7 Signs You're An ENFP, The Most Imaginative Type

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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2021
  • The ENFP personality type is one of the 16 different types identified by the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). ENFPs are both "idea"-people and "people"-people, who see everyone and everything as part of a cosmic whole. They want to both help and to be liked and admired by other people, on both an individual and a humanitarian level. This is rarely a problem for the ENFP, as they are outgoing and warm, and genuinely like people.
    Are you wondering if you have the ENFP personality type?
    Disclaimer: This video is based on the Myers-Briggs Type Inventory (MBTI), a theory on personality types based on rough tendencies rather than strict classifications.
    Previously, we also made a video on the signs you're an INFJ, the rarest personality type: • 8 Signs You’re An INFJ...
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +2281

    What's your MBTI?

    • @chrisrobin409
      @chrisrobin409 Před 3 lety +208

      INFJ

    • @xdhaunteranimation5414
      @xdhaunteranimation5414 Před 3 lety +45

      I am

    • @flohwalzer
      @flohwalzer Před 3 lety +428

      ENFP 😁

    • @rburbr0171
      @rburbr0171 Před 3 lety +136

      I've always regarded MBTI as a pseudoscience - more akin to astrology than something to place trust. People exist as individuals on a fluid spectrum of traits; you can't binarily group them together. It's also not accepted by the professional psychology community. If you want to do the test for fun, all the power to you! I wouldn't let it determine your life course, though. Just be you!

    • @ReficulQwertz
      @ReficulQwertz Před 3 lety +56

      ENFJ almost got INFJ it was 65% extroverted

  • @loveapureheart
    @loveapureheart Před 3 lety +9161

    The main signs that you are an ENFP are
    1. SUCK at focusing
    2. Struggle with thinking grass is greener mentality
    3. AMBIVERT you like to be alone sometimes although you do love hanging and talking to people
    4. You start new stuff all the time rarely finish (think about tv shows you watch or books you are reading)

    • @cod_fishhh6554
      @cod_fishhh6554 Před 3 lety +295

      This is me but x10 because I have ADHD

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 3 lety +73

      This is so me lol

    • @jakesexton856
      @jakesexton856 Před 3 lety +82

      @@cod_fishhh6554 me too, funny mix of personality and ADHD

    • @senaustun4380
      @senaustun4380 Před 3 lety +149

      having an ambivert side is so weird, ı would like to be surronded by ppl while drawing even if i dont really talk with them fdhjf

    • @justintrujillo803
      @justintrujillo803 Před 3 lety +36

      I’m a ENFP and I was curious about this video and this comment made me laugh

  • @artemtsarevskiy2785
    @artemtsarevskiy2785 Před 3 lety +9856

    ENFP's ideas in their head: 200 IQ
    ENFP's ideas when explaining yourself: 0 IQ

    • @RMSSLAVRETARDS
      @RMSSLAVRETARDS Před 2 lety +59

      Its so much like.. awosihfouwsahefr

    • @mayfreecs2733
      @mayfreecs2733 Před 2 lety +285

      Yes I mean i have troubles translating brain language into human language it sucks =w=

    • @khwlah1138
      @khwlah1138 Před 2 lety +96

      Bro how is this so acurateee💀💀💀💀💀

    • @Anew3A3
      @Anew3A3 Před 2 lety +48

      My gosh this is crazy accurate lol

    • @BrabraKadabra_
      @BrabraKadabra_ Před 2 lety +37

      The pain is real TT

  • @Mwangazahealth
    @Mwangazahealth Před 2 lety +490

    The surest sign that I'm an ENFP is that instead of watching this video I am reading the comments. I trust the connections I find with people's thoughts than the ideal explanations of the presenter.

    • @nandawramosz
      @nandawramosz Před rokem +33

      thats literally me right now wait 😂😂😂😂

    • @Pastellaxart
      @Pastellaxart Před rokem +17

      Oh same 💀

    • @Mwangazahealth
      @Mwangazahealth Před rokem +7

      @@nandawramosz Haha

    • @sheeshtv6087
      @sheeshtv6087 Před rokem +7

      yeeeee , same

    • @yourstrength1314
      @yourstrength1314 Před rokem +10

      That’s literally me I paused the video at 2:00 min mark and just started reading the comments instead 😭

  • @artistakun7670
    @artistakun7670 Před 2 lety +1130

    As well as ENFP I'm going to show you some traits that I find are very characteristic.
    1. I always have the most absurd ideas and I try to bring them to life.
    2.I always try to get a somewhat quiet person to join the conversation and not lead the conversation itself.
    3. I talk a lot alone and always think how I'll react to diverse no proveve situations
    Edit:
    4. I always see me lost in my ideas, it's a kinda hard organizing my thoughts.

    • @gued_zzz
      @gued_zzz Před 2 lety +15

      feel you, 1 and 3 are to real, sometimes I get lost reacting the most absurd ideas and hipotetical situations in my head, feels like a daydream

    • @Takemitchy178
      @Takemitchy178 Před 2 lety +14

      im actually in tears on how accurate this is

    • @mjcreations607
      @mjcreations607 Před 2 lety +6

      OMG i see me in u..

    • @pleasesmile5407
      @pleasesmile5407 Před 2 lety +1

      No 1 is so true to me, you know, as a child of like 10 or 11 when the problem of water scarcity was coming up, I told my mum, "mumma why can't we just Purify sea water? That way we would have soo much!"

    • @cchaber1936
      @cchaber1936 Před 2 lety +12

      I feel you in all 4.
      And in 2, I feel bad if anybody is excluded. I have like an urge to talk to the quiet person. And lol, I'll definitely be the first to talk to anyone who sits beside me in class.

  • @dianatorralbo7690
    @dianatorralbo7690 Před 3 lety +8148

    Best tell-sign you are an ENFP: You were about doing something until someone has told you to do it, then you don't want to do it anymore.

  • @vagabondian7
    @vagabondian7 Před 3 lety +3592

    As an ENFP, I feel most energized when I go to a concert because I encourage everyone around me to dance like a goof. Then on some days I need to go meditate out in the woods by myself. We love people but we also cherish our independence.

    • @chiara7413
      @chiara7413 Před 3 lety +45

      OMG YES!

    • @rzangyz3672
      @rzangyz3672 Před 3 lety +37

      I've always wanted to go to a concert but my parents and brother are such introverts they never go out, so I end up going out by myself. Also my parents are strict so I never can go out with my friends. Bring and extrovert in a introverts household is hard

    • @vagabondian7
      @vagabondian7 Před 3 lety +15

      @@rzangyz3672 Damn, that sounds rough. I've gone to concerts by myself multiple times too. It's a good way to push yourself to meet new people throughout the night! Everyone at a concert is usually in a good mood too, so that helps.

    • @mariendtran619
      @mariendtran619 Před 3 lety +3

      YES, 1000% true haha

    • @williamfongwailam4329
      @williamfongwailam4329 Před 3 lety +6

      @@rzangyz3672 omg I feel you. My sister and parents are such introverts too and it sometimes bothers me when I wanna go out but they have no mood to do so.

  • @phoenix5054
    @phoenix5054 Před 2 lety +280

    ENFP: Creates a safe space, doesn't express extreme opinions
    ENTP:
    Fascinating how a single letter causes a complete 180 in terms of personality.

