9 Behaviours A Self-Respecting Person Will Never Tolerate
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Hello, guys. Today's video is a part of the self-improvement videos that I've prepared for you, whether you're an empath, an introvert, a highly sensitive person, or even an extrovert. Self-respecting ourselves is necessary, guys, and we should make it a priority as well. And in doing so, we can't tolerate certain acts or behaviours because they're simply harming and manipulating.
It is having a full understanding that life is all about accommodating and accepting people despite their weaknesses or flaws. So, if people can't accept us or even try to manipulate us, then we can't tolerate such behaviours.
Accommodation is used in the sense that sometimes, it is not convenient to do. This is because no set of individuals can have a perfect match of understanding and view about everything in life. Even if not much, but there are slight differences in each person.
Nevertheless, here are some behaviours a self-respecting person will never tolerate or cannot accommodate. This is because such people are made to be that way, or, let's say that their temperaments generally make them repel such behaviours naturally. So, we are going to be considering some of these behaviours in this video, guys.
Please watch the rest of the video to see all lists ...
I have always done better achieving my goals when working basically on my own. That does not mean I don't interact with people at times, but I get way more done and am far more happy when I plot my own path without trying to accommodate a lot of outside interference !
Wonderful ❣️
Sharpgirl's Serious you’re right. I do the same thing.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎
Well said!
Amen ! 👍
I find this true for me. Although I don't mind making a friend along the way I think I way better off staying focused on myself as to stay the path on my own. I'm more productive.
1. Being ripped off: taking advantage of. They generally do not trust or forgive you.
2. Quid pro que. Toxic relationship. It is for driving demands and gain . Pain and pleasure relationship.
3. Being compelled
4. Going below par, that is, Worth doing so.
5. Lack of discipline, timing or at Proper time
6. Stagnation, Status quo, of free spirit
7. Comfort zones
8. Working with other plan with no road map.
9. Pressure and influence from peers adversely
Thanks
And to add too 3#. If your have to compel, coerce, or otherwise charm someone into getting what you want, you probably have issues with self worth and esteem, and need to see a therapist. Make yourself an appealing person of interest through your own actions and none of that will be necessary and you'll be all the happier for it.
I so much relate to this
If learn from experiences & apply knowledge of experiences & then to wisdom & of aready inner knowing knowledge to heal & always had the knowledge to heal oneself... & always have & abilities to heal from within to outer.
To that of all takings...
then use gain knowledge wisely & in healthy presence ! 💡you will generally heal & trust again & to continue being, more Healthier than ever😆 💗🙏💗.
Thank you for listing
An Empath is not overly concerned with success and wealth, but they are still self-respecting.
I am pretty concerned with success and wealth... i just would never step on someone to achieve it
True
@@amberlafage8361LaFage, I do not know your situation, but I know that children are a huge motivator for the desire of security. I have never desired wealth and I have come to hate what it does to people. I have no children because I could never attract a woman for a long term relationship. the reason for this is because I don't desire wealth or even middle-class status. This makes me a pariah to seriously minded women, and this has cast a poor reputation for women in my heart. Therefore, your concerns for wealth have caused me to immediately see you in a bad light, and this is not likely to change. I hope that you find happiness with your avarice. I am satisfied with my soul.
James i was simply disagreeing with your generalization that 'an empath is not overly concerned with success and wealth'. Success and wealth are a catalyst to free time to spend with family and feeling secure. If you would have worded the statement differently, perhaps discussing a disinterest in power, i would totally agree. But not being concerned with money is not caring about: food, shelter, time, family security, etcetc. Logically that is a pretty odd thing not to be concerned with. Maybe you have learned to associate money with some negative situations in your past? But to each their own!
I am now going to make a generalization of my own... empaths are not typically judgemental and respect others opinions without 'seeing them in a negative light'.
Wealthy people are often the worst if they think that having money makes them somehow better than everyone else automatically especially if they have no talents or work ethic themselves. Some people change because of money too because they are not authentic people. If someone is a good person then having money will just be a bonus. Abusive people use money for evil purposes.
