This made a Chinese guy fall in love with a black girl instantly😳😳

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  • čas přidán 8. 03. 2022
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  • @missorwa3136
    @missorwa3136 Před 2 lety +3411

    The guy instantly fell in love with you, he didn't even care that his parents were around, he just wanted to be closer to you all the time

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 Před 2 lety +4119

    homie was like "im getting a blasian son"

  • @vuton7670
    @vuton7670 Před 2 lety +1126

    The highest respect you can show someone in any country is learning their language.

    • @timlorgen1971
      @timlorgen1971 Před 11 měsíci +14

      Compared to written languages, most of the oral languages in the world are pretty easy to learn, especially when you get the chance to live there. So just go for it!

    • @Elric-zz2sb
      @Elric-zz2sb Před 8 měsíci

      agreed lol for instance even french for me is on a quite different level of difficulty when i have to write in it@@timlorgen1971

    • @missguapa
      @missguapa Před 3 měsíci +2

      except in america!! many americans can be soo rude to people trying to/learning english

    • @notpinterestworthyy
      @notpinterestworthyy Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@missguapa Really?

    • @udonkey431
      @udonkey431 Před 2 měsíci

      @@missguapasadly England too, the amount of ppl I’ve heard been mocked for not being speaking English fluently is upsetting

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 Před 2 lety +67

    I've never seen such a hyper extroverted, goofy Chinese guy like him before, it's nice to see

  • @haiipeople8390
    @haiipeople8390 Před 2 lety +11808

    Mom and dad: she’s fluent in Chinese and goes to medical uni…marry our son 😂😂

    • @okorolina
      @okorolina Před 2 lety +957

      BASICALLY 😂😂😂😂 he was so smitten lol

    • @jaycaspian2137
      @jaycaspian2137 Před 2 lety +908

      They were already preparing the weddin in there heads

    • @JasmineThanai
      @JasmineThanai Před 2 lety +332

      I love interracial couples ! I’m one well one part or you all know what I’m saying lol 😂 ONE LOVE ❤️

    • @PrincessHarlotte
      @PrincessHarlotte Před 2 lety +275

      That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. Princess beauty and a doctor. He was 💯 smitten kitten they were practically visualizing the wedding and grandchildren. LEGEND 👸🏾

    • @badgyal4576
      @badgyal4576 Před 2 lety +27

      Exactly 👌🏾

  • @mishy297
    @mishy297 Před 2 lety +1326

    You eat bread
    Chinese woman: she can eat bread too
    You eat watermelon
    Chinese woman: She can eat watermelon too
    You drink water
    Chinese woman: She drinks water too
    😂😂😂

  • @Citystateanonymate
    @Citystateanonymate Před 4 měsíci +93

    HE'S ACTUALLY SO CUTE TOO! You guys would be so cute together

  • @seanfenrir
    @seanfenrir Před 2 lety +1272

    One thing I had to learn when dealing with people from other cultures is that when they do or say something that seems like it's an invasion of personal space or offensive, often they don't even realize it. I myself have been guilty of doing this with an Arabic friend of mine and I had to apologize to him. I commend you for being open-minded and calm even when the guy touched your hair without permission, or when they asked if your hair was fake.

    • @yaohuikong
      @yaohuikong Před 2 lety

      China also does not touch men's heads and women's waists.

    • @rachel.shakira
      @rachel.shakira Před rokem +60

      this! Like the amount of patience you have to have!

    • @sola4393
      @sola4393 Před rokem +96

      I was like omg, he touched her hair 😮😂😂 , thank god she stayed clam and maintained a good gesture and relationship. He must be so curious and excited to see her. lol I've seen a black woman touching an Asian woman's hair without her permission before. She runs her fingers through her hair and complimented her hair is so silky. Sometimes people are just too excited and curious they forget what is happening. Hope everyone can stay clam, if you don't like what happened, just kindly in a polite way let them know if they could ask for permission before touching them. 😂 By the way the Asian guy look cute too. lol

    • @Lonelyeco
      @Lonelyeco Před rokem +26

      I would've touched his hair. 😂😂😂 Let's even it out.😅

    • @issaflo1224
      @issaflo1224 Před rokem +17

      @@sola4393 I hope you aren't confused, when anyone (except in places where black issues, history, and microaggressions aren't talked about much) touches a black woman's (or really any black persons hair) hair it counts as a micro-aggression and has harmful history behind it, the other doesn't

  • @wendykirby7345
    @wendykirby7345 Před 2 lety +2668

    He tripped over a chair to get your wechat name in front of his family. Lol that's my boy! Way to go! He is in love!

