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I was in a nightclub outside area sitting down and a woman approaches me and asks me to budge up so she can sit down, she sits next to me and starts talking to me, my friends left us to talk, eventually she had to go, did that mean she liked me?. Also I haven't got her number and was thinking of bumping into her at her workplace she mentioned in conversation, is that too much to do that?
@@The01t bumping into her at her workplace is tough, if you can do with it without coming off as a stalker its worth a shot. Ultimately, you have nothing to lose, as if you don't try, you won't see her again.
I reckon so, since I've also grew up with three sisters, I've had my fair share of fights too. However, they feel comfortable with me and definitely don't make them feel threatened I go beyond the look , I often lived with women in general, they don't dislike to have me around basically so your assumption is correct, confirms it..
@Anthony Mercado You are doing it right when you stop texting them for 4 or 5 days, but when they text "hey stranger" thats your chance to flip it on them. Just tell them, sorry I have been really busy lately and havent had time to text you. They will then start chasing you, just dont seem to be overly eager to text them and be short.
Dude! I’m 42 years old and I’ve watched so many red pill videos and have recently been listening to “The rationale male” R. Tomassi but I truly can say that this one video has brought me so much clarity. I was raised by a single mum and I have struggled with respecting myself generally but especially around women. You break it down so simply and it now makes so much sense to me. Thank you so much bro!
I've spent 15years in the military and I've seen this script over and over again. Eventually of some of the friend zone and albeit evil manipulation by women in the military against other military men have led to a number of suicides. One guy was friendzoned with at least 10 attractive women over the course of 8 years and eventually gave up and shot himself. The same women who manipulated him were upset and said they have no idea why he did it.
Wow, those bitches had no remorse, like there is no accountability for them, they must have made the most of the relationship with the guy and the poor devil always hoped he would eventually have a shot with them. Wrooong!
This is probably my favorite Bobby Rio video, he hits the nail right on the head. I wouldn't call this man an errand boy, instead he is a sycophant sucker beta man. Nice guys really do finish last. Also an alpha man does not pursue or chase women and attempt to validate them by making the first move and or showering them with compliments and attention. All these things diminish the man's power in a relationship like popping a balloon.
Man !...you're doing something that most people would like to see....this blue pill society really fucked our upbringing big time.....keep doing brother.....this video is the one what i was searching for.....excellent job !.....love from india
A much simpler and easier way to flip this. Just be genuine. Genuine above all…then you won’t supplicate, you won’t try too hard, it all gets easier. Just be genuine…
Quite simple really : consider the girl you date as a girl you friendzoned. Treat her like a buddy. The kind of chumpy buddy you gotta lead and bring to restaurants and stuff, whose conversation you enjoy but who would be slightly below you at work. Works wonders.
I don't know. If my friend asked me to grab him another beer, I would. I would also do it for a girl. This does not bring my value down. I guess if you are insecure, maybe. I have a high self value and doing nice things for other people is just how I am. I figure if she does not appreciate it and wants to play games, then she is not the right person for me anyway.
This stuff is all good in theory but if you don't know how to talk with a girl smoothly, none of this will work.. Getting the drink for the girl is actually a great way to break the ice if you are smooth enough to flirt with her. I would definitely get the girl a drink if I am not having to pay for it. Being extra nice to an attractive girl works just fine if you are smooth and have style. Tip - don't come off high strung and talk fast if you want to meet/know a girl, at least an attractive one. You have to be ultra relaxed.
I used one of your 16 pick up lines yesterday and it lands me a 10 in my bed . The line is where have you been all my life this is ridiculous Thank you Bobby Rio
I 'll never forget you bcuz u made my life more exquisite really thanx to u.and i have subscribed you channel as well. Thank u so much i don't have words to express my love towards you..😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤👍👍..
Don't bother with narcissists. Who ever speaks about "high value" in a partner you should dump and forget. You are never going to have a healthy fulfilling relationship or family with someone who have that mindset ever.
