Kassandra and Daniel are divorced. Daniel was ordered to pay $500 in child support. He has started making an additional $5,000 a month and Kassandra wants an increase in child support.
Social media may be the reason he is getting some of these extra gigs. His best move is to be honest about how much he is earning. He certainly isn’t seeing his kids nor does he sound very interested in their future.
@C&G/G&C - What’s sad is he doesn’t seem to care much about his kids in general. Spending a long weekend every couple months means you’re seeing your kids about 18 days a year.
Shoot…..I pay $300 a week on groceries and household items for a family of 4. We don’t eat out often, and I cook almost everything from scratch. Between, breakfast, lunch, snacks, and dinner….I easily spend $300 a week….and I coupon A LOT!
@@tempeztad “manage better the money”. Um…..nah…..I have no control over infatuation and issues associated with framers and such. Maybe you should “manage better” some education before you reply on something you know nothing about.
He was getting away with murder. To hear him talk about a savings account with 3-children and no health insurance. But, I must say, he was very respectful to the Judge.
Oh, the kids had health coverage - thanks to the taxpayers! How can the fathers get away with not paying for the basic necessities for their children yet be building up their savings “for a rainy day”? A sick child is the ultimate downpour.
I love this judge she gets right to the point, $500 a month for 3kids,and when he shrugs his shoulder l buy clothes she’s saying “parenting”. This dad comes across as not wanting his kids,sad
Maybe if he was able to spend more time with the kids on a residential basis, he would enjoy his kids, but possessive mother is too jealous. The blonde parasite. Can you imagine what would happen to her in Iran.
@@jpaobThe dad said he was tired from working a lot and he did not feel up to taking care of the children. So there you have it, the "blonde parasite" as you disrespectfully called her without even knowing that person, did not deny access or time to the father with his kids. The father is the one not wanting to spend time with the kids or properly help support them. That lady works full time and is the primary care provider of those kids, so pray tell us how is it that you consider her to be a parasite. Based on the evidence he seems to be like a deadbeat dad, and selfish too. All you heard him saying was "me, me, me, my future" but he was not thinking about his children's present or future. Either you did not watch the episode in its entirety or you have a very warped understanding between what is right or wrong.
"parenting kids takes a lot of effort and I don't think I'm up for it" A thought that should have been brought up before baby #1 was even made let alone 3.
Watching these makes me amazed at how many parents don't think they need to take care of their kids. In the future it's going to be interesting if the kids eventually see these videos of their parents trying to get out of helping support them
It won't be pretty if they do, they will really turn on him, especially since they had to watch their mother ask for money to take care of them, that is going to piss them off ROYAL!
@@HackerActivist it amazes me how so many women break up the home and then expect the guy to produce even. Maintaining two households is very expensive most people can’t do it. Then on top of that if he is such a bad guy why did she have 3 children with this guy. People need to stop creating their own hell and then don’t want to live in it.
My co-worker (male) and i were discussing this judge, and he told me how he just got awarded $300 a month child support because his ex makes more money. He was saying how it makes him uncomfortable; and I explained that it's not about his comfort its for his sons comfort and at minimum he can start a savings account with the support money. So some of the stigma is still men not feeling "comfortable" being paid to take care of their children.
Poor mom in this case looks aged beyond her years. I can't imagine how hard it was to raise those kids basically alone with barely enough support for food on the table.
this is the 4th or 5th one of her videos ... i think she is awesome. i have never disagreed with her findings. but maybe im only seeing ones that are very clear cut like these have been. we need a lot more of her type in the world. Ms. Vonda ROCKS!
There is 1 case that had me disagree with her slightly considering the case. What she told the father/husband to do was within law the correct thing to do even if it was in our view a "unfair" deal.
He’s too TIRED to take his kids? Really? And on the weekends he can’t be bothered with them, Mom still has to feed and entertain them. I know it’s a reality show but I still wanted to throttle him.
want to say thank you. i would watch ur videos when i was going thur my custody. and i did learn a lot from it. from visiation, to child support and options for custody. it helped me during my progress to terminate permant custody with a guardian in 2008 to filing a motion 2020 for solo . i won solo 9/2020! ur video are verryyyyyyyyy education/helpful !!!!! i didnt even know i could re-open my case. and during 2008-2020 i was paying my child support but she only allowed me to see her for one hour weekly, 4hrs a month. sad ......but i proved that was not in the best interest of my child... :) ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty like ty
Judge Vonda B. I live for these youtube clips... Thanks for keeping it real and authentic.. "It's the right thing to do" my FAVORITE quote from you....lol P.S my phone is set up to receive alerts every time a new episode comes out :-) Enjoy your day and stay Safe!
i dont know about that state but i know quite a few dont consider tips into it because its not a set amount and not guaranteed, the reason behind it is that a person can claim you make thousands a week when it was a one off thing and only average maybe 100 a week. when my sister took her ex to court for it they wouldnt even calculate overtime into it for the same reason.
