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When Heâs NOT READY For A Relationship... In this dating advice video, I will be talking about when he's not ready for a relationship so that you can know how to go about it whenever you come across such a situation. If he says he's not ready for a relationship on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process, it would be best if you believed him. Take heed to this relationship advice, and be sure to watch the whole video.
I don't want you to think that a man will make up his mind and suddenly want a relationship when he's not ready for a relationship. You may have come across a situation where he doesn't want to commit but won't let go, but in today's dating advice, I will help you know when he's not ready for a relationship so that you can do what is truly best.
I want you to know when he isn't ready for a relationship but still wants to be with you. If you can embrace this dating advice, knowing when he doesn't want to commit and when he's not ready for a relationship will be much easier. Always take him serious when he says he's not ready for a relationship.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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Thank you so much for that an funny because my grandmother actually got me this book last year in the midst of everything to show me and the Man God has for you Iâm going to finally have time to read being alone now and highway to healing for once and respecting and loving me and my body not just giving it to anyone anymore but your amazing thank you so much for all the clarity and love advice on dating and relationships always on point
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Help! He just told me his still not sure. I was confused
@StephanSpeaks I been in a Relationship for 7 years and when I was 22 he asks me can he have a 3 some and I told him no not now maybe when I turn 30 but I'm turning 30 soon and he told me he wants another woman in the relationship in I told him yes but my heart said No I can't do it.. it's hurts me so much cause I'm thinking I'm enough but I'm not enough for him.. I really need some Advice from you a Alpha Black Male I'm crying for help???
NEVER MAKE A MAN A PRIORITY WHILE HE IS MAKING YOU AN OPTION... â
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I'm not going to be no man's option..BOOM!
đđđ that is a good one, yes!
200000%
Well stated bravo đ
Ladies be grateful when a man tells you heâs not ready and respect his decision cause they are so many men who will tell you they are ready but their actions says totally different!
Most definitely!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I so love getting â€ïžs from you âșïž #mymentor
Yup. They be ready 4 u and the other 3, 4 women they're rotating.
This comment! I rather a man tell me this from the start than pretend, because only God knows I would be willing to leave!
The thing is men wait to say they donât want a relationship after months of âdatingâ I had this happened to me he lied in the beginning I was upfront and said I wanted to be in a relationship and asked him and he said â yeah letâs see where it goesâ then 4 months later he says he doesnât want one and lied and tried to say he never said he wanted a relationship ( even tho I had messages of him saying it and calling me baby) he said â all I said was you was a good vibeâ after that I cut him off he tried coming back but I didnât let that happen
"Just because someone desires you doesn't mean they value you" haa
Absolutely!
FactsâŒïžđŻđŻ
This is exactly what happened to međ I feel soo used..
A word đđŸ
I dumped my ex yesterday, he told me he was confused after 4 months of dating and wasn't sure if he is ready for a relationship , so my reply was "let me help you with your confusion, bye"
đđđđđđ you kill me with your comment
@@Nikkiscorner78 ha ha x
Has it stuck?
@@atlantasfaithsmom yes, he contacted me last month, I ignored it
@@natashahibbit326 block him
You teach the truth, Always.
"NEVER BE AFRAID TO LET GO A MAN WHOSE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE AS YOU."
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that â€
@@MeetStephanSpeaks.....and I just got my books God where is my Boaz & Love after heart break vol 1.
Yes exactly đŻ
I heard the âIâm not ready for a relationshipâ about a week ago and broke it off. It really hurt at first, but I knew itâd me good long term. Iâm feeling much better today.
If he's not ready for marriage or relationship, the cookie store is closed for business.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
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@@macsc5497 celibate for 6 years and counting thank you!!đ
@@jackiemcbride833 you should atleast have some small samples available or atleast let him window shop if you don't want to be celibate forever. A man needs to be enticed.
@@connectperfectly A woman of GOD does not compromise with the enemy.