* Seek out people who are willing and able to support you and help you stay focused on your dreams and goals.
* Avoid negative people who are naysayers. They are the ones who have no goals and don't want to grow. They want to keep you tied to their level of existence.
So it was the right move to distance from all family except my mom!
Heyyyy I’m that second one
- Treat another the way u want to be treated
- be kind
- show respect
- limit those who take more than u are allowing to
- saying no, thank you means u are being true to ureself
- give ureself 10 hugs everyday ♥️
louise attling 10 hugs 😩
I don't understand that. If you treat me like I treat you, with degnity, respect and faithfully.
I am not treated the same. I treat them the way I was treated. There was no changes.
Yeah, this is bullshit. I won't respect anyone, who did not earn that respect. Won't be kind to or help anyone for no reason. Won't treat anyone like myself, why would I? And hug yourself... are you kidding me? Do you have any original thoughts at all? Jeez
@@kellyleighread807 People who don't respect your dignity as person will never respect in the way you'd like to be. Respect does have to be earned but so does trust. If they don't trust you enough to be honest with you then they never respected you in the first place. It has to go both ways.
@@Komorur Not respect as you look up to them and like certain qualities about them. That is admiration, and no you owe nobody admiration if there not worthy of it, but respect as in recognizes that people have feelings and deserve not be trod over. Would you like someone being rude to you? It's that simple. You don't have to tiptoe around people if you don't like them but you don't have shove there face in the mud either.
A self respecting heyoka empath with a INFJ personality. Fabulous. Thanks life. I checked off all the boxes marked, “People aren’t meant to get you, please keep calm and proceed building your self esteem, self awareness, and plan to achieve ultimate success.”✨😂😍🥳💯✨
I am an infj heyoka empath too
It took me a life long journey to stand up for my belief and integrity. Even as a young person, I know what my heart was made off and what push me over the edge, but I was always careful not express what I felt in order to not push people away so I am not left alone, since much of what I saw and felt from them wasn’t good things, so I know that if they are confronted, they will wiggle them self out making it look like that I was the negative person, false accusing them of things base on my intuition. Only few years back, I told myself that I had enough! No longer did I care for what they will do or think of me for speaking out and confronting them when they over step their boundaries. I never been so in peace in life after removing all the fakers, back stabbers, users, abusers and liars out of my personal life. To no surprise, I have no friends as to the ones I had were all fake. Aside from my children, I also have no extended family only genetically related individuals. They were the people that I fear the most losing my entire life, but now my only regret is not standing up for myself sooner and freeing myself from emotional weight that it had on me all this time.
I have learnt how to be better at self respecting myself through life experience.
Road to self respect is having self impoxed standards. Without standards ur selfsteem will suffer from ur actions men or women. Best standards of living life ive found are in the bible.
I prefer the term values over standards personally. Either way though if you don't practice what you preach no one will ever take you seriously.
Those are The Standards. The world believe it takes away freedom. It is the essence of freedom to know that I am not the judge of men. Therefore none other on Earth is my judge. That's freedom.
@@kellyleighread807 So True, Man
While I do respect accommodating other people's, I have to sometimes say that SOME, not all people have such deep and troubling flaws that honestly? Despite every politeness and courtesy, you cannot accommodate them and either have to be blunt and point out their weakness or flaw, or flat cut the ties with them. It's hard to use that course of action but sadly? Absolutely necessary! I have dealt with many like that and rather than endure the toxicity of their "friendship" I had to just tell them no more. I hope you can understand this as for a self respecting person, this toxicity is detrimental and can make you sick and unhinged when you need your strength the most. Don't fear casting out these people, they manipulate and take what they cannot have and do not deserve.
Yes, a self-respecting person has high standards and wun allow others to compromise them.
SL, another great video. Always looking forward to see what's next. This was knowledgeable just like the others. Keep it up👍🏾
Ty this message has been received well. Your videos are truly helping us ascend. Keep em coming. The universe is commending you. Keep up the great work!🙏💚☝️💫🌍🌟👼🏽
Number 9 stands out for me. Great video. Thank you
Absolutely dead on. Thank you.
