
    @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 Před 2 měsíci +10

    not necessarily a fan of Sa youtubers cos of similar content but your a breath of fresh air

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you 💖💖

    • @SuperFilicia
      @SuperFilicia Před 2 měsíci +4

      Yep i really want to watch SA CZcamsrs. But most of them are the same. If you watch one of their videos your done. They are mostly trying to live and potray a high life lol. Im seeking out the normal ones but they are few and far between.

    • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
      @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@SuperFilicia i know right? its difficult to see a unique youtuber these days

  • @koketsonkanyane3211
    @koketsonkanyane3211 Před měsícem

    I’ll always admire and respect people who share their life experiences (good or bad) in order to educate others. I’ve watched this video a couple of times and I’ll keep coming back! Thank you ❤

  • @treasuremamba7350
    @treasuremamba7350 Před 26 dny

    You are so strong baby girl. You are a Lioness just know that. Keep up doing you sweetheart ❤

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 Před 2 měsíci +5

    We appreciate the transparency babes. You are amazing and beautiful, I really appreciate how open you are with us and showing the realities of life. Siyabonga sthandwa ❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much 💖

    • @Hazelbeing
      @Hazelbeing Před 2 měsíci

      Ae, she sounds insufferable and she's probably not aware so I don't blame her.

  • @ThisisMissHope
    @ThisisMissHope Před 2 měsíci +3

    She's saying lets start from 2020, 1:44 min in and i am gona go get some tea! No literally, it's cold and I am gonna be here til the end. Bless your heart! We all go through ups and downs.

  • @user-wk6we5vp8c
    @user-wk6we5vp8c Před 2 měsíci +5

    You are so beautiful, love your content. First timer on your channel❤❤❤. Keep growing.

  • @alsbie_mukovhe
    @alsbie_mukovhe Před 2 měsíci

    Well done girl look at how you got up !! 🎉❤ so inspiring.. however The witchcraft part killed me. I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @KGMdh
    @KGMdh Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this video, I appreciate the "realness". I am a new subscriber.

  • @SuperFilicia
    @SuperFilicia Před 2 měsíci +3

    I think i have found my new haircolor. You look beautiful in the style and colour. We live and we learn!!

  • @nadinemcpt
    @nadinemcpt Před 3 měsíci +7

    Giiiiirrrrrlllll, thank you for being vulnerable, we appreciate you! I'm being faced with the same taxi issue from next month. Your story made me realise I won't die shem from flown out to taxi rank😅If you did it, I can do it too. With much love!❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 3 měsíci +3

      lol! Life happens hey. Never give up, no matter what. 💖💖💖

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername Před 2 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂we have all been there.

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist Před 2 měsíci +1

      Let me tell you something, as long as you have legs to walk you are blessed. I love you guys for talking but life has ups and downs as long as you keep going. You will be better than fine. Go ladies!! ❤

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@mandyishernamethere is no shame guys! Us Black South Africans especially women and even young men we must give ourselves grace. Yohh 28 years ago isn’t bad!

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist Před 2 měsíci

      @@khanyisakhosa1496don’t marry abelungu. Eat the money but don’t marry mntase. I love you. You will be great!

  • @khosie_Ntshosho
    @khosie_Ntshosho Před 3 měsíci +6

    Jah neh kunzima, thanks for sharing that things are not always rosey,... This is very relatable, but Kuba right ekgcineni if,,,.. ❤❤

  • @eugenechauke3849
    @eugenechauke3849 Před 2 měsíci

    I’ve probably said this before, but girl!!!!! You’re GORGEOUS!!

  • @zinhlemkhonza5334
    @zinhlemkhonza5334 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Playing this as background music as I study and it’s nearly impossible to focus 😂. First time here but I love it 🥰

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi Před 2 měsíci +4

    17:20 reminds me of the day we moved to ekasi😢,umsindo we radio 📻 and people drinking &shouting in the middle of the night 😂Guess what,2months later I had gotten used and had made friends ❤stayed there for 2years and actually enjoyed the life there

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +3

      This is so accurate. Why is there always someone playing the radio out loud? My neighbour was a nightmare 😂😂

  • @sunshinemelody6614
    @sunshinemelody6614 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Indaba zabantu has me here while working

  • @yongamagaxo6745
    @yongamagaxo6745 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You look stunning doll😍😍the hair 🔥🔥

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Před 2 měsíci

    I love your transparency 🙏🙏you make see the other part ppl don’t show on social media

  • @madialemotsiri586
    @madialemotsiri586 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Some ppl we meet along the journey are meant to stay behind while u continue with yo journey, they r not part of your destiny.

  • @MmathapeloM
    @MmathapeloM Před 2 měsíci +1

    You look Gorgeous Khanyi🔥and thanks for sharing your experience ❤️‍🩹

  • @jamelamashimbyi8243
    @jamelamashimbyi8243 Před 2 měsíci +5

    The coakroches said 'you found us here and you'll leave us here' 😂😂

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 Před 2 měsíci +2

    New subbie. I hope things are better for you x

  • @charmainemalape910
    @charmainemalape910 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Ur an amazing story teller😂 I feel like we are sitting together drinking coffee or something 😘✌️

  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ❤❤

  • @naomit.s7152
    @naomit.s7152 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Norway v Taxi finished me 😭☠️🤣💔

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 wena don’t laugh at my struggles please 🤣

  • @unathi_pinky
    @unathi_pinky Před 3 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Khanyisa babes can you please give us a make-up tutorial because I'm literally obsessed with how you do your make up ❤❤❤❤

  • @julia_goddess3
    @julia_goddess3 Před 2 měsíci

    i like your story telling🥰can we please get a make up tutorial please🥺🥺🥺

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Yoooh calling to ask whats the update sounds like a monitoring spirit😮

  • @nkululekomthimkulu1248
    @nkululekomthimkulu1248 Před 2 měsíci

    You crack me up 🤣. Not trying to be mean hey. I hope that you find a good situation at some point.
    Subbed.

