Turning Women On: How To Master Seduction, Power, Confidence & Charisma | Sadia Khan
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Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Impact Theory! Today we're diving into the complex world of relationships and social dynamics with the insightful psychologist, Sadia Khan.
In this eye-opening, hard to hear discussion, we examine how the allure of beauty on social media has transformed the landscape of modern relationships, often leading women to prioritize their appearance while men lose sight of relationship values that are important to selecting well.
Hear me when I say, there is NOTHING that has brought me more joy and wellbeing in my life than my 21 year marriage with Lisa. From material wealth to millions of followers, downloads, awards and sales, nothing has mattered more to me.
If you want to master life, you have to master pair bonding.
Sadia is a psychologist and relationship expert known for seemingly controversial viewpoints when it comes to modern dating and the roles men and women are taking. We unpack the negative implications of:
- Over-glorifying a single trait,
- The importance of core values such as honesty, integrity, respect, and care for your partner's well-being, and
- How manipulation can shape relationships for better or worse.
This conversation challenges societal norms and expectations. We talk about the value of monogamy, the misunderstood perceptions of feminism, and if the independent woman is creating her own roadblocks for true connection.
Wait till you hear Sadia’s view on women submitting to their men in relationships. Is it necessary? Is it a natural inclination for women? Why are women struggling so much with the idea of submitting to their male partners?
This episode isn't just about love and relationships; we’re going to expose the misconceptions often spread by 'red pill' content that’s targeting the weak and vulnerable men in need of healthier perspectives when it comes to women, love, and relationship power dynamics.
Your journey to a better understanding of human behavior and relationships starts here.
SADIA KHAN QUOTES:
“What social media has done is allowed women a platform to kind of showcase their body, their preferences, basically put themselves in the marketplace.”
“We have to start learning to reject rather than glorifying the one ingredient we like.”
“If I dilute my experience with you by also talking to Tom, Dick and Harry, what will happen is I'm wasting energy not realizing that you might be really bad for me, [...] it creates internal chaos, whereas internal consistency will allow us to know what's good and bad for us.”
“Feminism has taught women that catering and appreciating and showing love for your man is babying him and he should be a grown up and he should do it himself.”
“A secure, healthy woman is not attracted to men who treat her mean, she's attracted to a man who has a willingness to leave if she misbehaves too much.”
“Just because it doesn't hurt doesn't mean it's not a deal breaker.”
“When I talk about narcissistic women it is because we've tilted it where women are automatic victims and sometimes they are the narcissist in the relationship.”
“I always say to men that competition is not other men. It's her childhood. If it's totally chaotic, no matter how much stability you provide her, she'll find it very, very difficult to settle into that stable relationship.”
“When you meet a man who is such a safe bet and so secure, submission is a natural consequence, [...] You'd be missing out on a great connection simply because you want to maintain your independence. But independence is overrated.”
“I don't recommend ever being with a man that you can control. You become a woman that you don't like.”
“I don't necessarily know that the woman needs to submit, but the guy needs to lead.” Tom Bilyeu
“Good women are not attracted to money. They're attracted to the process of a disciplined, self-controlled man. But vacuous women are attracted to the outcome, not the process.”
“If you couldn't access her without money, then chances are any man with money can access her.”
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Arranged marriage does not mean someone forces you to marry someone. Arranged marriage means you recommend people that come from good family's and you chose each other who you like the most. So please stop spreading false meaning on what arranged marriage means.
Amazing , I dont know how much anyone Makes, I don't know why we would value it as a part of Our Worth...
..it's like a Woman's Beauty , outer..
Thank you for this interview! Watched every minute 🙌🏼 definitely pushing the envelope forward!
Tom, of course Elon is “smarter” than you. He’s an NPC in this simulation. 😂
“if it takes money to get her, you are REPLACEABLE” - that quote did not fly over my head!
I mean, even in the great depression marriage rates plummeted. If a man cannot provide for a family (which is all about money), then a woman should not marry him to begin with. So my thoughts on that statement are mixed; yes a shallow woman who wants luxury over anything else should be avoided, but we have to face the facts that a guy has to be able to provide for a family.
i'd say that applies to "beauty" as well
She makes a fair point, but I think the converse is also true: If you have the money to "get her," then she is also replaceable.
Bro, if it takes money to get her she's trash - what is another word for girls that do things for money with men they don't really care about? It's called prostitution. So if you hear a female ask what you do for a living leave, she's not interested in YOU whatsoever, she is only interested in ehrself, and money. People like that are useless trash, and not wife-material.
Neither me
She had me at "we're replacing feminity with narcissisim" 🔥🔥🔥
She is absolutely brilliant. I was captivated in the first minute of her speaking. I will sit back and listen to this WHOLE THING...going to soak in every single thing she says. I know this is a must hear for everyone right now. 😮🤔😃✌️
😶😶👂👂👂👂👂👂👂😶😶
That is not a good trade - healthy vs toxic.
