The Real Reason Ruth Wilson Left 'The Affair' | MEAWW

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  • @oxanasf6369
    @oxanasf6369 Před 3 lety +51

    I began watching the show because of her (I fell in love with her acting after Luther).

  • @thebabslife
    @thebabslife Před 4 lety +106

    Yeah that tree scene did feel very yuk and rapey to me, I was quite surprised it happened. I didn't understand how she then said she was pregnant, like what? A lot of sex scenes were unnecessary in that show, specially sex after major disrespect or disagreement, it just felt yuk, and ironically very "unfeministic"

    • @alishasrishtee9116
      @alishasrishtee9116 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes.. I agree on that!!

    • @ocsrc
      @ocsrc Před 3 lety +8

      The show was about sex. It is called The Affair
      The title implied sex was a main theme
      Affairs are about sex

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit Před 3 lety +5

      I did not feel that the show was about sex, or about affairs. To me, it was about people, and life. And about how individuals handle stuff, and about how to take responsibility and how to be happy.
      Watching seasons 1-4 on Amazon prime, I thought several times that the people making this show think showing sex is way more important than than it is.
      Good show, and storytelling. And maybe some folks behind the scenes had emotional problems or psychological issues....

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Před 3 lety +2

      @@bluecollarlit It was about grief as well.

    • @winter_s_44
      @winter_s_44 Před rokem +3

      @@bluecollarlit I thought the same thing. I was watching it thinking this looks like a man wrote it because everyone is defaulting to sex and everything is sex. I get that her arc is that she is using sex to numb her pain, so she is promiscuous, but every sex scene doesn’t need to be full on graphic. You can allude to her having slept with a guy without having to have a drawn out sex scene. This is what people (including the actress) means when she says it isn’t organic to the plot. They were just throwing in full on nudity in every sex scene just to do so. Certain moments it makes sense like the first time we see her with Cole or Noah or if there is a particularly charged scene, but every time they sleep together doesn’t need to be graphic, nor did we need to see that with her sex scene with that creepy guy. That was another pointless scene.

  • @chase9812
    @chase9812 Před 4 lety +88

    Show died when she left

    • @cinziaicardi8440
      @cinziaicardi8440 Před 3 měsíci

      Ma alla fine, si e' suicidata oppure è stata uccisa?

    • @Jetsi79
      @Jetsi79 Před 2 měsíci

      @@cinziaicardi8440 She was killed.

  • @oneslice5059
    @oneslice5059 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Ruth is a phenomenal and talented actress, Luv her 👏🙌💕👍❗

  • @amoldhadve07
    @amoldhadve07 Před 4 lety +37

    She is a really good actor and after watching The affair u can really feel strength of her acting and emotions....really great ...

  • @spacecomet128
    @spacecomet128 Před 2 lety +28

    Good for her, this makes me like Ruth Wilson even more!!

  • @vlinds7737
    @vlinds7737 Před 3 lety +83

    I totally support Ruth Wilson for quitting a series where she was made to feel very uncomfortable! Ruth Wilson was one of the best actresses on that series and she deserved to be respected and listened to! The Affair was one of the best series I have ever seen and I really wanted it to continue past season 5!
    I agree with the many comments that the tree seen between Noah and Allison seemed more like a rape! I am surprised that her character did not leave and charge Noah after that scene because to me it was a rape! Kudos to Ruth Wilson for quitting the series!

    • @lucymontes4602
      @lucymontes4602 Před 3 lety +4

      I agree! It just shows what “Hollywood” idiot directors would make their amazing actors do for “ratings”. I am SO happy Wilson left. She is a courageous woman for standing up for herself and leaving.

    • @vlinds7737
      @vlinds7737 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lucymontes4602 Thank you.I am glad you agree!

  • @loualcaraz6497
    @loualcaraz6497 Před 4 lety +80

    The scene that got to me was when Alison had sex with Oscar. That scene was completely gratuitous and just downright creepy. I actually felt sorry for Ruth.

    • @brownigirlpie
      @brownigirlpie Před 3 lety +2

      Totally agree!

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Před 3 lety

      Horrible scene.

    • @lucymontes4602
      @lucymontes4602 Před 3 lety +1

      Sarah Treem tried to cajole actors to get naked even if they were uncomfortable or not contractually obligated to. I think she was one of the directors. I can’t even imagine what Wilson went through, and I can see why she filed a report, she stated she did not feel safe.

