A dialogue to kill the fear of public speaking | Animesh Gupta | TEDxNITCalicut

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • Here's a talk to bid adieu to the fear of not just public speaking, but of any cause of fear and anxiety in life.
    Animesh Gupta is an International Corporate Trainer and Personality Coach with a special expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a trainer, Animesh has been recognized for creating and modifying the belief systems to stimulate the trainees’ long-term efficiency and motivation.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @mybubbles5552
    @mybubbles5552 Před 7 lety +2578

    This speech made me a bit emotional. I really related to it. I've struggled with extreme shyness my whole life. Any social situation makes me want to hide or cry. Talking to anyone including my own family members can make me so nervous that my voice shakes and all the thoughts fall out of my head. Public speaking is almost impossible for me. I've had to give 5-10 minute speeches in college and I start shaking so much it's hard for others to understand what I'm saying. I feel like I'm the version of this man who is scared and wanted to stay at his covert zone but my comfort zone means not leaving the house. I'm not okay with that. I don't want that to be my future. I have to change because my life depends on it. I'm going to rewatch this speech as many times as I need to until I can gain some confidence. This man really does put things into perspective. I'm still nervous and my heart is pounding about all the speaking that I'll be doing tonight but after listening to this I can say that I'm embracing the challenge! I'm scared but I'm not giving up.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +50

      Glad you could relate to this! I would recommend taking small steps, before a full public speech.
      Sometimes the physiological reactions are too strong; I would suggest trying medication along with self-motivation - as a last resort.

    • @mybubbles5552
      @mybubbles5552 Před 7 lety +24

      LIMITLESS - Confidence, Soft-skills, Personality, and EI thank you 🙏 I want to go to therapy about my social anxiety eventually.

    • @ravitejabolli3049
      @ravitejabolli3049 Před 7 lety +21

      Me too in same kind of situation till my childhood. Escaping and crying all the time. Waisted half of my life. This video gave a kind of motivation nd technique to manage.
      Thanks Man.

    • @eriklucasmusic
      @eriklucasmusic Před 7 lety +21

      Right there along with you. You're not alone! Praying for you (:

    • @sreekanthgundu8473
      @sreekanthgundu8473 Před 7 lety +11

      All the best . try to attend Toastmaster meetings 🙂

  • @tonyalight779
    @tonyalight779 Před 6 lety +780

    “What are you afraid of?” Passing out cold on stage, voice shaking, trembling like a drug addict, forgetting everything I had to say, dying of total humiliation... yeah, that sums up the small problems.

    • @sarahrichardson4314
      @sarahrichardson4314 Před 6 lety +51

      I feel exactly the same!! My fear is all of that plus saying half way “I’m sorry, I can’t do this and just walking out”

    • @WW-sx5zu
      @WW-sx5zu Před 5 lety +4

      uh hey how is it going now?

    • @divya5967
      @divya5967 Před 5 lety +44

      Last week all of a sudden I had to present on stage a poem that I wrote on my own . I literally shivered on stage. The judges asked me why am I so tensed.. the whole crowd laughed including the camera man...I couldn't sleep the whole night...I really want to improve myself and give a better performance next time. This video is really inspiring.

    • @AbhishekSingh-dj1fp
      @AbhishekSingh-dj1fp Před 5 lety +2

      @@divya5967 I know the feel

    • @vjstylo123
      @vjstylo123 Před 5 lety

      Well said, I have experienced each of them.

  • @eichelkase1852
    @eichelkase1852 Před 7 lety +3392

    Anyone else having a presentation tomorrow?
    please like. it makes me feel good about myself

    • @TheAlbiCollier
      @TheAlbiCollier Před 6 lety +50

      Eichel Käse we've all got a presentation everyday in some ways...

    • @TheApinkney15
      @TheApinkney15 Před 6 lety +30

      More like an hour and some minutes lol

    • @kyliebester7595
      @kyliebester7595 Před 6 lety +58

      Yup, and English presentation in front of a class that don’t like me :(

    • @kaykaylove144pate9
      @kaykaylove144pate9 Před 6 lety +28

      Yes i cant go to sleep

    • @lucadrogon
      @lucadrogon Před 6 lety +27

      I have a presentation tomorrow. That's why I'm watching this. :)

  • @ThePacemaker45
    @ThePacemaker45 Před 7 lety +1275

    The thing is, I KNOW there is no rational reason to be frightened and yet Im still very nervous

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +139

      You'll just have to put yourself in the situation repeatedly, until your nervousness adapts and changes the habit!

    • @sydneydupree2634
      @sydneydupree2634 Před 5 lety +183

      Ik it's like you're brain knows there's nothing to be afraid of but you're body just goes into panic mode

    • @christinadellanno2202
      @christinadellanno2202 Před 5 lety +3

      Me too

    • @user-sj6ku2fo6c
      @user-sj6ku2fo6c Před 5 lety +21

      Limitless EQ I’ve been doing that for like over 10 years, but I’m still panicking a lot...hopeless

    • @shwetatiwari391
      @shwetatiwari391 Před 5 lety

      Exactly,no. That's the point.

