Are The Straights Ever Okay?
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- čas přidán 6. 05. 2023
- We're back asking the question of are the straights okay? (not really)
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Three days ago??
@@aspenvo unlisted video, probably, or scheduled to be uploaded
@@raineatscheese ohhhh that makes sense
What field of science do you study? I would guess Biochemistry, how close was I?
@@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith he studies gender studies and I think he might have a PhD in some things relating to that? I can't remember exactly what.
If "Real Men" don't know how to sew, why does the US Marine Corps teach Marines to sew? My late dad, uber cis, Marine, used to make quilts, hand-sewn quilting. I would love to see the 18th-century ideal or even the Victorian idea of masculinity. 18th century was a heavy white base with black eyeliner, pink cheeks and lips, and higher heels. Crying and holding other men's hands in the 19th century was considered masculine.
Alot of men also wore corsets back then
Scotsmen learned to knit because 400 years ago, you needed to be able to make and repair your socks, etc.
Real men aren't born with vaginas so jamie is not a real man
There'd be about 90% less English poetry if the ideals of masculinity we had today were actually consistent over time
@@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar now it's like, fellas is it gay to be warm? 😅
Here’s a joke
A trans man and trans woman are at a table talking to each other. They talk about Trans things and when talking about surgeries, the trans man says “yeah I’m just glad I got that out of my chest”
The trans woman responds “really? You weren’t a fan of them”
He nods
She then says “well I like ‘em, their starting to grow on me”
That was darling and wholesome. 💙💓🤍💓💙
Nice to see a trans joke that doesn't include suffering or bigotry, thanks!
@@misxa6344 👍
you're funny, i like you
@@jan-Pala thanks mate
Being a woman isn't easy. We've had to endure the suppression of pockets in our clothes.
Fanny packs are a good solution.
I have accidentally taught my daughter to rant about the lack of pockets in commercially available women's clothing, and I couldn't be prouder 😸
The struggle is real...
cargo pants are coming back into fashion
our time is nearly here
@@ryebread869 I don't care if they are in fashion or not l love my cargo pants. Pockets galore 🤩
Rules for dating anyone:
Don't be a jerk.
Be respectful.
Communicate.
Be supportive of their interests.
This is for all parties in the relationship, not just one side.
It's a team effort, not a one sided effort.
Why can't we have lists that say this floating around more?
Cause those posts get bigger reactions if they do something negative. Gets more views, clicks, and comments. It's all about attention.
True - admittedly I think anyone with the T shirt or sign is joking about being threatening - someone who actually was wouldn't joke about it.
Thank you.
And if you arrive 30 minutes earlier, at least bring something to eat.
The ABC’s of dating SHOULD be:
Acceptance
Boundaries
Consent
"Drop the gay look. Grow a beard. Build muscles."
Nobody tell them!
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Does this mean I have to share my beard or do I go behind enemy lines with the hets?
Yup... I'm silently flying the Bear Flag as well... just nodding. *silly phobes*
Do they not realise that some gay people, find strong men, attractive?
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it’s like the transphobic people are mad that black Ariel is ruining the “entire story” when that entire story is a trans metaphor right under their nose
To all the gays n trans here: no matter what the Straights™ say about you, no one's gonna change who you really are!! 💜
Thank you!
Thanks
Preach. 🫡
tyyy ❤
Thank you!
On one hand, women are not objects. On the other hand, many people agree that Morticia and Gomez Addams have the ideal Straight relationship. Morticia deliberately cuts the heads off her roses.
I think thats mostly cause she's The Quintessential Goth and she prefers the thorns over the roses - but also those two are forever, constantly, BLINDINGLY in love and would not care if the other was a virgin or not, what's important is how they feel for each other and wish to respect and honour each other.
TLDR I get your point but I like to elaborate on the nuanvlce of things
@@pineapplefrostyfruits9225 Gomez and Morticia are Couple Goals, that's just facts
Checkmate Gomez is allergic to roses
When you learn that the Addams family was created with the idea that they would be the exact opposite of what society expected of a family, and thus the reason why Morticia and Gomez are so lovey dovey is because that’s the opposite of societal expectations. 🫢
Literally is the ideal relationship because they're parents and still love each other a lot and won't be toxic to each other. Like all parents should be like that. Even if means being " darkies " and skull lovers. Rather that but sane family than average looking and weird Fucks lol
Also the sex cushion is pretty cringe BUT the idea is kind of good if it's being used in a different way. I'm dealing with heavy sexual trauma so sex is a hard thing to discuss... Some days I'm up for it and other days even the idea of being touched has me in a panic state. A cushion like this could signal my partner "Hey, I'm doing fine today, suggesting sexual activity won't be a trigger and I might even say yes" or "Today is horrible and please do not touch me in any way, shape or form". And yes, this could be communicated in conversation, but I'm still struggling with talking about sex or saying no, so a non-verbal way of signaling that might not even be the worst idea
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I am very sorry for what you have to cope with :( I hope you have an understanding partner and hey, whatever works for you to communicate is fine, dont let anyone tell you otherwise
You could signal that sort of thing with differently colored cushions or anything else less blatant (and less embarrassing if you have visitors, or less triggering to look at when you are in that sort of state) though.
Yeah. Recently I’ve been having nightmares about some guy don’t know. After these nightmares I’d feel incredibly sick and guilty.
Just the thought of these nightmares would almost make me throw up. But the worst part is that I don’t know if these nightmares are memories or not.