Maybe not classified as income, but this man made 3 kids, maybe if he volunteered money if he made more instead of holding it for his future only! He barely spends time with the kids because he is tired and parenting is hard? Come on! He should have suited up.
Awarded Support on money he MIGHT MAKE a month. Thats BS. He couldnt just give her a lil bit on the side, he was stupid. "Hey baby look, I made some extra cash this month, take half because idk how long its gonna last."
If it Was me I wouldnt have told her how much I made I would've said i got lucky this time but I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to afford to live on my own
OMG!!! I really hate guys like this. He makes the rest of us look bad. For I was raised if you play you pay. Or am I like one of the few males on the planet that actually understands the concept of why one pays support. Hell even during that fun year if 2020 as bad as I was hit I still did everything I could to give support, to the point I actually physically lost 20lbs just so I could send something. Not to mention when the ex (during her bouts of sanity) if she ever asked for any help I had no problem helping out when/wherever possible. Like the judge said it's called parenting!
You were raised right. That's what it comes down to, my father always told me that we take responsibility for our actions good or bad. Sounds like someone told you the same thing.
@@vin7786 well that is an option, however my advice is just make sure if you decide to play that you properly vet the person your with. Granted you'll stay single longer, BUT the quality of the person gets better.
It's unfortunate that when u separate from a partner the kids always pay the price. Some parents share to much information with the kids to try and turn them against the other parent. Some times non custodian parent doesn't want to give up any time for their kids or pay child support, or they are unfit to be around the kid. Yep kids paying the price for adults immature behaviour
She said evidence but he just didn’t dispute it. He could’ve kept support the same but that’s wrong of him for treating the kids like that. It made me mad his support only went up $1100
He didn't respond because he didn't know how to defend himself. English is not his first language. He was saying all the wrong things. She bullied him. But the kids could use the money for their everyday needs, it's a win for the kids
this is just recreating an actual case, but there’s actually a lot of men who don’t switch up until the second or third child. I think it could have something to do on gender, yk how many men only like to accept and spend time with their sons and don’t love their daughters as much.
@@joseflores3773 Well the gender of the kids really wasn't an issue or even mentioned here ... So yeah .. And also yes statistically both perents usually will spend different times with ,a child . Mothers and daughters have more in common just like dads and sons . And the bigger they get the less time they will spend together . Since a father accompanying his daughter to the female clothing section to buy here her first bra or other feminen things is usually not something the father or daughter would really like ,but if it was the mother no problem . Same could be said for ,a growing boy . But in the end it does depend on the family and on the people and their own mentality . So yeah I get what you are saying but from the lines that this father is using it looks like he only cares for his money .
Mom never gets a break being a mom is 24/7 and apparently this guy doesn’t understand this mom doesn’t stop being a mom and you take your children not just once in awhile taking them
This dad is just making excuses upon excuses upon excuses he thinks by doing things for the kids time to time makes him a decent dad and like he is a hero type just for taking care of his kids
“You should buy them backpacks, you should take them on long weekend “ then they should have shared custody. Also, if your husband make so much that he pays 1.5k a month in child support how are they on medicaid?
I paid $500 a month for my daughter. She just turned 18 in May. So grateful 🙏 to be done no rears and it's feels like a great accomplishment 🙌. The 1st thing I'm gonna treat myself is a new car. I have always put my daughter 1st. I had her every other weekend and also had to buy things for her when she stayed with me. A long journey I'm proud of self. I never complain I just know I did my part 💯
@@yagoelsicario you speak of things you don't know know it all, but know nothing of my life and how things came to be. You gave me a good laugh cause people like you are negative AF and think your smart.