  • @SuperBiggates
    @SuperBiggates Před 8 lety +498

    quick tip if you are reading this and have a presentation soon.
    do you remember the first presentation you did years ago?
    no. and probably no one does either.
    so everything we do will be fortgoten so dont worry about it!!!
    And also nice speech sir that was really nice :)

    • @mryup6100
      @mryup6100 Před 6 lety +16

      Dude this is so true

    • @sharmisthamohanty3263
      @sharmisthamohanty3263 Před 5 lety +2

      Thank you so much animesh..really made me encouraged

    • @spidertingle1271
      @spidertingle1271 Před 5 lety +3

      Carlos Ed I remember. It was 7th grade & it was about a community. I spoke gibberish and it was horrible.

    • @marvelpsychology2774
      @marvelpsychology2774 Před 5 lety

      It’s not that easy.
      It’s really frustrating when you’re going through it

    • @stevesunwantedmind
      @stevesunwantedmind Před 5 lety

      What if you want your speech to be remembered?

  • @bejasanaba
    @bejasanaba Před 8 lety +680

    as a stutterer, i had to force myself into a public speaking course. my goal was not to speak fluently but to stand in front of the audience and simply let all the fear, shame, embarrassment and vulnerability drain out. and i succeeded in that

    • @MrTherber2
      @MrTherber2 Před 8 lety +2

      congrats, but irrelevant unfortunately

    • @whatdoyouwantfordinner
      @whatdoyouwantfordinner Před 8 lety +109

      +beja hadid +MrTherber2 is wrong, fear of public speaking is difficult for many but having an extra challenge, like stuttering just pushes the fear to a different level. you did it and you should be proud and it is relevant.

    • @sledanko71580
      @sledanko71580 Před 7 lety

      MrTherber2 y3

    • @King9king
      @King9king Před 7 lety +4

      i can relate, will be forcing myself to public speaking course soon

    • @bleachisgoodforurhealth9946
      @bleachisgoodforurhealth9946 Před 6 lety +3

      beja hadid I can relate. I can't hide forever

  • @nehac2693
    @nehac2693 Před 5 lety +90

    When I am speaking in front of public I scared and I don't speak well but one day I will speak confidently in front of public

    • @vishal4275
      @vishal4275 Před 5 lety +2

      Advance congratulations

    • @tbrx296
      @tbrx296 Před 3 dny

      Have you overcome your fear ?

  • @Whitey23
    @Whitey23 Před 7 lety +331

    The key for this fear is practice, when you do this pretty often you are not shy anymore

    • @rizviam6277
      @rizviam6277 Před 6 lety +22

      Not for many people. I could learn something super fluently but still forget when I go up in front of the crowd.

    • @elijahc.5803
      @elijahc.5803 Před 6 lety +23

      Rizvi Am He means to practice public speaking

    • @canizlupuzcanizlupuz
      @canizlupuzcanizlupuz Před 6 lety +1

      Exactly! Practice, practice, practice.

    • @ShreyanshandSiddharth
      @ShreyanshandSiddharth Před rokem

      absolutely right, it's small but when you start practice it's really work amazingly

  • @Rukhrocks
    @Rukhrocks Před 7 lety +770

    All students Who have stage fear should watch this .. best speech 😃😃

    • @yrgsmooth
      @yrgsmooth Před 5 lety +6

      Ruksar Sofi True this changed me

    • @gilrego849
      @gilrego849 Před 3 lety +3

      I will have an oral presentation tomorrow, I’m watching a bunch of this videos

    • @Paijemmaemunah
      @Paijemmaemunah Před 3 lety

      I do. Evrytime my hand sweat and filling blur

  • @shrutisingh0723
    @shrutisingh0723 Před 8 lety +273

    Well, I have a public speaking session tomorrow. Your talk has inspired me to go and speak at the event, instead of faking an illness that I was planning to before watching this talk. Thanks, Animesh. Keep up the good work.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 8 lety +5

      +shruti singh Excellent! You're welcome, Shruti!

    • @pappu34567
      @pappu34567 Před 7 lety +7

      shruti singh may be i am a bit late but how did it go ?

  • @sumitgupta4633
    @sumitgupta4633 Před 4 lety +132

    I just can't believe how a man can bring this emotions out of himself and narrate it this way... Respect Sir!

  • @animus3328
    @animus3328 Před 7 lety +106

    thank you for this talk... i am 58..still have dreams.....thank's

  • @laure5207
    @laure5207 Před 7 lety +394

    I have social anxiety and I feel so much better after watching this ! So inspiring ! Thank you Mr. Animesh Gupta !

