“Red Flags” For Women on Twitter is Insane

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  • @chimerassun
    @chimerassun Před rokem +2216

    basically, if she has any ounce of respect for herself, that's a red flag.

    • @dawn8293
      @dawn8293 Před rokem +81

      As a woman, I can confirm. I would never dare to respect myself. How am I supposed to accept being dehumanized if I have self respect? Smh

    • @nicetometra
      @nicetometra Před rokem +8

      righttt

    • @spitalhelles3380
      @spitalhelles3380 Před rokem +1

      why would she need to have respect for herself, when you already have all the respect for her in the world????
      see, that's a red flag

  • @moxthecat787
    @moxthecat787 Před rokem +3115

    who even is this guy?! get out of my way, i'm trying to see the mountain!

  • @gloomble
    @gloomble Před rokem +4287

    More red flags to look for in women! 🚩🚩
    1. She complains - complaining is a sign of disobedience, and you never want that in a spouse!
    2. She has friends - even other women! they might have male friends!
    3. She speaks - if she speaks, kick her out on the streets
    4. She can breathe - if she breathes, she's gotta leaves!
    5. She has a brain - if she has a brain, that means she can make her own decisions!
    6. You can see her - if you can see her, that likely means other men can see her!
    7. She has a physical form - this one is pretty self-explanatory
    Thank you for reading, I hope these red flags have helped you steer clear of the wrong women!!

    • @thatoneyoutuberfan6900
      @thatoneyoutuberfan6900 Před rokem +557

      i hate when women are visible, like..don’t u know other men are staring at u?? ur bf is the only man who should be able to see u.

    • @TheOnlyCaprisun
      @TheOnlyCaprisun Před rokem +225

      Yeah, it’s SO easy for women to just follow this EASY, BASIC rules and yet they DON’T! Such an easy task and yet they just do whatever they feel like doing “because they’re equals”. SMH women 🙄

    • @endyark
      @endyark Před rokem +172

      thank you so much, this really helped me find the red flags. every other time ive dated a woman they’ve said “why don’t you pay attention to me” and “i don’t feel safe with you” like just stop complaining god 🙄🙄 /j

    • @sanriobraincell
      @sanriobraincell Před rokem +80

      2D women *ONLY*

    • @prinzessinderverurteilung5553
      @prinzessinderverurteilung5553 Před rokem +44

      @@endyark Fr, so annoying ugh 🙄/j

  • @tacticalmisandrist
    @tacticalmisandrist Před rokem +810

    “Pretty and she knows it”
    Get✍️an✍️insecure✍️girl✍️ got it

    • @chesiresays
      @chesiresays Před rokem +181

      The lower the self esteem the easier they are to control

    • @devilsadvocate9343
      @devilsadvocate9343 Před rokem +40

      No, I think it's supposed to be ugly and doesn't know it.
      /j

    • @awesomemel
      @awesomemel Před rokem +77

      It's funny because these kind of guys also complain about women who have low self esteem too

    • @mushroup
      @mushroup Před rokem +47

      so THATS why one direction was so obsessed with that girl who’s constantly smiling at the ground

    • @goldensloth7
      @goldensloth7 Před rokem

      @@mushroup that's what makes her beyoo-ti-fu-uh-ull

  • @reolicious8169
    @reolicious8169 Před rokem +614

    “Speaks badly of her dad”
    Abusive fathers? Don’t exist!

    • @europa1024
      @europa1024 Před rokem +3

      I guess I don’t exist then

    • @SomeOne_ww
      @SomeOne_ww Před rokem +36

      @@europa1024 🤨

    • @europa1024
      @europa1024 Před rokem +60

      @@SomeOne_ww oh shit my brain read that wrong i have an abusive father im not one

    • @chilloxkay6416
      @chilloxkay6416 Před rokem +17

      @@europa1024 lmao

    • @dearbangtan9668
      @dearbangtan9668 Před rokem +14

      @@stickydobby8887 no woman ever said that lol

  • @alexiabeatriz00
    @alexiabeatriz00 Před rokem +239

    why are men like "here's some tips for my fellas!" and it's just a list of abuse tactics

    • @bloop6111
      @bloop6111 Před rokem +21

      This comment is spot on

  • @saml.purecats4695
    @saml.purecats4695 Před rokem +2515

    Gossip/venting to other people has always been a way for women to protect themselves, and abusers have always told women not to do it and continue the abuse.

    • @penguinvader7057
      @penguinvader7057 Před rokem +316

      venting is also a way for among us imposters to protect themselves from being discovered and ejected sooo 🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @__m-a-x__
      @__m-a-x__ Před rokem +305

      I never realized this before but you're so right... guys who complain about "girl talk" or "gossip" are always the worst dudes too so it makes sense. Like how tf you gonna go complain about your relationship to your guy friends and not expect her to be doing the same shit too smh

    • @codydavis3100
      @codydavis3100 Před rokem +72

      But there is a small distinction that should be made. My last gf complained to her friends and family but never talked to me about the problems. I had no idea. It was her first relationship so she didn't know how to bring things up. My rule is if you need to find answers elsewhere that's fine, but please tell me the answers so I know where you're at in the relationship.

