Trans Men Will Never Be Women | Accidental Allies
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This pinned comment being posted 20 hrs ago is camp
@@XavieraMarie ,x2ws❤ no se bhrd con gdq,Z no en el 6y,dq
@@limitless_valley yes
8hr battery life for headphones is very bad the ones I use cost £24 and have a 52 hour playtime before 😊dying
@@Jojo.R.Chipelago oo sorry, i didn't realize i typed that bc my phone was in my pocket and wrote that out whoops
Accidental Allies are proof that transphobia is just silly nonsense. Loving the new haircut Jamie!
You're right about that. It is very artificial, and it's nonsense.
It's as nonsensical as racism.
Imagine thinking biology is nonsense. 😂
@@jdubo1998 Imagine thinking transphobia is biology.
@@squeaktheswan2007 If you think that pointing out the biological fact that transwomen aren't women is transphobic, then yes, I guess biology is transphobic.
Unfortunately for you, there are many of us that prefer biological reality over fictional delusions.
This reminds me of the time my transphobic grandma said “trans men aren’t women they’re men” and I was sitting there like “yeah grandma you’re right trans men aren’t women”
OMG your grandma is confused but has the spirit lol ( edit spelling lol)
@@ArtsyKnox25 ikr!
Can u tell me whether surgery is necessary for a biological male to identify as woman and biological female to identify as man. There are different opinions around it so I'm not sure. Answer only if u are comfortable in discussion.
@@AmicableAgnostic
No.
@@hayuseen6683 so there is no way to identify the gender. I have to believe what individual is saying?
I hope that when people are accidental allies, it means that they don't fully understand and/or are repeating things they have heard, which means there's hope for them to learn and grow!
Trouble is, they'd learn from the wrong sources and learn the wrong things.
Fox News be like
@@rosiefay7283 no they'd be learning the correct non harmful things
People can't learn or grow unless they are willing to, so I don't share that optimism.
In this video? No honey, they're all trying to be transphobic.
Oh my gosh that one who said they "respect the trans lifestyle" reminded me of a recent argument with my uncle where he tried to claim "I care about gay people and that's why I'm against gay marriage" and all I could do was respond with "do you even listen to yourself sometimes?" Because that was the most batshit crazy thing I'd ever heard.
There's no hate like Christian love
(I get that he may not be Christian, but the same background logic applies here. Saying you do hateful things out of love is textbook abuse and coercion)
@@user-mv5zt8qd9l A kind reminder that the vast majority of Christians do not fall into the American right wing conservative form of Christianity. I'm a progressive Christian from Sweden, I am bisexual and demisexual. I fully support my fellow members of the LGBTQ+ community. One thing to take note of that homophobia and transphobia still exist in super secular societies. Sweden is one of the most secular countries in the world, yet you will still find a fairly big amount of bigots that identify as atheists. While nearly all the churches welcome members of the community and allow same-sex weddings in the church. Those that don't, are not allowed to perform binding wedding ceremonies anymore.
The only way I can make this make sense is that your uncle hates his own marriage and thus is trying to save the gays from committing his own failures. Yep, that's the version of the story I'm gonna roll with.
@@Ikajo
Yeah I mean Christians do get a lot of hate but if I’m honest living in a colony state that was forced into Christian fundamentalist culture it’s hard to find a Christian who’s decent.
I get that in Europe you guys have had the exposure to new ideas that prompted progressive Christianity but it just isn’t common in the colonies.
Christianity just existed up there, it could afford to evolve, down here Christianity went on a crusade and we live with the descendant of that crusading faith.
@@Ikajo I honestly feel sorry that you're stuck with the bad rep the US evangelicals gave most of you but being called "an abomination against the order of man and woman" and a herald of "the age of sin and chaos" by the pope and most people not calling that out can make some other people feel not very charitable toward all of Christendom, y'know?
I wish that most Christians I've had the displeasure of meeting online were from a denomination like yours instead of one of the Westboro garbage ones.
"I was born a baby" is my new favorite line 🤣
"I was born screaming" is also good, and if you have a good pair of lung on ya you can make them regret even harder that they tried to insist you should be what you were born as.
ABAB
Yes, I was assigned infant at birth, but now I identify as an adult
@@ninjoshday The only true transage
@@neoqwerty I don't mean to be weird, but I think you'd make an awesome best friend! You seem fun. 😃👍🏳⚧
There's also this really weird sexism element going on here. Like if we look at transphobic belief that trans women are men, and trans men are women, just look at the difference in their treatment. I.e., trans women are treated as if they're all predators or aggressive, and trans men are treated like they're all confused and must be guided. Is the implication, based on this belief and subsequent treatment, that all men are aggressive predators and all women can't come to their own conclusions about their identity? Beyond transphobia that's just plain sexist. lol
And when people say things like, "I just don't agree with gay people" or trans people, etc. What does that MEAN? You don't agree with a general form of human? Imagine saying "I don't agree with black people." or "I don't agree with Jews." What is there to agree with? These are people that exist whether you like it or not. Very strange to me.
I agree but transphobic people and other right wing people don't really care about being hypocrites.
It's especially obvious when they claim that "little girls get double mastectomies."
Which is simply impossible. You can't remove something that isn't there.
Every person on the planet knows that little girls don't have boobs. So they are obviously calling grown adults, grown MEN, "little girls."
It doesn't matter whether we're 18, 26, or 40+, they'll always put us on the same cognitive development level as pre-teens or even toddlers, simply because we were born with a vagina. If that isn't sexist, then I don't know what is.