    • @gleeman959
      @gleeman959 Před 2 lety +24

      The reason for that actually lies within the cognitive functions.
      ENFP:
      Dominant- Extroverted Intuition
      Auxiliary- Introverted Feeling
      Tertiary- Extroverted Thinking
      Inferior- Introverted Sensing
      ENTP:
      Dominant- Extroverted Intuition
      Auxiliary- Introverted Thinking
      Tertiary- Extroverted Feeling
      Inferior- Introverted Sensing

    • @TheSheepster
      @TheSheepster Před 2 lety +3

      Mature ENTPs are different lol

    • @vyna_mel5726
      @vyna_mel5726 Před 2 lety +7

      im a combination of both - wtf am i lmao

    • @aquilliusranger2137
      @aquilliusranger2137 Před 4 měsíci

      Well…one of my best friend is an ENTP Type 9. And I’m Type 8 ENFP, go figure. 🤣

    • @aquilliusranger2137
      @aquilliusranger2137 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@vyna_mel5726You walk a dangerous road my friend.

  • @anasophia7
    @anasophia7 Před 2 lety +336

    As an ENFP, we constantly encourage others. And our favorite thing in the world is to be encouraged by someone else. We probably encourage so much because it’s one of our greatest love languages 😊

    • @NitroCodes
      @NitroCodes Před rokem +9

      You have described us perfectly, Calyb. coming from a fellow ENFP. :))
      (I hope this day got a little brighter for whoever reads this comment as well. Some one loves you. Don't believe me? Look behind you. (:< )

    • @anasophia7
      @anasophia7 Před rokem +4

      @@NitroCodes Woohoo Love this!

    • @hanaabozaid180
      @hanaabozaid180 Před rokem +2

      😔🥺😢😭
      The saaaaame!!!

    • @anasophia7
      @anasophia7 Před rokem +2

      Words mean a lot to us

    • @NitroCodes
      @NitroCodes Před rokem +1

      @@anasophia7 Plethora, for instance. ;D

  • @mineyoo1999
    @mineyoo1999 Před 3 lety +13974

    E = Extroverted
    N = Intuitive
    F = Feeling
    P = *PROCRASTINATING*
    Written by an ENFP who’s currently watching her youtube recommendations instead of finishing three tasks which are due less than 24 hours

  • @aluxi1338
    @aluxi1338 Před 2 lety +9484

    as an enfp, when thinking about my job, im always like "hmm, i could be a med student and be a youtuber while writing books and editing during my free time." LOL

    • @aepop3454
      @aepop3454 Před 2 lety +85

      Heh Same

    • @maya07_11
      @maya07_11 Před 2 lety +252

      yeah me too like "hm i could be a nurse and then a year later I'll be a writer and a mechanic all meanwhile I'm singing rap songs"

    • @alisandra4775
      @alisandra4775 Před 2 lety +102

      for real!! lmaooo i'm so indecisive. "maybe i should get a career in nursing, then maybe go back to school and study medicine while studying law and theology" lolz

    • @lostclown2208
      @lostclown2208 Před 2 lety +127

      Same I want to be a singer, an actor, a writer, a producer, a designer, a writer and a baker at the same time

    • @aluxi1338
      @aluxi1338 Před 2 lety +8

      @@lostclown2208 literally LMAO

  • @wenhaozhang6352
    @wenhaozhang6352 Před 2 lety +74

    True. As an ENFP, I often found I can be liked easily, probably because I’m very easy going, talkative and care about people. But since I prefer quality over quantity in friendship, I’ll draw a line between people to whom I may not wanna be that close, while they have no idea what I’ve been thinking of 😂. Ironically, while I love talking to people and meeting new friends, I personally enjoy more about being alone and explore new ideas and theories. Oh...being sidetracked again from my deadline🤣🤣🤣

  • @minnightxx__5004
    @minnightxx__5004 Před rokem +181

    1. You want to deeply understand things and people 0:43
    2. You are very creative. 1:16
    3. You don't express extreme opinions 1:55
    3. You have a very big social circle 2:22
    5. You priorities communication
    6. You are very persuasive 3:27
    7. You hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49

    • @NitroCodes
      @NitroCodes Před rokem +6

      I will say that not all people will have all of these traits to an extreme. Me (an ENFP), for example, love repetitive tasks (to an extent!), as my mind can wander and do its own thing, while I autopilot the task.

    • @sanaakkad10
      @sanaakkad10 Před rokem +4

      as an enfp i don't really have a big social circle does that mean that i'm an infp instead?

    • @nataliaaa18
      @nataliaaa18 Před rokem +8

      @@sanaakkad10 not really, enfp's are not all the same and we have some things that are different from other enfp's

    • @pixelzebra8440
      @pixelzebra8440 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I DO EXPRESS EXTREME OPINIONS THO 😭😭😭

    • @pixelzebra8440
      @pixelzebra8440 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @sanaakkad10 Remember correlation does not equal causation

  • @jjbaglazer_
    @jjbaglazer_ Před 3 lety +6920

    Being an ENFP is good and all that but we’re very prone to stress and anxiety so I guess it’s both a blessing and a curse.

    • @diogocasstro
      @diogocasstro Před 3 lety +105

      yes so I do relate to this stuff and I'm or was a part of big group of friends but I don't talk that much I'm super awkward but I was starting to talk more but.. guess what now the only people i'm talking is on online so that's cool yey

    • @jjbaglazer_
      @jjbaglazer_ Před 3 lety +16

      @@diogocasstro Aw, I’m so glad you’re working on it 😊 and I hope the good vibes keep on coming for you.

    • @diogocasstro
      @diogocasstro Před 3 lety +8

      @@jjbaglazer_ thank you that's very nice of you well I hope the good vibes keep coming for you al well

    • @Baby_Bones
      @Baby_Bones Před 3 lety +11

      Like it says in the book,we are blessed and cursed - Big Smoke

    • @ThevoicesaregettinglouderTABBY
      @ThevoicesaregettinglouderTABBY Před 3 lety +1

      I think someone in my family is one

  • @angelaziegler8785
    @angelaziegler8785 Před 3 lety +4455

    We as an ENFP loves parties and hang out with people, but we also *NEED* time alone to recharge our social limit, meditating, self isolation, if an ENFP don't recharge the social limit it'll get anxious and stressed.

    • @maryvalsan603
      @maryvalsan603 Před 2 lety +65

      this has totally been me the past year

    • @deadpoolvega
      @deadpoolvega Před 2 lety +102

      It's kinda weird but sometimes when in with many people my head gets confusing idk

    • @rebecasaboia9
      @rebecasaboia9 Před 2 lety +55

      also, sometimes you need time alone to develop your own ideas

    • @theonecroissantmoon
      @theonecroissantmoon Před 2 lety +7

      Ok yup I’m definitely a infp, I just like to be creative by myself!

    • @vikrumdeol7220
      @vikrumdeol7220 Před 2 lety +5

      LITERALLY

  • @maireadbrosnan3070
    @maireadbrosnan3070 Před 2 lety +246

    Just an ENFJ popping in, wanted to say that you ENFPs are amazing! I am absolutely in love with your guys' high level of energy and chaotic sense of humour. Your adventurous and imaginative sides are so highly infectious. You might come across as clumsy or ditzy sometimes but if I had to choose any type to bring to an uncharted desert island with me, I would definitely choose an ENFP! You guys have like these weird survival instincts and are quite handy and inventive, plus you are always optimistic and like to keep morale high. You wouldn't ever leave somebody behind! Perfect desert island partner :) You guys are so charming and have a heart of gold. Hope to meet more of you in my lifetime

    • @crystalmind6476
      @crystalmind6476 Před 2 lety +18

      AWHHH thank u! , now lets go on that island bestie :)

    • @kidakun501
      @kidakun501 Před 2 lety +15

      Just to say, I really love how ENFJ's vibe where they are so eager to help someone. You are really one of a kind and such a brilliant person.