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +19

      Wow, great to hear! You're welcome, Laure!

    • @humanyoda
      @humanyoda Před 7 lety +6

      Laure, do you feel good enough to actually do what you used to fear?

    • @hrsajjad4507
      @hrsajjad4507 Před 7 lety

      Laure Ran really?

    • @farhanislam9764
      @farhanislam9764 Před 7 lety

      how?

    • @morningstar8466
      @morningstar8466 Před 6 lety +3

      I also have social anxiety and I have to make presentation soon. I hope that it will be fine.

  • @Brajeshkumar-sj8dx
    @Brajeshkumar-sj8dx Před 7 lety +434

    I'm just speechless. A big thank you, sir.

  • @ken.haye23
    @ken.haye23 Před 6 lety +400

    I have a presentation tomorrow. More like a group discussion. But every time I present, my voice shakes, my heart pounds so hard, I forget how to breathe, and I I start to sweat, etc. But I'm going to try and do it not for my mark but for myself. Thanks

  • @viva9303
    @viva9303 Před 5 lety +257

    My comment section gave me hope. So I’m not the only one who is having social anxiety

  • @MrLusec
    @MrLusec Před 7 lety +852

    The speech was great - but the crowd was so dead ... mehhh ~ They are not at a funeral, I believe.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +12

      Thank you!

    • @abhishekchintu8331
      @abhishekchintu8331 Před 7 lety +62

      MrLusec exactly ,he demonstrated so well and the audience were in dilemma whether even to clap or not .well said

    • @selected_footages
      @selected_footages Před 7 lety +6

      +Abhishek Chintu ,Congo bro

    • @tawkischeap1
      @tawkischeap1 Před 7 lety

      MrLusec exactly

    • @varuno7560
      @varuno7560 Před 6 lety +9

      you are misunderstood, actually they are just hypnotized, spellbound. they are focusing way too much.

  • @shambhavibudholiya5347
    @shambhavibudholiya5347 Před 7 lety +211

    i'm not confident in public speaking.. but i'll push myself from now onward
    thanks for the great motivational speech :)

  • @juliaeich1599
    @juliaeich1599 Před 6 lety +28

    I watched this before I had to go speak in front of my church, so about 100 people. as I walked up, I felt relaxed and my voice was a little shaky but I did it and I know I could’ve done better. the thing is though, people aren’t judging you on the small things. even though my voice shaked, a dozen people told me I sis so well and I have such confidence and poise. what we sound like in our heads is not always what other people are hearing and noticing . if you have a speech coming up or presentation , respond to this comment and i’ll try to give you advice relating to your situation! remember to believe in yourself and focus on success, not failure.

  • @alokkotwalla330
    @alokkotwalla330 Před 2 lety +30

    Kill that short term anxiety and let out yourself from a long term fear. Golden words sir.

  • @abhishek9129
    @abhishek9129 Před 7 lety +167

    Imagine: How would you feel at end of the presentation, appluads for you and everyone cheering!!
    Remember the feeling and now start the presentation !!! Easy ;)

  • @IshaFacts
    @IshaFacts Před 7 lety +207

    Best Ted talk.. thank you so much.. you are an amazing guy..

  • @emilyschneider7957
    @emilyschneider7957 Před 5 lety +55

    I watched this video two years ago before an internship presentation and it seriously gave me so much confidence! Now I can’t sleep because I have a big presentation tomorrow and my first thought was to come back to this video. Glad I did!

  • @manmohanchhandwal9936
    @manmohanchhandwal9936 Před 7 lety +32

    he covered all the thoughts which come into my mind, whenever i have to speak in front of many people.. its great.

  • @chifley123
    @chifley123 Před 7 lety +153

    I laughed so much during this speech and mainly because I can relate to what he's saying. The crowd was just dead... What a guy he is I really want ti meet him in real life and have a converstion with him! Awesome JOB!

    • @nafisah9499
      @nafisah9499 Před 9 měsíci

      they probably did react but hes wearing a mic, you won’t hear them

  • @KarlRock
    @KarlRock Před 5 lety +99

    Thanks, Animesh! Great presentation and message.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 4 lety +3

      You're welcome! Glad you found this useful.

    • @KULDEEPSINGH-ui5bn
      @KULDEEPSINGH-ui5bn Před 3 lety +1

      ❤️❤️ both

    • @shanrachel8707
      @shanrachel8707 Před 2 lety +1

      @@AnimeshGupta01 it is really really helpful

    • @SansPeine
      @SansPeine Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@AnimeshGupta01just because you made this video, I'm going to never speak in public. Not only this, but I'll also try to convince others never to speak in public. Thanks 💩

  • @rockypoudel2360
    @rockypoudel2360 Před 7 lety +6

    I have anxiety but I push myself everyday to confront my fears. You have to realize that it's your journey not others. I am realizing that the only one way to overcome any kind of fears is by confronting it. If you try to run from fear, it will get more worst.

