The Secret to Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking | Sha Nacino | TEDxYouth@SJCS

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2023
  • In the realm of public speaking, there often exists a daunting pressure to perform with confidence and poise. Whether it is delivering a presentation, addressing an audience, or stepping onto the stage, the expectation for excellence in communication can be overwhelming. The mere thought of public speaking can evoke anxiety and self-doubt, making it feel like a Herculean task. An award-winning author, global keynote speaker, and entrepreneur dedicated to helping people achieve their goals and live a purposeful life, Ms. Sha Nacino inspires and motivates individuals to pursue their passions and positively impact the world. Once a self-proclaimed ‘shy girl,' she shares how she stepped out of her shell and into the spotlight - as well as discovered her own love for public speaking. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 61

  • @DivinaJoyAyungo
    @DivinaJoyAyungo Před 9 měsíci +10

    Public speaking is not a performance. It's a conversation. What a powerful message! 🥰 Thanks for sharing your story, Sha! So inspiring.

  • @webinars6692
    @webinars6692 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Congrats, Sha! That was a great talk! Very encouraging and inspiring. I first heard that phrase that “public speaking is not a performance but a conversation” from another tedx speaker, matt, and that helped me overcome my fear of public speaking. When I got the chance to speak in front of 200 people last week, mostly lawyers, managers, and high-ranked govt officials, it was a success because i was always reminding myself that i wasn’t performing, but rather, i was having a conversation. Ang galing, Sha! I’d love to join your masterclass soon. I’ve been following you for years and you are truly an inspiration.

  • @noelmaronilla9217
    @noelmaronilla9217 Před 9 měsíci +7

    I agree. Public speaking is a conversation. And when you are conversing, you do not think of yourself but on the person or persons you are addressing to so there is no room for fear and you are connected. Thanks for sharing your insights.

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Nice to hear that. Thanks for sharing, Noel! :)

  • @emmanuelarceo2061
    @emmanuelarceo2061 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Inspiring and encouraging! Thank you, Sha for the tip. You have given the solution to the common problem we have about public speaking.

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you so much, Emmanuel! Your comment warmed my heart :)

  • @aldrine.tolentino
    @aldrine.tolentino Před 9 měsíci +3

    as an introvert, public speaking isn't my cup of tea and everytime I jave to speak in front of the ministry, there's some uncertainties if I could convey every details and stuff. Thank you, Ms. Sha for the inputs 🙏🏾

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci +1

      You’re most welcome, Aldrine! You got this!💪

  • @kawee08
    @kawee08 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Very inspiring and uplifting! Congratulations, Sha!! Always proud of you! 🤗👏🎉

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you, Kawee08! Appreciate you!

  • @maeisabelle08
    @maeisabelle08 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing your gift in public speaking. Congratulations! Yes, I agree. There’s so much we can change if only we get the courage to speak up and learn how to get our message across effectively. Keep on inspiring! 😊

  • @joyhayagan796
    @joyhayagan796 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you Ms. Sha. You're always an inspiration. 👏👏

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      You’re most welcome, Joy!😊🫶

  • @F73-III
    @F73-III Před 9 měsíci +2

    The content of the speech was expertly laid out and delivered with such passion and vigor that it resonated deeply with the audience. One of the major takeaways for me was the focus on avoiding negative self-talk and shifting to positive thoughts. The idea that replacing negative thoughts with positive affirmation is invaluable for anyone looking to improve their public speaking. It was a reminder that self-confidence is a key to successful public speaking. Furthermore, the speaker’s concept that public speaking is not a performance but a conversation, was another insight I found truly helpful. This paradigm shift, in my opinion is both liberating and empowering. Lastly, the speaker’s personal experiences shared in the speech, along with tangible tips for improvement was a perfect capstone to a truly impactful talk.

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Beautiful. Thanks so much, Francis! :)

  • @RYang-fz1ve
    @RYang-fz1ve Před 7 měsíci +1

    What a great speech and rule of thumb: Engage in more conversations.
    I've always feared public speaking and realized it's because I feel I'm not good at articulating my words, or thinking on my feet (fear of not being able to ask the right questions).

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thanks for appreciating. Yes, engage in more conversations :)

  • @lindamondonedo-qx1hx
    @lindamondonedo-qx1hx Před 8 měsíci +2

    Sha, your talk is exactly what I needed. I am proud of you.

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you so much, Dr. Linda! Happy to hear that :)

  • @myrnatam-natividad5557
    @myrnatam-natividad5557 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Very proud of you, Sha!