    • @greyprice8167
      @greyprice8167 Před 2 lety +47

      😂😭😭😭

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 Před 2 lety +22

      Aww

    • @SM-qn7sr
      @SM-qn7sr Před rokem +33

      He seems thirsty to be honest but yeah lol

    • @jenniferzalik1521
      @jenniferzalik1521 Před rokem +106

      @@SM-qn7sr that nigga was hungry like understandable since she’s absolutely stunning

    • @RedzClapz
      @RedzClapz Před rokem +6

      China full of people that looks the same ofc he will be fascinated

  • @oyin3231
    @oyin3231 Před 2 lety +12653

    Honestly I still think people are more excited around you because you try to communicate in their own language and that's a beautiful thing. Well done

    • @davido4408
      @davido4408 Před 2 lety +268

      There is something about your comment here that shows your beautiful soul. I dunno what it is, I feel it though.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 Před 2 lety +146

      @@davido4408 oh wow thank you 😁 that comment made me smile.

    • @mashuptitok
      @mashuptitok Před 2 lety +6

      @@davido4408 upup

    • @JaejoongPrincess
      @JaejoongPrincess Před 2 lety +83

      Yep, I get that too when I speak Korean, Japanese and Chinese. It's true! They get super excited when you speak their language. I be getting free stuff and discounts lol. I studied Mandarin in high school and college for three years. I studied Japanese for 2 years in college and before I took classes, I was teaching myself Japanese since I was 13 years old. I taught myself basic Korean and phrases. Several years ago at the hair store, there was this one Korean guy who acted just like the guy in the video lol. My mom and dad said that he was jumping over the shelves to check me out. He was following me around and asked me a few times if I needed help. They were aware that I can speak Korean and Japanese because they spoke both languages. His mom kept taking to me about his son and how he was the same age as me. My dad said that he was interested in me because he leaned so close to me when paying for my stuff. I didn't know what was going on. I have autism...so I can't tell when people like me. I don't know until somebody tell me.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 Před 2 lety +42

      @@JaejoongPrincess wow I admire your ability to study multiple languages. It's actually common everywhere. In my country there are 3 main languages spoken besides English. When you are from another tribe and you can speak their language people get excited. 😂😂😂 especially traders. I speak mostly English but when I go to the market I speak in my native language (Yoruba)

  • @zhi4452
    @zhi4452 Před rokem +881

    I love how that one lady couldn’t stop saying how beautiful you are and your hair is ❤ I feel like ppl in America don’t appreciate Black beauty like this, it makes me want to go to China 😂

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu Před rokem +23

      cause in america its normal ig ,

    • @jazminartopee7774
      @jazminartopee7774 Před rokem +70

      Exactly! And because in America it’s taught that black beauty is not as beautiful as anyone else. Black women are out at the bottom of the totem pole. Our hair our skin is frowned upon when in all actuality the ones that publicly display hate towards it secretly admires it.

    • @hedkace
      @hedkace Před rokem +33

      @@jazminartopee7774 Who exactly and where exactly in America is it being taught that black is not beautiful?
      I think black women have an amazing beauty!

    • @deniqueblack8857
      @deniqueblack8857 Před rokem +19

      It’s not just normal it’s looked down upon and villanized for a purpose. China didn’t go through that process

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha Před rokem +4

      @@jazminartopee7774WE will NEVER be at the BOTTOM EVER !!!💯💙🏹👑💫

  • @korph6031
    @korph6031 Před 2 lety +182

    you handled the ignorant comments well! i know they dont mean harm but i can see how it can get annoying quick, amazing video!

    • @MARILANAEE
      @MARILANAEE Před rokem +41

      I honestly felt frustrated watching this 😭 i get they're curious but like she is human after all 😭😭

    • @PrincesaLunez
      @PrincesaLunez Před 5 měsíci +15

      I thought I was the only one who felt even the slightest bit of annoyance lol Like not to hate on them as seeing something that’s not typically in your culture is fascinating, so I truly can’t hate. I would just I need more personal space lol
      Props to her for being the one to break the barrier! We love to see it being done safely

    • @annyeongyani
      @annyeongyani Před 3 měsíci

      Righttt!! like girl, hats off to you 😅

  • @QBeezy-gi2lh
    @QBeezy-gi2lh Před 2 lety +7622

    You made his day! He was so excited, he couldn’t stop dancing around, moving, fidgety being goofy 😂😂😂. So cute.

    • @wandagaines2678
      @wandagaines2678 Před 2 lety +184

      I think she made his week!! He will remember this for years to come. It was very nice to see the interaction. You blew the lady away who couldn't believe you Chinese and spoke it so well. It's amazing what people think of others from foreign countries. I love it! I saw him sneak and touch your hair. He couldn't resist.

    • @only1giselle
      @only1giselle Před 2 lety +131

      Exactly 😅 this showed me that men get awkward and goofy in every language if they think you’re beautiful 🤣🤣🤣 you handled it with grace…I would not have sat through all those questions and hovering over me while I’m trying to eat lol

    • @lyndapknox3481
      @lyndapknox3481 Před 2 lety +15

      Awesome! Beautiful Sister! Impeccable Chinese. You handled it all very well.