Can I just point out how especially wild it can get once they trow other facts into the mix? Like many transphobes often bring up autism making people succeptable to "falling" for being transgender and treat all of us like fucking kids... Yet every time I've that mentioned it's about AFAB autistic people... Despite the fact that most autistic people are AMAB (or at least most of the diagnosed ones)
And honestly that's telling
I was noticing that, myself. I think part of it comes down to conservatives having the belief that being a woman is somehow inherently wrong. Like, I had the misfortune of having to be on a treadmill at the gym with fox news on one of the TVs, the one right in front of me no less, and there is some daily segment of this one guy just bitching about the left for an entire hour, and he went on this ten minute long rant about how the left is trying to feminize everything, making people weak and all that crap. It sounds like most conservatives genuinely believe it is wrong to be a woman at all, so trans women are like traitors to them. They are so utterly incapable of having even the tiniest understanding of why anyone would admit to being a woman that they just get angry, like someone trying to break a puzzle because they can't solve it.
@Anonymous Wasn't saying they were the same
I saw a satirical article titled something like, "Transgender girl wholesomely disproves transphobic hate by being the worst player on her basketball team"
Why did I cackle 😭
"Take a break from the hatred and see where it takes you." - Jamie
Dang, you can't just drop that kind of life advice on random Wednesday afternoon. I wasn't ready for that
Right? And it's really good advice that applies to so many other things!
Like, I'm a picky eater who happens to really hate fish. But one day I gave sushi a try and wow it's one of my favorites now! Taking a short break to explore sometimes is totally worth it!
@@ShoulderMonster To those who see not with their eyes nor understand with their mind the “trans” problems: There are "trans" people out there, who fooled mankind into "being trans". That`s the problem, deceiving and being deceived and therefore giving out false judgments. These "trans", channels like angel`s expose, and whom you call beautiful as you see them still with blind eyes, deceived mankind into their evil and sick game. For let me remind to all of us again, NO SOUL IS TRANS, NO NOT ONE.! Yes they went under a knife and yes they destroyed their temple of GOD (their bodies) - (This world calls it "tradition from one gender to another). and now listening those brave souls, who de - trans themselves. What is that their bodies doing? - screaming out in agony, pain for missing body parts, pain for decreasing health as their bodies no longer produce hormones. Pain for being that badly abused. Their bodies are in pain, trying hard to go back, what they must be, males MUST be males and females MUST be females. What GOD created, let no man re - create - for we fail every time, as we in fact believing nothing but lies, leaving us wondering in dark.
NO SOUL IS TRANS, NO NOT ONE.! -they are DECEIVED to go and destroy their bodies, which is the TEMPLE OF GOD:
1 Corinthians 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Corinthians 3:17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
1 Corinthians 6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
The trans people do breaks 2 laws, 2 GOD laws:
1.) they destroy their bodies, the temples of GOD.
2.) the wear opposite gender garments/clothes.
Do you think most people that don't believe trans women are women actually hate them or just don't believe in it?
@@trevorchester4439 Bigoted how?
@@trevorchester4439 The ABC's for becoming a Christian. (saved soul)
A - Admit - Admit to God that you are a sinner. Repent, turning away from your sin. "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God." Romans 3:23
B - Believe - Believe that Jesus is God's Son and accept God's gift of forgiveness from sin. "While we were sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8
C - Confess - Confess your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord. "If you will confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Romans 10:9
I just got a haircut and Jamie described my haircut experience so well.
"Yes most my hair is gone. It is gone and I'm filled with.. regret."
Same here!
@@dustygania2425 tattoos have a way Higher regret rate, whereas trans regrate rate is literally almost 0.
@@dustygania2425 The general regret rate of any surgery is about 20-30%.
The transition regret rate is less than 2%.
@@dustygania2425 argue shit that actually happens, please.
@@dustygania2425 yeah regret I didn't transition sooner lol
9:04 For context, that's a trans boy who even though he was taking T was still forced to be on the girls team. So yeah, in this case it was a boy being forced to beat up girls.
I believe this is specifically Mack Beggs.
Edit: 30 seconds later Jamie actually explained, whoops.
insert Hold on. This whole operation was your idea. meme here.
@@ShinyTillDawn Yes, they are so afraid of "men" in women's spaces, but if you force people to go to places based on their biological sex they actually will have men like Mack, Jamie, Laith Ashley, Brian Michael Smith, and Elliot Fletcher in women's spaces. So you know that it actually has nothing to do with "men" in women's spaces or women's right and has everything to do with oppressing trans people until either they kill themselves or the government does.
I hate the whole sports debate for one reason, nonbinary people. I am nonbinary, if I wanted to play sports how would I? Is there that much of a biological difference? Maybe? I legitimately don’t know know how to solve this, especially because I want to eventually start nonbinary hormones.
@@IsaacMyers1 Yes, its complicated, I believe in less transphobic locations pre-medical transition you compete with your sex assigned at birth, and after medically transitioning you join what ever gender you are more physically close to. In transphobic states though NB people aren't really allowed to compete at all.
Sex/gender division in sports doesn't make much sense anyway as there is so much variety even within each sex and gender, and the more restrictions you add the more people you exclude from being allowed to compete. Most sports should be divided more along the lines of height and weight than what's between your legs.
@@rosieg6989 I think it's because the average cisgender man is more athletic/physically "built" than the average cisgender woman because of human evolution. Thus, if there were to be a world record for something involving grip strength, weight lifted, etc., then it's more likely for a cisgender man to win it. In other words, having co-ed sports would not really give a chance for most women to shine.
Now, as for trans people in sports, you really need to nail it when it comes to levelling the playing field between a trans woman and a cis woman (ditto for men) when it comes to similar testosterone/estrogen levels, or other hormones that can offset advantages and disadvantages caused by different puberties. I remember that the NIH website said that trans women needed more than 1 year of HRT to have equivalent strength/endurance to cis women.
My bestie was transphobic but after I came out and explained the entire thing to her and she became my biggest supporter
now she also has two more trans friends (non binary and trans girl I think)
This is is proof that there is still hope in the world for all these transphobic people to change
Most of it comes from ignorance and propaganda. IMO at least
Thank you for sharing the wholesomeness and hope!