Wait so what was the #1 high value trait again? I just got that you shouldn’t supplicate and that the person who tried harder has less power. What’s the highest value trait tho?
2 year old comment but since unanswered: basically, the high value trait is "not showing up as trying hard" - whatever the opposite of supplication is. Being more genuine is part of that. Supplication is probably somewhat ingenuine on the deepest level.
When I was in the 12th grade I was at a university party with a few friends. A girl was looking for gum all night. I came across some somehow, found her and gave her some, she gave me this disgusted look.
Cant cure ugliness. My boss is self made millionaire 37years old 300 semi trucks real estate etc But he is still single He is nice and smart but he is ugly
I've been rejected almost adozen times by regular and beautiful .what can I do to regain my confidence back. I mean I freeze up and choke when I try to talk to them
Nice man meets nice woman. Good conversation and sexual chemistry....your set and don’t need this. But...where have you been all my life is amazing. Follow up with a finesse question.
How many people would go buy a pair of shoes that was worn by seven different owners, I wouldn't, because of the value and is warn down, I would go buy a new pair....
@@BobbyRio Real life examples like the Sangria at the party are the most useful ones to use. When I was younger I would have been that guy who got up to get her the drink because I thought it was a kind and polite thing to do, and I never used to understand why I ended up in the friendzone all the time. Now I know better because people like your good self explain how women really view the things that we do. Now I'd tell her that I'd get her that drink. But only AFTER she got one for me first ! 🤣
Bobby thanks for all your great work. What's the deal with Colombian women in your view? Do all the usual tips apply to them? I'm getting a strong vibe from this girl that she expects me to call her which goes against what I've learned.
What if the women has a toddler child and works all day and hardly ever has time to go out. The girl I'm talking to is into me and we make out but not much time
J Phillips wrong she has not left him i envy those men who has a girl that feels obligated to stay with them, even if their relationship is complete shit and controlling
fargeeks I wasn’t implying that the “Steps” have happened. Or that they are easy. They’re just the required chain of events for you to have a trusting relationship. To be honest, the ball is her court, so there’s not much that you can do. If she’s not willing to leave him, for you, then you can do better.
J Phillips oh my mistake yeah what makes me think it wont happen is because 1 . i hear her man is jealous, 2. they recently moved into their own place. 3. she has a child with him either way why would anyone want to live with somebody that would become an ex afterwards because she wanted a better man ? but yeah it is in her court while im at risk of being chased down by her man . seriously he seems very bad news if his jealousy and questionings that he asks about me to HER , Is enough for her to tell me that we cant be messaging each other because of him (going through her phone and massages) i feel sorry for her that she has to put up with a man like that, and yet she developed an interest in me (which i really didnt spark anything, it just happened) i can see why many people suggest that you run away from someone who wants you but at the same time already has a man in their lives (good or bad) to put it short man i dont want her boyfriend looking and coming after me.
good question. the answer is to always keep you and her at the SAME VALUE. Don't try to be above her, just don't put yourself below her. Also, being PLAYFUL always helps
Don’t know about you but about 9 out of 10 women, no matter how good they look are not getting more than dollar menu first dates, because you shouldn’t give a damn about them judging you on that. The best women I found, which I married, cherished the dollar menu dates we went on, and now we do high dining, mixed with a few cheap dates for old times sake. You can’t start high, and expect to last. Any girl will get bored with you.
Eggnog Delicious I love a good value but honestly I would probably avoid the dollar menu first, not bc of being judged but bc it makes for a bad date imo. It’s harder to have a decent time in McDonalds as opposed to like a Buffalo Wild Wings. The same as if I wanted to go out to eat by myself, I’m probably going to Buffalo. If I’m eating micky d’s I’m hitting the drive through 9 times outta 10 unless my daughter wants to play inside
Hunter2847 nah bro, I know I’m not high value, but I sure as heck wasn’t going to spend good earned money just to impress some girl that probably wouldn’t give a damn about me after taking her out, and your right Fast foods chains do make bad first impressions, I must have exaggerated a bit in my first comment.