The system is unfair. The support is supposed to go for HALF the kids expenses, not all of it. 2.. there is no guarantee that money is being used for the kids. Most of the time the parent uses for themselves. 3.. support should not be solely based off what the person makes. If i was paying 300 a month for 1 child and then got a better job... that has absolutely no impact on half the cost of raising that child. If 300 was good enough last month, what makes this month 200 dollars more expensive? The answer is nothing. It's called greed by the other parent. I have never had to pay child support cause i had custody of the kids. I certainly did not ask for support. We talked about it and agreed to go in half on everything... as it should be. Oh and another thing. Just because one parent wants something for their child, doesn't mean said child has to have it or actually needs it. No kid needs $150 pair of shoes. or more than a couple of pairs of shoes for that matter. Make-up is a luxury. A computer/tablet/cell phone is a luxury, not a need. Utilities are barely impacted by kids, least if you have strict ground rules... no 30-45 minute showers. Turn off the unused lights. Close the damned door. Water out of the faucet is just fine, you don't need a water from a bottle.. etc etc. Air conditioning is not a need. We didn't have any of these thing as kids and we didn't die, or were negatively impacted as a kid. There is a BIG difference in a need vs a want. I am not saying that kids shouldn't be able to have these luxuries. What i am saying is any parent should not be forced to pay money in support for such things. Support if for Clothes, food and medical expenses. You can't calculate rent or a mortgage into it because that person would be paying one of them anyways, with or without a child. There is an argument for the cost differential for the extra bedroom... but each parent is responsible for half that expense like all the others. That should be based of the average cost. Not because the custodial parent decided to move into a house that costs 900k bucks rather than one at 400k that would be comparable. (some people just like to live in ritzy neighborhoods they can't afford as a status symbol). Like I mentioned from the onset. The system is deeply flawed. Very little money actually goes to support the kids. The parent usually spends it on themselves. Too many parents are being taken advantaged of by the other parent. Notice i never mentioned Mom or dad. The system screws both.
@@chaddlindsay9909 my child's mother put me up for a modification under the income numbers she claims she makes $400 a month gross.. and they literally believed it without even verifying
Celebrity Parties..🤔$5K a month( appox.).. good thing they didn't discuss tips.. now JV no 🍵sip BUT, your other giveaway for the " don't play with me" ..perched lips..( like "yeah right").. he said he needs a break.. but I caught something which may be Y u asked, do u have any other children, there was a pause... again later same question , like is there something u want to tell us,, again a pause.... love love love the show..
Sis your such a gem 🥰😇 ok you can only be one person at one place, at one time but we need you everywhere! You are a pure soul 🤍 thank God I ran into your videos! Perfect example for a girls and women, even some men anyway keep your uniqueness alive love speaks volumes ✔️📌🤍🥰
I’m 22 me and my mom went to the courts my whole life and I would receive on occasion one dollar a month. He got away with owing us 40,000$. It’s fu**ing ridiculous. He would get away with it by putting his ones in his family’s accounts. The courts never helps us.
I wish I had seen your videos in high school when my parents were going through the family court for a custody case so I could learn to help my father get the 4 of us kids
Sounds to me like Dad should have the kids, hes making way more money and is way more financialy stable and viable. He can buy them insurence when they live with him.
I have just ONE child and let me just say this $550 is NOT enough for the Month ! I Add $350 and sometimes more of “My Money” so my daughter is set for the month, it is my job as well to support my daughter of course but my point is that this woman is right $500 really is Not enough, especially for 3 KIDS !!
Those child support tables need to be abolished. There should be a standardized amount that every parent has to pay. There should be no income based scale for child support. Further, custody should always be 50/50 out of the gate no child support and that puts an end to this nonsense. Men are tired of this rip-off. The judges purposely award the children to women in order to extract resources from the men. Marriage is a financial ripoff. This guy's income is sporadic and yet now he's paying a fixed amount of scalable child support to his wife not for the benefit of the children but for the wife and that's what it's all about. It's disgraceful. And men are done with this. More of us are learning the games of ripoff and it's rigged. In the end the losers are going to be women because we're not playing.
Man... I'm fine with modification but from what he was saying he makes $5000 when he's lucky for a big party. Those aren't always consistent. Sometimes you're LUCKY to make that in a month. Now, if his circumstances changed through his employer and he was making a consistent $5000/month that's great for him. But I highly doubt that was the case. He communicated it very poorly to the judge.
The judge said it was based on $60,000 a year. My question is does he get the salary every month and how long has he been getting the extra work? The judge made assumptions that he works extra all the time.
The father’s attitude suggests there is more to his story, I wish judge Vonda asked him more about this circumstances, he is polite and he doesn’t give any evil parent vibe.
"You hadn't said anything that moved me." ---with the straight face. 😂😂😂. Judge Vonda took me out.
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@@JudgeVondaB sorry but you need to call out theses deadbeats more. U do a dent job, they are a bit slow to pick up on that.
@5:20 loved it. She's amazing & adorable. We love you, Judge. Keep it going. 💯
And... she spottet, that he might have more than 3 kids! She see it all in a splitsec!
Its these types of comments and this type of energy that makes me love her.
That is why you don't go on social media to brag about how much money you are making.
Social media may be the reason he is getting some of these extra gigs. His best move is to be honest about how much he is earning. He certainly isn’t seeing his kids nor does he sound very interested in their future.
@C&G/G&C - What’s sad is he doesn’t seem to care much about his kids in general. Spending a long weekend every couple months means you’re seeing your kids about 18 days a year.
@@joytoyouandme4593 These are all actors, but damn they're good
Or you can just support the kids you made
@@agentwade - These are based on true scenarios.