Yep!!!🎉😮
So interesting how her feminist ""sisters"" attack her physicality calling her an ""ugly slut"" and things at that level.
This is an hilarious unmasking of the actual ugly face of feminism as it truly is in its netherly crypt.
Underneath all the fake intellectual, high and mighty, system-sponsored, societally polished, washed-tomb, feminist Pharisee's facade, is discovered the demonically hideous high priestesses of Molochite-worshipping sacrificers of innocent babies to their Baal god of abortion and sodomite orgy death rituals.
Underneath it all are just plain old, foul-mouthed, female Jezebel dogs waiting to bare the hidden horror of their ROTTING SOULS.
Those she-servants of the Worm-king would rather burn in hell than surrender their souls to a loving and righteous, heavenly Father.
When will they learn?
He would forgive them if they were only humble enough to receive his gift of love.
Sadia is very friendly, and intelligent and brave and has a very sweet spirit and going in the right direction even if so far it has been somewhat coloured by muhammedism which also has its own dark sides unfortunately.
We can always pray that she and her eventual husband-to-be will find the true Spirit of Christ that is so lacking in our modern Western societies.
All the best parts of our Western culture were inspired by the words and Spirit of Christ Jesus to the point that we are STILL seeing the positive effects to this day even if the sun is setting on that as well because of the love so many are abandoning for lesser things of this world like temporal power and pleasure.
Yet there is a reason why her family moved to the West in the first place.
THEY SIMPLY THRIVED HERE AMONGST US PSYCHOLOGICALLY CHRISTIAN PEOPLE BETTER THAN THEY WOULD HAVE AMONGST THEIR OWN.
Facts.
🎯
When it comes to relationships I always remember what my Grandfather told me.
" Looks fade, hunger doesn't. " 😄
Wtf does that mean?
Meaning be a good cook...
@@firecrackerNJ2CA yeah you should be a good cook so you can cook for yourself. A part of being an adult
@@LouLouLion no cook to your man. See wherr world is going. Men will be needed. More than ever. Support and love your man. You will need them at west more than ever
It means be a good digger and ignore your real desires
What a gem of a conversation ! When normal/regular people bring more than decades of TV moguls.
Thank you so much for having me i loved meeting you guys x
love your work so much. intelligent, articulate, brilliant and beautiful too. thank you.
So, now you know what he thinks 😅.
You ve got patience!
You were on fire ….absolutely brilliant talk❤
Your take on slavery was appallingly uneducated and your lack of reflection on you benefiting from your appearance over other women was truly cringe. I’m not sure if it’s valuable to watch other interviews of you at least being confronted by other women with more critical thinking skills.
@@Lafemmefutilego back to school
“A duty to one another’s well-being.” This is a gem.
But husband cheating because of his unmet needs is ok by this lady, in facts she goes further to blame the wife for not recognizing he4 husband is cheating… very confused lady…not to be taken seriously at all.
@@JmGmail"unmet" "NEEDS" not wants, needs. My ex could be furious with me, but she never once withheld sex. It's a need for 99% of people. You think it's okay to withhold it because the woman's needs aren't met, yes? Or you'd at least bring that up and say there must be a reason, right? Fair enough, but there are going to be negative consequences on either side when any duty we have to each other isn't met.
As someone whose ex-spouse cheated and abandoned our marriage, finances, and family, I can say that it is 100% his fault. But that would be less than honest if I didn't look at how I also impacted the relationship too. I tolerated far too much abuse, disrespect, and unhealthy boundaries, and therefore, it was almost inevitable he would take it to its natural conclusion; betrayal. It seems you misunderstood. Sadia is not condoning cheating, by either partner, but is advocating looking at what both contribute to the breakdown of the relationship. Whoever cheats is ultimately very broken and is coping from a place of trauma that is not the fault of the other partner. Looking at myself in the mirror through all that I endured was one of the most critical elements to my healing
@@JmGmail
Only men understand relationships in terms of duty. Women only understand relationships according to what benefits them at a given moment.
@@JmGmailwow. That’s what you took away from 3 hours of content. The saying goes Ignorance is bliss.
Truly enjoyed their intellectual connection. Loved the humanity in Sadia as well as her curiousity.
I loved his balance and logic to keep them both honest and answer critical questions and think critically when needed.