    • @sydneydwoskin4950
      @sydneydwoskin4950 Před 2 lety +7

      Hahahaa I know! 😆 so sweet

    • @tomilola_otitoju
      @tomilola_otitoju Před rokem

      Very cuteeeee

  • @Sachistar7591
    @Sachistar7591 Před 2 lety +1393

    Homeboy was BOLD in his pink apron with flowers 😂😂😂

    • @roelidani
      @roelidani Před 2 lety +32

      🤣

    • @juniebob4420
      @juniebob4420 Před rokem +97

      And? Asians arent toxic masculine we don't care about those things

    • @OGigiBunny
      @OGigiBunny Před rokem +40

      This brought tears to my eyes the way I went back to look! He sure was bold! He didn't care one bit. He was like, here is my chance boiiiii!!!

    • @Crocrobon
      @Crocrobon Před rokem +34

      @@juniebob4420 he's cute with his pink apron

    • @MiyaMam948
      @MiyaMam948 Před rokem +20

      @@juniebob4420 she was making a lighthearted joke, don’t worry

  • @thegraced
    @thegraced Před 2 lety +42

    First off...the young Chinese guy is such a cutie....plus the whole family treated you with so much kindness....I enjoyed the video....you're a true inspiration...love from kenya

  • @havad3938
    @havad3938 Před 7 měsíci +61

    I love seeing how they're treating you. And he was cute and so confident, even around his parents. I'm not surprised they really liked you in every regard.

  • @india6299
    @india6299 Před 2 lety +2153

    It seems like mom and dad was trying to find a wife for their son.

  • @thatcookingdude
    @thatcookingdude Před 2 lety +3670

    “She can eat potatoes too” had me dying 😂😂

    • @bikingsolo9194
      @bikingsolo9194 Před 2 lety +421

      Like what do they think she is😭 it’s cute but who can’t eat potatoes lol

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 Před 2 lety +143

      I Screamed 😱...Just human🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣💃🏾

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude Před 2 lety +91

      @@bikingsolo9194 and the she can use chopsticks too or something like that 😂😂

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude Před 2 lety +14

      @@sharonhicks-jones5471 I don’t blame you haha 😂😂

    • @depressedlhama
      @depressedlhama Před 2 lety +56

      They're just ignorant

  • @darvoid66
    @darvoid66 Před rokem +13

    It was cute seeing the Chinese boy crush on you. He could not contain how smitten he was for you. Thank you for sharing how nice the people are in China :)

  • @sleepygirl8344
    @sleepygirl8344 Před rokem +123

    I kept replaying the intro of the video so many times cause the smile when they said “let’s add each other on WeChat” just made my heart so happy 😭
    So many people are learning Korean and Japanese, and being a black woman it’s strange to others that I would wanna learn mandarin and visit China yk? And people always talk about the bad things like racism and etc making me wanna change my mind and learn a different language ( a language I don’t really wanna learn atm) but this made me feel so much better 😭

    • @manguanxu3612
      @manguanxu3612 Před rokem

      there are shit ass people in every country, and not everyone is like that.

  • @maedthings8828
    @maedthings8828 Před 2 lety +6088

    he was obsessed with you 😭 but on a serious note, you inspire me a lot, you make me want to go to China for my studies

    • @Tiktok_Reddit
      @Tiktok_Reddit Před 2 lety +55

      Fascinated is the word not obsessed

    • @tashamoh2459
      @tashamoh2459 Před 2 lety +78

      @spirit so true that's why we don't have to believe what ever we see in social media 💚

    • @blackwarrior7473
      @blackwarrior7473 Před 2 lety +10

      ​@spirit So pretend to be a Chinese to tell lies about Chinese and black people? I think the Chinese are probably the kindest to the black people in the world. See how the black people are treated in the US, even those born in the US. Refer to the Floyd case. Sure enough, the Chinese are sometimes too kind to the extent of harassment, like the young boy in the video.

    • @Crisis-xw3wg
      @Crisis-xw3wg Před 2 lety +12

      “Studies” yea right 😂😂😂

    • @avateraangshoe5025
      @avateraangshoe5025 Před 2 lety +67

      @@Crisis-xw3wg what is unbelievable about that? you don't go to school?

  • @leratomanana917
    @leratomanana917 Před 2 lety +4082

    Can we just take a minute to appreciate how cute the chinese guy is 😭

  • @daniellathompson3173
    @daniellathompson3173 Před rokem +86

    我认为这很了不起,因为你一次将一个人团结在了世界上,你让黑人不必与其他种族分开似乎是可以的,我喜欢它。上帝保佑你💙💙🥰

  • @sarahmelody9366
    @sarahmelody9366 Před 10 měsíci +76

    It's so cool to see how people from ALL walks of life could come together if only we took the time to understand one another. Break some bread, share a laugh or a warm conversation. It's a beautiful thing to witness.

