Why Women Can't Get The Same Men In Their 30's That They Use To get In Their 20's
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- čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
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Only a SIMP will not give up on a woman who is out of order. stop it. She is out of order, I am GONE. These dudes are crazy.
I say this all the time … one fumble and I am walking ALL THE WAY OUT. Out of order is non-negotiable
Humans are the ultimate hypocrites. People claim how important their time is, but their actions show, by what they entertain, that they LOVE to waste their own time. Most people show that their time has no value.
@@madslasher18same
And It’s that simple !
Men were raised to be simps.
She said cheating is part of a relationship. What kind of relationships is she in. Send the Asteriods.
She is in the type of relationships with men who have a plethora of options. The guys who would never cheat on her, She's not interested in them.
@@leemajorsherod1 And then complain on the internet that all men cheat. Don't follow their words, follow their behavior.
It’s insane bro
Fcking insane
It’s not cheating if it’s understood that she won’t be the only woman. Cheating is lying and deceitful.
Women should be seeking a husband in their 20’s not going through a 304 phase.
Once a woman goes through just 1 304 phase,it's over.
exaxctly but that phase for them is much needed let dem tell it. sad ahh rabbits
Facts, women only end up damage after her 304 phase. The woman's ability to bond only gets lower and her main things as a woman only get worse. She ends up as a single mom and wonders why she cannot find a good man.
This isn’t the conversation to have with birds.
Basically
YESSS - your comment should be pinned
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😂😂😂😂
When a woman says they’re just kidding they’re dead serious they just don’t wanna be shamed for their honest truth
Imagine arguing with men about what they prefer and value...
It's the craziest thing. I never hear men arguing women down over their standards.
@@dario7071 Exactly
Facts lmao finally a lady said it
Factsvhaha
Happens all the time, unfortunately. Some women think they can shame the market to bend to their delusional expectations.
If marriage is the end goal then 73% of women wouldn’t file for divorce so easily
They want the title not the work that comes with it. People love the idea but NOT who they have to be. When reality hits so does those papers
Ya'll not tired of this conversation yet?
Unfortunately, they never address the root of the problem, so this same conversation will be had for another 60 years
Exactly
Definitely
Word I know I am
If nothing changed and the problem is still there, it still becomes a part of the conversation. If people stop talking, nothing changed, we're just paying lip service to the real issues while people complain about dating, marriage, hookup culture etc.
They dont care how or what men want.
Exactly 🎯 🎯.......if men could only understand that.
Y’all having these conversations with chicks who’s not even looking for the regular average dude who’s actually going to be faithful. These broads want a faithful rich dude that they’ll probably never get cause he’s either gonna be married already or have multiple women already. What’s gonna happen is they’ll do this till they’re 35-40 then finally settle for the average guy after they gave their best years to the streets 🤷🏾♂️😂😂
Thats literally the saying “don’t want me in your prime, I don’t want you in your decline “
Any man who wife’s Jada with that attitude is crazy
Yea u got me fucked up
Easy they want MORE while offering LESS is a suckers deal ….especially with other people kids
This show needs to have healed women on here. You can tell they're all speaking from a place of hurt. That's a conversation that gets nowhere.
A woman's value is measured by her youth and beauty, but a man's value is measured by his work etiquette and productivity. No matter what generation we come from, our gender roles remains the same since beginning of time.
*work ethic
As you get older you realize all you want is femineity in a woman. How many of the good lookers possess that?
Ehh,your mostly right in society as a whole.......but to a woman, a man's true worth lies female preselection,and how he can make her feel......those other things count too,but they are secondary .
@@jonthomson9262 funny how money trumps all that. diddy made cassie feel real bad, didn't matter he had money. ryan lesie treated her good, was a millionaire but it wasn't enough. diddy was a billionaire & that trumped how he made her feel.
How do you ‘find’ yourself in a situationship?? That’s what you attract, the energy you put out.
Telling these people that they have time to just spend another couple years out here having fun Is the worst advice ever. You can't just flip a switch and go from fun girl to relationship girl. You need to stop the fun girl stuff now because it takes some years to transition and it's not always possible for a lot of women to transition from fun girl to relationship woman
Most men are either a Beta or Delta male, they would stay with the woman that Esso speaks of. I've left women that he speaks of, only a weak man stays because of a pretty face.
Just showed my gf why I sit around in a dark house. By showing her the $200 light bill with her in the house vs the $65 by myself😮. She now sits in the dark house with me😂
😂😂 my man *Denzel voice*
This is just even worse if you 35 and your looks are declining and you spent your whole 20s wearing fake hair and makeup....
