Good advice but for the 70s generation. Times have changed It is both the man and woman responsibility to make the marriage work. It should not be too much hustle for the lady. Men are not babies For me, what is key is understanding his love languages and so is the man. Top up with respect and love. Are there men who arrive home at 6pm? Wengi wako Kwa jam.
Forgiveness is the key !!! I wish i knew this as a man i didn't forgive her i jumped to another marriage what i went through only God knows now am single i wish her all the best!
So so inspiring and helpful message there. I have learned and laughed kutosha…( From Eugene City Oregon State) a kamba who understands kikuyu kabisaa. Thanks a lot Metha ya Kagoni.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This topic is above all, Wanjiru Kiama is 100% marks, couples pliz tune in to this topic n u surely u will not be left behind, these small issues of romance are much more educative towards married couples. Thanks alot metha ya kagoni, we need more from W.K. Isle live from Doha Qatar.
@@shikokariuki212 I think i am a bit different. I will forgive but not put up with unnecessary suffering and disrespect and being left alone in a 'marriage' for eons.
My humble opinion, out of experience is that it takes two. When one partner is not interested, let's say, the man, for argument's sake, no amount of loveliness and sexiness and hygiene and general romantic gestures will make him interested. The reasons may be varied..but if he is not invested as a partner, the guest's suggestions may not always work. I guess they are worth trying, but try seducing a man or woman who has no interest at all. It's like pulling teeth!
Plus I am left wondering why should I seduce my own husband? Am I a hoe? When he had a crush on me or during the first days, even if I was in a stocking on my head I was still his sweet gal. So what has changed? Like I said, know his love language and the rest will fall to place. For us, after having a deep convo, we end up being intimate and maybe am in a tshirt. He should find you attractive nevertheless Intimacy is not only about sex; that quality time you spend together creates the foundation for good sex not necessarily sexy lingerie. Honestly some things here can only work for housewives.
Soo sad that we're a generation that was trained to only please our men regardless of their disrespectful behaviour. That's why even when we're treated like doormats, society expects us to stick around. God, help us to differentiate between foolishness of hanging onto an abusive relationship n Your will. My opinion, that's why the young people's marriages today are breaking easily. They, esp ladies, cant take in the crap that my generation have lived with. Let's train our children well, boy boys n girls n teach them to make God the center of their marriage.
@@sallygatibu6552 i totally agree with you. Couples should value each and both should work hard to please each. Its feels like its all about men and women are ignored and no wonder many feel empty coz all they know is just to give and they end up giving until they dont have anything to give. A woman equally feels good pampered and appreciated.
@Lucy, that is what I think too. And i think it applies to women too. But in another episode, this same guest was basically saying that women are to blame for their men cheating..though she didn't say the same about men. Her take was ukimnyima, ataenda nje. But most women know that some men just must have more than one woman..they have to cheat and it is their fault, and not the woman's. I think blaming women for the actions of a man is not fair, and is in my humble view, sexist.
Mimi nilivaa negligee nikaulizwa kwani siskii baridi..🤣🤣. I think the guest's opinion assumes the partner is interested/cares. Or rather that both partners care for each other. And to me is seems like she is saying it is mainly the woman's job to put the sizzle back into marriage. I guess my point is that for her advice to work, both parties should be happy and be mentally as well as emotionally & sexually available to each other. And generally speaking, even from her other episodes here, she still sees women in a very traditional sense..like they are there to facilitate the lives of their men. Yaani they are there to be at the beck and call of men and to meet all their sexual, emotional, physical and other needs. I see this approach as a bit simplistic and dated, because the role of women these days is a lot more diverse, both inside and outside the home. And, the idea that if he cheats, rather than complain about it, I should gently cajole him with a bible verse?! I am sorry, but that is, quite honestly, insulting. Also, why is it a good thing that a man leaves his family, the wife brings up the kids and takes care of their needs..and then once they are adults, he comes back and should then be welcomed with open arms? Why? Which blessings does he have to offer a family he abandoned? I just don't get it at all.
I’m picturing Her Majesty Wakiama with that tee shirt ‘sexy girls are hot’ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣😂😅...she is a positive thinker, good communicator and a wonderfull partner, enjoys her live & a lover.
