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- Coach talks about how men have a problem with the soaring of onlyfan and easy access to hypersexualization online
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I paused this video after the two first minutes, I went to a video I watched yesterday, I deleted my comment, I unfollowed the girl, and I came back to watch the rest of this video. Thank you coach 🙏🏻 The takeaway is that we should not reward bad behavior.
You'll be back at it soon enough 😂
You’ll be back after your training session goes bad and you don’t hear from that bumble girl
@@raymondaloni2309 so what if he falls, "all of the sons of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent," he'll get back up and be better. Just cause you don't have the guts to try don't project on others
@@Redery001 Hur Hur Hur. It was a joke you dramatic muppet 😭☠️
@@ohno837 ur profile pic really proves u have no dog in you.
I quit watching porn 18 months ago after reading Your Brain on Porn and it was one of the best decisions I've made.
I stopped at about the same time too. Life is soo much better now
So what do you wack off to?
@@shakh1407 I never did it on porn until recently. I just imagined a woman that I really liked and did it all bymyself. No photos, no videos, no nothing. This was the first year I did it on a video.
I stopped watching 4 months ago or something like that, I don't masturbate anymore. Life is so much better and I feel better. Way better.
@@shakh1407 dreams
I quit 4 months ago after 20 years doing it. Didn't notice any difference so far, despite not having the urge to watch p0rn.
As a hardcore MMA fan my feed is filled with men online half naked 😂
Social media has done more harm than anyone realized yet, especially to young people who grew up with it
I wish I was never introduced to pornography. I feel like I wasted so much time and energy by watching it and have wasted so much potential.
That's how I feel about video games.
excuse me it takes 15/20 mins max to masterbate, how is that a waste of time, do you spend all 16 waking hours of the day doing something productive?
@@EUpatriot1 Same. I only watched po*n (willingly) for the first time at 20, but wasted time playing video games instead.
Facts I’ve been addicted to it since I was 14 and that addiction is no joke
Quit now and you have your whole life ahead of you
My path to God lead me away from Porn. I have a different view than Islam, but I respect my Muslim brothers. It's us together vs evil.
Please don’t mention us if you are not Muslim brother. That is kafir
Islam is evil
As a female, I agree with what br Zahabi said. When a man shows his strength a woman does stand upright. In nature men are leaders of women, but they cannot be weak to lead women for then you won't find her to be in her femininity.
GOD Bless You Coach ✝️
Andrew Tate got rich scamming
taking advantage of weak Woman and Weak Men with that,
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true thats why i dont respect andrew tate whenever he talks about his money im just like stfu dude lmao
@@2542genius exactly, guy got rich by scamming people & now gives advice to others how to buy a Bugatti shut fuck up
@@2542geniusSame that guy is a fraud
Scam weak men make them think they are alhpha joining his programs
there's much psychologic evidence in what you say coach! habituation, sensibilization, exposure, amongst others, great content! Thank you
Real talk from Coach Firas
For a long time, I felt like I could never give up porn or masturbation. I always tried, but even when I tried, my intention was to gain power back and feel more masculine, attractive, magnetic and vibrant... so that I could be more successful with girls lol. In other words, it was a selfish intention so of course I was never able to keep that up.
Now, coming back to Islam and wanting to please God, I feel like my values are aligned, I am only submitting to the Creator, no one or nothing else! And I feel almost disgusted with the state of things that I felt like it was just a natural part of my life. Let's strive for goodness!
Real stuff. Thank you for saying it how it is, we need more people pushing this message.
Just to correct the position - the idea that masturbation is not haram in Islam is a minority position. Other scholars that DO permit it, give the disclaimer that it’s ONLY allowed when one is the on the brink of committing zina. I.e it’s used to protect from a greater IMPENDING evil, like you hinted at (not randomly whenever some feels like it). However, even in that situation, porn is never allowed of course. An extreme minority say masturbation can be done anytime - however, they’ve been widely refuted. Good advice nonetheless.
very important comment
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That’s literally what I said bro…not sure if you’re talking to me or coach here.
What’s your authority to say that?
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Hanafi, Shafii, and Maliki schools consider it haram unless the scenarios I mentioned (Shafiis disagree still). Only school where one of the FEW scholars allowed it, although considered it detestable is Hanbali school. Ibn Taymiyyah himself said it was haram and considered those Hanbalis that allowed it were wrong. Therefore, majority here is known. I don’t have authority to pass rulings of course, but I’ve studied enough to convey the opinions.