    • @brielle7130
      @brielle7130 Před rokem +3

      love you too😂

    • @Sonicxis4ever
      @Sonicxis4ever Před rokem +2

      Im an ENFPT. I wonder what makes our personality types different?

    • @ItsJustT
      @ItsJustT Před rokem

      thank you bro

  • @quynguyenhuu2527
    @quynguyenhuu2527 Před 2 lety +78

    The reason why I know myself as an ENFP is when it comes to career choosing. Being a student in auditing department, honestly, I'd rather die than do paper work. Feel like I could be a travel blogger and adventure writter, a yoga trainer, a language teacher at the same time. And i'm 18 :3

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 Před rokem +1

      Yeah, accounting/auditing isn’t a very ENFP thing on average. What is it you’re doing now?

    • @ciaraberg_
      @ciaraberg_ Před 7 měsíci

      This is so accurate 😂

    • @adrienneparker7025
      @adrienneparker7025 Před 3 měsíci +1

      DO IT!!!! we were meant to do many things
      Yoga instruction and massage therapy is my dream

    • @quynguyenhuu2527
      @quynguyenhuu2527 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Anonymous_Anon882, well, I'm in my 3rd year studying auditing, i got an internship in a big firm, and a few scholarships,..to be honest, I've never struggled with studying, but I think I would travel more and spend more time for myself this year. Wish you a happy life too

    • @sti1296
      @sti1296 Před 2 měsíci +1

      The funny thing is, I am currently taking English course to become a language teacher like what you said despite not knowing it is actualy related to our personality💀i realize enfp likes to do something laid back for their life

  • @mayurabehere
    @mayurabehere Před 2 lety +3989

    ENFP
    1. Sucks at Focus
    2. Imaginative but cannot express thoughts to others.
    3. Easily stressed
    4. Face self critism
    5. But, still understand deeper meaning of life 😇

    • @buzzyz7234
      @buzzyz7234 Před 2 lety +68

      No wonder they are the only people I can talk deeply to

    • @hasargel
      @hasargel Před 2 lety +28

      Not much different from infp, when i have energy or with a group of people i am not scared of, my extraverted side shows. (Infp)

    • @faq3524
      @faq3524 Před 2 lety +19

      I agree... Yah it's cool being cheerfully most of the time but sometimes when there's no one around you fall into those conclusions

    • @limo9402
      @limo9402 Před 2 lety +10

      I kinda wonder why scientists say enfp are linked to ADHD i get it lol

    • @gcanaday1
      @gcanaday1 Před 2 lety +33

      2. Imaginative but cannot express thoughts to others [yet unironically have communication skills that simply get shit done]

  • @Duvstep910
    @Duvstep910 Před 3 lety +1260

    I may have 100+ friends in my contacts but in reality i talk to like 5

  • @bumblebeebrass164
    @bumblebeebrass164 Před 2 lety +53

    As an ENFP, I’ve been quite shocked by how many friends I have picked up along the way in life. I always have someone calling me or asking to hangout, and it’s so hard to say no to going to a party or experience. Because of this my social battery burns out so I NEED to be alone for a few days. I also realized as an ENFP that I tend to rely on how excellent my communication skills are that I can be quite lazy in certain aspects of life. In my head, I subconsciously believe that I will always be able to talk my way into anything, so it doesn’t take much work. This is a good and bad thing, because I need to stop procrastinating but I’m constantly enabled by getting what I want because of my charisma 😂

    • @julien-kun5273
      @julien-kun5273 Před rokem +1

      This is exactly the story of my "uni" life at this moment! I resonate quite a lot with this. Glad to see us ENFP resonate and celebrate our similar understandings and experiences like this ^^

    • @tabbymochi13
      @tabbymochi13 Před 10 měsíci +1

      OMG I thought it's just me thing on laziness and charisma stuff but I didn't know that was part of us ENFPs HAHA! Being lazy and still get what we want because of our natural charm and communication. I seriously feel bad sometimes though 😅

    • @sti1296
      @sti1296 Před 10 měsíci

      True tho, I didn't prepare much for my presentation but I'm able to talk like a professional even though I didn't study much. I know I can do it better if choose to work harder but I just didn't. Kinda disappointed on how I live my life all these time but I can't get my mind and body to do the work earlier. Somehow, ENFP can find an easier way to solve things despite of limited time.

    • @sti1296
      @sti1296 Před 10 měsíci +1

      One thing to add more, because of my ability to talk, I managed to get away from getting scold from my teacher when I didn't finish her homework. I almost shit in my pants but my mind is working diligently to create excuses

  • @tetrahedrongod
    @tetrahedrongod Před 2 lety +31

    as an ENFP, when I was younger (even now), i was always very imaginative, example: there was always a traffic jam on my way to school and I'd always say to my friend next to me on the bus that what if the bus had wings and flew over every car to escape the traffic jam lol and we would make an entire fantasy storyline about the bus nanny and the bus driver, with sky castles, winged boots, the annoying bus nanny being the villain, and luxurious airships

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 Před 3 lety +1699

    1. you want to deeply understand things and people 0:44
    2. you are very creative 1:17
    3. you don't express extreme opinions 1:56
    4. you have a very big social circle 2:22
    5. you prioritise communication 2:56
    6. you are very persuasive 3:26
    7. you hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49
    I hope I could help! :)

  • @s.k.5454
    @s.k.5454 Před 3 lety +2944

    I am an ENFP but I have small but very awesome friend group. They're mostly Introverts. I feel really comfortable around Introverts, to me, they seem more real because they don't put up a show or something

  • @wd74_official
    @wd74_official Před rokem +18

    Describing my ENFP Personality:
    1. While working I often get stuck while doing it and need time to gain more ideas.
    2. I like to go outside and do things I don't usually do to help my creativity.
    3. I love being social and meeting new friends, although my friend group is extensive.
    4. I worry about my own personality myself, but in reality, lots of people enjoy being around me.
    5. As I work on projects, I procrastinate ideas from my mind as a future reference for my projects.
    6. I think about the future opportunities in life rather than the present in my life.
    7. Being an ENFP, I really enjoy expressing my ideas and talking to other people a lot.
    8. I am very talkative and love telling other people all of the ideas I have in mind.
    Thanks for reading! 😁

  • @carcrashheart
    @carcrashheart Před rokem +56

    I'm actually crying right now. I just spent an hour taking four different MBTI tests and I got ENFP every time. I've known I was an ENFP for a while now, but somehow hearing this, and hearing that somebody understands what my life is like and what I truly deeply want is super emotional for me

    • @carcrashheart
      @carcrashheart Před rokem +2

      oh wait it's that time of the month

    • @julien-kun5273
      @julien-kun5273 Před rokem +6

      You don't need to make fun of being honest and right under your comment ^^ instead, I totally get you! I've found out why I am how I am and seeing people like you resonate is not only comforting, but also inspiring. I'm quite certain you might feel the same way, let's all grow together into our best versions ❤️‍🔥

    • @carcrashheart
      @carcrashheart Před rokem +2

      @@julien-kun5273 thank you :) That’s so sweet

    • @letdown_
      @letdown_ Před rokem +4

      I totally relate to this. It feels so good to be seen and understood

    • @hanaabozaid180
      @hanaabozaid180 Před rokem +1

      😔🥺😢😭

  • @sylphsmovingstories3986
    @sylphsmovingstories3986 Před 3 lety +611

    An additional fact for ENFPs(at least this one lol)
    You don't need sugar or drugs to be high
    You can simply be high off of air

    • @user-kr4yu6kx1l
      @user-kr4yu6kx1l Před 2 lety +6

      truuuu

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 Před 2 lety +36

      On this cracked me up so much! People used to think I was high because of the enthusiasm and zest! I've mellowed but sometimes my brain perks along getting excited by creative ideas; I just keep it inside more.