Kevin Samuels God rest his soul tried to draw and explain to these modern broads. Their value after 20s and gradually in 30s decreases.
Kevin Samuels was bitter. And that’s why the women weren’t listening to him. It’s all about the delivery
@@Haddonfield63 lmao thats why women are going to be alone nobody cares about their feelings
In this whole Convo ain't one of these females told what they bring to the table that will benefit the man it's all about security for them
@@Haddonfield63Wrong these women have no accountability and want men to pander to them like Umar Johnson and Kevin Samuels refused to pander.
@@dred9174thank you brother
WOMAN GIVE WOMAN THE WORST ADVICE
They want relationships to just happen to them. As opposed to putting in the work to find someone to be in a relationship with. All that's going to happen with time is your looks are going to diminish and you will become older. Now that you're at this level where you are you should focus on a relationship that will lead to marriage if that is your goal.
Women in their 30’s gotta compete with women in their 20’s. So, the men they turned down and rejected are now in their 30s, they are established, put together and looking to marry and start families with women in their 20’s. They not looking at women in their 30’s who are burnt tf out. Lol.
That’s why you see all these women in their 30’s tricking on these young men who don’t got shit to offer but dick, but even those guys will leave them for women their age because they goin want a family of their own.
Dont trust someone that has to change for the right person. That is a manipulator. Their "change" is conditional. Link with someone that is built how u want, not someone that performs how you want.
This is dumb...no one should be expected to tolerate cheating
If the man is high value, you might have to because the man has options.
Period 💯
@@jutsu1lol we're supposed to look at men as strong leaders but they're so weak that having supposed options makes them lose all self control and integrity? 😂
@@jutsu1nah
" 🐈 age like bread, not like wine."
Patrice Oneal
Women don’t factor in that not only will they be competing with other 30 year old women for men but also women in their 20s as well. For most women it’s not a fair fight from a beauty and fertility perspective. If you’re a guy with options (which women are typically more attracted to) they will pick younger
Lol competing 😂 we don't want the men chasing after younger women, in fact that's the exact type of man we avoid.
Why can't people just pick each other and love one another? It shouldn't be this hard. I guess selfishness will do that to a person.
You’re right it shouldn’t be but SIMPS … and make up … and social media is giving a lotta ego inflation
@madslasher18 simps are just guys with no backbone. That's not so much the problem. Our problem is selfishness and the exploitation of it. The commercialization of the me, myself, and I movements that are propagated such as me too#, mgtow and women with the "I don't need no man" attitude. Simping is a response to all of this, not the cause. A man is willing to simp to get what he wants. It's a strategy more than anything else, albeit a poor one.
@@KingKull1971 women complicate simple things. thats what they do.
Nobody wants to address women's rebellious nature.
@asdfxcvbn746 women are incapable of being forthright because they have an overactive amygdala. When it comes to starting a relationship, women automatically go into a flight response to protect themselves from being hurt. And let's face it, rejection hurts. Rejection hurts women far more than men because they have less testosterone. Testosterone creates aggression, which is needed to pursue a relationship. Most women are incapable of pursuing, so they flirt and bat their eyelashes, but they can't articulate what they want. Nor can they be straightforward and turn a man down. So, they'll ghost, act up on a date, won't answer the phone, tell flat out lies, or respond childishly rather than tell the truth.
Here's the overall point; never expect the truth from a woman until she trusts you first. Lies and deceit are defense mechanisms they use to protect themselves from what they deem threatening to them. In their mind, dating gone wrong can end up a dangerous endeavor. The best thing you can do as a man is conduct yourself as a gentleman, and if she makes you uncomfortable and acts up, then excuse yourself from the situation politely with no hard feelings.
The problem with these kinds of shows is that different men give different advices and it confuses the females. One guy will tolerate degenerate behavior from a pretty females much more, and the other doesn't, that is a problem for the men, and women. Women will ALWAYS try to find excuses to do degenerate things because it is fun, exciting, or don't want to be "controlled". Men needs to learn to give an advice to females in a general way that is a standard. They need to emphasis that their own personal views may be different than what is the standard.
Men are different, women are the same. Men are disagreeable, women are agreeable.
After you have owned and driven a few lamborghinis, it just becomes another car
Good point 👍🏿.
I HAVE ALWAYS SAID THIS, ONCE THE WOMEN HEAR DIFFERENT POINTS AND THE MEN START HAHA HEHE LAUGHING WITH THEM, THE WOMEN NO LONGER TAKE IT SERIOUS. AND YOU KNOW WHO TOLD ME THIS, ANOTHER WOMEN THAT WAS WATCHING THIS AS WELL.