@@sammu OK so you’re passing down what you have heard from other scholars. Got it. I understand, but the other opinion is also valid, even if it is not the majority
The points at the end about dealing with problems in any walk of life was the cherry on the cake of this brilliant video. Whatever good I'm capable of doing in the future, I owe it to you coach
Agreed 100% with everything you said firas
Coach dropping some wisdom as always❤❤
Thanks coach. Needed to hear this!
Very good message to all the young men out there.
The west is falling. Too many Christian churches are not just forgiving the sinner but not the sin, and rather accept the sin in an attempt to attract more members. These pastors fail in their teaching the word of Christ and his disciples. Yes forgive the sinner, we all sin. But nothing in scriptures even implies that sins should not be preached against. The failure of the Church is part of the decline of the west.
Worst thing that can ever happen to you is to discorver porn especially when you're very young
i have never ever in my life payed any girl online for anything, but trust me, porn addiction is the worst, been suffering since i was a kid till now as a 24 yo, i've discovred porn sites at 11 years old through some bad friends i had at the time
It's like the moment you see a pretty girl wether outside or on internet you go on porn sites and it's extremely destructive, been trying to let go and stop it for 4 years now, and it's very very hard, and i'm not weak at all in front of girls in real life at all, but i am very weak in front of these sites, it's the truth
i dont smoke, i dont drink, i never understood how addiction worked and how much of strong hold it has on people
So a message to young kids and teens out there, never ever start watching that stuff, you never understand how bad it is for your life until you are old enough
Thank you Coach for the teaching.
Coach Zahabi, your videos on both training and life philosophy are always really entertaining and insightfull to watch!
Exactly coach, a balance 🙏🏽 because if you withhold, you will turn into an animal seeking it a lot more. It’s best to modulate so that you can remain focused on what really matters to you. Because our society throws it in our face so much. Thanks for the perspective coach. I always loved when you came on Joe Rogan. The conversation was always a great example of how to debate respectfully.
Well said! Great advice 👍🏼
BASED firas zahabi 😤🔥🔥🔥
Thanks for this coach
Thank you for this! Just subscribed! 👏🏽
Never thought I’d see the great FIRAS teach a very powerful lesson
Great video akhi. Salaam from the UK
Exactly right. Thank you for saying it.
Amazing advice to any man out there especially the younger generation, Firas is such a great role model for the youths !! ❤❤
Hey there coach. Always appreciate your takes. I had quite a conservative upbringing. This combined with being raised in a western society typically meant that my interactions with women were kept to a minimum but my access to these types of content was widely accessible. This created in myself (as well as noting in others) quite a fear, perversion, and objectification of women. I was personally quite lucky - I think im considered attractive so when I did end up losing my fear of women, I found an incredible woman shortly after and have been quite happy since. I still watch these content from time to time (generally when our schedules don't align and I'm stressed with work) but it's not as absolute as "you will be completely desensitised". Some of my friends never made it out of this mold - and it's a sad sight to see. Nevertheless, no real point I'm making, just thought I'd share that while I largely agree with your take, there is nuance in this phenomenon
Lol im literally thinking about this now. Thank goodness this popped up on my feed
Thanks coach
Allah reward you Coach!
Much much needed! ❤
I love listening to Firas Zahabi... He always challenges me mentally .... Love you coach... I hope one day I'll get to meet with you in person.
Always speaking the truth 👏🏻👏🏻
You are the best coach.
You are the father many of us need. Thank you so much for everything
Amen Coach
scarcity determines value often coach good vid
Facts brother it’s a crazy world we live in
Amen, brother! 🤲
100% Agree with you Firas. While this is a broad problem, there seem to be more and more christians converting to Islam or eastern orthodoxy simply because western christianity has become apathetic and overly tolerant. Cedric Doumbè has famously said something along the lines of "I converted to Islam at a point in my life where I was seeking to become a better Christian". I'm not a muslim myself but I understand the sentiment.
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How weak minded do you have to be to willingly make the decision to follow a religion? I get lots of people are manipulated from birth tho.
I mean there's a few good protestant denominations
Research and embrace Islam brother, you won'r regret it! I'll pray for you💪
Coach please make a single leg made easy wrestling instructional and a double leg one that focuses on all variations and proper technique 😊
Thank you
Asalamualikum, please we need more of these videos to guide us in all forms of our life…please
Hey Coach!