  • @katien3022
    @katien3022 Před 2 lety +1606

    I found it funny that the dad was just boasting China the whole time lol 😂

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily Před 2 lety +223

      That's typical Chinese. They're very patriotic 😅🤣

    • @esiana
      @esiana Před 2 lety +153

      Tryna get her to stay!!!

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB Před 2 lety +84

      Honestly they’re very proud of their country which is great to see!

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 Před 2 lety +75

      I mean, regardless of the ccp controversies, its a fact that to the chinese citizens, the gov has mostly been a good gov to them. China used to be in poverty and a third world country just half a century ago. The ccp managed to lift the country out of poverty into an economic and political powerhouse and people are living much better

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB Před 2 lety +36

      @@ohsehun6470 yeah I always notice that. The only people who talk bad about china are people who don’t live there. Usually it’s because of what type of government you guys have. But I’ve never seen a citizen have a problem with china.

  • @godofjustice
    @godofjustice Před 2 lety +2037

    He looked so cute haha can’t believe there are actually people that aren’t as introverted as me lol

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 Před 2 lety +73

      yeah it's surprising as when I have random men in shops jumping around and being excited they aren't cute. The cute ones generally just look but do nothing in my experience . But then again it's china . She is lucky!

    • @nevaehlheaven
      @nevaehlheaven Před rokem

      You haven't met me

  • @MichelMawon4982
    @MichelMawon4982 Před rokem +43

    This was adorable. People blossom when you speak their language. Their fascination was so genuine and innocent that nothing they did or said was offensive, just people connecting.

  • @Solastar
    @Solastar Před rokem +21

    As a black girl...the title is kinda cringe but love the video its super cute

  • @Fari-100
    @Fari-100 Před 2 lety +4483

    Hey, can't blame him, every nationality can understand your Nigerian beauty 😍😊

    • @nonhlanhlanunsy9179
      @nonhlanhlanunsy9179 Před 2 lety +235

      Nigerians girls are so beautiful ND intelligent coming from a fellow african

    • @davills_cosplay.
      @davills_cosplay. Před 2 lety +42

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you

    • @dbspaceoditty
      @dbspaceoditty Před 2 lety

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 when white people talk like this its racist XDDD

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily Před 2 lety +18

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you ❤️

    • @Heartsforsummayah
      @Heartsforsummayah Před 2 lety +52

      African woman in general are beautiful don’t get it twisted

  • @sunflowerzen3297
    @sunflowerzen3297 Před 2 lety +5468

    Lol that was so cute, he was definitely flirting and so interested. You really corrected stereotypes about Africans with this video. You truly opened their eyes.

    • @judeayo1806
      @judeayo1806 Před 2 lety +30

      what exactly is the stereotypes about Africans? Your name suggests you are white.....do you know the stereotypes about white people JESSICA? huh?

    • @caineallen8132
      @caineallen8132 Před 2 lety +501

      @@judeayo1806 oh lawd!! Calm down Karen.🤪🤪🤪

    • @ppjskh
      @ppjskh Před 2 lety +210

      @@judeayo1806 wat da faq lmaooo CALM DOWNNN

    • @Heyguhh
      @Heyguhh Před 2 lety +147

      @@judeayo1806 now miss gurll…

    • @sunflowerzen3297
      @sunflowerzen3297 Před 2 lety +199

      Actually I'm not white nor was I saying my comment in any rude way so if y'all can calm down, I will explain the stereotypes I've heard about Africans.....oh and fyi I am part African too. Anyway... the first stereotype I've heard was that they always have short hair. Completely not true cause all of my African friends have long gorgeous hair. Not weaves and wigs...not that anything is wrong with those either. It's just crazy how people keep taking my compliments and try to flip it to make it sound like I said something bad. Maybe I should change my name on CZcams so ya'll can stop being so judgmental of it.

  • @lisewagnac3623
    @lisewagnac3623 Před rokem +36

    I miss living in China so much, I should've never left. Loved this video it made me feel very nostalgic.

