My husband followed me to Europe to destroy my life, cut off my nose and damage my face | LNN
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- If there is one thing Abbi knows, is the fact that she was a great wife and an amazing mother but all that would come crashing down 11 years later when she realized she was living a lie with a man she deeply loved.
Today, she shares her story of failure and triump, moving to Europe to save her life,to having her husband follow her there and causing massive damage to her beautiful body.
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Hello Team LNN,
I hope we can all learn from Abbie's story:)
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Thank you so much for watching:)
Very moving and inspiring story. Please Ms. Ngugi encourage your country women to educate themselves about NARCISSISTIC ABUSE. It’s a personality disorder (NPD) in psychological terms but spiritually it’s driven diabolically. Satan is the chief of all narcissism! BEWARE!
GOD BLESS YOU ABBY AND LNN TEAM🌹🙏🏾 THANKS BE TO GOD MY DAUGHTER IS BACK WITH ME AFTER STAYING WITH HER NARCISSIST FATHER FOR 8 YRS WHEN I LEFT HIM AND CAME TO WORK IN SAUDI ARABIA TO SAVE MY LIFE.💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hello Lynn ngugi ,i need your help .i did wrong and i can't face it i need you to help me seek forgiveness aky
I always look to.my mother for strength..she has gone through a lot and she is the reason am.here...my father is like this or even worse I don't know am.really glad she had strength to leave and waited for us to grow up till we can stand on our own two feet then she move!!
Who.knows what she had been going through all that time.
More reason as to why am.always scared of getting married up to now35 yes and no child no husband to call my own..
Women and men go through gh alot in general as well as men..its a tough world out here only God sees us through to the very end.
Thank-you Lynn for the people you bring to your show I also get inspired and encouraged and learn alot as well.
Lynn..when you forgive do you call the person and tell them I forgive you
“I don’t think people realize how much strength it takes to pull your own self out of a poisonous situation with someone you love deeply. So if you’ve done that today or any day, I’m proud of you.”
People have no idea at all! Its so hard. Took me almost 20yrs. Family and friends gave up on me coz they felt it was me refusing to let go..hawajui sio easy. Anyone going through the same please be patient one day they will leave and dust off.
I walked out on a new year last year, as people were celebrating entering into a new year it was exact 1 hour into a new year he almost killed me with my girl, but I thank God I manage to excape, what hurts me to date is that my baby girl usually asks "mum bona daddy alikua ananifinika na pillow Ile siku nashindwa kupumua" this word uwa zinanihurt sana his aim was auwe mtoto then me next but I remember that day I had told God to show me the way and intervienne because I was in a toxic marriage, he used to beat me adi naogopa kwenda hosy juu sasa ntaambiana nn, atimes mad at myself on why I allowed someone to torture me like that besides the abuse also totured my baby mentally, but all in all I thank God I moved on with my baby Gods grace has been sufficient to us I secured a job in Dubai late last year at least I can pay fee for her and give her a good life. One day Lynn I'll really like to share my story in your channel to motivate someone
Thank you for sharing this. You’re spot on.
Spoken like a thousand people
@@doreennkonge94in hindsight what could have family done kama hautaki? You’re an adult, take some responsibility for your life. People watachoka. Its you getting abused not them, so getting out of the situation is also you.
That’s why I left my very abusive hubby. He stabbed me , I was a punching bag and thank God for my house help then, otherwise would be 6 feet under.I knew it was time. Applied green card, by Gods grace I won. I left with my two kids to USA and left the abuser behind and for Good. 10 years God has been so faithful. I had to build my self esteem again, love myself again. Was hard to forgive but I had to.Big up to all women who emerge strong after abuse.
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Thank you,God is good
I thank God for you and i also pray to God ,that did it for you will do it for us too in Jesus name Amen
Oh wow.God's good
I tap this blessing
Thanks Lynn. GOD Bless you for allowing me to minister to God's people on your platiform
You're such a fighter Abbi...from your story as a 23 year old single mum I have learn a huge lesson...forgiving doesn't mean people have to reconnect🙂
Abbie you are such a kind hearted mother to me
Keep Rising Queen Abbie. ❤
Wow, we are more blessed to have listened to you, such an inspiration. It gives us hope. We are agemates and am so inspired as a mother of grown children. Blessings to you Abby.