$500 for 3 kids
Vonda: nope $1.6k a MONTH
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She doesn’t get the $450, it goes to the government for Medicaid reimbursement. But she will be getting over double the $500.
Is really $1,150 but is still double 😅
Woot🎉 woot!
Vonda: you have any questions about that lol 😆
@Donald Lumpkin yup kids are expensive but it's worth it
500$ for 3 kids??!
Groceries for a month cost more than this a month.
No they don’t. Unless you are eating out every day and only cooking bougie meals it does not cost $500 a month for 3 CHILDREN to eat.
I couldn’t get $50 for two (2) children
Shoot…..I pay $300 a week on groceries and household items for a family of 4. We don’t eat out often, and I cook almost everything from scratch. Between, breakfast, lunch, snacks, and dinner….I easily spend $300 a week….and I coupon A LOT!
@@aliciam.683 then you need to manage better the money
@@tempeztad “manage better the money”. Um…..nah…..I have no control over infatuation and issues associated with framers and such. Maybe you should “manage better” some education before you reply on something you know nothing about.
He was getting away with murder. To hear him talk about a savings account with 3-children and no health insurance. But, I must say, he was very respectful to the Judge.
Oh, the kids had health coverage - thanks to the taxpayers! How can the fathers get away with not paying for the basic necessities for their children yet be building up their savings “for a rainy day”? A sick child is the ultimate downpour.
This is not real....they are skits. The comments are way better 😅🤣😆😅🤣🤣
@@mylifeinanutshell6931 Why am I not surprised?
@@penseyfrancis464 read the description and watch the end....
How can the mothers get away without taking care of their children? SMH 🤦♂️
I love this judge she gets right to the point, $500 a month for 3kids,and when he shrugs his shoulder l buy clothes she’s saying “parenting”. This dad comes across as not wanting his kids,sad
Maybe if he was able to spend more time with the kids on a residential basis, he would enjoy his kids, but possessive mother is too jealous. The blonde parasite. Can you imagine what would happen to her in Iran.
@@jpaobThe dad said he was tired from working a lot and he did not feel up to taking care of the children. So there you have it, the "blonde parasite" as you disrespectfully called her without even knowing that person, did not deny access or time to the father with his kids. The father is the one not wanting to spend time with the kids or properly help support them. That lady works full time and is the primary care provider of those kids, so pray tell us how is it that you consider her to be a parasite. Based on the evidence he seems to be like a deadbeat dad, and selfish too. All you heard him saying was "me, me, me, my future" but he was not thinking about his children's present or future. Either you did not watch the episode in its entirety or you have a very warped understanding between what is right or wrong.
This woman is amazing. She can calmly sit there and deal with these crazy people. God Bless you
Judge Vonda B is probably my favourite judge 🙂I love the way she deals with them in her own personal way.
😂🤣 He was so serious about that 1 long weekend🤣🤣
Judge: "you haven't said anything that moved me"...... 💀
"parenting kids takes a lot of effort and I don't think I'm up for it"
A thought that should have been brought up before baby #1 was even made let alone 3.
Exactly! I wanted to say “so you think she’s up for it? 🤨”
It came out pretty bad but it seemed he was saying he is tired after working all the time
@@cliffordkelleher0142
Imagine working AND raising 3 kids-that’s what she’s doing.
Watching these makes me amazed at how many parents don't think they need to take care of their kids. In the future it's going to be interesting if the kids eventually see these videos of their parents trying to get out of helping support them
It won't be pretty if they do, they will really turn on him, especially since they had to watch their mother ask for money to take care of them, that is going to piss them off ROYAL!
Painful
Thankfully for the kids. These people are actors reenacting scenarios.
This has been happening for generations people have kids but have no paternal instict
Exactly
Lol ok so his issue is “I don’t have time for these kids judge! They’re in the way of living my best life! 😩” 😐😐😐😐😐
Ikr.
Him-And he’s saving up money….
Judge: …for your kids
Him: yeah them too ( but mostly him)
😂😂😂😂
He said "Parenting takes a lot of effort and sometimes I don't feel up to it". 🤣🤣🤣 Let me go tell my husband I'm not up for it today.
What really pissed me off was the fact that he said what if i lose my job with a smirk 😠😠
Said every dead beat all over the world! But won’t hesitate to help the next female take care of her kids 🙄
I love the look on her face when she says “PARENTING!” She lookin at him concerned.
Her response “ PARENTING “ 😭
He sounds like he doesn't want to be a dad no more. Like he's giving up on he's own children. That sucks because children feel that
He’s earning that much extra per month yet he never thought of doing more for his own family - selfish
And what’s wrong with her producing more?