Thank you for this message Stephen. I recently got my heartbroken. I went to church and ask God for clarity and confirmation. God gave me BOTH. I ignored the gut feelings. I ignored the miscommunication and red flags. I know now and I thank God for answering my prayers. Ladies if you are not sure about the guy you're dating ask God for clarity and confirmation. Whatever answer you get I ask God to give you strength. You will be ok. Trust God's process. He will never steer you wrong. God bless yall.
God wants your to take action. Without action you'll always get what you've always got. Good luck sis
Same girl same! I ignored all signals. He wasn't Christian which is something I already knew but still proceeded.
Now feeling sad, but I mostly miss the attention đ
God bless you sister I hope the Lord brings you the man of your dreams.
I am so glad I read your comment. I know what I need to do and ask. But like you wrote: I also got to ask for the strength to handle the answer. Iâm still dealing with the heartbreak and itâs almost been a year.
Thank you for this.
âWomen tend to be casual with men of lower quality đ€Żđ€Żđ€Ż â
You nailed that baby !
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that â€ïž
This is why I donât lay down with him even though I want to lol. đ© đ€Šđœââïž Iâll just give him time and space to think about how he really feels about me. Heâs not ready for what he says he wants so I would like to not be attached and be available for my person. Iâm stingy with my time and energy. Iâm not wasting it.
Respect!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that â€
Very good! đ
I agree to wait and move on when you see it is going nowhere.
Ifeoma in sure you are Nigerian and as a Nigerian man myself I know we can be challenging. Giving space is good if you aren't truly interested but if you give too much space you may lose him to a more aggressive style woman.
In all honesty, if man tells me any variation of "I'm not ready for a relationship" I'm out. Period. I don't need him to explain any further because that phrase explains it all and I am not going to put my life on hold for a man that made it known he is unsure about me.
Me too I feel the exact same way deuces âïžâïž. I donât have time for games, either you know what you want or not.
Heâll definitely be sure about someone else
@@renee167 FactsđđŸđđŸđđŸ
I just told a guy where to go because he "wasn't ready"' but ready for sex. Yeah seeya! I ain't no hoe.
@@ladyowl9187 funny how theyâre ready for that huh? I had a guy say he didnât want a relationship (he lied he agreed in the beginning) made excuses why he didnât want a relationship ( which were lies) but wanted to hang out and got mad when I didnât want to
Okay but tell me why men come into a womanâs life knowing heâs not ready to love her??!! Itâs so selfish to lead someone on for your benefit. I donât get it..cause sometimes they wonât say theyâre not ready theyâll just string you along until they have no more use of you and call the woman the crazy one when he wanted her first!
It isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best đ
Exactly I went through this I was minding my business and he came texting me even after I left him on seen knew I wanted a relationship knew I liked him and still wasted my time thatâs why today I am how I am and kinda scared to date cause Iâm scared it will happened again I went through hell with that guy
Because youâre either a place holder OR a booty call.
It's up to you to use discernment, common sense, and ask the right questions. If his words and actions don't align, cut him loose. Ask the hard questions upfront like "what are you looking for?" And if he says one thing, but behaves the other way - welp..there goes your answer!
It sucks but that's the game you are in. The only option is to get better at the game. There are women winning everyday. Become one of them. Its easy to do you just have to work hard at it
Biggest thing I got from your video: No matter the reason, we have a CHOICE. We can stick around and âgo with the flowâ. OR, we can keep it moving. Keyword being choice đŻ
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
They do it for an ego boost.
I tell my sista/friends all the time, don't let lust get you into something your heart can't handle.
You'r absolutely right, thank you for sharing, I appreciate that â€
Very good.
I like that.
I appreciate a man who is honest about not being ready. Also a man that will communicate.
Listening to this makes me realize so many things... Then I regret so much accepting certain things that I had accepted back then. Attachment is indeed the very strong feeling that has held me back now I am embracing my healing process and I can definitely see the growth.
Self love is everything. âđŸ
I need that.