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Been watching lyns episodes and I sweared to myself that I will Love my woman like no other mans business when I get married..have learned alot through all the episodes
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾and I pray you get a woman who will appreciate you and love you back with everything they've got
Pray you mean each word and may God guide you also may you have a woman who matches your vision of a peaceful union
@@sonniem5315 Amen 🙏
Remember to pray for a good wife too, I do pray for my son that when the right time comes my son will be blessed with a good wife too 🙏
May God give you a deserving and equally respectful woman
1:15:38 this lady said exactly what I was thinking when I started watching this video. If the people who are violent in marriages have anger issues, why is it that they're not out there fighting everyone else in society? If anything, some maintain well put together, holier than thou images in public
They are charmers! Making everyone believe you are the bad guy
I had a toxic mother in law n her son would always say its because of old age that she was so insultive to me n I would ask him "how come your mother gets old only on myself n not this other woman who is living here with us in the same compound*
@@zipporahnjauimwe6963 Pole sana
Thanks. Your on point in your observation
@@abbiemumbi your strong woman 💪
I always see wale wa Mimi ndio wakwanza naomba tulikes sijui ni za kuuza🤗 haya Leo ni Mimi abeg👍
As a survivor of domestic abuse I think we need an action plan for Kenyan women. There should be cultural and religious re-education. The discussion concerning what men are taught during initiation need to be addressed.
Narcissist personalities know who to go for. They can be men or women and one major charateristic that they have is that they do not want anyone or anything that takes attention away from themselves. Abuse starts when children are born to the couple or the victim chooses to advance themselves via education or business or are earning more money. The victims are easy going, fully trusting, hard working, and empaths.
Abbie I thank God that you are alive.
That's too much hatred from that man😑Mumbi you are a Warrior ✊
Merry Christmas Team LNN
Hey Wanjiru Muya. Awesome to see you here darling gal
True ......merry Christmas too
Merry Christmas wanjiru
Whenever I listen to this story about a mother being abused,it really breaks my heart,A lot of woman go through Gbv everyday
Florence, while I acknowledge that women have been the traditional victims of GBV, men go through a lot of this abuse today but they can't talk about it in public due to stigma. This is a societal issue and spouses need to be sensitized about mutual respect. Negative conflict and violence doesn't solve relationship problems.
Sure. I grew up in a violent home, now I'm taking antidepressants. It's so traumatic.
@@carolyneogutu6489 hugs mama
@@carlosmakau3634 what I can advise any one wanting to be involved in relationships is to pray for your Godly anointed partner otherwise, stay without, its not bringing kids to this world in an environment not favorable.
Me too
Oh my God! I knw her she was my mum's friend before she left kenya. I heard about her story and have been asking God what happened after. Am grateful to God now. Thanks Lynn.
At my early 20s I was a victim....feared to be a single mom of only 1boy,never even shared my story with even my mom nor any friend.....feared about how people could view me... after 3yrs I got strength 💪 picked up my broken pieces and said enough is enough...I had to leave the country too and I managed to overcome everything....it wasn't an easy journey but I made it
Well done. The Lord is thy shepherd.
Congratulations 🎊
Alhamdullah
She is my sister’s best friend….continue winning Mumbi
That bit about Kikuyu men wanting the woman children to suffer when the part ways is sooo true.
True mine wishes My children to grow up poor and may be I die early and leave them suffering
@@ruthnjoroge693 God won't let that happen! He's with you and your children.
Any man who is violent and a narcissist feels this way for their kids and wife after parting ways ...they are animals in human skin I tell you..
Very true
Kikuyu women are trick too.
Whenever I listen to content about abusive marriage, it scares me to get married
Your Destiny is surely in the hands of God and no devil, no man has power over your destiny until God calls you home himself.