@sallywright Regret is always a possibility for any medical or surgical procedure. The regret rate for gender transition is astronomically low. Most people who de transition site societal pressure as the reason, not regret. How about you keep your filthy nose out of other people's private medical decisions? If a minor is involved that is for the minor, the parents, and the doctors to decide what is appropriate, not you. Trans people are not just going to stop existing.
@@sallywright8065 - That's so rare though and there are many, many preventative measures in place. Is it unfortunate that it happens? Absolutely. But there are options for them, and taking healthcare away from the 99.9% who ARE actually trans is NOT a solution.
Sometimes all people need is to know a trans person or have a few facts thrown their way and their minds change. We can absolutely beat hate with persistence and education. Your story makes me so happy to hear, and it's awesome that your friend supports you and others now!
I must agree. You will never be a woman. Please stay who you are because you are awesome!
And yes i do mean this in a supporting way 🏳️⚧️❤️🏳️🌈🦄
I also must agree, he's certainly no woman.
Real men don't need validation like Jamie. 😅 Growing a chia pet beard with hormones does not make her a man.
I agree. That is no woman, just a super cool guy.
Yep. The most manly man I’ve ever seen.
yup! Never was a woman, never will be a woman
He's always gonna be a man, and always has been a man
Yesterday when I was on the bus I really had to hold my tongue. There were two men who were talking about a woman when one of them says "I keep saying she. I don't know why I keep saying that. I mean he because she dresses like a woman and wants to be a woman but she is a man." The transphobia while also accidently respecting pronouns! XD
So thinking a man who identifies as a woman is still a man, is transphobic? Acknowledging biological reality is transphobic?
Sigh
The man on the bus wasn't being transphobic. He was being rational and reasonable.
You were being paranoid about transphobia, but at least you knew unquestionably (without asking) that HE was definitely a MAN.
Wow. Their transphobia is at war with their accurate perception of a woman's gender. They have to actively TRY to maintain their transphobia.
The mental gymnastics that transphobes need to do to be @$$holes... It's so much easier to just accept people and be nice!
@@austinluther5825 Trying to resist social pressure, programming and conditioning to accept transgender ideology as truth, and to reject biological reality and the evidence of their own eyes and ears.
@@austinluther5825 - It really just shows how idiotic transphobia is lol
Transphobes be like: but you have boobs! You are a WoMAn!!
Like.. Yeah. So does my overweight cousin Nick, but you ain't calling him a girl, are you? 👏🏻Let👏🏻Guys👏🏻Have👏🏻Tiddies👏🏻
I went from a man with boobs to a woman with boobs. If anything I put those boobs in their proper place by putting them on a woman, no surgery required.
Reminds me of Peter Griffin's "side boob".
HELPP THE MAN TIDDIES 😭😭
After working out for quite a while now, I also have my own set of Guy titties :)
Moobs are underrated tbh
What's crazy is that in the US some places would expect Jamie to use a women's restroom and facilities which is just insane to me. We should have non binary gender neutral bathrooms
As an agender person, I agree with you. We need more neutral bathrooms
Nah people wouldn't mind, Jamie looks like a handsome cis gender man. People are against those big old hairy ass men walking into women's bathrooms claiming that they identify as women.😂😂😂😂
@@Bellamy666 Can we also get full stalls in them so I don't have to defensively kick at people's kids for being little asshats trying to peek into my stall? Nobody wants to be disturbed mid-poop.
We do, but not really. They're "family" restrooms so they're kinda nb restrooms.
@@ArtsyKnox25
Yeah but it’s about normalization as well as having a place to piss. I don’t wanna survive, I wanna live well and happy.
I love how that one person was trying to be transphobic but was actually describing agender. I was like, yeah, you’re describing me. Thanks for the accidental support 😄
Reminds me of the people who are like "I am NOT cis!!!!". Like, cool coming out, dude. You've become what you swore to destroy.
@@charlieandhisantics9954 I’m not cis. I’m a woman. They are trans men and trans women. Cis doesn’t exist. Now that you’ve pushed all your allies away we won’t be using cis anymore. Good luck!
@Ally Trudie just say you reject modern social science and move on with your life of denial.
@@charlieandhisantics9954 Man, a CZcamsr I'm no longer subscribed to just made a video about not wanting to be called cis 🤣 when that's what they are 😭
@@user-mv5zt8qd9l you deny science. Science is on my side. That is why you can’t retort any of the points I have made.
The example of Mack Beggs infuriates me so much. The fact that people just hear he's trans and immediately assume he is a Trans woman is just telling for so many things: A, the fact that trans men are not talked about enough; B, how villinizing people have been towards trans people; and C, that these people dont even do a second of research. they just start writing mean stuff and hating on a person/community without even realising who that person even is
"I did not choose my gender, it chose me" had me CACKLING
Amazing
my favorite thing about being genderfluid? so many accidental allies. I cannot be misgendered, there is nothing anyone can say to give me dysphoria, I just get to confuse the heck out of people and it's great.
Yes same! People never believe me when I tell them there is nothing they can do to offend me lmao
@ *Laughs In Gay*
More like laughs in immunity to transphobia. Also I love your name. :3
@@shadowking278 TERFS should be beheaded endorsed by two SNP lawmakers in Scotland but of course its your transphobia that is hurtful not the violence towards women. I bet you would defend trans Barbie Kardashian who is in a women's jail for threatening to rape its mom
Gender fluid is like unicorns or gnomes. Sorry, you don't exist 😂
And this is why being genderfluid sounds cool to me xD
15:04 this comment is about Bridget from Guilty Gear, a character who was previously not confident in her gender identity, but was later confirmed to be a trans woman by the creator of the game... and yet people still try to argue that she is a "man". the entire arc she has of self-discovery in the game is actually very heartwarming, and there's a lot more to her story than just her identity!