  • @g.jeniseclifton7843
    @g.jeniseclifton7843 Před rokem +8

    I love to see people getting along ... best gift you could ever give the universe. Friendship

  • @ProfesionalVideoWatcher
    @ProfesionalVideoWatcher Před 2 lety +1571

    Reason they ask you to eat before pay
    1)They got co comfortable with you
    2) They wanted to be nice with you since you also had a very positive vibe
    3) You where a foreigner
    4) They wanted you to stay for a while

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  Před 2 lety +197

      Valid points

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 Před 2 lety +16

      Aww

    • @ProfesionalVideoWatcher
      @ProfesionalVideoWatcher Před 2 lety +36

      @PhantomStranger honestly I would too
      Imagine some Asian or white guy . Came to me and started speaking my native dialect or even pidgin to me I would definitely as him or her to stay for a bit longer

    • @STUMAHA
      @STUMAHA Před 2 lety +33

      I agree with #4 100% !! Customers will be drawn there and buy food to get a closer look so as not to appear obviously curious. The owner is friendly, but also a smart businessman.

    • @idc_cope
      @idc_cope Před rokem +22

      The Real reason- They wanted to interview a possible wife for their son ✨.

  • @MC-vp4eg
    @MC-vp4eg Před 2 lety +740

    I honestly can’t blame him for being so smitten with you- you have an attractive personality, are kind, and exude humility. You are the epitome of a women. You being gorgeous is just a plus.

    • @SnippetsBB
      @SnippetsBB Před 8 měsíci +41

      What an honorable, kind, honest, and REAL compliment. So nice

    • @Des_.
      @Des_. Před 8 měsíci

      What is the epitome of a woman 💀

    • @YosefAmadeusC.
      @YosefAmadeusC. Před 8 měsíci +6

      @@SnippetsBByesssss

    • @someoneelse6934
      @someoneelse6934 Před 5 měsíci

      simp

  • @Luxurymoneysimplified
    @Luxurymoneysimplified Před 3 měsíci +2

    Bro was definitely smitten 😂

  • @EclipsetsunePlays
    @EclipsetsunePlays Před rokem +31

    I love these kind of videos. It kind of makes me sad that more black aren't open to traveling due to stares. Ppl see stares & automatically jump to the conclusion of "racism." Ofc sometimes it actually is, but most of the time staring is just human curiosity.
    Ik it's hard for some to fathom bc most English speaking countries are melting pots, but any foreigner that visits a homogenous society will get stares. Especially if you stand out by being really tall or tiny, different facial features, different skin color, eye color, hair color or texture & so on.

  • @shinagi6807
    @shinagi6807 Před 2 lety +848

    The lady that kept complementing your hair made my day lol,I think she said it 10 times in 10 diferent ways omd!!😂😂

  • @nounie123
    @nounie123 Před 2 lety +1047

    Imagine being stuck at the foodcart with the same ole customers and your parents and then this exiting young lady your age comes by and you can actually understand each other! Yeah i understand this kid’s excitement 🤣❤️👍🏼

  • @lunarebony6122
    @lunarebony6122 Před rokem +6

    I love how ur vids solve stereotypes about both Chinese and Africans! Love it!

    • @cat3052
      @cat3052 Před rokem

      asians and africans

  • @alainpierre
    @alainpierre Před 6 měsíci +2

    I really understand the chinese boy's enthusiasm, you are really very beautiful! Kisses from Brazil.

  • @MM-ManifestingMiracles
    @MM-ManifestingMiracles Před 2 lety +155

    Medical University! That young guy looking like, he's got to work harder to win you over! LOL. Parents: Very Impressed!

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 Před 2 lety +654

    I screamed laughed SO many times. Hilarious.

  • @sabrinabryant1501
    @sabrinabryant1501 Před 2 lety +3

    😆😆😆awww the son is so infatuated with you, it's so cute the way he acts with you, the parents were very opened and friendly with you as well, enjoyed this video🙂

  • @beholdtheman3161
    @beholdtheman3161 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I've never seen a guy so smitten with a girl before, it was beautiful to watch. I'll watch it again.

  • @luclabouche7656
    @luclabouche7656 Před 2 lety +1957

    I don't know how you've managed to stay calm and collected while the guy was invading your personal space 😄. They do seem like nice people. They were curious about you.

    • @downundabrotha
      @downundabrotha Před 2 lety +193

      Seemed like fascination

    • @Jolene8
      @Jolene8 Před 2 lety +179

      He's cute. That helps. 😂

    • @loriyang2528
      @loriyang2528 Před 2 lety +241

      Thats culture. If they like you, they want to know everything about you. Thats their way of being friendly and wanting to be your friend. 😊

    • @oreoluwaadenrele5938
      @oreoluwaadenrele5938 Před 2 lety +138

      I felt he was being a pest at some point… but I can understand his excitement, but he’s a big flirt sha😂

    • @kingstonshawn2595
      @kingstonshawn2595 Před 2 lety

      No personal space in China.
      Everyone crowds round like sardines. You'd be happy if someone wasn't leaning on you.

  • @steph8842
    @steph8842 Před 2 lety +564

    He was obviously fascinated but I still cringed when he touched her hair. Speaking from experience, black woman's hair seems to have the same effect on people as a pregnant belly. People forget about common sense personal space and just goes for it and touch.