He need house too
@@sturmbreakers7817 he isn't even visiting them or anything what's wrong with a man stepping up
@@HackerActivist it amazes me how so many women break up the home and then expect the guy to produce even. Maintaining two households is very expensive most people can’t do it. Then on top of that if he is such a bad guy why did she have 3 children with this guy. People need to stop creating their own hell and then don’t want to live in it.
don't break up the home and you won't have to worry about this leeches like y'all the reason men don't want kids
My co-worker (male) and i were discussing this judge, and he told me how he just got awarded $300 a month child support because his ex makes more money. He was saying how it makes him uncomfortable; and I explained that it's not about his comfort its for his sons comfort and at minimum he can start a savings account with the support money. So some of the stigma is still men not feeling "comfortable" being paid to take care of their children.
I was comfortable getting support.
Poor mom in this case looks aged beyond her years. I can't imagine how hard it was to raise those kids basically alone with barely enough support for food on the table.
White people look like that though. They’ll be 30 but look 45.
@@CLAYMOR916 That's a very racist comment!
@@jacqui2651 yes but facts though
These are actors and the cases are based on real cases.
@@LisaMia55 don’t derive from my statement tho
this is the 4th or 5th one of her videos ... i think she is awesome. i have never disagreed with her findings. but maybe im only seeing ones that are very clear cut like these have been. we need a lot more of her type in the world. Ms. Vonda ROCKS!
There is 1 case that had me disagree with her slightly considering the case. What she told the father/husband to do was within law the correct thing to do even if it was in our view a "unfair" deal.
Love her! She’s awesome!
So when are you going to get this on Cable TV
He’s too TIRED to take his kids? Really? And on the weekends he can’t be bothered with them, Mom still has to feed and entertain them. I know it’s a reality show but I still wanted to throttle him.
Well, he IS working all that overtime to make that extra money she wants to attach. :)
@@mattstorey7256 she’s working too while taking care of the 3 kids…
@@messiahmoon4601yeah, working on keeping the kids to herself.
want to say thank you. i would watch ur videos when i was going thur my custody. and i did learn a lot from it. from visiation, to child support and options for custody. it helped me during my progress to terminate permant custody with a guardian in 2008 to filing a motion 2020 for solo . i won solo 9/2020! ur video are verryyyyyyyyy education/helpful !!!!! i didnt even know i could re-open my case. and during 2008-2020 i was paying my child support but she only allowed me to see her for one hour weekly, 4hrs a month. sad ......but i proved that was not in the best interest of my child... :) ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty like ty
You’re very welcome!! This made me smile. I’m so happy the videos helped you!
Judge Vonda B. I live for these youtube clips... Thanks for keeping it real and authentic.. "It's the right thing to do" my FAVORITE quote from you....lol P.S my phone is set up to receive alerts every time a new episode comes out :-) Enjoy your day and stay Safe!
Thank you so much for the support Charles!😊
😂😂 it’s not real tho… these are skits this isn’t a real court
@@gringa978. But they are based on real life cases.
Tips should not be considered income as it is not consistent. If she gets medicade it is free.
“You haven’t said anything that moved me” 😂😂😂
Am I the only one who thinks 'tips' shouldn't be classed as a wage or increased wage? Because lets face it, your not guaranteed that money.
Welcome to the stupidity of the court system. What he does for the kids and planning ahead for his life does not matter.
i dont know about that state but i know quite a few dont consider tips into it because its not a set amount and not guaranteed, the reason behind it is that a person can claim you make thousands a week when it was a one off thing and only average maybe 100 a week. when my sister took her ex to court for it they wouldnt even calculate overtime into it for the same reason.
Any money is income when it comes to child support
@@Chris_RLM Fun time is over for dad, kids need to eat. Time to sacrifice Romeo
Maybe not classified as income, but this man made 3 kids, maybe if he volunteered money if he made more instead of holding it for his future only! He barely spends time with the kids because he is tired and parenting is hard? Come on! He should have suited up.
"It’s the right thing to do’. I love this judge❤️
Man, if parents didn't have go parent when they're "tired" wouldn't it just be so easy. 🤦🏼♀️
I got excited thinking the new episode was out, I clicked so fast just to be sad 😭 6 more hours 🙌🏼🥲 can’t wait! Love you Judge Vonda!
"Parenting!" LMAO made me laugh so hard. "From time to time..." Oh Jeez, this guy is such a selfish jerk.
This video had me in tears laughing. His child support more than tripled 😂😂😂. That’s what he get.
Vonda "you got any questions about that"
Him "no" lol
Love ya Vonda B!
Why didn’t she base the child support off his total income instead of just the extra income he made?
My thoughts exactly! No wonder he readily accepted because he knows he is only paying on a percentage!
I just found myself watching these videos all day I love ‘em 😂🤣😂🤦🏼♂️
He thinks he is the babysitter... SMH...
Awarded Support on money he MIGHT MAKE a month. Thats BS.
He couldnt just give her a lil bit on the side, he was stupid.
