She Left A Good Man at 23 and Now She Wants Him Back at 35
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- čas přidán 19. 03. 2024
- "Unveiling the Regrets: Why Women Rue Leaving Good Men as They Get Older"
Join us for a thought-provoking exploration on the latest clip from "8 At The Table," where we delve into the intriguing question: Why Do Women Regret Leaving a Good Man When They Get Older?
In this insightful conversation, our panelists dive deep into the complexities of relationships and the phenomenon of hindsight regret. With candid reflections and personal anecdotes, our cast members share their thoughts on why some women come to lament their decision to leave a good man as they age.
From exploring the evolution of priorities to reflecting on the impact of societal pressures, our panel offers diverse perspectives on this common yet profound experience. Whether it's a shift in values, personal growth, or newfound appreciation, this clip delves into the intricate dynamics that influence women's perceptions of past relationships.
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Fellas you never take any woman back that step out on you, regardless who she cheat on you with.
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Facts
FACTS. NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fellas don't be a dam foo and take a women back keep it moving 💯
The man is right 😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
If they don't want you in their prime, don't take them in their decline. Stay up, kings.
talk that shit
YEAH THATS RIGHT!!!
Bars😂😂😂
Dud you are bugging, I don't care if it's Michael Jordan she cheated with, she is gone.
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Facts, homie, I was thinking the same thing f who the person is she cheated plan and simple, these young Boi's be bugging 😂😂
Dud sounds right. 🫥
True
@@cephasmee6456Only to a clown. Only a fool will take a cheating woman back
My guy is tripping, if a lady cheats on you she is emotionally tied to the guy she cheated on you with 😂 the relationship is over 😮
Especially if she’s not your wife!
@@tonyantoine5823yea and even if she is your wife. Your time to leave!
@@tonyantoine5823even worse if she is your wife. That means she broke vows to sleep with that other man. Let her go.
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just look at the way he sits... body language literally tells you the type of male he is
Only move forward. Never go backwards. It was a reason you left.
Agreed
After swallowing several meats, she wants to get back 🤔
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facts 🤣🤣😂😂
Cumberland 😆😆😆
they want someone to offload all that baggage and bills onto.
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a woman cannot be in love and respect you if she is shared.
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That's shows how lame he is, straight simping.😅😅😅😅she don't care for you if she cheats, women are emotionally gone.
Woman can only serve one man only. Facts
This man talk more than the women and didn't make one good point. It does not matter who your girl cheats on you you with. If she cheats on you you make sure you x her out after that. I believe women when they talk about how weak men are these days
Big facts. I'm disappointed in dude
Facts
@@teamsmiling yeah you're right bro truthfully it's this kind of mindset that will get you cheated on in the first place. Women smell weakness on a man and this is what turns her off and gets her to looking for something stronger in the first place
He doing it because he tryna get with them lowkey.🤣🤣
@@thebucketmanj8525 He's pandering for pussy basically. 💯
never take a cheater back
Please get another male representative on this show, he doesn’t speak for US
I'll just watch a different show 😂
True talk. I taught I was the only one that see this
What makes you think he’s speaking for you?? You a grown ass man with your own thoughts, so who cares? Men should only speak due themselves. Looking for “male representatives” was your first mistake.
This dude is really trippin'
Right he cool, but I feel like it’s sass somewhere 😂😂
Cheating is a lack of respect, easy
& a red flag
To yourself and others.
Facts!!!!! Both Men and Women!!!
Amen! If don’t try to hide it. Run, run and run!!
That part 💯 I dont know why it's soo difficult for people to understand this it should be common knowledge theres no way around it.
They don't understand that women want a man more when he doesn't want her. Time apart is the best thing that draws a woman close.
The best revenge you do as a man thats been overlooked is to keep focusing on yourself and your goals and they will come back to you now that they see some potential that he has already made. Dont go back for her when she thought you were nothing and was ignored and overlooked..
