Behind the Veil E11: How to save your relationship with Marriage Coach Mariam Arafat

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024

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  • @a_proud_hijabi_girl
    @a_proud_hijabi_girl Před 2 měsíci +17

    Guys , please don't hurt this sister for removing Niqab.You don't know what the other person is going through, you know nothing about her mental health and self esteem please let her be.I myself am a Niqabi,I am sure when she will be comfortable and fully ready she will wear Niqab again and permanently Insha Allah

  • @Cozygirl55239
    @Cozygirl55239 Před měsícem +10

    I don't understand why some Muslims are acting like it the end of the world if you stop wearing the niqab I don't see any problem like Shes completely covered. and observing the right hijab
    sister don't listen to these comment keep on going and do what your good at 🙌🙌❤❤❤❤

  • @najmakhatoon5632
    @najmakhatoon5632 Před měsícem +7

    I started wearing niqab by getting inspired by the confident niqabis like her.literally feeling sad that you took off your niqab .You look more strong and courageous when you were in niqab. But I understand that we all have problems in our life.Allah knows everyone best. May Allah guide us all to the straight path .

  • @hhhhh45543
    @hhhhh45543 Před 2 měsíci +16

    sincere advise as a niqabi.. learn about the real meaning of hijab according to the quran and sunnah and surround yourself with ones who emulate that🌷 may Allah rectify our affairs

  • @XYtUserX
    @XYtUserX Před 2 měsíci +7

    Sister we love you and respect you, please wear the niqab..
    May Allah swt guide us all towards the righteous path..

  • @drramshaqamar
    @drramshaqamar Před 29 dny +1

    Niqab is not compulsory plus it's her personal decision. This woman is such an inspiration for all the muslim women out there and I think that it's a sign of immense courage that where she felt in her journey to be more comfortable with showing her face, she didn't bother about the people who she knew would judge her for that. Kindly respect her journey and if you can't be supportive, at least do not criticize. You don't know at what position she stands with Allah, and if Allah is giving her toufeeq to excel in deen and dunia then that's in fact a lesson for me and all of you to learn from. If we are too hurt or bothered from her action then we have a lot of inner work to do as it's not her responsibility for how we feel or carry ourselves. She is still the embodiment of modesty and haya and I love her for what she is doing. 🌟

    • @thehealedsister
      @thehealedsister  Před 25 dny +2

      Allah bless you with more than you ask inshaAllah 🤍

  • @Zaman2024.
    @Zaman2024. Před měsícem +4

    Leave.her.alone! She is in her own journey to becoming a good muslimah so are YOU.Go through ALL her content aren't you benefiting from her as a Muslim, Muslim community should not PUSH PEOPLE WHO REALLY TRYİNG and you can see through their ACTİONS! Pray Allah strengthen her cause me and you can't do an ATOM of good without Allah!

    • @thehealedsister
      @thehealedsister  Před měsícem +1

      JazakAllah Khair beautiful, may Allah reward you for your kindness 🤍

  • @Yahyamourad_
    @Yahyamourad_ Před měsícem +1

    "He smirked as he read out the Prophet’s name,
    Then couldn’t wipe it off, and so he came
    To beg Mohammad, ‘Prophet, pardon me,
    You have such grace and know Truth’s mystery;
    I made fun then because I was a fool,
    I should myself have met such ridicule.’
    When God decides to show they’re immature
    He makes men feel inclined to mock the pure" - Rumi
    May you be well protected dear one 🕊️

  • @marziazahedee1005
    @marziazahedee1005 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Justifying "why someone took off niqab" or hijab is Evil. Fr this is how shaytaan tricks.. haya and imaam goes hand in hand, and Wallah as a girl, the closer you get to Allah the more modest, the more coevered you get(it comes automatically). So if we normalise this justifications its only primoting fitnah. Today niqab, then it could be hijab.. never ever support these justifications.. May Allah protect us from going away form Him and help us better in our modesty🤲🏻

    • @fsiddiqua6140
      @fsiddiqua6140 Před měsícem +1

      Right

    • @amatulfulani6390
      @amatulfulani6390 Před měsícem +3

      It’s not obligatory at the end of the day. You retyping the same thing throughout the comment section doesn’t change that fact. Stop harassing her.