    • @hentai7444
      @hentai7444 Před 2 lety +1

      Ur just sensitive

    • @timelizz7719
      @timelizz7719 Před 2 lety +67

      As a Latina growing up and going to school with mostly all black kids I also got my hair touched a lot!! Mostly probably because everyone thought I was black and was trying to figure out why my hair looked wavy. I had a lot of people thinking I was wearing weave or I had a relaxer. It was weird at 1st but I got used to it though my mom did get upset because I would always come back home from school with my hair all messed up 😂

    • @lamb4613
      @lamb4613 Před 2 lety +36

      It’s ok to feel it lmao y’all so extra….. it’s different textures he just tryna see

    • @zyloz88
      @zyloz88 Před 2 lety +91

      @@lamb4613 its defo not ok, but its not as bad as it would be if she was in america tho, he could of asked tbf

    • @Just...K
      @Just...K Před 2 lety +80

      @@lamb4613 he isn't trying to "see" He is trying to touch. I am completely understanding of curiosity but it's not okay to touch people like petting an animal you are fascinated by, like a cute kitten that has soft looking fur. We are people. One can at least ask before touching someone else.

  • @divorce_s
    @divorce_s Před rokem +10

    youre so good at keeping your cool when they touched your hair and were all up in your personal space haha, videos like this inspire me to study abroad and learn a different language. except the education in america is such a failure, i could never compete with the countries in asia!

  • @JustAndreaEdna
    @JustAndreaEdna Před rokem

    Beautiful video! Your patience with a people other than your own was a blessing to watch. They were so impressed with your mastery of their language.💕🥰

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings Před 2 lety +232

    Marry him! This was better than a romantic scene in a K-drama 😂😂Loved this!

  • @itzzchocolatemimig1226
    @itzzchocolatemimig1226 Před 2 lety +482

    The African drum big had me dying it was so random😂🤦🏾‍♀️ loved this vid glad ur back busola hope ur staying healthy n well🙏🏾🙏🏾💛

    • @bloodnessx
      @bloodnessx Před 2 lety +15

      Can't even hate, shit was so random, it's hilarious. All jokes🤣👌🙏

  • @carlosfuentes9574
    @carlosfuentes9574 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Nigerian women are highly sought after. Beautiful and smart

  • @iMsOiNsO
    @iMsOiNsO Před rokem +3

    i always love and appreciate people who learn other cultures and languages, and love when those people from different places get so happy to see others people speaking their language

  • @keywordxo5378
    @keywordxo5378 Před 2 lety +1350

    Having been a foreigner in China, I can say that the Chinese people are endlessly kind to and curious about foreigners. The will run over to assist you if they realize that you need help. Of course, like other country, there are bad people, but i never once encountered one.

    • @alecgurney9305
      @alecgurney9305 Před 2 lety +15

      Could a chinese person receive kindness in your country?

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 Před 2 lety +31

      nah my guy there are a decent amount of racist chinese people too lmao

    • @Abena1709
      @Abena1709 Před 2 lety +100

      @@crypticcavern4109 but the comment wasn't about the racist people.

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Abena1709 Didn't ask

    • @keywordxo5378
      @keywordxo5378 Před 2 lety +60

      @@crypticcavern4109 I'm sure there are. I even said that the are bad people

  • @devonastearnes8603
    @devonastearnes8603 Před 2 lety +606

    I love how you gave the compliment back to re ensure her she just as beautiful and she just giggled I’m glad you told her that

  • @cynswellbeingcorner7785

    Thank you very much for the amazing blog, very informative. Lots of love from Wales, UK 💕

  • @christinaevans8700
    @christinaevans8700 Před rokem +6

    I studied abroad for a semester in Dalian China in 2013 and loved it! I was treated like a celebrity, especially when they found out I was amercian but black. I wanted to go back to teach but then the pandemic hit.

  • @ChisomUtazi
    @ChisomUtazi Před 2 lety +107

    Not that woman asking a Yoruba girl if she can eat pepper 😭😭😭😭

  • @lulubaraa976
    @lulubaraa976 Před 2 lety +3196

    I feel so bad for everybody in the world that never met a black person in their life

    • @Toastymosty69
      @Toastymosty69 Před 2 lety +190

      Ok? 😆 wtf

    • @esiana
      @esiana Před 2 lety +72

      THIS

    • @urfav_laylaaa
      @urfav_laylaaa Před 2 lety +52

      @@Toastymosty69 ?

    • @lust9818
      @lust9818 Před 2 lety +79

      Umm ok???

    • @mrsjrenae4738
      @mrsjrenae4738 Před 2 lety +347

      We really are a very kind hearted and fun group of people. I think the crazy idiots give us a bad name when the truth is, we're nothing like that.

