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Watched Speed 2x still got everything 😊

very encouraging - thank you for this!

Thank you for this.

If you have the words "how to deal with my spouse" you are in a deep hole. The advice in this video is contradictory. You can't change your spouse but if you become a "model of positivity" or "choose love" your spouse can change. Marriage counselors/therapists won't say it but it is extremely hard for an adult to change personality and behaviors, especially in a lasting way. Conventional therapy for an individual only has some success about 40% of the time, what do you think will be the success rate for two people intermingled with years in a poor relationship together.

This video helped me

Walmart is going to get a surge of customers during graveyard shift not buying anything 😂

Thanks for this video ❤❤❤❤❤

ANY parent who intentionally, with malice and forethought, CHOOSES to put their child/children on the frontline of the divorce as a shield ALLOWING them to be brutally and psychologically abused and manipulate the narrative to accommodate their own nefarious agenda to introduce unforgiveness, resentment and a vile hatred towards the targeted parent should be exposed and ostracized. Because ANYONE who would CHOSE to do this has an evil heart with an evil agenda. I should know…..it’s what I have lived for the last 17 years and no one has helld this monster accountable. He abused and controlled me for 19 yrs of marriage and continues to inflict gut wrenching pain in my life 24/7/12 and CELEBRATES his wickedness.

I legit cant even walk to school without them, And I'm highschool🤣 what do I do?

i get irritated over small thing and then im irritated for the whole day my whole mood is ruined idk when it started but it wasnt always like this but it maybe is my age im 19 and going trough big changes in life so hope it will pass

Please pray for me... I have lots of fear and anxiety😢

Great video, thanks!

Thanks Dr. Paul! I have been doing psychotherapy for 23 years and needed something fresh and new to help clients move FORWARD! Positive Psychology has been amazing! 😄

Im a teen and im here to help myself

My 14 year old says I’m annoying and my family agrees with him 😢

How can you let go and "forgive" if it still hurts so much? This is so hard!

As 'givers' we don't know when to say no cos the person we say no to may be that Angel. When we feel dry cos our well is depleted that is when we need to retreat, become invisible so the takers cannot see us. This is how we recoup and then readjust and keep going. We readjust by setting our limits and making sure we dont keep giving to those that dont value us or rather those that just use us and feel entitled to do so. 😊

I need help my ways is not working and my fear is my kids arent going to love me when they realise how hard i am on them. I know alot of the thjngs they do are just things kids do and i should let them be kids but in a country like new zealand i dont want them turning out like the theiving kids and other ungodly things kids are getting upto nowadays. And it kills me when i discipline them they just do what they do even after we have asked them not to do so. Its like not even two minutes goes past and they are pulling the walls apart or drawing on the walls not sharing always hurting each other. Im stuck with what to do please help me!!!

Could an older sibling also comfort and support their youngest siblings through divorce with these methods? I’m a teenager with three younger siblings, two of which under ten years old. I want to support them the best I can while my parents are getting divorced. Is there anything more I can do for them?

Such a loving and thoughtful message. Thank you ❤️ watching 10 years after the divorce as a 23-year old. Wished to have known this earlier ❤️

😊Dr ALAKAZAM. Honestly I don’t know how to experience my feelings but I will forever great to you for bring back my ex wife 😊

😊Dr ALAKAZAM. Honestly I don’t know how to experience my feelings but I will forever great to you for bring back my ex wife 😊

😊Dr ALAKAZAM. Honestly I don’t know how to experience my feelings but I will forever great to you for bring back my ex wife 😊

I'm 13 and still bedwet . But when I go for school tours outside country, I don't. Why?

You are so great. Wow ❤. Thank you

Sorry, I'm not apologizing or pausing , bottom line they should respect the parent.

Bedwatrering alert system

You're trying way too hard, guy. It's a movie. They're emphasizing characteristics.

very difficult to ask for forgiveness when that person is unforgiving. A narcissist wants you to take responsibility so they have ammunition against you in the future. A narcissist does not forgive once you've admitted your at fault

I’ll probably just leave for a long time

It's after 4:00 am here, and I am hearing someone dying!!!!!

Prayer is the best thing that works for me!!!!

Because someone is dying close to me, this is what I'm going through!!!!

I am so crying when I watch your video I am also angry with my 3 years son 😢thank you for your advice I will try to be change my habits from right now 😢

I subscribed to you 😇 When things are not going as you'd like them to go, start practicing gratitude. Shift your mindset 🌟💛🌻

Lmao i heard all of these as a child 🥲

I would order 5 of those T-shirts!😂

I hope this works for me cos I'm on the verge of just calling it quits

I have 4 pending cases I didn't have 2 months ago, great insight boys thanks

Apologizing breeds disrespectful behavior unless your dead wrong then it's beneficial.

Wow. I hope you two have to go through this some day. Very bad people get custody when they shouldn’t. People are deceptive and sneaky and still get custody. Yeah, decent humans get screwed by liars.

You are the best CZcamsr on children’s behaviour! I have watched so many videos but your videos are by far the best. Thank you so much for this valuable advice 😊

❤❤❤praying for children ❤😊

SO When The Mother of Corey called CPS on Christopher over 100 times after seeing Bruises is THAT Why she couldn’t get Emergency Custody of her Child!! Because she kept calling CPS.. Then the Father Kill’s the Child!! This is Extremely disturbing!! THE JUDGE And CPS WERE WRONG!! The Father WAS Abusing the Child!!

i don’t like my parents

How to you see the bigger picture. I have tunnel vision and can't bring myself to see the bigger picture when they destroy the house I just cleaned and when they are constantly fighting with each other. I feel like I'm just trying to squeeze by till they move out. I have a 9, 8, 6 yr old. I'm loosing my mind and my husband hates me for a multitude of seasons. One being how I interact with the kids. I feel like I'm drowning and can't find Savior. I want everything to change and get better😢😢😢

Can you do a video about cognitive distortions, please?

“If someone else talked to you the way you talk to you, would you still be friends with them?” 😮‍💨🤌🏼🤌🏼

I bet a lot of parents still don't know how to implement this in real life:)

What if it has nothing to do with your rule or what boundaries you made, but it’s like come and wipe this, “I did” Or next time you bring up something for me, I need you to tell someone that you brought it up, and then it’s just making excuses why they didn’t and not just hearing you out and being like ok” or is that all just part of being argumentative??