I remember back 2018 somewhere at a house I had rented,my so called boyfriend I loved that time ,decided to slaughter me and then himself,guys it was 1am at night I really fought for my life guys,the knife ilinikata mikono only and I managed to throw the knife through a door ikaanguka nje and then alikua amefunga nyumba na kufulia na akaeka funguo kwa mfuko,my guys when I managed to throw the knife away the guy alianguka chini na akaanza kulia uncontrollably,mm nikachukua funguo ,I opened the door na tangu nitoroke upto date sijui kama ako hai ama ako wapi,it was over.sikuamini if I could over power a man,I thank God for my life today,he was determined to kill me completely alikua ameniambia watu watakuja kujua tuko ndani juu ya harufu
Long live dear sister
Nasty experience ,bless the Lord at all times 🙏🏿
Glad u took power in ur hands to direct ur life .
Was really a nasty experience,could tell the man was feeling so disappointed when he didn't manage to accomplish his mission,he knew he had lost it all, allowing me to escape alive,yani I didn't know a man can reach a point of feeling like he can own you ,such that even if you decide to walk away and begin a life on your own,he knows definitely you will make it because am a Nurse and I could hustle here and there,I remember that night begging him to spare me because I was the only hope of my family,he said he want to disappoint them😭😭,will never forget upto date I do have phobia with knives ata nikikosana na mtu first thing I do think of where the knife is😭
@@Fay-wicks woi mungu anakupenda,
This story is similar to mine, I survived the abuse after moving to the US and having my husband deported due to abuse. Whenever I think of the whole thing and about my survival and that of my children I see the hand of God
Hugs mummy,hope hamkurudiana na the nigga
That’s terrible. Why so much violence?
When she said"for the sake of my young child God save me" Faith moves mountain. She's a strong woman.
Praise God u made it
Mama you are a great woman of God. Its well you are alive. You are a heroin. You will see your third generation and praised God.
I see this lady and her kid, she lives near my mum. Her story was in a lot of the media, am glad you did her story.
My dear women, never love anyone more than yourself. Always love yourself first, being single & happy is far better than staying in abusive relationship or marriage
Mungu Akubariki Doreen Mwenda....Well said ...no one is born to die for another person ...Our Lord and Savior Jesus-Christ of Nazareth did ! We should love ourselves first!
Even the Bible says love your neighbor AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. Its a commandment to love yourself, for its only with the love we have within can we love others.
I hope my African sisters take this to heart and choose themselves. Being abused to continue someone's bloodline isn't worth it.
Well said
Well said sissie iv even learnt how not to attach feelings,so when i smell any form of disrespect i leave faster than i came in and forget that i ever knew you.
Please lynn help baby sagini junior whose eyes were gouged out get Justice, please visit that baby too give him a hug on my behalf once you get there , I can't imagine the pain that innocent child went through for 6 hours
Do you guys know that most of the marriàges in the 80s were horrific stories like this ? With most of the women doing emotional labour and giving up their dignity to keep the society happy and maintain social respectability while being beaten every day ?
The number of people who have had to keep up this rousse are many.
Ukiona grown women who want nothing to do with their dads in the old age ,this is the reason . Abuse ,sabbotage and trauma.
Ukifika unalike video tukisonga,just imagine likes za hii video ziambatane na views , wow 💯✌️
The worst thing that can happen to a person is to have their pain undermined. To hear people say abuse is normal. Where I come from I've observed alot of abuse in my home and in neighbouring homes but the women don't leave because of 1. What people will say
2. What will become of my kids
3. This man can get us from anywhere
4. I'll loose my position in society
5. I'm not worthy of anything better
And a million other things. Thank you Abbie for sharing your story. You are a strong woman.
Especially children 😂😂African woman sits there😂😂
The kind of society l come from.
That man is perfect example of a narcissist. They begin as prince charming then they evolve to bitterness
I WISH MY SISTER COULD LEAVE HER MARRIAGE, EVERY DAY I SEE HER CALL AM SO SCARED I FEEL SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED TO MY SISTER, I HOPE SHE WILL COME OUT ALIVE TO RAISE HET 3KIDS,🙏🏽
💗Sending Hugs Akinyi. Am praying for you, mom and your sister. Keep your heart strong. Keep talking to her, keep listening, it is not in vain.
Amen
May God protect your sister Akinyi... when you are in an abusive relationship only other people see it takes God intervention for the person to walk out...
@@annitotia11 true
People really don't talk about the anguish and helplessness families of abused people go through. Most times these families and friends try all they can to get their loved ones out of the abusive situation but only the abused can make the final decision of walking out!