Would a 3 sided pillow work better? One side for "don't touch me at all", one side for "touch but not necessarily sex", and one for "possibly sex"
You could even just get a tablet pillow and some iron/sew/glue on decals that could be anything as long as you guys understand what they mean (depending on what decals you have access to, what your budget is and if the images could trigger you)
As a trans woman who loves iced coffee I feel so validated rn 😊
I don't like coffe at all so by their logic I am a nonbinary person :))
As a nonbinary person who doesn't like coffee at all, I shall also feel validated🎉
I’m agender and drink both hot and (occasionally) iced coffee, so perhaps I should have been genderfluid instead 😮
As a cis woman who loathes coffee, feel free to drink my portion as well!
You can have my coffee haha
My dad is transphobic and homophobic. I'm gay and gender queer and it's been really hard when I stay at his house on his weekends with me. This week my mom's friend who I'm really close to who has a gay son of his own suggested I talk to my dad and ask him if he thinks this kind of relationship will last or if I will ever want to have a relationship with him when I'm an adult. My mom's friend said that if my dad still won't open his mind that he would be proud to have me as his child. That made my life ❤ shout out to my mom's friend.
she's amazing and your gay friend is so lucky to have herrrrr :3 treasure her
My mom's friend is a man but other than that I agree
No one is entitled to be in your life, so if that doesn't set your dad straight (ironic) then you do not need him in your life, your mom's friend sounds like a better dad to you than your actual father.
That's got to be hard. I'm glad you do have affirming supportive people in your life. I hope the conversation goes well and your dad can come around.
Your Mum is accepting though? If not, I'll just adopt you. Xx
I'm really glad that the only shirt my father has pertaining to being a dad says "My favorite people call me dad".
OMG thank god- at least he hasn't bought into those t shirts that are in these videos. He still has some sense in him.
That's a heartwarming shirt!
@@ArtsyKnox25 emphasis on some. Not exactly ok with me being trans
@@spookyplaguedoctor5714 sending mama hugs. Use as needed.
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Admittedly I think anyone who is buying the angry Dad T shirt is probably joking and buying/wearing it in a ironic way.
The tire thing could be interpreted as really wholesome.
When you're single you're bored and spending your time cleaning the rims of your car. When you have a life partner you go on adventures together and don't need to obsessively clean your car to make time go by anymore.
I thought the same. As single, you have time to obsess over a car, as married, you have more important things in your life. Or if you hate being married, it takes your time away from your beloved car.
Aww
that's adorable!!
POV:Fatherless
@@NotVille I'm sorry for your loss.
You know, in German we have got a wonderful word, called " Fremdschämen". It means to feel ashamed because of somebody else's words or actions. I really do feel ashamed about pple's stupidity which was shown in this video...
But Jamie, you are just awesome the way you are 😊🤗🏳️⚧️
I think in english that would be “second hand embarrassment“(not completely sure tho). However it is way cooler to have just one word for it.
That would be vicarious shame in English, I prefer the German term for it though.
@@theTman2300 possibly, but i feel like the German word means more like shame, not embarrassment. But that’s a close comparison for sire
genauso fühle ich mich auch man
“You know, in German we have got a wonderful word…,”
That is true of SO MANY German words. Y’all are very in touch with the human experience and weird little social moments.
"... or you could make 6 scientists ..." yeah, or they could all 6 become serial killers. Moral of the story: become the badass scientists this world needs 💜
You know, I think the children have the greatest chance of becoming scientists if their mother is also a scientist. Too bad the two are mutually exclusive/s
@Joshua Day They're really not mutually exclusive. World-leading burns researcher & surgeon, Dr Fiona Wood, has 6 children, at least 1 of whom is also a surgeon.
@@AnneOnymaus I was being sarcastic
@@ninjoshday Good to know. In forums such as this, a "/s" could help to avoid confusion, given some commenters would say that kind of thing seriously.
How does one make a scientist? The same way one makes a gay/lesbian/trans child?
Looking at the percentage of scientists in the population … even at an incredible high rate of 1%, making 600 babies is a bit much of an ask … even if you pop out sixtuplets every time and do so every 9 months (not like biology allowed that, but just for the numbers) you’d be 100% pregnant for 75 years. And even if you were to start at a tender 10 year old, you’d be pregnant until you reach 85 …
Never mind *raising* all of them. Or *feeding* all of them!
For that rose petal thing in the beginning, i had actually seen a response I think by a florist about how as a rose grows its best to remove a few petals to help it flourish so The Straights (TM) got that one wrong completely
Also, even aside from how to help them grow, whenever roses are arranged in bouquets etc. you typically remove the outer layer of petals, the "guard petals," because they're the ones that protect the rest of the bloom during transport. So those outer petals get a little crumpled and tattered, and after you take them off the rose looks nice and perfect again. This part would be a little weird to try to apply the analogy to, but it still shows that, as usual, these people have no clue what they're talking about.
I sometimes feel as though the intention is to keep people from flourishing and to force them into or out of things without their consent.
I'm ace but with the hetero cringe removed I think the 'sex/no sex' cushion has the potential to be really sweet? Or at least a good additional communication method.
Same! It kind of reminded me of those reversible mood octopus plushies a little bit?
I was thinking that. It's a bit cringey but lots of direct communication is. It didn't feel harmful. Just something that could be a silly way of communicating.
Lol if the couple is into talking dirty, i don't see why not! also works for gay and lesbian sex, same but with v's and p's drawings or whatever... it was the only one rescuable lol
POV: Fatherless
@@NotVilleyou have 57 comments on this channel and you don’t even like it
Jamie makes a good point about straight people constantly saying that teaching kids about queer history and such is inappropriate but them and their children get dressed in the most disgusting shirts that say the grossest things on them. Not to mention that they also are usually the same people who say that their little kids are "boyfriend and girlfriend" when they're toddlers... but we're the inappropriate ones... alright then.
If teaching people queer people exist makes kids queer, why didn’t I become a communist after reading animal farm? Why didn’t I kill all my friends and burn down an island after reading lord of the flys, If telling kids people that are gay exist makes them gay. Why not just teach them straight people exist and turn them back? If being gay it a taught behaviour who was the *FIRST* queer?