  • @InsaneArenaSHOTS
    @InsaneArenaSHOTS Před 6 lety +9

    This actually gave me goosebumps, i felt like i am the inconfident guy scared of public speaking, even my hands are shaking while writing this. All i can say is, trust me guys, it gets easier by the time and in case it doesnt your personality becomes tougher. So, choose to act strong and overcome what you have been afraid of and you will set an example not for others but atleast yourself. Cuz, you are great and you want to end up great.

  • @senorraul7833
    @senorraul7833 Před 7 lety +136

    Wow I honestly needed this Video, I've been running for years away from public speaking bc of my anxiety. It's not easy I go through this everyday in my head, thinking that life would be amazing once I get rid of my anxiety & this video has opened my mind to a new leval of confidence & hope & now there's no going back.

  • @souljahrags
    @souljahrags Před 7 lety +67

    dudeee I have a presentation tomorrow for finals and this makes me feel so confident

  • @kalyandas4852
    @kalyandas4852 Před 5 lety +37

    Thank you so much sir, today i gave presentation in front 140 people. Ur video insired me to do that ...

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 5 lety +6

      Wow that's amazing to hear, Kalyan!! You're welcome!

  • @10801steph
    @10801steph Před 2 lety +2

    Seriously one of the best videos on public speaking I have watched so far and have saved it so that I can watch it before presentations and interviews! Thank you so much, it is life or death!

  • @thanhcongTDT
    @thanhcongTDT Před 8 lety +27

    my listening improve a lot, i can listen to his speech 100% without missing out a word :)))

  • @shivasharma5694
    @shivasharma5694 Před 7 lety +128

    Came across this amazing TED Talk today, and I must say, it couldn't get more tremendous. Kudos Animesh and thank you so much. I am a hardcore Introvert and face this issue of public speaking almost all the time. And hell, the only thought which surrounds my head is "oh god, what exactly will people think of me?".
    Nonetheless, all thanks to you, I think I have finally able to overcome this fear and will do much better from now onward.
    Thank you Sir. It was such a great pleasure and a wonderful experience seeing you speaking about exactly the same problems which is there in my head all the time.
    -An Introvert, soon going to be a conqueror, Shiva

    • @gaganpreetaneja4275
      @gaganpreetaneja4275 Před 7 lety +1

      Shiva Sharma I can totally relate to 'what will people think of me?'!! Hopefully, it ll get better.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +1

      You're welcome, Shiva! And you're enthusiasm is great!

    • @dineshshaliwal8431
      @dineshshaliwal8431 Před 4 lety

      So how it's going now???

  • @pickynikki8474
    @pickynikki8474 Před 6 lety

    You know it’s a good speech when the crowd is 100% engaged and silent. Great Job! I’ve had social anxiety for many years but the last few years it has had crippling effects. This was wonderful! Thanks for sharing

  • @MinaTee0
    @MinaTee0 Před 5 lety +16

    This almost brought tears to my eyes... thank you so much!

  • @niveditadurga3246
    @niveditadurga3246 Před 7 lety +68

    Nailed it man!
    I have a stage performance to do,shortly. And after this refreshing and motivating speech of yours I ended up saying "I Want this".

  • @JosephCee
    @JosephCee Před 7 lety +60

    Wow, he was completely spot on. My struggle mimics this exactly, and not just with speaking in front of groups but with a lot of things in life.

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +2

      Thanks! Hope you're making progress every day!

    • @lekshmanankj7570
      @lekshmanankj7570 Před 7 lety

      LIMITLESS - Confidence, Soft-skills, Personality, and EI brothers

  • @KeepTalkingRomania
    @KeepTalkingRomania Před 6 lety +30

    When you type "public speaking anxiety" you get a lot of this "motivational" discourses where people of all types are giving pieces of advices on how to overcome this anxiety, how to fight it and be successful.I think that what everyone forgets is that for most of those people dealing with this the problem is deeply rooted and it's not something that you can overcome by seeing this speeches or by practicing.I have been trying in the last 10 years to overcome the anxiety with no success, I've been doing cognitive therapy, I attended public speaking trainings, I gave 5-10 presentations and every single time I had huge anxiety and a big depression afterwards.Even today I have big problems when it comes to delivering a presentation and i have to consume large quantities of energy just for another failure and depression.The problem is not with the anxiety, some people are born this way or they "get ill" during their first years of life, thus the problem will never be solved. The only solution is to change the environment with a new one that is not worsening your anxiety...

    • @TheManChise
      @TheManChise Před 5 lety

      Wow..really..hang in there..but yes it's so hard..