  • @user-sc3ii4ol9d
    @user-sc3ii4ol9d Před 9 měsíci +2

    I love this so muuch. Watching this video because I am so afraid of public speaking but I want to learn more of it and to somehow overcome my fear. I'm always shaking when I was called to speak or recite in front of people🥺

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you, Arminda! :) I'm glad you loved this video. May it help you overcome your fear of speaking. More power to you! :)

  • @analizageonanga1531
    @analizageonanga1531 Před 7 měsíci +1

    What an inspiring speech, Sha! Congratulations! Thank you for sharing with us your humble beginnings and how you transformed yourself to a confident public speaker. It is evident that you are comfortable having a conversation on stage. 😊

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 5 měsíci

      My pleasure, Ana. God bless :)

  • @teachernickinsaigon1201
    @teachernickinsaigon1201 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks so much for posting this

  • @donnaaraneta9910
    @donnaaraneta9910 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Congratulations Sha! My AHA Moment, Public Speaking is like a conversation. I applied it tonight during our Toastmasters meeting as a Table Topic Master and my husband told me I was relax now compared to last meeting. Yay! Thanks for this valuable tips, Sha!. :)

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      This is so cool! Love it! Thanks so much for applying the talk, Donna!!! 💕🫶

  • @CoachJCTV
    @CoachJCTV Před 8 měsíci +2

    Powerful, Personal & Practical TED Talk Sha🦸‍♀️ Congratulations🎉 Cheers to more Fearless Possibilities 💗

  • @jillang143
    @jillang143 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Truly an idea worth spreading! ❤🎉

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      Yey!!! Thank you, Jill!!!🫶😊

  • @angelicarivera7336
    @angelicarivera7336 Před 9 měsíci +1

    "Public speaking doesn't have to be scary, it is a conversation"
    I don't know what to say but THIS IS AMAZING a one of a kind speech I've listened. Thank you Ms. Sha 🤍 you're truly such an inspiration.
    Follower since 2011 (Think Rich, Yuppies!)
    I hope someday I could watch and listen to your future talks in person. ❤
    Congratulions Ms. Sha 🎊

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      I love your key takeaway, Angelica! Thank you for supporting me ever since I started as a speaker in 2011. I look forward to seeing you also in-person at one of the events soon!

  • @marchnacino
    @marchnacino Před 9 měsíci +1

    Super inspiring! Proud of you, Sha!

  • @marikrizpagunsan2288
    @marikrizpagunsan2288 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your TEDx talk. I was so inspired, I shared it with my colleagues as well. I never thought of Public Speaking as a way of conversation. Indeed, it looks one way kasi yung speaker lang naman talaga ang salita ng salita; but then, engaging your audience in your talk, would make them feel like responding to your message. Maraming salamat :-) I didn't see Public Speaking from this perspective. God bless.
    😊

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 5 měsíci

      My pleasure. Thanks for sharing with your colleagues :)

  • @MARHAILOCIERO
    @MARHAILOCIERO Před 9 měsíci +1

    Congratulations, Coach Sha!

  • @eunicepetipit7617
    @eunicepetipit7617 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Congratulations, Ms. Sha. You did great. 🥳🎉

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thank you, Eunice! Which part resonated with you the most?

    • @eunicepmusic4679
      @eunicepmusic4679 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@ShaNacinoTV "Public speaking is a conversation." - Sha Nacino
      This reminds me to connect with audiences and speak the language that speaks to them.

  • @ishanwrites2600
    @ishanwrites2600 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I took my time to cry.--Ms. Sha
    🤍

  • @shellamarieaperdo2054
    @shellamarieaperdo2054 Před 2 měsíci

    What a beautiful video I'd seen today.

  • @echichifie
    @echichifie Před 9 měsíci +1

    Inspiring!

  • @succes171
    @succes171 Před 4 měsíci +1

    When I watched its a peace of cake but when it comes reality its difficulty for mw😢

  • @abdiaibrahimhassan5789
    @abdiaibrahimhassan5789 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤❤

  • @demie9178
    @demie9178 Před 23 dny

  • @forwork2601
    @forwork2601 Před 2 měsíci

    Public speaking is definitely not a conversation. It is the most stressful type of any performance

  • @kimberlynbenedicto7663
    @kimberlynbenedicto7663 Před 9 měsíci +1

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @ShaNacinoTV
      @ShaNacinoTV Před 9 měsíci

      😊😊😊

    • @kimberlynbenedicto7663
      @kimberlynbenedicto7663 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Inspiring!! 🤗
      "In a conversation you need to connect with the person you're talking with" 10:30

  • @arthurprecy
    @arthurprecy Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hope you can find your PARTNER in LIFE soon.

  • @Shyamkumar-bw9kw
    @Shyamkumar-bw9kw Před 8 měsíci +1

    As if she is me