"They Don't Believe I'm Japanese" Being Mixed Race in Japan

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2022
  • Are half-Japanese people treated like foreigners in their own country? Today my friend Jesse and I are on the streets of Tokyo doing a social experiment to see how Japanese people react to their mixed-race Japanese peers. @jesseogn
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  • @OrientalPearl
    @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +1701

    BIG NEWS I'm taking a trip back to America in a few months to introduce my husband to my family.. My mom is coming here to Japan first and she's been working on her Japanese with these amazing language lessons: imp.i271380.net/c/2397166/1117678/11472

    • @astroworfcraig9164
      @astroworfcraig9164 Před rokem +35

      Your family should love hubby.

    • @THENATTYNERD
      @THENATTYNERD Před rokem +18

      😃in Michigan if so I'll be moving to northern Indiana soon we need to meet and do something fun

    • @AniGrannyOG
      @AniGrannyOG Před rokem +8

      Going back to The D! That is sure to be some culture shock for you both. I hope you do a video about what it's like visiting after being gone for so long and how things have changed/stayed the same, etc. Have fun! My husband and I had a blast last time he took me to his old stomping grounds in Detroit. We ate Bengalese food probably 3 times in just a few days. Saw lots of amazing art.

    • @adamwalker8173
      @adamwalker8173 Před rokem +5

      Whoa! That’s cool!

    • @JacksonWalter735
      @JacksonWalter735 Před rokem +6

      Great news! Safe travels and have fun!

  • @Jimmyboygohome
    @Jimmyboygohome Před rokem +7579

    I’ve never seen someone look like such a perfect mix of both races.

    • @yake222
      @yake222 Před rokem +703

      truly like a 50/50 photoshop blend tool

    • @sootierpluto
      @sootierpluto Před rokem +128

      you've never seen Jhene Aiko?

    • @midnightvibes5485
      @midnightvibes5485 Před rokem +400

      @@sootierpluto But she is multi MULTI ethnic though. This guy is 50/50 and looks incredible.

    • @imaafrikaaner4669
      @imaafrikaaner4669 Před rokem +38

      @@sootierpluto she basically south asian now

    • @carysemaxim5084
      @carysemaxim5084 Před rokem +37

      @@sootierpluto She's only 1/4 Japanese tho

  • @dontworrybehappy8080
    @dontworrybehappy8080 Před rokem +1869

    He is an extremely likeable guy no matter where he goes. Good luck Jess.

    • @jacksonteng6279
      @jacksonteng6279 Před rokem +8

      Is it just me, Jess’ English sounds so Canadian to me

    • @bibekjung7404
      @bibekjung7404 Před rokem +1

      LIVING BEING IS OUR RACE, MANKIND IS OUR RELIGION, HINDU,MUSLIM,SIKH,CHRISTAIN, THERE IS NO SEPARATE RELIGION
      ALMIGHTY GOD KABIR is the father of all souls that JESUS, MOHAMMAD, GURU NANAK, VEDH was telling in BIBLE, QURAN, GURU GRANTHA SAHEB

    • @kaine880
      @kaine880 Před rokem +3

      @@bibekjung7404 no.

    • @acetofresh1
      @acetofresh1 Před rokem +5

      @@jacksonteng6279 I think he’s from the Midwest, where the accents can be similar to Canada.

  • @chopkong
    @chopkong Před rokem +208

    I'm of Chinese descent and my wife is from Mexico. When my children were young (birth until about 12), they both looking 100% Chinese. People used to mistake my wife for their nanny, which really made her upset. We enrolled them in a private school one day, and the counselor wanted to interview the kids. I dropped them off for the interview, but my wife was to pick them up. They would not release them to my wife because they didn't believe she was their mother. They told her that they could not release them to the nanny. Needless to say, this angered my wife and we had to move them to another school.

  • @TGTJGT
    @TGTJGT Před rokem +302

    It’s crazy because he’s a perfect blend of them both. And it’s so sad that people don’t recognize it.

    • @sokol5805
      @sokol5805 Před rokem +2

      Than he isn't blend.

    • @user74321
      @user74321 Před rokem +2

      You are what your father is! It’s just that simple! There is no mixed person!

    • @TGTJGT
      @TGTJGT Před rokem +13

      @@user74321 I get what you mean, but there definitely is such thing as being mixed.

    • @applepie8308
      @applepie8308 Před rokem +5

      @interesting yes you are!, i'm mixed my whole family is mixed with Indian and black on one side of my family is fully indian + mixed and but on The other side fully black, so before my hair got damaged for straighting slot my hair use to be thick and curly

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 Před rokem +12

      Perfect blend?
      There are black people who have similar features without any known asian mix.

  • @ghiansudelo2590
    @ghiansudelo2590 Před rokem +551

    I must say that your father's decision was wise. If bullying can't be eliminated, it must be avoided. Less trauma as kids means a happier adult life.

    • @child2629
      @child2629 Před rokem +49

      Honestly. Bullying traumatised me. I never knew it was bullying and intimidation up until adult age. I just thought it was a nasty person trying to get on my nerves. Mine was not in school though. It was at home where I lived. Nasty people roaming the earth, it's unreal.

    • @Sister_Sandy
      @Sister_Sandy Před rokem +10

      I disagree, I don't think you should avoid it because you need to learn how to work through it ..true people still reap the repercussions in adulthood but even as an adult you can work through it and heal...and FYI; I was mixed riding to school in a rural area and the bus ride was not fun from 5yrs old through to graduation and @ the time..I hated that "lesson " but i needed it and gained growth from it

    • @RosslynR
      @RosslynR Před rokem +2

      @@Sister_Sandy I agree with you... sometimes confrontation is good enough to assist with growing "thick skin" so to speak, it also prepares you for the real world. I speak as a mixed race woman too. In my experience, the world for us has a lot of barriers and glass ceilings, early preparation for this world is what we need and people who are not mixed race cannot relate to that. They have clans amongst their own (black, white, Asian, etc.), whereas we as mixed race people are on our own. We as mixed race people have to create our own happiness in the balance, our pure race parents can only advice from what they think but not from a mixed race person's experience.
      I was lucky my mother adviced me to raise myself and find my way in this world with her guidance, because she said her advice could only come from her experience in what she thought, and she could not be selfish to think she understood the challenges mixed race people would face. My mother told me I had to toughen up and prepare for the world, best advice ever!

    • @RosslynR
      @RosslynR Před rokem +1

      @@child2629 It's sad you didn't use that to prepare for the rest of this inhumane capitalist created world, which is the reality of this world where the survival of the fittest is promoted. Me being bullied as a child, in my experiences toughened me up to prepare for the real world which broaden my horizons, and be prepared for the white collar professional industry. I have no regrets. I can't say the same for my sister who had a more protective environment, and as an adult, she struggles with literally everything, because she thinks this capitalist created world is about fairytales. This world is evil from superpower governments forcefully creating wars with resource-based countries to the financial industries that controls our lives, it only ripple effects down, best know it for what it is.

    • @ghiansudelo2590
      @ghiansudelo2590 Před rokem +15

      @@Sister_Sandy I see your point. If I could choose, I would avoid it. Not all trauma is healed, I don't say it couldn't be but, not all people achieve it.

  • @deborahczepiel7883
    @deborahczepiel7883 Před rokem +4570

    At first I thought things had changed in Japan when it came to mixed race people, I guess not. Although the young people you spoke to seemed pretty cool. When I was a child in Japan in 1955 my parents and I would take the bus into town, once in a while a man would ride that sat in a corner all by himself and looked scared. I asked my dad why that was and dad told me he was a child of a black service man and a Japanese lady and therefore was considered a social outcast. I felt so bad for the man.

    • @jensjesfjeld6238
      @jensjesfjeld6238 Před rokem +291

      Nothing has changed.

    • @Timboson
      @Timboson Před rokem +50

      May I ask: How old are you now?

    • @demhafdjh6324
      @demhafdjh6324 Před rokem +4

      Who wants to be in Japan no thanks, Africa is beautiful

    • @cantrait7311
      @cantrait7311 Před rokem +4

      Yep that’s how the Japanese are nothing has changed in Japan since

    • @deborahczepiel7883
      @deborahczepiel7883 Před rokem +355

      I am sorry, made a mistake on the year, it was 1958 amd TBo I am 73 now

  • @ladyethyme
    @ladyethyme Před rokem +33

    Those kids were so sweet though!! Helping strangers and walking them to their destination!

  • @honestly1970
    @honestly1970 Před rokem +179

    I's so glad that people started to recognize him as being japanese. that made my heart happy. great job japan.

    • @larajones175
      @larajones175 Před 10 měsíci +6

      They're will, he definitely looks Japanese.

    • @batboy555
      @batboy555 Před 6 měsíci

      They pick up my japanese features even though im 1/4.