Do you think women are honestly listening to men in general or from podcasts in particular? Women, like most people, have a cognitive bias and only listen to people that sees things the way they do.
it's crazy that woman get in their prime have all the fun and wait until 30 oh now I want to get married and settle down I say hell no I rather get a woman younger that is not set in her ways
Kevin Samuel been saying that now it's so profound all of a sudden😂😂
Stop trying to save these chicks!
The problem with having so much fun when you're young is that you desensitize yourself. Women already struggle with comparing their relationships with others. Now your relationship is being compared to your past as well. Also, every relationship prior to marriage is a failed relationship. Imagine how much trauma comes from all of your failed relationships. Date with intention and choose men based on character rather than their resources. The strongest relationships are built, not found.
Men should speak for themselves, we all don't move the same.
For the most part, men pretty much move the same.
It's all options dependent.
Men Desire younger women sorry but it is what is.
They do too I guarantee when they are watching porn they don’t type in old chicks
18-29 …. Youth … femininity … beauty and NO KIDS. Simple
@@madslasher18 Bingo stop at 24 years old though
@@genovasquez8361 thats extreme. most dudes will deal with a 25-28 year old. you bugging out.
Facts. Ain’t nothing wrong with it
Double standard pure and simple. Telling the younger females to go out and have fun and learn about yourself and wait till later. Now we have to wait because we have to study work and etc. We achieve later but suppose to not enjoy the work and time to get to the higher part of ladder.
Exactly that’s been the narrative for like the last 30 yesrs
Who’s telling you to wait, the women you don’t want? Who cares what they think 😂😂
The battle between your edge up and your dreads is epic
You choose to be the side chick and then wonder why you only run into cheaters.... You can't make this ish up! 🤦🏿♂️
This was a good conversation. The women werent overly loud and not listening. They were listening and giving there perspective which I respect
We’ve had the answers to these questions for millenniums. If you want marriage then don’t fuck people that you aren’t married to. If you do then accept the consequences. And be open about your past actions so that people know who they are dealing with. Changing your mind doesn’t save you from the damage you’ve already done.
Not gonna lie with the way these chicks give it up so quick and easily if a chick even looks like she’s about to give an attitude or breathes the wrong way around me I’m halfway out the door
Who still marries American women? 😂
This shit funny especially if they’re not attracted too each other but taking up spaces and giving advice on relationships knowing they’re not in a relationship with someone they actually want
Ladies the more you play (in the dating market) the less you'll stay (you're ability bond with 1 man)... Men don't have that same chemical imbalance. Ladies, when you're younger and the less men you've been with the better it is for you to find a man to marry.
They just don’t get it and I don’t think they will, let them be delusional and then wonder why they can’t lock a man once they hit 30, and the ones that ACTUALLY want. Let them be “boss babes” and think make it seem they won’t “settle for less” why do you think they end up miserable late at night with no man to really love. There’s a study saying how many women will be single by 2030 it’s alarming. Us guys will have an amazing women because we all worked on ourselves while these 304s will have to adopt cats.
That's my point to FACTS
This is toxic from both sides.
Elaborate
This is the same old convo, no innovation and updates. Boring.
Cause no one is looking for SOLUTION which requires work when no one wants to do the real work cant innovate doing the SAME things expecting different results
Letting her hit you is wild
🚩🧘🏾♂️✨ You shouldn’t want to CHANGE for someone…Firstly, the will breed contempt and resentment because you did it for someone else and not yourself……..Secondly, you should BECOME the person you are seeking……When you understand energy, frequency and vibration, you realize that, “like, attracts like,” is a REAL THING!
THAT will breed*
Marriage is THE START. NEVER the end goal
🤔 bcuz they think they’re more important than us.. all them men and still searching smh
Tolerating hitting “DV”? Bruh sounded like a sucka saying that. Any many that has something to lose isn’t playing that game
Damn when the Spanish jawn said she’s 24 I said shit she look at least 30. She been through some shit 😳
I hear what Esso is saying but my Fantasia "Free Yourself" is too high
Need that next part for sure lol
Only a clown believes cheating is a part of a relationship
At 14 mins, the girl on the right. She said only older guys are the type who are done with the drama life of cheating and what not. This is not true. The men she chooses are that way. Most women are attracted to the man that is that way. They know of the men who are not that way but dont find them attractive.
What’s funny is. My girl sister is 35 rn. When I first was introduced to her she was 33. And she 100 feels and looks old in the club scene now even tho she’s not old
They just don’t get it , none of em
Cheating is in the relationship from the men (from the type of men you pick) they'll never acknowledge it!