We Need Pre Fight Prediction about Dustin Vs Islam❤❤❤
Agree 100% Our society is broken
Love u coach take care hbb
The Philosophical Jiu jitsu master !
Coach, what bjj techniques are the most important for mma. Besides guard retention and pin escapes.
I’ve noticed that it doesn’t effect the striking too much but it makes you suck a weakling in grappling.
It does affect the striking in the long term.
I'm not religious, spiritual at best, so the points about that don't interest me, however the "overstimulation" killing your desires is definitely a valid point.
Regardless of what your religion is or if you even have one, I do believe there should be abit more control over how much we stimulate our minds.
I don't think the women are at fault here or there's anything inherently wrong with them. It's just not good for motivation as a man if you look at that constantly or even regularly.
Your indsight is so... mashallah idk how to describe it, thank you coach
Need more of this.i don’t look at body pics, I don’t follow women I don’t know. I’m proud when women see my feed and there’s no women pics in my feed. Build your mind not thirst for lust.
Alsalamu Alikum Coach. You are a gentleman and a scholar. A light note inshallah. It is imperative to share with your audience that something being "makrooh" (disliked), "Mustahhab" (liked) is an *opinion* unless we have clear cut evidence from the Quran and the teaching of the prophet peace and blessings be upon him. Then comes scholary consensus. So please be mindful of that as it is possible to misguide laymen like myself otherwise. Secondly, something cannot be not Halal (Haram) and "Makrooh" at the same time as by definition these two terms contradict each other. Haram earns you a sin while makrooh (disliked) does not. Lastly, masterbation is considered HARAM according to scholary consensus.
Much love.
Coach does not miss
dude! I'm on this path exactly! I quit pornography and all kinds of social media sexual content alltogether two weeks ago.
You hit on an important point Firas. I'm a Catholic, minus the theological perspective, there is a correlation between the pornographic and the lack of sacrificial manhood in our society. Men aren't willing to fight anymore. We don't see the fight for love anymore cause we can get it cheap via the internet
Exactly.
Coach at what age did you start your kids read philosophy books and what do you recommend?
Based Firas.
Not recommended, like opening a fight with a flying knee. But could work
where can i attend this live ?
So what should one do when they’re facing a rush of temptation within them in that moment? How and where do you gather the strength to overcome that? How do you save yourself last second from falling into it?
Edit: this is also someone who doesn’t have any triggers causing it
Just change the habit to something else. Whenever you feel the temptetion to watch corn instead of going on some website do some push ups for example. I like to meditate like 5min are enough, the temptation will be gone after a few weeks
to watch corn? what about this, Ted Bundy said in his interview that the common factor among men (sick bastards) capable of sex*al violence is that they all consume cornoghraphic material.. this is something to think of, do you want to share this sickening habit with those bastards, OR set yourself apart and do what is right and just.?
I quit 4 months ago, because I heard of dopamine stuff etc. I feel no difference at all. I think it is placebo for most
"the soldier is not saluting" 😂😂😂😂
Allahumma Barik
i stopped eating corn for a few months and... it's been pretty good and pretty bad... it's pretty good in a sense you feel more accomplished and less sinful
but it's pretty bad in terms you spent your whole life doing something, all the time... and now you just remove it all and you feel your soul is like gone it's weird, and that "crazy" side is part of you is now "suppressed"... so i kinda understand going halal is not for everyone
i just feel like it makes me a better person within
It will also push you to find a partner. Most men lose their drive to get into a relationship because corn does such a good job of satisfying their needs. Stop with the corn and you will find the motivation needed to move forward.
That sense of felling suppressed and not comfortable is necessary because changing a habit is nothing easy.. just take your time and suppress yourself and i guarantee that you will thank yourself in the future for not giving up.. no gain without a sacrifice.. that's why we live in the real world and not a fantasy world.
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nah i love corn . Especially when it's in salt water .
Hey Professor Zahabi. Thanks for the video. Always good topics.
I think sex is a good thing with the right partner. I believe before sex, there is respect, honesty and a good healthy connection. But this is hard to find. I find that people are more individualistic these days. I like celibacy because I have the time and opportunity to work on myself. Celibacy is safer for me.
I feel like I am a bit over Sensitize with women but i do have a lauch point i feel like still also.. will it eventually run out?
Salam Bro, You have not done an analysis on Dustin vs Islam... Love your opinion.
I completely agree but I would like help. At the start of the video its mentioned that it's weak to get easily excited over a naked woman. But if you deprive yourself it makes it that much more difficult.