My future husband I will treat you like electricity
😅😅😅😅
I have never heard of this lady but her message delivery is on point............
Amazing! The delivery and the message was on point. Thank you from Canada
Canada wapi?
I like the illustration of electricity.. thumbs up wanjiru
Wow this women is full of wisdom
My favorite person. She is so real it’s amazing 😂🤣😅
We need more of this mum she has alot to teach us,,,thank you monica
You hit the nail on the head I like it
The helper should be more empowered than the helpwo aky nime rudia mara tatu ,the first time to hear and to see her😂😂😂 i like her talk
Good advice but for the 70s generation.
Times have changed
It is both the man and woman responsibility to make the marriage work. It should not be too much hustle for the lady. Men are not babies
For me, what is key is understanding his love languages and so is the man.
Top up with respect and love.
Are there men who arrive home at 6pm? Wengi wako Kwa jam.
What does your Bible say
Watching from northern Spain, wanjiru wa kiama is a wonderful lady
She's very hilarious and full of wisdom! Keep up the good work kagoni
This is really good
True Men are visual beings
The message is well packaged. I like the way Madam Wanjiru does her thing
Forgiveness is the key !!! I wish i knew this as a man i didn't forgive her i jumped to another marriage what i went through only God knows now am single i wish her all the best!
It's good to acknowledge your mistakes may God give you a second chance.
Very educative....plz monicah bring wakiama many times
this is powerful we need more of it
Huyu Mama Yuko SAWA Sana. Her voice is positively authoritative. You are the best👌
Very true
Sure my sister am watching from Mombasa tell them my dear 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wise Counsel... Thank you.
Great ladies ,thanks for always education at .
Amazing, I love this lady too much educate me
Iam not a Kikuyu but her first statement has made me to feel it...iam married by a Kikuyu and very happy...nifunzeni Kikuyu 😍 I like your tribe
I'm not a Kiuk but I understand it very well, this topic so educative. Thanks so much! we need more of this Kagoni.
Excellent 👌 full of wisdom
Madam wanjiru is full of wisdom.
So so inspiring and helpful message there. I have learned and laughed kutosha…( From Eugene City Oregon State) a kamba who understands kikuyu kabisaa. Thanks a lot Metha ya Kagoni.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amazing story thankyou monicah
Wakiama you are also soo beautiful
Very educative
This topic is above all, Wanjiru Kiama is 100% marks, couples pliz tune in to this topic n u surely u will not be left behind, these small issues of romance are much more educative towards married couples. Thanks alot metha ya kagoni, we need more from W.K. Isle live from Doha Qatar.
That was amazing lessons 😘😘💞💞🇰🇪🇰🇪
Thank you soo much! Wonderful lessons
I love your show ever with good msgs
Thank you for this
Best advice ever my mam💯🙏♥️🔥
Nice one Monica...
Amazing 😍🥰
Still single but it's a way of preparing me to marriage...thanks for the topic... always tuned in from Dubai...
Thanks ladies🥰
Agirirwo ni ku appreciate how you are dressed coz they sleep naked majority
I salute you
Niice
That it’s truly ladies needs to try and keeps and dress well meaning self 💗 love
Wow
😂😂😂😂ati ngoma ino uga ukugereire kungi 😂😂this interview was strong
Waiting
Aki wewe mama uko wapi uongee na hawa wake wetu i lk your advice be blessed sana, nipate wapi kama wewe thanks heyyyy
👍👍👍👍👍👍
Mwingine alirudi after 50yrs very sickly with nothing but the lady welcomed him💖
This, I don't understand at all.
Women are programmed to forgive, accept and move on.....
@@shikokariuki212 I think i am a bit different. I will forgive but not put up with unnecessary suffering and disrespect and being left alone in a 'marriage' for eons.
Wooi that's a saint ♥️
wow this is so educative...i have learnt a lot ..we need more of this Monica ...thank you for enlightening us together with Mrs. Kiama.
points taken but ndiri wakura .love love anyway wakiama geithika
Uyu ni mwaki....ndiramuitikia
There should be accountability though!!!
❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
Great message....😘 more didn't know what is romantic 🌹🌹🌹🌹
I will be present if God wishes
Ann wa saudi romances is crazy 🤪 🤪 🤪
tuko pamoja sana kutoka Qatar
Tholomoni😂😂😂
My humble opinion, out of experience is that it takes two. When one partner is not interested, let's say, the man, for argument's sake, no amount of loveliness and sexiness and hygiene and general romantic gestures will make him interested. The reasons may be varied..but if he is not invested as a partner, the guest's suggestions may not always work. I guess they are worth trying, but try seducing a man or woman who has no interest at all. It's like pulling teeth!
Plus I am left wondering why should I seduce my own husband? Am I a hoe? When he had a crush on me or during the first days, even if I was in a stocking on my head I was still his sweet gal. So what has changed?
Like I said, know his love language and the rest will fall to place.
For us, after having a deep convo, we end up being intimate and maybe am in a tshirt. He should find you attractive nevertheless
Intimacy is not only about sex; that quality time you spend together creates the foundation for good sex not necessarily sexy lingerie.
Honestly some things here can only work for housewives.
Soo sad that we're a generation that was trained to only please our men regardless of their disrespectful behaviour. That's why even when we're treated like doormats, society expects us to stick around. God, help us to differentiate between foolishness of hanging onto an abusive relationship n Your will.
My opinion, that's why the young people's marriages today are breaking easily. They, esp ladies, cant take in the crap that my generation have lived with. Let's train our children well, boy boys n girls n teach them to make God the center of their marriage.
Relly
@@sallygatibu6552 i totally agree with you. Couples should value each and both should work hard to please each. Its feels like its all about men and women are ignored and no wonder many feel empty coz all they know is just to give and they end up giving until they dont have anything to give. A woman equally feels good pampered and appreciated.
80% is women's to keep a man in her house
When a short hair feminist discusses what a "good man" is, be assured she will describe a doormat and a wage slave.
I now know a new term...short-hair feminist 😂😂
Wakwa nî gûte ndûraga ndîthIthanagîra na rîu nimechoka nataka nikae maisha yangu ata sitaki mke yeyote kabisaaa
Kaari football...
Kagoni,ask wa kiama to speak discuss on naccist,where you have done all what she is saying,and it is not working
Ona nikuri muthuri ukega mutumia akua
Sex becomes a duty, because you dont wont problems
Nie ona ndingimurora
My friends mwanaume akitaka kucheat ata ukimu welcome home na band group Kila siku is in vain
Waaaaah 🤣🤣noma
@Lucy, that is what I think too. And i think it applies to women too. But in another episode, this same guest was basically saying that women are to blame for their men cheating..though she didn't say the same about men. Her take was ukimnyima, ataenda nje. But most women know that some men just must have more than one woman..they have to cheat and it is their fault, and not the woman's. I think blaming women for the actions of a man is not fair, and is in my humble view, sexist.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@betty541 betty u are on point. No woman is responsible of mans bad behavior and vise versa.
Ithui twikirire miaka ta ina
Ekuo muno mum ako feet
Nawale wanaume your trying to be romantic anakuambia anasumbua hau tia
Mimi nilivaa negligee nikaulizwa kwani siskii baridi..🤣🤣. I think the guest's opinion assumes the partner is interested/cares. Or rather that both partners care for each other. And to me is seems like she is saying it is mainly the woman's job to put the sizzle back into marriage. I guess my point is that for her advice to work, both parties should be happy and be mentally as well as emotionally & sexually available to each other. And generally speaking, even from her other episodes here, she still sees women in a very traditional sense..like they are there to facilitate the lives of their men. Yaani they are there to be at the beck and call of men and to meet all their sexual, emotional, physical and other needs. I see this approach as a bit simplistic and dated, because the role of women these days is a lot more diverse, both inside and outside the home.
And, the idea that if he cheats, rather than complain about it, I should gently cajole him with a bible verse?! I am sorry, but that is, quite honestly, insulting.
Also, why is it a good thing that a man leaves his family, the wife brings up the kids and takes care of their needs..and then once they are adults, he comes back and should then be welcomed with open arms? Why? Which blessings does he have to offer a family he abandoned? I just don't get it at all.
Where can I get that unga?
Very educative