This x100
I remember all the "Is this your little girlfriend?", "Oh, who's the little lady killer?" type comments as a child. I think most are done in good spirit. But I fail to see why that's appropriate but the same thing (but gay) is somehow sick grooming.
@@hmnhntr a 6 year old told me she wanted to have kids. I have never heard a 6 year old boy tell me that
@@theveganduolingobird7349 Honestly at 6 I don't know if I'd even figured that part out yet
@@theveganduolingobird7349 the boy I work with 5 days a week tells me nearly every day I see him he’s going to have baby when he’s bigger, has a name picked out, talks about the things he will teach the baby and when we go shopping he stops and looks at baby toys that he thinks his baby would like one day. 🥰
"Are they trying to say that if you want an easy life, be a woman?" I tried this, but my life just got harder. *Chuckles in depressed transfem*
Sending you love ❤️
*offers hug*
Sending lots of love and support 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈💕💕
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I'm a barista and one of my old regulars was a 3 times Super Bowl winner who ordered iced mochas daily. I'd really love for him to meet the "men don't drink iced coffee" guy
Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^
I'ma share this horrific story that didn't really come off as horrific to me until years later: a female teacher teaching "sex ed" to a class of 15 year old girls, attempting to preach about abstinence by comparing women to lollipops! "Men will always choose virgin women as their wives, because no one wants a used lollipop" 😩
EWEWEWEW
If a person expects me to have no sexual experience on our wedding day, they will in fact be holding their own bare stem.
Nice
Fully agree. Purity culture is very much setting people up for potential victimisation and miserable relationships.
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@@user-mv5zt8qd9l That's entirely the point. Traditional marriage blah-blah I own my wife (gag)
I'm starting HRT soon and honestly the hardest part is having to quit drinking hot coffee
well i guess you won’t be getting the T either
congrats lov 🩷🩵🤍🩵🩷
Whenever that "chewing gum"/"rose petal" analogy comes up I wish I could "reply" to the real-world poster wherever it is and tell every young girl who reads it (or boy, but they're aimed at girls) how to say "no" to any person who would compare her to a thing they want to use and not a person they want to please. Gross.
You can make that shitty metaphor in any way “everytime you pet a cat your rose loses a petal, don’t give your cat a stem because it’ll try eat it”
Just from the thumbnail alone:
Yes, being a woman is "easy mode", because we all know that in easy mode you get less money and are attacked more often.
Admittedly in Men mode the health bar is shorter - at my age I keep looking at it worriedly.
@@alphaomega7191 But that's generally a self-inflicted wound. There's the 20s and 30s where men like to be very stupid and do dangerous things, and they tend to look after themselves a lot less. Thirdly (and here I am no better myself), men on average go to the doctor less often which - again - isn't great for health.
And there is a valid statement to be made to frame those aspects under societal pressure which is also in a small part responsible for the gender wage gap.
@@DrZaius3141 - Yeah a lot of factors - you are right about more dangerous behaviour but the Y chromosome is pretty major and it does seem that in general we are prone to a few more conditions - perhaps due to our larger size on average putting a bit more strain on things. Like I've said our health bar is a bit shorter and runs out a bit quicker in the game of life.
@@alphaomega7191 the easy mode comment it really discussing social, if we wanted to get into biological you’d have to consider menopause and periods being a massive pain
@@theveganduolingobird7349- I dont think either is an easy mode - I just noted that depending on your point of view in game terms easy mode is normally reflected in more health and longer life bars and on that front the girls are getting a win. Do I think it's a great joke - No - but it's probably menat more a s a joke than anything serious. Like the angry Dad rules for dating their daughter - an actual angry Dad doesn't wear that shirt - one who has a sense of humour about it does, someone who is joking about a father natural overprotectiveness of his kid. I think the easy/hard mode is more like that rather than anyone actually being foolish enough to believe one sex intrinsically has things easier than the others - the average man is well aware that something like producing a baby out of a psace that really doesn't seem big enough for that is not EASY, nor are a lot of other stuff like as you mentioned cramps etc.
I guess, since I’m non-binary, I’m getting a lukewarm coffee ☕️
I’ve very recently found your channel, and being a non-binary teen, your videos have made me feel very happy! ❤
Ik as someone who is questioning their gender Jamie’s videos make me so happy. I was also raised Christian so I’m having a battle with learning to accept myself and haven’t told anyone…. They just think I’m weird for wearing a big baggy sweater when it’s 95 degrees out
I worked 5 years at a chain coffee shop, guys getting upity when asked about their coffee is a real thing. Its more common in guys 40+ but can come from any age. Some guys just legitimately get upset if you ask if they want iced coffee or milk and sugar, as though you're insulting them because MEN™ drink hot black coffee and anything less is "whats wrong with America". Its wild, I always made sure to have the most indifferent face I could and ask again. (They never give a straight answer at first, just complain about the insinuation that they don't drink MAN COFFEE). It gives me a little kick because I drink black hot coffee and tea with just a little sugar.
Guys, is it gay to drink iced coffee?
@@seagoingberry8171 idk but I'm ace and I don't drink coffee, so...
@Seagoing Berry81 The only thing that's "gay" is being attracted to other men if you are also a man: nothing else is "gay" or "not gay". Order whatever sort of coffee you want.
@@AnneOnymaus Unless you're attracted to women too. That's bi or pan
@@AnneOnymaus They were joking using a very common LGBTQ+ meme
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Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
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@@Bismuguy 😐
“you’re a stem of a human being, just thorns” 😂😂😂 fking love Jamie’s commentary so much
@Jammi-Dodgerno thanks scammer
dude: only women like iced coffee
non-binary iced coffee lover: fuck it, I'm non-binary now
Ahhh I've seen that on twitter pffttt
It was funny as lol
In the states, LGBTQ+ are called groomers and all I can think about are these baby clothes... My dude, you sexualized your baby when you put them in "Stud Muffin" or "Heartbreaker" or "Hands Off, Boys!" clothes. I put a _rainbow_ on my baby and you're freaking out!?
