Storm Talks Podcast | "He kicks me in front of my 2 year old daughter"
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
- in this episode we discuss some important topics including abuse. Love and honour,
Women are individually responsible for their words and deeds and accountable to God. Like men (Quran 9:71).
God recognizes and rewards the good works of every human being, male or female (Quran 3:195).
Marriage is a partnership based on love and mercy (Quran 30:21).
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51:50 I agree!! Men need to be shamed for abusing
When I was in an abusive relationship, I left. I sought divorce and didn't look back
I didn't have family members to help me out so I had to have the courage to leave
It's the fear of change that holds you back. As far as I'm aware when you're being abused and the man is not providing you can seek khula and leave. You do not need to stay in a relationship where you are being harmed because Allah says He has FORBIDDEN oppression upon on and also said "Save YOURSELF and then your family"
Also you need to heal the belief that you're unlovable. Usually we attract abusive men trying to subconsciously heal our fathers. But you can heal and find a good man
wow thank you so much for sharing!! I completely agree with the fear of change that could potentially a factor. it is a huge loss a woman looses so much. but the positive is she can equally gain so much more
And u rosalean Batool should stop sexualising the niqab and talk about orgasm and sex openly and sex positions . There is no point covering the face when u have No shame or lie about islam .
Awwwww you did great hosting this. Always enjoy your content on the bitter truth, so it is great your doing your own podcast now. A lot of podcast tend to over look ensuring all their guest have same amount of time to contribute so it was nice to see you giving both guest equal time to contribute. Wishing you many blessings for this podcast and may the context you produce continue to educate and be engaging.
When we look at the ayah of marriage Allah says "men are the protectors and providers of women and women obey your husband"
So when we look at the verse, Allah is saying if a husband wants obedience he needs to provide for her and protect her
Just like Amira said some men want the soft life but expect obedience, but Allah said he can only expect obedience if he is doing his job
And also that ayah shows that the men that should be getting married, should be responsible. Marriage is NOT a solution to your traumas or your bad habits (which is why a lot of men are getting married for a maid, mother etc) 46:20
This podcast is therapeutic! Allahumma barik ❤
Mabrouk 7abbiba ♡♡♡ Im happily surprised about your new podcast, you were one of my faves on bitter truth show. Im your proud 374th subscriber, May this be a successful and beneficial podcast filled with barakah and blessings❤❤❤ Allahuma Ameen
Ameen ya rabbi 3alameen and thank you for your support and dua’s the best gift anyone can give I am so greatful
After moving to West Africa I learned the west has marriage all messed up
Here marriage is meant to strengthen families and society. Its normal for men to be away and women working together, to build communities
It's not perfect here but, the women here have so much wisdom and feminity. The society is calm, and slow paced which I feel like why marriages are failing in the west
Another thing I've noticed is Muslim men are shaming women into getting married, because they have unhealed traumas with their mothers and fathers
They're expecting their wife to be their mother or replace that motherly role
From my experience of being in an unhealthy, unhealed marriage to now being married to a great guy
The big thing I've noticed is the men who speak good about their parents and actually fear Allah and LOVE SERVING are the good men (you can see through their character by how they treat people, their family) etc
Also, Allah says good men are For good women, meaning if you want to be with a good man, you need to be that good woman
Whatever you want in a man, make sure you are that yourself
Inner work is super important. Make sure you've healed your traumas and when you see a red flag, run.
A lot of men nowadays are not being initiated into manhood. Where I live, then men go through an iniation at the age if 10 where they hunt and learn how to provide for their man
Very good discussion. May Allah bless you all. Amin
I thought I was seeing things! Alhamdullilah so happy for you, couldn’t have subscribed fast enough
Sister Amira I have been waiting for this channel. MashAlah finally we can hear you speak without interruption 🎉
awwwww welcome to the family! I am so greatful for your support
🥳🥳 Mabrookah! May Allah grant you to be a role model for the ummah and successful always
Ameen 🥹🙏🏾
I see that you are wearing Islamic cloths. You can't see your body shapes.
I just want to say that you should make sure that you also wear hijab in the correct Islamic way. I see your hair isn't completely covered. I see your hair in the front.
Don't assume that I am claiming to be perfect. We are all sinners.
I am just reminding you, because Allah says,
"And remind for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers" (Quran 51:55)
May Allah guide us to the straight path and Islam. Amien
I only watched the bitter truth show because of you. So happy that you start your own podcast now!!Allahumma barik, Congrats on the launch sister keep it up! Much love❤️
jazakAllah sis I really appreciate you ❤
Proud of you my beautiful sister 🎉 love the content. Can’t wait for the next one ❤
Thank you so much 🤗
The sister in the maroon hijab is spot on .
Dont expect a super rich guy .
How rich is ur dad?
Yeah if ur used 2 a luxury lifestyle then fair enough if ur dad is a working man then u cant expect someone super rich .
Earn ur own money
Yaayy!! ❤🎉 Congrats on the launch!
thank youuu ❤❤❤
This was super interesting!
And easy to watch !
Hope for your success
You have the name of a spy novel main character. ❤
Best one so far❤
What a compliment 💕
Amazing, finally
For the future:
A simple thumbnail+ short intro
Inshallah hahah im new here 🥹😂🤍
@@amirastormUk you're doing very well, keep it up 💯
there’s definitely not enough people/brothers speaking about the topic you sisters spoke about
something the sister said really hit me, nothing you do or say makes you deserve abuse or humiliation
may Allāh reward you all and bless you, thank you 🤍
FINALLY!!!!
I liked you on Ali’s podcast. Subbed.
New subscriber Mashallah keep going sister big fan here.❤😊
yayyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
new subscriber!!!!! amiraaaaa ❤️🥰
Salam Sisters
One of the last points the sister suggested to go to the Imam to resolve it what if the imam is the perpetrator of it too.In my locality theres not 1 but 2 of them if not more i do not know of leading rhe community rather hypocritically and its all buried under the carpet because it's a 'personal,private issue' according to the committee.!!?
Ooh, I'm early!
Please like and share and enjoy 🩵
Sister why you say mile end, nothing wrong with living in mile end
Please speak into the mike next time the volume is so low
ahhh is the volume low!!! definitely will take this on board inshallah
Should you be going public with your personal life like that ?
And is it right, the person concerned does not get a chance to tell their side of the story.
Please, try to be a strong person from refraining from publicising your life like that.
If someone is being criminal and breaking the law, report them to the police.
We shouldn't constantly be seeking people attention to sooth us. That's not how healing works.
The wait is over finally! 🥳🩷
Yes the wait is over!