How To Come Up With GOOD CONSEQUENCES

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  • čas přidán 21. 06. 2020
  • This whole parenting thing can be very challenging. All parents know that consequences are important, and how do you come up with those consequences? I am going to walk you through it today so stay tuned!
    00:25 Natural and logical consequences
    02:12 Two kinds of consequences
    04:48 Creating the first list
    05:34 Five things to provide your kids
    07:02 Things you provide
    09:41 What can I enforce?
    10:52 Collaborative approach
    11:24 Ask these questions
    Watch and Enjoy!
    Dr. Paul Jenkins
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Komentáře • 164

  • @goodideas3221
    @goodideas3221 Před 3 lety +8

    the acronym 'flaws' fits! food, love, air, water, shelter. love it.

  • @elainecolunga4595
    @elainecolunga4595 Před 2 lety +13

    You have helped me so much!!! My daughter is being so good! She doesn’t call me meany anymore lol

  • @excellentchoices
    @excellentchoices Před 3 lety +24

    Thank you so much for this..... my boys are 3 and 5 we are in stage one still .... thank you for this video.... yes asking the children their ideas is stellar !!! I’m praying for us all to be our best self in the moment we are in . Together we can keep getting stronger in our parenting 😊

  • @eyesky6809
    @eyesky6809 Před 4 lety +28

    It’s sad there’s only 14 comments on here and this posted a day ago!

  • @paminhenan
    @paminhenan Před 3 lety +6

    My daughter was discovered self harming (cutting) about 3 months ago. This helped me so much. I'm sharing on my self harm FB groups. We all need help!!! Thank you so much for sharing you knowledge with us.

  • @whomadethewordword5035
    @whomadethewordword5035 Před 3 lety +6

    Love your practical straight forward approach to parenting (grand parenting) children from toddlers to adults! Thank you so much.

  • @lcabisca3456
    @lcabisca3456 Před 4 lety +9

    Awesome like always! Making parenting less stressful and more fun along with helping us raise respectful children!

  • @Manifest-888-11
    @Manifest-888-11 Před 4 lety +7

    Yeyyyyy, been waiting for this. Love it. Thanks Dr Paul. You are a legend

  • @lovelove6759

    Thank you! My beautiful boy is 7.5 and this really helped understand ❤

  • @JessicaTang9202019
    @JessicaTang9202019 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you so much Dr.Paul for you’re great great

  • @Sarahkiroglu
    @Sarahkiroglu Před 4 lety +2

    Yaaaay this video came at the perfect time!!! Thank you 🙌💪😁

  • @queenSummerKeli
    @queenSummerKeli Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks again!!! Im making my list now. My shorty is stage 1 and honest I have been too much on trying to have cooperation which is needless to say not working. Thank you for that in perspective for me. Will sit down with the hubby and getvthis list done!

  • @iloveu2273
    @iloveu2273 Před 2 lety +1

    I learn on every video . We will never be perfect parents but we can be good parents

  • @IsaiahWG24
    @IsaiahWG24 Před 2 lety +2

    This video is extremely empowering. Thank you soooooo much

  • @sugarbearlady6244
    @sugarbearlady6244 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you. My adult daughter from a marriage is at stage 1. This was so helpful in seeing where she is.

  • @susanmichelle8605
    @susanmichelle8605 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for alll of your incredible insight!!

  • @j.niccicoffie3272
    @j.niccicoffie3272 Před rokem +2

    This video is great! Has so many ideas that never occurred to me. I have more power than I realized and feel better equipped and more empowered to influence behavior change in my teen. Thank you for sharing this! I would've liked to have a few more examples for each list, or just more detail on some of the examples given. But there's enough to go on, and my mind is exploring how to play these will out. This is a big help.

  • @lvlc5
    @lvlc5 Před 4 lety +7

    more ideas on those consequences that do require cooperation, please... awesome as always

  • @sja-juanahall978
    @sja-juanahall978 Před 2 lety +2

    OMG where have you been ? My husband and I will be watching these together. We are a blended family of 9 children. It has been a struggle so the videos have been very sound and very helpful. Thank you so much

  • @gcs1432
    @gcs1432 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you!👍😊