Its the same people who post a picture of 2 toddlers of the opposite sex going like ''look at little Timmy and his gf, a ladiesman just like his dad''. My brother in christ he is 5! He just gained consciousness give him a break!!😭
Um, you do know toddlers can't read yet. The text is for adults to read coz it's cute/funny. Not because its sexy. Why do you queer folk keep getting things so wrong?
@@dixienormous8559 It's still sexualizing toddlers and babies.
That’s not even remotely the same fuckin’ thing. “Heartbreaker” is not nearly as symbolic as what the rainbow is. Why don’t you tell me what a woman is? I seem to be straight and confused.
@@tionlover What is a woman? A miserable little pile of secrets.
I saw a child (7-9 years old maybe) the other day wearing a shirt that said “I like younger women and older whiskey”. But go off on how THE GAYS are forcing their lifestyles onto kids 😂😭
it's all about self projection
I hate the fact that I was shown an national political ad about people like the ones being discussed in the video, promoting these twisted and disgusting things, before the video started.
Very glad to have Jamie making my life better ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I got Natasha the underworld doctor and the Beetlejuice stage musical.
@@Mark73 I got those exact adds on the last video I watched
The worst part is that CZcams doesn't even let you report inappropriate ads!
@@hannahk1306 fr
@@hannahk1306 even videos! Bc everytime I report an inappropriate video it's still there and I'm not the only one reporting it
WE SHALTH NOT STOP REQUESTING FOR YOU TO MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT ARO, ACE AND AGENDER PEOPLE UNTIL WE RECIEVE ONE!!!!!!!!!!!
YESSSSS
I AGREE
@@Heartstopperobsessed THANK YOU BESTIEEEE
Just recently I was questioning my gender, but thanks to the straights I now know I AM A WOMAN because I do drink iced coffee.
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But do you have hair legs though? 😂
@@saundraschaefer A LOT 😂😂
Welcome to the non-binary world then 😂😂💜
Welcome my fellow human.
I love that pickup artists and stuff always talk about getting out of the matrix without knowing that they are technically referencing transitioning
Same! I'm always sitting there like "oh yea, _the Matrix_ - the one that's an allegory to being trans. _That Matrix?"_ I'm curious how they would react if you told them that lol
"You have hair legs, that means you're a man."
Me, a transmasc: *Glances at my hairy legs* Frick yeah.
Same
@Fruit_Cake_Boii I have quite hairy legs & I'm a cis woman: I'd love to see The Straights try to work that one out.
Conservatives (always): No, not like that!
I’m a mom to 4 and cis. My legs are hairy right now. Oh the horror!
@@HG-gj9lh lol
People really don't talk enough about the problem of abstinence sex education and its lifelong effects. Even if your views on it do change, it's so hard for especially girls to stop questioning their value.
Yeah I took my sex ed classes in like 2014-15 in a pretty moderate area but they still preached that abstinence crap. I identify as fairly asexual and I know that identities like that can’t be changed by force, but I do feel like I may have been kinda…I don’t want to say traumatized because I don’t feel like it was that extreme, but it definitely left an impact on me. The idea of having sex kind of frightens me, and the horror stories they told about STDs probably had a subconscious impact on that, even though my girlfriend and I are both virgins. Bugs me, makes me wonder if I might not be as skittish about it if the education system was just normal about it instead of using scare tactics.
@@Engardian That's how I feel. I don't know how much of my asexuality is innate and how much is the result of growing up in a culture where sex is demonized
It’s always hilarious when misogynists make references to The Matrix, completely oblivious as to its transgender themes.
It's extra funny when other maroons end up denying that because the Wachowskis hadn't come out of the closet at the time, as if that changes everything under the hood.
5:30 i Think it's about straight men not being able to pamper their cars like it's a new born when you're married because you have to "put time into the relationship" which is clearly awful and a chore
I know, right? How awful for them. And yet they are obviously all masochists, as they still choose to get married...
ask those men wearing the "rules to date my daughter"'s shirt if those same rules aplied against their sons and watch them meltdown!!!
Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^
Different horses for different courses. Women and men have different priorities when it comes to sex and relationships. Should a father not be protective of his daughter? She has more to lose than his sons.
@@dixienormous8559 you really believe that?
@@dixienormous8559 Why does a daughter have more to lose than a son? Can a son not be heart broken? Could a son not end up in a bad relationship? Or are you saying that a woman's virginity is more important than a man's? Why is it fine if his son loses his virginity (probably with someone else's daughter, by the way. I hope the father is raising his son to follow the same rules as he expects her boyfriend to.), but his daughter must stay pure? Why?
Oh is it because women are constantly only valued for their "purity". That they are a father's property until they are their husband's. Meanwhile, sons are able to act independently because he has value beyond just being someone's husband.
As a resident aroace-spec, I think an "are the allos OK?" video would be cool
As a fellow aroace-spec, absolutely
Hear hear!
As an allosexual who does her best to be an ally to aroaces, I would enjoy such a video too.
Probably include examples where sex is unnecessarily projected or added, along with assumptions about everyone being horny all the time.
@@JaniceLHz Yes, like the media. Why is there a half-naked woman eating a burger on TV when they're trying to sell burgers? Sorry, anyone attracted to women. You're not gonna get her with your order.
Instead, they should showcase that juicy, perfectly browned meat, the bubbly cheese, the toppings spilling out from under the bun and onto the plate because it's overloaded with them. Pan slowly over to the ice-cold glass of soda, slow-motion carbonation and condensation dripping down the glass.