    • @sylphsmovingstories3986
      @sylphsmovingstories3986 Před 2 lety +2

      @@suen5006 glad I got a laugh out of someone :D

    • @deadpoolvega
      @deadpoolvega Před 2 lety +2

      TRUEEEEE

    • @4GdaTim
      @4GdaTim Před 2 lety +5

      I literally spend 1 minute of my life trying to understand the joke, and now ik
      *"High"*

  • @hardboiledeggo1451
    @hardboiledeggo1451 Před 2 lety +2496

    When you’re an ENFP but have gotten so used to being alone the past year that you start to question your personality lol

    • @shiny2401
      @shiny2401 Před 2 lety +246

      As an ENFP, this is probably one of the most relatable sentiments ever 😂

    • @simranlakra253
      @simranlakra253 Před 2 lety +64

      Super relatable for real😭😭😭

    • @44marek21
      @44marek21 Před 2 lety +17

      I want to die

    • @Sophia-D
      @Sophia-D Před 2 lety +24

      Super relatable!

    • @frankstupp9387
      @frankstupp9387 Před 2 lety +86

      thats so true! in my actual quarantane following the past year, I began to loose myself, my abilities to make people cheer or even tend to forgett peoples happy faces. I know I was Peter Pan, but in my room I feel like in a cage...

  • @kyondance
    @kyondance Před 2 lety +48

    I’m ex INFJ and now I’m ENFP for years as the test results say.. watched this video and it’s crazy how all of this is so relatable and so me. Now I’m stressed to deal with my repetitive days and nights. I’d rather just dance my heart out, think and work for more important things. I think I’m depressed, but I feel better when complimenting others or making them laugh.I tend to have new ideas and imaginations with a tiny bit of inspiration and my head’s all about it once it starts its processing.

    • @ciao4580c
      @ciao4580c Před 2 lety +2

      Omg, I hope youre feeling better 🥲 I had a time in my life exactly like this, when I was at school and everyday was the same with no stimulation... then I changed schools and my environment completely, and my depression and negativity disappeared. I think finding a new community and new people really helps with repetitiveness, I hope you feel less stressed in the near future :))

    • @tadarnani4984
      @tadarnani4984 Před 2 lety +3

      Yass that's what I thought too when I was turning into enfp as i felt my old self was infj no wonder since enfps are like infj's next pokemon form 😂

    • @manjushacr6767
      @manjushacr6767 Před rokem

      Same I'm also an ex-infj person

    • @sams_enfp
      @sams_enfp Před 7 měsíci +1

      ENFP and INFJ are shadow types, and one can often use shadow functions when stressed - INFJ

    • @Bookgirly12
      @Bookgirly12 Před 5 měsíci

      Late to the comment but same! I was litterly an infj and took the test years later and was an ENFP

  • @goutameedeshmukh6755
    @goutameedeshmukh6755 Před 2 lety +5

    That "understanding things completely until you get satisfied" is soooooo damn relatable!

  • @drumlinetryouts2151
    @drumlinetryouts2151 Před 3 lety +709

    Everyone in the comments are so nice to each other: proof of enfp

  • @nickybreb8795
    @nickybreb8795 Před 3 lety +1546

    Being a fellow ENFP, I can relate to all of these signs, but what many seem to overlook or don’t know, is we also get stressed easily and can get very emotional at times.

    • @cartoonfangirl_1136
      @cartoonfangirl_1136 Před 3 lety +29

      Finally someone who understands me

    • @flohwalzer
      @flohwalzer Před 3 lety +21

      yeah true, im all of the thingies in the video but im still usually an emotional mess and a stress wreck 😭🖑

    • @riddhimanna8437
      @riddhimanna8437 Před 3 lety +3

      So accurate

    • @justintrujillo803
      @justintrujillo803 Před 3 lety +1

      Agreeeeed

    • @Nina-vt8el
      @Nina-vt8el Před 3 lety +27

      I (enfp) always get stressed and it happens really fast. I also forget every time where I put things and then I don't have any time to search and get stressed and to late to school or to friends. I hate this typical Enfp lost moment.

  • @madamribbit
    @madamribbit Před 2 lety +10

    Oh my goodness as an ENFP I feel so understood when watching stuff about my personality type.

  • @turel528
    @turel528 Před rokem +13

    As an ENFP I must add that we don't always have lots of friends, but we always try to be friendly to others. We are not always talking without "off" switch, but we always try to keep the dialogue or end it with the most natural and friendly way possible.
    Side note, tbh, creativity sometimes ruins everything 😹
    Sometimes, I am a 400 IQ genius, but sometimes, I'm a 0 IQ idiot, lol
    Once, in school, we divided on teams of 3 and had to make the fastest wind powered vehicle out of stationeries bought with fake money. I convinced others that my "Giant ball of wrapped tape" would be the best idea, because it acts as a giant wheel with 3 degrees of freedom and relatively high ratio of cross section area to mass, but also we could buy all the tape so no other teams will get it. Apparently, you don't need any tape, to build the fastest cart, lol 😂

  • @niurkatunon5996
    @niurkatunon5996 Před 3 lety +1549

    I appreciate the jujutsu kaisen references😌🤝🏼

  • @lady_raineidv9297
    @lady_raineidv9297 Před 3 lety +876

    This certain ENFP has been detached from reality because of the quarantine 🙋

    • @javemendez5928
      @javemendez5928 Před 3 lety +29

      I'm honestly living my best Pokémon life with Lorde, in the sun

    • @lilbroomstick7914
      @lilbroomstick7914 Před 3 lety +43

      I genuinely don't know how im managing academic pressures tryna advance my education rn with everything going on. Like I have to fking study but its so depressing to me. Zoom university?!?!?!?! And im vaccinated now and im supposed to try to go out and talk to ppl again??? wtf is happening ?

    • @lady_raineidv9297
      @lady_raineidv9297 Před 3 lety +18

      @@lilbroomstick7914 The part about being iffy of going out and talking to people again, I feel that so much. The E in ENFP means extrovert but somehow I feel like I'd rather stay away from people lmao

    • @dingusdeduck2621
      @dingusdeduck2621 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lady_raineidv9297 Me to but not my selected people even tho I’m very kind to people even if I’d rather be home alone

    • @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680
      @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680 Před 3 lety +3

      Yo I'm in another planet, making new humans and explore the dimensions rn 📈

  • @growwitharie
    @growwitharie Před 2 lety +7

    I’m an ENFP with a small social circle and I love it, all my closest friends are all introverts and I love them because I can be my real authentic self without feeling judged🤍

  • @ansarihajra9035
    @ansarihajra9035 Před rokem +5

    Ever since I can remember I like this kinda stuff, talking to people, getting to know them, letting them tell me about the things they never say, writing, poetry, art, painting, journaling and so much more. When I first got to know about my personality being enfp I couldn't control my enthusiasm because I've never been able to put my personality in words, I've always felt confusion and doubt about the way I am because there are so many elements in this personality type, I sometimes thought do I have two personalities? The outgoing, motivated, encouraging social one and the other quiet, depressed, done with people one. I just love human psychology and studying personalities is one of my favorite things to do😭

  • @chilli_filled_crossaint
    @chilli_filled_crossaint Před 3 lety +800

    Me as ENFP around my friends
    My friends: I'm bored
    Me: AYYO I BEEN SUMMONED

  • @mel.2930
    @mel.2930 Před 3 lety +1178

    im the only enfp who loves interacting and socializing but never had the opportunity to make a group of friends? like i have but disperse ones not a group,,

    • @bookishhhuman1024
      @bookishhhuman1024 Před 3 lety +107

      Omg same ! Like i know a lot of people but i dont have a fixed group. Its been really weird but glad to know im not alone!