Thnx! Boost my confidence and a deeper understanding of self
Thank you...its so interesting and true to it's very core.
Wow! This is SO me and how I was raised! Hit the NAIL on the head! 100% Accurate!
Very nice💙..very well said..True That🙏
I agree strongly with number 9 ..thank you.
anyone else watching while it's being premiered?
I love your videos, only 1 thing, is it possible to make a content table in the description? This way i can go over the points and remember what you were talking about. Regards.
Great sharing !!
Best video ever. I love this ❤️💯
Great, concise and useful information
Self respect is hard to find after being rejected. How to rebuild the thoughts of worth is darn near impossible.
Kellyleigh Read Anything is Possible to them who Believe 🙏🏽🙏🏽 I thought the same thing until I learn that I had control of those thoughts God Bless
Speaking from experience, it seems impossible but really it's not. Just takes a wee bit of time to get back to yourself. What I found enormously helpful was books on the subject. You will be OK. Small steps. Be kind to yourself. Best wishes and loads of self care.
Married 36 year's. Two years ago I was discarded. Now I am learning.
@@kellyleighread807 . I am so sorry you have to go through this hell. I to was discarded. But going through the hell made me strong. Dig deep and find the inner strength. It is there. Take care and best wishes.
Thank you for your help. I trust the process of getting back my strength being loved & for those who have stuck with me through out this season of being pruned. I will produce fruit from the True Vine. The Husbandman pruned me of the evil of a reprobate mind. That part cut away will be cast into the fire & burned up.
I will heal given the nutrition and water of the Vine. The fruit will be full & plentiful as the effects of the True Vine work for the glory of the Husbandman.
Thank again absolutely helpful
Sounds like me 💯!!!! 🙂😀🤟who has self-respect for myself. 😉♥️
thanks for the video!
So needed to here this
On point ☝️. Those 9 things are very true.
I do much better on my own.
Thank you for sharing.
Don't lower your standards for anyone, or anything,Self respect is everything...
Thank you ❤
I agree with u.Convincing not compelling.👌👌👍
Thank you so much
I'm the one who bargains at the car lot. After 6 hours they practically gave it to me. 😂
I see..🤔 You used the time stone. 👌
@@novski3175 you know it!!!
You disrespected the value of the car and putting the price down and after six hours of annoyance to a seller they had no choice but to practicaly give it to you says a lot about you what kind of person you are. Basicly the house that originaly costs €10 000 you bought for a £1. Well done you. You are so worth it. This is the true reason the poverty is made and exists. Thanks to You. You value your time and your self worth. May the God bless You, go in peace.
@@somyan8540 whoa!!! Did that trigger you for some reason? First, that was sarcasm. Of course they still made a profit. There's a GM plant near me where people make over 30 bucks an hour to stand and put on a part. And they get amazing health and benefits. And they're in a union and screaming how they are underpaid. Some have been caught sleeping on the job, clocking in and leaving, taking 3 hour lunch breaks, etc. 36 dollars an hour wasn't enough for a man I know and I told him take the buyout they're offering 8,000 dollars and then a pay rate of 24 dollars. He refused. I think people at McDonald's who bust their butt all day should make more money, they work harder and most of them haven't gone to college either. The plant is closed because of a collective union greed and sense of entitlement. Before you get all shook the dealership was asking 10 grand over the MSRP. Did they actually give it to me, of course not. But yes I bargained and we both did just fine. If they can afford Mercedes and Teslas working as salesmen they are probably not hurting because of a fiscally responsible person like me. You don't know anything about me. I worked 3 jobs when my husband was very sick and we were selling furniture just to buy food, I went back to school and put all that I had into getting my degree so I could make a living out of helping others and feel rewarded for that alone.