Hmm.. Wrong advice.. I'm a woman. I was impressed by men who would do whatever it takes to show/proof his love, with integrity..it shows his masculinity... It doesn't make them below me or less power, etc.. This advice makes men n women misunderstood each other...
You're welcome. So Bobby I'm on my way from Simp to Pimp. I'm pulling 6's pretty consistently but I'm still having trouble pulling 7's or better. They're interested because of my improved lifestyle (fitness, drive, fashion, etc) but something shakes them before I can really progress. Any thoughts? Or should I just keep improving?
@@noorametal one thing i'd look into is whether you're treating the 7s or 8s differently than the girls you get easily. A lot of guys have mental barriers, and they can be the cool, high value, non needy guy around a girl he's not very into... but when he views the girl as being 'above him' he shows more nice guy traits, or he comes across insecure around her.
Bobby Rio I respect what you do, the rich dad and poor dad videos you created it unique cause no dating coach talks that except from Ross J, I am only suggesting why don't you teach more about Fractionation something more science proven
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Here's an interesting one. How important do YOU think dick size is?
@@zelex1456 largely to the level it affects a guy's confidence. If he's insecure about it, it will affect his game. If he's not, it won't
I was in a nightclub outside area sitting down and a woman approaches me and asks me to budge up so she can sit down, she sits next to me and starts talking to me, my friends left us to talk, eventually she had to go, did that mean she liked me?. Also I haven't got her number and was thinking of bumping into her at her workplace she mentioned in conversation, is that too much to do that?
My friends mentioned we seemed to have had good chemistry
@@The01t bumping into her at her workplace is tough, if you can do with it without coming off as a stalker its worth a shot. Ultimately, you have nothing to lose, as if you don't try, you won't see her again.
Sometimes I feel like men who grew up with siblings, especially sisters, do better with women than those who grew up as an only child
I reckon so, since I've also grew up with three sisters, I've had my fair share of fights too. However, they feel comfortable with me and definitely don't make them feel threatened I go beyond the look , I often lived with women in general, they don't dislike to have me around basically so your assumption is correct, confirms it..
@Anthony Mercado You are doing it right when you stop texting them for 4 or 5 days, but when they text "hey stranger" thats your chance to flip it on them. Just tell them, sorry I have been really busy lately and havent had time to text you. They will then start chasing you, just dont seem to be overly eager to text them and be short.
@theconstruct67 good point, I do that too much when talking to women. I guess I say sorry because that's what they say to me in the reverse situation.
Yep that’s me , the nice guy . I’m 59 in shape no debt , it’s easier being single, I put all the energy into me and I’m happy.
Dude! I’m 42 years old and I’ve watched so many red pill videos and have recently been listening to “The rationale male” R. Tomassi but I truly can say that this one video has brought me so much clarity. I was raised by a single mum and I have struggled with respecting myself generally but especially around women. You break it down so simply and it now makes so much sense to me.
Thank you so much bro!
The power lies with the one who cares less -Michael Douglas (The Ghosts of Girlfriends Past)
Makes a lot of sense unlike other channels who focus on shit like dressing and grooming
It's important to keep them on lvl too
I've spent 15years in the military and I've seen this script over and over again. Eventually of some of the friend zone and albeit evil manipulation by women in the military against other military men have led to a number of suicides. One guy was friendzoned with at least 10 attractive women over the course of 8 years and eventually gave up and shot himself. The same women who manipulated him were upset and said they have no idea why he did it.
Wow, those bitches had no remorse, like there is no accountability for them, they must have made the most of the relationship with the guy and the poor devil always hoped he would eventually have a shot with them. Wrooong!
The women did not owe him their time & attention.
@@warrenwhite9085 well that's convenient
This is probably my favorite Bobby Rio video, he hits the nail right on the head. I wouldn't call this man an errand boy, instead he is a sycophant sucker beta man. Nice guys really do finish last. Also an alpha man does not pursue or chase women and attempt to validate them by making the first move and or showering them with compliments and attention. All these things diminish the man's power in a relationship like popping a balloon.