    • @marykuttygeorge3471
      @marykuttygeorge3471 Před 3 lety +107

      You're not alone girl. Having friends with different interests because of YOUR different interests and its cool and all until it's lunch break and you have no one to sit with 😒

    • @bookishhhuman1024
      @bookishhhuman1024 Před 3 lety +27

      @@marykuttygeorge3471 YES PLS. Or if they ask who your main group is and you cant answer

    • @april4524
      @april4524 Před 3 lety +6

      same!!!

    • @azarishiba2559
      @azarishiba2559 Před 3 lety +9

      Happened also to me when younger n_ñU Now is happily different n.n

  • @lucymcangel255
    @lucymcangel255 Před 2 lety +7

    Oh my gosh, I really am ENFP! Everyone likes my extrovert way to socialize, I'm super expressive, talk a lot, I'm super creative, and I always fear to hurt people, in both ways (physically and emotionally), and I like to keep in mind I don't have an extreme opinion, I like to see the good and bad things of both sides, and take only the good part of both.
    I don't like to show people I'm perfect because I'm not, also I have the fear of people thinking I'm this type of person, but I'm super proud of myself when I know I made a good job and made everyone smile :)
    (Also I'm sorry for my English, I'm a native Brazilian, I'm still learning how to speak English in a good way)

  • @awesomedude6723
    @awesomedude6723 Před 2 lety +4

    I thought I was an INFP for the longest time until I recently started to try to be more outgoing, and now I know I'm ENFP 😎

    • @dreamyisfj
      @dreamyisfj Před rokem

      INFP can be extroverted/ambivert

  • @bolitadenieve7114
    @bolitadenieve7114 Před 2 lety +1902

    I feel we enfps tend to be underestimated because somehow our bright personality makes us look stupid, but we are hella intuitive and we catch up on everything hahaha so I can feel how I tend to be underestimated just by the look on people's faces!

    • @briannacasteel3334
      @briannacasteel3334 Před 2 lety +163

      this is SO relatable omg omg omg everyone thinks i'm ditzy and stupid but the moment i have a conversation of substance, i get told things like, "wow you're so mature for your age!" it's frustrating having people assume that i'm an absolute idiot, i get patronized and my opinion gets invalidated so often. i decided i'd stop speaking at all unless asked

    • @bolitadenieve7114
      @bolitadenieve7114 Před 2 lety +51

      @@briannacasteel3334 to be honest sometimes it gets frustrating but now I try to take as something funny bcs I know what they are thinking without them even knowing that I know it, haha it's way better to be underestimated but you deep down know what's all about than be overestimated and somehow be incompetent (at least that's my opinion), ofc I still struggle and I gets tiring because I'm not stupid but what calms me is the fact that the people that truly knows and cares about me won't look down on me and appreciate me as who I am

    • @briannacasteel3334
      @briannacasteel3334 Před 2 lety +23

      @@bolitadenieve7114 yeah i agree actually, i'd rather be underestimated than overestimated. but yeah making people laugh is my favorite thing, if i can do that i dont mind that they assume im a dumbass haha

    • @GBS4893
      @GBS4893 Před 2 lety +12

      Struggling during my teenage, i was very sleep deprived. I was always so limp but i used that and the seemless general appearance to listen while people thought i was just spacing out and resting. Then i intervened in my friends arguments or difficulties as "neutral" to patch things up even though i had been closely paying attention for weeks and planning stuff out with my always silent friend who was too discreet.

    • @7TPdwCzolgu
      @7TPdwCzolgu Před 2 lety +5

      @@briannacasteel3334 AM I YOU???? I'M LITERALLY THAT

  • @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
    @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 Před 2 lety +1201

    ENFP characters are always my favorite, you guys are either fluffy wholesome cinnamon rolls or ruthlessly savage and it's great.

    • @soo3787
      @soo3787 Před 2 lety +48

      thank you, thats so sweet

    • @Nina-pj8wo
      @Nina-pj8wo Před 2 lety +62

      Thank u sometimes Im worried people think im too much 😓

    • @isabellegonzalez1330
      @isabellegonzalez1330 Před 2 lety +27

      😂😂😂😂😂 i feel described by this comment

    • @MoniCu92
      @MoniCu92 Před 2 lety +42

      Hahahahaha I love your description and I feel it to my core, my family always tells me I'm so fluffy and sweet on the outside but I can be a complete savage and destroy people while speaking politely

    • @nebolution
      @nebolution Před 2 lety +3

      Thats really sweet!! Thank you!

  • @Yo-pz1em
    @Yo-pz1em Před 2 lety +2

    I’m not an ENFP. I am an extrovert-ESTJ and I want to say thank you for being positive about extroverts. Almost everywhere on the net, it is stated how amazing introverts are…and how unintelligent extroverts are. How reckless they are.
    The truth is extroverts are just AS intelligent as introverts are. We just don’t keep things hidden. We see no shame in brainstorming out loud, because human interaction is energizing. But we ALL need alone time. Just not as much as introverts.
    So thanks psych2go. Enfp ARE creative and are more softer extroverts.

  • @yasmim6155
    @yasmim6155 Před 2 lety +1

    Thats definetely my favorite video on the channel, I love the haikyuu and jujutsu references so much

  • @kuro6684
    @kuro6684 Před 3 lety +829

    As an ENFP i'd say that one of the most frustrating thing is when you have the communication skills but then there's this language barrier. You have ideas that you'd like to share but since they, 1. Dont get what you are imagining, and 2. Have a language barrier, the situation will leave you 🤯. Hence we are prone to stress 😌

    • @justintrujillo803
      @justintrujillo803 Před 3 lety +12

      I feel your pain

    • @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680
      @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680 Před 3 lety +28

      Exactly, it's frustrating when people don't get what you're imagining 😌

    • @hehehe785
      @hehehe785 Před 3 lety +6

      As enfp I have lost my social:( I been going through a tough time but I’m getting better tho

    • @chiara7413
      @chiara7413 Před 3 lety +25

      And that is why as an ENFP I speak 4 languages and I am studying other 2, I love talking to people. And each new language has its own "codes" :)

    • @VirtaAttirah
      @VirtaAttirah Před 3 lety +2

      @@chiara7413 that's amazing! what languages do u speak? i speak indonesian (my native language), english, spanish, and i'm focusing on french right now. and i do agree with you. one of my main motivators for learning other languages is the amount of people and resources that i would be able to interact with! 😍 and yeah, it also gives insight in a way of thinking through the codes that w learn in the language 😊

  • @Afribestari
    @Afribestari Před 3 lety +346

    Being ENFP is like people thought you have something that made your day cause you look bright and happy 24/7 but instead feeling so overwhelmed and confuse and stressed all day😤

    • @4ight1
      @4ight1 Před 2 lety +8

      Yeah it can be easier to get stressed, but we can learn to handle our stress and anxiety in good ways and form them into other feelings like excitement and creativity. Meditation and therapy can help with this!

    • @4ight1
      @4ight1 Před 2 lety +6

      Also when you feel stressed, remind yourself that your stress will pass and that you will be just fine because of your strong nature!