    • @danavram8437
      @danavram8437 Před 5 lety

      Have you tried joining Toastmasters (they even have online clubs)? Or perhaps some VR speaking simulators that you can practice in the comfort of your own home?

    • @saarinenj1
      @saarinenj1 Před 5 lety +2

      Relatable these videos doesn't help me.

    • @kalak9034
      @kalak9034 Před 2 lety +1

      I know its too late to ask, but are you alright bro?
      Be brave and keep trying👍

    • @KeepTalkingRomania
      @KeepTalkingRomania Před 2 lety +2

      @@kalak9034 Hey! thanks for asking! I'm alright, I changed the "environment" and now I'm not being confronted with presentations of any type. They secret is not to try to adapt to something you don't fit, the secret is to choose in life what suits you best.

  • @MiKoB0920
    @MiKoB0920 Před 6 lety +60

    I have to give a speech in my public speaking class (forced to take it) in a couple weeks and i'm so scared. I know i'm gonna screw up because i had to give a presentation in my English class earlier in the year and it was terrible. What gets me is when everybody in the class starts looking at me and its all quiet, and I don't why but I my heart just started pumping insanely fast and hard (never felt something like that up until that point, it freaked me out), I began to sweat all over and get hot, and I almost began crying in front of everyone. Luckily I was able to get through because I had a paper to look to and read during the presentation. But now what makes this next speech worse is that I have to memorize it, and I'm getting graded for HOW I give the speech, its a public speaking class after all. I honestly think I may pass out during the speech in front of the whole class, no joke..... just thinking about it makes my stomach hurt :(

    • @SelmaGhaida97
      @SelmaGhaida97 Před 5 lety +4

      How did it go? x

    • @lionheart5078
      @lionheart5078 Před 4 lety

      How was it?

    • @Turplemaple6318
      @Turplemaple6318 Před 4 lety +11

      I think he passed away..
      RIP for those who are reading this and dont want to pass out , open your mouth

    • @ritika9050
      @ritika9050 Před 3 lety

      How was it?

    • @loveonlytee483
      @loveonlytee483 Před 2 lety

      @@Turplemaple6318 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂This killed me

  • @motivationalmamta3720
    @motivationalmamta3720 Před 6 lety +54

    Animesh, I don't know if you'd go through my comment however I wish to mention that this is one of the best videos on Public speaking I've ever seen. I can't tell you how many people don't dare telling the great the stories because they lack in this skill. This video is a great help for the people who are scared of public speaking. Congrats! Keep going!

  • @kaleabfetene6258
    @kaleabfetene6258 Před 4 lety +4

    I get chills every time I’m watching this because I had a very similar story . Thank you. Your challenge impacted millions of people trough out the world!

  • @shivangikansal8025
    @shivangikansal8025 Před 6 lety

    Thank you Animesh! Today was my presentation and I saw your video yesterday. I realised I had to fight with myself.. win over me, and you know I did!! I did today! I was confident, I wasn't trembling, my voice wasn't shaky, and I was louder than ever in my life. In my whole life till now, I haven't delivered such good presentation as I did today. I thank you so much. And this video is just perfect for anybody who wants to challenge himself/herself!

  • @AnimeshGupta01
    @AnimeshGupta01 Před 6 lety +70

    To watch more of my talks, head over to my channel.
    Thank you for the comments here!!

    • @ck807
      @ck807 Před 5 lety +2

      Thanx Sir

    • @Natalia-cm8ez
      @Natalia-cm8ez Před 4 lety +1

      I subscribed just because the way you talk! I wanna learn this way
      It's AWESOME
      Imma watch more videos and try and talk like you

  • @megangilmore9355
    @megangilmore9355 Před 7 lety +84

    Loved this video, I was in a play today and was able to perform much better!

  • @ronanderson1023
    @ronanderson1023 Před 8 lety +31

    Great presentation. I went through the process in my mind, and I was shivering just thinking about it. I left my last school year, the year i have to pass to go to university. I had a weak time because of some stuff, but the thing that made me left was because of a few presentations in front of my class, but mainly because of the end-year exam presentation. Allthough i still think that it is an ugly thing to put a student through this in the most important year, where you have so much to do, so many lifechanging things, it is so important to not hide, not give up, because of a fear of public speaking. I had moments when i could barely talk, my heart pumping so much that i felt a ridiculous pressure in my neck and my head, i heard my heart. Uncontrollable shaking and stutering, disgusting. But as he says, you should NOT run away from this, for me, it almost cost me my life, socially, my partner and many other things. This year i get my second chance at the age of 26, do my last year and finally go study. I realize how big of a chance i've got here instead of beeing miserable. I train myself to look at problems as opportunities to grow, oppuortunities to grow. Don't hide, don't waste your life! I hope somebody feels a motivated. I'm sure i'm not the only one in this situation. Don't throw you life away, it is worth fighting for. I wish you guys reading this and watching these kinds of videos all the best! You'll do it!