Hungry people want food, damn it, not sex.
Ditch the gay look = grow a beard and get strong? Have they heard of bears?!
The Straights (tm) tend to avoid learning... anything. Ever.
Yeah, they shit in the woods don't they?
The weirdest thing I have ever heard someone say about something not being "manly" was when a woman said that her coworker (in an office, so wearing a suit) came in with an umbrella on a rainy day. She thought men should wear raincoats, but that it was somehow feminine or gay to carry an umbrella. I was so confused. 🤨🤔
Was it rainbow coloured? Maybe it was a hello kitty umbrella like my daughter used to have.
@dixienormous8559 I asked. It was a standard black umbrella. I would love to have a hello kitty umbrella, and if I met a man carrying one, I would probably go out with him if he asked, lol. Nothing is more attractive to me than being secure in one's self.
@@cathleenc6943 I'm sure you would.
The Straights may say whatever they want but just because someone uses sounds to make words and sentences doesn’t mean they have to make sense.
A personal favourite is when you use vocabulary to define yourself or a person and they have the audacity to say “Let people be. Don’t impose labels.”
Yeah, don't use nouns. Or nouns with adjectives, omg!! The very thought of it
@@TitularHeroine Grug hate pronoun Grug no use pronoun Grug no liberal
@@TitularHeroine Or, heaven forbid, _pronouns!_
@@ninjoshday Language comprised only of verbs and adverbs, tenses and conjugation hinting at who is....verbing.
Always prefer the wholesome videos but the "Are the Straights Okay?" series is entertaining in a burying my face in my hands and shaking my head slowly kind of way. 😸
I LOVE THIS SERIES! It never ends because the straights are DEFINITELY NOT OKAY!!!
So is it appropriate to say to you that ‘gays are not ok’. No, its disrespectful and you would probs cancel me. If you don’t respect us, then don’t expect us to respect you.
@azeners yes i did and its mocking straight people. Don’t call me bro i am a girl, don’t assume my gender
@@Capybara-tw2hoWell yeah, saying "gays aren't okay" is bad because it's a minority, also straight people (such as myself) do it to ourselves, did you watch the video? All he did was react to the dumb shit cis straight people do.
@@seagoingberry8171 ridiculous thing to say, being a minority doesn’t make you free to be disrespectful to others. And being a minority doesn’t make you oppressed
@@Capybara-tw2ho Jamie has made it clear throughout this series that by _the straights,_ he's not referring to all straight people, just the ones that make these posts. He also has videos of the straights being okay
My request for aro ace and agender videos continues!!!
YESSS LETSGOOOOO
@@leviathann6090 hey, how about you post a separate comment so that more people see this?
@@simplymeowlogical SUREEEE
Im on my second dose of T, so I will be able to grow a beard soon! And I am getting stronger with 3 or so workouts every week, so I'm strong too!
Although, I am very, very very VERY Gay. Oh well :3
Congrats!
Awesomeeee
I am not a man, I am a woman but hairy and have kind of a mustache. So we twinning lmfao
And my legs are bear coat, ngl. Shaving is fr an experience with all the hair 🤣
I even have hair on my hands and fingers,when many women don't xD
You'll be rights as rain when your balls drop.
My brother just got his beard recently, too! I couldn't stop touching it lol. He was telling me about his husband helping him shave and I almost died from cuteness overload. 🥰
A point I say about men wearing makeup is that often movie stars ever hyper mask ones will wear subtle makeup to cover up wrinkles ect
Yup. I can guarantee every single actor in badass shoot em up face punch fast car movie sat in a make up chair for at least 30 minutes before filming.
@@saundraschaefer Yes, people on camera or the stage look washed out without makeup.
I was watching a dog grooming video and after it ended I went to the comments, one of the comments in particular commented about how happy they were that the channel thought about the dogs' health, because in this video in particular a dog had damaged coats because of prior groomers incompetence. And this commenter had rainbow hearts at the end of their comment.
A person replied with a comment starting with, "I'm not homophobic but...." and then got pressed that the op used rainbow hearts, because apparently only LGBT+ people use rainbow hearts. The OP didn't even say ANYTHING about the LGBT+ community, they just used rainbow hearts. They may not even be straight, but they do have the straight™ energy :')
I don't understand those people. Even I, a member of the community, know that not all rainbows automatically have LGBTQ+ connotations.
As soon as they say " I'm not ( insert thing here) but.. " their entire arguements goes out the window.
@@dannyfoxboi exactly!
@@ArtsyKnox25 ikr they try to paliate the situation but only makes it more obvious lol
Okay, but I left a comment on a CZcams video once about people being blocked by famous people, and I just mentioned how I was blocked by _the Chris Hansen_ for the sole reason I engaged in tweets that were against how he handled a certain case (🧅), which obviously must mean I'm a sock account, and so I was placed on a block list - guess what the majority of the replies to my comment are about...
Yeah, my profile picture. Funniest part is that it literally isn't supposed to be a pride thing in the first place, and I just view it as a fun bonus, but these people just won't have it lmfao.
Edit: checked the comment again for fun, and it has over 200 replies now. Most recent reply was 5 days ago, and my comment is 10 months old by now🙃
Regarding men with make up, there was this one guy that I kinda know, we were at the same concert and he turned up with glittery make up and false lashes and sparkly hotpants over his leggings and it was so frustrating to know I couldn't take him home with me.
@Jammi-DodgerIt's clearly visible that this is a different channel from @Jammidodger , stop impersonating him!
@@-Jari- they’ve done a runner, otherwise I would have reported them
To the guy who compared womens sex to a rose and its petals.
Just remember a bouquet of roses could be smelled by ALL the guests at the event and yet never lose its sweet scent.