  • @RosenRotInk
    @RosenRotInk Před 4 měsíci +1

    INFJ here

  • @jenjae7
    @jenjae7 Před 2 lety +2

    I feel so at home reading all these comments. It’s nice to be around my people who I feel truly understand all of our quirky nuances. ❤️

  • @brittany1531
    @brittany1531 Před 3 lety +596

    actually i feel like the “big friends circle” is more of a stereotype since there are PLENTY of enfp who distance themselves from others and has a medium size friend group full of besties or close friends. this is because of the Ne dom meaning the biggest part of our happiness comes from ideas and experiences. ive observed that MANY enfp mistype as infp. I LOVE YOUR VIDS BTW ❤️❤️❤️
    - from enfp

    • @constancesmoothpiee1286
      @constancesmoothpiee1286 Před 3 lety +2

      On point👌

    • @rzangyz3672
      @rzangyz3672 Před 3 lety +2

      Same

    • @mcgil8891
      @mcgil8891 Před 2 lety +2

      Yesss thanks

    • @woowoo2475
      @woowoo2475 Před 2 lety +16

      i thought i was an infp for months due to the fact that i am introverted and socially awkward but i have started reading about cognitive functions and i think i am an enfp-

    • @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
      @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 Před 2 lety +3

      @@woowoo2475 You gonna finish that sentence?

  • @aaronfoo1018
    @aaronfoo1018 Před 2 lety +210

    Signs you're an ENFP: You forgot watching this video and came back here just to remind yourself you're amazing

  • @errorsolo8709
    @errorsolo8709 Před rokem +1

    Im so happy you made a video on this, thank you so much for helping me learn about myself more since I'm in that phase where I'm questioning who I am

  • @ai-bugged
    @ai-bugged Před rokem +1

    Worse feeling as an enfp is not being able to keep that vibe and facing constant criticism, it just makes you question if you are really even worthy of living, but a single genuine compliment can keep us cherry lol

  • @ericamchapman
    @ericamchapman Před 2 lety +1224

    Most are accurate but ENFPs express opinions very loudly when it’s against one of our important values. If it’s not a value of ours, then we typically can sit back, great video!

    • @CartoonyPirate
      @CartoonyPirate Před 2 lety +24

      Exactly! I can't recall I time this happened atm
      But I know the feeling!

    • @CartoonyPirate
      @CartoonyPirate Před 2 lety +31

      Oh yeah
      I'm kinda a kind hearted potato
      I know what it feels like to have someone insult you. It's this negative feeling in your brain that's just lingering there. "Do people not understand how much words can hurt someone?"
      So generally I tend to try and stay positive in conversations. I absolutely hate it when I understand someone's sadness but I don't have the words to comfort them ( I'm bad at explaining things )

    • @george-geedeevee9054
      @george-geedeevee9054 Před 2 lety +18

      Valid, sometimes i question my values though, that's probably due to trauma but I try to just be as good and as whacky as possible

    • @george-geedeevee9054
      @george-geedeevee9054 Před 2 lety +4

      Love all you guys 🥲

    • @sophiespurdle2045
      @sophiespurdle2045 Před 2 lety +7

      Yeah! I was gunna say like all of these fit, but I share opinions and I’ve gotten ENFP on every single test I’ve taken bahah!

  • @enio9477
    @enio9477 Před 3 lety +876

    I'm ENFP and have ADHD... and I swear to god these two things are almost identical. Like sometimes I think that all ENFPs are just hidden ADHDers

    • @maya07_11
      @maya07_11 Před 2 lety +59

      i think i have it but I'm sure that it's just my personality lol

    • @BlackWolf-fn6tf
      @BlackWolf-fn6tf Před 2 lety +8

      @@maya07_11 me tooooo😭

    • @maryvalsan603
      @maryvalsan603 Před 2 lety +15

      I honestly am struggling right now because I’m having problems with this and I just tend to brush it off :

    • @deadpoolvega
      @deadpoolvega Před 2 lety +5

      I don't think so. I have a friend and she's ESFP and she has ADHD so it depends lol

    • @pennypumpkin2691
      @pennypumpkin2691 Před 2 lety +25

      ENFPs are one of the types (if not the type) with the most ADHDers bc of the Ne dom. So while many ADHDers are ENFPs (and the other way around), it's not necessarily the case. For example, I am an ENFP and I don't have ADHD.

  • @cactress-mia
    @cactress-mia Před 6 měsíci

    This is the first time where I have been able to 100 percent relate to a CZcams video. It nice to find something that properly describes me.

  • @meshshirtburgundypants5244
    @meshshirtburgundypants5244 Před 7 měsíci

    hiding the "like and subscribe" by adding it in a little visual interpretation of what you're explaining is GENIUS for someone like me who gets annoyed by someone directly nudging you to do it by trailing off the topic of the video to mention it. makes me feel like i actually wanna like and sub :3 very smart way to go about it!

  • @secre1y
    @secre1y Před 3 lety +183

    Quarantine is really messing with my ENFP brain, it's just so repetitive and I can't explore anymore

  • @cutstring
    @cutstring Před 3 lety +1010

    My oldest sister studied personality types and their meanings for years and can tell your personality type right away. Apparently she said that I was an ENFP but I could never see the ENFP in me because of my severe depression. Now that I’m on medication, I’m seeing the real Julia I know and I am now starting to learn to love myself. It feels good to be me again

    • @44marek21
      @44marek21 Před 2 lety +31

      Yay get better man ☺️

    • @karakkyo5902
      @karakkyo5902 Před 2 lety +9

      xD, it will get better

    • @reneeevonrichardson3039
      @reneeevonrichardson3039 Před 2 lety +16

      You are correct. I also have to stay on my Prozac to be the best me but my ADhd is still a issue that can inhibit me.

    • @i3lului311
      @i3lului311 Před 2 lety +12

      im crying thats so beautiful

    • @tts6030
      @tts6030 Před 2 lety +22

      "It feels good to be me again" that's beautiful to hear, im glad you're back 😊

  • @tariqjaved5416
    @tariqjaved5416 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm an ENFP, but I always love to express my bold opinions but I would love to hear others' opinions and I would never put my opinions on anyone else.

  • @brittanyswordmusic
    @brittanyswordmusic Před 2 lety +2

    If I can’t focus on my ideas and create I get super stressed and depressed! Also I’m a totally “yes” person so I take on waaaytoo many things, it’s so hard to fit it all in! And I’m super pumped to do all of it all the time!! My emotions throughout any given day 😃😅😬😤🤦‍♀️💪🙌😃🥰

  • @rocioferrer4857
    @rocioferrer4857 Před 3 lety +353

    as a ENFP i have almost 20 new ideas for storys and novels every day and I don't do any of them because every day I have something new and i dont know what to do, so I really felt the 2nd point

    • @arohasatinyselastslastonio7616
      @arohasatinyselastslastonio7616 Před 2 lety +12

      Same, I start and then suddenly I have a new idea and totally forget about the one I've been planning for 10 minutes

    • @ihatekiwi4167
      @ihatekiwi4167 Před 2 lety +5

      SAMEEE OMGG AND I HAVE NOBODY TO TELL THEM TO PEOPLE GET EASILY BORED

    • @marianamribeiro3694
      @marianamribeiro3694 Před 2 lety

      ahahahahahahaha

    • @kaboomgaming4255
      @kaboomgaming4255 Před 2 lety +5

      @@ihatekiwi4167 I swear I took literally 7 minutes to retell a five sentence story I had already written; how am I supposed to share my ideas for super long ones I haven't written, let alone not feel too nervous to share?!

    • @napalmee
      @napalmee Před 2 lety +1

      Same 😭😭😭

  • @daniellegarcia8299
    @daniellegarcia8299 Před 3 lety +334

    We might have a large social circle, but we often feel the loneliest. I have my select few that I love being around and those are VERY few who I cherish tremendously.