    • @why7189
      @why7189 Před rokem +50

      Yeah i hope no woman is naive enough to think this is good advice to follow to be the "perfect wife". One of the first signs of abuse is isolation. The dude who wrote this is so insecure, he cant even handle her posting pictures with her friends who are women

    • @chuusupremacy
      @chuusupremacy Před rokem +6

      I'm dumb I don't get what you mean, how do you protect yourself with gossip?

  • @lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241
    @lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 Před rokem +650

    These guys give off the same energy as the men who come up to me like "has anybody ever told you that you're beautiful?" Expecting me to be like "No, never! Thank you good sir! I now feel like my existence matters!"

    • @rhiannonsalt
      @rhiannonsalt Před rokem +86

      EXACTLY!! Literally i was scraping ice off of my car in 15 degree weather to go to work this past winter and this dude kept saying “ do you have a husband” and complimenting me. Did not offer to help scrape ice off my car. And it Felt like a metaphor for these guys haha.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 Před rokem +41

      @@rhiannonsalt jfc at that point I wouldn’t be able to stop myself- “I have a knife and a lot of pent up rage 🙂”

    • @jeanneann3545
      @jeanneann3545 Před rokem +29

      @@sourgreendolly7685 dont forget tons of ice to bury a body with and cover up the smell.

    • @tardybloomer
      @tardybloomer Před rokem +39

      literally! a couple of years ago i was conversing w a colleague and they said "women that dont know that theyre attractive are what makes them attractive. and it's even better when i can tell them that they're attractive, and cheer them up when they think they're ugly

    • @Tiny_Koi
      @Tiny_Koi Před rokem

      It's almost like they're looking for vulnerable women so that they can more easily manipulate them. 🤔

  • @itsgabibelle
    @itsgabibelle Před rokem +448

    im so happy we solved women together 😌 thank you nick and twitter!

    • @milometric2736
      @milometric2736 Před rokem +6

      ayy gabi i love your videos

    • @rileyhanley4064
      @rileyhanley4064 Před rokem +10

      Collabs from y’all would be something special

    • @later_babes
      @later_babes Před rokem +5

      @@rileyhanley4064 did they not do the kickstarter scam video together? if anything we just need more

    • @rileyhanley4064
      @rileyhanley4064 Před rokem

      @@later_babes I’m all for it

  • @muhdancent4362
    @muhdancent4362 Před rokem +832

    Weird thing is if there was a feminist who wrote a BuzzFeed list like this but swapped the genders around this dude would get mad and accuse her of being controlling and manipulative 💀
    "Being on phone too much"
    "Takes too many selfies"
    "Sharp tongue/opiniated"
    If women do it, bad. Vain. Deceptive. When man do it? Works hard and appreciates his own body. Confident.

    • @bluebell3339
      @bluebell3339 Před rokem +9

      The queen of rap said the same thing

    • @gcl9037
      @gcl9037 Před rokem

      Then make a list and do your own video. No one cares

    • @banquetoftheleviathan1404
      @banquetoftheleviathan1404 Před rokem +2

      I mean if people buy into an unfair dichotomy like that then that’s embarrassing for them not you.

    • @JLT_-up7sn
      @JLT_-up7sn Před rokem +2

      Men are so oppressed!!!

    • @tardybloomer
      @tardybloomer Před rokem +6

      /plays The Man by Taylor Swift

  • @kiiro_7836
    @kiiro_7836 Před rokem +862

    The biggest red flag for a woman is not subscribing to nickisnotgreen and greenisnotnick (two different people)

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 Před rokem +29

      Yes, definitely two different people. Few know that it was actually the inspiration for both Twins, and the remake of The Parent Trap

    • @AliceIsInWonderland
      @AliceIsInWonderland Před rokem +9

      All I thought when I read this was a fanfiction where Nick and Green meet and they fall in love and date. I’ve been on wattpad too much

    • @hipsterpotato2706
      @hipsterpotato2706 Před rokem +3

      Lets not forget about nickisnotstreams

    • @judeslater4981
      @judeslater4981 Před rokem +3

      Well of course, because Nick is NOT Green, and Green is NOT Nick, their difference as people says so in the name

    • @AliceIsInWonderland
      @AliceIsInWonderland Před rokem

      @@judeslater4981 exactlyyyy

  • @Saibellus
    @Saibellus Před rokem +648

    my ex and i had a weirdly intense fight about topless tanning that culminated in him acknowledging that he just doesnt want other men to look at me and be aroused. like...their thoughts arent my responsibility. and ofc, when i pointed out men and women could look at him lustfully on the beach, that was somehow different. like just admit u don't wanna work on ur insecurity AND dont wanna inconvenience urself by being fair and also covering up.

