Every man should do this to be successful
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- čas přidán 12. 02. 2023
- Coach talks about what a man should be doing in order to be successful.
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"women never feel the sense of danger" - actually a super interesting point. a female friend was reading a book by this feminist that was about boys and men. she asked me one day if i ever feared violence while i was a teenager. i said i didn't exactly fear it at school but i was certainly aware that it could happen, and i would avoid the boys who were more likely to cause trouble. and yeah i was in altercations a couple of times. so it's just a fact of life.
she said she was mind-blown by what she read in the book - the author had had conversations with young lads and girls to find out about their experiences, then wrote about the differences. my friend had no clue that men were basically permanently aware that they could be involved in violence at any time.
and of course, girls have their own version - they need to be aware of sexual danger all the time from puberty onwards. it's different, but we both have our struggles
Well said. I wish I had elaborate a little more. Men and women’s fears are different in general. Men have to be aware of confrontation in public and or in private. For women it is mostly private violence they have to fear. In the public eye women generally have nothing to fear. Men are expected to defend and protect and women in danger. Rightfully so.
Very interesting.
In the States women are getting sexually assaulted in public in the day time.
Not just sexual danger but just physical danger as well. The most likely harm to women statistically comes from men
After all , it was only until recently that hitting your wife was considered a private marital thing. Sean connery died in 2020 and i dont think that dude ever changed his mind on his stance that it was the right thing to do if your wife was doing something you didn’t like
@@kaya_avcisounds like he's talking about The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine
A man’s inability to protect his family can be very devastating to his ego and masculinity. It’s that’s old saying of a coward dies a 1000 deaths…
He had no masculinity to begin with
@@isthi000ify every man has it, they just need it cultivated something that the West has completely failed to do
I started learning mma to defend my mom.
Though you are able to protect your family from a very small list of dangers. How come a man even have ego?
Firas, women used to have huge arms and protect each other..
In primate society, usually males are under mortal threat if more than one female is involved in the fight..
You are kinda pushing pseudo intellectual patriarchal stuff..
I find it a bit tired, and forced..
No person is an island, and theres no garauntee, .. i konda find its to matter-of-factual for the arbitrary social choices we choose .
We arent "made for war", this conflates complication with abstract human ambition..
You know, other primates will often compete and fight over resources, even when they are abundant in the environment.. its so arbitrary how act as long as we persist as a species.
Got a strong sense of this analogy, "It's better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war." Thank you coach for the reminder to stay hard!
Inline with Coach Zahabi's valuable message comes a relevant quote, "The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war".
I couldn't agree more. Not only did Khabib quit coaching to spend time with his family, but also to protect them. We must also learn how to handle a gun, because when push comes to shove, physical fighting will only get you so far.
Also deescalation skills are important avoid conflicts if possible
Not just a gun but weapons of all types sticks, blades, bows, thrown. And pressure test with what you can.
@@MrSITH-qj6zpchainsaws etc
The reality that every man needs to hear and understand. Thanks for speaking the truth. And as a Ukrainian myself, appreciate the callout of my countrymen.
May I ask if coach is right about ukraine not going woke. I’ve heard Zelenskyy has closed churches and condemned faith. It’s hard to know who to believe in the media
Thank you coach. We need more heros like you in the ummah
1 MILLION % coach. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I used to train, was fit, got sick, and am now turning into a useless blob. I can feel it and see it in the mirror and hate myself for it. But the distractions and my desires shackled me in place. This reminder coach helped me objectively look at my situation and realize I'm heading down a very dark path. I'm now going to get off my ass right this second and go hit the gym. Thank you coach, YOU ARE A BLESSING ❤🔥
Yep; good luck brother; sweat it out and push man, I believe in you
Same here. Used to do MMA and lots of other trainings, but am now fat and extremely unfit. I am gonna start as well. Good luck.
Hope you guys are still going strong. And if you're not, get back on that horse fellas!
All praise is due to Allah
Martial Arts has been nothing but amazing to me my whole life.