  • @animag423
    @animag423 Před rokem +1607

    My late boyfriend was born in Japan, he was Japanese/hispanic and his mom's side of the family actually completely disowned him. He said they hated him. His mother was buried in the family site and he was not allowed to even visit. I'm very glad Jesse has a good attitude about it because from what I've experienced even as an outsider it can be awful. He said the general people would be very judgmental as well especially the older generations.

    • @kb9847
      @kb9847 Před rokem +154

      that's so sad. :(

    • @JacksonWalter735
      @JacksonWalter735 Před rokem +366

      That sucks so badly. I really wished people were more open minded. My older sister is in somewhat of a similar situation. We're white Christians from the Southern part of the USA and my parents always thought that my sister would marry a white Christian guy. However, when my sister went off to college she met an exchange student from Hong Kong and they hit it off. They dated not too long afterwards and were incredibly happy. He's brilliant (now a cardiothoracic surgeon), tall, has a British accent, hilarious, and was one of the few Asian male models for Wilhelmina Models during his time in college. He even took time out of every week to tutor me when I was struggling in school and would often pick me up from school to just hang out. Seems like an ideal boyfriend right? Well my parents were not happy at all. They didn't care about his qualifications and only saw that he is Asian and Buddhist. My parents are racists against Asians too. They're ignorant and think my sister's eventual husband is commie from China (even though he's from Hong Kong) and they don't like Asian people after a few Vietnamese ladies at the nail salon seduced my uncles into cheating on their wives/destroying their families. Ridiculous right because that has nothing to do with my sister's husband (and he's not even Vietnamese). My parents basically disowned my sister after that and won't even talk to her unless she finds "a better partner".
      Well fast forward to now and my sister and her husband have been married for 6 years with 2 beautiful boys. Their relationship is as strong as ever and to me they are what I think of when I consider an "ideal couple". My parents never responded to my sister and her husband despite repeated attempts at contacting them. My parents missed out on my sister's graduation, her getting engaged, her buying their first home, my sister's wedding, the birth of their first and second grandchild, and so much more. I feel terrible for my sister because I know she wants my parents in her life despite everything that has happened. My nephews are raised as Christians too so my sister's husband being Buddhist didn't matter at all and he attends church with them. All of this simply because my parents didn't want my sister to date a guy who wasn't white and Christian. They're missing out because my sister's husband is a wonderful human being and my nephews are great.

    • @cantrait7311
      @cantrait7311 Před rokem

      @@JacksonWalter735 most people are open minded but the Japanese aren’t. They want to keep their race pure. They even have Japanese only restaurants

    • @hanako_w
      @hanako_w Před rokem +129

      This isn’t true for all families. I am mixed and half Japanese and my Japanese side of the family have always been incredibly welcoming and loving.

    • @redsteddi
      @redsteddi Před rokem +75

      @@JacksonWalter735 I hope they come around one day... Your sister and her husband and boys sound like wonderful people and as long as you keep telling people about them and keep talking about them to all the negative people in the world you will be doing a great Justice. Thank you for sharing your lovely story about your sister and her family. God bless you

  • @reyannacorf71
    @reyannacorf71 Před rokem +679

    My favourite part about the two boys (the one with the blue jacket and the longish blonde hair) was the blonde one said “ask him what he wants to buy” and you responded with what you wanted to buy in English, in spite of them not having translated it for you- should have been the biggest giveaway 😂

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +72

      Good catch!

    • @user-ez5mn1rq1m
      @user-ez5mn1rq1m Před rokem +33

      Actually, there are a lot of people who are better understanding another language, especially simple questions like that, but may not be able to clearly respond well in that language. I know people like that who could understand their parents' speaking to them in their mother tongue but couldn't speak it themselves because they always answered in English growing up in America.

    • @Saadjijoe
      @Saadjijoe Před rokem +11

      @@user-ez5mn1rq1m That is true. Though the blond guy did say that he knew way back at the start that this guy's Japanese. He didn't explain but it's possible he figured it out when his question was answered without having been translated.

    • @Robynhoodlum
      @Robynhoodlum Před rokem +5

      @@user-ez5mn1rq1m I’m like that in Spanish. I get bogged down speaking Spanish, but I can listen to it easily.

    • @joewas2225
      @joewas2225 Před rokem +2

      Not necessarily. Back in highschool I took German & I could understand more than I could speak it. That still holds true to this day.

  • @billmagorian490
    @billmagorian490 Před rokem +42

    The Black Japanese young man had a great personality. What I think is amazing is how perfect his American English accent is. We had a Japanese boy stay with us for about a month in the 80's. We have continued to stay in contact with him as an adult along with his wife and two daughters. Both he and his wife's professions required them to be fluent in English. Even so they have a Japanese accent and Hiroaki still didn't understand some English words. This young man could pass on any American street as an American.

  • @markburns2545
    @markburns2545 Před rokem +1

    Love it...massive respect. Love the fact you, catch people out..quality.....

  • @ameliematsumotodepatie8002
    @ameliematsumotodepatie8002 Před rokem +1084

    I am Japanese and Canadian. However I was born in Canada. When I went to visit Japan for the first time at 10 years old, even my Family in Japan seemed to not be so sure about me and I would get a tonnnnn of stares while walking in the street with my Japanese dad. It definitely is an odd feeling as it is my dads home… It must be really weird when you’re born and raised in Japan and still feel like an outsider 😳

    • @haronclement
      @haronclement Před rokem +49

      it is also like this in Western Europe! many mixed race kids are growing up being treated as outsiders because one of their parents is not white

    • @FA9082
      @FA9082 Před rokem

      Japan is a dying country with the population halving each generation. Their xenophobia is literally going to be the death of them

    • @FA9082
      @FA9082 Před rokem +120

      @@haronclement No it's not. The racism in East Asia is exceptional. They are in their own special league of racism
      As long as you integrate into the culture you will be treated fine in Western Europe no matter ur skin colour.

    • @llunaeldas8055
      @llunaeldas8055 Před rokem +14

      There is a lot of tradition there that they are proud of. Did you ever stop and think that they are just curious about you? Get the chip off of your shoulder. People are people and you'll encounter this in many places in the world.

    • @CrunsherExtreme
      @CrunsherExtreme Před rokem

      @@FA9082 i don't think so ;) Of course if u have a god job or u have studied in Europe there is good chance to feel integrated. But the simple truth is... it's just human the be a little bit racialistic against other etics or "otherlooking" humans. I think it's from the nature to protect the own group, to safe the own worth and traditions, and of course the own femals ;) . Of course this is not gonna working in a global 21th century. In Germany i think we like Asians and other Europeans (whites) who gonna work, but there is also still rasicm to black people. Of course there are a lot of refuges (a lot black guys) who are not gonna working hard, or don't want to a full part of the Nation (get lost!). Greetings from Germany (at the moment Darwin, Australia 😉, a mass of Ausies are also racialistic against indigene peoples and other nations, not long ago there was a name for it - White Australia ) DOITSUJIN

  • @louisthompson5781
    @louisthompson5781 Před rokem +384

    He has so much happiness in his eyes
    What a chill dude. Pure good life energy.

    • @donalexander5935
      @donalexander5935 Před rokem +4

      Japanese in his DNA. Lol

    • @RDnAC
      @RDnAC Před rokem +6

      He has so much Japanese in his eyes.

    • @higherlearning1829
      @higherlearning1829 Před 10 měsíci

      I think they all do over there bro..that sad shit is only in America

    • @ssomega75
      @ssomega75 Před 10 měsíci

      Yes he does and now he want to live in the U. S., I wish him all the best there

    • @chauntee8838
      @chauntee8838 Před 7 měsíci +1

      In America, we are so blended that we don't know if someone is not American no matter what you look like. I think people felt a certain type of way by him pretending he could not speak the language.

  • @50_Pips
    @50_Pips Před 9 měsíci +4

    We need more people like him in Japan…pls stay here and don’t go anywhere else. And Oriental Pearl too🙏🏼

  • @JBJenk00
    @JBJenk00 Před rokem +16

    I’m a black American. This guy looks Asian. His facial features mirror strong Asian genes like his eyes. They didn’t believe he is east Asian because of the darker skin, kinkier hair and double eye-lids.

    • @DoubeEdged7
      @DoubeEdged7 Před 2 měsíci

      Asian people have eye lids that overlap SMH

    • @yo2trader539
      @yo2trader539 Před měsícem

      In East Asia, he's just BLACK.

  • @LBDBeauty
    @LBDBeauty Před rokem +1465

    It's sad that he doesn't feel as comfortable in his own country as he does in America. Wishing him all the best.