  • @classifiedinfo2047
    @classifiedinfo2047 Před 2 lety +3

    hes so wholesome adorable

  • @candypie20201
    @candypie20201 Před rokem +6

    This needs to be a drama 😭 bits a beautiful love story ☺️

  • @tiphneewestry3129
    @tiphneewestry3129 Před 2 lety +445

    He’s going to make a great husband for someone one day! The way he is making sure everything is to your liking and that you are pleased is so heartwarming!

    • @DA-jw4lx
      @DA-jw4lx Před 10 měsíci +11

      That really was so uplifting.

  • @SNXO
    @SNXO Před 2 lety +43

    This brother is STARVING 😭

  • @kevinbrathwaite1116
    @kevinbrathwaite1116 Před rokem +4

    This is the beautiful when people of different races and cultures appreciate each other 🇨🇳 🇳🇬

  • @Nyelasurviving
    @Nyelasurviving Před 2 lety +2

    This is so cute! I love how much he likes you! 😍

  • @temidaniels6055
    @temidaniels6055 Před 2 lety +1288

    i love how well you speak..
    i’ve been trying to learn chinese for a while.. but it’s like i’m stuck😭😭

    • @soiammagenta
      @soiammagenta Před 2 lety +152

      A tip: watch a lot of Chinese TV/ listen to a lot of Chinese so you can get used to the sound of the language. Everytime when you listen to someone speak Chinese, try to match the sounds with the subtitles. I'm not an expert or anything, but I've been studying it for a while, and I try to continue by watching Chinese dramas lol. One thing that improved was pronunciation and some other things too I think hehe. Hope this helpeddd

    • @temidaniels6055
      @temidaniels6055 Před 2 lety +18

      @@soiammagenta thank youuu☺️

    • @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558
      @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558 Před 2 lety +6

      Download the Chinese app pleco for free and hello Chinese. They have both helped me when I'm not in my class at school. And watch tons of shows and videos in Chinese with subs.

    • @dzzhang2107
      @dzzhang2107 Před 2 lety +22

      It just takes time, nothing else. Make learning Chinese part of your life for the next two years and you will harvest a second language.😊

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 Před 2 lety +17

      that's me with Korean right now. I just don't know where to start. It's so difficult 😭

  • @watermelonsugarr9958
    @watermelonsugarr9958 Před 2 lety +106

    I like the woman who is endlessly complimenting you

  • @AtherischPrince
    @AtherischPrince Před rokem +5

    I was smiling so much, this is how the world should be ❤️ kind and progressive

  • @EricaYE6
    @EricaYE6 Před 9 měsíci

    China seems to be very good to you, Sis. Keep up the awesome work. You're beautiful. 🤗💜

  • @kayhunte
    @kayhunte Před 2 lety +204

    Great video! When they added the extra pepper, I cackled. Hilarious! Seems like you've found your future husband, Deborah! 😂😂😂

  • @storytimetv1
    @storytimetv1 Před 2 lety +78

    THEY WERE JUST REALLY EXCITED.

  • @zelda_the_queen2096
    @zelda_the_queen2096 Před 2 měsíci

    Oh my gosh this is so cute! What a beautiful interaction. Also they are right, you’re very beautiful 😊

  • @RC-yb5dp
    @RC-yb5dp Před rokem +1

    This is my first time watching your channel, and I have enjoyed it immensely. You are so beautiful with a beautiful voice in any language.

  • @dailywithsun2530
    @dailywithsun2530 Před 2 lety +77

    That lady kept saying your hair is beautiful 😂😍🔥 and the dude was deffo obsessed he deffo felt as though he made it 😂💀

  • @AC-ih1dr
    @AC-ih1dr Před 2 lety +519

    You are beautiful, so it is understandable that any man with good eyes would keep looking. But I just realized at 10:11 why my boi was obsessed. He probably watches black content (music, influencers, ect). He said your hair would look really nice in braids. Girl, he is trying to turn you into his hip-hop fantasy girl hahaha. He has been waiting for this his whole young life lol
    Let us know if he actually ever says anything to you on wechat
    Also, the family was very sweet overall.

  • @carminahh8138
    @carminahh8138 Před rokem

    Loved this .. I’ve heard stories of people reacting negatively. This warms my heart to see this

  • @danaeworrell6747
    @danaeworrell6747 Před rokem +2

    This is so cute🙌🏾🌸 he definitely was looking into the future imagining the wedding the kids the house the legacy give the brother a chance fr🧎🏾‍♀️🙌🏾

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 Před 2 lety +381

    this is so whlesome, everyone was so cute! especially the woman who kept complimenting you, so kind

  • @ItsLahai
    @ItsLahai Před 2 lety +89

    "Like African drum" I was laughing at this part. I kept replaying it.