Been there and we really need to stop wasting our time with the wrong one. The one who's ready will find you in the good moment. God doesn't send confusion in our life. Take the "I don't kno" for a no!!! Men kno what they want they just need the good one to realise it.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Men do not deserve the relationship/gf benefits without actually committing to being a your bf/partner, not ok. Please girls donât put yourself in these situations, open the door and close it. #boybye. You deserve so much better!:). Friendzone the guy whoâs not ready for a relationship, do not in anyway entertain the guy. Itâs not worth it, donât allow him to use you for his benefit. Guard your heart. The pain from this is not worth it and it can badly affect your mental health, emotional health and even physical health, itâs been scientifically proven. I myself have also learnt the hard way from being in these situations, I realised I needed to love myself more and get the heck out!:) God helped me and continues to help me heal my low self esteem and people pleasing ways and cos I know God loves me I donât try to seek validation from men (this is still a struggle but Iâm much better:) Gods love is much better than sacrificing yourself to be with a guy who is commitment phobic and not willing to step up as a man or just using you for sex and comfort. We as women deserve so much better.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks no dramas at all Stephen:) I believe this is a HUGE topic that needs to be addressed in dating culture so thank you for bringing it up. Iâve seen many women and even men cry over the wrong bf/gf as I volunteer online counselling when I can. Iâve studied christian counselling and family therapy:) Iâm by no means a Psychologist or anything and itâs not my profession I just volunteer but this is a huge topic in todays hook up or dating culture.. women and men getting hurt on both sides⊠like emotionally damaged for years over these situations ships etc
I just wanted to finally be married and to be called a wife and a mother but yes exactly, not at this expense! Not this way!
So true! I went through this recently. This guy was just a client who turned into a friend but he treated me really wellâŠ.I mean great. We started hanging out as friends. Then he started taking me out for dinner all the time and other fun things..and buying me extravagant giftsâŠspending big moneyâŠand I was like,âhey whatâs going on hereâ???
Then one day he said he was very sexually attracted to meâŠbut I told him I didnât want to sleep with a guy in the path to nowhere,(because he had already mentioned that he didnât want a relationship or to ever marry again)âŠironically he was crazy jealous and got toxic if I hung out with other guys. I never slept with him because I saw red flags and when I wanted to talk about it he was always unwilling to have a conversation. The weird part is that he spoiled me like crazy! He must have spent a hundred thousand dollars taking me out and buying me fancy things BUT he had a lot of red flags so it ended. It ended because I said I wanted to be with a guy who wants a real relationship and I definitely do NOT do FWB âŠso he got mad that I wouldnât have sex with him so he sneaked off to sleep with some easy chic and tried to keep it secret but I saw the signs and our time ended. He still says hello sometimes but I donât care how nice or rich or whatever a man is if heâs just trying to play me. At least I didnât give it up and I stuck to my standards so I didnât get too hurt. I want somebody whoâs ready for what I need and wants to take the right steps to get there. So many players out there. Iâm glad for these videos that help us navigate past all the bs! Thank you.
Remarriage while the first spouse is living is a sin. So you dodged a bullet. Never date anyones husband (divorce is a sin, once married youâre bound til death) or baby daddy (if youâre childless).
My friend was in a situation with an ex who was very generous to her but he used it for control . Got violent when she didn't want to accept side chicks đł
Iâm so glad you didnt ignore the signs!!! God bless
You really ought to return all gifts that you still have, such as material things - or it will seem as if you can be bought. Even to yourself it will feel like that.
Wrong. The putting out of a woman WITHOUT A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE is a sin in the Bible.
Being fat is also a sin. And all sin is the same.
Focus on the log in your own eye before you focus on the speck in someone else's eye, and don't be a judgemental Pharisee.
Exactly. I had to be honest with myself and the guy I was dating. He was like letâs go with the flow. What flow? We had already crossed the line. Itâs been 9 months already. Men now days play too many games. He tried to divert and put everything on me as if I was the only one who caught feelings after dealing with him for this amount of time. He suggested that we just be friends to make simpler and âkeep you saneâ. I told him communication & consistency is what does that. I told him I canât do that thatâs not what I want & you donât get to keep me in your life like your other âfriendsâ while you figure out if you want me or not. Thatâs why I say thereâs pee, Froot Loops, Cheerios, poo, and immaturity in the Dating Pool nowadays. Iâm out. Until God sends me the beautifully, imperfect heart & soul of the man he made for beautifully, imperfect me.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback and pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you đ
Yes im going through the same thing
Gurl, same here
@@celiohelder1 are they all playing the same game?!! These men are sitting around reaping benefits for free ⊠hit the road clown đ€Ą
@@brooklyn3299 apparently they are.
