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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
  • Join me as i share with you how i left my "home" and how I became this woman that i and am This story is very sensitive to me and I am sharing it because I feel like it's time to do so. Nobody can stoo what God has ordained.😇

Komentáře • 83

  • @tumirachel9210
    @tumirachel9210 Před 7 měsíci +26

    I hate that I can sort of relate to this. And for someone whose never had a toxic mother they find your story far-fetched but I knew my mom's isn't normal when she said :' I wish I had aborted you guys(me and sister)' or one time when someone touched me where they weren't suppose to and I told her and she tried to spin it like its my fault. And there's other scenarios ,most of the time I try to limit the time I spend with her ,I'm only 20 and as young as I am I do plan on moving out asap.

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 7 měsíci +4

      Oh no😓Babe trust me, your mom is wounded and one day you will find the strenght to move out. Wishinng you love and light

  • @sindilezwane8412
    @sindilezwane8412 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Please understand that Mandisa didn’t want to be in your mom’s bad books. Remember she could only emphasize ticatfulo betishisa wena, nguwe wedvwa lobowati kutsi utiva njani.
    Love and light ❤️ 🤗

  • @mbaligumede5306
    @mbaligumede5306 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Hi Mookie ❤️, kudos to you for making such a brave move. It’s so hard to deal with toxic parents, it’s even worse in your case because it was your mom. It’s so disappointing to say the least. 😭We’re in the same boat, by the way. I’m in Korea, my father is also narcissistic. He wasted my twenties, wanting me to do his stuff and nothing for myself. Went as far as saying I should not look for a job. I left without saying a word. Word said, he was rolling on the floor, crying…Anyways, this is my 3rd year in Korea and I’m glad I found out about this opportunity.

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 7 měsíci +3

      Wow sis. thank you for sharing this. I am so proud of you for choosing yourself and doing what u wanted and getting away from that. You are a star🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @ahavahinga4604
    @ahavahinga4604 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I'm sorry you had to go through that our parents think they own I salute your courage thank you for doing yourself justice you're brave sis

  • @nanditshabalala7113
    @nanditshabalala7113 Před 24 dny +1

    What an incredible story.
    You are an amazing storyteller
    So brave and resilient ❤❤❤

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This was such an amazing story!! You were made for greatness!! ❤❤ Your mom has too much pride, and unfortunately for her, she'll only realize this years down the line. You made the right choice. God is with you every step of the way. ❤

  • @phiwolera
    @phiwolera Před 7 měsíci +3

    The deliverance 💯 I'm so proud of you.

  • @StephanieDreyer
    @StephanieDreyer Před 7 měsíci +2

    I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but I am so proud of you. It is not easy to break free from an abusive relationship but by the grace of God you did. Remember you deserve the love you give to others. You are worthy.

  • @Ntokozo_Hlanguza
    @Ntokozo_Hlanguza Před 8 měsíci +5

    I cannot wait for part 2 this is very sad but beautiful to watch how you've fought your way through

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Thank you
      It was so hard but i did it. I can't believe how resilient i have become.

  • @CynTaughtyou
    @CynTaughtyou Před 7 měsíci +3

    This made me emotional but also happy that you chose yourself.. goodluck with everything in life babe and God bless you ❤

  • @kaykhanyi7286
    @kaykhanyi7286 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I'm a new subbie. I can definitely relate. After loosing my dear mom. My family and stepdad became something else.
    I left home 7 years ago and I'm at peace.❤

  • @warona..kwanaite
    @warona..kwanaite Před 7 měsíci +2

    you gained yourself a new subscriber. ❤️

  • @pumzandziweni8434
    @pumzandziweni8434 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Having a mom that depresses you, and u soo much pain, thats a story of my life

  • @cherlyzungu
    @cherlyzungu Před 8 hodinami

    girl you got yourself a new subbie🥰 love your vibe and very informative vd about being a teacher in china , drove me to you and when i got there i fell in love with the person ...

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 3 hodinami

      @@cherlyzungu thank you babe🤗🤗

  • @okurritskhamo
    @okurritskhamo Před 7 měsíci +4

    I love your energy 😭

  • @originalintrovert1886
    @originalintrovert1886 Před 7 měsíci +2

    i can relate to your story heyyy it's so touching you are very strong and you inspire me to do what's best for me❤

  • @ilove.lillian
    @ilove.lillian Před 7 měsíci +2

    You really are a force hey!!! The things that are to come are great!! And you know it and that is the power here❤ I look forward to experiencing this greatness Mookie

  • @londiwezulu9190
    @londiwezulu9190 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hey boo ❤ new subbie here, loved this video, so encouraging and heartfelt, wishing you blessings and healing 😊❤❤

  • @dreamchaser1364
    @dreamchaser1364 Před 8 měsíci +4

    The hair is 🔥, new subbie.