Can you imagine someone just saying “No, Eren Yeager never became evil, his last Titan form wasn’t a symbol of helplessness” just because they?? Don’t wanna?? Believe it?? When the creator literally confirms it???
HOLY SHIT I DIDN'T KNOW SHE GOT A TRANS STORY ARC???? this is awesome aaaaaaa
(I don't even play Guilty Gear I just like her design and story and I hadn't checked her wiki page lately)
@@neoqwerty She actually comes out as trans on screen in one of her arcade endings!
The amount of people I’ve seen that try and claim she is a ‘biological male’ is insane. She’s a video game character there’s nothing biological about her lol
Also, there is an enby character in Guilty Gear as well! Their name is Testament
I recently saw yarn at joann's that's the trans flag when it strips. The color is called life. Another one is the lesbian flag colors called spirit and the bi flag colors called serenity.
Guess I'm serenity then
The colours are nice even though Im pretty sure Im not bi. And it is a cool name.
(Serenity is my internet alias though so either it now counts double because I chose it myself or I get minus points as in RL my name is different)
🤯 Guess I'm heading to Joann for some yarn!
The (indirect) irony of bi colors being called "serenity" considering Whedon's two most celebrated original works...
What is the gay one? Or did they not have it?
Also. I guess I’ve got a lot of life in me? 🤷♀️
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
🏳️🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜
you too!!!
Thank you i needed this
Aww thanks ami
❤
we know
I'm sorry you regret the haircut! #1) it looks very good! #2) it'll grow back
Here is my personal experience with an accidental ally / purposeful sexist,
So at my elementary school there were quite a few of the classic bigoted farmer kids, due to me living in a rather rural uneducated area.
There was this one boy in my gym class who told me (trans guy, closeted at the time) that girls can’t play sports. I carried my team to beat his team 12 to 4. Even despite my undiagnosed disability. I’m in high school now and I always think back to that moment whenever I’m faced with bigotry.
Hahah that's SO GOOD! You sure showed him!
Unfortunately we had a group of kids in our school who were openly transphobic homophobic etc everywhere they went, and we were all super pissed at them because even though they were TOLD. BY. THE. FRICKING. FACULTY. To STOP, they didn't! I hope it got better since I graduated! Most of us are there along with you in the journey!
They suck lol.
@@ArtsyKnox25 - Transphobes\homophobes were actually a large part of the reason that I ended up dropping out. And from what I've heard, it's only gotten worse since I left. I unfortunately live in a super small, super redneck conservative town.
This is legendary! Hell yeah!
Honestly, if there was a trans cover of Paradise City with those lyrics, if it was written with *good* intentions, I would totally listen. I mean, the rhyme is just amazing.
You're not wrong ... we need a trans rock band! :D
Well, I'm bored. I'm making it now
"Moderate to severe regret". Not gonna lie Jamie, you'd rock being one of those men with long hair. More trans men need to try the viking look(long hair and beard)
Brunnhilde horned helmet looks good on anyone, beard or not!
i've been going more swashbuckler with mine- medium long hair and trimmed beard
but it's a similar vibe
Hes too brit to be a viking
yesterday I was watching jeopardy with my mom and the host referred to the player who won using they/them pronouns so my mom went "she can't decide whether she's a man or a woman, I just don't understand why some people don't want to be one or the other" and I was thinking like girl I don't understand astrophysics but that doesn't mean it's not real
“I don’t understand astrophysics but that doesn’t mean it’s not real” I hate the fact that some conservatives might actually try and disprove you
Mortality isn’t real, because I haven’t died yet.
With as much respect and love as possible....you'll never be a woman
Don’t tell the transphobes they’re about to enter the replies shhhh
As a trans Christian, I wholeheartedly agree that God chose my gender. He made me a man, and He gave me a vulva. It's not His fault that the people around me decided I was a woman. God made no mistake in making me trans, it was always the plan!
I heard the quote before that goes smth like "god made trans people for the same reason he created wheat and not bread, grapes and not wine. So that humanity could partake in the miracle of creation"
i love this comment so much. i am a Christian and i definitely believe that God created everyone exactly how they should be and how they were always meant to be. if people interpret the Bible wrong, that is a them problem. He knew exactly what He was doing when He created everyone.
@@gl00myharvesteramen 🙏💕
It makes me happy to see Christians that not only are fine with trans people, but are trans themselves. Stay strong King, you are perfect.
@@ContinentalPsyOp I don’t seem to get the joke 🤔
"I was born a baby" killed me. 😂😂💜
Hi jamie, i noticed in this video, you added some more instances of non binary and agender accidental allyship. It always makes me smile when i see inclusion of non binary people in these sorts of videos. Thank you.
Me: Having a bad day
Jamie: Trans men will never be women!
Me: :)
aww why is this comment so wholesome
Yeah I had a bad day today too, but we're here to support each other! I hope tomorrow is a better day for you!
People kept using feminine terms for me and even though I'm okay with those pronouns ( I use she/they/it pronouns) it really set off my dysphoria and made me kinda hate myself a bit lol. I almost said out loud multiple times to stop because it was annoying me so much.
All the love from a demigirlflux person ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Normal people who aren't part of the trans cult: trans women aren't women
Trans women will never be women. They deserve trans rights but not women’s rights. I’m a transphobe apparently. I am middle aged and come from a time when mental disorders were not anyone’s issues but your own and if they started effecting others you were sick and needed therapy. I was fighting for trans women’s and men’s rights but I don’t anymore because apparently I’m a transphobe. Everyone I know is the same. You lost allies you need. We ain’t never coming back. Fight your fight alone now.