    • @nat7611
      @nat7611 Před rokem +116

      glad he’s an ex cause 🚩🚩

    • @dolphinman9896
      @dolphinman9896 Před rokem +60

      Damn glad he's your ex now cause the double standards and red flags are outta this world w this one

    • @deisyJM
      @deisyJM Před rokem +28

      you see now this is a REAL red flag lol

    • @primroseprom
      @primroseprom Před rokem +61

      NOO CAUSE MY EX DID THE SAME THING (kinda)😭😭
      We weren’t “officially” together but there was a sort of expectation to not flirt/sext/do anything with other people. A few months into our “relationship,” his ex came back into the picture and he started flirting with her ALL the time. I’d developed feelings at this point and literally up until that point he’d expressed a desire to make our relationship official, so I told him I wasn’t comfortable with this and I wanted us to be exclusively together and official.
      His excuse? “We (he & his ex) just hang out and flirt.” Which as a double standard if I ever heard one. Dude got angry at me for jokingly telling some random “I love you” in an endgame chat after a videogame match.
      We decided to call it quits because obviously things weren’t going to work out (I wanted a one-on-one relationship, he didn’t). But we tried to stay friends. That didn’t work at all because this motherfucker started getting jealous over complete non-issues like me being in the position to flirt with other men.
      Let me reiterate for emphasis: *This man, who had repeatedly turned down being in an exclusive relationship with me, was now getting jealous if I was even in the position to flirt with other men.*
      HE’D EVEN GET JEALOUS IF I OTHER MEN TO FLIRTED WITH ME. LIKE BRO, I CANT HELP IF IM HOT AND PEOPLE WANNA SHOOT THEIR SHOT, WAS I JUST SUPPOSED TO GO INTO EVERY CONVERSATION WITH MEN LIKE “btw don’t flirt with me! teehee!🤪”
      He was out there getting jealous over all this, while flirting HARD with his ex girlfriend.
      So yeah. Shit actually got really dark for a second and our situationship ended when he verbally harassed and abused me *because I joined a discord vc with men in it without him.* Again, while this mf was out here treating me like shit for having the audacity to exist within the premises of other men, he’s considering getting back together with his ex girlfriend.
      These kinds of men never cease to amaze me with their bullshit double standards. They don’t want girlfriends or wives or partners, they just want to control the women they’re sexually attracted to while not having to commit.

    • @Saibellus
      @Saibellus Před rokem

      @@primroseprom it just boils down to the expectation that other men are gonna be dogs like they are, and you're gonna engage with it like he did. bad people assume their negative qualities are universal. like...idk how to explain to you that not everyone acts as shamelessly as you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @deereye87
    @deereye87 Před rokem +230

    When will these alpha males learn that makeup is just fun to wear sometimes? It’s not that deep.

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 Před rokem

      They'll learn it when they say it's so. That's how alpha males are. Anything that is objectively true, but which defies their opinions, is therefore wrong in their eyes.

    • @teathesilkwing7616
      @teathesilkwing7616 Před rokem +61

      I read “makeup” as “soup” and I don’t know how the fuck that happened

    • @deereye87
      @deereye87 Před rokem +54

      @@teathesilkwing7616
      I love wearing soup too

    • @Fluff_Noodles
      @Fluff_Noodles Před rokem +27

      @@teathesilkwing7616 I think you might be in need of some soup

    • @__m-a-x__
      @__m-a-x__ Před rokem +43

      I agree, more alpha males need to try wearing makeup

  • @roses3208
    @roses3208 Před rokem +811

    In Islam, “talking behind someone’s back,” aka backbiting, is very prohibited. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or woman, it’s a sin with high consequences. Now that doesn’t mean you can’t vent to your partner about frustrations, but you should not go overboard in what you say because saying unnecessarily hurtful things about someone else is very wrong in Islam and is not tolerated regardless of your gender. As for the rest of the list, it’s just nonsense. Whoever this man is, and I’m assuming he’s Muslim, is not following the rules of the religion correctly and is just being culturally influenced. Islam does not punish women for having their own opinions, or getting dressed up, or having social media. Whatever he’s saying is incorrect and should be avoided. It’s wrong to paint women as people who are despicable, when in reality we are human too and deserve respect. A true Muslim man would not be so mad over such trivial things and would trust his wife when it comes to social matters. She’s not a dog, she’s a human being with intellect. And why would God create women if He didn’t love us? I just don’t understand any religious man who can be so hateful towards women.

    • @jul2762
      @jul2762 Před rokem +4

      u know hes joking right? 💀

    • @roses3208
      @roses3208 Před rokem +165

      @@jul2762 yeah, Ik. I like nick, I’m not talking about him, I’m talking about the guy who made the list. I just cleared up a small thing about backbiting.

    • @jul2762
      @jul2762 Před rokem +19

      @@roses3208 oh mbbb 😭

    • @roses3208
      @roses3208 Před rokem +26

      @@jul2762 no problem lol

    • @mushroup
      @mushroup Před rokem +109

      thank you for sharing this info about Islam! i always love learning about different religions. the part where nick said it’s totally fine to talk shit about people behind their backs kinda rubbed me the wrong way, because i definitely think there’s a difference between venting and sharing your struggles vs. purposely talking bad about someone to stir up drama (even though we all do it sometimes because emotions can get the better of us), so it was great to see this comment, especially with the added context of being Muslim yourself.