Karate, Boxing when I was younger & now it’s BJJ, Wrestling & Judo.
March 12th next comp 🥋💥👊🏼
All the best for the comp brother 👊
Good luck bro!
Keep preaching coach! Love the content about the reality of masculinity and the true responsibility of men.
Firas, I absolutely agree with your philosophies on life ..I will be playing this to my 11 yo son, both of us are in martial arts , we run, sparr and he comes to the gym with me .
I'm always amazed at the confidence and sense of calm I felt after only circa 6 months of training BJJ. It made me realise just how incapable your untrained person is and how incapable I was, quite frightening really. I really thought I could look after myself. Now, knowing 99% of men have no training, I have zero intimidation around others and standing my ground in situations. It makes you calm and assertive and is a wonderful sense of feeling knowing you can take it further if required.
This is why I became obsess with bjj, I’m boxing since age 14 but 1st try session on the mat I realize how easily I could be taken down and be unable to defend myself now I wake up every morning thinking how can I be better grappler and fighter overall. Even though I’m a chef and a model but never again I want to feel as weak as my first day on the mat
Good for you but don't get a false sense of security if someone pulls a gun on you or if you're outnumbered and someone stabs you cuz your not intimidated
@@kinggirth8599 that's common sense and you're awareness of such issues becomes greater with training combat sports, not less.
@@ln5747 I said that cuz you sounded too arrogant don't underestimate anyone
Mark said he started MMA bc when he did other stuff (ex. running, bicycle) he would still be overthinking too much. Whereas with MMA, he has to be fully focused and can get his mind out of work
Great advice ! 🙇
thanks for the advice Coach!! :)
This is golden, as always! Thank you coach!!!
Motivating :)
Provide and protect, lets get it!
Barakallahu feek! Excellent advice.
Love these types of videos. Lots of self help advice a lot of guys could benefit from.
100% agree! Thanks for not being quite on these topics and expressing your opinion.
Dropping truth bombs, thanks Firas from a young adult
preach guru Firas! loved this
He’s speaking facts. The confidence I have comes from my wealth and my experience training mainly
1% listener, here ✋️ 😆
Really tho, my husband and I enjoy listening to you. He's teaching me how to defend myself as well, and all I want to do is fight 😆
Your daughter and I are alike. Lol. I was a tomboy too growing up. With a Dad like you, eventually, she will obtain her blue belt (and maybe higher!). She just needs to learn to love the process as much as she loves the end goal. My dad taught me that too. Didn't get it into my head till I was 7 though 😅
Thanks for all your advice, Coach!
Providing & Defending!
Amazing content ! As always .
I would like to add, not only to protect and provide physically but also spiritually and mentally 😊
Well said, provide/ protect, simple imperatives.
Coach for president 🙌 👏 u got my vote!!🗳
Love this
I'd also add health (including mental) and general adequacy in thoughts and behaviour (yes, they need to be worked on every day)
EXACTLY right. It is what it is.
True words have never been spoken very accurate analogy
So true Firas I believe men need to do these things from love as well to provide for your loved ones, protect your loved ones and to discipline your children
When my eyes are open, I see a stoic man bestowing wisdom upon men. It's just him, a microphone, an internet connection and a blank white wall. But his ideas are expansive, grounded and colorful. I'm grateful for this man and im grateful for the one who put him here infront of us. Thank you for your time, ideas and selflessness. Be well coach.
I have to say that women DO understand the possibility of violence. They may not be thinking about it as much. But women are without a doubt cautious of assailants; especially in cities. They’re aware of violence. I’ve had female friends tell me that they’re always keeping an eye out while in the subways stations or while walking home alone. 100% many women are aware of violence.
Wise words
please keep doing these coach. Great Kuya advice (kuya = big bro tagalog) 🇵🇭
Truth hurts...so keep training.
Couldn't agree more 👏
Provide and Protect
heard nothing but FACTS 👏
Lot of truth in this video.