Would've got the glass brought it back to the table and drained it. Then said-thanks for recommending!
Man !...you're doing something that most people would like to see....this blue pill society really fucked our upbringing big time.....keep doing brother.....this video is the one what i was searching for.....excellent job !.....love from india
A much simpler and easier way to flip this. Just be genuine. Genuine above all…then you won’t supplicate, you won’t try too hard, it all gets easier. Just be genuine…
Quite simple really : consider the girl you date as a girl you friendzoned. Treat her like a buddy. The kind of chumpy buddy you gotta lead and bring to restaurants and stuff, whose conversation you enjoy but who would be slightly below you at work. Works wonders.
Such a good way to put it mate!
Awesome. I have done this exact thing. Went from high to low value. I drop below her.
i agree with not being desperate... but show appreciation is good...
Its life teaching you to value yourself at least as equal as the girl. if you think you are loosing her know that she is loosing you too
your videos are underrated 😑
thanks man!
All good points that are true everywhere, at home, work, with friends, wherever you are.
I don't know. If my friend asked me to grab him another beer, I would. I would also do it for a girl. This does not bring my value down. I guess if you are insecure, maybe. I have a high self value and doing nice things for other people is just how I am. I figure if she does not appreciate it and wants to play games, then she is not the right person for me anyway.
Johnny Mat no, I am not a lazy ass hole that expects everything to be done for me with nothing in return. I would not do it if it was a one way thing.
Now I realize I have been beta 😭😠😣😞
Real talk!! Keep Up the good work man👊
Appreciate that
That was a good movie.....BLAME IT ON RIO.... lol
You are rocking it man
Bobby you the man!
Mr,Bobby you are special, thanks for helping !
These videos really speak to me
This stuff is all good in theory but if you don't know how to talk with a girl smoothly, none of this will work.. Getting the drink for the girl is actually a great way to break the ice if you are smooth enough to flirt with her. I would definitely get the girl a drink if I am not having to pay for it. Being extra nice to an attractive girl works just fine if you are smooth and have style. Tip - don't come off high strung and talk fast if you want to meet/know a girl, at least an attractive one. You have to be ultra relaxed.
Thank u. Raul Mejia Oregel. City of Surprise. . Arizona.
Thanks from Egypt
I consider you a bro, they were supposed to teach us this in school 😁
treat her like a star and she will treat you like a fan ....
Great advise. Money is all women want. This video could have been 30 sec
Listen to him , valuable and precious information.
I used one of your 16 pick up lines yesterday and it lands me a 10 in my bed . The line is where have you been all my life this is ridiculous
Thank you Bobby Rio
awesome!
“Has a bag from Walmart” 🤣
Right now I can see that I've been tasted a lot of time and I failed 😫
Thank you man i really appreciate your work ❤️❤️❤️
Bobby, I want to get the scrambler but seems it's not available on my country. I'm in Nigeria
This guy is good
I 'll never forget you bcuz u made my life more exquisite really thanx to u.and i have subscribed you channel as well.
Thank u so much i don't have words to express my love towards you..😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤👍👍..
Funny coz us women are told don't chase guys, as Men dont like it
Oh God! I was the Walmart bag...
lol me too
Don't bother with narcissists. Who ever speaks about "high value" in a partner you should dump and forget. You are never going to have a healthy fulfilling relationship or family with someone who have that mindset ever.
-Sighs-I wish I knew this sooner >.
heyyy man it's totally awesome
We have a choice. We have a type.
WE OWE YOU NOTHING GET OVER IT.
Why are you so angry and I don’t want whatever you’re offering.
U real mi brada
Bobby you're the best
Wait so what was the #1 high value trait again? I just got that you shouldn’t supplicate and that the person who tried harder has less power. What’s the highest value trait tho?
2 year old comment but since unanswered: basically, the high value trait is "not showing up as trying hard" - whatever the opposite of supplication is. Being more genuine is part of that. Supplication is probably somewhat ingenuine on the deepest level.