@Ally Trudie your personal echo chamber is not a reflection of wider society. Refusing to accept any medical and sociological progress we've made since your childhood is nothing to be proud of.
Experienced my first accidental ally IRL this weekend was refereeing a football game and some clown called me an insult meant to imply that I'm androgynous, but I'm openly non-binary, and want to be more androgynous....
nice
Lmao I love that
Homophobe.
YES trans men will never be women❤
Jamie: I don’t believe in hair, it doesn’t exist.
Roly: YASSSS! *flicks fan* 🌈
As an Agender person, I was very confused by comment @5:30, as well!
I do acknowledge that genders exist. I understand this due to having friends that fit into all sorts of genders: trans, cis, enby, demi-boy,demi- girl, gender-fluid, and probably many more that I cannot think of at the moment.
Me, though? Nah - keep me out of Genderworld
Have been watching Shaaba’s channel all day, & apparently the algorithm decided it was your turn! 💜🌈🏳️⚧️🥔
Same! My experience has been like my entire life there was this wierd idea that people with penises had to be this way and people with vaginas had to be that way and it just- didn’t make any sense?? I have the former but my genitals don’t decide how I live ;-; I don’t get how people can identify by or against an idea that was just made up one day based on something as nonsensical as genitals. It’s like having a self identity based on the shape of your eyebrows or the cultural idea of how eyebrows should be. Why would anyone identify like that ;-;
To your last thing about Shabba
Same but it was the other way round 😂
I watched loads of Jamie, then stumbled upon Shabbas channel and watched loads of her too 😂
Probably should do something productive… 😂
@@barryledgister4496 has it crossed your mind that people's identities stretch beyond the basic processes of creating more babies?
It's almost like we live in a society that places further labels on people than that...
@@barryledgister4496no.
@@beans1557 as a genderfluid person, I relate. I don't understand why gender roles exist and why is 1 body part supposed to dictate how someone dresses and lives their life. there's so much more to a person than just genitals.
don't sweat your hair, man. It looks great! Besides, hair grows super fast lol
Unless it's curly haha
@ᙪaroness von Murderpillow
Well my hair grows fast. And it’s curly. To the point where it just grows into itself. I’ve actually recently been trying to grow it out. Not only because I’m a trans female. But even before I knew I was trans I had pretty straight hair that was long.
"You don't choose your gender; God does. Are you seriously going to question what God made you?"
This is a good question. And transphobic christians really need to think about it. What if they are the ones questioning what god has made me and many other transgender people? Maybe he's testing them, too see how they treat people.
When they treat us with hate, and never repent those sins, then they have failed.
“Transgender doesn’t exist.”
“Okay. You don’t exist.”
“What-?”
“I don’t like you. *You no longer exist to me.* “
Basically geopolitics
There's no such thing as a "trans"... Male or female - no changes, no refunds.
8:44 I love it when transphobes make memes indistinguishable from banger trans affirming memes. i would post this unironically
Yes, and I would love to hear that cover =)
You will never be a woman. You have never been a woman.
Yes, this was deliberate. We love you, Jamie.
What do you mean, Jamie was born female right?
@@thomasrosendahl2783 yeah but he is a man so ?
@@thomasrosendahl2783 Jamie will never be a woman. He Is was and will always be a man.
@@Sonicfan-cc1te Not if you ask Matt Walsh or Jordan Peterson
I’ve recently dealt with people being accidental allies to me and it’s funny and adorable.
“YOU WILL NEVER BE A WOMAN!” uh, yeah. That’s the point.
Like yeah lol
Then why have surgery?
@@thomasrosendahl2783 just don‘t have it
She will only be a woman with a chia pet beard.
@@thomasrosendahl2783 because we want to?
The wrester's name is Matt Beggs.
He is being forced to wrestle women, because Texas set the policy that he has to compete in his assigned at birth class.
3:35 She saw the trans flag somewhere and thought to herself: “That’s a nice pattern. I’ll remember this.”
Me getting depressed because of my transphobic dad :(
CZcams notification - Jammidodger uploaded a video 'Trans men will never be women'
Me :)
I hate transphobia as a cis gay guy I feel so happy to be born into a supportive family and hope yours become more supportive
hang in there bud it will get better eventualy
@@ArtsyKnox25 Virtual Mum hug? ❤🫂
@@susanleslie6178 hahah sure! 🫂 ❤️❤️
Transphobia sucks, stay strong buddy
"take a break from the hatred and see where it takes you" is such a beautiful statement. The rhyme and flow is poetic
@Stripes It is. You look up those Harvard studies yet?
Telling people not to live in delusion and taking extreme life choices is not hatred.
@@daknon7121 Being trans is not extreme and yes, speaking against a minority group that is supported by the medical science is, indeed, hatered
As for the wrestling picture, that's Mack Beggs, a trans man who wanted to wrestle with the other boys, but was FORCED to wrestle with girls because his transphobic state/school forced him to do so.
@@trevorchester4439 you're literally advocating for this. he wanted to compete with the boys but they wouldn't let him because of his biological sex. this is literally your fault.
@@trevorchester4439 if you're transphobic and believe only your biological sex should define who you are, then yes you are advocating for that.
I'm always super glad that you never try to insult religion and religious beliefs xD
you're a good guy
What if they're extremist beliefs that come from blatantly misinterpreting a holy text?
With the "If you were born in a female body, why don't you just respect the way God made you" logic: By that same reasoning, God made people experience gender dysphoria, and he made gender-affirming care. So it's reasonable to assume that by transitioning, they are being who God made them.
It's like complaining about how caterpillars disrespect they way God made them by metamorphosizing into butterflies
@@ninjoshday Well, those people also believe that gender dysphoria is a hoax and that 100% of trans people are changing their gender expressions for political theatre or playing a victim card.