    • @jnharton
      @jnharton Před rokem +63

      That is sad, but America is really mixed from centuries of immigration. -- Unless you're dealing with ignorant, insular people or discrimination, only behavior and speech is likely to be a reliable 'tell'. -- Although a strong resemblance to a particular recognized ethnic group might make some people wonder.

    • @pinoyRN67
      @pinoyRN67 Před rokem

      no country is perfect America has lots of gun violence mass shootings

    • @bobbystarks
      @bobbystarks Před rokem +42

      America really does have the best mix of everyone

    • @miriamathews278
      @miriamathews278 Před rokem +6

      I get that, America’s has better options tho, ⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @viperdemonz-jenkins
      @viperdemonz-jenkins Před rokem +35

      says alot about how much better the US is then the media and certain others make it seem. and not dissin Japan at all.

  • @deloto8004
    @deloto8004 Před rokem +1929

    As a black person looking at his facial features it's immediately apparent that he's mixed race. lol
    Lots of non mixed black people have an Asiatic eye shape, but for him it's not just the eye shape, it's almost all of his facial features that strongly hint at Asian ancestry.

    • @Mwoods2272
      @Mwoods2272 Před rokem +118

      True, you can really tell by the eyes.

    • @Maartun
      @Maartun Před rokem +27

      He got Chinese eyes.

    • @silvernomad5
      @silvernomad5 Před rokem +26

      Yes, but in Japan, he is obviously different, that is never easy.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +353

      He told me the same thing. He said black people can tell he’s mixed right away.

    • @vaudevillian7
      @vaudevillian7 Před rokem +29

      Yeah he definitely looks mixed (I’m mixed too but Caribbean and European)

  • @pamelalynch2580
    @pamelalynch2580 Před rokem +18

    The guys taking him to the convenient store is so normal. I lived in Japan and every time I would ask for direction they literally would stop what they’re doing and take me. They are the kindest people I have ever interacted with- my personal experience. I have been to over 20 different countries and by far they are the most welcoming people-again my personal experience and opinion.

    • @718snoopymoe_nyc7
      @718snoopymoe_nyc7 Před rokem +1

      That’s very good information to know thanks I always wanted to visit Japan

    • @pamelalynch2580
      @pamelalynch2580 Před rokem +1

      @@718snoopymoe_nyc7 well hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

  • @andystreet1479
    @andystreet1479 Před 11 měsíci +1

    fascinating insight and perspective of being mixed race loved to see peoples responses

  • @MikeyLikesIt89
    @MikeyLikesIt89 Před rokem +1608

    He looks Japanese and the young lady who pointed it out made me smile because she is proof that us younger generations are more cultured and will guide this world to a better place.

    • @bettergentspodcast
      @bettergentspodcast Před rokem +133

      Younger people are more accepting, but they lack the work ethic of the older generations. Both are required to make this world better.

    • @anapple6912
      @anapple6912 Před rokem +65

      Given today’s generation I don’t think the world will change to a better place...

    • @am5790
      @am5790 Před rokem +16

      how about the other young people who didn't and couldn't point it out? every generation felt more cultured than the previous generation. The 60's generation were more ambitious and sacrificed to make their society better at a great risk. We all age :)

    • @1amiller251
      @1amiller251 Před rokem +10

      @@anapple6912 ur name is “an apple” stop talking u speak for no one

    • @anapple6912
      @anapple6912 Před rokem +20

      @@1amiller251 damn. why are you so mad over a name? and what? I should start speaking for people now? calm down my guy this argument starter will get you nowhere, do something better with your time.

  • @JadeTheGreat
    @JadeTheGreat Před rokem +40

    As a German/Nigerian I kind of feel that, even though there is much diversity in Germany I always felt like I don’t fit in much and even if I visited Nigeria I wouldn’t exactly fit it. But tbh it bothered me more when I was a child, if you feel the same way keep pushing! dw what others think about you, you do you

    • @uzomad
      @uzomad Před rokem +2

      I’m Igbo. Come to Nigeria and go back to your family village. We always accept our own. ❤

    • @JadeTheGreat
      @JadeTheGreat Před rokem

      @@uzomad tysm! I will, I wanted to visit my cousins a while ago ^^

    • @El-pistolero1
      @El-pistolero1 Před rokem

      Is yr dad nigerian or?

    • @sirbonobo3907
      @sirbonobo3907 Před rokem +4

      if YOU feel you dont fit in its your own fault. look at german cities they are more like african cities nowadays anyway.

    • @moniidzia
      @moniidzia Před rokem

      If your German parent had not race mixed you wouldn't feel that you don't fit.

  • @KHallesy
    @KHallesy Před 6 měsíci +5

    My kids are mixed race. I have always taught them to take the best of each race and incorporate that into their personality. They live in the US and in 25 years we have never noticed any racism but instead everyone is fair and treats our family with respect. Its been amazing. I am sure you can find racism in America but we are well travelled and have never experienced it. Also Mexico is the same. Never a hint of racism in the many cities we have visited.

  • @golfergirl8123
    @golfergirl8123 Před rokem +323

    I found that younger people, spoke English more often to me when I was in Tokyo. But some were a little nervous to speak it, thinking it was not very good but I was so proud of them for trying. Then I was amazed when older people would spark up conversations with me in grocery stores, speaking excellent English. I used to visit Japan for work every summer. I miss it.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +26

      Japanese elderly people are the funnest to talk to.

    • @whannabi
      @whannabi Před rokem

      Should've hit them with the "eigo jouzu"

    • @ArlindoBuriti
      @ArlindoBuriti Před rokem +3

      not you to speak japanse hum? but then to speak english.... that imperialism do not die hum?

    • @erenyeagerist7681
      @erenyeagerist7681 Před rokem

      @@ArlindoBuriti what? So, you americans want the non English speaking countries to always adjust to you and should always speak English? You want the world to bow down to your country? Who do you think you are americans? God? The world does not revolve around you! It's only right that you americans should learn other countries' language. Good thing that Japan exists that made you realize that US is not absolute God and that you should learn other countries' language, culture and traditions too. Don't think you're supreme when you're just a nobody

    • @bevbenjamin8214
      @bevbenjamin8214 Před rokem +3

      @@ArlindoBuriti what?

  • @stewartmuwangala2053
    @stewartmuwangala2053 Před rokem +528

    I love how random people are walking around in the Japanese traditional wear. That’s amazing.

    • @klopkerna3562
      @klopkerna3562 Před rokem +45

      They're in Asakusa

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Před rokem +10

      @@klopkerna3562 What is Asakusa?

    • @klopkerna3562
      @klopkerna3562 Před rokem +80

      @@Catlily5 a place in Tokyo which is more traditional. You can fin a lot of temples and some street food

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Před rokem +14

      @@klopkerna3562 Oh, that is interesting! It looks like a nice place to go.

    • @jackmorgan1677
      @jackmorgan1677 Před rokem

      Left wing progressives would call that xenophobic and narrow minded right wing nationalist. Apparently according to them you should hate your own culture...

  • @L1ttleM1crosoft
    @L1ttleM1crosoft Před rokem +5

    Im mexican and learned japanese in school and through japanese friends and family. When i was in Japan, speaking to them in japanese they were so blown away it was easier to just say i was half japanese. 😂

  • @s.o.c.c.5027
    @s.o.c.c.5027 Před 6 měsíci

    I definitely subscribed to him after this. I feel him on that. I am mixed as well I people use to judge me and make uncomfortable remarks because of that so I understand how it wad. Being adults is different though. It got better. Thank you for this great video Pearl. You always inspire me to push. ❤

  • @RoxanneLavender
    @RoxanneLavender Před rokem +752

    He said 'some Japanese features', his face is mostly Japanese-looking imo. I hope he can feel more comfy in Japan, his country, and i hope Japanese people can be more exposed to and speak with non-Japanese people, and accept them. And from what i see in your videos, obviously you are really helping with that as much as you can, which is awesome.

    • @Seelenverheizer
      @Seelenverheizer Před rokem +86

      right? he totally has a japanese looking face

    • @ReiKoko
      @ReiKoko Před rokem +31

      I agree, his face is totally japanese. My son is the same way. He's chinese/dominican and he has a darker complexion and chinese facial features. When he was a baby, I noticed that if his aunt (dominican/black) was holding him, strangers would immediately assume she was his parent based on their similar skintone. If I held him, then people seemed to notice the facial features more.

    • @bakedstreetyt
      @bakedstreetyt Před rokem +6

      he should move to America he would be way more accepted here.

    • @pmadood6970
      @pmadood6970 Před rokem +11

      Whats wrong with them wanting to preserve their people's appearance? There are places taht are melting pots ya know. You may think it's messed up to outcast but imo it's messed up to force things on people.

    • @TheAdriB
      @TheAdriB Před rokem +10

      So fucking true! He is clearly half Japanese. It’s crazy how people ignore the obvious.