Interested in getting a spot to hear more. Is it to late?
When I was in the 12th grade I was at a university party with a few friends. A girl was looking for gum all night.
I came across some somehow, found her and gave her some, she gave me this disgusted look.
Yeah, because it was used gum. 😁
She was trash.
It's nothing a 6 figure income can't cure.
Cant cure ugliness.
My boss is self made millionaire 37years old 300 semi trucks real estate etc
But he is still single
He is nice and smart but he is ugly
I've been rejected almost adozen times by regular and beautiful .what can I do to regain my confidence back. I mean I freeze up and choke when I try to talk to them
You should watch “unbreakable confidence”
If you've only been rejected almost a dozen times, then you've actually done a lot better than most guys.
Nice man meets nice woman. Good conversation and sexual chemistry....your set and don’t need this. But...where have you been all my life is amazing. Follow up with a finesse question.
Nice content bro
I'm a used bag from goodwill.
How many people would go buy a pair of shoes that was worn by seven different owners, I wouldn't, because of the value and is warn down, I would go buy a new pair....
Very good video. Thanks man 👍
Glad you liked it!
@@BobbyRio
Real life examples like the Sangria at the party are the most useful ones to use. When I was younger I would have been that guy who got up to get her the drink because I thought it was a kind and polite thing to do, and I never used to understand why I ended up in the friendzone all the time. Now I know better because people like your good self explain how women really view the things that we do. Now I'd tell her that I'd get her that drink. But only AFTER she got one for me first ! 🤣
Bobby thanks for all your great work. What's the deal with Colombian women in your view? Do all the usual tips apply to them? I'm getting a strong vibe from this girl that she expects me to call her which goes against what I've learned.
I like you teaching bro
What if the women has a toddler child and works all day and hardly ever has time to go out. The girl I'm talking to is into me and we make out but not much time
Bag from walmart🤣😂
What’s high value?
good job
Wh'tsapp him
+2349055574944
Dude, don’t waste your time on women who “place value” on you.
Find a girl who laughs at your jokes, and you’ll have a good time.
J Phillips what if she is taken but wants you
Step 1- She leaves him
Step 2- You and her start dating
Step 3- You get back to me, and tell me how it’s going
J Phillips wrong
she has not left him
i envy those men who has a girl that feels obligated to stay with them, even if their relationship is complete shit and controlling
fargeeks
I wasn’t implying that the “Steps” have happened.
Or that they are easy.
They’re just the required chain of events for you to have a trusting relationship.
To be honest, the ball is her court, so there’s not much that you can do.
If she’s not willing to leave him, for you, then you can do better.
J Phillips oh my mistake
yeah what makes me think it wont happen is because 1 . i hear her man is jealous, 2. they recently moved into their own place. 3. she has a child with him
either way why would anyone want to live with somebody that would become an ex afterwards because she wanted a better man ?
but yeah it is in her court while im at risk of being chased down by her man .
seriously he seems very bad news if his jealousy and questionings that he asks about me to HER , Is enough for her to tell me that we cant be messaging each other because of him (going through her phone and massages)
i feel sorry for her that she has to put up with a man like that, and yet she developed an interest in me (which i really didnt spark anything, it just happened)
i can see why many people suggest that you run away from someone who wants you but at the same time already has a man in their lives (good or bad)
to put it short man
i dont want her boyfriend looking and coming after me.
How do I get your free books
How to keep that high value and not be arrogant at the same time?
good question. the answer is to always keep you and her at the SAME VALUE. Don't try to be above her, just don't put yourself below her. Also, being PLAYFUL always helps
Best way: actually become a high value male and learn your own way of being
how to let them know you are high value men? tell them you are high value
ladies in the comments what do you guys think??
What is Tney? lol
Damn 😂 a bag of Walmart
Women test:
Ask him for sangria.
If he says yes, he is weak and below.
If he says no, he is not a gentleman and is rude.
No way of wining my friends.