  • @salma-zz8sv
    @salma-zz8sv Před rokem +110

    women who have thoughts and are people 🚩🚩🚩

  • @primroseprom
    @primroseprom Před rokem +119

    I love how men like this see women being aware that they’re attractive as a red flag. Ironic how seeing that kind of thing as a red flag is actually a red flag in itself.
    Men like this love it when women don’t find themselves to be attractive because it likely means they have low self-esteem and often undervalue themselves. And if all of this is true, then it makes them more malleable to abusive and controlling behavior because they don’t feel like they deserve better.
    Men like this hate it when a woman is confident in her looks because it typically also means she knows she has options. And if she knows she has options, that leaves her less inclined to put up with their bad behavior.
    I’ve seen men online say they like women who don’t realize they’re attractive because “what’s not to love about a beautiful woman who’s also humble,” but there is a BIG difference between someone who’s pretty but humble and someone who’s pretty but has low self-esteem and therefore doesn’t realize/acknowledge they’re pretty.

    • @annalana2388
      @annalana2388 Před rokem +3

      Not to mention, when a man really loves you, he wants you to feel beautiful. My husband is secure with himself and he encourages me to dress however makes me feel beautiful and comfortable and to wear makeup if I want and as much as I want. He would hate for me to 'be beautiful and not know it'.

  • @realgregpumpo
    @realgregpumpo Před rokem +119

    “Girl talk” or whatever is literally normal. A girl ain’t gonna shit talk you to her friends if you don’t do anything wrong. That’s why those guys hate it sm

    • @mariam8275
      @mariam8275 Před rokem +21

      i agree and disagree w nick on ‘talking behind someones back’, i think its only bad if you are over exaggerating the bad traits of someone and announcing it. i think if u tell a friend about someone who annoyed you, and just vent to them, there should be no problem

    • @AsrielDremurrBomj
      @AsrielDremurrBomj Před rokem

      I had a friend. But she never told me when I was wrong. We aren't friends anymore.
      Anyone can be wrong. aren't you trying to say you're perfect?

    • @realgregpumpo
      @realgregpumpo Před rokem +4

      @@mariam8275 I agree completely

    • @realgregpumpo
      @realgregpumpo Před rokem +15

      @@AsrielDremurrBomj I’m saying that “girl talk” isn’t an issue if you truly trust your partner

    • @FirstnameLastname-zq8oy
      @FirstnameLastname-zq8oy Před rokem +3

      Tbh saying “a girl ain’t gonna shit talk you to her friends if you don’t do anything wrong” isn’t always true though, there are some people out there who talk shit about other people (even if it’s a friend or a partner) because they believe they’re in the right when they’re actually not lmfaoo.
      Obviously it’s not just some girls/girlfriends who do this, some boys/boyfriends do it too.
      However “Girl talk” is NOT the same as talking shit about people obviously.

  • @Yirtualzombie
    @Yirtualzombie Před rokem +48

    “mother wears the trousers in the relationship” bruh what 💀💀

  • @ittybittyrampagingcommittee

    “If she has any self-respect, strength of any kind, and has independence for herself, she’s a _red fucking flag_ bro.”

  • @Lukkilikka
    @Lukkilikka Před rokem +384

    I do think that it's totally fair to only want to date in your own religion, especially if you are looking to raise a family. Although I wouldn't phrase it as a 'red flag', that phrasing is kinda weird. More like 'a sign you might not be compatible in the long run'.

    • @kawaiiboushi
      @kawaiiboushi Před rokem +72

      Yeah calling it a "red flag" is weird but having the same or similar beliefs as your partner, be it religious or political or what have you, is just part of compatibility. Some people may not care about their partner's religion or lack thereof, but for others it's something important in their life that they want to be on the same page as the person they're gonna spend their life with. Plus, spreading your faith is one thing, but you shouldn't go into a marriage with the expectation that you're going to change the other person, because one or the other of you is gonna get tired of that fast.

    • @Lukkilikka
      @Lukkilikka Před rokem +20

      @@kawaiiboushi Yeah. I am pretty sure the person writing this list had some weird ideas about their religion but you should consider religion and how much that matters to you when getting into a relationship, especially if you want kids.
      From personal experience... I am an atheist and was dating a Christian woman at one point and we both tried to make it work but in the end it just didn't work out without anyone being in the wrong.

    • @banquetoftheleviathan1404
      @banquetoftheleviathan1404 Před rokem +7

      Well a good example is basically my step mom and maybe father worship a god who intends to torture me for eternity for no possibility for parole since i’m a non believer. So they can’t really say they love me and god. They have to pick one.

    • @maya-ud4mj
      @maya-ud4mj Před rokem +5

      Yeah it's not a red flag as a red flag is bearing over their personality or personal issues where's compatibility would lay in religion likes dislikes etc.