(Obviously i know the flowers will die, its just a metaphor to counter the stupidity of the first metaphor)
That one guy saying hes gonna 'steal your girl" is not only rude and disrespectful, he is WILDLY overestimating his appeal to women 😂😂😂
Yeah, I can really see the girl going, oh, he called me a bitch and was immensely disrespectful? So turned on, goodbye boyfriend. Like, wtf?
my friend : if lgbt+ has a day or month, shouldnt us straights have one too?
Me : no sweetie.
him after i explained : * agrees with me * (phew lmao)
wish I’d been able to explain that to my cousin when I first came out to her a few years ago lmao I was so nervous and still new to the community
@ROCKlazuLEE--Spamton-P🎵 lol
Yes he agreed with me after I explained him why we have it and he luckily agreed...he is just sometimes dense minded so he says sth and thinks after lmfao
@ROCKlazuLEE--Spamton-P🎵 also when I told him I'd go in suit if married or to the office, he said : "wouldn't u look like a gay ass??"
Me : yes. So what lol
Him : fair, in the end doesn't matter how you dress,counts you are comfy in it
(I'm a girl,that's why the gay part)
I grew up conservative, so i thought in a similar manner to your friends. I had a conversation about it with my friend, and he helped me understand as well. Sometimes people are just ignorant.
@@snekysneks understandable
He is that innocent that votes far right parties because he wants the country to get better economically, bc we're struggling and ofc bitches promise it, so he thinks they're good,and for him r now left equals stealing money and he doesn't wanna ppl go poor because the high taxes and low wages etc.
If baby only really listened what those say... lmao
Those even attack cishets when don't accomplish their roles lol
Far right thinks that should exist again(they got prohibited) kind of camps to convert effeminate men(including the cis straights) to "normal" or one for manly women and make them "proper ladies"
Plus now they wanna extract water from a natural park, where Europe told them not to...if they do they're not gonna give the country millions ti keep growing or help with taxes,but more like a sanction lmao
He is sometimes too innocent in politics and the fact he believes these dudes are gonna help ppl and stop making them being poor baffles me. Because they're just too occupied fighting with the communists and socialists from the government, rather than me normal and not think that gays should be sent to camps(they said it, but the government by majority denied their petition) and looked at them like "u crazy bitch o want???"
Plus many are extremist religious and is like "ughhhh not again grandpa talking xD"
But ofc he doesn't listen or read to all of their takes,so ofc he doesn't guess that,or maybe he doesn't even know what conversion camps are, because zinc he is a good guy, if knew he'd totally be against bc Ik him
And if he doesn't I'll make sure to make him know XD bc then his angelic party will fall bc will see how they're ok in hittung or electrocuting,(and who else what knows( a bunch of minors for behaving as how they don't like
In Spain has been discovered that they'd electrocutado kids to make them "normal", and infestado their mindset with speeches that have no sense or hit them or Cage them in dark rooms as punishment
That's why got prohibited and is illegal now
But those wanna bring it back and people in the government, better or worse, less them are like nah fam that's weird
Can't imagine being straight, that's so goofy 😌
Lol, right?? Like, all genders are so pretty!
Yeah like imagine being so obsessed with sax that you wear shirts about it infront of kids and put kids in those shirts
So am i allowed to call gay people goofy?
I've heard that it's like being gay, but not
@@ninjoshday It can't be anything like being gay. Look how hard they work at being annoying. Do gays really have that kind of time? (I know lesbians do not, because we're all too busy flirting with people and then running away to ask someone else "does she like me?" as if it's permanently fifth grade.)
The idea of a partner being forced to confine their life into one room is so weird to me. Like, my partner and I are so hyped when we eventually get a home without other housemates so we can fully decorate. He's a geologist, and I'm going to make a coffee table that has a glass top to display all of his cool rocks in, he's excited to fill the house with all my plants and paintings, and we're working out how to set up a fun gaming room and have all our plushies on display... Like, decorating with your partner is a fun collaborative effort.
Rocks and plants are such a great combination. Your home will look lovely!
@@ninjoshday Yeeeeup it's shown up on a lot of my comments. I'm the luckiest human ever. 😆🤦♀️
@@ninjoshday Thanks! That's the goal! 😊
@@j.apenrose7896 Fortunately, it looks like the bot comment is gone
I honestly would go for anything with amethyst in it. Mainly because it’s my birthstone. But also because I think anything with purple gemstones in it looks really cool.
Pretty sure that a truly masculine man doesn't feel threatened by the thought of make-up possibly making him less masculine since it's about being secure in it, how ever you choose to live your life, that doesn't negatively affect others like women, kids, animals or the LGBT community.
I'm giving myself a trans self care night. I'm a trans boy (demi-boy) and I'm in my room cutting my hair and watching CZcamsrs like you and one topic
Also love you, you have helped me so much
fellow demiboy here; hope you’re doing well and that your hair turns out great! whatever challenges you have ahead of you, you’ve got this man!!
Have a good time. 🥰
I really can’t do that right now because I still live with my anti LGBTQ parents. But I’m staying strong. 👍
If you want the rules for dating my daughter you'll have to ask her. We brought her up to be independent and make her own decisions.
_My transphobic dad took my trans flag away so i took his airpods and hid it in a random place_ 😎
Amazin my child
You have the secret to a happy life figured out
Shoulda chucked them 💀
Good job
I think the rose-analogy is kind of fun, because it implies that you can have sex at least a few times, before anyone notices a difference. Also, there is a timespan in which you'd 'regrow' the petals, so you can reset your count.
Depends on what you mean by 'notices a difference'. The only noticeable difference is going to be that the person who has done it a few times has a better understanding of what they like and what they don't, and hopefully a better understanding of what a potential partner might like or not like, which you'd only know if you sleep with them or if someone they sleep with is crass enough to discuss it with you.