I date men and they arenât much different in this universe either. Itâs sad
This is good⊠âBeing territorial should not be confused with real feelingsâ
You're absolutely right!
Wow! đ„șđ
This is so true for us women. We will just sit at a table where love is no longer being served, forgetting that we're naturally emotional beings. We always catch feelings and end up hurt , broken and bitter in the end. The next genuine relationship may suffer as a result. Self sabotage.
"The more you invest in this BS situation, the harder it is to come out." Stephan Speaks
Thank you đâ€
I'm happy this has been helpful to you †đ
It's for the men too
I have someone at this moment, not wanting me to walk away and not wanting to be in a relationship. I told him, it's fine we don't have to be together but I'm moving on. This was on time bc he is being very territorial. I cut off hugs, kisses, sex....I changed my number...I mean...this is very eye opening.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing †đ
I'm a communicator. I've made mistakes where I gave WIFE benefits to a BOYFRIEND/SEXUAL ACQUAINTANCE. I've learned to make communication a priority. For me, discussing where we are after 3-6 months and if we would like to go further. I allow him to determine that once I make my desires known.
Communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing â€
Faye, my advice is move quicker than that. If a woman isnât asking about a relationship within 3 months of consistently dating, I assume she obviously just wants to keep it casualâŠ
And after 6 months.. if Iâm looking for something serious, you arenât even in consideration at that point because Iâm assuming Iâm your backup plan
Thanks!
Well marriage isn't for everyone to fair. But make sure you are on the same understanding when you do sleep with them.
I have no problem with a long-term commitment with intimacy. Honestly I don't think I would do the marriage thing again. I'm up for a long-term commitment.
Lordt why do we women care so much... Why can't we be numb like men. I'm tiiiirrrrrreeeeeedddd.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through đ
Your timing is always on point lol
lol, đ thank you.
You're so right
I was literally about to comment this because facts
This is so needed and right on time âČ
Man whatđ© literally perfect
Thank for bringing light to this situation. A lot of us woman are dealing with this and you confirmed everything I knew inside. Keep spreading your wisdom. We Appreciate you!â€
Glad I could help đ
This was very helpful, I appreciate you.
I just divorce my husband after 11/2, finding out he was having sex with his MALE FRIEND, WHO IS IS BOYFRIEND. YUPPP I SOLD EVERYTHING AND GAVE him what he came into my life with, t-shirts, socks and underwear. I had purchased him a truck and Lexus and when I seen the truth, I SOLD IT ALL
1 -1/2 year
My truth. I have to walk away all im doing is hurting myself. Thanks for your wisdom and knowledge
My pleasure â€
âIâm cool with going with the flow⊠not the hell youâre not!â That spoke to me! Itâs me! đđđđđđ€ŠđŸââïž
I need to speak to Stephan about my process to exit stage Rn đ€ŠđŸââïž
I am so drained..basically FWB for 1 year and 2 months...I finally let go one month strong. Working on myself and becoming the better version of me.
This is another amazing and real topic! Iâve been guilty of this for sure. We canât deceive ourselves to think that we can get this guy to want to be ready for a relationship with us. We have to keep it đŻ with ourselves and know that if he doesnât want a relationship but he wants to get all of relationship benefits, we have to respect ourselves enough to speak up for ourselves and say, you get relationship benefits when weâre in a relationship and not before!
Women, you deserve better, you need to really know what you truly want in a relationship, and once you have that all mapped outâŠ
it becomes a lot easier to weed out the men that do not fit the criteria youâre looking for.
This way, youâre not wasting your time with men who are not ready for a relationship.