When she spoke on the simple things to make a man melt for a woman are feminine qualities. We're supposed to attract to that. That's her super power! A man's appreciation is like a pat on the back for scoring. A woman's appreciation is fuel for me to keep fighting and playing the game! My family 😊
Sadia Khan is a true modern woman with traditional values. Her intellect, insights, communication style, gentle yet firm demeanour makes her so wonderful to listen to. AND Her femininity, spirituality, intuition and beauty is appreciated by me too :) Great conversation -thankyou
She is full of crap. Notice how she shames women younger than her for naturally liking older menn
She's far from traditional
You articulated my sentiments exactly!!
Agree. She talks like a high class escort in a lot of her videos and has said she wouldn’t even look at a man without money (how unsporituai !!) she’s not a licensed psychologist and not trained - she’s been reported to authorities. She called me a slut and a hoe because I said women watch porn as well as men as she shakes men watching porn. She then made a hate campaign against me lying about me telling her followers that I hacked her instagram- she’s not mentally stable and I have all the proof if anybody wants to see it. She’s also suggested to users they have been neglected as a child. She’s damaging and immature
She is a breath of fresh air, although her views and own actions can be slightly confusing. She preaches many things that she does not either do or follow herself. Almost all of her views on religion and culture for example are very contradictory
I love listening to Sadia Khan...she's so spot on. I love how she holds women accountable in such a gracious way.
more like holds everyone .... i love it
It's called sugarcoating critique, something u have to do with emotional beings
@@dante19890men are far more emotional beings than women..if this wasn't the case then men wouldn't commit the vast majority of crimes in the world since the beginning of time..both against women and other men
Also known as manipulation haha@@dante19890
@@dante19890like everyone isn’t emotional lol
This is the first time I have been introduced to you and I was glued. I found your thoughts and opinions concise and filled with conviction. I think you have an amazing ability at expressing yourself and this conversation was inspiring, interesting, thoughtful, and I look forward to hearing the next podcast on whatever the topic because I have no doubt that there will be something to gain from it. Thank you for your motivation at human fulfillment. All the best with full sincerity!
This is such a highly important conversation. Two very intelligent, wise and balanced people exchanging/discussing their ideas of how to establish, maintain and manage a healthy, sound, and thriving(for both, seen as equal partners, crucial!) relationship. THX both of you! 🙏🏻👍🤗
I love how she corrected his definition of Boundaries; a boundary is NOT a punishment. It is simply explaining what/what not you will allow and the how the person who set the boundary will react if that boundary is crossed. It is a way to keep people in your life by clearly expressing how you will react to certain behaviour especially behaviour that challenges your peace/safety.
I like that
Yeah, but the problem is people like to use the "you're crossing my boundaries" argument for attempting to discuss your own boundaries.
@@medini2that’s when a discussion needs to be made because that person who says that may have a misunderstanding of what a boundary is
@@medini2that's because a lot of people are just shitheads and you shouldnt listen to them, do your own thing, obviously people will have boundaries and there are always rats and abusers.
But those petty hearted people should not dominate any narrative.
Choose yourself, and learn how to explain your wishes and wants in a non aggressive and oppresive way that allows combat and turns into a fight, for a man it's important to master the skill of being unmoved, because women rarely understand this skill, do not match her energy or it's not going to last.
If you have confidence in your own desires then you can make people accept those, even admire you.
Instead of being mad over the things they have been taught and how they think they will get their way.
Also, you can mold women, even ones that are broken, but sometimes it can be dangerous, a lunatic is not worth working on.
Key things to look out for are malignant lying and small acts of violence towards you, these people are capable of exploding, ignoring morals and do terrible things to others.
Tom just said that the smartest man is smarter than the smartest woman. Where's the data on that?
I’ve seen her in many interviews and she is usually being asked the questions. Tom is a great but he dominated the conversation. However, Sadia is so gifted at what she does, she allowed Tom to be him while transforming herself to interviewer…and then masterfully playing off his responses to ask questions and build content! She just put on a master class! Credit to Tom’s sharing and transparency!!
Tom seems to always overload the conversation.
Loved Tom but have moved away from him for that reason.
Tom, interrupts and talks over people. Let's face it, he IS a self centered jerk.
I think it's my first time hearing her but I ran so fast to the screen in the first few minutes to see who she was and what her name is... she was spitting pure facts the whole time. An amazing interviewee, insightful and thoughtful
@@solvedfyishe’s just saying the things you want to hear - aka psychology 101/manipulation 101. Why do you think she’s so suddenly big, compared to the ones that truly speak of the truth? The algorithm has been programmed to make her look good.