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 Před 2 měsíci

    30 mins in... Uxolo tshomi. It is as it is. 😭😭

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Life can humble you dear

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 3 měsíci

      True

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@khanyisakhosa1496the same life will lift you up babe don’t worry. Life has seasons and after every hard season comes your rising 😘 it will be a double portion of what you lost

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke Před 2 měsíci +1

    its growth babe, let them go.....forget they ever existed.

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface2000 Před 2 měsíci

    I thought I was the only one experiencing these things. Which is why I avoid my black people as much as possible - PHD (pull him down syndrome), pretentiousness, always wanting to know how I am when the fact is they are enjoying my struggles and gossiping about it. Some will be begging for help on a regular basis thinking they will make me broke, Lol. It's so sad how people want to see your downfall and keep you in their palms.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci

      Let’s avoid that spirit at all costs. I’m no longer afraid to cut people off for such reasons now. Lol

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi Před 2 měsíci

    13:30 don’t worry most of us been there

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před 2 měsíci +2

    Not “back to the trenches sis” 😅😂🤩.

  • @LoLLilo
    @LoLLilo Před 2 měsíci

    I love when people aren't afraid to be honest about their experiences. I remember watching Lelwa's video and geez i related and i felt it. But there is something about this video that feels so disinguiene, and almost lacking depth. I think you did your ex friend a favour by blocking her because she deserved more than what she got, the fact that your friendship relied on her constantly checking up on you, then you expected her to wait on seeing your progress on a your status for her to congratulate you like shes your fan, yikes. Then turn around and call her a hater a jealous, when she literally was your support system during a hard time??

  • @hopes.6298
    @hopes.6298 Před 2 měsíci

    Love this video ❤

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
    @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The beauty that you are oh my God.
    We would appreciate a Get to know me.
    For the roaches though you could have gotten a pest control company for assistance, this is part pf house maintenance of any well run household.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks for the lovely compliment. I had never dealt with roaches before so I was clueless on what to do. Thank you very much. I will definitely do a get to know me tag

  • @samanthasammy5458
    @samanthasammy5458 Před 2 měsíci

    You be looking Hella luxurious though

  • @lil-lindod8443
    @lil-lindod8443 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The cockroach part deed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 Před 2 měsíci +2

    18 minutes in... I'm sorry about the cockroaches 🤣🤣🤣

  • @keamo-Tiamo
    @keamo-Tiamo Před 2 měsíci +2

    Your problems sounds like nice life problems, in the hood you moved to a house, you had someone that was paying for you and you where stuck oversee plus you don't struggle to find a job

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci

      lol you making it sound glamorous meanwhile it’s actually stressful 😂

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi Před 2 měsíci

    29:40 askies gal,why do you still call her a friend ayy😢

  • @theophilusmashimbyi3462
    @theophilusmashimbyi3462 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Khanyisa.
    You're Beautiful Girl🥰🥵
    Thank You Lord

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Před 2 měsíci

    That’s me the house I’m staying in there’s cockroaches 😭😭😭I feel like dying

  • @lacronz6248
    @lacronz6248 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Just came across your channel... Let me follow you

  • @nomafmaroga6827
    @nomafmaroga6827 Před 2 měsíci +5

    You speak like someone who is full of herself 😢. I am so sorry if I am being rude😢

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +1

      I don’t know sana 😂😅

    • @lesedimakeketa5683
      @lesedimakeketa5683 Před 2 měsíci +1

      To insecure people, confidence looks like arrogance.

    • @nomafmaroga6827
      @nomafmaroga6827 Před 2 měsíci

      @@lesedimakeketa5683 🤣🤣🤣 You seem to be hurt. I don't remember the owner of this vedio seeing anything wrong with what I said.

  • @robot12423
    @robot12423 Před 2 měsíci

    😂😂😂this title.

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 Před 2 měsíci +2

    First time seeing you. You look stunning 😍 😍😍. I enjoyed this video ❤. This is actually a testimony 🫶🏾. I actually laughed at the part of a taxi after a Tesla 😂😂. I’m glad that God restored darling.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you very much. I’ll never forget that point in my life 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dudungidi9151
    @dudungidi9151 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I don't your full story. Trust God and don't stop praying

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM Před 2 měsíci

    Cockroaches 😂😂

  • @chisomo8088
    @chisomo8088 Před 2 měsíci

    This video has little to do with the title which is quite misleading. Either that, or you're just not a great storyteller cause i couldn't even tell what the point of the video was for 17 minutes before giving up.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Lol, and you watched for 17 minutes, thanks and bye 😘

  • @nk7595
    @nk7595 Před 2 měsíci

    Did you ever reach out to your first friend before you decided to block her?

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I think you attract fake friends because you sound fake, what had happened was… immediate ick
    But hey, what do I know

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM Před 2 měsíci

    I am new subscriber🥹 it will get better

  • @juicykindess3129
    @juicykindess3129 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Binging on all your content a new Subbie

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi Před 2 měsíci

    33:00 I love you hey ❤
    Follow back,I do something different but loved your storytelling 😅

  • @sinentokozosibeko3675
    @sinentokozosibeko3675 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