@@ninjoshday god didnt make gender affirming care. Hold on nvm my fav bible verse is “ a man with a penis shall become a woman once he pleases”. Im sorry but are you this dumb? Do you also say that god isnt good because he lets evil happen? God made humans and he tries to guide us onto the correct path. Its our choice if we decide to follow him, but if you dont the gates of paradise will be closed for you. “but the Lord laughs at the wicked, for he knows their day is coming” - Psalm 37:13. Theres your answer
@@Justarandomguy654 ofc you're religious that explains the stupidity.
TRANS MEN ARE MEN.
TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN.
YOU CANT CHANGE YOUR GENDER.
(I'm trans too, this is me affirming any trans person who reads this. You are absolutely valid and I love you!
2 lies and a truth😅
@@redactado266 and one idiot transphobe in the replies
@@redactado266 if that's what you believe then go for it but i'll stay living over here in facts town
@@redactado266 you're so right! you can't change your gender. i tried for 14 years, but since I couldn't change it, I eventually ended up accepting myself as a boy. i am so much happier now being who i am and i really appreciate you validating everyone who sees your comment!
if you're trans too, you are totally valid. :)))
Confused transphobe: *uses it pronouns*
Non-binary person: Thanks!
Transphobe: You'll never be a woman!
Enby: I know!
Transphobe: You'll never be a man!
Enby: Yep, I know, thanks!
I love that exchange 😂
Jamie is a woman
Confused trans: transwomen are women.
At first I didn't understand much about Trans people, but I did some research and now I know a lot and when people talk about Trans people now I understand what they're talking about.
To the person who are reading this: Stay strong, you'll win the fight. I love you 💜
Thank you.... You don't know how much that meant for me to read it❤
What happens if two people read this and have a fight with each other?
@@HorseEater LOL HAHAHAH that made me laugh 🤣🤣🤣
@@HorseEater Then it's time to du-du-du-du-duel!
Thank you, dear bean. I needed this so much. Blessings to you.
🙏❤🏳🌈🏳⚧
I love when they hear "trans men" and their simple brains automatically think trans women 🤣🤣🤣
Cos it's confusing af. That's who you know something is off with transgenderism. Sex is not that complicated.
@@johnc3525 I love that you admitted to having a simple mind.
@@neurodivergentpixi6736 No, just not confused about sex.
@@johnc3525 Yes. My comment was about simple minds not getting it. You fell into the trap of replying that you don't get it. That is inadvertently an admission of a simple mind.
For if that weren't the case, you would have bypassed my comment. But here you are. Bravo 👏
@@neurodivergentpixi6736 You're over complicating sex... it's not that hard.
Hey, just wanted to say that you’ve helped me a lot since I started questioning my gender and I recently came out as a trans man to most of the people I spend time with. Most of them were great, except for my parents, and I feel so much better since I did. Thank you so much!
Confused transphobe: Trans men are men!
Trans men: Why yes we are.
@Clam Chowder you're denying science. cringe.
@Clam Chowder Being trans is not classified as a mental illness by either the American Psychological Association or the World Health Organization. Gender dysphoria or incongruence is recognized by both as a medical condition, and transition is the only treatment recognized as effective and appropriate medical response to this condition. A trans person who has completed transition, and who no longer experiences distress because the conditions previously causing it have been corrected, is no longer diagnosed as having dypshoria or incongruence.
@@-ashy
And WHO have made mistakes. Next.
@@zaczeen1121 "i know better than the professionals" lmfao cope
@@-ashy
Did those professionals also said how many women have been hurt by transgender in relation to sports and privacy?
Oh right of course you don't care.
My request for aro ace and agender videos continues!!
Agreed!
this honestly made my day, thank you so much Jamie!!
"oh, so they went on no journey at all" has to be one of the funniest things I've heard all week. Perfection.
no regrets, your haircut looks great, Jamie!
I have a cousin (cis-female) who wrestled all through her schooling. The girls wrestling devision wasnt big enough regionally so she competed in the boys competitions, they just classed her in the appropriate weight class with the boys. She won her regionals all four years of high school.
It's definitely not a trans women vs cis women problem.
@Stripes that and actual sports scientists have done research on this topic and found the segregation between sexes across every sport is not reasonable. There should be a better system in place
Figuring out that JK Rowling was a garbage human being was literally the most heartbreaking realization of my life. She had such potential. So many of her quotes work as quotes of acceptance.
I really don’t understand what went wrong to send her down this path. She wrote a whole series about accepting yourself and then started to do the exact opposite.
@@soupy_soup2 well I mean she is british
@@glompert7390 💀
@@soupy_soup2 My semi-professional opinion as someone in remote social work? Unhealed trauma. As is the case with too many people. She's got this inchoate reactive notion that recognizing trans women as women somehow rides roughshod over the various terrible things she's endured at the hands of men and patriarchy, like sexual assault. Mentally, she seems to have framed trans acceptance as some kind of invasion, which only reinforces that trauma. And as she digs herself deeper and deeper into a reactionary hole, and more and more people pile on her about it, her sense of victimhood grows to monstrous proportions.
I wish she'd get help and put her written dispatches on pause in the meantime.
@@presentfuture7563 Jesus dude. That’s way too accurate. She views trans women as some sort of attack on her femininity. That somehow accepting trans women as women will make her less of a woman. That could absolutely stem from internalized and externalized misogyny or sexual trauma. I know for a fact that she has unhealed sexual trauma. Perhaps if she hadn’t experienced the trauma that she did, she might’ve not gone down this path.
As a cis woman who was recently pregnant, it bothered me none that trans men & nb folks with vaginas would want that too. It doesn't affect me in the slightest. As long as they're not harming anyone, people should do what makes them happy.
Cis woman? Thats just a woman
@@eiavops4576 no, thats a cis woman. "woman" includes trans women.