    • @JP-tr5og
      @JP-tr5og Před 3 lety +3

      @@lucymontes4602 Exactly Lucy!! And can you believe this type of show didn’t have an intimacy expert on set?? I almost feel like the directors did that intentionally 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @maigy99xx67
      @maigy99xx67 Před 2 lety +2

      Agreed.Also oscar is really disgusting character.I just finished watching this last episode now.Alison is most favorite brave character and this talented actress is brave too.Director was male or female..it is just awful.Some female directors..Not only in this show are like misogynist brutal bustard too.

  • @lifearoundus5107
    @lifearoundus5107 Před 4 lety +81

    The affair went bland without her

  • @jjlee3732
    @jjlee3732 Před 3 lety +38

    I really noticed that ruth's character had the most sex scenes ,poor women ,half of them weren't even worthy for plot

    • @TEDdotcom
      @TEDdotcom Před 3 lety +4

      The book Noah wrote clearly labeled Alison as “sex”

    • @jjlee3732
      @jjlee3732 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TEDdotcom that's only in noah's pov not hers

  • @TheDomRunner
    @TheDomRunner Před 3 lety +9

    The climax of The affair was so emotional. !! Noah all alone at the end.

  • @borealis4812
    @borealis4812 Před rokem +14

    Sad the way they killed her off… Cole and Alison deserved a happy ending

    • @cinziaicardi8440
      @cinziaicardi8440 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Ma perche' Cole non indaga piu' sulla sua morte?

  • @JoleenNordstrom
    @JoleenNordstrom Před 3 lety +34

    I can completely understand where she is coming from. Amazing show but so many scenes the sex scenes are so forced and unneeded.

    • @flyingaviator8158
      @flyingaviator8158 Před rokem

      Are they? I mean the series does play with the erotic element. Sex is a main topic of the the show.

  • @ibakan
    @ibakan Před rokem +7

    By the time Ruth left the show I was so invested in these characters I didn't care if there was nudity or not. I'm a guy. The sex scenes definitely helped draw me in but by the time we got to S4 none of the original characters were, in my mind, very sexy anymore. I was addicted to their brokenness and I really wanted to see more of a Happy Alison.

  • @lotescataluna5942
    @lotescataluna5942 Před 4 lety +24

    The ending of the affair is so sad.i hope Cole and Alison is back together with Joanie.

    • @sfort515
      @sfort515 Před 3 lety +10

      I hated the ending, I even hated the whole Joanie part of it like why make it so far into the future like that

    • @patriciapasciuto9022
      @patriciapasciuto9022 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sfort515 Agree!!!

    • @TEDdotcom
      @TEDdotcom Před 3 lety +2

      @@sfort515 they did it for the Joanie to kinda avenge her mother’s death.

  • @marissaperkins9961
    @marissaperkins9961 Před 3 lety +44

    I always thought the show could do with less sex

    • @JP-tr5og
      @JP-tr5og Před 3 lety +3

      Yes Marissa, totally agree! Sex could’ve been cut in half w/out losing anything. They really didn’t add to the show IMO…

    • @paulopie1541
      @paulopie1541 Před 2 lety

      That seems fair. I have to.

  • @johnburton7633
    @johnburton7633 Před 2 lety +3

    Ruth Wilson is such a beautiful lady. She is a wonderful talented actress. Awesome in everything she undertakes to the max. First thing I saw Hernia was Luther but since I have watched most of what she's been in. Fantastic actress. X

    • @scuttarockz
      @scuttarockz Před rokem

      Eww.. beautiful by which feature ?

  • @MK-tq2uv
    @MK-tq2uv Před 4 lety +10

    I really liked her , smth about her

  • @JP-tr5og
    @JP-tr5og Před 3 lety +12

    Just finished the series and shocked that a show predicated on sex, it’s called the affair for gods sake 😂 wouldn’t have an intimacy expert on set?? Intentional… 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @ellakowalski4335
    @ellakowalski4335 Před 3 lety +2

    Yea I see where she is coming from but I will miss her so so so much she was the best

  • @marciapereira8721
    @marciapereira8721 Před 3 lety +22

    Alison deserved a happier ending for everything that happened alone after the death of her son Gabriel, she always thought that her husband (Cole) blamed everything and that is why he only sought her out for sex. After all, it's not her fault for looking for affection in her arms! It was Cole's fault, who isolated himself and blamed her for everything that happened to them! I'm not saying that what she did is right, but she really deserved to be loved! she exchanged something torn for something that at the end of it was also torn! simply Alison deserved a happier ending !!! who agrees with me ??? ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺

    • @vandanagautam9998
      @vandanagautam9998 Před 3 lety +1

      True

    • @cryptjoi9194
      @cryptjoi9194 Před 3 lety +1

      These characters were very dimensional, I appreciated that. However, the character of Allison lost my sympathy when she disrespected Helen space.