Long time listener first time caller .. just want to thank you both for a very enlightening step towards my emotional maturity in probably the best conversation I've ever heard on relationships and their success/ failure..And Tom you're great but let me say to miss Khan I am forever in your debt for explaining the psychology in a woman's thought process to me. Me being one of the quote unquote one of the nice guys that can't seem to hold on to a relationship. Your straightforward no bulshit approach is so refreshing in a world cluttered with innuendos and assumptions. Thank you
I love her presentation, from softness in voice, mimic to sitting posture, says a lot
I love this woman. Her “ humanity” is breathtaking. The insights, the vulnerability, the silliness, the bravery, the openness. She puts herself out there. I don’t even have to agree with her, it’s just amazing.
she's a grifter
Even if you disagree with her, she is at least trying to be the communicator that women claim to be. She has some courage and worthy of respect.
woman?.
@@gdcskates She is not a woman?
I absolutely agree. She is like a wave, she is a force❤
The problem I see with arranged marriages is assuming that parents have good judgement themselves. Parents are not perfect.
Correct, its borderline slavery and cant be applied easily to a free society.
Amen!
Also, people change. Life is about evolving.
Based on my experience, the only reason the divorce rate is low is because of the huge social stigma a divorce presents within these cultures. If you are divorced, the chances of you getting another arranged marriage are effective zero. So they both stay with each other out of fear, and this breeds massive resentment.
I have uncles and aunties, who have been married for decades, have a nice home, children, but there is absolutely no romantic connection whatsoever, some sleep in separate rooms…
Arranged marriage just means arranged to meet the other person. The potential couple ultimately has the choice to be married or not. At least, that's what arranged marriages are like now. Back in the day I'm sure parents chose spouses for their children without push back.
This is a beautiful conversation with so much needed information and insights. Principles, character, values, respect.
I love the concept of having shared meaning and purpose in a partnership that was highlighted by Sadia! I align more with Tom's perspectives, but I do appreciate Sadia's worldview.
This was one of the best interviews I’ve seen online. One, because Tom is a great interviewer and he asks the uncomfortable questions while checking for facts. Secondly, coz Ms. Sadia has awesome emotional intelligence, she answers the questions calmly and collected without wavering on her core values and beliefs.
Above all, both are able to articulate their views with respect for one another. Shout out to both of you 🫡🫡🫡
I totally feel this woman when she say women give women a hard time. I’m currently experiencing this at a new job I started. Women are cruel to other women that they are intimidated by. It’s ridiculous. This whole episode has been very informative as usual. Love this.❤️🔥
Be the change you wish to see! Stay you, beautiful you!
If the past and present system valued women.
The mothers were to provide the heir, continue the family name..
It's not longer ago we were 'kept' like children.
Maybe if that wasn't part of the history we would have less broken women.
Today's world valued women has ' sex appeal , beauty, etc., but it's based on biased expectations.
Modern girls self esteem where sisters, colleagues, and such feel competitive as to heal self esteem issues, the broken value systems.
I know women are really the worse for judgement of other women
Totally @Michelle-cn9zp I have seen this often. Severe cases at times. If you're pretty and well-liked, be ready for women to hate on you. Bullies at work are all too common sadly. Stay being you as chiched as it sounds. Keep living by your values.
Yes as a woman I completely related to what she was saying in regards to female managers. I haven't fared very well there either. It's like they have to assert their controlling dominance and prove themselves above you. It makes me wonder what their home environment is like if they feel the need to control at work. Perhaps do they have no control in other areas of their life?
Tom, I can't get enough of your talks with Sadia Khan. I'd listen to a 8 hours podcast, should you do such one!❤
Amazing how she answered so many questions in one interview. I wish everyone would watch this . Just found this channel . I’ll have to watch more of Tom’s videos .
I love so much that she said, “He can get his own [tea, coffee, sandwich] but he likes when she does it. Just like she can pay the bill, but likes when he does it. ❤
tea coffee sandwich is cheap. bill are expensive.
@@BB-xx3dv lol yeah, men will pay every tea, coffee, sandwich and bill just to have and enjoy the small gesture beneath them. oh poor man.
Literally nothing new about that statement.
The difference is, women NEED the cooperation of men for survival, men don't need the cooperation of women.
I think the more modern issue is that both partners are paying the bills but he still expects to be served tea, coffee, and sandwich while giving nothing extra in return.
This episode has been exceptionally stimulating already. But Sadia's "Awws", just sounds so particularly endearing to me.
And I am awed by her gentleness while questioning, and the clarity and the depths of her points of view, and her fearless intellectual persuasiveness.
Tom's passionate eloquence is such a delight to witness and to listen to.
Bravo to Tom and Sadia. This episode is indeed a class on its own.
Thank you, Tom and Sadia for the intellectual delights that you shared with us.
One of the best and most truthful interveiws on the record to date!! This platform and ALL others! Thank You! This episode is puuure gold wrapped in beautiful womb wisdom. Big ups & props for this one Tom! ...and special admiration & gratitude to you Miss Sadia Khan.