Wait did Rico say if my girl cheat on me with Drake he’ll charge it to the game?? Lost me on that one bro. I’m out
Dawg, I'm with ya on this one, she's his now, cuz obviously she wasn't mine
@@montste8257 it was just our turn at that time 😂 merry go round
As soon as I heard that, I paused am out too bro
Lol I literally listen to these podcasts wit my lil homie on purpose to teach him tht people jus be talkin to fit in and sound cool instead of bein themselves who tf would go bacc to a mfr tht fucced over U... wat type sense does tht make these dumb mfs said I agree why mfs think money clears up or makes u write for u to deal wit disrespect drake Jake jon dnt fuccin matter them mfs bleed jus like U
Brooo.... its sad. He's feminized
Rico sitting there with his legs crossed like a bad-bitch 😂
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Rico, why are you crossing your legs like that, my guy lol
The bag 💰dropped
💯 😂😂😂😂
the zest is real.
Auditioning and advertising himself for them people
I swear I was thinking the same had to stop watching the video he's more feminine that the girls lol
That's real light skin for him to say he will take her back
"But it's Drake though...Drizzy!"
He as light skinned as that goofy ass take. Foh.
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Don't go Back. NEVER EVER G0 BACK‼️
Wished I had learned this lesson a long time ago.
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The whole unfaithfulness doesn’t equate to disloyalty is a cop out. Faithfulness is a component of loyalty. That reasoning is a way to sidestep the responsibility of faithfulness in marriage.
Nah. Most men with options have no intention of being faithful
Exactly they are tryna be slick
@@myronbourne6937 stop choosing the top 10% of men then. they ain't FOR you.
Facts only rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂😂
U shouldn’t be with someone and desiring another person!!!
If im in a serious relationship and my girl steps out on me i dont care who it is im done with you theres too many women out here looking for the same thing im looking for out here so ill take my chances out there 😊
Four black ladies here and nothing of substance in all that yapping.
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Towards the end the woman in the peach sweater made some good points .... you should listen again
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5 women
Number one reason for divorce.. woman just not happy and feel that the grass greener on the other side
Nice video..., but there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
Great sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Yes its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you. I will look her up online right now
You definitely should
Being loyal to your responsibilities and being loyal to your person are not mutually exclusive. you need them both or you indeed are DISLOYAL
I'm loyal to whatever I agree to be loyal to
The thing us, when she ran away, she and her ex didn't grow together . They grow apart from each other, that's why it doesn't work.
Facts only Rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂
Let these people think the way they think. It’s straight foolishness, but if that’s how they cope with infidelity let them be I’ll keep myself away from them.
Facts bro. I was thinking the same like what are this pple talking about😂😂. They don’t know shit about being loyal.
Never take a woman back that leaves you.
FOR YOU YOUNG BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN THE PRIME OF YOUR LIFE FOR EVER THAT WALL IS BUILT TO LAST FOREVER & IT IS UNDERFEATED NO CAPPING😢
Wha... 23 - 35 = 12 yrs..a slave.
As a man who has had many women at a given time and probably still can, I stepped out on those women because I didn’t love them. When you love someone or something that much there some type of sacrifice that occurs so you can have it in your possession
What ? When a woman steps out she doesn't just step out physically also 3motionally, with men it's just physical
This dude a simp
Married for 14 years been faithful for the entire ride. Cheated through all my relationships up until being married. And cheating, the act it’s self is disloyal.
Fellas never backtrack
True.
Too many women to choose from
Rather than go to an ex
The play on words….cant be faithful if you aren’t loyal, lets be real.
Exactly. Semantics smh
Facts! These folks are messed up in the head with that thinking.
Never take a woman back after cheating no matter what anybody says. She can’t love a man she doesn’t respect if she cheats she doesn’t respect you and she doesn’t love you 💯
I'm not charging ish to the game. I'm out SMH
Uncross your legs like that, my guy
What’s wrong with crossing legs
@marleyjanim5033 that's a not masculine a leg cross. That leg cross It suffocate's, hurts and crunch your male parts downstairs.
@@marleyjanim5033 That's some girl attitude. Maybe he is LGBTQ 😅😅😅😅
Please and thank you.