"Hey baby look, I made some extra cash this month, take half because idk how long its gonna last."
why would she be awarded $2500 extra on top of the $500 he had to give her because he made extra? that sounds stupid and really simpish
Right he could of slid her a few hundred a month extra cash that's what he gets posting on social media
If it Was me I wouldnt have told her how much I made I would've said i got lucky this time but I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to afford to live on my own
@@ap3055 It's for the kids. Or he could've just kept his mouth shut. Cause thats not guaranteed money.
@@jackdaniels2657 and you would be a whack individual. Not disclosing how much you make so you don't have to take care of your kids?! Smh
Ugh ! This guy ...
" ... I'm not feeling up to parenting"
Makes me wanna SCREAM !
If you don't want to be parent,don't have kids,simple. He's tired and doesn't want to care for them. What does he think she's doing every single day?
So true, first one could have been an accident, but if you still don't feel up to ... just don't make more
Thank you Judge for your amazing understanding.
OMG!!! I really hate guys like this. He makes the rest of us look bad. For I was raised if you play you pay. Or am I like one of the few males on the planet that actually understands the concept of why one pays support. Hell even during that fun year if 2020 as bad as I was hit I still did everything I could to give support, to the point I actually physically lost 20lbs just so I could send something. Not to mention when the ex (during her bouts of sanity) if she ever asked for any help I had no problem helping out when/wherever possible. Like the judge said it's called parenting!
My fiance offered 1k a month in support when we briefly broke up to raise our daughter. I thought it was pretty generous
You were raised right. That's what it comes down to, my father always told me that we take responsibility for our actions good or bad. Sounds like someone told you the same thing.
I'm staying single forever
@@vin7786 well that is an option, however my advice is just make sure if you decide to play that you properly vet the person your with. Granted you'll stay single longer, BUT the quality of the person gets better.
Great advice but for me I've cheated on pretty much every girl I had so that's why I stick too strip clubs and massages!
It's unfortunate that when u separate from a partner the kids always pay the price. Some parents share to much information with the kids to try and turn them against the other parent. Some times non custodian parent doesn't want to give up any time for their kids or pay child support, or they are unfit to be around the kid. Yep kids paying the price for adults immature behaviour
Honestly makes me laugh because it's based off true exchanges 🤣🤣
That's called parenting. Priceless
I just now subscribed to this channel and it is so worth it I've been binge watching every single episode 🥰🥰
Same! 😂😂
Judge Vonda always keepin it real! Gotta love it!
Moms have to go through that everyday, on top of working!!! Rain, sleet, or snow!!! We get no break unless someone takes them for the weekend.
They choose to have kids more often then not so, no sympathy from me on that one.
@Mikeyprs21 Your sympathy wasn't requested.
Good day.
So glad I stumbled upon this channel. Instant subscriber.
Hi beautiful Judge Vonda B! Your a inspiration!
She said evidence but he just didn’t dispute it. He could’ve kept support the same but that’s wrong of him for treating the kids like that. It made me mad his support only went up $1100
Who are you to decide how much he should pay?
Well he is probably making more,thats why he didn't contest the number. So he came in to give the dog a bone.
He didn't respond because he didn't know how to defend himself. English is not his first language. He was saying all the wrong things. She bullied him. But the kids could use the money for their everyday needs, it's a win for the kids
@@asnelcharles very true! 🇧🇷😳
It actually only went up about a hundred a month or so since he had to pay more than 400 a month back to medicaid.
Well this is ,a bad father ...How did she even have 1 kid with him and then agree to have 2 more ....holy...the bad choice ...
this is just recreating an actual case, but there’s actually a lot of men who don’t switch up until the second or third child. I think it could have something to do on gender, yk how many men only like to accept and spend time with their sons and don’t love their daughters as much.
@@joseflores3773 not a recreation, its all hypothetical
@@joseflores3773 Well the gender of the kids really wasn't an issue or even mentioned here ... So yeah .. And also yes statistically both perents usually will spend different times with ,a child . Mothers and daughters have more in common just like dads and sons . And the bigger they get the less time they will spend together . Since a father accompanying his daughter to the female clothing section to buy here her first bra or other feminen things is usually not something the father or daughter would really like ,but if it was the mother no problem . Same could be said for ,a growing boy . But in the end it does depend on the family and on the people and their own mentality . So yeah I get what you are saying but from the lines that this father is using it looks like he only cares for his money .
I cracked up Everytime she said "parenting, parenting, parenting..."
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This dude got his car repod by bounty hunter D. And now he got summoned to support court. 😂😂
Wow
This was my favorite case only because they were both civil and I believe outcome was justified you do a great job judge!
I just love these episodes, wishes it was a scheduled program on network Tv. 📺
Why? Do you enjoy commercials?