Anyway, thatâs my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I couldnât agree more! To add to that itâs not only knowing what we want but making sure we set our standards at the very beginning.
Exactly
@@ericajanellelifecoaching Youâre exactly right! That way he knows where he stands with you. Lol
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
He doesn't want you but still wants some of your energy.
Absolutely!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks â€
and that's the toxicity
Or for an ego boost.
He said he was not ready for a serious relationship and just want to be friends for now. It broke my heart bc there is something really special between us. I respect his decision but I refuse to be a placeholder and nourish him back to a good place and see him find someone else bc he will be then "ready." I love myself too much to pour my love and attention in a man that does not want me for a serious commitment.
I'm so greatful for this video and I'm planning to go see you in Boston, Stephan!
This is exactly how I feel/what went down.. any updates??
Any updates on this? Super curious.
Much needed advice⊠this just happened to me, 3 months in a situationship, asked him where this is going, and he told me he wants to back off and be friends to get to know each other more. Told him I donât wanna be friends and walked away. Itâs so hard but I think I did the right thing for myself
Your territorial comment is one of the most brutally honest comments I have ever heard on social media. You are right that too many men like women to be around but not fully commit or marry them.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you â€ïž
Yes but some women are chosen and married from that process. They say no woman wants a man other woman don't want. Better to be picked out of a large pool as the wife than be his only option. If only you want him then he may not be the one.
Well, I⊠donât do casual sex only relationships. Iâm either getting to know someone to move forward toward a future⊠Or weâre cutting ties. I am perfectly happy being aloneâŠ. No one ever died from not having sex! đ
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that â€
Vibrators do an awesome job for the solo ones
Exactly đŻ
Outstanding advice!
Some men just want to have fun, so they usually take the path of least resistance. Most of the time, they will do/say whatever they feel is necessary to maintain their level of peace.
Absolutely!
Or to get their selfish desires met....
......My mind is blown. I had to look away from my phone for a second and pause the video. I can't get information like this from anyone I know. This conversation resonates with me so deep and I needed help on how to ask the RIGHT questions. Asking him to âbe specificâ and âhow do you expect me to behaveâ? Etc. Just to get his perspective was golden. I'm ready to hear him say something I may not want to hear but respect him on how he feels and have a genuine comeback saying âlisten if your not ready ok go do what you need to do, when your ready hit me back up but until then we can't have anything in betweenâ.omg so many gem questions. I know how to approach him now and accept the cause and effect. thank you!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing †đ
đđŸđđŸđđŸ my current dilemma đ©
@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes. Will do.
I am in this exact situation right now. He told me he's not ready for anything too serious but is saying good morning and goodnight everyday and acting like my boyfriend. It's like we're in a relationship but his initial words linger in my mind making things challenging. This video was much needed.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you đ
@@MeetStephanSpeaks well we ended it today
@@shannonfagan5104 Iâm glad you ended it
Why do men stick around and still be with the woman who they arenât ready to be in a relationship? Say they want one but feel you arnt âthe oneâ why continue to waist time with the person then instead of finding the right one? Donât get it
@@stephaniedickerson5126 I be wondering the same thing I had this happened to me
I've been there. I had to WALK AWAY!!!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Walk away when he say he doesn't want a relationship. No benefits! No nothing! Walk away!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Not true. Gotta learn the game Sandra
@@connectperfectly the game? Lol. What's the game in your opinion.
@@puertoricanprincess2272 Women have the power of seduction built right in but either don't know how to use it or are too lazy to do so. We will talk about it in the next few episodes. follow the channel and find us on ig under the same name.
This entire video is a gem. Straight forward and really gives cause and effect....glad i could watch. I will tell you this though. Ready or not, its solo season 4 me đđŸ ....Whomever Jesus direct my way The spirit will let me know. Alot i learn this year was exhausting and If imma be tired I want it to payoff with results not insults...Solo is my name until......đđŸ.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback â€
"Take that as an opportunity to exit stage left, and get on the path to receiving what's truly best for you, and what you actually want in life." â€ïž đ¶đŸââïžđđœ Thanks again Stephan...âșïž
Great advice Stephan!