How does someone put this lovely woman down? This conversation is absolutely terrific! I can honestly say, I agree with probably everything discussed here. Bless you!
finally a woman that know a bitter truth is better than a sweet lie
Knowing and learning are two seperate things though, many people know driinking is bad for you but does that mean they don't drink? No, they will still go out and drink again next weekend. Did their previous hook-up lead to happiness or failure and depression? Did they learn something? Did they change? Unlikely, people don't change - they repeat the same mistakes. And they don't learn either - they blame everything and vereyone else for their own bad choices in life.
@roserevancroix2308 can't say I'm part of that group. I've never been a drinker, and those who don't learn from their mistakes are a lost cause and sadly they problem is a bigger pandemic than covid was
@@roserevancroix2308 I disagree. It's important to do things that are "bad" for us now and then. Alcohol is another way to shock the body, which we know that shocking the body is a large part of how it grows and adapts.
Plus, you're not boring.
@@roserevancroix2308 Adding to my last comment, I would say that the time to quit is the first time something no longer brings you joy. And for something like a hook-up, that could certainly be the very first time.
To continue doing something that leaves one feeling empty is certainly a sign of mental illness. And if that's your overall sentiment, I'm on board with you.
What she says is really interesting yeah. However she's soo seductive in her attitude. She's playing with him the whole interview. I would find it EXTREMELY uncomfortable. When men project their flirty energy to other women, we call them harassers. But on the other hand, it's the man's fault if he falls for her hostess-like manners, which she uses to try & take the upper hand in the conversation. Hats off to Tom for being so stoical!
Dang she is gold.
I imagine the majority of women think like her, but are hesitant to admit it.
Plus she has the IQ and bravery to articulate it.
Thank you Sadia
No many of you type of folks may actually glean this, however ya'll rather and/or make the decision to want to treat women as objects who cannot think and behave for themselves so that women meet your needs solely and lastly you do not have to meet theirs 🤔🤔🤔
Total speculation
Imagine being the key word
No person is above anyone
You'll win once you finalize the manuscript, even close to it.
Tom is so mentally sorted. Love it. I’m almost saving this to rewatch everything he said.
thank you for interviewing Sadia, you put it gently, lovingly and simply. God bless you. Please watch Delafe testimonies to see how people can change and understand what a healthy relationship looks like
I TOTALLY agree that Honesty and Integrity are non-negotiables.
Sadie is amazing with her insights. Also she knows how to give time letting Tom talk. I really respect her.
I felt like Tom had most of the convo by himself, and could have had the rest of it. She lost me at God.
But I did not tune in to hear Tom talk. I want to hear the guest.
Is there a version of this chat that mutes Tom? I'd prefer to listen to that one.
Isn't the point for the GUEST to speak????
@@TheDionysianFieldsyou can’t have morals without God.
So many great take aways. I just got over a hard breakup and this video brought so many things to light for me and made me feel way better.
Awe, Im glad for you!
I'm presently single, working on myself before I get into another relationship. I want to clean me up before I have company, more so remodeling my home aka me. So that when I come across the right person, building our relationship, our transition in becoming one in our relationship, my core aka character won't come into play as a major problem. This video help me see I'm totally headed in the right direction, and has also given me some more insight on how to communicate better with the opposite sex respectfully. That's just a little bit about what I got from them speaking to each other, the way their talking with each other is the way I believe couples should talk that is productive. It is like music to my ears. I believe so many people need to hear this talk👏🏾👏🏾
This level of maturity and wisdom in the conversation between these 2 people is astounding
The part you mentioned about really appreciating Lisa’s attractiveness and beauty while she is young just made me feel so emotional. As human beings it can become all too simple to take things for granted. The communication you two have in your marriage is similar to what I aspire to in mine.
simp
I love this conversation. This was very mature, respectful and knowledgeable, insightful, and convincing.
Such a great conversation ❤ lot of things to learn from your life experience Tom. Thank you for sharing!
What i loved about this interview is
1. The level of honesty in Sadia in admitting her expertise is capped in some areas and is actually looking for more data to complete her own opinion on a subject by asking Tom.
2. Tom's honesty in sharing his personal experience and wisdom.
3. Sadia teaching the rules to a healthy relationship and Tom embodying that example.
In life one can learn to recognize toxicity but will continue to make the same mistakes due to an inability to create a new path to replace the toxic one. Seeing Sadia's theory come alive through Tom's real life experience and witnessing Tom sharing real steps towards a healthy partnership is priceless.
I have trained myself to be hyperaware of toxic patterns but I lack the ability to recognize what to replace them with, to recognize what the alternative should be and Tom brought such clarity to this subject for me and of course this was accomplished because his guest was Sadia.