  • @yankeeinjapan8869
    @yankeeinjapan8869 Před rokem +460

    I’ve been living in Japan and six years and had an interesting experience with two ethnic Japanese people born in Brazil. They spoke fluent Portuguese and were Brazilian at heart. They spoke very little Japanese and mine was worlds beyond theirs. When we went out it was always funny to see because I was the one helping them get around with the language. Not the same as this video but it goes to show that your are beyond the label of your nation. Or your race. Or your ethnicity. Or your language. I can be a Japanese speaking Yank from the Carolinas and my coworkers can be Japanese-looking Brazilians who feel at home in Carnival than in a Japanese shrine.

    • @sambistabeauty
      @sambistabeauty Před rokem +31

      They were probably Brazilian at heart, como eu🇧🇷🇧🇷

    • @starlyghtdrifter66
      @starlyghtdrifter66 Před rokem +7

      Only an north American would call a Brazilian person Portuguese at heart. Try not to be racist, when talking about racism dude.

    • @sambistabeauty
      @sambistabeauty Před rokem +28

      @@starlyghtdrifter66 I am actually born in the US. I say, I am Brazilian at heart because I am a samba dancer, and I know the difference. It isn't "North American" thing to do. Hatred is in the eye of the beholder. If you examine political movements, early forms of liberalism focuses on all that is wrong.

    • @elden5052
      @elden5052 Před rokem +36

      @@starlyghtdrifter66 it’s not racist, is ignorant at best. Stop calling things racist, which are not.

    • @sheilaanna
      @sheilaanna Před rokem +4

      Brazil was colonised by the Portuguese, that was a pretty ignorant statement. More like they were Brazilian- not Portuguese

  • @lex5740
    @lex5740 Před rokem +1

    This gotta be the best Vid bro....

  • @AstersWallet
    @AstersWallet Před rokem +15

    Japanese people are so sweet and cute! The fact they immediately tried to help “foreigners “ is so nice:)

    • @definitelynotanAIchatbot
      @definitelynotanAIchatbot Před rokem +2

      It's called "tatemae" and it's not a good thing IMO.

    • @Grigeral
      @Grigeral Před rokem +3

      @@definitelynotanAIchatbot the entire world has that in one form or another. Being polite is not a bad thing.
      Quite the opposite, the UK version of it is how we reflexively apologise for just about anything. You're not sorry 99% of the time, it's just a case of not wanting to make a scene and societal norms.
      If foreigners approached and 99% of the population just shrugged them off, then it would not create a particularly welcoming atmosphere, especially considering Japan is quite infamous (rightly or wrongly) for having a xenophobic attitude. You'll find most people are polite and will try to help foreigners though in most countries.
      Hell, while on holiday in Paris I found people were almost always extremely helpful even if you couldn't say what you needed in French. And the French and British have a notoriously bad history.

    • @definitelynotanAIchatbot
      @definitelynotanAIchatbot Před rokem +4

      @Grigeral I've been to France 3 times, and I have to say they were overall the least friendly people I've encountered in Europe (the southern countryside is very beautiful at least). The Dutch were probably the nicest Europeans I've met on my travels.

    • @Grigeral
      @Grigeral Před rokem +1

      @@definitelynotanAIchatbot in my experience, any time I've been somewhere with multiple nationalities, like a resort for example, the Germans have always been the worst.
      But it will obviously depend on the place. I didn't run into it myself, but I game no doubt at all there are obnoxious people. They exist everywhere!

    • @definitelynotanAIchatbot
      @definitelynotanAIchatbot Před rokem +2

      @Grigeral Yeah, I love Germany but they aren't really the warmest people in the world lol

  • @OKSlinky
    @OKSlinky Před rokem +47

    The bullying in Elementary school was one of the major motivators for us to move back to Canada. Despite our twins being born in Japan and our oldest daughter having lived in Japan since she was 3, because we were in the country-side it was always a worry in the back of my mind.... Things aren't perfect in Canada either, of course, but at least here there isn't the same stigma with being mixed race, and my eldest's two best friends are also mixed race (Korean and Caucasian, and Indian and Caucasian) and it makes me so happy to know that if she has any issues when it comes to being mixed race she will have friends to talk to and relate to about it

    • @AnCapDog144
      @AnCapDog144 Před rokem +3

      LOL you should have seen the public schools in New York in the 90s.
      Ultra savages and bullies. I still can’t believe I survived that. Doubt I did it with zero scars

    • @lazybastard6004
      @lazybastard6004 Před rokem

      What your race

    • @mac9954
      @mac9954 Před rokem

      yes Japan is not for weak people and they are not into the blame game at all Canadian love the mix race freak show gay marriage sick stuff .after visiting Vancouver i felt sick so sad to see drug use on the street young girls selling their own bodies Sad. Japan doesn't need this .

  • @Imhotep.inwords
    @Imhotep.inwords Před rokem +864

    As a black man that lived in Japan as a teenager, I don’t really blame Japanese for being kind of weird around people that aren’t Japanese or don’t look Japanese to them. Especially older people. I realized while I was there that most Japanese people will go through their entire life without ever meeting a black person. Also, there is a lot of social pressure on Japanese to fit in with other Japanese, so an idea like “diversity” isn’t really considered, although most of the Japanese people I met were really nice and helpful and encouraging. People really looked out for me while I was there.
    Edit: It's really annoying how people have been projecting their own ideological baggage onto my statement. Nowhere in my statement did I mention racism. Someone can act weird without being racist. In fact, I experienced far less racism in Japan than I did in the US.
    Also, for those of you who viewed my statement about diversity as some kind of invitation to input whatever pseudo-intellectual anti-diversity talking points you like to parrot from whatever diet-racist pinhead you've been jerking off to lately, you are sorely mistaken. I mentioned diversity as being a foreign idea for a country that has been almost completely homogenous for almost its entire history. And for those of you from the US drooling over the idea of some sort of homogenous utopia, then I invite you to confront the fact that the US has never been homogenous and it never will be. And Japan is not a utopia. Grow up, and get over it.

    • @MyBelch
      @MyBelch Před rokem +1

      Why the double standards? Racists are racists. Is it because you realize they'll never buy into your oppression fantasy? Japanese get no pass from me.

    • @jackmorgan1677
      @jackmorgan1677 Před rokem

      There is no 'strength in diversity'. The left wing progressives who peddle this are delusional. This whole diversity thing will one day kill off the European native cultures. Cultural death by a thousand cuts.

    • @leafaro911
      @leafaro911 Před rokem +13

      Same in Russia or another Caucasian countries.

    • @fonandovevo7737
      @fonandovevo7737 Před rokem +6

      Well said

    • @Imhotep.inwords
      @Imhotep.inwords Před rokem +17

      @Joe Shmoe lol the US and Japan are very different places with very different histories. The US has always been diverse, but most of that diversity was suppressed until like 10 yrs ago.

  • @samotivationbysami
    @samotivationbysami Před 10 měsíci +12

    I’m Palestinian-Bulgarian from a mixed Muslim-Christian family. "Where are you from?" is always a difficult question for me to answer. I’ve never felt fully accepted in either the Bulgarian or Arab community and sometimes I've encountered racism and stereotypes about my background. Being mixed has its challenges, but in recent years I've come to appreciate the beauty of it. I realized that being mixed is one of the main reasons why I get along so well with different people, regardless of how different they are to me, where they come from, how they think and which religion they follow. Being mixed is a true blessing that makes a more well-rounded and tolerant human being.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 5 měsíci

      Samy, i don't know that this counts as "mixed race" as censuses actively classify arabs Gulf ones or not as white as it does Bulgarian. bi-national and bicultural . I get that Bulgarians are not "feeling" muslim religion like that .Eastern europeans are not exactly tolerant of differences. But your phenotype is accepted almost everywhere. surely it brings a bit of a sense of inner peace.
      I am biracial , i am one of those biracial the entire planet usually detests aka when Black is mixed with. so much so that my white family disowned me when i was a child still.

  • @asadullah786
    @asadullah786 Před rokem

    very nice kind and humble people...... love their reaction

  • @eleanorrose6122
    @eleanorrose6122 Před rokem +509

    I am a Nigerian and it's rare to see a Nigerian travel to Japan. I have loved Japan for so long I can't remember maybe when I was a toddler? It has been so long. Japan is one country I'm thinking of visiting and probably living there. I love everything Japan. I don't know why but I'm just crazy about Japan. One day I will visit Japan and I know the experience and joy will be too much for me to contain. And I'm currently working on learning Nihongo.