@@-ashy didnt know trans ‘women’ can bear offspring or produce eggs, distinguished biologically by the production of gametes (ova) that can be fertilized by male gametes.
@@eiavops4576 guess infertile women arent women anymore.
@@eiavops4576 Fuck the fact that I have PCOS and can't have kids, I'm not a woman ♥️
I absolutely love this channel!!
No way I found Datchia while randomly scrolling comments
Ok, the one with the knitting grandma really was peak comedy 😂 I wonder if that person told her 😂
One thing that hardly gets said with the whole trans women in sports argument is that estrogen actually decreases muscle mass. Trans women are women. Trans men are men
Also love from a trans woman 🏳️⚧️❤
Ya and trans women are me and men and men have more testosterone and less estrogen so that doesn't make any sense
Jamie correcting transphobes' grammar will never get old 😅
@@trevorchester4439 You're autistic too? Cool!
I started my transition 20 years ago. I lost everything and was disowned by my family. They still refuse to even understand the basics of trans individuals. I still hope they may do an oops and become allies, but that will never happen. To all my trans family out there, stay strong. Stupidity takes a long time to change.
@@redactado266 their family abandoned them, what's not to get? go drink a caprisun and calm down. I know trans people are really really cool but there's no need to be jealous.
@@redactado266 wow you're so far gone i don't think anyone will be able to fix you
@@trevorchester4439 if they were a trans woman then it would be she, no?
@@trevorchester4439 Nope. But I am not doxxing myself just to make you understand the levels of neglect and hatred my parents still feel. And I have no need to prove myself to you in the first place.
@@tauon_ maybe if i cut off my genitals, that'll work
Everyone, please spread awareness.
We are being killed, bullied, kidnapped, and even kicked out of our houses for being trans.
We need to fight for our rights.
AND THE FACT WE HAVE TO EVEN DO THIS IS DISGUSTING.
Please, stay safe.
For your safety, if you live in America, please, do not come out to your guardian(s) as trans unless you are sure they will support you. This is for your safety.
We will not be silenced.
We’ve lost over 1000’s of our transgender brothers and sisters.
This has to be stopped.
Please, spread awareness, I don’t care if you’re trans or not.
You can literally just post a video or comment like i am.
Put up posters.
Anything can help.
Stay safe, transgender friends.
- a transgender.
@Stripes trans people are afraid for their lives, you are acting so damn privileged
12:02 Jamie's reaction here was pure gold. "you'll never be a woman" "thank you!"
Hey Jamie.
I just thought of a sponsor that would trigger so many transphobes 😂.
Manscaped 😂😂😂
with as much respect and love as possible...you'll never be a woman ❤🏳⚧
I hate the "with as much respect as possible" types. If you're going to hate, at least have the balls to own it.
i truly don't understand why are some people soo bothered about other people gender, like its not affecting them so why all that anger?!
Some people need a convenient scapegoat for all the world's woes
@@user-mv5zt8qd9l yea,that makes sense in a stupid way. its just sometimes mind blowing how people decide to hate on something.
I actually had a discussion about "being trans" with a friend who turned out to be transphobic. The funny part about it is that after thoroughly explaining the concept, suddenly he was very accepting and understanding.
My point is that most transphobia comes from misunderstandings as this video shows.
@Stripes You pretend you don't have a gender, hun. You look up those Harvard studies yet?
@@TransIsBest I never said I was trans 💀💀💀
@@Jevk Huh? I was responding to stripes who claims to be a woman without a gender. Anyone not agender has a gender
@@TransIsBest Sorry, I got a bit confused. I don't see their message.
I LOVE LAUGHING AT DOPEY TRANSPHOBES! Thank you so much for this, Dr. Jamie!
*Oh, earlier tonight I got permission from my teenager to tell the interwebs (after keeping the secret for over 3 years) that she is a girl! I have a trans daughter! So proud of my baby!
🙏❤🏳🌈🏳⚧
That's so awesome! I wish my son were trans. I know I'm not supposed to say that, but I really do.😢
Congrats!! I’m happy for you and your daughter
@@Chris-qb5icYou sound like an awesome parent! Maybe someone will come out to you soon ^^
@@artsintheam omg thank you! I keep trying to get them to play with girly things but they like the toy guns and stuff their grandparents give them. He's only 5 so there's still time! 💕
@Chris this is fucking weird
One of my favorite transphobic things is when someone who is transphobic argues with a nonbinary or agender person and their like, "you're not a boy!" And then switch to"You're not a girl!" When they think they can still be mean. And the NB and AG folk are like, "yeah no shit"
"we can always tell" except not really
i love ur content!! keep doing what ur doing
I do not believe in outie bellybuttons, I don’t have one, none of my family has one, no one I know has one
Therefore they do not exist
I could not date someone with an outie bellybutton. I'm not phobic, it's just not within my values.
Accidental allies prove that hate is nonsense
I recently got called 'heterophobic' for using the term 'cis' and I was like.... You can be heterosexual and trans..... I think you might have intended to call me.... Say...Cisphobic? They also said 'it's just woman' and I must assume that by telling me there is no need for distinct differentiating terms they either accept that all women are trans or that trans women are just women.
Usually I wouldn't say hetereophobic is a thing, cause straight people don't experience descrimination for their sexuality.
But I actually encountered one person who fit the bill of hetereophobia that is was actually terrifying, he was also transphobic but he mostly focused on claiming that all straight people are inherently violent.
@@neon17.08 yeah, I see where you're coming from and agree I'd say from my experience with being mixed race and 'reverse racism' it is a possible thing, its just coming from a very different level of privilege and origin of feelings. So it's not equal or the same thing nor is it a systemic thing that needs serious addressing, but it can happen on an individual level. What threw me off in this case was we were discussing gender terms and they threw out heterophobia and my thoughts were I'm not sure what this term means in this situation since 'hetero' refers to sexuality in the context of phobia and sexuality is not gender. I was half tempted to reply 'my parents are very nice heterosexual people, me I'm ace I don't get into that attraction stuff, but they're free to live as hetero as they like.' but opted for a serious discussion of terms instead of snark. Didn't work either way.