  • @tayf.9611
    @tayf.9611 Před 4 lety +30

    Boring without her and Cole, Helen or Noah.

    • @restinson2651
      @restinson2651 Před 4 lety +2

      not a show without them

    • @tayf.9611
      @tayf.9611 Před 4 lety +4

      @@restinson2651 manly her and Cole 💔

    • @dannypacquette6798
      @dannypacquette6798 Před 3 lety

      @@tayf.9611 Helen was very good to guess everyone has there Opinions

    • @patriciapasciuto9022
      @patriciapasciuto9022 Před 3 lety +1

      Towards the end I hated Noah and disliked Helen. They needn’t have bothered with Season 5😝

    • @dannypacquette6798
      @dannypacquette6798 Před 3 lety +1

      @@patriciapasciuto9022Seeing how Helen kept her family together she was Amazing yes Cole and Allison were really good and the show did miss them the ending was very good that’s your opinion and my opinion great show Allison and Cole should have stayed until the end and be together they were great together as a couple

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Před 3 lety +1

    Very true

  • @brianvalentas1121
    @brianvalentas1121 Před 2 lety +9

    The producer really destroyed a great show, that could have continued to be successful.

  • @audiophileman7047
    @audiophileman7047 Před 3 lety +15

    Unless you have the contract to review and you were there during discussions about what role Ruth would play, you do not have the information to determine whether Ruth is right or whether she is wrong. Is it possible that there were discussions about the sexuality Ruth would portray that weren't detailed in the contract or were too lengthy to have in the contract? Is it possible that the producers of the show said one thing to get her to do the role and then tried to turn the tables on her to make a more carnal, titillating show at the expense of real, meaningful story development? All I can tell you is that I've been promised things by employers and supervisors in my career that were never delivered and asked to do things that were either unethical or unsafe. I believe Ruth, because money is more important than human dignity when it comes to the business side of making films!

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit Před 3 lety +1

      Yes, common practice for a certain type of person to make promises to hire someone and then switch the deal.
      For some people, that's a power trip which is totally inappropriate in the workplace.

    • @audiophileman7047
      @audiophileman7047 Před 3 lety

      @@bluecollarlit Happens all the time, like you said, it happened to me, like I said.

  • @latonyadavis3134
    @latonyadavis3134 Před rokem +3

    I just found out that Allison died!!! I'm Furious!! Don't think it will be good after this.😩😭

  • @jeffb9939
    @jeffb9939 Před 2 lety +3

    Alsion dies i am done. I love her and i am a true fan.

  • @1927su
    @1927su Před 3 lety +3

    After much thought... even with no pressure from anyone & even if everything was copacetic on set.. I don’t think it would be unusual to feel uncomfortable with so much nudity.
    And when your a woman with so much obvious acting talent , a woman always has to be wary , in most any job really, that all you’ll really be valued for, is being sexy & not taken seriously for your other attributes & contributions. Yes she is beautiful , but at the end of the day, if she didn’t have EXCEPTIONAL TALENT, sexy only takes one so far. I can’t fault her for jumping out , no matter what did or didn’t go on behind the scenes. All & all tho, great show!! I didn’t get to see it all until 2019. It’s so well done & the casting is superb !

  • @whitney4529
    @whitney4529 Před 2 lety +6

    The show had too much sex. I fast forwarded half of the show. The nudity and sex scenes took away from the show. It was ridiculous! Who ever wrote or produced this crap was truly sick!!!! The sex scenes was over kill. The story line was good enough to make me keep watching but I watched none of the sex scenes.

    • @BoiYahTfah
      @BoiYahTfah Před 2 lety

      Same, honestly, I started to feel sick. Every episode had multiple explicit scenes, mainly with Ruth. Not to mention when filming there’s like 15 people in the room too. She must have felt so vulnerable.

  • @lifearoundus5107
    @lifearoundus5107 Před 4 lety +7

    Few scenes were too strange yess

  • @paulajf4205
    @paulajf4205 Před měsícem

    Before knowing about these controversies, I was just re-watching the series and had the same thought about the tree sex scene and other sex scenes. I wondered why there were so many rape-like scenes that went without comment within the show. It's especially disturbing that most of this took place under female leadership.