Its not wht u say. Its how u say it
the free training publish mar 17,2019 does not show on you tube.
here's the link: czcams.com/video/A0yun8FWTyU/video.html
These comments are more motivational than life..
You act like a doormat, people will treat you like a doormat
“All of the su’in”
Your all on about money and all that shit ,what about love respect and honesty ? That's how relationships work
why is the audio so c r u n c h y
Dude, you're trying too hard. I have an advise for you : Do not generalize. EVERY woman is different. You are trying to box them.
status has nothing to do with how much money you have? thats just bullshit
Yeah, status has to do with the delusions people can be tricked into having about you.
I didn’t writte shit
If you hit the dollar menu then you’re a low value guy
Don’t know about you but about 9 out of 10 women, no matter how good they look are not getting more than dollar menu first dates, because you shouldn’t give a damn about them judging you on that. The best women I found, which I married, cherished the dollar menu dates we went on, and now we do high dining, mixed with a few cheap dates for old times sake. You can’t start high, and expect to last. Any girl will get bored with you.
Doesn’t matter you are still low value lol....i hit the dollar menu
Eggnog Delicious I love a good value but honestly I would probably avoid the dollar menu first, not bc of being judged but bc it makes for a bad date imo. It’s harder to have a decent time in McDonalds as opposed to like a Buffalo Wild Wings. The same as if I wanted to go out to eat by myself, I’m probably going to Buffalo. If I’m eating micky d’s I’m hitting the drive through 9 times outta 10 unless my daughter wants to play inside
But if y’all had a great time at Wendy’s or something then good for you. Don’t let me talk it down
Hunter2847 nah bro, I know I’m not high value, but I sure as heck wasn’t going to spend good earned money just to impress some girl that probably wouldn’t give a damn about me after taking her out, and your right Fast foods chains do make bad first impressions, I must have exaggerated a bit in my first comment.
🖒
Stop telling me to write sh** down. That’s obnoxious af.
LV bags are crap. They are for poor people with money.
if you don't have money then you arr gonna be valued by very few people
in short..dont give an F
Its face and height women dont care about anything other then that when its about guys.
This is SUCH a depressing channel
😂 sorry bruh
nonsense
This dude is arrogant, not a gentle man,, he teaching us to become arrogant and rude
Hmm.. Wrong advice.. I'm a woman. I was impressed by men who would do whatever it takes to show/proof his love, with integrity..it shows his masculinity... It doesn't make them below me or less power, etc.. This advice makes men n women misunderstood each other...
Bobby drops that real pimp shit on us!! Thanks bro
Glad you liked!
I appreciate you,this is some effective information that you are sharing with the world...thank you.
thanks, glad you found helpful
A bag from waltmart!😂😂😂
Epic!!!! 😂😂😂
Let's raise some balding research money for Bobby haha
Lets raise some money for bad breath.
@@JoeBuck207 would help my ex out alot
Bobby you're the real deal. if u want to transform from nice guy to getting laid, he's the dude.
thanks for the comment!
You're welcome. So Bobby I'm on my way from Simp to Pimp. I'm pulling 6's pretty consistently but I'm still having trouble pulling 7's or better. They're interested because of my improved lifestyle (fitness, drive, fashion, etc) but something shakes them before I can really progress. Any thoughts? Or should I just keep improving?
@@noorametal one thing i'd look into is whether you're treating the 7s or 8s differently than the girls you get easily. A lot of guys have mental barriers, and they can be the cool, high value, non needy guy around a girl he's not very into... but when he views the girl as being 'above him' he shows more nice guy traits, or he comes across insecure around her.
@@BobbyRio Thanks Bobby, I'm gonna look into that!
Good stuff Bobby.
thanks
I'm an errand boy, a cheap price tag... 😞
Nothing bad but just be dont be too nice be nice when required.
Bobby Rio I respect what you do, the rich dad and poor dad videos you created it unique cause no dating coach talks that except from Ross J, I am only suggesting why don't you teach more about Fractionation something more science proven
cool man,thanks for the feedback. And I'll look into Fractionation