Women, you deserve better, you need to really know what you truly want in a relationship, and once you have that all mapped outâŠ
it becomes a lot easier to weed out the men that do not fit the criteria youâre looking for.
This way, youâre not wasting your time with men who are not ready for a relationship.
Anyway, thatâs my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks No problem! Anytime.
All I will say ladies is MEN KNOW listen too them
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Right on time. Thank you.
Navigating relationships is complex and messy at times so extremely grateful to you for sharing your wisdom and guidance. So much truth in what you say. Thank you!
Having your heart torn apart can hurt. Thank you for your eye opening and insightful advice! It's just so comforting to get this kind of perspective from a relationship coach - I'm going to listen on repeat this week!
I appreciate you so much. I was dealing with someone treating me as a back burner so I held him accountable. I told him that I respect his choice to be friends, but I will not entertain him playing relationship games with me. He was giving me very little effort, no time and just enough attention to keep me hanging on a string as his backup plan. Because of you, I addressed it and told him that I recognize what he is doing and that I will no longer entertain this behavior because he is not pouring nothing into my life and I donât need to be pacified. It was so liberating to state my worth and that I not willing to settle for this behavior. He called and said he hears me and understand. I told him that most women would settle for this, but I require more from a friend or relationship. Thank you Stephan. I told him I prefer he go figure things and call me at that point.đđŸđđŸđđŸđđŸđđŸ
Glad I could help!
Omg..you said right on point cause I was going through the same thing with this guy who I thought things were going somewhere come to find out it was all talk....
This is exactly what I did days ago even before stumbling on thos video. This video was made for me. From start to finish. It's well.
I love this man no lie heâs here to help us to understand and this is a sign
Dealt with this before. Learned that they just want the freebies of a relationship without the commitment or work. I learned to take the hint and drop them
This hits right at the time I need it to heal on point with me parting with my âfriend of almost 2 years with husband benefits â
I'm happy this has been helpful to you!
Dear Stephan, thank you so much for these educational videos. Iâm in the middle of watching this video, and i truly appreciate how you try to not insult anyone watching. This is a very aspiring and healthy advice, itâs truly inspirational how youâre so connected to your own feelings and how aware you are of other peopleâs emotions. I genuinely enjoy watching your videos, your vibes are so beautiful, your humour is exceptional and non-offending or shaming, and thank you so much again for being such an inspiring individual. Sending so much love your way.
Love everything about this video. The problem comes in when they are so selfish that they can't be honest about not being ready for a relationship. He came in "ready" yet along the way I had to figure out that in reality he was not ready. Just be honest.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Yea but I always ask is that so they want one but then as time goes they donât feel we are the right one for them and they just then continue doing what they do but not ending it or giving there all?
â @@stephaniedickerson5126I completely coming where you coming from, I entered a relationship with a good man but his actions and values didnât match and i could intuitively felt like that wasnât his all , we can only allow what we can take and whatâs best for us ,so I definitely exited the stage left because as women we deserve some one who wants to lead not someone who you have to push like a child.
So thrilled I came across this treasure trove! Much appreciation to you for making these videos!
Man it's like you're speaking straight to me. I appreciate you, helping me heal and move on out of toxic habits.
Thank you for this Stephan. Iâve been thinking for a few weeks now if Iâm happy in my âsituationshipâ and I think Its time to face my thruth, set my boundaries with the man I am seeing and do whats best for me. Iâve been doing this mistake over and over and I feel like I deserve someone that will be on the same page as me.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you đ â€ïž
Bruh man, action speak louder than words, you are dead on, jealousy doesn't equate to a relationship, it is about control, having my cake and eat it too, and you are not getting a slice of it either or neither, he just want to hold on to you as an "in case" but don't want to commit to you but you BET not go "no where" with anyone else, oh father.. friend, oh, okay... cookie time
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Im so glad i found this page. This is giving me so much clarity.