  • @fentseapril.
    @fentseapril. Před 8 měsíci +4

    I just love your energy omg! New subscriber🎉
    “Ngikuphi mangila “

  • @BridgeMA29
    @BridgeMA29 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Oh dear, this is my first time watching your content. Your story is quite interesting and sad. I am glad you are going for therapy, and you turned your pain into success.
    You talk about January 6, 2022 and I am watching this on January 6, 2024. I bet you far in life and wishing you all the healing. Because anger and pain is heavy and can blind you. ❤❤

  • @samkelisobiyela5494
    @samkelisobiyela5494 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’m really proud of you mookie❤️❤️❤️

  • @priscillamaqokolo207
    @priscillamaqokolo207 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I don't have the courage to put down my pacifier. But I'm glad you've been okay. Enkosi sisi.

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Love and light sisi.😇 kuzokhanya eventually.

  • @sharonkgomo4009
    @sharonkgomo4009 Před 7 měsíci +2

    🥹🫂 It must’ve took soo much courage for you to share this story. & for that I respect you 100x and beyond. Not everyone has the balls to pull themselves out of such situations. I’m really proud of you for taking such a big step & leap of faith. “The Universe always conspires in my favour” - I’m glad you understand that concept. You’re gonna be greater than you can imagine. I believe in you.❤️❤️❤️

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much 🥰😍🤗🙏

  • @phehellophicks1266
    @phehellophicks1266 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Hello an happy 2024 and i will surpport your channel its my first time watching your channel ❤❤

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle Před 8 měsíci +2

    Absolutely love the hair ❤️

  • @samukelisiwengxongo134
    @samukelisiwengxongo134 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Yho as we speak im relocating to CPT frm PMB . No plan but sobona

  • @palesafiliciamotumi4152
    @palesafiliciamotumi4152 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Love the hair babe❤❤❤... so cute

  • @ZinhleNyide
    @ZinhleNyide Před 2 měsíci +2

    Hi sthandwa I'm facing the same situation right now I'm scared to move out at home I don't know where to start but I can't take it anymore 😢😢😢

  • @Sheilzdarlingz
    @Sheilzdarlingz Před 7 měsíci +2

    Mna ke sana ndingamamelanga kwaaa New subbie

  • @BeataEmilyMatasane
    @BeataEmilyMatasane Před 7 měsíci +1

    your hair looks so good on you.

  • @parleee_sa
    @parleee_sa Před 8 měsíci +1

    Love you loads my dhiye ❤

  • @PositiveK444
    @PositiveK444 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I'm watching from Kenya ,,,please please talk to us in English. ❤

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Před 7 měsíci

    Don’t cry bbe I wish you were here I would like to be your friend I can relate

  • @Ntokozo_Hlanguza
    @Ntokozo_Hlanguza Před 8 měsíci +1

    ❤love and light

  • @phehellophicks1266
    @phehellophicks1266 Před 7 měsíci +2

    What your mom did to you was wrong Mookie really sorry my new ytuber ❤❤😊😊

  • @user-el2cl8gq8w
    @user-el2cl8gq8w Před 7 měsíci +2

    may God help me to leave as well... im only 21 and im tired

  • @ravie6437
    @ravie6437 Před 5 měsíci

    I relate so much to this 🥺🥺 planning to come to China soon

  • @okurritskhamo
    @okurritskhamo Před 7 měsíci +2

    new subbie🥳

  • @lesegontshidi5123
    @lesegontshidi5123 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Still love you Mookie ❤

  • @fundilelungiswa2810
    @fundilelungiswa2810 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Aibo where about in Dundee I’m also from Dundee 💃

  • @naledimaila
    @naledimaila Před 7 měsíci

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Před 7 měsíci +1

    I just followed without hearing what you had to say😂

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @palesaangel5030
    @palesaangel5030 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I watched this video and subscribed ,what's the company that u worked for in south Africa teaching online ?

  • @constancemyemane4438
    @constancemyemane4438 Před 8 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @thandodlamini2569
    @thandodlamini2569 Před 8 měsíci +1

    🫂

  • @Ovayo_Hlatshwayo
    @Ovayo_Hlatshwayo Před 7 měsíci +1

    Waze wangi khuba, painting your mom as a bad person? Yho I’m shocked. Wena ubufuna ukuziphatha nje wena nothing more, one day you will regret leaving home kanje.

    • @mookiem9685
      @mookiem9685  Před 7 měsíci +5

      You are clearly uninformed and abusive nawe. You sound like a narcistic abuser yourself thats why even through all the words said you chose to understand it in your own toxic vile light. Hambofa!

  • @mbali.s
    @mbali.s Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hey. Do you have an IG account??

  • @pumlasibisi2878
    @pumlasibisi2878 Před 7 měsíci

    🫂❤️

  • @anitawilson9216
    @anitawilson9216 Před 7 měsíci

    🩷