@@neon17.08 you can be phobic anything it's just of course whatever is considered a majority or norm isn't gonna feel effected by it as much as a minority
Whoever called you “heterophobic” clearly reads and believes everything Elon “Demon” Musk says
6:44 ppl with alopecia: yeah i don’t believe in hair either
My thyroid issue: "I CHIME IN WITH A HAVEN'T YOU PEOPLE EVER HEARD OF"
Me with alopecia and still having a lot of my hair: *I live in the Inbetween*
My beautiful trans niece plays Football (Canadian) for Edmonton Storm Women’s Professional Team. Last year she took a year off to try out for Team Canada. While she did not make the cut, I could not be more proud of her abilities. ❤🏳️⚧️🥰
Yet the refrain is always as to how *any* "biological male" would _de facto_ supersede _any_ "biological female". We really need some circulation of the statistics that, no, most folks are middling, but we all try our darnedest for the love of the game!
I agree that Jammi will never be a real woman
( 06:36 - 07:21 )
Transphobe/homophobe: "I don't like it therefor it's not real."
Everyone else: "That's not how the world works."
I need this displayed somewhere. On a shirt or billboard or something.
Some one once told me that it was the transhopes that would know everything about trans people and hormones because they want to read everything about the thing they're hating.
If they actually took the time to read about it, they wouldn't hate us.
some people still will read about it and think its fake :'( there is true evil out there,.. but some transphobes can turn a new page... but we still have racists in this day n age and we all know everyone is human regardless of their skin color..
your hair looks great, jamie, dont worry!
I once had that bathroom argument and used Jamie as an example for "so you would like him in the women's bathroom?" They doubled down and said yes because he is a woman. I stopped arguing after that it was a lost cause.
@@stripes5910 lol no.
With trans men being forgotten in trans hate campaigns it just adds a spicy little layer of misogyny to it. They are still focused on hating women whether they have a dick or not.
i mean dicks are just huge clits anywyas we all start out female in the womb
This was a really nice video! I got some really bad dysphoria today when people used female descriptors and terms for me at work today and I am so uncomfortable with that right now and it's the first time in a while I've felt like that, ( because I haven't been going out of the house for two last few months bcuz I was looking for jobs and stuff lol) and this helped me feel so much better. I usually don't mind whenever people use whatever pronouns for me but today it really bothered me and I really wanted people to use they/them pronouns for me, or it/it's as I also use those as well as she/her. This is the worst it's been in a while, and I just wanna say, thanks Jamie! ❤️
I'm so glad I found your channel!
I'm a demigirlflux person who is demiromantic demisexual toric and I wanna say thanks for helping me feel good about being myself when I came out. Being my triple demi toric self is the happiest I've ever felt in my life and I wish for this to continue for many more years to come!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am sorry that people at your workplace were saying that, you deserved to be loved and cared for no matter what anyone else thinks!❤
@@LydiaDeKett thanks! ❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 Sending love your way too!
I feel.. I get customers calling me the wrong thing but my coworkers know wassup.. at the end of the day you gotta realize most of it isn't out of malice and keep validating yourself and surround yourself with homies who validate you
Jamie woke up and chose sass this morning and I am here for it
I'm still baffled how someone can base their entire existence around being able to perform a certain biological function, like terfs and pregnancy.
@Stripes Exactly, so trans people aren't relegated to just being biology, as they are also their psychology, which proves they're trans
they are convinced that is their only skillset
As a trans/nb pregnant person I have no problem with trans men being referred to as men (bc they're men) and trans women being referred to as women (bc they're women). If you have a problem with someone who can't get pregnant being called a woman (bc they're a woman) then you're just crazy 😂
yeah there are also 100% cis women who can't get pregnant because they're infertile, and every cis woman goes through menopause. Are they no longer women? Transphobes say they can define women but always end up leaving out some group of people who they would definitely still call women.
Hell yeah!
As a trans man who has given birth twice, I whole-heartedly agree.
Also, congratulations!
I can't help myself; get a baby food maker. Baby food is crazy expensive and it makes their poops smell terrible. A baby food maker (I recommend a steamer/processor) will pay for itself a million times over. $3 worth of apples will make enough food for almost a week.
Also, I thought the point of feminism was to decouple the definition of woman from the capacity for pregnancy, since women should not be reduced down to the function of their body parts. Just imagine if the same standard were applied to men. I don't think too many men would appreciate being referred to as sperm banks.
A woman has XX chromosomes and a man has XY chromosomes. Its really not that hard. Unless you want to reconstruct your entire genetics you are the gender you are born. im born a boy ill die a man.
Gotta love it when you finish a jamidoger video, and he posts another one
Love the haircut. Your shining face just makes me smile. 😊
I’m non-binary and my parents used to call me it/its in a dehumanising way :(
There's still way too many transphobic people in these comments
True, however I think there's been a shift towards there being less of them than say five years ago or so. Which is promising.
true but this is what they probably spend all day doing so remember you have a life outside this virtual box too while they are stuck hating instead of gaining skills and hobbies :)
I honestly just feel sorry for transphobes at this point. Having lives so pointless that all they can do is attack people whose existence has no bearing on their lives
transphobes to jamie: "you'll never be a woman!"
jamie: "whew, thank goodness for that, cheers mate!"
She will only be a woman
I remember my younger brother trying to tell me I'd "never be a man," because he clearly has no idea what non-binary is. He just knows I'm trans (even though I specified the "non-binary" part), and therefore assumed that it must mean I am a trans man. ;7; It's was deeply confusing, infuriating and hilarious at the same time.