    • @streetfightingman4240
      @streetfightingman4240 Před rokem +22

      There is a really famous Nigerian man in Japan called Bobby Ologun, I don't know if you've ever heard of him, maybe as you like Japan. He's well worth searching on CZcams, very funny:)

    • @nikkimiddlekillsday5161
      @nikkimiddlekillsday5161 Před rokem +6

      Mandy from the exile group is half Nigerian and half Japanese

    • @celsofraga8500
      @celsofraga8500 Před rokem +35

      Naija people dey everywhere for this earth 😂

    • @haruharumada
      @haruharumada Před rokem +5

      I can honestly relate a lot to this as a fellow Nigerian

    • @moussatahirou1531
      @moussatahirou1531 Před rokem +15

      All my Nigerian weebs are here 🤣

  • @rurounikenshin7036
    @rurounikenshin7036 Před rokem +48

    Amazing to see so many people wearing the traditional kimonos, beautiful to see such cultures preserving their traditional dress code and traditions. When I visit Japan I will surly be wearing a kimono 🥰🥰

  • @prime_comando
    @prime_comando Před 9 měsíci +1

    Great video!

  • @SoraNekoNyan
    @SoraNekoNyan Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’m Japanese (but born and raised in the US), my husband is Nigerian, so our baby is also Nigerian-Japanese. I love watching videos about other Nigerian-Japanese mixed race people😊. My baby looks more Japanese now (Asian eyes, straight hair) with darker skin, but I’m sure his hair will become curly later on. He was born in Nigeria, and he’ll grow up here, too. Wondering what life would be like for him here 🇳🇬

  • @faith1614
    @faith1614 Před rokem +51

    Your eyes are a massive giveaway. Anyone with eyes can see your eyes are Japanese. You are blessed to be fluent in 2 languages. 🙏🏾

  • @scully392z
    @scully392z Před rokem +145

    I experienced the opposite. I am Japanese and when I visit Japan I can talk a little Japanese and then the Japanese go full blast in Japanese and I have that blank look. I was born and raised in Hawaii so Nihongo sukoshi dake hanashimasu. People in Hawaii love visiting Japan. That half Nigerian guy should visit Hawaii.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +18

      That’s the same thing that happened to my Korean classmates in China.

    • @Ricecakezs
      @Ricecakezs Před rokem

      @@OrientalPearl how has your Korean lessons been going?

    • @JESUSISLORDforever888
      @JESUSISLORDforever888 Před rokem +2

      Alohaaaaaaaa. ABSOLUTELY👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾. I live in Hawaii now🌺. And find that the LOCAL Asians here are accepting of ALL raceS of ppl.

    • @MROEnglishLessons
      @MROEnglishLessons Před rokem +2

      You're not japanese, you're american stop the cap.

    • @JESUSISLORDforever888
      @JESUSISLORDforever888 Před rokem +3

      @@MROEnglishLessons Marcos, you “stop the cap”( whatever that means 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️). Why can’t ppl be allowed to visit/live in a country that is not their native land and immerse in the country’s traditions. Many, many ppl like/love America and have adapted into our ways of doing things ( well, most anyway). Please do NOT rain on someone else’s parade. What country would YOU like to visit/live and learn their culture & traditions? PS: HATS OFF to this young woman, she is beautiful and I commend her for learning Japanese and CHINESE too and moving to Japan. Be nice, Marcos, isn’t our world filled with enough meanness/hatefulness. Take care. Normal is not coming back, but JESUS is - and it’s a lot sooner than most think!! MY DAILY PRAYER: “Come quickly, LORD JESUS”🎺🌺🙏🏾✝️

  • @user-jz8vv4sc7k
    @user-jz8vv4sc7k Před 4 měsíci

    Another great video, thanks...

  • @joeguzman3558
    @joeguzman3558 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Back in 2000 i had a Japanese friend ( he still my friend but he moved to a different state) from work and he was the most loyal person you can have as friend

  • @keintabak
    @keintabak Před rokem +70

    Thank you for interviewing with Jesse. This was a very interesting social experiment (and funny as well) 😁!

    • @jensjesfjeld6238
      @jensjesfjeld6238 Před rokem

      This isn't an experiment. It is Jesse's LIFE.

    • @keintabak
      @keintabak Před rokem +2

      @@jensjesfjeld6238 True. (Troll.)

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +3

      Thanks Nathan. I really enjoyed meeting Jesse and his friends. I think there will be more collaborations to come.

  • @ben-taobeneton3945
    @ben-taobeneton3945 Před rokem +104

    This was wholesome. He looks like a fun guy to hang around. Really positive. 😌
    I was kinda surprised that there were people saying he was Japanese. But hell, he does look Japanese. He has immersed in it so deep that he's one of them.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +7

      We had a lot of fun that day and we were surprised by some of the reactions.

    • @ben-taobeneton3945
      @ben-taobeneton3945 Před rokem +2

      @@OrientalPearl I'm honored that you responded to me. 😌
      I felt that, it was fun watching you having fun. This just proves that Japan is not as depressing as it looks 😄

    • @jimtepedino9295
      @jimtepedino9295 Před rokem +1

      @@ben-taobeneton3945 I don't think it looks depressing at all

    • @wertyuiopasd6281
      @wertyuiopasd6281 Před rokem

      he really doesn't

    • @rabbitazteca23
      @rabbitazteca23 Před rokem +2

      @@ben-taobeneton3945 it isn't depressing at all. Most people that come to Japan find relief from whatever pains they experience in their countries. Japan is peaceful and very zen. I've had less stress and enjoyed my experiences there more than I ever did in my country here in the US for example.

  • @JRVerster
    @JRVerster Před rokem

    First of all I love these culture diverse videos. I enjoy seeing how people react and discuss their experiences. I think these videos help breaking down barriers for people suffering. I also experience this alienation in my own country. How do we overcome this? How do we support others with this issue? Do you experience this because of your skin color or your looks? Why don't we ask more questions and try to solve these problems?

    • @moniidzia
      @moniidzia Před rokem

      13% of blacks in USA murder for over 50%

  • @AnonYoBizness
    @AnonYoBizness Před rokem

    I already watch this brothers content as well as yours when i see a video pop up. I can't be the only black person that appreciate content like this. Japan has been and still is my #1 place i want to visit and it always gives me a refreshing feeling that i will not get chased down with pitch forks LOL, jokes aside over the years of watching these type of videos in Japan, i have noticed a huge shift in the attitude of Japanese people towards foreigners especially black foreigners and it once again is very refreshing to see this, and i hope to be able to visit Japan once the Lovid (replace L with C) restrictions go away. I need to enjoy everything!! Thanks for posting this video

  • @Its_Dave_Just_Dave
    @Its_Dave_Just_Dave Před rokem +49

    Traditional Japanese dress is so beautiful as shown by the ladies in the video in places, i really love the look of Yukata and Kimono.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +2

      I know right! It made me want to wear one too but it was just so hot.

    • @steemlenn8797
      @steemlenn8797 Před rokem +2

      Right! Kimonos and shrines, I can't get enough of them :D

    • @imb5128
      @imb5128 Před rokem +1

      Such colors aren't exactly "traditional". It's rather a new invention

  • @OhioanGhost
    @OhioanGhost Před rokem +210

    Here in the U.S, my cousin is mixed with being part Korean he was judged when he was on a baseball team that they were playing against and that got him really upset which he felt like it was 100% personal but his dad told him to be proud of where he's from and not let negativity bring you down. I understand that some generations want the bloodline to be very traditional but here we are very progressive in interracial relationships and more people can be accepting of it. I dated someone from India and got a huge cultural experience from her and knowing how strict Indian families could be, I was shocked that her parents were fine with her dating someone outside her community.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +33

      That’s what most Americans don’t realize, how strict other countries are.

    • @zerguszz7589
      @zerguszz7589 Před rokem

      Propaganda is real with this one,,, Lol
      Actually mixing races is worse than you think. If "wokeness" pretend to keep the diversity, then we should be against mixing races. That's how you keep a persons genetic intact. By mixing races, you lose every inherently feature to one race, therefore, everyone would be equally mixed, and diversity wouldn't exist anymore.
      Guess why pure whites are decreasing (pure white doesn't mean visually white)

    • @johnnyc1227
      @johnnyc1227 Před rokem +9

      @@OrientalPearl the thing abt America being racist as the main thing is meant to cause division and is wrong. Many countries are and have been as much or more than here.

    • @uadimwit
      @uadimwit Před rokem +32

      My mother was raised in the racist South and told my brother and me that we would be dissowned if we ever brought a black girl home as a date.
      My brother pushed this, and his girlfriend's family is now one of my mom's favorite people to see.
      They have a genuine love for each other. Stupid can be overcome with love and understanding.