    • @mariechaekyung3
      @mariechaekyung3 Před 8 lety +3

      wow that's amazing! I have a speech to do tomorrow. I'm kinda nervous but I know it'll be okay. I'm so glad you got through your problems. even though I don't know you, I feel proud of you!!

  • @lorancetk876
    @lorancetk876 Před 2 lety +2

    This is a really excellent speech. He had pointed out all possible fear coming ways. Also, he gave an escape plan from all scares.

  • @journeytoart
    @journeytoart Před 6 lety

    thank you soo much.i had problem with public speaking coz of social anxiety.coudnt do PPTs in my classroom but one day i was asked to do MC for a national conference in my college.i was beyond scared but wanted to not back out.i listened to this ,prepped myself and i did well. i did not shiver too! thank you!! just believe you can,and you will.

  • @tishyaketudeshpande2350
    @tishyaketudeshpande2350 Před 7 lety +22

    Salute to you sir!It is one of the most needed thing for us!

  • @miscellaneousstuff8362
    @miscellaneousstuff8362 Před 6 lety +41

    In ancient Greece Demosthenes would go to the ocean and attempt to recite orations louder than the waves. Still would be good way for practicing public speaking

  • @Humanx108
    @Humanx108 Před 4 lety +1

    My self talk... For last 40 year's This guy presented in finest way.. Thanks for helping me to understand issue.

  • @fabillustraits
    @fabillustraits Před 7 lety +27

    I could feel the confidence building up while watching this video! Thank you so much!

  • @bhaskarbravy8416
    @bhaskarbravy8416 Před 7 lety +10

    today i just lost my interview because of my fear like what if i do mistake finally it took me that way.but from now i don't give up anymore and im not ready to loose one more.thanq you sir such a nice reality u gave to all. from the core of my heart.

  • @successwithsadhguru4327
    @successwithsadhguru4327 Před 5 lety +3

    I had run away so many times from my college and still I am struggling but have figured it out a lot.When I was 10 years old I was given the opportunity to present a poem in large audience. I got nervous, shaky and couldn’t finish that off. From that moment of life to 2017 April, I always escaped the presentations or speeches. I met Sadhguru on 2017 April at Excel London and learned Shambhavi from him and doing it regularly. Now I feel much better and much confidence. I have spoken few times in group meeting and I have no fear or less fear of anything including death. 🙏🙏🙏😍 My life is owe to Sadhguru.

  • @sanjaynautiyal3553
    @sanjaynautiyal3553 Před 4 lety +2

    the way he presented a double personality in us, that is commendable! hopefully it will be helpfull for those who really feel scared when they have to just meet their eyes with audience on stage. I would say speech was motivational and full of energy

  • @nishitpaul4734
    @nishitpaul4734 Před 6 lety +1

    The method he used to explain his talk made the whole situation easily understanble, very unique way of delivering in a Ted talk, a must watch video

  • @viviennelyy
    @viviennelyy Před 8 lety +3

    thank you for this wonderful video. It really helps and i love the last part of the story especially "you have always been a fighter, why are you giving this up now?" Thank you!

  • @x12624
    @x12624 Před 7 lety +6

    This is beyond amazing. Amazing and creative presentation. He covered each and every aspect of the fears that we face while speaking. I just don't have enough words to describe this presentation.

  • @archujdv886
    @archujdv886 Před 6 lety

    I can't believe on it this person who were actually what he show himself at the beginning whatever presents reason of fear, anxiety, butterflies in stomach etc are such things which I also facing off but I'm really gonna try this for me ..thank you so much

  • @instantrewardspoints
    @instantrewardspoints Před 5 lety +3

    This is the most Passionate speech I’ve ever heard !!! WOW DUDE that’s just beautiful man !! I’ll never forget what you said thankyou !!
    Yeah the crowd was pretty lifeless but he was amazing !!

  • @vjstylo123
    @vjstylo123 Před 5 lety +3

    Excellent. I can relate myself to the man who never wants to speak up publically, though there are always lots of ideas in my mind, they die there itself. I am trying to overcome the fear of public speaking and I am sure one year down the line I'll be a better speaker , a better person than I am today. I don't regret living a life of mediocrity so far , but I'll try to change it. Thank you sharing the video.

  • @poojamankhedkar6776
    @poojamankhedkar6776 Před 7 lety +4

    OMG ! This video was just too amazing
    I can soo relate to it
    Thank you Animesh for speaking and giving me the courage to speak up !
    Salute to you !!

  • @gauravchhablani3045
    @gauravchhablani3045 Před 5 lety +2

    This is so relatable, even i was unable to speak in presentations in my class, but now i am so confidence, because i started believeing in myself.