  • @fernandapianco8585
    @fernandapianco8585 Před 3 měsíci

    i just passed for a very tough and traumatic year and watch this video helps me to remember who i used to be and i am very inspired to beat the depression now and be comunicative and socialize well again! thanks for that

  • @ShelbiOh
    @ShelbiOh Před 2 lety

    Listening to this video made me feel so exposed! You were able to describe how I walk thru life by thoughts and feelings! One thing I would emphasize, I'm type T, is I require a lot of alone time, more than most people I know. I love to be social and can absolutely see my extroverted side, but have always considered myself introverted before discovering my true personality type, ENFP-T :)

  • @FunTime-wh2in
    @FunTime-wh2in Před 3 lety +280

    "You have a very big social circle"
    I'm the most hated person

    • @nakshatramusic21
      @nakshatramusic21 Před 3 lety +31

      Sending you a hug and lots of love ❤️💙

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 3 lety +30

      I have a pretty big social circle but I managed to piss off some people I used to call freinds eaither becuse I exist as queer and trans or I called them out on there racism. Or they just can't stand me overthinking everything but hey it's there loss not mine

    • @FunTime-wh2in
      @FunTime-wh2in Před 3 lety

      @@rzangyz3672 do you have a bad personality

    • @mrsblueberryproductions1783
      @mrsblueberryproductions1783 Před 3 lety +7

      @@rzangyz3672 AAAAAAA me too cuz I always end up saying things that either don’t make sense or are perceived as Insults ,it’s kinda discouraged me from being social to be honesttt-

    • @leticiaveras8001
      @leticiaveras8001 Před 3 lety

      ent

  • @enti1102
    @enti1102 Před 3 lety +505

    Me: An ENFP
    Also me: this needs more color, sparkles, and GLITTERR!!!!!!

  • @ellablesslimbuanfernandez1370

    Woah, you uploaded this on my birthday. I only noticed it just now.

  • @nourbenjannet2923
    @nourbenjannet2923 Před 2 lety

    Your voice is one of the most relaxing voices in the world! This is the reason why i watch your videos.🤩

  • @ginorincon9183
    @ginorincon9183 Před 3 lety +262

    I'm an ENFP with a very slight social anxiety twist, which made me think for years I was actually an INFP... but whenever the social anxiety is lower, the ENFP side REALLY shows ^^

    • @daynissh2550
      @daynissh2550 Před 2 lety +5

      SAMEE i just realized recently that i am more to extroverted side but (still needs time to be alone), I thought i was an infp too before

    • @GBS4893
      @GBS4893 Před 2 lety +5

      My wife, best friend and another of my friends are INFP's. They are really different since we tend to look at things with multiple angles as a system where we should intervene if need be while they are more like dreamers who watch things at a very personnal angle, one angle at a time. We look around us and take things in, they project their internal world on whatever's around. When you look at it our personalities are very different on key points, even though we have much in common with minor tendancies being major to the other and vice-versa. They also generally don't like to think our fluid all over the place way, they prefer to have a strong interior opinion even if it changes with their mood.
      However, remember that mbti is a tool that describes tendancies, not a guide. There are people out there trying to use it as a precise thing to reinforce sectarism these days...

    • @daynissh2550
      @daynissh2550 Před 2 lety +4

      @@GBS4893 yes i agree, mbti is just a medium to look at the stereotypes of the personalities, and imo it's not that accurate. However, it is still nice to know your and others personality type too.

    • @nikitamon
      @nikitamon Před 2 lety

      Dat me!!

    • @strawb3rrysuccubus
      @strawb3rrysuccubus Před 2 lety +2

      thats me !!!!!!! i thought i was an infp for a while too bc of my social anxiety

  • @veeveri
    @veeveri Před 3 lety +430

    INFJ here,
    I find you ENFP's so wonderfully amazing~

  • @WinstonHunt
    @WinstonHunt Před rokem +2

    I am an ENTP but I also have all the traits of a the ENFP so I think i'm both and overtime I have found I am just so loving that but also super teasing but also like to be mysterious and intellectual like the ENTP but I also have a lot of friends and I love to talk to people about everything but mostly there life goals and I feel like I don't know you until I know your what you want in life. But I also can do those extreme thinking functions and I love destroying a persons world view and building it back up,

  • @elvira9526
    @elvira9526 Před rokem

    the extreme remarks point is so accurate, you got me there.😅

  • @itsyourveil8015
    @itsyourveil8015 Před 3 lety +195

    As an ENFP myself, its hard for me to make people understand what am I saying. So most of the times, I just shut up and let my ideas be in my head.

    • @reneeevonrichardson3039
      @reneeevonrichardson3039 Před 2 lety +13

      You hit the nail on the head with that statement. I can totally relate. I feel like I really don't want to share unless somebody is really wanting to hear what I have to say.

    • @youtubechannel7736
      @youtubechannel7736 Před 2 lety +4

      THIS. THIS IS THE COMMENT.

    • @komalovais4825
      @komalovais4825 Před rokem

      SAMEE HERE 😭😭😭

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Před 3 lety +154

    Strength is not the ability to destroy the things you hate; true strength is the ability to build the things you love.

    • @indigofenrir7236
      @indigofenrir7236 Před 3 lety +13

      In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength.

    • @minera7595
      @minera7595 Před 3 lety +2

      @@indigofenrir7236
      Why is this qoute so familiar? Where is this great qoute from?

  • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
    @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 2 lety

    Tru on the open minded thing. I know I don't know everything and I really appreciate when people educate me politely (I grew up surrounded by people who shame your for not knowing certain things, so that really closed me up. But once I met my bestfriend - who has never shamed me and and instead shares her knowledge without sounding condescending - I have never felt shameful for asking since). Those conversations are really enjoyable.

  • @azariahmadden6728
    @azariahmadden6728 Před 2 lety

    Just discovered I'm an ENFP-T with ADHD which makes sense now. This video along with other resources has helped me not only realizing my behaviors but how to approach different things in life now.😊😊

  • @soph_theloaf
    @soph_theloaf Před 3 lety +271

    My sister, step-brother, and one of my closest friends are all ENFPs and this is definitely them

  • @ymerithebeloved
    @ymerithebeloved Před 3 lety +96

    i just wanna say that you enfps are super fun to be around and most of my friends are enfps. the world would be a boring place without you guys
    ~ w/ love, infp 🌱

    • @aimalisapro123
      @aimalisapro123 Před 2 lety +3

    • @ciao4580c
      @ciao4580c Před 2 lety +8

      we love you infps too🥺 u guys r sooooo cute and super funny I always think ahaha :))

    • @strawb3rrysuccubus
      @strawb3rrysuccubus Před 2 lety +2

      we love you infps too !! you guys are so sweet

  • @HumanVal
    @HumanVal Před 2 lety

    Best comment section ever, lovely to see other enfps going through same shit like me love it, your not alone brothers and sisters!

  • @ramkrishnsharma8364
    @ramkrishnsharma8364 Před rokem +1

    Being an ENFP .. people often get confused with you...
    Either they over estimate you..or underestimate...

  • @miyane447
    @miyane447 Před 3 lety +514

    This is so painfully accurate... the communication skills, creative part, always full of thoughts and ideas, keep making friends because of my extroverted side.
    But any other enfps struggle with vulnerability? Like i do tell my friends stuff but never too deep..?? Even my best friend. I guess i keep the stuff that bugs me the most to myself because i believe there is no point. I know myself best and i need to carry myself anyway somehow. I love being people’s therapist but i’ll never have the roles reversed lmao

    • @gracecelin
      @gracecelin Před 3 lety +3

      omg that's right!