Mom never gets a break being a mom is 24/7 and apparently this guy doesn’t understand this mom doesn’t stop being a mom and you take your children not just once in awhile taking them
Maybe Mommie Dearest doesn't want Dad having the kids too often because she is too jealous.
I love how this judge explains the cases and some basic laws at the end of the episodes. It's good knowledge to have :)
This dad is just making excuses upon excuses upon excuses he thinks by doing things for the kids time to time makes him a decent dad and like he is a hero type just for taking care of his kids
Gotta love this dude didn’t argue, he agreed and that was it, can’t say that for the other videos I’ve seen
I love hearing her going HAM on that calculator ❤😂
I love this judge so much!
I don’t much care for this man but I will say he reacted with more respect than previous ones have.
Don't think many care for you either.
“You should buy them backpacks, you should take them on long weekend “ then they should have shared custody. Also, if your husband make so much that he pays 1.5k a month in child support how are they on medicaid?
Great question.
If neither parent pays for or has access to private health insurance, this happens.
In Texas, they don't take child support into consideration when it comes to state assistance.
Seems like he's complaining and using and giving excuses to justify not having to support them 🙄
"I mow lawns...I bus tables...I wash dishes...I just don't post this to IG..."
the audacity of this man has me fuming. i feel so bad for the mom.
I don’t. She’s greedy.
@@dcg590 are you serious?
@@dcg590 500 for 3 kids is nothing lol
Kayla, I don't feel bad for this Mommie Dearest. In Iran she would end up like Mahsa Amini.
Her responsibility get of the internet sad he his money his choice simple
i got confused by the title and thought she was going to order the guy to pay 5k a month i was like shit is that even legal
He should give her a thousand without complains
I paid $500 a month for my daughter. She just turned 18 in May. So grateful 🙏 to be done no rears and it's feels like a great accomplishment 🙌. The 1st thing I'm gonna treat myself is a new car. I have always put my daughter 1st. I had her every other weekend and also had to buy things for her when she stayed with me. A long journey I'm proud of self. I never complain I just know I did my part 💯
Wow, you did the bare minimum for your child. You deserve that new car
@@alexisvela1 I did more than bare minimum always a negative fool in the crowd🤡
Good for you! Much respect you took care of your child and spent time with them🤗❤️
If you had to pay child support, that means you didn’t put your daughter first
@@yagoelsicario you speak of things you don't know know it all, but know nothing of my life and how things came to be. You gave me a good laugh cause people like you are negative AF and think your smart.
$5,000 in tips as a Bartender 😯
Waiting for justice is cruel and unusual punishment.
Wow those looks from the judge are awesome 😁🤣 I love her❤️💖👍🙌🏾
Straight after court he took the next flight back to Guatemala 😂
He paying 500 dollars for 3 kids and people say child support is unfair 😒😑
Keep ur legs closed or stay with the man
The system is unfair. The support is supposed to go for HALF the kids expenses, not all of it. 2.. there is no guarantee that money is being used for the kids. Most of the time the parent uses for themselves. 3.. support should not be solely based off what the person makes. If i was paying 300 a month for 1 child and then got a better job... that has absolutely no impact on half the cost of raising that child. If 300 was good enough last month, what makes this month 200 dollars more expensive? The answer is nothing. It's called greed by the other parent. I have never had to pay child support cause i had custody of the kids. I certainly did not ask for support. We talked about it and agreed to go in half on everything... as it should be.
Oh and another thing. Just because one parent wants something for their child, doesn't mean said child has to have it or actually needs it. No kid needs $150 pair of shoes. or more than a couple of pairs of shoes for that matter. Make-up is a luxury. A computer/tablet/cell phone is a luxury, not a need. Utilities are barely impacted by kids, least if you have strict ground rules... no 30-45 minute showers. Turn off the unused lights. Close the damned door. Water out of the faucet is just fine, you don't need a water from a bottle.. etc etc. Air conditioning is not a need. We didn't have any of these thing as kids and we didn't die, or were negatively impacted as a kid. There is a BIG difference in a need vs a want. I am not saying that kids shouldn't be able to have these luxuries. What i am saying is any parent should not be forced to pay money in support for such things. Support if for Clothes, food and medical expenses. You can't calculate rent or a mortgage into it because that person would be paying one of them anyways, with or without a child. There is an argument for the cost differential for the extra bedroom... but each parent is responsible for half that expense like all the others. That should be based of the average cost. Not because the custodial parent decided to move into a house that costs 900k bucks rather than one at 400k that would be comparable. (some people just like to live in ritzy neighborhoods they can't afford as a status symbol).
Like I mentioned from the onset. The system is deeply flawed. Very little money actually goes to support the kids. The parent usually spends it on themselves. Too many parents are being taken advantaged of by the other parent. Notice i never mentioned Mom or dad. The system screws both.