It's such a relief to hear a woman say that it's not only natural for a woman to submit to a man, but it's also healthy. I have found that I truly do better in life with a man by my side. I am capable and can take care of myself, but it's stressful. Having a loving, caring partner whom I can trust makes all the difference in the world. In my last relationship I couldn't trust my partner. He had poor judgement and was deceitful. This was even more exhausting than trying to handle life on my own. Now I'm with a man I adore and trust and to whom I do submit (although that's not something he asks for). I have a huge amount of respect for him and I feel loved and cared for by the endless number of things he does to help make life easier for me. It's such a relief and I am so glad to know that I am fulfilling a natural role. Modern feminists would have women feel weak and backwards for wanting a man to help care for them. It's a breath of fresh air to have someone so articulately explain why it's good and natural for a woman to feel calmer and reassured with a good man by her side. Thank you Sadia.
Submit my ass
Amen. Help meet. ❤ Marriage with a compatible partner is a gift!!
Well said! You're lucky to have such a good man.
My husband and I submit to each other in various capacities. He is great at building and designing, for example. I am proficient at managing family money.
I feel that the arranged marriages came from long ago and it was for survival of the families. Well, that’s what I learned in college anyway.
There’s one thing that kept coming back to me and that was why Sadia kept interrupting Tom’s line of thought.and I’ve checked a lot of Sadia’s interviews and this keeps on happening!
Thank you Tom for sharing and educating the collective you are amazing and so is Sadia what a great topic and congratulations 🙏
When Sadia talked about women being difficult in the workplace, that has also been my experience! Men had never been a problem to me. That’s been my personal experience as well!
Edit: I meant “women being difficult to other women” in the workplace.
Difficult in what way exactly?
@beedebawng2556 they sometimes feel they have much to prove and go crazy on the micro managing.
It's everyone's experience not just yours - more females in the workplace or any place = more problems.
Same thing goes for the gyms, problems problems - if we create only-female spaces and only male-spaces let's compare stats after a year or so and you will find and see just how problematic females are and all they do is fight, and disagree, and get jealous, and hurt, and bla bla, they love drama and they love attention, if they don't get it they get bored.
@@beedebawng2556 I meant to write “women being difficult to to other women in the workplace.”
Women tend be nasty to other women in the workplace. It can be bc you’re younger, attractive, come from a certain class/family/ethnicity/you’re intelligent/smart and especially if other people also find you attractive, and it used to get worse when they saw male colleagues chatting to me! I don’t know if it was a competitive thing, maybe! 🤔 I never stopped to ask. It’s crazy bc my then bf (now husband) was always very present and everyone knew him where I worked. The annoying thing is someone made something up about me and another male work colleague as a joke and my bf found out and that was a hurtful thing. It still blows my mind to this day. Women gossip and especially bring other women down if they feel threatened in some way. I never understood it bc I’m the youngest of 5 girls and I’ve always been cared for by my older siblings and I’ve always looked up to them and other women especially older women (still do) and 3/4 of times I wasn’t really appreciated. The same thing happened to me in school as well, all the way to high school.
As a guy, I don't want to work in a female dominated workplace. There are far to many risks, and those risks will affect my family. Accusations of impropriety can end up with loss of job and possible criminal record. These affect income, and that income will affect the family.
How intellectually refreshing. Dr. Sadia Khan has my deepest respect in a world where truth and understanding is fashionably unpopular.
Still its a lot of stigma around arrange marraige. I mean you get beaten to a pulp if you disagree. You are also poor and have to take care of the family when the partner works 12 hour days. You cant apply it to a modern society with a great outcome, its borderline slavery.
Actually she is not a Dr.
I love love love her Unapologetic realness especially when it comes to things that are true. I love her values! Awesome episode
This is an awesome and very humble discussion. Just two people wanting to discuss ideas and learn from each other. Thanks for sharing!
She so right about the shared values. One of the ways I knew my husband was for me was the way our families got along. And now that we have been married for a while I see all the ways we were raised similarly.
Yeah, it's too bad nowadays parents don't see this and leave all the responsibility to the young one. My parents never introduced me to other social circles,It made me feel like they were ashamed of me.
"You should not be offended by reality, it truth offends you, you have a problem." Thank you Sadia Khan! I think this is the key issue that we as society face. When someone points out something where I made a blind (perhaps unknowing or unaware) compromise, I thank the person, even if it hurts. This is what it means to be a responsible adult. And yes, the more it hurts, the harder it is to look inside and face the truth, or, at least, take steps towards seeking it. Throwing a tantrum because compromised values or standards or actions were exposed is extremely childish. High time for our society to grow up.
Sadia is brillant and thankfully honest! Environment makes almost everything. Childhood plays such a key role in the future behavior and personality of people.