    • @petrahany539
      @petrahany539 Před 3 lety +18

      This is true of the ENFP, because we are ' introverted feelers ' according to the 16 personalities website

    • @stephm117
      @stephm117 Před 2 lety +34

      Stop I've been therapist to everyone my entire life hence why I'm thinking about it as a future career, yet whenever I even cry in front of my family I feel horrendous and regret showing that vulnerability later. I also have to sort out many of the arguments in my friendship group because they can't do some simple communication 🤣
      So as a fellow ENFP I completely agree, that also could be down to my fucked up childhood tho. Maybe one day we can get better at being vulnerable, I can communicate everything through words but I can't show my own emotions it weird!!

    • @superraremartian
      @superraremartian Před 2 lety +3

      Same y'all it sucks

    • @charmainelee5085
      @charmainelee5085 Před 2 lety +26

      Yea i totally get that. Sharing almost everything, yet nothing at the same time. Because we don't trust them enough with our deepest secret for fear it may come and bite us later

  • @TheRealEnae
    @TheRealEnae Před 3 lety +161

    Not an ENFP, but I really appreciate that type! I usually get along well and fast with ENFPs and my ENFP friends are some of the funniest, creative and wholesome creatures I met! 💓

  • @jayddded
    @jayddded Před 2 lety +1

    I empathize for others and think outside of the box for EVERTHING. This has lead me to wonder what consciousness really is and what’s after physical life. I know some of you might think i’m crazy, but i get that. I’m not gonna be mad. I just was to inform others how i think. I want to help others succeed by supporting them emotionally and not judging, i like to imagine what one is going through and try to help one. I’m just ranting now, I’ll stop. Hope everyone is doing well!

  • @nurfboy7635
    @nurfboy7635 Před rokem

    Yeah, this ensured me this is mine. These points hit me spot on.

  • @urphakeandgey6308
    @urphakeandgey6308 Před 2 lety +107

    I've found that as an ENFP, my friend groups are actually quite small. I usually only regularly interact with a few people. The people that simply like and respect me go far beyond that. Often beyond my expectations.
    I tend to realise this when I leave a job, club, or any other artificially large social group. People I don't talk to much will suddenly give their farewells and so forth. People that I don't know the names of will also know my name.

    • @Profit.of.Evil777
      @Profit.of.Evil777 Před 2 lety +7

      bruh on god everyday at school somebody new will walk up to me and act like we have been friends for years and i cant even remember there name its so strange.

    • @johnjaemarried9863
      @johnjaemarried9863 Před 2 lety +1

      Oh my god this is ME

    • @sti1296
      @sti1296 Před 10 měsíci +3

      It's true, my classmates praised me a lot when we finished our studies, even the little gestures I made like when I came late to the class, I will apologize and bend my back a little to show my sincerity and somehow everyone in my class said that I'm a genuine person and I have a good attitude. I feel happy tho. People are also happy when they see me and remember me even though i dont remember them, im sorry for that but i cant remember people faces and names easily

    • @a.moodycolor6436
      @a.moodycolor6436 Před 5 měsíci

      I’m glad you said this! Because honestly this made me think maybe I’m not the right personality type LOL

    • @ohohpelia2166
      @ohohpelia2166 Před 3 měsíci

      Same!! Even though I'm extroverted, and talk to many people I only keep a few people close! And I'm happy with that!

  • @eirinie418
    @eirinie418 Před 2 lety +59

    If after every relationship either romantic or not you hear “I learned a lot from you and you changed my approach to life? thank you.” please leave a like here.

  • @tannawang
    @tannawang Před 2 lety +1

    Wow this is so accurate! So much fun being an enfp

  • @ChocolateSarahPinkLove

    OMGGGGGG THIS VIDEO IS PERFEECTTTTT

  • @avengedslay
    @avengedslay Před 3 lety +146

    I'm an enfp but was recently hurt by my recent circle of friends for being too agreeable and not having strong opinions on things.
    The recent events pushed me to self harm and such and I've been recovering since then through counselling .

    • @hiii4218
      @hiii4218 Před 3 lety +11

      I'm so happy your getting help, it's not always easy but just know that even though I don't know you, I'm so proud of you. You are so strong and beautiful, and will find better friends that deserve you, love you ❤

    • @moved5272
      @moved5272 Před 3 lety +1

      🌈

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 3 lety +7

      Yeah I have a really good friend that I'll often get frustrated at becuse he used to just agree with me on alot of things and I'm like bro you can call me out if I say something stupid. It's frustrating when people don't have different perspectives or ideas on things.

    • @constancesmoothpiee1286
      @constancesmoothpiee1286 Před 3 lety +4

      You know as ENFPs we are open for talking

    • @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680
      @aisyahanqzahrinalutfia9680 Před 3 lety +1

      Same it feels like they're too passive..
      Btw hope you be better, keep strong 💜

  • @thewea3042
    @thewea3042 Před 3 lety +179

    Whoever saw this comment, or not, I wish you have a good week and a happy Easter holiday. I love you all ❤ :D

  • @patriciomoreno6873
    @patriciomoreno6873 Před rokem +1

    I'm an ENFP, I literally have a lot of ideas going on in my mind, I have phases in my life when I'm obsessed with singers and I have to know their biography and their records, the meaning of their songs, etc. My last trauma is Christina Aguilera, I watched documentaries, interviews, and fan videos, I joined fan groups and now I can tell I know Christina Aguilera.
    Same with Pyscology, marketing, etc.

  • @Jiminieforever
    @Jiminieforever Před 3 měsíci +1

    As an enfp i feel that my social circle depends on my state of mind . If im feeling happy , free and just living my best , I'll talk to a lot of people , put a lot of effort in ocmmunicating , be there for everyone etc . But if im in a slump or am depressed i can only talk to max 3-4 people

  • @notrealyBea
    @notrealyBea Před 3 lety +79

    INTJs looking at this: is this my future lover?
    lmao

  • @ThisisFit
    @ThisisFit Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the cute animated breakdown! I'm an ENFP but I don't really know MBTI at all--more of an Enneagram personality test fan, so I really appreciated some clear information^^ I'm an American living in South Korea and it's just as popular here to ask people their MBTI type, so I needed to learn! 😇

  • @1tz_n0ur_th3_qu33n
    @1tz_n0ur_th3_qu33n Před 2 lety

    Well im an ENFP and im happy for the opinion about us.💖 love your videos😁

  • @119r189
    @119r189 Před 3 lety +58

    Enfp always have a desire to be appreciated and lauded in their groups. This is how they motivate themselves, I believe. Also, they want to hear criticism well dressed as positive feedback...

    • @Calleigh979
      @Calleigh979 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Exactly! I want people to state what I did well first then tell me what I can improve

  • @YEDxYED
    @YEDxYED Před 3 lety +48

    I can easily talk to people but it’s difficult for me to commit to new friends.

  • @eliascastaneda9481
    @eliascastaneda9481 Před 2 lety

    I love this, definitely one of my favorite videos. I relate a ton on this one

  • @Thedesertguy75
    @Thedesertguy75 Před 2 lety +1

    Its such a great personality type to be but also like a curse in this rigid mechanical system we live in. I can flourish at anything except keeping a routine oriented job...that I struggle with.....I have to feel free and flexible....its a must....I cant stand being told what to do, and being micromanaged. Sometimes I feel like i have to be self employed or it has to be something that is fun and exciting but has a limit to it. Like a seasonal thing, then moving on.....I just love change....
    I love photography, travel, humor, deep conversation, acting, and making/creating ideas and things. My worst enemy is being bored or feeling isolated from the world....or if I feel like I dont fit in....which is often...lol