@@chaddlindsay9909 my child's mother put me up for a modification under the income numbers she claims she makes $400 a month gross.. and they literally believed it without even verifying
The judge didn’t take into account the money from his actual job 🤦♂️ she based everything off of his extra 5k/month
In was an increased of the $500 he was already paying from his regular job.
I'm channeling that "you didn't say anything that moved me" energy
I am proud that I can pay child support. If you lose your job, 50% of the unemployment check goes to the mother until you get another job.
Celebrity Parties..🤔$5K a month( appox.).. good thing they didn't discuss tips.. now JV no 🍵sip BUT, your other giveaway for the " don't play with me" ..perched lips..( like "yeah right").. he said he needs a break.. but I caught something which may be Y u asked, do u have any other children, there was a pause... again later same question , like is there something u want to tell us,, again a pause.... love love love the show..
I wondered if he needed help counting LOL! that pause twice
Judge, you are very fair!
Glad I got my tea cup ready as justice was deliciously served
I find myself saying this everyday, WE HAVE A SERIOUS SELFISHNESS EPIDEMIC IN THIS COUNTRY.
Dad? Is that you? 🙄
If some off the moms on this show were as respectful as this man they would get more child support
Sis your such a gem 🥰😇 ok you can only be one person at one place, at one time but we need you everywhere! You are a pure soul 🤍 thank God I ran into your videos! Perfect example for a girls and women, even some men anyway keep your uniqueness alive love speaks volumes ✔️📌🤍🥰
I’m 22 me and my mom went to the courts my whole life and I would receive on occasion one dollar a month. He got away with owing us 40,000$. It’s fu**ing ridiculous. He would get away with it by putting his ones in his family’s accounts. The courts never helps us.
A wonderful Judge she is all for the children and the parent who is raising the children. Bless her heart.
I wish I had seen your videos in high school when my parents were going through the family court for a custody case so I could learn to help my father get the 4 of us kids
Sounds to me like Dad should have the kids, hes making way more money and is way more financialy stable and viable. He can buy them insurence when they live with him.
I agree
i've been binge watching for so long & loveeeee them, but are these real events with real people or with actors?
I have just ONE child and let me just say this $550 is NOT enough for the Month ! I Add $350 and sometimes more of “My Money” so my daughter is set for the month, it is my job as well to support my daughter of course but my point is that this woman is right $500 really is Not enough, especially for 3 KIDS !!
Those child support tables need to be abolished. There should be a standardized amount that every parent has to pay. There should be no income based scale for child support. Further, custody should always be 50/50 out of the gate no child support and that puts an end to this nonsense. Men are tired of this rip-off. The judges purposely award the children to women in order to extract resources from the men. Marriage is a financial ripoff. This guy's income is sporadic and yet now he's paying a fixed amount of scalable child support to his wife not for the benefit of the children but for the wife and that's what it's all about. It's disgraceful. And men are done with this. More of us are learning the games of ripoff and it's rigged. In the end the losers are going to be women because we're not playing.
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Exactly what difference does it matter what I make. That does not mean my kid eats more
Man... I'm fine with modification but from what he was saying he makes $5000 when he's lucky for a big party. Those aren't always consistent. Sometimes you're LUCKY to make that in a month. Now, if his circumstances changed through his employer and he was making a consistent $5000/month that's great for him. But I highly doubt that was the case. He communicated it very poorly to the judge.
Not a bad scenario Vonda B. Have we seen these actors before? Thanks for a great episode.
Fantastic this Judge Vonda kkkkk. I loved her. I live in Brazil and see the videos this Judge Vonda.
The judge said it was based on $60,000 a year. My question is does he get the salary every month and how long has he been getting the extra work?
The judge made assumptions that he works extra all the time.
He didn’t say otherwise.
AND if it changes he can always go back and get it changed again 🙄 you act like it’s permanent
Tips are tips, should not included imo since they wont last forever, but still gotta help out da kids if you get any extra man !
I believe she said that he was now making 5000 more than he was making when the original order was made.
Bit absurd to be made to pay more because you are making more - I mean SURE, for the kids, but for the ex?
Is SHE doing anything to deserve more?
The father’s attitude suggests there is more to his story, I wish judge Vonda asked him more about this circumstances, he is polite and he doesn’t give any evil parent vibe.
Hi judge Vonda 🥰
Hi there Christian!! Thank you for supporting the show.❤️
@@JudgeVondaB your welcome
“Sometimes I’m not up for parenting,it’s a lot” He is a disgrace,I wouldn’t have birthed more then one child for him🖕🏽
Tips aren’t fixed, you can put a fixed amount weekly when you have no idea what the tips will be night to night.
I wish I could tag my children's father so bad 😂
Don’t mind me I’m just waiting