Are Black Women Employees in Shackles? Reclaim Your Time
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- čas přidán 21. 06. 2024
- Are Black Women Employees in Shackles? Reclaim Your Time
My test to see if you have a job or a master:
1. Is your job your pathway to value / validation?
2. What would I even doooo if you didn't work?
3. Does your job reciprocate your loyalty?
4. Does your job control your access to healthcare? And do you have to access that healthcare BECAUSE of the stress from your job?
5. Does your job control other ways you make money?
6. Is your job a means to an end or an end itself?
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On the phone with someone RIGHT NOW who, at the age of 58, just learned that her company's ENTIRE U.S. division (standardized exam writers) is now required to either resign immediately with a generous severance package or stay on and risk being fired sans package. She initially panicked but then calmed down. She's going to take the package. NOTE: They've been given ONE WEEK to make a decision. All I could do was quote Stephanie Perry: "These jobs ain't loyal."
I'm turning 39 this year and learned early, we have to treat them the way they treat us.
Indeed.
@@kjaroundtheworld same age and I came to the same conclusion 😊
One week notice, yet we’re required to give 2 weeks minimum. Loyalty vs Truthfulness, smhhh! Liar liar pants on fire! Get out now!
It can also be a blessing in surprise
Fear of failure.
Fear of change.
Fear of starting over at 62, fighting breast cancer 18 months has Me stuck. 😢😢
Hang in there. I wish you peace and wellness!
Wishing you a speedy recovery and praying & proclaiming that you come out of this better than ever before, like GOLD. 🙏
🙏🏿
Take time off as you heal, disability pay!
Praying for recovery, and fighting that demands C word please be strong. Failure is a mind game you can change it peace and love my sister ❤
I started watching your program to free myself. I took a job for insurance, but stayed after I switched to Medicare. I could have retired, but stayed even though I was doing okay. I kept asking myself, what would I do. I finally realized I was using the job as a crutch. They wanted to keep me and treated me well, I figured. But just like the nice master, it’s all an illusion. There’s no such thing as a nice master. A nice master wouldn’t take away your freedom. So I looked at the calendar and thought of Juneteenth and the souls who continued to work after slavery ended. I watched a few of your videos, and then I retired later that day.
My question: What will I do. I still don’t know the answer to that question, but I know it doesn’t involve work.
Thanks, Stephanie.
Congratulations 🎈🎊 🎉. No worries Sis-Star ✨🌟💫 you’ll find your way as you embark on your new life. Enjoy!
I always make a joke (not a joke) that when I shower, I always do a body check to ensure I don't have a brand that says "Property of the State of Ohio!" It's not there yet...but I'm escaping before it comes to that.
"You don't have a job friend, you have a master." 💯
We are trained in early youth, to buy into the systems...
Facts!
Hola from Spain 🇪🇸 Out here on a 6 week scouting trip with family. I'm going back to work with the intention to stack up and pack up in 2 to 4 years. We can't let these jobs hold us hostage.
My daughter lived in Spain for 3 years and she loved it!
Another thing: everything is getting more and more expensive. Housing, childcare, groceries, etc. Our leaders don’t invest in us at all, but they’ve got all the money in the world for nonstop wars. It’s pathetic. 😩
Preach Stephanie!
I was a pharmacist for far too many years. It took me about 4 years to see the truth about ALL of the systems/corporations.
The silence in the chat is because you are dropping truth bombs. It's a wake-up call. The more of us that heed the call, the more questions we ask and the more solutions will be found. I agree that we should start on an individual level and it will affect the collective.
Thank you for the sermon and being a part of the solution!🙏🏽
Agreed! the work we do within ourselves for ourselves has a ripple effect to everyone else, too!
After being a Science teacher, Dishwasher, Cashier, Technical Support Agent, Sales woman, Secretary, Certified NursingAssistant, Driver. I realized its our society that tries to ingrained this concept that a job can give you value. I never felt valued by my jobs because they always paid me barely enough. Exposed me to disease, death, and belittlement. All things I could have lived without before experiencing them. I went through the military, medical lab, nursing homes, education system and call centers. But I see how we attach our identites to titles/income. I felt like the person they used to compare themselves to. Thanks for this video, I have been there. As a Haitian woman my identity was found in being married/finding a man/job. But I am glad we are able to process through these mindsets.