Shout-out coach
I want to link this so bad to my Martial Arts school feed but I fear it will come at a cost but great info 👍
100% agree. No you're not crazy if so that's 2 of us. Well said!
Coach Zahabi speaking truth here.
This man is a true sage.
Red pill firas zahabi, loving it ♥️ 😁
Facts.
This is great advice,time spent watching Firas videos is always a good investment,stay dangerous people 😊
this is healthy masculinity
It's better to be a warrior who's a gardener than a gardener in a war.
"Sweat in peace to bleed Less in war"
Do more on this topic. Thought experiments
Thanks for giving a word about Ukraine 🇺🇦
Waste of lives of brave men on both sides. Scandalous that the West provoked this war and Zelensky threatened with death by Nazis in his government to not make peace.
Amen
I like to fighting its like chess, also the workout. Keeps you on your toes.
Cannot agree more.
I needed a break from training, skipped wrestling class, took a week off and ate like a pig..
🤣 I needed this! I am back to training 💪🏾 thank you coach 🙏🏽
🙌🏼👊🏼
I trained my sister when she was young. Best decision I ever made
I love this topic. From health to mindset Firas - your insight and attention here is so important.
Wishing you and your family the highest health.
Yep, always believed this.
Yes
Firaz dropping red pill knowledge
Glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks like this.
Wish i had a gym near me.
This make more sense with clip he says he would advise his 20 year old self to learn how to invest
Most important video ever
Its why my two young sons grapple. My 7 year old has stood opposite another boy over 400 times and rolled and wrestled. He stands there cool and collected ready to roll. I know he doesnt fear the physicality of other boys. Hes told me he is confident there isn't another boy in his year that beat him. That alone give him the confidence to walk with his head held high.
Coach zahabi’s daughter is more of a brawler typa fighter lol, تبارك الله ❤
Funny thing is the more we learn to fight, the less we want to in the real world; make BJJ mandatory in all schools and see bullying cases cut in half year on year
I remember when 'woke' used to mean 'aware' or 'conscious'. The meaning has changed.
I think Zuck said that he used to run to try to not think about work but running is boring and you can't help but think about other things while running. He said he likes jiu jitsu because you can't think of other things while someone has their knee on your belly lol.
EVERY TIME I LISTEN TO THIS MAN I AM UPLIFTYED WITH THESE TYPE GEMS HUGE RESPECT TO U FIRAS ZAHABI
TLDR; Every man, regardless of age or wealth, should continuously work on improving their ability to provide and defend themselves.
A man should prioritize providing and protecting, and should constantly improve his physical fitness and martial arts skills. He mentions the need for self-defense tools like mace and stresses the significance of being prepared for potential conflicts.
We’ll said
Very good point on the sexual assault of women during war/conflict. Men often point out that women are inferior physically and give it as a reason for why they should not be combatants. As you know coach, there are some women who would put the average man in the ground physically.
As a soldier I justified seeing women in combat rolls if they were physically more capable than average men in combat rolls, but ..
Here is the reality, 1 man can get 5 woman pregnant in 1 day. 1 woman can be pregnant once a year at best. We have to protect our women, men are expendable, women are not.
Yeah but it doesn’t matter if she’s physically strong there’s other reasons why women shouldn’t be in ground combat, lower bone density, period cycles, emotional hormones, and unlike men women are programmed to be protected from birth so their instincts are not optimized for the dangers of war so they lack situational awareness in that environment.
It's better to know and not need, than to need and not know.
Pack an effective EDC.
Hello firas, outside of this vid’s subject I personally think that bjj is useless without wrestling because how are you going to submit someone without knowing how to take him down. I have tried BJJ and I liked it so much but stopped it because I don’t find it so useful knowing that my gym doesn’t offer wrestling so that’s why I just chose muay thaï
Interesting. I want to start muay thai but i don't want to get my face broken lol. Is it possible to train it without putting my head in danger that'll maybe cause CTE?