    • @Therealsaraxoxo
      @Therealsaraxoxo Před měsícem

      Omg get a life you weirdo! Why are you soo frikin triggered? Shes only showing her face if it annoys you so much just leave! Shes not done anything wrong by removing her niqab many women do it as its not compulsory. Concentrate on yourself and leave her alone.. and get a life on the way out. BYE

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 Před měsícem +2

    Sister somayah we love and appreciate you for the sake of Allah SWT. Please sisters in the comments leave her alone. He niqab removal is between her and Allah only. I am grateful for all the resources she generously spend with us here to help us on our healing journeys. Let’s uplift and support each other instead of letting shaytan tear us apart.
    Assalamualeikum wa wa b Salams from jubail KSA ❤❤

  • @zuhuraabdi8989
    @zuhuraabdi8989 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I agree in the journey of marriage you might end up loosing yourself

  • @alinakasey7970
    @alinakasey7970 Před měsícem +1

    Great conversation :) The advices can also be applied to all other relationships as well!

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 Před měsícem +2

    Islamically though, should we refer to our husbands as kings?! Just wondering not judging so relax ladies 😂

  • @sayeedafareed266
    @sayeedafareed266 Před měsícem

    Niqab is not compulsory so it's upto you sister wear it or not

  • @safiakhadeer6683
    @safiakhadeer6683 Před 2 měsíci +4

    MaashaaAllah amazing podcast!!!!!

  • @digitsandfidgets
    @digitsandfidgets Před měsícem +1

    MashaAllah sisters this was absolutely what I needed to hear today. May Allah SWT continue to bless you ameeen

  • @marziazahedee1005
    @marziazahedee1005 Před 2 měsíci +12

    It's really sad to see how you took off your niqab. Sister, haya and imaan really goes hand in hand. Demoting in modesty is always bad. Doing anything by displeasing Allah, is never worth it my sister. May Allah you and all of us

    • @thehealedsister
      @thehealedsister  Před 2 měsíci +30

      Wearing a niqaab is not compulsory upon any woman in Islam. I have not removed anything that is Fardh upon me. I have not in any way demoted my modesty and I am still covered as I should be under the laws of Islam. Your views and opinions are your own and are not factual on the basis of what Islam teaches, please do not comment on my haya and imaan when you have no idea
      Allah knows best & may he guide us all

    • @afiazahedee
      @afiazahedee Před měsícem +8

      @@thehealedsisterReally? Removing niqab is definitely a degradation of haya and modesty. If you want sisters to listen and heal from you, strive to be like those role models who are considered to be the best women of Islam.

    • @marziazahedee1005
      @marziazahedee1005 Před měsícem +8

      @@afiazahedee Exactly! The best women of Islam never came infront of men to give dawah or fatwa. It was all done from behind the veil.

    • @hhhhh45543
      @hhhhh45543 Před měsícem +6

      @@thehealedsister All four madhabs hold the view it is Wajib in times of Fitnah & when Fitnah can arise from being barefaced. Which is in Today's Time as Moral Corruption has been spread.
      Hanafi, Maliki and Shafii hold the view it's Sunnah outside of times of Fitnah
      Therefore to us all, it is infact Obligatory as we are living in these times.

    • @alinakasey7970
      @alinakasey7970 Před měsícem +4

      I listen to her content and have found it beneficial as well as many other sisters. This episode is still consistent in content as her episodes with the niqab. She is dressed modestly as the sister guest who is wearing hijab. If you are this bothered you don’t have to watch her videos

  • @deineschwester1
    @deineschwester1 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for continuing to provide such valuable content, dear sister. May Allah accept from you, both of you 🤲

  • @ireally7548
    @ireally7548 Před 2 měsíci +4

    As a niqabi in the west.. I feel devaluated and heartbroken.
    hasbunallahi wa nimal waqeel

    • @thehealedsister
      @thehealedsister  Před 2 měsíci +16

      If a stranger removing her niqab affects you this much, you might have some work to do on yourself sister. May Allah make it easy for you.