  • @ankitsrivastava9862
    @ankitsrivastava9862 Před 6 lety

    it really touched the core of my heart, the point that you mentioned, gunpoint at your head...now this thought will always give me strength to face up the crowd and speak irrespective of ending up making mistakes, fumbling sentences and trembling hands, inspite of all these i was able to save my parents life from that gunshot...because i spoke😊 Thankyou

  • @pawankumart.s.1916
    @pawankumart.s.1916 Před 9 lety +7

    Excellent one ...reminds me of my struggle and one day taking a decision whatever it takes i will come out of it ... ofcourse i had much bigger problem than in the mind .. but as he said anything is better than hiding and escaping ...

  • @pujajain904
    @pujajain904 Před 4 lety +35

    I can completely relate to this situation
    Last month I had a presentation in my college and I couldn't speak because of the nervousness but I need to change ,change for my future for my career because without this I won't be able to do anything
    Thank you for this video!!

  • @sidharthchaudhary8325
    @sidharthchaudhary8325 Před 6 lety +2

    I really could relate with the dialogue.
    What a great orator this man is.
    Brilliant video

  • @brosofrap6386
    @brosofrap6386 Před 6 lety +2

    I've never spoke in front of a crowd but if I did I would start crying, messing up easy words, and shaking. Same with reading out loud but my voice starts getting shaky and I start getting quieter. This speech made me so emotional.

  • @suresharyaa2802
    @suresharyaa2802 Před 2 lety +3

    Till now in my life i didn't seen a video like this in CZcams you really thought me a good lesson
    What a unique style of presentation hats off brother
    Really inspired me

  • @djalias3220
    @djalias3220 Před 8 lety +5

    Thank you so much for this presentation. I go through this almost everyday, of running away from exactly what I want to do. Your story is inspiring and it's going to help many. I've never heard of NLP, I"m glad you introduced this to us. Feel it, Face it, and grow... Thank you!

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 8 lety

      +Dj Alias
      That's really good to hear! I'm glad you find this useful! Good luck!!

    • @LiquidSasha
      @LiquidSasha Před 8 lety +1

      +LIMITLESS - Confidence, Soft-skills, Personality, and EI Are you Animesh Gupta? If so then great video

  • @kartheekg2319
    @kartheekg2319 Před 6 lety

    one of the best speech I have seen on anxiety. I have been suffering with anxiety for last 2 years which gradually increased due to lonely business travels I did for my company , now I can say I am at the peak stage of anxiety disorder. I am a great sincere , hard worker. Developed great SW for my company . but not able to reach my goals as I m getting severe panic attacks of anxiety in meetings, discussions, and also in public gathering. Used to watch many videos, but this video is the best. I hope I can solve my problem very soon.

  • @gsp3300
    @gsp3300 Před 3 lety +1

    I've to say, you are just brilliant. Really loved the way you demonstrate.

  • @hari6326
    @hari6326 Před 6 lety +4

    Got the best video on how to tackle nervousness during speech after watching hundreds of videos

  • @zeetsoft
    @zeetsoft Před 8 lety +5

    Thank you so much. Your practice demonstration is very much appreciated. You are a great man.

  • @sowmya6471
    @sowmya6471 Před 6 lety

    everyday one TEDx video can change one life ...it's jst not a video it's a kind of energy,inspiration, building confident every day...n I changed a lot ..thank t all d speakers...

  • @snigdhagrover2858
    @snigdhagrover2858 Před 4 lety +2

    This is the best Ted talk. So inspirational. Thank you so much Sir!

  • @DivyanshBatham
    @DivyanshBatham Před 8 lety +15

    Great Speech Animesh Sir :D
    I just want to share this with you (yes you! the one who is reading this) This speech really motivated me, now I want to face the audience ~ whatever may be the consequences of my speech Nobody is going to stop me from speaking in front of audience because I want to be a perfect speaker at the end of my engg.

  • @mhargrave1950
    @mhargrave1950 Před 7 lety +63

    That was a great way of opening a speech. Really caught my attention.

  • @ajaysisode709
    @ajaysisode709 Před 4 lety +2

    This is the best speech I have ever seen!!!
    Very powerful!!Thank you Sir

  • @YesKaySelva
    @YesKaySelva Před 7 lety +1

    I get goosebumps when I watch this one, inspired speech thank you.

  • @annupal4229
    @annupal4229 Před 7 lety +30

    very inspirational, I hope going forward it will help me a lot to git rid of shyness nd fear of public speaking.

  • @abhishekchintu8331
    @abhishekchintu8331 Před 7 lety +39

    today I have my interview and this video entirely changed my perspective ,let's see what's going to happen

    • @chetanck1406
      @chetanck1406 Před 7 lety

      Abhishek Chintu what happened bro?