  • @brownigirlpie
    @brownigirlpie Před 3 lety +9

    I was disappointed they never pursued her ending. I was hoping Cole would and then he never came back.

    • @jcefalo2001
      @jcefalo2001 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too! I could not wait for Cole to do some digging and find out what happened. Instead they just swept vital details of Ben’s relationship with her under the rug...until the END. What a waste of time.

    • @brownigirlpie
      @brownigirlpie Před 3 lety

      @@jcefalo2001 Right? I mean I get that the actress wanted off or whatever. She was the show IMHO. I loved her and Cole. Noah and Helen...please Helen just bugged me. Period. But for them to kill her off in such a brutal way was shocking and so sad. I thought Coke would hop on it and he left the show. Then Joney figured it out and that went south!

  • @kathleenhannon7068
    @kathleenhannon7068 Před 3 lety +8

    Pure raw sex & very bad storyline! Sorry but Hollywood needs to do better!

  • @katevalentine7075
    @katevalentine7075 Před 10 měsíci

    I watched the show cause of her
    Hated how Noah never found out the character was murdered

  • @DuarteAlbuquerque24
    @DuarteAlbuquerque24 Před 3 lety +2

    Afterwards showrunner pulled a unfair #metoo movement against Noah

  • @bookwormdoe1522
    @bookwormdoe1522 Před 3 lety +4

    She should have left sooner

  • @nameless592
    @nameless592 Před 3 lety +5

    I really didn’t like this show. It was so weird

  • @andsenwilson4897
    @andsenwilson4897 Před 2 lety

    I think she was just pissed they didn't cast James vanderbeak.

  • @Linda-xk6ed
    @Linda-xk6ed Před 10 měsíci +1

    I absolutely loved this series. However, it was bit hard to believe. For example, did Noah have a perpetual boner? Two kisses and he is ready for penetration...lol. I loved Ruth and her character. I agree with her regarding the too many sex and nude scenes. She is such a good actress and I wish they would have allowed her to showcase her talent.

  • @linamarie84
    @linamarie84 Před rokem +1

    Then SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN THE ROLE!!!!!! PERIOD!!! DO YOU FORGET THIS IS A JOB THAT SHHE HAD TO AUDITION FOR?! SO SHE COMES IN AND TRIES TO CHANGE IT?! ABSOLUTELY NOT. SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE TRIED OUT AND SHOULD NOT HAVE ACCEPTED IT!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE

  • @stevek6518
    @stevek6518 Před 3 lety +7

    Treem hides behind claims of feminism, but she is a hypocrite. The show was full of gratuitous sex scenes.

  • @zk4303
    @zk4303 Před 4 lety +1

    Dep true

  • @deborahcaplan3565
    @deborahcaplan3565 Před rokem

    The sex every 10 minutes did nothing to advance the plot. I fast forwarded past some of these scenes. acting was fabulous- all the main actors.

  • @BoiYahTfah
    @BoiYahTfah Před 2 lety +1

    This sex scenes in this show made me so uncomfortable. There we so many of them, and most were unnecessary and forced. It’s like they had a target of how many sex scenes they can fit in a season. The show runner is sick in the head, worst of all she’s a woman.🤢

    • @gracie4932
      @gracie4932 Před rokem

      I agree, apart from your sexism at the end. The gender of the director doesn’t matter wtf

    • @winter_s_44
      @winter_s_44 Před rokem +1

      I just now binged whole series and my persistent thought was: “just too much unnecessary graphic sex scenes.” I am
      Not going to say they were irrelevant to her character because her arc is that she is using sexual experiences to escape her pain so we have to see her being promiscuous which means yes, she will be having more sex than other female costars, but does every scene need to be graphic? You can allude to the fact that she had sex without every scene having to be a graphic full on nude sex scene. It was so obvious it was there just for titillation and ratings and not storytelling and if this many people noticed it was “too much,” that means what they were doing was transparent.

  • @reneepeloza9262
    @reneepeloza9262 Před 2 lety +5

    The show was great in the first few seasons but season 4 got woke and it completely lost the true storyline. Very disappointed.

    • @Eeza07
      @Eeza07 Před 2 lety +1

      Finale was incredible.

  • @variousJnames
    @variousJnames Před rokem

    Wow, harrassed by a fellow woman😢 Treem was no better than Harvey Weinstein

  • @ocsrc
    @ocsrc Před 4 lety +5

    Intimacy coordinator = DON'T HIRE THAT ACTRESS - YOU WILL BE SORRY, NOT A PROFESSIONAL

    • @brownigirlpie
      @brownigirlpie Před 3 lety +2

      That's not very nice.