    • @aattii.x7086
      @aattii.x7086 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Niqab isn’t compulsory so I don’t understand why people are having such a negative opinion on the matter, so if she takes it off, it isn’t sinful, and on top of this it has nothing to do with anyone, it’s between her and Allah. Leave well enough alone and mind your own business in the most respectful manner.

    • @hhhhh45543
      @hhhhh45543 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@aattii.x7086 All four madhabs hold the view it is Wajib in times of Fitnah & when Fitnah can arise from being barefaced. Which is in Today's Time as Moral Corruption has been spread.
      Hanafi, Maliki and Shafii hold the view it's Sunnah outside of times of Fitnah
      Therefore to us all, it is infact Obligatory as we are living in these times. If you're in a country that has banned Nigab then blame can't be put on you as it's done against your will.

    • @hhhhh45543
      @hhhhh45543 Před 2 měsíci

      @@aattii.x7086 Is the difference of opinion on the nigab being or not fardh an excuse for women not to cover their faces?
      Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan was asked the following question:
      "There is much talk nowadays about the ruling on a woman veiling her face. There are some women that rely on certain statements of scholars who hold that it is permissible for a woman to uncover her face, and thus place their cloaks on their shoulders (without veiling the face) claiming that there is a difference of opinion on this matter.
      The question is: Does the fact that there is a difference of opinion (amongst the scholars) in each issue serve as an excuse allowing us to take the opinion of whichever scholar (we feel like)? Also, what is the ruling on the French 'abaayah?" (Aabayat Faransiyyah)
      He replied:
      "No one uses the difference of opinion amongst the scholars as a justification except for the people of desires who love to follow their whims. As for the one who fears Allaah, he does not use the differences of opinion as an excuse.
      Differences of opinion exist amongst the scholars. In fact, there is almost no issue from among the issues of Figh except that there can be found a difference of opinion amongst the scholars on it. This is why Allaah has commanded us to refer back to the Book and the Sunnah.
      'And if you differ in anything, then refer it back to Allaah and the Messenger if you truly believe in Allaah and the Last Day.' [Surah An-Nisaa: 59]
      So differences of opinion exist.
      However, it is not permissible for us to (only) accept the opinion that conforms to our desires and aspirations, whilst rejecting the one that is supported by the evidences just because it contradicts our desires.
      This is not permissible.

    • @hhhhh45543
      @hhhhh45543 Před 2 měsíci

      @@aattii.x7086 Is the difference of opinion on the nigab being or not fardh an excuse for women not to cover their faces?
      Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan was asked the following question:
      "There is much talk nowadays about the ruling on a woman veiling her face. There are some women that rely on certain statements of scholars who hold that it is permissible for a woman to uncover her face, and thus place their cloaks on their shoulders (without veiling the face) claiming that there is a difference of opinion on this matter.
      The question is: Does the fact that there is a difference of opinion (amongst the scholars) in each issue serve as an excuse allowing us to take the opinion of whichever scholar (we feel like)? Also, what is the ruling on the French 'abaayah?" (Aabayat Faransiyyah)
      He replied:
      "No one uses the difference of opinion amongst the scholars as a justification except for the people of desires who love to follow their whims. As for the one who fears Allaah, he does not use the differences of opinion as an excuse.
      Differences of opinion exist amongst the scholars. In fact, there is almost no issue from among the issues of Figh except that there can be found a difference of opinion amongst the scholars on it. This is why Allaah has commanded us to refer back to the Book and the Sunnah.
      'And if you differ in anything, then refer it back to Allaah and the Messenger if you truly believe in Allaah and the Last Day.' [Surah An-Nisaa: 59]
      So differences of opinion exist.
      However, it is not permissible for us to (only) accept the opinion that conforms to our desires and aspirations, whilst rejecting the one that is supported by the evidences just because it contradicts our desires.
      This is not permissible.