Agreed! There is so much more to us than our job titles AND the roles we play in others lives. We have value because we are! Such a good comment! 🙌🏾
I was taught to get a good government job and collect retirement. I been at my employer for 17 years. The goal is to get the 20 them collect my retirement check then move away. I taught my son & niece the opposite because i have discovered over the years "these jobs are not loyal" like you said...
Hello Stephanie and friends from California 🖖 new subscriber. My daughter turned me on to your channel. You lady are pointing out the shackles on our mind big time 👏🏼 my family is from Little Rock Arkansas and they push education as bragging rights to get good jobs (just over broke) they don’t tell you about the stress, politics in the workplace, nepotism, etc.
I’m retired now and stand in total agreement. I was working in a master slave environment.
Great questions! One of the first thongs asked when getting to know someone is "what do you do?". And that question determines how people treat you. So yes, I've thought of it
Thongs? Lol
That is so true and it’s such an American thing. I was on a tour recently, on the first day at lunch, “what do you do?”. Same trip, a few days later, I’m at an airport sitting next to a black couple, we’re chatting, then came the question “what do you do?”. What does it matter? The odds of any of us ever seeing each other in life is next to zero, so who care what work anyone does back home. As Americans it’s ingrained in us. We, individuals have to make a conscientious decision stop doing that.
This is true ❤
Get your coat and leave😃😃 Reminds me when I retired from the Air Force I took a civil service job to get a new car. I paid for my car and I quit.😃😃
Oh girl, I hear you loud & clear.
I’m a slave to the Clark County school district here in Las Vegas.
Working w/ special need high school students.
And I’m desperate for Income replacement.
There are schools overseas always looking for teachers, they pay well and have great benefits. I interviewed a teacher last year who taught in Atlanta then relocated to the Middle East. Now she's in Nigeria, living her best life, teaching.
The theme I get from your video is that we have one life, and we have the right to enjoy it. You’re so right! Life in America really can be exhausting for most, if not all, of us, and we deserve better. Thank you.
You can get a TEFL certification on any online TEFL course. In order to start teaching online most companies want you to have at least 120hrs TEFL certification. Most courses give you 1 year to complete the course, so it's possible to work and study for your TEFL part-time.
Which would help for Spanish speaking countries in Mexico?
@@earthlycolorbrown6246 Because TEFL courses are recognised all over the world, whatever course you find in your country will be recognised. Once you get your certification you can teach anyone that wants to learn English from any country whether it's online or in person. If you are planning to move to another country to teach, its best to research their requirements. Some language schools may require minimum 120hrs TEFL certification plus 2 years experience, while some just want the certification and you get experience on the job. You don't need to know the language of the students as they would likely have some basic understanding of English and your job is to help them build vocabulary and help with grammar.
I read this somewhere years ago and it’s something like this, work is something you do to keep busy between eating and going to the bathroom.
So true 😂
Hello Stephanie, I've been retired since 2020. Never really had a career because I was a stay at home mom. I worked in the school system while my children were in school. I am here for this conversation for my husband. I'm doing everything to get him to retire next year and move abroad. This will be early retirement for him.
I’m in exactly the same boat. My husband has been at his job 34 years and is struggling to retire. I stopped working 2023. Now, I’m working to get us moved abroad 2025
@@LoveParkConnection i am ready for him to retire
Hello- unfortunately, I couldn’t attend the live this morning, but I wanted you to know that I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR YEARS!!!! I know EXACTLY what you are talking about, Stephanie, which is why I started MY OWN company and work for MYSELF. I FLAT OUT told my last boss that I felt like I was being treated like a SLAVE. I felt that through and through at that job, and quit that same year. I started doing some independent contracting work, and now I am working through MY BUSINESS. Man, I wish I could have attend this morning! Sorry, I was traveling home from the mountains at the time of this live!
Replay gang! There is no job security. A school I teach for did away with the major and didn't even tell us. Just dissolved it without communicating to the new hires that they had done so which left many scrambling to figure out how to fill the financial hole. Higher education is not secure at all.
I am from the future and for me I more interested in your perspective which seems to be ministering to things I have already been thinking.
Hello I love your channel you have such good information to help everyone. Your channel is really great for young people who are seeking information about having your own business. I'm Blessed, retired Air Force, VA disability and social security. I have enjoyed traveling and seeing the US. While in the military I was overseas to see other countries now I'm older 70 years old I'm traveling to the states and every now and then take a cruise. GOD Bless you Stephanie for helping us Black women to learn how to earn income without a 9 to 5 job.
100% agree tired of having a master. People really do treat you according to your work status. There is so much competition in the work place for status to feel more powerful than their colleagues and others in society. You are your own brand, not your job title.