@@BlueTressym I mean, yeah, but that thought would assume an understanding of humans that goes deeper than "humans are roses!" xD
I was just trying to say that the analogy in itself already is a very poor choice with the message these kind of people are trying to get across
Those "rules about dating my daughter" lists really need to end. There's a common trope here in america of the dad going to meet the boyfriend with his shotgun or AR on his shoulder. By doing so, the father has conveyed that he doesn't trust his daughter to act in a mature matter, or even that she has an equal role in her relationship with her boyfriend. He's also shown that he's likely to overreact in a violent or deadly manner. Its inherently sexist and it kills all trust. What if there's a problem in the relationship and the daughter wants to consult her father for help? She's less likely to do so after that. I've seen this so many times, even firsthand with some close friends. Women who grow up having a father act like this become distant with their fathers. Its even worse when both parents act like this too. And what's weirder is that they obsess over their daughter having sex, as if its the worst thing she could be doing. Its ridiculous, and sad.
yep
Cis straight ppl: Marriage is the best thing you can do, it will give your life purpose
ALSO cis straight ppl: marriage is a trap it will ruin your life run away
WHICH ONE IS IT?!!
It’s a strange humor dynamic, I’ll admit. I think this is mostly an American phenomenon, as my Soviet parents never joked like this.
@Stripes then why do so many people make those exact jokes about marriage on their wedding days?
The two are far from mutually exclusive.
6:15
That’s not even where a wedding ring should sit! It goes at the base of the finger so it doesn’t mess with your knuckle!
"stay healthy" as a codeword for starving yourself. hmmmmm classy.
cant be unhealthy if youre dead i guess
i'm so happy to find your videos, i've been in such a dark place and your humour in the face of negativity gave me hope that my days will be better.
news sites covering trans people positively may be progressive but the comments in most of them are filled with so much hatred that made me feel like i'm risking being harassed or killed each time i go out.
thank you, Jamie, for being my light in this dark tunnel... please continue what you do, and stay with me until we find that light at the end of this.
Thinking of you, you’re not alone 💜
My dad used to be so against having iced coffee because he said it's only meant to be hot. Called it gross until he actually tried it and now he occasionally drinks iced coffee 😑
It can even be rather fun to make by one's self. I have a Hario V60 02(pour-over brewer) that I use, then I chill the coffee and then put into a bottle with the milk, sugar and cocoa powder, then I shake that to hell until everything is evenly mixed, topping it up progressively(I only start with it half filled for better mixing). Makes for REALLY good coffee that is comparable with Starbucks frappucinos for much less money and simpler ingredients. It also ends up stronger on the caffeine side.
i've been watching u for at least 3 yrs & it's incredible seeing u grow so much . throughout this time i have also discovered my own sexuality & gender identity & i love this community that we've built that makes ppl feel safe to do so . thank u jamie for all that u do
Once again, as a straight ally, why can't straights be accepting of LGBTQ people? It's literally not hard. Just because a person is trans or a woman likes another woman, doesn't mean we can't show basic respect for them. I have several LGBTQ original characters I roleplay with for various subjects. I'm sorry Jami that those straight people give good straights a bad name. Not all straights gotta be hateful you know.
Because the existence of LGBTQ+ opens up a lot of questions which they’ve never had to think about before because they just accepted it when people said they were a boy or a girl. Then suddenly they hear about people who did question it and feel somewhat threatened and thus proceed to lash out. It’s probably the same reason that a lot of people who eat meat despise vegetarians and vegans. Personally I just subscribe to: “Live and let live and don’t be a jerk about it.”
@@samuelbarber6177 they don’t want to accept they were lied to by society so decided outliers are the villains
@@samuelbarber6177 Wait, some people hate vegetarians/vegans? I mean, I can see being annoyed by them if they get really preachy (but that applies to so many other kinds of people too). Anyway, if they don't eat meat, that means there's more for us carnivores to go around lol.
Edit: I can't grammar.
@@wintergray1221 What is a grammar?
You are like a beautiful rose: You're pretty and you smell nice
12:22 but ppl refer to vehicles as "she" all the time, like why tf did they feel the need to objectify women like that
So are pickup trucks trans, since they are referred to as "she", but can also have truck nuts?
Well this explains why the ex I used to run an iced coffee review website with turned out to be a trans woman.
The dating-the-daughter thing reminded me of how recently my dad was telling a story about threatening a love interest of mine as a teen in a similar sort of vein, even taking him aside and 'telling him about a knife he had if the kid did me wrong' and I really was aghast.
Like I'm 50 and long married nowadays, so it was long ago, but wow. I mean, he was even kinda bragging about it and seemed to think it was funny, especially since the boy 'never came back' after his little 'talk'.
I reeeeally don't get this whole sort of thing. As you said, being protective is fine, but this is down right psychotic...
I love and hate the straight not being ok, we get to laugh at them, but they aren’t ok :(
I LOVE UR PROFILE PICTURE SO MUCH!
I can absolutely confirm, we are not okay.
All hail the Blåhaj. 🙏
The worst part of Jaime’s videos…
Is the homophobes and transphobes in the comments, you’re the best Jaime!
The guy who claims he'll steal your woman won't get very far by referring to said woman as a "bitch" lol
They are never okay😂
True af
Hiiii kanna
@@Joy-gc9lx WHY COMMENTING AT MY COMMENT KANNA
Y NOT MA
@@Joy-gc9lx AHHHHHHHHHHHH
I feel like you actually thought about Shaaba when that guy said "Imagine me, you and your girl" and then got legitimately shocked when the guy said "I would get that bitch." These people have no respect, man.
"you hurt her, i hurt you" is something i could get behind. being protected feels good, and so does being protective
I feel that way about both my kids, and they are different genders. Really it's how I feel about all the people I love.