@@jenniferkeeponfighting7561 No. No it did not. Am not responding, not replying. It didn't touch me. Am unafected. Plus am not hot headed but easy going, my head might say some truth but am not concerned. Am in no power. Am no wiser, it doesn't matter to me. Most often I comment on subject as a scolar or a student as if this is a lesson and we are in the School. Not inportant.
Thank you.😊
Tq for this video ❤️
Thank you ♥️
Self Respecting People Always Want to Give The Respect & Value From Whom They Get Back😊
Thank you very much, affirming myself respect. 😁
Thankyou.
Very nice points about self respecting people
Number one. Yes. Agreed! I also can’t stand comfort zones. 🤷🏽♀️
The intro gives me chill😌
I can watch these videos all day lol
I never realized how much self respect I have😅
Exactly I'm so clairvoyant I hear everything. Extremely physic can't hide anything .u can't hiden intent
BOOM!!
YES YOU ARE CORRECT!!!!!!!!
I can totally relate it to myself
Repel not repeal
I welcome such info
The true talnt and skill is identifying when and how or who is trying to manipulate and or use u. Identifying and neutralizing early or deal with consequences. Before everything happens. To respect others u got to know how to respect ur self. U can deal with any type of people even criminals bit only if there is respect. U dont need trust if u have respect. But u cant trust without respect.
Yes very true & if they show you they can not be trusted with experiences, that youve gained from them totally show who they really are & no trust for them &no respect will be gain.
no trust, no respect , no gain...
Cut that off.. no problematic existing😆👍.
Nice video- which video explainer do you use?
I admire your ability to be able to draw and create those characters while you explain such important matters thank you sir
Thank you.
They’re laying down narration over video cartoons that they’ve previously made or farmed out.
So good
It seems i dont get along well w anyone in my town! They all hate me. I do get along with like minded people ,self respecting individuals . Any place i go.or have ever lived. I believe the people in my town are fake stuck up and u educated. I just never related .i used to sneak out when I wasca kid and go hang out w the Punk Rockers in another town! My townnis the black hole of the Universe! I dont belong here .but i live here and run a tiny bizness here. I thank you for the video. Im.so glad to know i am.a self respecting individual and appreciatte the confidence to continue to.be Me !! Thnx
Lately i feel the same way.
People have respecting me more lately and I don’t know what I’m doing right except loving myself and educating myself. That’s why videos like this are so good. 😊
Also, at 35 I still don’t know what Quid Pro Quo means. Just use plain English! At least the video tried to explain it. It might be the first explanation of this concept, that I’ve ever heard.
Cool video pretty accurate
Awesome
Sometimes empaths need to learn by this themself's
Yes they do
What is the software you use to make this video?
There are also certain limitations that should still stand in accommodating certain people who live certain lifestyles and have certain orientations. Based on the bad things that have happened in the past going back Centuries.
Ripped off does fit the category of being cheated so that works. I was gonna say being cheated.
That's because being cheated, manipulated, scammed, and conned are all the same thing. The only in how there used is the context of the situation.
Respect Others Self
I'd watch this just for the drawings
I think i 'm a self respect person,becaus3 this video sum up me.
Omg wish I could show this without backlash
We care about truth honesty morals values principles making sure that we live a life of Integrity we doing what's right even when we're not see to please God
How annoying is it when one’s government constantly tries to rip you off everyday. Don’t even mention the rest of the everyday people one has to deal with.
Everyone is always trying to gain something from someone else. Whether or not it’s beneficial for anyone in the long run is what people have to figure out
That because few people today have core values or least none that they actively strive to embody. In the past people had Christianity and God to guide them. That was thrown out in the 60s/70s. People have yet to find a good replacement. So all that's left is a vacuum and the accompanying chaos.
Not everyone has the mindset of being , to tries,rip offs,nor a desire to gain off others backs(leaches)& from others gains ..
People are busy doing gaining .
If one dont have a couple of these things are they saying one has no self respect???
How about just a soul whose intentions are good and please don't let me be misunderstood.....
I agree with the nine identified behaviours
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Why would someone try to be ripped off?