Wait, so you quit BJJ because your gym didn’t have takedowns so you switched to a striking art? Don’t get me wrong, keep doing striking, but grappling is the foundation. Find a gym that does takedowns.
@@wajihbec1087 yes of course in my gym there are 4 levels to striking. 1 beginner. 2 regular. 3 intermediate. 4 advance. We only do sparing at level 4 so the other 3 levels we only train and learn techniques and rarely spar and even if we spar we don’t hit the face just body sparring. I hope that helped
@@relax5371 then i better develope pretty good defense before i get to level 4 lol. Thanks man that helped 🙏
@@wajihbec1087 I wrestled in high school and just started Muay Thai training this month. I'm at the beginner level and we do a little bit of light sparring already. Head shots are light while the body strikes are a little harder. You're not going to get CTE, I see the more advanced guys wearing headgear when sparring. Wish I had started this when I was younger...I love the training! My biggest challenge right now is my shins are bruised up from the kicks and will need to be conditioned through time.
MAKE A PODCAST
Asalamu Alykm brother Firas…
awesome & practical advice
Excellent podcast
Keep up the great work Habibi
How do you improve your cardio?
Move a lot and control your breathing
There is a rough logic to what you say coach. But 'Women never feel a sense of danger' is dead wrong. If you talk to many women they feel a sense of danger all the time. And they are acutely aware of their surroundings, getting to their car safely, not going into dodgy neighborhoods, down dodgy streets, talking to dodgy males. Their antennae for danger are up all of the time.
Yes you are definitely correct in this instance. I was referring to a public group setting. I was a doorman for many years, men fought all the time, women very rarely and if ever a man hit a woman he would get stuffed in a shoebox. Even the worst guys knew not to hit a woman.
But I agree coward will attack women via ambush when nobody is around.
@@CoachZahabi Indeed. There's a lot of dickhead males (and females too...in a different way) out there who wont take no for an answer. And get all in their feelings if a girl isn't interested. And start acting out and getting weird and threatening. Especially if too much alcohol is involved. My nieces tell me they are always alert and aware for risk when they go out.
@@CoachZahabisimply put, women lack situational awareness because they’re sheltered so most threats don’t even register to them.
May the eyes of cowards never sleep
~ Khalid Bin Waleed (greatest commander of the Muslim army)
👍
Some men think that since they didn't get provided for, they shouldn't provide for their surroundings. The irony is that they barely even provide for themselves. They victimize out of unfairness due to circumstance. They justify their existence as living. But unknowingly their existence perpetuates real danger. Vulnerable at every angle. Nonchalantly ignorant. Their vices can produce virtue but at a price. Even if you pay half of it, you'd experience dangerous levels of freedom. But that too comes at a price. Dividends become rhetorical. Statements are inevitable. Reap what you own.
الرَأيُ قَبلَ شَجاعَةِ الشُجعانِ
هُوَ أَوَّلٌ وَهِيَ المَحَلُّ الثاني
فَإِذا هُما اِجتَمَعا لِنَفسٍ حُرّةٍ
بَلَغَت مِنَ العَلياءِ كُلَّ مَكانِ
"Taller the are the more you can protect me"
*Mike Tyson: 🤨*
Men's responsibilities are triple p preach, protect, provide 👍
How difficult is to hear some wise words nowadays. We are getting used to accept bullshit without complaint
My 5 year old doing splits and backflips, he's natural with kicks and gymnastics.
I'll send my kids to Karate but will teach them boxing and Jujitsu myself.
1:06 sounding extra arab haha, love it
would you fight a paul 2.0 the robot
At least somenoe is preaching truth now that Tate is not able to...praise Mr. Zahabi
Stay dangerous, i totally agree
Ukraine - not only did they export the women and children BUT over 250,000 men who were working in other countries immediately RUSHED to Ukraine to fight! #respect!
2024 game changer
I think You are a little out of reality means you see what you wanna see
Omg this sounds exactly like my daughter haha