It’s normal for men to be excited, ya know. If you didn’t… then you might be 🏳️🌈 lol , but in all seriousness, you need to control the desires of the flesh. Plain and simple!
coach firaz..love the way you think .thank you...stop the madness guys..yes we all guilty of watching crap....member of tristar digital..your content is amazing
Great advice, may Allah protect you and your family coach. Our modern world is all about instant gratification, today Islam solves this beautifully as did christianity decades ago before it threw in the towel in the face of modern secularism and the YOLO mantra
Is that Croatian flag on your shirt?Greetings from Croatia 💪
Coach give me ways how to put myself through pain everyday
Train until your body is fucked. Then keep going.
@@mmaguy that's not smart. You want to train smart not hard. I want longevity
Fast and train then. Lol. Its more about mental pain tha body pain
@@mohammed96011 Yes you are probably right. Hard and smart would be the best I think. Unfortunately I am not smart enough to not train when injured. 😅
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Yo Coach! How come you're wearing a Croatian flag on your jersey? :D I am from Croatia so its funny to see someone from Montreal wearing it (there are no Croatians there as far as I'm aware)
I worked with two division Champ Roberto Robocop Soldic for years. This is a jersey he gave me. 😊
@@CoachZahabi haha! Amazing :D nice to hear. Hope he gets to fight soon in One Championship! Cheers
Mr Zahabi. I need the link to your back strengthening seminar
Go to www.jujiclub.com and get the “Strong and stable back for life” video.
Be sure to do the “Alexander plus technique” daily until your pain subsides. How you get better soon!
deadlifts and rows bro 👌
The East does too
10:48 this is so true you just got to remember how you felt when you watched porn for the first times in your life you were completely arroused and it was a really strong feeling, now everybody’s is wondering where is my sex drive that I use to have? Well it’s obvious… you have build a tolerance like in anything now you need a more powerfull dose just STOP CONSUMING, and bro find emphaty within you, being aware of this takes time, this are the challenges that our generation is facing it’s not like you grandpa was stronger they just had different problems (even war🤯) so be aware of this and the key to stopping is knowing that you will be a brand new man and everything will get better around you, and to be fair this is also a message to myself I need to get better💪🏽 stay strong brothers and commit to a life of excellence not excessive materialism
They just taking advantage of the simps suckers and busters, same thing happens in business
Well said, coach .
I am very glad to see coach recommends no fap! The red pill is the only pill we need. It’s as simple as that
Coach isn't red pill. He is muslim. There is a big difference. Red pill is just a philosophy to get laid (hopefully). Islam is a way of life.
@@akplayer007 great answer brother
@@akplayer007 you misunderstand red pill if you believe red pill is simply a philosophy to get laid. You need to do more research brother- there’s a reason coach liked my comment
Red pill is basically: “women dont talk to me because am a lone wolf and they just don’t understand me”
It's all in the effort to make a living wage, people, mostly women, are doing it for money, that's it, not to keep some moral high ground,
great points coach, they only behave this way because there is a demand from males not men but males to behave this way,
made me think of how there is a demand for meat (which 98% come from factory farms) which even good men and women pay for animals to be abused, some animals, not dogs or cats but cows and pigs etc.. interesting dichotomy.
There’s an interesting similarity in who started every major porn site and hookup app.
Where in Islam does it say masturbation is makrooh? Just because Zakir Naik said it doesn't mean it's true.
'Abdullaah ibn Mas’ud said, "We were with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said, 'O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.'" (Al-Bukhari 5066)
It doesn't mention anything about masturbation.
Great advice. Kids should be also warned because some already share porn videos in school (during lunch time) my 13 yo son told me that; it is frightening.
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Firas you are right I'm a Christian
The West loves freedom over discipline
Most people love freedom over discipline but the west just makes it easy.
Guys, go pick a biology book.
thank you coach. It all must come back to this. To change a bad society we should start by changing ourselves first. Takes a lot of work and may seem unfair at first, but its the only way to fight it
Not only for men. Wonder what percentage of women have tried starting onlyfans even if they do not admit to it.
You cant open ig because it looks like almost pnro
Nina Marie Danielle comes to mind
If you want to know the state of men in a society look at their women. The way they act and the way they dress - I don't know if it was a prophet who made this quote but there is a lot of truth here.
Great video. But you confusing culturally naked with sexual intentions when someone is naked. Be naked does not necessarily mean sex.
I dont wanna lose testosterone