    • @electricpurple4112
      @electricpurple4112 Před rokem

      You probably think people who are nice in public probably “aren’t that bad” when everyone else knows they’re a POS

  • @bethbadrow4524
    @bethbadrow4524 Před rokem +410

    Nick high as balls with all his half finished jokes

    • @__m-a-x__
      @__m-a-x__ Před rokem +63

      he's making those mountains into smokey mountains

    • @mikudae
      @mikudae Před rokem +65

      the lack of oxygen in Colorado has gotten to him

    • @Valarastormborn
      @Valarastormborn Před rokem +13

      to be fair it’s colorado so everyone is high lmao

    • @scene.g0re
      @scene.g0re Před rokem +5

      @@Valarastormborn even the small children 😭

  • @Hollandic
    @Hollandic Před rokem +31

    Red flags to look out for in Men!
    1: Makes tweets listing red flags about women to look out for when finding a spouse.

  • @johnnyneedscash6753
    @johnnyneedscash6753 Před rokem +25

    red flags in women: when she is a PERSON and lives a LIFE and has unnecessary traits like SELF-RESPECT

  • @otsukaharu4501
    @otsukaharu4501 Před rokem +174

    Tag yourself gals, how many points did you get:
    0: tradwife
    1-4: damaged goods
    5-10: fatherless wench
    11-20: jezebel

    • @verticallettuce
      @verticallettuce Před rokem +40

      personally im in the jezebel category

    • @otsukaharu4501
      @otsukaharu4501 Před rokem +21

      @@verticallettuce same bestie

    • @verticallettuce
      @verticallettuce Před rokem +15

      @@otsukaharu4501 so glad we can share this experience w each other :))

    • @uncannyvalley2113
      @uncannyvalley2113 Před rokem +9

      jezebel all the way (counting point 7 because my parents are divorced, how could i ever be raised properly)

    • @cloudjelly97
      @cloudjelly97 Před rokem +25

      omg personality quiz 😋😋😋😋

  • @elynmibord4128
    @elynmibord4128 Před rokem +35

    I just love how oblivious they are that these so-called red flags in women say so much more about them being a very toxic and controlling partner than anything else

  • @mustafa._.9371
    @mustafa._.9371 Před rokem +7

    if your girl breathes, she's cheating on you because she's breathing air that another MAN just breathed in.

  • @sunnyandthechlo
    @sunnyandthechlo Před rokem +69

    I thought red flags meant signs of DANGER. That a person may be abusive, dangerous or toxic and you need to get away before you get hurt. Not things to whine about because you know your girlfriend will leave the second she realizes other men exist. Don't lump this shit in with actual safety concerns.

    • @JMyrk
      @JMyrk Před rokem +1

      For us red flags is just a " Nope, fck that, she's aint worth it "

    • @ajgjngfthyfbk7564
      @ajgjngfthyfbk7564 Před rokem +3

      No, 'red flags' usually refers to all sorts of dealbreakers / hints that something may be very off about a relationship.

    • @Tiny_Koi
      @Tiny_Koi Před rokem +8

      Yes, a red flag warns of danger! A women who talks is dangerous to this twitter poster lol. That's the thing that always gets me about these guys they are surprisingly so afraid of women doing absolutely anything.

  • @leahbeth8335
    @leahbeth8335 Před rokem +227

    I love unapologetically dorky Nick. It makes videos on repulsive creeps like this go down a lot easier.

    • @__m-a-x__
      @__m-a-x__ Před rokem +33

      a spoonful of sugar helps the industrial-grade misogyny go down

  • @churchofgodusopp765
    @churchofgodusopp765 Před rokem +9

    You left out the last three
    21: be bisexual
    22: eat hot chips
    23: lie

    • @starstorm1267
      @starstorm1267 Před rokem

      Don’t forget the other 3:
      24: Gaslight
      25: Gatekeep
      26: Girlboss

  • @user-ld6th3vw8e
    @user-ld6th3vw8e Před rokem +76

    I'm glad to hear you say that about "talking behind other people's backs" because like. if someone is hurting you, of course you're not going to feel safe telling someone if the person hurting you is right there. that's what abusers want but it also just isolates people, you have to be able to talk about what's going on

    • @_eIIa_
      @_eIIa_ Před rokem

      i absolutely agree, although i do think there is a difference between talking behind someones back in a venting manner, and talking behind someone's back in just a plain nasty way. like obviously talking about how someone makes you feel and your experiences with them to someone else is completely okay and necessary, as opposed to spreading rumours and being a bitch for no reason behind someones back, y'know? hopefully i explained that ok lol.

  • @natsinnett9751
    @natsinnett9751 Před rokem +21

    This was ghost written by my ex who controlled what I wore and who I talked to, and when he assaulted me in my own home in front of my stepdad tried to convince me I made it all up.

  • @nowshintasfia6076
    @nowshintasfia6076 Před rokem +13

    As someone who grew up Muslim, that's exactly how I was raised before I "came to my senses". My heart goes out to all the Muslim women who haven't unlearned these expectations. I hope that someday they can realize their true worth and right to choose.

  • @alysonmartin9151
    @alysonmartin9151 Před rokem +55

    This is a really long-winded way to say “don’t date anyone” and also “I’m an insecure turd”.