Hello! Watching the replay! You spoke a whole word in this video! We are slaves to people with no souls- Stephanie Perry 2024! This needs to be on a t-shirt. ❤
Stephanie, you really PREACHED A GREAT SERMON today! EXCELLENT! This is what we want & need to hear!
Hello! Sorry I missed the aired. I was unavailable ladies.
Stephanie preaching today! Go Stephanie and amen to this!!!
OOF she got me right where i live
Thanks so much for watching. 💗
On the replay, I hear a passionate plea for us to see ourselves outside the American context. You are like the YT Harriet Tubman leading us to the Nothstar. Gentle is always good and passion is inspiring and may cause someone to act for a better tomorrow.
Thank you as always! I retired in 2021, was fully aware of the master/disloyalty work setting. My purpose was to reach retirement eligibility so I could free myself of ‘have to’. I went back to work last year, with purpose to save money to leave and travel. Revised it to pay for my 70 birthday celebration, take advantage of their paying of training (why would they want to spend funds on a retiree?) in cities around the US that I wanted to go visit. You have taught me to maximize it and extend it to the weekends and play tourist. Job is very little stress and I keep it that way. Goal: leave in 8-10 months and hit the road 😃
GM! Watching the replay. I relate to your point about the job being our value. I got my doctorate degree so that I would get more respect from my colleagues. You are right.
When I worked in corporate, I walked in everyday for 7 years knowing I could be fired. Never felt comfortable to leave much in my office that I couldn't carry out in a few bags.
It so sad and frankly stressful to live like this, but I've had to do it, too. It's terrible!
I could not get through this one. It is tough to hear, especially when you realize that the job you have given 20 plus years to is not loyal and it is my master. I have known for awhile I have been treated like a slave and today like a criminal. But what now, I only have a couple of years left? I am so upset. I want to quit today. I have had enough. The anger and frustration has been around for awhile and I let a lot of stuff slide because of the pay. But this video brought out the true nature of what’s going on.
This is real! Thanks for sharing! I pray that even though it's hard to hear that you can use it as motivation to move forward after taking some time to grieve. I hope you know you did nothing wrong. I hope you're not beating up on yourself. Deep breath today and baby step forward tomorrow. Rooting for you!
Even in education they fire teachers. They balance the budget on teachers backs. Esp if you’ve worked +25 yrs. It’s cheaper to higher new teachers just out of college then keep master teachers. When the economy gets tough states will layoff, for example the financial crash of 2008-2009. Major layoffs in LA, SF & SD.
Hello from the future. I wish I was here to comment. Everything you are saying is on point. I used to be all of these things and some I still deal with, but I have always been a rebel. That's how i found your channel about a year an a half ago. But everything you're saying I too believe every black woman has felt or feels right now which made this live so important. Also, you helped me to take further steps for the life i wanted but also one i couldn't even have imagined before your channel and other channels like yours existed. Thank you. ❤❤❤❤
11:37 I came back to listen to what I missed and what you are saying is SO important. There is so much programming of identity and work IN ORDER to make us better, more compliant WORKERS not human beings. Linking rest with laziness, giving incremental rewards for good behavior with the pat on the back of a title or office and you go home either devastated or in elation or some shape in between because of how things were at work influencing how you enjoy your actual free time to just be a human. I love how you are sharing this information with us women. I want this freedom for black women. I live in freedom; every moment of my day is determined in the moment, no schedule, no obligation. I may have something I am responsible for but it is done when I most feel like doing it not because I made myself do it or have to do to stave off anxiety.
We can be free. Are we willing to unlearn, to take our leap?
Great discussion on Who’s my Master! As I pack, gift, sell & donate my stuff, I find out that Stuff is my Master. I can’t believe how hard it is to remove myself from my stuff. Push through it Sis-Stars ✨☀️💫, the tentacles are deep. I’m a minimalist and have moved several times. Kick that master to the curb!
Sis, I need to hear you tonight
Hi from Atlanta! Watched the replay. You presented Really great questions to ask myself. Thank you!!!
That red looks beautiful on you! From the top, to the lipstick, to the hair color. Yaaaaas ❤
The reason we feel like we need the job is because we need health insurance. The only reason we need insurance is because it is so expensive. Most other places have affordable cash healthcare or universal healthcare and you don't need insurance. You can have insurance here and still go bankrupt if you need to use it. Not to mention, it's better healthcare that is human driven rather than profit driven.