Wow I needed to hear this. I was with someone for 4 years he was with me everyday but kept saying he didnât want a relationship. When I asked what we were doing he would say â what does it look like â he would go out see other women but would come home to me. This went on for 4 years making today a 4th anniversary but I am currently going on two weeks single and it feels so good. I got with him when I was 20 he was 28 I am now 24 and heâs 32. I have a lot to work on prior to meeting him and now after meeting him but youâr videos been helping me so much. You are truly god sent !
This video brings clarity....especially your answer to question #3. đđŸđđŸ Thank you Stephan!
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Thank you Stephan, this is confirmation for me! Your videos and your book The Man God Has For You has helped me tremendously! God Bless!
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I listen to this video every day because itâs gold! You make so much sense. Iâm trying to get out of my situationship đą
I wish I had come across with this video 8 years ago. I would have saved so much heartbreak! Thank you Stephan for educating us! Its always a pleasure to listen to one of your videos! You speak straight to the point and say everything we need to know! Keep up the awesome work!
Wow thanks so much for this video. I just got out of this situation. You are speaking straight facts. Keep these videos coming!
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God sends your messages at perfect timing. It literally shakes me up & to really surrender to God's message. I am currently reading your books so the timing & videos that pop-up confirm to let God use you in my journey through divorce & into self-loveâ€
One of your best videos yet--- I stayed way too long and it drained me to the max.
This video helped me so much tonight as I pondered this ârelationshipâ or lack of it Iâm having. Thank you.
Thank you for exactly breaking down my current relationship đ„°
GOD KNEW I needed this video. Thank you so much. The clarity and confirmation this has brought me has likely saved me from heart break and a bad situation. God bless you!
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Thank you for this. No longer dealing but dealt with this 5yrs. Was so confused with him. I'm 100% happy and free.
Thank you Stephan for being honest & open when a man is not ready for a relationship. Every woman deserves an awesome partner who loves her. All women should see this video & apply what applies to her. Thank You for your Powerful messages. đ€đđœđđœđđœâ€ïž GOD BLESS
this video saved me I've told myself this for months now all I have to do is execute....I believe the women here knew this already as well. like always we look for confirmation especially if it's not coming from the person we need it from. THANK YOU wholeheartedly đŠ
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Yes, and Yes. It was tough, we were just chill. Then we became playmates but when we were at the cross road to compromise, it was curtains. I am grateful to have retained my dignity. I'm bleeding out but not looking back.
Awesome Video - I love how you keep everything so real....I can actually understand the men that have entwined me in their unhealthy dynamics of a relationship with me. The patterns are consistent. Thank you for explaining it in detail!
I want to thank you sooo much! I am still not out of the woods yet but working on it. You have truly helped me and my current situation. I listened to your episode with Lewis Howes and from that you were like a light bulb that went off in my head. I resnote with so much of what you say. How you deliver and convey the information you share is exactly how I used to be." I still resonate so much when you had made a statement on Jay Shetty's show at one time a women gave all to her 1st love. I can remember I put my ex-husband on a pedalstool and from that point I have not been able the love as healthy as I once had and through that it has just been to levels of unhealthy that I know I don't come from. So thank you! Thank you so much!
Thank you for bringing clarity to the issue of men not wanting to commit. I now know what to watch out for. My time and energy is valuable i can't afford to waste it on a man's insecurity. Thanks again.đ
I'm happy this has been helpful to you.
I like your straightforwardness and humor. You are always on point đ„
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I needed this video. I can't handle just being his friend for my mental state. Taking the first step by blocking him number. He probably wouldn't care if I stop reaching out to him.