  • @mialarsson5993
    @mialarsson5993 Před rokem +16

    The way a lot of guys are stuck in the 1950's is alarming

  • @claram6377
    @claram6377 Před rokem +61

    i love Nick using an example based on each talking point to kick her out, especially the the carbonaren’t one

  • @LysolMyFace
    @LysolMyFace Před rokem +31

    Nick is so right about venting. Getting out minor grievances to an uninvolved third party instead of bringing up things and creating unnecessary fights is good to do to get that anger off your chest. If it’s a bigger thing that is seriously affecting you then of course talk about it to people if you want to and maybe get advice. But with major things, if you want to continue the relationship (familial, romantic, or platonic), then it’s important to communicate those issues with the person they are about too.
    But yeah I hate the ‘don’t talk behind peoples back’ thing. Like nah fam it’s easier to just vent these feelings to someone else and get over it without a big argument or any other issues. Most of the time anyway. And sometimes you can discuss things with your friends and get advice to implement without having to get into it with the main subject.

    • @angygremlin4423
      @angygremlin4423 Před rokem +5

      It's only "talking behind their back" if you're deliberately trying to make them look worse and you're talking to someone who isn't a partner/family member/close friend that you should be able to vent to without them telling other people.
      Venting to someone you think you can trust is different than deliberately trying to smear someone's reputation and it should be treated accordingly. I feel like the only people who don't respect that (at least in principle) are people who are insecure because they're afraid their partner's confidant will point out red flags and encourage them to put their foot down or leave if the behavior is bad enough.

  • @ebibidibidu55559
    @ebibidibidu55559 Před rokem +7

    A lot of people seek out partners with low self esteem to boost their own ego or not feel bad about their own insecurities. Goofy behavior🥴

  • @aron1797
    @aron1797 Před rokem +23

    has a whif of feminism 🚩

  • @no-longer-human007
    @no-longer-human007 Před rokem +22

    Dying at number 16 XDD Sihr means witchcraft and jinn means spirits in arabic, so basically he's saying she's not possessed or practices witchcraft to cast a spell on him.

    • @fatimawaqar1877
      @fatimawaqar1877 Před rokem

      Made me laugh too. Like how you gonna randomly call us a jin now LMAO T0T

  • @cameseehc7371
    @cameseehc7371 Před rokem +41

    talking behind other peoples backs is only not ok when its spreading harmful and false rumors about someone, intentionally or not - under most other circumstances, it shouldnt be as stigmatized as it is considering its part of coping for a lot of people in a variety of situations

  • @jeremygreen2883
    @jeremygreen2883 Před rokem +38

    Does she show signs of being a djinn? Like, granting wishes or living in a tiny oil lamp or ornate bottle?

    • @imgonnagodie
      @imgonnagodie Před rokem +7

      in islam we believe that jinn can take over a humans body. now believe what you want, but let’s not make fun of a whole religions beliefs.

  • @mollykircher3104
    @mollykircher3104 Před rokem +19

    I feel like anyone who "displays mental instability" (which is on the list near the bottom) whether man or woman, should be checked up on, not avoided. And mental instability is not just a woman thing, hello?

  • @brittatellvik1472
    @brittatellvik1472 Před rokem +23

    This reminds me of something I read in my history book about the woman who talked too much so they created a contraption to put on her face with a spike on the tongue preventing her from talking anymore.

    • @Saibellus
      @Saibellus Před rokem +5

      the scolds bridle. for women who dare disagree with men too much

  • @Liex59
    @Liex59 Před rokem +59

    I like how Nick has given up on uploading on Monday specifically but still opens with "hi, happy Monday"

  • @alyssacorrigan7917
    @alyssacorrigan7917 Před rokem +3

    i love how he spends almost 20 seconds thinking of a joke for spaghetti carbonara. this is the content i signed up for

  • @dawn8293
    @dawn8293 Před rokem +17

    "I say boys because we're looking for women. It's a joke about how gay pepper don't exist."
    And here I was thinking it was a joke about how alpha males always say "men" and "girls", thus infantalizing women.

  • @jacilyn6207
    @jacilyn6207 Před rokem +83

    I’m also in Colorado and I bought CZcams premium for the trip and downloaded a bunch of your videos and they’ve been a life saver!!!

    • @jacilyn6207
      @jacilyn6207 Před rokem +5

      My favorites have been the you cringe you smoke

    • @willow-martin
      @willow-martin Před rokem +5

      @@jacilyn6207 I think I know why you’re in Colorado 🌴

    • @jacilyn6207
      @jacilyn6207 Před rokem +6

      @@willow-martin actually it’s because it’s 105 degree average where I’m from and it’s way better weather here but it’s definitely a bonus

    • @Emma-bm5fu
      @Emma-bm5fu Před rokem +6

      @@jacilyn6207 babes cmon, you’ve got leaves in your name. It’s a safe space here don’t worry ;)

    • @jacilyn6207
      @jacilyn6207 Před rokem +1

      @@Emma-bm5fu yea it’s definitely a bonus but my state is already legal with a medical card

  • @devilsadvocate9343
    @devilsadvocate9343 Před rokem +12

    OMG. WOMEN?!?!?!?! WE MANLY MEN AREN'T EVEN SUPPOSED TO LIKE THEM!!!!