For me after 6 years of marriage and 2 kids I knew it might not work and stopped giving birth. I hung in there and after 20 years we parted ways. There was no physical violence but it wasn't worth it and I realized he was using me all along. He married my money, not me.
Oh...sorry dearie.
Hugs for having taken a stand
Weuh! I had such a man we were own and off but I asked him to leave coz I really wanted to kill him but for the sake of my kid I hold on it never lasted a year but I was dying from inside ,he was physical but he tortured me emotionally and traumatized me together with my child ..am single and I don't think of getting married even soon ,,let me enjoy my peace
Thanks you. I am from Botswana. When we tell people that we are far much better than any African countries only that we keep low profile. People think we are nothing but better.In Botswana free education and free health care.
Are you competing only with people below you, typical mentality of us Africans. There are countries in South East Asia that were far poor but are now inventing things. What are your people doing with all their resources and what is their level of IQ?
MAKOROKOTO
Am your neighbor here
Soooo
It's why I want to go to Botswana one day soon.
I rule out that singleness has never killed any one.
True but children are the main reason here and anyone can have a child
Exactly 💯
Yes also God always help when you walk out
Aki being single, dating, married or celibate doesn't protect you from violence or death by the hand of a human. I fear humans.
Forgiveness is devine, but never go back to your abuser. This is touching. Am a victim of abuse, the healing process is a journey and not easy.
What a beastly man! I now understand why some women kill their husband's when they are asleep..
Wow, wow, wow !!!. It's not about anger management. Why didn't you hit you boss or parents or the wall? It's about power. I'm a man, but this helps me to counsel people I know who are going through abuse. Thank you, Lynn for you work. Thank you, Aunty Abbie
Thanks very much for this wonderful eye opening talk . It is an eye opener for us abusers that are lost on what to do.
God bless you, Africa need people like you to change for the better
This are the kind of women who should be running FIDA. An experience is worth a theory talk in class. The western world protects women. If we can't learn from Botswana then where??? There's so much domestic violence in Kenya but they've nowhere to run to. Hence the question, where do I go??? Can we give them a solace??? Am talking from a sister in law who sees this every time I travel back home. Lynn Fanya kitu fungua Safe house
True. How I wish there can be a safe house and opportunity to exit for resetting. May God grant Lynn partners for saving lives.
He was a charmer..most abusive ones are good to other people except their spouses.
Please consider putting translation when your guests speak Kikuyu. I've seen that many times.
This lady has the strength of an elephant and a heart of a lion. Pole sana dada. You suffered so much yet you have become stronger than ever
You are amazing my friend Mumbi ,all the back in Botswana to UK.I remember all how strong and encouraging you always were.....you are a true testimony of Gods love....
She forgive him becoz it was her way of healing. She needed to let go.
Some people were never meant to marry anyone I mean marriage is not meant for everyone.
True
Went through the same violence, those things can really confuse and drain you badly, I later found out that I was married to a narcissist, and offcourse you know how hard it is to leave to pple, but I finally left being stubbed all over my body 3 yrs ago.. steal in the healing process and I can tell you that am very peaceful now
My heart sunk🙆🏻♂️🥲this could have been me🙆🏾♀️ I went through all this lady went through and even worse, BUT I almost brought him to stay with us in Europe thinking he will be better. My gutts stopped me, the phone harrasment and abuse. God save your children🙌🏽
Your guts dud you well. Gut feeling is usually right ✅️
Let us listen to our 6th sense or gut feeling. At least give ourselves the time advantage.
Dear Abbi, you're so beautiful and sorry for what you went thru.
Kindly, If in an abusive relationship or marriage , please check out
I can relate with you mum..God bless you so much for sharing... I missed being killed by my ex-husband with a dagger very narrowly... Thanks God to someone who got no peace until she called me and told me to escape... God bless those who helped me escape to a women shelter safely.... We must learn how to spot these red flags in advance🙏.
Oooh what a sad 😔 story! The Lord having rescued you from jaws of death, I just thank God for your life. Thanks mama for sharing.
I love this interview. It's good to see the scars though, don't try to forget the scars. The scars are your trophies to remind you of the battles you have won, your strength .