    • @ocsrc
      @ocsrc Před 3 lety +1

      @@brownigirlpie Ruth and her friends are suing the network and the cast and crew.
      She and her body double were hired to do a role that had sex scenes and nudity in every episode.
      She took the role & signed the contract and took the money saying that she would do what was required and then she didn't do anything that she said she would
      It would be like applying for a job in shipping and receiving and then once you got the job saying
      " Oh no, I don't unload trucks "
      When you look at acting when you look at men there are certain exercises that you have to do as part of your training
      And once you get out into the real world you are expected to do those same roles
      For men the two things that you will see almost every single male actor has done number one, dress as a woman
      Number two play the part of a gay man
      For women the main part that you are called to play at least some of the time is being nude and doing sex scenes
      Real actresses who are professional do these roles without hesitation and without any problems
      And what Ruth did is not just wrong but it is a slap in the face to the actresses like Maura Tierney who not only did everything required but she did a performance that was an Oscar level performance
      Her final scene was the best performance I can ever remember in any show or movie
      I cried
      That is what being a great actress and doing what is required by the role produces for the audience , an emotional response that is so dramatic you never forget it.
      You forget you are watching a show and lose yourself in the show, forgetting about where you are and what is happening around you.
      This is why you become an actress, to have this powerful an effect on the audience.
      Suing your fellow actresses is wrongful and spiteful and says everything that you need to know about that person.

    • @brownigirlpie
      @brownigirlpie Před 3 lety +2

      Regardless of what she did or didn't do with regard to her contract-this is a social media site. A public entity. I don't need to know about the workings of someone's employment contract. It's public shaming. There are laws in this country that protect people. Even public people. Quite frankly, I don't think you are being very professional.

    • @ocsrc
      @ocsrc Před 3 lety

      @@brownigirlpie If I applied for a job in a company in the shipping and receiving department and I signed a contract and they said that unloading trucks was a primary part of my job, and I told the company that would not be an issue, then in week 3 of my employment I suddenly said I would not unload trucks any more, they would fire me for cause, and if I went to the department of labor and went to court to try and get unemployment they would deny my claim, with cause.
      She did exactly the same thing.
      She was hired to do specific tasks and signed a contract and then broke her contact, demanded more money, demanded they hire someone hostile to the company, demanded they hire a body double, who also signed a contract saying that she would do specific tasks and then all three of them sued the company their fellow cast members and crew and bad mouth them all in the press trying to destroy the companies and the cast members ability to make a living.
      This is unforgivable
      This is not shaming this is fact this is what she did and this is not an honorable person
      This is the worst kind of person
      if it were my choice I would never hire her I would never work with her

    • @audiophileman7047
      @audiophileman7047 Před 3 lety +2

      Unless you have the contract to review and you were there during discussions about what role Ruth would play, you do not have the information to determine whether Ruth is right or whether she is wrong. Is it possible that there were discussions about the sexuality Ruth would portray that weren't detailed in the contract or were too lengthy to have in the contract? Is it possible that the producers of the show said one thing to get her to do the role and then tried to turn the tables on her to make a more carnal, titillating show at the expense of real, meaningful story development? All I can tell you is that I've been promised things by employers and supervisors in my career that were never delivered and asked to do things that were either unethical or unsafe. I believe Ruth, because money is more important than human dignity when it comes to the business side of making films!

  • @FacebookQueen
    @FacebookQueen Před 3 lety

    Ugh

  • @mirjanastojadinovic2534
    @mirjanastojadinovic2534 Před rokem +1

    A lot of sex scenes on this show were dumb.

  • @crazebane4394
    @crazebane4394 Před 2 lety +3

    Man why sign up for something u know then play victim. Smh

    • @BoiYahTfah
      @BoiYahTfah Před 2 lety

      Dumbass, if you feel unsafe at work, do you stay just because of a contract ? FOH Freak

    • @nikkivenable73
      @nikkivenable73 Před rokem

      You’re not wrong.

  • @dukedematteo1995
    @dukedematteo1995 Před 4 lety +26

    Allison was the most unlikable character on earth.

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Před 3 lety +2

      Not really.

    • @dukedematteo1995
      @dukedematteo1995 Před 3 lety +2

      @@dumfriesspearhead7398 she just complained and banged every1

    • @JP-tr5og
      @JP-tr5og Před 3 lety +1

      Which means she did her job as an actress! There are absolutely ppl like this in the world.