  • @breathoffreshair7795
    @breathoffreshair7795 Před rokem +14

    This sounds like a “perfect” murder victim… wtf.. maybe that person should be reported to officials lol

  • @JohnPruden
    @JohnPruden Před rokem +25

    the biggest red flag is wearing a red beanie

  • @abdoesthings
    @abdoesthings Před rokem +7

    the guy who made the original list literally went "let me misrepresent my whole religion"

  • @tyrannosaurusvex5703
    @tyrannosaurusvex5703 Před rokem +16

    These videos really test my patience. The men he's talking about makes me want to pull my hair out. lmaoo

  • @ellabiddy4741
    @ellabiddy4741 Před rokem +4

    Oddly enough, the opposite of these are red flags in guys. No social media accounts, no pictures online, zero self confidence, his dad shouts at his mom and sets an example of a patriarchal family, disrespects his mom

  • @onmyaveragejoesht507
    @onmyaveragejoesht507 Před rokem +17

    redisnotnick
    green flags to look out for in women

  • @__m-a-x__
    @__m-a-x__ Před rokem +54

    I get a whole lot of whiffs of feminism coming from this channel and it's got me cartoon floating over to your page to see what other content you have. nice

  • @ralphwilsin
    @ralphwilsin Před rokem +45

    All women are green flags to me!!!

  • @r0xanne_d0ll
    @r0xanne_d0ll Před rokem +3

    Just when they included "has a family/place that practices Islam." In to the red flag list, you already know what politics they lean towards....

  • @divyanshiyadav7723
    @divyanshiyadav7723 Před rokem +6

    giving major insecure men vibes

  • @ralphwilsin
    @ralphwilsin Před rokem +31

    I love women

  • @adelinegomez6904
    @adelinegomez6904 Před rokem +2

    Red flags in women!!!!!
    1. Has social media (can see other men)
    2. Has a car (can leave you to go see other men)
    3. Has a voice (can talk (to you and other men!!!)
    4. Has an ounce of self worth (will not tolerate any of this)

  • @asophfable
    @asophfable Před rokem +5

    ok the "doesn't know what she was doin all day" means she can SMOKE YOU OUT and you're SCARED

  • @rhiannonsalt
    @rhiannonsalt Před rokem +12

    The idea that me not telling a dude what I’m doing is seen as a red flag is hilarious to me as someone who gets catcalled almost every time im outside (living in a city) for more than 30 minutes (because the clowns that catcall me, by doing so, act as if i have nothing else to do in a day other than give them time and energy). these dudes only care about what we do when it involves them, when it can help them, and when it centers them. ugh.

  • @mookazootoo
    @mookazootoo Před rokem +6

    i got 16/20! maybe 17 depending on if i have an air of mysteriousness. i do forget where i am going sometimes

  • @melindusfindus1668
    @melindusfindus1668 Před rokem +19

    As a woman, I feel so seen and heard.

  • @ciaociara
    @ciaociara Před rokem +29

    Now I know how to be the perfect woman. Thank you Nick 🙏

  • @zuggernaut618
    @zuggernaut618 Před rokem +3

    “You’ll get an air of something fishy” was off to a good start as a red flag but they ruined it by adding more words.

  • @Goawaystalker69
    @Goawaystalker69 Před rokem +2

    More red flags in women:
    She talks
    She doesn’t stfu all the time
    She leaves the house
    She forgets to do the laundry
    She doesn’t stfu all the time

  • @henhen2640
    @henhen2640 Před rokem +5

    Kinda getting the vibe that the guy who posted the "redflags" doesn't want a grown woman...

  • @inayah115
    @inayah115 Před rokem +13

    I would love to see how holy the man who made the tweet is. It's unislamic for him to be judging women who have nothing to do with him, that's haram. Crazy cause guys like this tend to go about marriage and relationships very unislamically. Islamically Muslims aren't allowed to see themselves as bad looking because you're God's creation. That's the kinda guy to be into Jordan Peterson even though he's Islamophobic. With point 15 I didn't grow up around Muslims but I still wouldn't want to be with a none Muslim because it's easier to be with a Muslim, not only with beliefs but also with what it's like to live as a Muslim with a world full of Islamophobia.

  • @Zahraa10215
    @Zahraa10215 Před rokem +9

    As a muslim I just want to clarify something from the list that i think you may have misunderstood. When they say that backbiting is a red flag they arent referring to like, venting or unloading or anything like that. Its like rumor spreading which is forbidden because it is extremely harmful to spread false rumors. Now, if you are telling someone to warn them about somebody else thats fine im saying like, baseless rumors like "i heard that this person said that Mikaela sleeps around." Or stuff like that. Stuff that hurts people. Now, does the guy who wrote the list probably mean like, literally any kind of human communication? Probably. He seems like the type of guy girls gossip about. But i just wanted to make the backbiting part kind of clear in case anyone misunderstood.