  • @MzNina313
    @MzNina313 Před rokem +2

    He was in love !! 😂😂 it was so cute to see

  • @veehamp7455
    @veehamp7455 Před rokem +1

    That was so adorable..the lil crush 😆 lol...i enjoyed this

  • @pamelabustos8376
    @pamelabustos8376 Před 2 lety +76

    He's actually a pretty cute guy! What a sweet family and running their own business. Cute family ,cute as a button son. Some girl will snatch him up, I'm sure.

  • @AviationAndTravelWithSash
    @AviationAndTravelWithSash Před 2 lety +204

    Their interacting with you is so cute! You definitely made that guy's day!

  • @amadiishmael9042
    @amadiishmael9042 Před 2 lety +2

    The guy is cute and he really showers you with love that's cool, and the woman at the window is very nice.

  • @EmpressRakeda
    @EmpressRakeda Před 2 lety +1

    I appreciate the educational part of this Vlog. 👏🏾

  • @preettyE
    @preettyE Před 2 lety +39

    The random African drums comment 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @samsalamander8147
    @samsalamander8147 Před 2 lety +59

    He was adorable and handsome. His face is so open and curious. I loved this interaction.

  • @suzeel
    @suzeel Před rokem +1

    This young gentleman is deeply in love! ^^°^^♥♥♥

  • @beabewiley1189
    @beabewiley1189 Před 8 měsíci

    I love this. I’m so glad I found you. I’m currently learning Hanyu.

  • @berthonylouis5823
    @berthonylouis5823 Před 2 lety +288

    You should TEACH Chinese on CZcams for a small fee on the weekend..

  • @larryhasgonefishing1374
    @larryhasgonefishing1374 Před 2 lety +181

    Even for a few minutes, you made this family so happy and excited. How many people can do that as a stranger? God bless you!

  • @darlas4019
    @darlas4019 Před 8 měsíci

    It's so cute! he was infatuated with you, and rightly so!!!❤❤❤... I had to watch twice, he looked so disappointed that you were leaving! Adorable!!!!😊😊😊❤

  • @Apricity_Asmr
    @Apricity_Asmr Před rokem +8

    Ahhhh girl I loved this video! The way he was looking at you, omg. Soooo in love. One day (if you have the chance) you should go to there again and order something knew, I’m sure they’d love it! (I know he would) 😉

  • @unkiindg
    @unkiindg Před 2 lety +286

    The 8:34 "how is that even related?"
    Killed me. 😂😂😂😂
    First time viewer here on this channel! You're so fluent! Its a god given gift to speak multiple languages and feel whole with the native tongue. Its beautiful. He was so excited and you opened up his personality to the fullest! So cute! 😂😂
    Keep being amazing!

  • @SessmaruKusanagiGaming
    @SessmaruKusanagiGaming Před 2 lety +168

    He was SOO adorably excited, omg. So wholesome. You could see the excitement sparkle in his eyes like a kid! The big ole goofy smile that can't be contained.
    He also has GORGEOUS eyes. They're like a very very light brown, almost a dark honey. I have dark brown eyes, and have always LOVED that offshoot of brown. So gorgeous.
    He's also not half bad looking. (; lol.
    Absolutely wholesome. Thank you for sharing this. ❤ Totally subbing!

  • @mariamahassan8274
    @mariamahassan8274 Před rokem

    I subscribe cuz the energy the people have around I’ve been laughing out loud. Enjoying your video ☺️

  • @gangstahhh
    @gangstahhh Před rokem

    Dope channel especially the teaching aspect 💖 million subs won’t be too far away for you I bet

  • @josleenlisakhanya3504
    @josleenlisakhanya3504 Před 2 lety +412

    u are making learning Chinese so inspiring, I have been learning Chinese since in 5th grade at first it was hard because Chinese is different from my home language which is xhosa(a South African language) but watching CZcamsrs like u makes me confident in learning Chinese like my pronunciation is not on point but I'm getting there

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  Před 2 lety +37

      Keep going, it gets better 🥰

    • @sange4186
      @sange4186 Před 2 lety +10

      Heyyy a fellow Xhosa!! Hello mntase🤍🇿🇦

    • @HangingOrchid
      @HangingOrchid Před 2 lety +2

      I've been learning since 7th grade but still not proficient•́ ‿ ,•̀

  • @deandrictv5132
    @deandrictv5132 Před 2 lety +146

    It was adorable watching the interactions. They were so warm-hearted and kind! 🥺🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @InTrex00
    @InTrex00 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Naija babe ofc🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🤩💁🏾‍♀️🥰🏆 Naija no Dey carry last oh

  • @gpparama
    @gpparama Před rokem +1

    May god bless you with all goodness,prosperity. I guess good hearted people like you can melt hearts move mountains with ease, your chinese helped but what did the magic was your love towards them. Stay blessed, one of my favourite all time you tubers.