It is not possible to forget the scars. I see them everything I look in the mirror.
But God has healed me from the pain. God gave me beauty for ashes.
Ps 118;13.
You pushed me violently so I may fall(die), BUT the Lord helped me. 🙏
Lynn, I have realised that every girl brought up by loving and peaceful parents, admire their parents and are always positive towards marriage, but most of them end up in toxic and brutal marriages. I am one of them. And many more I know are victims! Lynn, its sad.
Very true Monica.I agree with you.
So true ..same here
I agree. I guess many overlook because they didn't see that happen at home and they became so hopeful that it will change someday. Big mistake
She is a really strong woman.. I thank God for sustaining her and keeping her alive .Just like Esther she is here for a time like this to encourage others.
Lynn thank you. Abigael thank you. “It’s not just a face”. I decided to watch at the edge of my “watch decision” to not trigger anything in my healing journey. Grateful I managed. That part of arrogance, and assuming that all is well and as a woman you are not going anywhere, you permanently deserve his abuse- “the Valentine phone call”, the person who asked her when she was straight from hospital, she should go to see the husband in prison, he is still the husband”. It’s very sad, the mindset. There’s much to be done in my beloved country Kenya and I am grateful for that the once who know what that means are taking initiative in giving solutions in their own small way. Thank you.
Yes.. Forgiveness is a must! Just sharing a quote " If you do not forgive, it is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die"
This stories are a lesson to those who are in abusive marriages or situations. Lynn can you imagine my 9yr old boy told me today that he would want to meet you. Reason I don't know why.
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Ur doing something right
Abuse is real and very traumatising.😪😪
Praise God aunt your life came out of such toxitism.
my ex-husband told me that the man who will ever fall in love with me after him, is a blind man. I was victim of verbal abuse, it took away my self love, self-worth. from time to time, I still struggle. I am not interested in having a new relation, especially when i listen to stories as Abbie's and other women.
Sandra no one opinion should stop you wake up girl and shine only God have your final word ❤️
I associate with that feeling of getting stressed towards evening at the thought of going back to my abusive husband😥
You will overcome
It is well my dear
Please take charge of ur life
This story should open your eyes. Please flee! What are you waiting for?
Pray and ask God for guidance to do the right thing.
Aunty Abby, so glad to hear your story. Domestic violence is really soul destroying, the child/children are also affected by these abuses.
What a narcissistic man! I am glad Abbie found herself, healed and happy
This one was a malignant narcissist. Thank God she escaped with her life. 🙏🏽
Precisely @ Sophia. Even when she said he was very loving at first...I thought ...he only was MASKING. NARCISSISTs are incapable of love they mirror the lover...but calculatedly awaiting for the appropriate time to pounce. The charm is also calculated so no one believes the victim. It's a crime against humanity.
A straight up psychopath. Indeed, thank God she lived to tell the story.
@@janegachema8904Congratulations Jane! Lucky to have escaped with your faculties intact. Yes "heroes outside only"...then abusive behind closed doors. That's why it's hard to convince people they are demons. May God heal you 🙏
..This is the strongest woman I have ever seen! Her attitude is beyond us. God bless you Abbie some more!
She is a gem. I would call her gold that has really gone through a real fire. May she live long to give this testimony to generations after generations. My mom died as a result of domestic violence at only 38 years. I was 19 and we were left four of us! We have seen the Lord working through us as we give back what God has given to the community.
This is another touching one. 💔
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@@thobekamtembu8578 Thanks
@@kukundaevas327 Thank you so much!
Hannah Ngigi, Wow! My condolences. Rip to your Mom.
Yes! Spouse abuse is not about anger management! It is about power...
Isn't it just that?,..."Am more than Just a face", this is so powerful, this Mama is so awesome,❤❤A seed of God will never be cut off,Abbie is a system of Grace,a movement of abundance,her children are so lucky to have such a mother.Love you mum,Lynn you know you are our gem,❤🎉, to you women receive your flowers 🌹🌹🌹.
Thanks very much my dear sister women domestic violence are more than we can even think of. Your so strong. We should not feel ashamed of bringing it out.