One of thee best podcasts. We appreciate what you do Tony and the guests you bring
It comes down to not being with someone in order to feel completely whole, work on yourself and listen to your gut. It never lies
Tom you are the most sincere and bold man that I have seen on You Tube! Thank you to you and Lisa for sharing your life lessons with us. I wish you two healthy long lives!
Not me crying about wanting that sense of love and security that you have with your wife 😭 literally goals!
Another amazing and insightful conversation with you both. Thank you.
I think it is very dangerous for a person to grow up to "accept authority". I think that a responsible parent would teach their children to question authority, and ultimately to become their own authority. A society full of individuals who "accept authority" is an irresistible temptation to be expoited by someone who's power-obsessed.
I come from a very different background with different values and beliefs, but the things she talks about and how she goes about talking about it leaves me a lot of room to feel challenged. And I'm liking it
Sort of, but the whole God thing falls flat for me.
What an amazing conversation i witnessed so grateful for all the gems of wisdom.
We just watched Tom's therapy session in which he vented and exercised his thoughts, feelings and beliefs that are within his paradise garden/marriage.
Tom, Sadia, I want to say thank you to the both of you. This conversation is an answer to my life' struggle. Deep down I always knew what were my problems but I couldn't figure out how to say it out loud in a simple way and both of you just made it so much easier for me. Truly, thanks. Be blessed.
Be a dreamer not a radical dreamer, but take radical action, without action , dreams become fantasies
It's almost ridiculous how insightful Sadia is. And someone of her caliber deserves the kind of probing questions you asked. Phenomenal content.
She reminds me of Esher Perel. She is so insightful too.
Not really. She's says she's non judgemental. That means she's not really telling you what she actually thinks. Women always say they're non judgemental so we don't judge them. Anyone with a brain is judgemental
Really wish that this was what more people would watch when it comes to relationships. This is very balanced and there is no bashing of the sexes. I really appreciate this content. Thank you!❤
Amazing insights and huge wisdom in this interview. Thank you both.
When I was about 6-8. I used to ask my mom was she mad at me? Did i do something wrong? I always FELT like she was mad. Not at my junkie dad. Not at her job. At ME. 35 Years later. She is suing me for what my grandmother (whom mom low key hated) left me. And the truth has come tumbling out. She always resented the way my Gram loved me..Kids KNOW.
Yup. I grew up with my dad resenting me for my mom's family being from the wrong side of the tracks, and my grandmother resented me because my dad's family was affluent.
I always knew.
I just love when Tom speaks about relationships and marriage particularly because he has a loving marriage with Lisa. Refreshing to hear. Thanks for bringing Sadia Khan, Tom.
Thank u for having the courage to share this narrative
These 2 are so brilliant! Great interview!
This conversation has been very enlightening. They are covering everything. I’m learning what I’ve been doing wrong, but don’t feel comfortable telling my partner how he hurts me, so it builds up until I can’t stand it anymore and lash out. Your conversation is teaching me that I need to show more appreciation and pay closer attention to his queues. I hate it when he punishes me, so changing my behavior is necessary.
This was the best conversation I've ever listened to. The viewpoints were so respectfully stated, and the questions asked were very thought-provoking. I learned a lot through Sadia and Tom. Thank you!
Thanks to you both for brilliant and insightful discussion.
That was an amazing video, thank you Sadia and Tom!
She said so many things that Kevin Samuels used to say... especially the part about a marriage being more about duty than romantic love. Duty is the ultimate expression of love...Romatic love will fade long before duty to one another. Without duty there will be nothing left once Romantic love fade. Then we wonder why the divorce rates are so high.
I was gripped to this conversation the entire way through. I love it when intelligent people talk.
Sadia is so wise, always amazed by her insights and wholesomeness!
The reason arranged marriages work in third world countries is because getting a divorce is taboo. Not because it was a good idea. These parents often end of resenting each other and raise emotionally wounded children.
India 🇮🇳 👳🏻♂️
I enjoyed this conversation for the most part and agreed with probably 90% of the points outlined. The area I have contention with is the focus on women having to understand that men require them, in a marriage, serving them food, getting their needs met domestically. This is difficult for a lot of women when we are working full time, being a mother full time, caring for the household responsibilities and men are required to have a job. This is absolutely ridiculous. Women would be able to handle all the responsibilities of running a home and family without the full time job they have to have to keep the family surviving. There is no mention of men changing their old style of work, come home be served and cared for and mowing the lawn once a week or shoveling snow. Men should also contribute to the running of the home and caring of the children, it would ease up time for a woman to concentrate some of her time to catering to her husband.