@@mjay9881He’s not a masculine dude. Does he sound or talk like a masculine dude? What did you expect?
I don’t know who told the Male that he had good advice . If a woman steps out on you , she is being disloyal.
He’s pandering.
Thus is prime example of why u don't gets daring tips from random weirdos online... if she cheats you leave her, and vice versa.
Have pride in yourself
NEVER EVER TAKE THEM BACK! Too many women with less issues out here to meet and wife up. Avoid these damaged goods at all costs.
See People & Things For Who And What They Are & Not For What You Wish For Them To Be. 💯
15:54 we can't let this slide. She tried to send for the men. Men en masse aren't asking for a woman like this as a wife. As men we know our levels and don't stray into the land of the elite but women always want the rare men regardless
Didn't watch the vid. Assuming the title wasn't click bait, just slid through to say hell nah... she don't get have that. In the words of AC, men must say no to the reach back. 😂
In AC voice S/o to BLACK MEN🗣
Shout out to Black Men! This is nasty work!
The wall is legendary
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They bounce off of IT 🚨💡
They don’t want you in their 20’s but they regret it in their 30’s…😏
If I cheat and she get back, I won’t leave her. Men gotta NOT CHEAT in the first place
Rico is giving me Dwyane Wade vibes very zesty😂
Never trust a man who folds his legs like a woman!
"Zwayne Wade"
“……people are lying because of social media…” is THEE headline of this video. This is absolutely a fact. Most people are not living what they’re posting. Most of the time it’s for engagement, attention and (for some) for the money
".... Being unfaithful does not make you disloyal..." .... TF!!! Nah you can miss me with that one bro. That's gaslighting 101. Imagine someone cheating on you and saying that.
Yeah, that shit waa insane ta' me when it hears it leave his mouth. Like, bruh, get tha' fuck outta here. That one chick rebutted in disagreement that she feels they kind of go hand-in-hand and she's absolutely right!! They're synonymous as hell! Yeah, he needed to tighten-up on that one.
Even though you lie when you cheat being unfaithful doesn’t mean disloyal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fuggin disgusting “ you caught me stepping outside “
Why that dude lookin real zesty
because those the type of dude black women listen to. the ninjas that look like they wearing lip gloss lol smh
cuz he's probably likes getting his shit pushed in.
Like it was said already ...
They don't listen to real men 😂
That's a worldwide thing.
If we said exactly what he said.
Omg.
Insult after insult ..
The responses of the hosts are more logical and reasonable than what I saw 2 years ago. Salutes the 8 crew for personal & professional evolution.
Fellas NEVER double back Trust unc 😤🤞🏾
If a woman cheats on u fellas, walk away. Don’t entertain the idea of getting back.. if you take her back, subconsciously you’ll never trust her and she will never respect you.
Best thing I ever did was to double back. We were both ready second time around, and we were great together, turned out perfect. We worked like a well oiled machine, no hiccups. She past away 15 years after we got back together and married though. It was10 years between us getting back together, but we found our way back to each other. So it can be good, just depends. Although, I wouldn't recommend necessarily the doubling back, most of the time it doesn't work.
Great convo 👏🏽this the kind of info we need in podcast very in intelligent women great dialog everyone is hitting points it’s crazy to say this, but I really see women speaking without putting their emotions in it. Love this👍🏾
Is the host wearing a woman’s coat? 😂
Look how he got his legs crossed like Auntie
Look at his lips though. look like chicken grease.
loyalty means to be faithful
The pig analogy was genius. 😊
This was a good convo
Fellas never give them a second chance to do the same thing. Once they leave let them stay gone
The young lady in the pink-ish top sitting next to the host is on point. Listen to her ladies.
Gents, if you have any shred of respect for yourself, if a woman you're in a relationship cheats on you...WALK away and dead that relationship. Never look back. Never allow her back into your circle. Cut all communication. Do not engage with her.