Thank you lynn for bringing Abbie on the show, she's really a strong woman
You loved someone who never reciprocated the same to you
I am here inspired by her bravery and determination to keep going against all odds. Abbi thank you for sharing our Botswana with the rest of the world, it’s quite interesting to hear what people say about my country, glad that you found Emang Basadi Movement to be progressive. Lynn, there is just something about you show. Love you sis, you are doing an amazing job. 🌟🌟🌟🌟Keep shining . Much love
HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD .PRAISE HIM TODAY AND ALWAYS. ABBY YOU ARE ALIVE FOR YOUR CHILDREN AND TO SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH OTHER WOMEN
What a strong and inspiring woman. And she's even more beautiful now than in the older photos. Peace is everything. God bless you mum! I am so happy that you are free. Thank you for sharing that abuse is emotional all the way to physical. People underestimate the damage of emotional abuse. Keep educating our society esp to improve systems.
It's true, abusers are charming to other people so that when you're hurt no one will believe. I remember my violent and tyrant father when selling harvest he would add soooooo much to neighbors yet we were not allowed to take a portion to eat. We grew and harvested much then he sold everything and my mum had to buy the same for us to survive. Sad❗
Sad
Oh God, how much can one person suffer. Stigma to single parenting is still very common but I have parented my own with joy and peace. I would rather be alone than be with a man who I dread to see every evening. May God helps us all 🙏
This is such a powerful testimony, thank you mum for sharing. It was such a difficult thing to go through, we all thank God, how you chose healing despite going through such a terrible difficult thing.
She is so humble, who would want to treat her badly.
What her ex husband family Sayed after leaving is disgusting. How any person could think she should visit him in prison is brainwashed to see women as inferior.Lets fight against this evil.Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ you are an inspiration ❤️
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Veronica Mbiyu, For what? That's what they are there for.
I now understand the economic perspective. Even if we are not being abused, leaving sometimes becomes hard cuz the fear of starting over is so great. It is hard to start over. Thank you for your story.
Marriage has really changed its meaning 😥
Sadly...but all is not lost
So sad🥲
As long as you continue watching negative stories your statement will remain true.
There are very functional marriage and good husbands.I am not sure which channel to refer you to....
Filter what you need to watch and hear.
Tafuta positive stories
@@isaacm-kenya9172 kindly direct me to those channels
@@isaacm-kenya9172 what of us who grew up in homes where the only thing we saw was violence. I have been trying to let go but weuh. When I sleep all the episodes starts playing in my mind
Where do men get the strength to beat a woman????I have 2 boys and I am always going to teach them to never hit a woman,,,,it's not good at all at all at all...
More like how do husbands hit the mother of their kids... utterly pathetic 🤦🏾♀️
Terry I have 3 boys and they are so young but i always tell them that they should never lay their hands on any girl ... I hope that when they grow up and one day i wont be there they will always respect women.
My older son witnessed his dad beating me and even hitting my head on the wall and it haunts him till today,,,, am now working on teaching him to never lay a hand on any woman
This lady Abbie oozes so much positivity, she's definitely touching many hearts. May God continue blessing her
Waaa! This is deep & tragic. The enemy came to steal, destroy and later to kill. We thank God that the enemy was defeated coz he didn't accomplish his "mission" to kill Mumbi. God above all 😇🌻❤💯✔ #SayNoToAnyKindOfViolence
No to any kind of violence
I am encouraged to follow my dream even after just listening to what Lynn has just read from our guest today. Abby the inspirer🙏🙏
Following Lynn 2022 was worthy,
Happy new year Lynn Ngugi
Am shocked this happened in UK. Abby thank you for sharing your story, very proud of you mum. May God bless you.
I'm more than a face more than just a name it's not over until God says so I'm encouraged
Not really sure of what can really go on in the head of men to abuse their wife like this, especially a woman that stood by you during very challenging times. I have a brother who is doing thesame thing to his wife in Cameroon and I have spoken until I am tired. Pounding her everyday and justifying it. I pray that this woman finds rest.
Jesus Christ what a beast of a man, I am glad he got to pay for his crimes!!
Very moving and eye opening. One day we'll all face the truth and our demons. Narcissists know no boundaries. They can control and manipulate you from another planet. Glad you got out, glad you and yours are well.