@@saundraschaefer I don't have kids but same about my friends ❤️
I had a headache after working a little too long and hard on college stuff, really needed some fluffy and light content to relax and calm down. So this channel popped into my head.
Thank you for providing such wholesome and sweet commentary which never fails to make people feel better ❤
Never been this early!! 2 mins ago???
Thanks for the new video Jamie, lets hope the cisstraights get better some day soon
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
Lol the dude saying women with hairy legs are men made me laugh, bc i just shaved my fucking bear coat that literaally left all the bathrrom full of bs i had to clean afterwards! wow and yes, i am not a man, because the real world is women have hair!!
Technically I'm nonbinary, but I'm quite fond of winter for this reason. Pants all the time = no shave. And really the only reason I shave when I'm in girl-mode in skirts or shorts is because I can't stand how it feels when the wind hits the hair lol.
@@wintergray1221 lmao, i did some days ago, so now my legs are all spikey, like a man's beard XD seems like i pat a porcupine
Jamie in pink is a whole new mood.
AND HE IS SLAYING IT!
he is our cupcake online friend!
I work at Starbucks and we see a lot of men who come through and get iced mochas, white mochas, coffees, chai teas, lattes of all flavors, refreshers, fraps, and drinks topped with whipped cream or various flavors of cold foam, ext. Drinks that are apparently considered “feminine”. And guess what? Many of them are in big trucks, fancy suped up cars, expensive cars, suits, uniforms, and covered in dirt. I see cops too. People who look like they do the typical masculine jobs and (at least based on gender stereotypes) are cishet. There is nothing “feminine” or “emasculating” about iced drinks
Reminder that you're all a bunch of awesome, loved and valid spuds ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
5:28 I'd naively think it's "If you're single, you've got nowhere to go, but being married means you've got someone who makes nowhere a nice enough spot to keep going there, just as long as they go with you."
That guy thinking iced coffee is only for women probably has never been in the southern US or similar climates worldwide in the blazing hot summer!
14:06 Number 10 could really come back to bite the dad in the back side. If his daughter's BF is bi and thinks the dad is hot, he could tell the dad something like "I got down on my knees and went down on your daughter until she came. So get down on yours and get to work."
Top 3 ways to snag yourself a DILF
Only if he really likes hospital food.
@@dixienormous8559 When he gets out of the hospital, he can visit the dad in prison and give him the lowdown on what he's really been doing with his daughter.
@@jase_allen he won't be doing much without his junk.
Love you Jamie!! 💛💛🥔🥔 These type of videos always terrify me!!😱😱
My bestie's boyfriend didn't start drinking iced coffee until he was in his 30s because he thought it was only for women.. straight people are so confusing.
Hair legs would explain why usually men go bald before women. Their hairs just use their legs and run away😂 (I'm joking obviously...)
lol actually its the testosterone. the more testosterone someone has the more likely theyll go bald earlier, strangely i dont see many self proclaimed "chads" talking about that very often X)
@@Helperbot-2000 Yeah I know. But wouldn't hair legs be a sooooo much funnier explanation?😂
@@emilybastong3896 yeah it would be lol
That first one, just ... just ... no, no WTF. Now I am going to take that as if it is coming from someone who still has the archaic view point of "men have to be the providers going out and working and hunting all day while women are the care takers raising the family and caring for the home and cook" but even taking it from that outdated viewpoint even that is extremely undervaluing just how much work and effort goes into those roles, I would argue that caring for and raising a child is more work than most modern jobs let alone cleaning and cooking on top of that making it a much more demanding job where the only reason it isn't valued in society is because you don't get paid for doing it because you are only looking out for your families needs and not contributing to giving work to other people. Like seriously going and working in an office or retail all day is way less work than raising a child while keeping things clean for health reasons and everything else. But even so I am assuming that is where this view point is coming from of "men have to be the providers" because that is literally the only way I can see how anyone could have this much of a delusion is by having that view point and underestimating just how much hard work that really is.
Now I know the snake bumper sticker was meant to make fun of the mom and is such a dick move, but personally I think snakes are smart and badass. Everyone should be a badass snake 🐍 I’m even planning to get a tattoo of one 👍
I actually liked that one. Maybe because I have snakes. It made me think of a badass mother of monsters like tiamat. It took me a second to remember that snakes have a lot of negative connotations and that was what the sticker was referencing.
Get out of line, and Mom will swallow you whole.
8:35 I like the graphic of the daughter and dad, like they're peas in a pod sort of a relationship, as well as the dad's emphasis on boundaries and his daughter not being a score, but damn everything else is yikes
I like those concepts, but they are things he should be empowering her to belive about herself. If she grows up valuing herself and confident in her ability to communicate her own self worth, she won't need her dad (or any other man/person) to wear this shirt or hang this poster.
It's giving "my adult daughter is still a child in my eyes."
@@saundraschaefer I mean yeah no doubt this stuff is cringe, but I don't think only the daughter should be doing that work either - that is, that he should be her backup, she shouldn't have to only have to rely on her confidence and self-esteem.
The protect baby girl at all costs thing is not inherently bad in every scenario. Just when it's creepy and overbearing like this
I LOVE this channel!!! Please don't leave the platform! It cheers me up that there's content for nonbinary people. I listen to it everyday. The scent I wear is called essential love. But it's not by scent bird. It's from somewhere else. I love it! I think you and shabaas relationship is so much more beautiful than what Hollywood produces!! I'm proud to be alive alongside you guys!
Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^
Wow, it's not often that I watch one of these that has me facepalming on the _first post_
oh hey I was just watching one of these on One Topic's channel
Thought i was a cis, straight woman but I hate iced coffee, so apparently i'm a man now.. nice to know
7:29 I'm not an easily embarrassed person, but you could not TORTURE that information out of me!
Holy shit, I got a bot