I think they meant 'when someone tries to rip them off' 😃
First learn the meaning of what you say, then speak -Epictetus
To learn the true meaning takes more than just knowing the definition, you have to intentionally experience and practice the context in which the word Respect describes to truly analyze and understand it.
re·spect
/rəˈspekt/
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noun
1.
a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
"the director had a lot of respect for Douglas as an actor"
late Middle English: from Latin respectus, from the verb respicere ‘look back at, regard’, from re- ‘back’ + specere ‘look at’.
If it's a feeling, then it's a reaction, not an action.
Newtons third law of motion.
Then opposite of respect, is disgust.
I don't have deep admiration for what is essentially misinformation, if I chose to feel otherwise, I'd have to lie to myself in order to do so.
No self respecting person would allow their self to act in such a way.
They would have to regard or, look at their self as a liar.
I'd rather eat out of a dumpster with someone I can Respect, than have steak and potatoes with someone who is disgusting.
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repeal? repel
Who else subscribed because of the animations?
I agree with the 9 behaviors, however, am resentful that you implicate that empaths, HSP and introverts wouldn't have these in the same proportion as other people. Being empathetic and highly sensitive causes people to want to be healers and helpers of their fellow humans which put us in jeopardy of being targeted by manipulators. The problem is, good manipulators will uphold all 9 of these behaviors... their true intentions and personality don't show until after a certain amount of brain washing has commenced, so then we try to 'fix' the problems that are causing our 'loved one' to no longer adhere to the self respecting behavior.
We'd like to give help others care about those in need if a person is hurting we want to understand your hurt and be able to sympathize with don't like lies we don't like JJ we don't like mistreatment we don't like people being in pain and going through I'm being put down look that bad we want what is pure wholesome Integrity loyal what is faithful pleasing to Jesus Christ in my eyes up with his teaching his perfect example
That sounds like many healthy INTJs.
This better not be a video on how to manipulate self respecting people!
I just cannot tolerate that🤪
#1.... who tries to be ripped off anyway???
I must say I think this video is great, but it really bothers me personally when a CZcamsr makes mistakes in self-help videos. Specifically, I’m not sure the word “repeal” that you said at 1:26 belongs there. Either that or I didn’t understand what you meant. Corrections are welcomed
Me me me 😲👊👏
There is a thin line between self-respect and ego.
Self respect is something you earn an ego is something you believe
@@alicecoppers8980 Exactly and you'll feel it too! There's big difference between unearned self importance vs self importance that you earned through hard work and discipline.
No I don't like to manipulate nobody
Disrespect from another person
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My name is Frankie and basically I live with my name stands for truthful honest Gets In free free to be sincere pure love and honest kind stay under authority to wish right don't look down on others don't put down on my elders respect my elders respect my neighbor's do is write like care about Georges orphans weirdos the fatherless grandparents do make sure I give my best at all times and anyone who's it needing however I can be effective volunteer Red Cross Salvation Army step up to having prison ministry and many more I don't boast about it but I'll let people know that I am who I say I am and I do a lot more other still but I won't let you know what I do I would rather be a nobody and everybody else is greater
If u change ur thumbnail into natural color it is a lot underated and attractive.
I want to understand why TF my team leader gives ALL dirty work to me why everyone else is chilling at work, even newcomers!!! 😠
It seems like these apes have learned to take the lives of future generations, perhaps they understand that this will eliminate the species.....it's been reported that it's happened to lion cubs too...
I wonder whether it might make a huge difference in terms of folks being able to better absorb this content if you hired a native English speaker as an editor BEFORE the script reaches the narrator. I found that the ideas here seemed a bit juvenile, and I wonder if that was in part because of grammar and syntax, and that’s a real shame, since it seems like you have something to say that resonates with a lot of people, even so. It just didn’t flow for me, though the graphic artistry, background music, and narrator were all great.
I really don't care I made so much u all have me in discomforts I won't share my problams but I got I nearly suvive
Was that brad Pitt that you drew who “ doesn’t need anyone?”
Two years u all abuse me proprily a injured man
Parasitic friendships...WORD.