..."you'd rather be lied to" 🔥 🔥 🔥
From experience, very true. You can't change people from who they really are, only GOD can help them change if and when they put in the work to change
when you live outside of the original biblical design, you have to create rules to self govern, and everyone gets to make their own rules. That means you get stuff like this convo above, where technically they can all be right because everyone is governing themselves.
Many prayers to all of yall in the game tryna find somebody serious!
The leg cross is spicy as hell, my boy!
So she's on a pound tizzy tour for 12 years, and now she wants to reach back? Fellas like AC says... this is nasty work!!!
That unfaithful is not good period no matter what with me period 😊
Never take she back let she go long she never cared or loved you
They might want to think about the word forgive and overlooks because the the pain of not having the person in your life is greater than the pain of disappointment
this is a social awareness,am calling for more conversation like this to educate our younger people about the reality on ground and not falling victims to some of these government policies that has broken our family values and systematically made our women to marry the government,I feel and fear for tomorrow.🇳🇬💯❤️
She just proved why you shouldn’t take a woman back who cheats. She liked the guy on a level above sex. She saw potential in him being better than you.
Gentlemen, you have to stand on business. Never accept anything less than respect from a woman.
I know someone making 60k a year living a way better life than a person that’s making 110k a year.
I can never go back to someone i left, wether am the one that left u or wether u are the one that left me. Thats a No No No for me.
The wisdom the world has to offer…
I don't care who she cheated on me with. Hell, it could have been the tooth fairy for all I care. If she cheats she gots to go! If it's Drake or any other rich celebrity, that's even more of a reason to get rid of her. That tells me she can be bought by the highest bidder.
No disloyal people in my circle!
In my 🐕 days, I always told women "I gotta girl and I ain't going nowhere, we can have fun, and if you're good with that, cool. If not, step off!!" My ex and I had a decent relationship.. we just fell apart..
I'm retired now... I gotta GREAT woman!! 💙💙💙💙
Nothing but truth spoken after 13:50
These women will Get 🥜 on and ready to gaslight you back into a relationship 💀 fellas what a time!! They can’t RUN FROM ACCOUNTABILITY
The answers these women give are crazy. Nothing was said about loving the person or him being a good person. It was cause you miss the vibe or saving that friend that u can talk to, whine to etc. Look good with. I didn't hear no damn I fuxed up with my ex , he was a good dude, etc. Everything was geared to what that man did for them emotionally or physically. Where and when did this disconnect come from? Also I agree with every man in here, if she cheats on me no matter whom, Drake doesn't matter bye
Loyal literally has "FAITHFUL" in every definition. Its one in the same lol.
You’re unfaithful but not disloyal? What a bunch of hogwash.
Ol Girl in the pink is preaching! God bless her and her husband she’s a keeper
Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.She ain't into you, that's it,let her go for good!
Most people really still be dating childishly, looking for the "looks good to everyone" type of relationship, over actually what is good for you personally...
Good person don't equal Good relationship is wild crazy
Never take her back
Only go forward fellas
Ok we hear you with the pig analogy !!!!
Fuck no. We not gonna change the meaning of words to suit these arguments... Unfaithfulness is disloyalty...
True story. They don't mind being a side piece to a good dude
Don't ever quit a job or woman and go back
These days I rather be alone than being in a relationship.
There’s no exception to be cheated on by poor man or rich man it’s not about welt it’s self-respect and trust foundations of relationship
And here is one of the reasons why men should prioritize themselves. I'm not talking about selfishness but just prioritizing ourselves, personal and emotional development. They only think about themselves. As long as they are not able to self-criticize, assume responsibility for their emotions and actions, they will not be ready for a relationship.
I agree with the last girl that talked when she was talking to the ladies.
It’s either your SOLID or NOT✅
This is wild...just wild
Only the lady at the end, had sense to me, in this whole conversation
Word Games don't keep hearts from being broken.
And if you really know your partner; you probably know how they feel about Loyalty and/or Faithfulness.
Fatal Attraction (1987) is a older movie, but it can show the consequences of stepping out. That being said, Life Consequences don't follow a script and always have a "Happy Ending" or even a good ending.
I can't take any man seriously who crosses his legs like a BROAD