Always on point sir! Learned this the hard way, started focusing on developing a closer relationship with the Most High, fasting, not entertaining even the idea of dating, just working on improving myself fully and my eyes have opened up more. We must keep our chastity, fight to keep it, men and women especially with all of this corrupt music, TV shows, etc that bombards us spiritually mentally emotionally and physically. We are human beings and we desire/need love companionship etc. But most of all we need our Lord. We must consistently ask Him for right guidance, forgiveness and help. And we have to put in the work. People come and go, people come, leave then come back and very few stay. The ones that never come back came to teach us, and the ones that stay, we must pay attention. Keep your legs closed Queens. Let him explore your heart, mind, character, what makes you you. Don't let me talk your panties off. He got you flowers, he opens doors, he takes you out, he makes you laugh, he helps you, KEEP LETTING HIM BUT NEVER GIVE UP YOUR PRECIOUS TREASURE! You will know by what he shows you. And how he treats you is how he feels about you. You let him lead. Be consistent in prayer and protecting your heart and safe gaurd your chastity. Sex is very powerful, very beautiful, extremely sacred and our spouses are the only ones that should be getting it. Thank you for this message and reminder Stephan. May the Most High bless and guide us all Ameen.
This would fix the entire dating mess. It would hold men to a higher standard of behavior and keep women from getting used.
This is very helpful. I had a guy who tells me the same thing and I learned where do I stand in his world. We can never hope that he will change his mind. Just be friends if you still can or move on to meet someone who is more deserving of what you can offer.
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Whew! This is a powerful message! 15 years on and off! I wasted a lot of time! But lesson learned! I said no! I wonât go back, I canât go back! I GOT OUT! I will wait for the right one! âŒïžâŒïžâŒïž
Truth.. I keep going through this, the last question hit the nail right on the head! Went from a relationship to nothing, to friends, to fwb, to nothing, etc. itâs a vicious cycle. Only this time I hear. âThis is why Iâm singleâ. Or, âThis is why Iâm staying singleâ. Do you bro. Cuz thatâs what Iâm gonna do! âđ» Ty Stephan â€ïž
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Thank you so much for this video. I've listened to it several times trying to find the strength to walk away from a situationship that Ive been in for 18 months. I thought I could handle it but I got caught up and he has made it known to me that he absolutely under no circumstances want to be in a relationship with me. It's hard to walk away, but I know I have to because he only want to be friends and chill with me when he want. I love "Me" better than that.đą
đ I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
I laugh a lot watching your videos Stephan and I appreciate you a lot for helping me get through extremely rough times đđœđđœ
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Watching your other video and then this video right after I literally gang so much self worth I lost myself in the beginning wish that was me watching your first video this video it helps me gain who I am and when situations come how to deal with them I am definitely a child of God this is definitely what I was needing to hear Thanks đ
I NEEDED THIS STEPH! Thank you!!!!!!!
Thank you đđœ .I was in this situationship with this guy and he clearly wanted a companion and everything a relationship comes with but not not willing to give me a relationship. Glad it only lasted 3mths
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Oh thank you for this timely message, God blessđ
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Stephan -- You're the BEST1. This video is excellent and covers everything we need to know. Your videos always give a balanced perspective. So often we women want a "relationship" with a man at any cost. A good man knows himself and will bond with the right woman who fits with him. He doesn't play games... Your advice is always on point!
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Thanks for clarity brotha Stephan.
Iâm literally crying this is what I need to hear Iâve been watching your other video on repeat and now I have this video. Thank you so much
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I made sure to get "Heâs Lying Sisâ And I love that itâs in audiobook, so I can learn to grasp and strive to embrace this same energy. My heart is stubborn and often not prepared for the ugly, hurtful truth..being honest with the situations I find myself in are becoming more easy to understand. This topic/post is 100% of what I need to hear. I have a lump in throat the entire time-yes, but I got to hear this.
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Wow. Iâm glad I found u Stephan. Been thru this just lately over 2 years ago I was totally broken hearted. But Now. I know my worth and value. This wonât happen again. Iâm gonna know when itâs Gods choice. Other wise will be alone. No more settling â€
This video has some good points and you always speak genuine facts. đđœ.Thanks!
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So powerful. Compromise our true desire to suffice wanting to be with someone.
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Thank you so much my brother for this video. God defo knew I needed this⊠my prayers have been answered for sure. God bless you đđŸ
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You're the best relationship and psychology coach out there ! Thank you
Great message and I totally understand what happened in my past. Thank you coach!