Another driver of the volunteer slavery/job is that we have been indoctrinated to believe we have the best healthcare. It's not even close. According to the WHO (not that it is that credible) we are ranked 38 out if 191.
I am watching after the live but I am enjoying and receiving thank you
Let me take some water and calm down…new merch lol
Good afternoon Stephanie! I'm listening to the replay!❤
Hello! Thank you for today's discussion.
Greetings from San Antonio, TX ❤ (replay)
Hello Stephanie and Everyone! Great conversation:)
Continued health insurance for a bundle of vision, dental, and medical in California is $2,400+ dollars per month.
That is insane!!! Is that via your job, COBRA, or private pay insurance (no job involved)?
It is what my job has offered me .
Hello, glad to be here
Good morning from the replay! ❤
Hello I love spaces full with 🧡 and Kindness.
#3 healthcare #4 my job is controlling what I can or cannot do for my business, family etc.
Good Day- and these Videos give me life!!! I will never forget this attitude and I am adopting this as my truth. .. take my coat at leave!
I love your platform. I’ve been leaning into saying ✌🏾because your voice challenges conditioning that I am a battery for others. You are recharging & I want to do this now.
I need redirect. They let me go. I don't want the traditional job. I don't know what Fitz my needs. I have been working in the field of caring for other people children. Yet, I have no children of my own. I am not qualified to climb the latter unless I return to school and reenter into debt.
That's a hard space to be in. I'm sorry that your going through this. Praying you get the redirect you need! 🙏🏾
Morning everyone!
Good morning Terri! 💗
Hello, I am on SSDI and will definitely be listening to the move abroad replay for remote work.
I absolutely adore Stephanie’s energy!🩷
I need your coaching help Stephanie. I have been contemplating leaving the US for years and need an accountability partner to help me go. I am slowly downsizing and doing financial planning. I don't want to get stuck in the planning.
This video is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Everyone is not ready to face reality..
Watching replay, i have my note pad
Hello from Texas. Watching the replay.
13:44 wow this is so true.
Good Morning Stephanie, catching the replay from the future. You are so right, there is no argument I love it when someone tells me the truth❤Straight no chaser
P.S. I need to get my coat and leave 😂
you look so pretty again today 4:07 Stephanie. ❤.. I had a master al.most 🤨after 18 years of being cool working with a female supervisor off site.. and how you ladies ...HELLO 🤗
Replay. Excellent discussion. So thought provoking. Thank you!
Hello Stephanie & ExodUs crew!
Love this 💖💖💖💖
Hello, thank you for this excellent content!!
Good morning Stephanie,❤
This was so informative
Hey and Greetings from New York.. love you and keep doing what you’re doing.
This is really talk💯
Thank you ❤❤!
Hello Stephanie
Good video🙂
I'm #3 Loyalty😬
Hello, Stephanie 🩷🙋🏾♀️-Amora from Nashville, TN
I love you!!
Preach Stephanie
Hello Stephanie, you are so inspiring. Thank you for speaking to the spirit in me.
I know I'm not live, but I hope you read this. I totally agree with you. I started a new career in Life Insurance as a non-captive agent and I can sell to americans and foreign nationals from any place in the world and I love it. I make my own hours and work with the type of client I want to work with. Total freedom. Thank you for giving us something to "Consider". Just wait until a new administration comes in and people will be happy that you have this platform.
Good morning! Listen to the replay on my way to work. 1.5 hr commute.
Happy Anniversary 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Relay Sis-Star ✨💫🌟Excellent discussion Stephanie (no I don’t see how they think you look like Wanda lol)! Great questions/test! Oooooh, Learning how to live is a Space! Thank you 🙌🏾🦋
Hello I'm Yvette love from Florida..I really do appreciate your telecast..truly I am a supportive of your shared information. Thank you soooo much.
Goodmorning Stephanie🤗
Good morning Lena! 👋🏾
Hello from Baltimore Maryland 😊 (replay)
Grand rising family
Good morning👍🏽
I am retiring on August 30th 2025. I am counting down 😊
Good morning 😊from the replay
Excellent video! Will be sharing
Wow Amen 13:28 min. Never saw it this way!
yes, i'm working on standing in my humanity versus linking my identity and value to my profession
Hello Good Morning!!!
Do you have a job or do you have a master is the title of your next book Stephanie. 😊 Tfs
Good morning!
Good morning Michelle! 💗
Good morning replay
Good morning! I'm a friend from the future! 😊