    • @allen.9
      @allen.9 Před rokem +4

      @@uadimwit honestly made me smile :)

  • @prescottosegie
    @prescottosegie Před 14 dny

    Good video yall 😎Thank you for sharing your story Jesse I’m proud that you embrace both your Nigerian 🇳🇬and Japanese 🇯🇵 heritage keep up the good work 😎💪🏾

  • @eddiealva9751
    @eddiealva9751 Před rokem +39

    What an awesome, positive guy! I thought I had a difficult identity struggle being a Mexican raised in the U.S. and now struggling to adapt in Mexico. Moving to a different country is definitely an experience! Wishing him all the best! 😄

    • @gamechannel1271
      @gamechannel1271 Před rokem

      Why would you choose to move to Mexico... have fun with the cartels

    • @bori80
      @bori80 Před rokem +1

      I know the feeling. I was raised in the US by my Puerto Rican parents. I came to live in Puerto Rico many years ago and I always been treated a little different.

  • @OfficeHanchoBoxing
    @OfficeHanchoBoxing Před rokem +183

    I think it depends where you grow up in America being Black mixed with Japanese. My experience growing up in a small town in the south was quite awful . When people found out, because I was happy to say, 5th-7th grade being some of the worst years. HS I'm was more of a blacksheep. Not black enough to be black because I talked a certain way, I didn't sound "black enough" and def not accepted by most Asians, a girl wont dare take me to see her parents. There was a Cambodian gal my friend wanted to link me up with when I was in the 10th grade. She went to another school but my friend went to that school for an after-school program. Since they both attended , he went to go tell her about me. She asked him what I was , he said Japanese first and she got excited then the min he said mixed with black. She straight up says ew thats disgusting. In college I dated a Korean gal and I think her friends up north in Nova were mad that she was hanging out more with me than with them and refereed to me in text as "some N word "with the hard R. She broke up with me 10 days later but I think her friends up north played influence in that decision despite her saying it had nothing to do with that. The timing seemed to weird. I felt more accepted in Thailand my time going 2018-2021 than I do in my own backyard in the states. In 2019 I did visit Japan for the first time to see family I hadn't see in years , I had a great time, but didn't stay long enough to get a broader outlook.

    • @leontaecoleman3644
      @leontaecoleman3644 Před rokem +1

      Asian peoples are very racist they just love white peoples.I’ve seen so many Asian women with white men it’s crazy.Asian women are brainwashed.

    • @tylerp1019
      @tylerp1019 Před rokem +9

      Yeah, I knew a black/Asian woman that said she was looked down on by some people in because she wasn't "really" black.

    • @AyeYoBoxingWithMadiba
      @AyeYoBoxingWithMadiba Před rokem +2

      Love your channel, big fan of boxing

    • @OfficeHanchoBoxing
      @OfficeHanchoBoxing Před rokem +18

      @@tylerp1019 Its weird , Black/white and Black/Latin is more accepted in the community than Black/Asian. Its a ignorant colonial mindset that dates back centuries. Though Ive seen some progress , overall its not going to fully change anytime soon in America. I don't think such outdated colonial mindsets exist anywhere else but in the States, some Caribbean nations and in South America.

    • @OfficeHanchoBoxing
      @OfficeHanchoBoxing Před rokem +2

      @@AyeYoBoxingWithMadiba Thx mane! much appreciated!

  • @JamVee
    @JamVee Před 29 dny

    I moved to the ME (Saudi Arabia) in the early 50s, as a child. Even tho' I never learned to speak several languishes, I learned enough to have people take notice of a little blond kids greeting them in Arabic, and making small talk . . . I was accepted into the neighborhood kids, play groups and we began to understand each other even tho' we spoke other languages . . . I still hold those memories very dear to my heart.

  • @_zee_2.0
    @_zee_2.0 Před 6 měsíci +1

    He his a perfect mix of Japanese Nigerian it’s so cool how he says he doesn’t care about what people had to say about him and how true he his to himself ❤

  • @catcheek7761
    @catcheek7761 Před rokem +223

    I lived in Japan for almost 5 years while my mom who has a doctorate in English was a teacher over there. She found a permanent position. She had a work Visa and I a school Visa. I use a wheelchair. First of all finding a school that would even accept me was difficult. Because while in the USA we have thing such as the ADA the laws regarding discrimination towards those with disabilities are much different in Japan. So even though I could speak Japanese as I had learned it for fun growing up I was still wildly talked down to all the time by most people. I even had mothers pull their children who would be just asking questions about my chair or why I use it like full on away from me and say “Be careful you shouldn’t speak to them, besides they shouldn’t even be allowed out in public.” I was 15 on the train heading home from school. I had never been more devastated. I loved living in Japan for a lot of reasons; I made great friends, learned and loved the culture, my education was wonderful, the experience was amazing. However I don’t miss that part of it at all. My mental health took such a toll from that. I came back to the US my senior year of highschool and while yes I am still daily spoken down to while going to my classes on my college campus as a 22 year old, or called a cripple at my job, I have never been told I shouldn’t be allowed in public at least in the USA. I will go back to Japan to visit my friends who I consider family at this point, but because of how I was treated as someone with a disability I could never live there again. I’m amazed by his ability to turn it into such a positive. I just wasn’t able to.

    • @treeve13
      @treeve13 Před rokem +29

      I'm so sorry, that's very unfortunate and a sad reality too.
      I understand that some countries don't have enough if any services for the disabled but to be treated as subhuman is something that I find quite unsettling.

    • @blackkatt777
      @blackkatt777 Před rokem +25

      Now that you've told your truth, it does bring to mind that I noticed subconsciously.
      Any programming of street talks or surveys in different countries, I don't recall seeing anyone in the background in a wheelchair or with permanent crutches. It never occurred to me that would be a taboo issue.
      That was an inhuman remark.
      And I meant that as inhuman and not inhumane. Whomever that woman was, who said that to you, wasn't human. What's worse is that mentality being handed down to the next generation.
      Glad you left for your own mental health. No one deserves to be treated like that.

    • @catcheek7761
      @catcheek7761 Před rokem +15

      @@blackkatt777 Yes! Thank you for noticing. If you look around the world you will be super hard pressed to find any people with physical disabilities just out living their lives. The most I saw when I traveled was either in London or Canada. Sadly a lot of countries don’t have the ADA or similar laws in place. So on the tail end of the civil rights movement after people noticed that the laws signed into place to protect against discrimination in the workplace and school did not include anything about people with disabilities so they fought to change it. At first it was called the 504 act and it did not have everything the ADA does, but it still protected against discrimination. It took a massive protest held all across the US where people with disabilities went and sat-in at federal buildings. It lasted 25 days until the 504 law was signed by shooting mass outrage across the country from people watching the protesters. The 504 act was then the building block for the ADA. You would think the ADA would’ve been signed in super long ago right? Nope! Just in 1990. The reason it was signed in by President George H W Bush after massive protests and pleas as well. One of the most powerful in my opinion in the “Capital Crawl” as it’s been dubbed. Over 1000 people who use wheelchairs, walkers, or crutches began to literally crawl on their hands and knees up the capital building steps showing how inaccessible it and the entire country is. There is video of it and it’s so amazing! I was born in 2000 but my dad remembers all of it happening as well as participating since my disability is genetic and he passed it on to me. But there is quite literally so much disabled history as well as more to come as we are out here still fighting for equal rights, treatment and to not be used.
      I appreciate your kindness! I’m very glad I left as well. As much as I adored the culture, the food, my friends, and was grateful for an amazing private education my mental health was in the toilet. I contemplated suicide regularly sadly and my depression led to me not eating except maybe one insanely small meal a day so I lost too much weight. I finally broke down one day telling my mother how I couldn’t do it anymore. She put in her notice at her job and we left as soon as everything was arranged. I’m doing better now though!

    • @moontan_
      @moontan_ Před rokem +1

      @@catcheek7761 Visit the Netherlands some day. Nobody will look down at you, not in that way because we are freakishly tall! Busses have special (safe) space for people in wheelchairs or with walkers and they have a pull out ramp if needed. People will help. Same with trains. I think you will find any store/company wheelchair accessible as I believe it is obligated by law. Even the sidewalks. I see people in wheelchairs commuting going to school or their jobs all the time.. or just living their best life. Even in clubs. Nobody will look at you like you don't belong. As it should be.

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 Před rokem +2

      On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 also look for oneness about Jesus with anyone who wants it bless (I IF U DO NOT WANT JUST IGNORE)

  • @powresitta
    @powresitta Před rokem +61

    i feel it's like this everywhere, when tourists come to Croatia if they say 1 word in Croatian, it's over, u r their friend for life, they will kidnap u for the rest of the day and make u drink and eat and bring to their house and offer best that they have. it's the best feeling when u can overcome language barrier, ppl r craving connection any way they can get it.