Five years wasn't enough for that him to be in jail..that was so soo wrong,I thank God that the lady was strong enough to stand again..that was baad.."more than just a face"that deep
I know, the crime was premeditated attempted murder. I believe the govt so no need to spend taxpayers money on a non citizen criminal. So they gave him 5yrs & sent him right back to wherever he came from.
I believe one day Lynn I'll share my story 😭
I love this woman already. So kind and calm no wonder the strength and quick healing. God is with her for sure.
Thanks Lynne for hosting Abbie she is such an inspiration. Empathy not sympathy as Abbie says gives solutions
She's super strong and quite a charming survivor. It's a very difficult decision to make. It's more difficult even with narcissists. May God help people in marriages. It's tough
Thanks Lynn for bringing this lady. So sorry Mumbi but God saved you from death that you may magnify His name.
Abi, thank you for your story. I was married for Three years and divorced on the Fourth year. I don't believe that there is anything good thing about an abusive man. The thing that's unfortunate is that women accept abuse as normal. Kindness is normal And abuse is unacceptably a No! No. Same as in my case, he started the assault when I got a baby. That's then that I decided to go home, but as you say, going home was not going to help. The assaults continued until I decided to lay a charge of assault. He received a suspended sentence. Generally it was said that he'd kill me, hence expectations were that I'd withdraw the charges, thus as soon as we came from Court, I challenged him to start killing me. He said that he wouldn't kill me because he loved me. That's when things escalated to death threats until it turned out to be organizing assassination which failed because people in the Residence that we were in became more alert that my life was in danger such that when the potential murderer attempted to open my door, the whole neighborhood was woken up. That's how I got out of that marriage and eventually got divorced. I've never looked back since then.
I can't believe how strong women that are used to abuse are. I couldn't take a slap on my face. I would be fighting back so much that the in the fight, I'd hold him there And he'd lose the energy thus giving me the opportunity to run. I don't know how I could ever stand repeated assaults as our people who have endured a violent home. I have no regrets in having left him because after divorce, he got married while I lived my life to the fullest. He got a woman who made his life hell. God was And still is very good to me. I brought up my child his wife was having her own life right in front of him. When he reacted to that, she came back and stabbed him to the extent that he ended up at the high care unit. Coming back from the Hospital they never stayed together again as his family threatened to kill her. He stayed with another woman And never had good life until he died Eight years after our divorce. Never be violent to your partner And never allow anyone to be abusive to you. Abuse and violence are very bad in a Relationship. Keep off and Divorce as soon as possible before he/she psychologically controls and manipulate you.
Thank you. I agree with you. Any time you give an abuser is too long. They are a waste of time.
I want the book 'More than just a face'
This is so brave of Abbie.
We thank God for healing her.
I pray that everyone gets the courage to walk away as hard as it can be.
I crave for a time where will stop normalizing abuse,where we will understand that we can still be very good parents albeit separated.
This story is very eye opening. Loved ❤how far the lady has come. Oh my she went thru so much. 😢
I am more than just a face ! This is more than just an inspiration oh my God🙏🏼
This is a strong woman...its still very difficult for both men and women to take such bold steps from toxic relationships. Lynn, thanks alot for the show. We have great stories to share when the right time comes.
I have been honoured to work with Mumbi and she is amazing and inspirational
Oh this is one of the most inspiring stories this year, I have vividly heard the story but hearing it so quietly, much love Mumbi, I will buy this book. Your smile gives nothing much🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Why do i feel like 5yrs in prison was less than he deserved???????? Abbie am glad you have healed, the children managed to come, oooh how happy i am for you!!!! plus your energy is amazing, to think you are out to help others, may God replenish you and that your cup keeps overflows. i am a survivor of DV🙃🥲
Oooh my this woman is a great example awesome message God bless you as you grow your career ❤❤🙏
This is amazing Lynn for bringing this amazing story we learning and also appreciating our selves for who we are
Abbi is such a strong woman. This story is just one in many untold ones. Glad Abby and others who are sharing their experiences will help others who are undecided in an abusive relationship be it male or female. However, female victims are more especially in countries where domestic violence has been normalised.
Very true this is just a tip of the iceberg
Thanks Lynn, for this story, Abi is amazing and beautiful! Love her hair too. God has been faithful to her and to many 👋