  • @Isa.esthetics
    @Isa.esthetics Před rokem +42

    Nick really looking like a stoner; wonder why he’s in Colorado 🍃🍃

  • @jeannlettte
    @jeannlettte Před rokem +5

    i dont think hes the one who needs gods protection in this situation 💀💀 people like him just want women who act like loyal cult followers

  • @braedenspilman5897
    @braedenspilman5897 Před rokem +8

    He's right we coloradians only have one mountain in the state and we just take photos of it at different angles to give the illusion of the Rocky "Mountains"

  • @macncheeselvr
    @macncheeselvr Před rokem +2

    why did they list every single thing about me as a whole person

  • @sarahboyle5165
    @sarahboyle5165 Před rokem +3

    Drink lots of water in CO! I learned the hard way how important that is. The altitude is no joke.

  • @owenleynes7086
    @owenleynes7086 Před rokem +8

    I don't understand why people are so untrusting of their partner that's literally the whole point of your relationship is having someone you love and trust with everything if you don't trust them that is a fuckin red flag but also maybe something you need to work on if that fear is based on nothing your partner has actually done.

  • @elled2600
    @elled2600 Před rokem +2

    1. Find a girl with body dysmorphia you can exploit
    Wow way to start off strong my guy

  • @Polo-ox2wy
    @Polo-ox2wy Před rokem +2

    I wanna see all these red flags flipped around on the guys that think this and see if they follow any of them

  • @planetmars456
    @planetmars456 Před rokem +3

    For anyone wondering, sihr means magic/witchcraft and jinn are demons

  • @jokc8
    @jokc8 Před rokem +1

    Bonus round:
    - has a father
    - object permanence, specifically men
    - HAS MET A MAN

  • @reveluvv0
    @reveluvv0 Před rokem +8

    Red flag no.1 when she has brothers

  • @belladonnaaberration
    @belladonnaaberration Před rokem +1

    i love videos filmed outside. the ambience is so peaceful especially for commentary.

  • @593swheeler
    @593swheeler Před rokem +4

    Hey, if you didn't know, bulls can't actually see the color red. The thing that actually aggravates them is the movement of the cloth. That said, flags would have the same effect if the bull looked up and saw them if it was windy enough.

  • @Heyheyhaleyd
    @Heyheyhaleyd Před rokem +2

    As a Christian I was taught to be friends/kind with everyone. When it comes to dating I was told that you should only date other believers. It makes sense to a certain extent. Like they have the same values, but I think anyone should date whoever they want.

  • @christabraxton5633
    @christabraxton5633 Před rokem

    nick ur so right ab the talking about ppl behind their backs . like obviously don’t go around spreading rumors or slandering to be mean but speaking about something true that someone else did to u is valid

  • @doubledosed4220
    @doubledosed4220 Před rokem +4

    HAS A WHIFF

  • @ch6rista
    @ch6rista Před rokem +3

    9:16 dude im not even lying so my dad is unemployed and my mom works a job as a cashier. when she came home from work my dad asked her to cook and she said no bc she was tired (understandable). and he fr said "you dont even cook for me, why am i with you?". Man what the hell. i hope i dont get stuck w a guy like my father 💀

  • @cookingwithsilence
    @cookingwithsilence Před rokem

    This is a great video. As I watch it I picture that you are somewhere happily cooking in silence. I love you Nick.

  • @halatiny6537
    @halatiny6537 Před rokem

    Nickkk the song at the end sounds amazing, I can’t wait to listen to it!

  • @ymirium
    @ymirium Před rokem +3

    I feel like this is a list written specifically about me crafted by a group of my ex tinder matches

  • @mae4080
    @mae4080 Před rokem

    i love the editing rn !!

  • @heatherquinn777
    @heatherquinn777 Před rokem +2

    omg this list literally has "Its a red flag if you suspect she's a genie!" (the Jinn comment they're related supernaturals)

  • @jayhobsonschiszler8958
    @jayhobsonschiszler8958 Před rokem +6

    Shout-out to the Colorado crows shouting their opinions at Nick in this video when not asked

  • @nonprofitgirl
    @nonprofitgirl Před rokem

    This is gold, Nick.

  • @tailor8434
    @tailor8434 Před rokem +4

    Thank god none of these insecure men would ever approach me 🫶🏽

  • @tims5978
    @tims5978 Před rokem +3

    7:15 converts are completely out of the question i guess lmao. as a convert and has next to zero muslim community this feels rude. like we're already by ourselves on this spiritual journey and this dude's like "yeah thats a red flag"

    • @tims5978
      @tims5978 Před rokem

      not offended obviously cuz i dont want this guy but its just insensitive to say

  • @fatbootybutasmallback8722

    Super baked and thought Nick was saying “foreign” women lmaoooo

  • @jjkashh
    @jjkashh Před rokem

    i love ur take on talkin shit behind peoples back i totally agree

  • @mosesverroye-cannone3921

    Love your videos! Keep up the good work 🙏❤️

  • @SoloGrayson
    @SoloGrayson Před rokem

    The editing has been killing it lately