    • @YakultLitro
      @YakultLitro Před rokem +1

      isn't it a land of gangster russian that kidnaps people? i saw it in "taken" movie. 😱

    • @powresitta
      @powresitta Před rokem +4

      @@YakultLitro i used kidnap as hyperbole 🙄

    • @user-yu1yq8tq4b
      @user-yu1yq8tq4b Před rokem +1

      I love your comment, feel the same way too. Speaking a persons language makes you connect with them roughly 60% instantly!

    • @djfluba6975
      @djfluba6975 Před rokem +1

      Balkan moment

    • @esin.c
      @esin.c Před rokem

      Same in Turkey haha

  • @judemac5602
    @judemac5602 Před 6 měsíci +1

    His accent is perfect American midwest. I was so surprised he didn’t have an American parent. Very charming guy.

  • @andreiamendes9116
    @andreiamendes9116 Před rokem +1

    Great video! ❤️ I smiled with their reactions and shock when he spoke perfectly in japanese ☺️🙏 I also loved his relaxed attitude dealing with this issue 🌸

  • @supportmamamoo5089
    @supportmamamoo5089 Před rokem +238

    " You're great at speaking this language of the country you grew up in, wow".
    I am an American really good at English, yes. I hear French people are really good at speaking French, too.
    Honestly, If it were me I would just be like " Your Japanese is really good, too!"

    • @morphkogan8627
      @morphkogan8627 Před rokem +20

      Wow its almost like there is less 2% of all Japanese people are not fully ethnic Japanese. and of that 2% howmuch do you think are mixed with outside of East Asia? Probably a fraction. So no duh its shocking to think that a black skinned man with african hair can speak fluent Japanese and was born there. Europe and America have had foreign immigrants living and being born there for literal centuries. Its not complicated to understand.

    • @kiaaurora
      @kiaaurora Před rokem +12

      @Support Mamamoo Have you ever heard of ethnic states? Majority of countries in the world are ethno states meaning they are inhabited by a single ethnicity that lived there for thousands of years? Or are you an American who thinks that every country is multicultural? That’s not the case. Japan is inhabited mostly by ethnic Japanese and that half-black guy looks like a foreigner to them. It’s the same in my country.

    • @keirsimmons2312
      @keirsimmons2312 Před rokem +15

      I mean, I'd say at least 99% of French people can speak French, but that number would be a lot lower for Americans having good command of the English language.

    • @robra70
      @robra70 Před rokem +11

      I don't know, I'm an American from Missouri and I'm not that good at English sometimes 😂

    • @MB-ei2fz
      @MB-ei2fz Před rokem

      @@robra70 😂

  • @JamesDeanStudiesLanguage
    @JamesDeanStudiesLanguage Před rokem +283

    He is the most japanese looking black guy I have ever seen. I cannot believe people think he is a foreigner. He would stand out like a sore thumb in Chicago. That girl that recognized him as Japanese needs to be wifed up. Should have got her number. You can tell that does not happen often by his reaction. He was wearing a mask and she saw right through him.
    Edit: After watching it again, he had so many things that gave him away. His entire body language is Japanese. Look how he holds his own hands, stands with a small, humble hunch. No chest, as we would say. Pure Japanese.

    • @MrCanada1
      @MrCanada1 Před rokem +14

      He is half Nigerian can't be pure Japanese.
      If a British born in Japan he will act Japanese this nothing to do with being pure

    • @marianhrodgers9245
      @marianhrodgers9245 Před rokem +2

      I live in Indianapolis, and he would NOT stand out here.

    • @hatthewmallard4798
      @hatthewmallard4798 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@MrCanada1Okay Hitler

    • @seminaundcokg
      @seminaundcokg Před 11 měsíci +2

      bro y wifed up

    • @Sunshine-zi4nq
      @Sunshine-zi4nq Před 10 měsíci +4

      He doesn't look Japanese. Could pass for Cambodian maybe but not Japanese so can't blame people for not knowing. People go by Appearance not Mannerisms.

  • @michellecarr9495
    @michellecarr9495 Před 11 měsíci

    THIS WAS SO NICE

  • @mfairuzismail2235
    @mfairuzismail2235 Před 11 měsíci

    Thats cool cz both of you can talk in my favorite all time country ... Thanks you and congratulations ❤

  • @jimross7648
    @jimross7648 Před rokem +68

    Another truly amazing video Anming. The experiences you have as a visibly non Japanese person, is somewhat different than that of Jesse who was born and raised in Japan and first language is Japanese. I admit that because his English is spoken with an American accent, I would have incorrectly assumed he was an American, whom like you is very comfortable speaking Japanese. This episode brought to mind a video I saw with an American and a Canadian who were born and raised in their respective countries to Japanese emigrants. Neither spoke and both had limited understanding of Japanese, despite appearing to be visually Japanese. Along with them was a visibly non Japanese looking Japanese citizen having been born, raised and schooled in Japan. Like Jesse this individuals first language was Japanese. They went to few restaurants where the wait staff continued to try to converse to the Japanese looking individuals who indicated they did not speak or understand Japanese. At the same time the wait staff couldn't seem to comprehend that the non Japanese looking individual was speaking fluently to them in Japanese. It was an obviously a case of visual assumptions over riding what was actually occurring. I don't know if this would still be the case, as the video was at least ten years old, but I can imagine that Jesse has experienced similar situations.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +4

      Thank you so much Jim. I always love reading your comments! Things will be really busy on my channel from October to February. There’s a lot going on. I can’t wait to give you a tour of my hometown in Michigan. I would like to see that video of the American and Canadian you’re talking about. Also, one day I’d really like to interview an American born and raised in Japan.

    • @jpnlvr
      @jpnlvr Před rokem +2

      I know of an few American couples who lived in Japan when they had kids or their kids were little. One in particular who, I THINK there youngest was born here? but both their kids grew up in Japan. Their youngest did do an interview for the video Hafu, and talks about how her face is American but her heart is Japanese.

    • @SyaoranDC
      @SyaoranDC Před rokem +1

      Jesse, to me, has a slight accent when Speaking English and because of his features I would have immediately thought he was half Japanese and might be American or Japanese (doesn't really matter which because he is awesome). I've had similar experiences in Japan when speaking Japanese. The other person will simply say "No English" and I will keep talking in Japanese and they just keep saying "No English". Had the J-wife blow up on someone because of it and even after she informed them I was speaking Japanese, they still couldn't hear it. Had it happen again 3 weeks ago when we were in Japan so it still does happen sadly.

    • @michaelm.1947
      @michaelm.1947 Před rokem +3

      "the wait staff couldn't seem to comprehend that the non Japanese looking individual was speaking fluently to them in Japanese"
      This still happens. Was just talking about this at work the other day (Sendai, Japan). It can be frustrating. I can't imagine the frustrations Jesse must have. A thousand small cuts every day.

  • @candidapple
    @candidapple Před rokem +8

    Always so kind, when I was in Japan a man from the train walked me for 45mins to my hostel - You hear that everyones shy etc but people were always confident enough to help you

  • @johnnyalegria
    @johnnyalegria Před rokem

    Amazing video! Loved Jesse’s personality and interaction with all!

  • @char08fal
    @char08fal Před rokem

    It's always so interesting to watch videos like this, especially when the person's phenotype is mixed. Like it's pretty obvious that he's at least part Japanese

  • @carolemckibbon4586
    @carolemckibbon4586 Před rokem +21

    The young man's English is excellent. I can see how he would feel more comfortable in the US. Enjoyed the video.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +2

      I’m so glad that you enjoyed the video Carole.

  • @TheOneSoulMate_
    @TheOneSoulMate_ Před rokem +8

    I loved the colab! It’s fun and positive. I love seeing kindness shown to others and the genuine cute reactions from people after hearing you both speak their language! It’s the main reason I watch your channel. It’s also nice to hear about their customs and culture as well.

  • @skatingcanuck9837
    @skatingcanuck9837 Před rokem +2

    He only started learning English at 12 and he sounds like an anglophone. I'm impressed. I know they wouldn't take him as Japanese from the get go, but you can see his Asian eyes. With more and more Blasian celebrities like Naomi Osaka, models, and athletes young people in Japan are more aware of this demographic. I think young people are quite approachable for him Japan is so homogenous and they want to practise their English. There are far more foreigners in Korea (for business reasons and ESL teachers )where the government has made learning English compulsory with high standards.

  • @banimibo-oforijack753

    Wish you the best. I have just subscribed to your channel. From 🇳🇬 Nija

  • @marianadomenzain3154
    @marianadomenzain3154 Před rokem +239

    The same thing happens to me hahaha! I’m Mexican, but I have blond hair and lighter skin, so I totally know how it is to be a “stranger” in your own country! Everyone always speaks to me in English and are so surprised when I speak in spanish 😂

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 Před rokem +1

      you know they have white looking and black looking Mexicans right? are you this dumb?