I am 60+ yo old woman. I have seen a lot of change because of feminism. I use to experience harassment as a 12 yo girl delivering papers, older men cat calling me or making sexual comments about me. As a teenager, I worked in a BBQ joint and my boss smacked me in the butt and I got fired because I told him not to touch me ever again. As a teenager up to my young adulthood, I was turned down for raises or promotion because the boy/man I was "competing" with was deemed more favorable because he was working towards raising a family. Things are not that way today but I can certainly attest to the fact that my experience may have been anecdotal but a lot of women experienced those types of things in the 50s, 60s, 70s and even the 80s.
100% agree
Tom is really a brilliant interviewer. I'm getting interested in this woman, I find her refreshing and brutally honest in her opinions. I've also watched some interviews with her but I think Tom is the first interviewer who is not afraid to ask her hard and uncomfortable questions. It makes for a very interesting interview. Thanks to both of you.
Lady I agree with you 💯 % ,it's all social media dating and not real going out and getting to know each other....😢
I can listen to you two banter all day this is very informative and helpful thank you so much this guy is F ing Aces!
Very interesting interview.. She is quite a lady, very articulate, straight-talker, full of common sense.. fascinating mixture of Eastern and Western values.. and no sign of wokeness... Thank you !
I tried to watch but didn't find it interesting or informative.
Amazing!! I love how Sadia speaks so courageously against the overwhelming promiscuity that is so prevalent in todays culture. Thank you for having her on your show.
then why is she single and a serial dater?
She said she’s in a committed relationship.
Serial-dating to find her husband-potential to date seriously, is not what promiscuous means, which is often to change sexual partners outside of committed relationships; casual sexual dating @@Johnny_Savage
@@Johnny_Savageshe said she doesn’t believe (practise) in sex before marriage and is in a committed relationship. I’d say that relationship is sexless with a view for marriage. This is how authentic Christian’s and Muslims behave in the dating stages. Even divorcées revert back to this if they believe in their God and remain with same values.
thank you for pointing out that boundaries are a good positive punishment.
I appreciate your MENDING MOMENTARILY MENTAL MATHEMATICS FOR LIVING IN PEACEFUL CONTENTMENT WITH LOVING PROGRESSION.
Sadia is one of the most intelligent women I have seen, the only young women I can really say I follow!
An influencer!
After trying many things I now find marriage to be freeing. That is I now have all this time to focus more on other things besides relationships.
Imagine the freedom if you discard marriage too!
If it wasn't so lonely@@pastexpiry2013B
@@pastexpiry2013B 😅😅
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Excellent exchanges! I feel like I’ve learned something from this segment that I might have overlooked before.
This was such an easy listen, absolutely loved it! Thank you
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Are you fucking kidding me! A bot thread to sell the services of a spiritual advisor??
Love the way Tom talks about Lisa and to her. They have such a beautiful relationship. I 100% relate with Tom about being aggressive by boiling things down to its simplest thing.
Shared meaning and purpose...Sounds like a relationship. A partnership. Team. Bravo!
Brilliant conversation!!
The western world has become misandrist. This is VERY refreshing. More people like this are getting a new voice in media because we all know that we need it, and moreover, people like Sadia are clear evidence that tradition, respect, values-based relationships and honesty do not disempower EITHER gender but rather create strength - we are like epoxy, need both parts to make the strongest bond.
Misandrist, indeed.
And the west happens to be significantly richer than non west (except Singapore, Japan, etc). Rich countries with democracy are misandrists , maybe
@@prajjwal1010 Such countries of the west became rich way before today's misandry.
@@funkspinna I believe this partly to be true, because of women working/voting etc. (Women's Liberation movement and Feminism) - adding second incomes to homes drives inflation which can actually force a nation into a wealthier state if managed properly. However I think there are quite a few other factors which make a nation/group of nations "Rich" - not the least of which is finishing two world wars in such a way as to take almost all the spoils, but other things like law and capitalism. I am no economist but I think it's all quite a bit more complicated.
@@prajjwal1010 could well be...
The best interview I’ve seen explaining and taking a deep dive into Traditional Roles and Good Relationships.
Bless your heart Sadia, well said many want understand.
What a dignified, graceful, and intelligent woman, great to listen to her, thank you.
I find this conversation between Sadia & Tom so important. I’ve been following Theory impact for long and just got to know about Sadia through my boyfriend introducing me to her work. I absolutely enjoy this conversation between the two. Much truth spoken when it comes to relationship between men & women- speaking about evolutionary aspect, psychological, physically, individual characteristic and so much. Such crucial information when it comes to relationship & partnership especially in today’s world. I personally believe, of course love is indeed important but respect, communication, characteristic, aligned vision & values shared between couple is really the key for healthy relationship. However, this come from doing our own inner work first, supporting one another and coming together with our partner to journey this beautiful life as one.
Absolutely love this! ♥️
Thank you for doing what you all do.
thank you for being so honest and genuine!! loved the conversation as always
Such amazing interview! Thank you!