  • @Ays-nb7yb
    @Ays-nb7yb Před měsícem

    Amazing ..

  • @ceol8070
    @ceol8070 Před měsícem

    with niqab is good, please sister, wear niqab which is so gooooood. i mean respect and please for the sake of ALLAH swt not for others, please wear for the sake of ALLAH

    • @qasims2210
      @qasims2210 Před měsícem

      mind your own business for the sake of Allah

  • @drdia9526
    @drdia9526 Před 2 měsíci +4

    mashallah you are beautiful sister

  • @shamlailyas8016
    @shamlailyas8016 Před 2 měsíci

    Why dont you give a short notice of why you removed your niqab sis...
    Just to calm peoples minds...
    Love you and your insights.....

    • @Faizaxsh
      @Faizaxsh Před měsícem +2

      Why should she? How about people learn to focus on themselves instead. Gosh, people are so entitled! Subhanallah

    • @amatulfulani6390
      @amatulfulani6390 Před měsícem +1

      Bc it’s really not your business/concern.

    • @shamlailyas8016
      @shamlailyas8016 Před měsícem

      ​@@Faizaxshyeah you are right sister...
      Btw I just remembered of rasoolullah going with his wife and to avoid misunderstanding he conveyed to the crowd tht she is my wife...

    • @shamlailyas8016
      @shamlailyas8016 Před měsícem

      I love you and your insights and Your spiritual drive...

  • @Pope1111rh
    @Pope1111rh Před 2 měsíci +12

    Sister why are you remove your niqab 😢😢

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 Před 2 měsíci +12

      Niqab is not obligatory sister Alhumdullilah 😊

    • @Pope1111rh
      @Pope1111rh Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@aminah761 it's better to hide your face.
      Hazrat Aisha R.A Hazrat Fatima R. A also hide their face in front of Prophet Companion

    • @ansarunahmed3653
      @ansarunahmed3653 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Let it be people, it's people personal choice , between them n Allah. Why question?

    • @syedanargis616
      @syedanargis616 Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@dariyabadra9804
      Imam can not be measured through eyes.
      it is within the heart which can be only seen by Allah.
      Niqab or hijab or non hijab never could be a deciding factor for a person who has an iman.

    • @tasneemkhanom6539
      @tasneemkhanom6539 Před 2 měsíci

      @@dariyabadra9804dont assume

  • @naimaboufous1255
    @naimaboufous1255 Před měsícem

    Remove Niqab and start with mascara and piercing.. and also the way you speak 👄
    That's super 👍 may ALLAH guide sister and La hawla wa la quwata illa biLLAH ☝️

  • @zoujamuhammad6581
    @zoujamuhammad6581 Před měsícem +2

    fitnah alert.. gain fame with naqab and then normalize removing niqab..

    • @thehealedsister
      @thehealedsister  Před měsícem +4

      Thank you for your support and kindness

    • @San_mate
      @San_mate Před měsícem

      Exactly they always do this...

  • @ansarunahmed3653
    @ansarunahmed3653 Před 2 měsíci

    Late 40 i feel it's late to for me to do anything for my self in terms of profession

    • @khairulashraf8258
      @khairulashraf8258 Před 2 měsíci +10

      when you are 60 you will say that exact same thing. Everything has a starting point. Just grab yours.

    • @KhadijahSo.PharmD
      @KhadijahSo.PharmD Před měsícem

      @@khairulashraf8258 Wise words Sister. May Allah (SWT) continue to guide us all. 🤲🏽

    • @shareefamaj2025
      @shareefamaj2025 Před měsícem

      @@khairulashraf8258this is so true! ❤ MashaAllah

  • @jamilabeslija-dugara4521
    @jamilabeslija-dugara4521 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Mind your own business!!!

  • @Ai-teach1
    @Ai-teach1 Před 2 měsíci

    😂❤

  • @toybamohammed8143
    @toybamohammed8143 Před měsícem

    Subehan allah😢😢😢😢😢 you remove your niqaab

  • @omniaadam8099
    @omniaadam8099 Před 2 měsíci +1

    first comment