    • @yin.y0
      @yin.y0 Před rokem +12

      @@Biscuit9891 she is talking from her own experience. Perhaps where she lives there's no that much white looking people. You're the one who's acting dumb by insulting her when she's just talking about her experience. And before you say something, I know LATAM and its still uncommon to see fully white and fully black people there. Even if there are white or black people more now, they still feel and look like foreigners, and Mexico its not an exception. That makes easy to assume they do not know spanish as well.

    • @marlindagomez5766
      @marlindagomez5766 Před rokem +33

      Many Mexicans are white as well.

    • @jacquelinexlara
      @jacquelinexlara Před rokem +6

      I’ve been to both countries and I am not trying to invalidate your experience in any way haha, I would like to mention that in Latin countries even though it’s not as common to see very white or black looking people it is soooo much more common to see people of all colors on a daily basis. Mexico is sooo diverse and they’re really are so many white Mexican people in certain parts of the country. When I was in Japan in about ten days I saw 1 black person and I remember being surprised because I was like wow yea haven’t seen much diversity here. So the amount of diversity in looks is vastly different in my opinion. Just something I thought I’d mention.

    • @marlindagomez5766
      @marlindagomez5766 Před rokem +7

      In Latin America the largest population of White Latinos are the following:
      1. Brazil
      2. Argentina
      3. Uruguay
      4. Costa Rica
      5. Venezuela
      6. Puerto Rico
      7. Cuba
      8. Colombia

  • @NewYorksFinest
    @NewYorksFinest Před rokem +25

    I like his attitude on the whole situation! Thank you as always Anming for sharing cool / interesting videos & bringing us along for the ride! :D I'll have to check out his page as well. Always nice to see people's reactions.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +1

      Thanks so much Jeremy. Jesse and I filmed a video together that he’ll be putting on his channel too.

  • @VinlandicSoul
    @VinlandicSoul Před rokem

    This was my introduction to both of you.
    Loved it! Double subscribed! Arigato🙏🏻

  • @rogerpr364
    @rogerpr364 Před rokem +1

    I'm here watching this and I'm smiling all allong!

  • @alexloz9174
    @alexloz9174 Před rokem +6

    Excellent video! I love when creators collaborate with each other it's nice to see that team work makes the dream work😊

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +1

      Thank you Alex. I’d love to meet more CZcamsrs.

  • @AlwaysKDawg
    @AlwaysKDawg Před rokem +23

    My sister and her husband's friend, Josh, is black and he was born in Japan and speaks fluent Japanese [him and his wife(also a black woman) moved back there and are raising their 2 children there] and they kinda have a similar experience, but everyone is super friendly with them. His father was a preacher for a church in Okinawa

  • @amirin_
    @amirin_ Před rokem

    I actually went to that temple in Kyoto when I was in Japan! The street vendors were very nice and they had good food too.

  • @augustiner8425
    @augustiner8425 Před rokem +1

    the japanese ppl are very nice, very friendly....they take their time to help you out and to make sure your questions are answered. in this video for example, they really try their best to speak english with you, event though they are struggling with it communcating it with you. If you are a foreigner in U.S.A. and you have a strong accent while speaking english when asking for direction on the street, good luck.....it will be very hard to get the info you needed with a typical local americans on the street. Not to say all americans are like that.

  • @tentangindonesia6354
    @tentangindonesia6354 Před rokem +4

    4:24 with white t-shirt is a CZcamsr... Her name is Erika Ebisawa she is half Japanese-Indonesia

  • @theaisme203
    @theaisme203 Před rokem +20

    I wanna learn japanese too. Im impressed how you are so good. I WAS THE FIRST LIKE OMG

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +4

      You can learn too! Nothing can stop you.

    • @aspebb
      @aspebb Před rokem +1

      Dedication. Hard work and patience 💪

  • @lisagardner903
    @lisagardner903 Před měsícem

    Awesome people. Enjoyed the video.

  • @thefilipinojoe
    @thefilipinojoe Před rokem +3

    I'm an American living in the Philippines. I prefer living in areas where few to no other foreigners live. So I get a lot of stares. It was something I got used to after about a year living here. I tend to smile at whoever I catch staring at me. Most Filipinos are very friendly and welcoming, but like anywhere, you do need to be careful. I'm very careful and maintain a small tight-knit group of friends. I've been living here since 2018 and I have no plans of ever living anywhere else.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 5 měsíci

      Pinoys are mixed already so.

  • @IkennaLanguages
    @IkennaLanguages Před rokem +8

    wooow great video! So cool to see this collab, I love both of your channels! You guys are crushing it 💪

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much Ikenna. That really means a lot. I’m glad that you finally got to see the specialist you’ve been waiting a year for. I really hope you can get your health back soon. Also, congrats on your engagement.

    • @IkennaLanguages
      @IkennaLanguages Před rokem +1

      @@OrientalPearl Thank you so much! Didn't know you were following my health situation, really appreciate the kind words! I just sent you a message on instagram

  • @KayyNova
    @KayyNova Před rokem +19

    I'm glad he was honest. There is a culture of hiding that kind of experience in Japan. Talking about it is what will make things better ❤ 本当にありがとうございます🙏🏽

  • @josaphatnyamabu7425
    @josaphatnyamabu7425 Před 9 měsíci

    Jesse, your english is so good!

  • @amptunes
    @amptunes Před rokem

    Fascinating perspectives.

  • @bettydavis7359
    @bettydavis7359 Před rokem +6

    Great collab! I’m so happy for you to get to go home for a visit😊

  • @kellyd6619
    @kellyd6619 Před rokem +18

    You may want to consider changing the title and message of this video. It would be more fair and honest to the people in it, to highlight the unity and kindness they expressed. After-all, the young man is approaching people while speaking in English. He's asking questions as if he doesn't understand Japanese. So, it makes sense that they are going to think he's not from Japan...and be surprised when he suddenly switches to speaking Japanese. All the people were open and friendly towards him in this video.

    • @tehnebb
      @tehnebb Před rokem +5

      Yeah, this makes no sense. I would be surprised if someone spoke English to me before switching to fluent native. What about that scenario is realistic? Clickbait video

    • @dylanleah
      @dylanleah Před rokem +3

      Thank you for mentioning this. Was thinking the exact thing when watching this video and went straight to the comments to see if anyone else picked up on that.

  • @kiranche
    @kiranche Před rokem

    I really like your videos and I love the way you sound when you laugh :-)

  • @ovniusa15
    @ovniusa15 Před 5 měsíci +4

    This is gold you guys are awesome 👏🏼

  • @BenjaminSweetnam
    @BenjaminSweetnam Před rokem +68

    this is sorta the experience I had when I visited Japan. people where so friendly and helpful. though always shocked even when I could speak just a few words like as for directions though I couldn't understand when they answered back in japanese. :D

    • @TeslaPrinciples
      @TeslaPrinciples Před rokem +8

      This is always the hardest part for me, even if I learn many words.. Hearing them in a sentence from someone else, it’s hard to pick up when a word stops and the next one begins

    • @racool911
      @racool911 Před rokem +6

      @@TeslaPrinciples That's why you can't really study understanding a language, you gotta keep listening until your mind starts noticing phrase patterns

    • @eenchantress5113
      @eenchantress5113 Před rokem

      @@racool911 I’m learning languages ,thanks for the tip!

  • @yassiamy
    @yassiamy Před rokem +19

    I feel happy when i see people accept people regardless of their race , color , religion or culture and hope to see more of that .

  • @jordaneverett9367
    @jordaneverett9367 Před rokem

    This is so cool! I want to learn Japanese too one day

  • @zachchristopher61
    @zachchristopher61 Před rokem +2

    I'm from Nigeria to and love Japan

  • @kanealoha
    @kanealoha Před rokem +3

    Wow - another fantastic video. I’m so happy to be able to share in these experiences that you post for us! Thank you!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much Kane. I really enjoyed making this one! Glad you enjoyed watching it.

    • @kanealoha
      @kanealoha Před rokem

      @@OrientalPearl 😁

  • @dwrabauke
    @dwrabauke Před rokem +4

    That was really fun and interesting, thanks for giving us this insight. I am happy for him that he is able to enjoy both cultures without any problems.

  • @mallon201
    @mallon201 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I don't think Japanese people realise how helpful and kind they are to visitors.
    I've visited twice and compared to the many other countries around the world
    that I've visited, except maybe for home (Ireland), Japanese people are the best.
    They should be proud of how friendly and kind they are to visitors, it's an attractive
    feature to people deciding where to travel to. Great selling point for tourism industry.

  • @jackoshi8227
    @jackoshi8227 Před rokem +1

    Jesse is really a nice guy. Smiling, very good energy. You will found your place and be happy wherever you go, man.

  • @-HRH
    @-HRH Před rokem +3

    Very sensitively done but also very enjoyable to watch. Well done to you both. ❤