Time to let them dreads go ask AJ from 106 and park 💯😊
Those are his superpowers
The most handsome man will never receive the same attention as a mediocre 6 or 7 woman…men’s outlook on women biologically will never be the same as women’s outlook or perception of men..men are attracted to physical features in women before getting to know them and women are attracted to the status, social proof, and his financial stability to provide for himself regardless of how he looks
It's like asking a man why didn't you go to the car mart and take up a old use one ,,, that's not safe
Esso... homey, you tripping... 0% disrespect is tolerated ESPECIALLY if said woman punching me... she could be the best looking woman in the city and it's over when that happens
Correction : A lot of men they desire and chase are the ones cheating the regular guy ain’t got time for that
“Cheating is part of a relationship” ?? Fuck we’re doomed fellas
The guy is so articulate.....facts just
What kind of corny men are reluctant to let a pretty woman go?
The difficulty is only based on perhaps the length of the relationship or the presence of a child.
Asian women understand that, but Western women, for some reason they just dont get it
dont change for me.. come correct and whole
Listen Women! It's the same reason why women want/adopt children who are younger. Women want children who are babies or in elementary school years.....not middle/high school. And it's just around 10 years difference!
More fools with 🎤
The vast majority of guys are not leaving their women, especially the ones who marry. Most guys will bite their tongues and deal with whatever or take on the motto "Happy wife, happy life." They will drink more, smoke more, work more, do something to stay away from home more far more than they are likely to leave their women. That's because most guys either don't wanna get back out in the dating grind or don't have options and because guys tend to love deeper and harder than chicks. Chicks will leave simply because they aren't happy. Most guys know they are responsible for their own happiness and will find slithers of it here and there either involving her or without her while still staying in a relationship with her.
Very well said that was me when I was married
1 guy can have her time, energy and her financial freedom in his hands cause she too lazy to do it herself
Ol girl on the left said she just living and when she meets a certain man she would “change” for him but why not practice being a woman with wife traits now so that you don’t have to change. You can already be that.
Make gona say cheating is part of a relationship like that’s supposed to be acceptable smh.
To many tattoos, miles and not in shape will run me off
8,9 and 10's aren't for marriage. Their single because they fall for player's, who aren't for marriage
this is true way more than its not, for sure
cause they stomach lining ain't hip.
I once asked a Korean couple in a 30 plus yrs marriage how they made it work. One answered we operate like a team the other said we make Sure to look out for each other. If we utilize old school principals and stop with social media nonsense we can find someone who is good or even great for us. However if you want some Tyler Perry Lifetime movie Husband or Anime Pornstar virgin Wife keep tryna escape reality
Where did all of these so called Marriage and relationship therapist come from?This is crazy,everyone on these shows has the same lingo and concepts smh none of them put there own personal experiences on these platforms,do not fall for the banana in the tail pipe (Pause)
Can we FINALLY switch the conversation to how women DO NOT want men to polygamous for their own selfish reasons
Simp show.
Where's the rest of the video smh Esso was about to cook
😂people don’t understand that we all have a resume. It’s cool to be in a relationship. Not has to be negative. If you think yeah relationships not for you. If you find a good guy then he should be asked if he wants a serious partner. No past trauma. Go to therapy 😅. Yall to fast to run!!!
LADIES 4B AND DONE
The advice these people give is worthless.
This show is really out of order and it's no structure it's hard to take any knowledge from this type of panel
imagine looking to this panel for knowledge lol smh
Kids giving kids advice.... Certainly shouldn't be anyone over 35 listening to advice from these clowns!
Studies have shown the rates of cheating on the same tune men and women so she has a logical fallacy in her argument
What’s up with these blonde sistas? And if you say it’s just a style, I ask “whose style?”🤨
You Americans be Wilding 😂😂😂😂
8:00 Marcus Garvey rolling in his grave with this one. Shawty said that with her whole chest just wrong. There are Caribbean a plenty who go to carnival and dont know why they there other than to shake sumn.
Poor girls, I hope the dizziq was worth it baby
This convo was a miss
Im lost with this ...these great men are steady trying to teach these birds instead of teaching the women that want to learn are even have potential i think all this is a money grab these folks men and women that constantly talk about this shit don't care about the culture there into drama and try to sound so intelligent with there answers is just mentally mess up
Okay I see why math Hoffa kicked him off the podcast
The hat and the hair throwing everything off
felt the same way.
lmao i understand what they both meant. yeah it may not have been neatly delivered but these comments reaching 😗
All I see are a bunch of future Vivica A. Fox
I have been married 28 years. What someone calls "Simping", I call it "Forgiveness" and helping your future or current spouse to be accountable. Love works when you work it.
Nah bro. I don't care how pretty face. She can beat it