    • @abhishekchintu8331
      @abhishekchintu8331 Před 7 lety +17

      when people say ,this video will change your life i was like..lol ! but what can i say is today this video made my day and i was selected for my job interview

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 7 lety +5

      Wow, this message made me happy. You're welcome! (Y)

    • @shaileshjaiswar8581
      @shaileshjaiswar8581 Před 7 lety +2

      Abhishek Chintu I am more inspired by you then the video

    • @abhishekchintu8331
      @abhishekchintu8331 Před 7 lety

      thank you , keep going buddy!

  • @JG-mt3rp
    @JG-mt3rp Před 4 lety

    One of the all time best Ted talks. I just love this guy.

  • @lekhashaji5483
    @lekhashaji5483 Před 3 lety

    It takes guts. Yes, we keep facing our fears and keep going. Applaud you friend.

  • @durgabuddala7220
    @durgabuddala7220 Před 8 lety +6

    Mr. Gupta you nailed it....... it's really help us.......

  • @geethikakaranam143
    @geethikakaranam143 Před 7 lety +6

    I'M late... but At least now I've learnt lot.. it's emotional, motivational n amazing...
    thank you very much.. sir

  • @sameersatarkar5874
    @sameersatarkar5874 Před 5 lety

    seriously you motivate in a excellent manner.i don't have words to appreciate your confidence.

  • @rainycloud7328
    @rainycloud7328 Před 5 lety

    Thank u so much for this! I'm aspiring to be a teacher but my fear of public speaking has been making me doubt everything. I feel like now I face it full force!!

  • @sunshinelover6262
    @sunshinelover6262 Před 4 lety +5

    I've never seen this kind of video for overcoming stage fear. You nailed it man🔥

  • @geethikakaranam143
    @geethikakaranam143 Před 7 lety +3

    I'M late... At least now I've learnt lot.. it's emotional, motivational n amazing...
    thank you very much sir. speechless.. really.

  • @shivamjindal9745
    @shivamjindal9745 Před 6 lety +2

    what a wonderful and pumping speech 👍👍😍.
    earlier i used to think that i am the only one who wants to die or cry whenever wanted to speak up and perform but always being drowned by fear of English and shyness but now this speech made me realised that we all same no matter where we are .we have to get the guts to face or otherwise regret for the whole life.

  • @2589tasha
    @2589tasha Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you so much Animesh. I can totally relate to the fear of public speaking. I have to do a presentation in a month and I have the exact thoughts that you struggled with. Thank you so much for inspiring me. I needed this!

  • @preetityagi5717
    @preetityagi5717 Před 4 lety +4

    I I am always faces such type of anixety When I face audience .I think your video help me to give up my fear of public speaking

  • @octavialea9886
    @octavialea9886 Před 8 lety +8

    Great! I am starting to think this way myself now and watching this helped to reinforce the idea. I am starting to not even care if my nerves mess me up completely! Now I am watching this girl in my classes fake illnesses and walk away from presentations, its like watching my former self!

    • @AnimeshGupta01
      @AnimeshGupta01 Před 8 lety +1

      +Octavia Lea Wow, that's great!! (Y)

    • @octavialea9886
      @octavialea9886 Před 8 lety +2

      Great I hope everything goes well which I am sure it will! Before I posted this I had not done a presentation but was getting ready to after a long time avoiding the situation. I did it with the girl I was referring to as a group project. We were both terrified! I was right she almost didn't make it nor did I haha. We both got up and it went well and we got to feel the best feeling after ward! Like a heavy weight lifted and it was great. The level of fear I felt was horrendous but I had got to the point where the feeling of not doing it was worse, no increase in confidence really just a do or die kind of feeling he explains here. I have worked so hard towards my degree and to let slip out of my hands because of something so minor was killing me inside. Please spend sometime visualising yourself being successful and the feeling of accomplishment after, really feel it as if you have done it. Good luck! :)

  • @Shubhangi-nk6dc
    @Shubhangi-nk6dc Před 6 lety

    I felt like a spark within myself after watching this...Great job

  • @sajanbhat1508
    @sajanbhat1508 Před 6 lety +1

    Best video of ted talks👏👌👌the way u explained the troubles and how to overcome it...thanks you.....

  • @juventusventuno9213
    @juventusventuno9213 Před 5 lety +13

    my trick: smile. have fun. and I say to myself: "knock it out of the park!" (baseball analogy)

  • @soundharayanayagi5925
    @soundharayanayagi5925 Před 8 lety +3

    Wow..that really help.. thank you so much Animesh . I will again watch this thursday just before my presentation

  • @etsout
    @etsout Před 8 měsíci

    This eight year old video is the best fear of public speaking presentation I've ever seen. They should show this to every level of student, elementary age to college students.

  • @eduardusign1590
    @eduardusign1590 Před 5 lety

    i just want to say thankyou for this motivational video, i keep watching this video every night before my final presentation in college, and when the day come i can speak confidently in front of the audience even my voice still shaking at some moments, but i feel succeed for my self anyway!