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I liked watching niqaabi sisters included in a talkshow like this. Even though, sadly, I went from admiring niqaabi sisters to avoding them and nearly fearing them. They are often part of a certain "sect", and when I got to know them closer, I felt sorry for what they´re roped into. My experience started in the U.K, where these sisters would cover their faces even during sisters only gatherings. They were sadly all, not only involved in polygyny as a rule (rather than an allowance of war-times), but they would actively try to rope in other sisters into it (especially converts). A few things I noticed in all of them was speaking profusely for men´s rights, but being silent or dismissive regarding women´s rights...never using their real names, having been married several times, and an intense need for pleasing their husband ( even if he´s wrong and serving his lust in the name of Sunnah ), as well as them all being on social benefits, but talking trash about the country they live in. Where I live, these people have even got together to try and run their own nurseries. All of the people in this certain sect don´t use their real names. It´s always "Abu this", "Abu that", and "Umm this" and "Umm that". Now, even some of the men have started covering their faces (even during Nikah), so when they leave one woman, her brothers don´t even know his face nor his real name, thus not being able to even find him when he runs off to marry additional women. They also have their own version of Islam, which they call the "only true one and original". In that tradition, men believe that they don´t have to tell a wife if they´re about to marry an additional woman. Nor do they have to tell the new woman that they already have a wife and kids. It´s very deceptive and cold, but on the surface..they´re very careful in "looking" like religious people. So my point is...seeing niqaabi sisters in a talkshow like this is good! I hope to be able to leave what I´ve seen, insh´Allah see them as just individuals. I wonder, would you dare talking about this? These people have ruined quite a lot of lives, and they leave these "co-wives" bankrupt with many children in social housing estates across the country. Why aren´t more of us Muslim talking about this? I think it´s important, especially since these people don´t seem to care that their deeds affect the impression of all Muslims, because non-Muslims who lose their daughters to such sects do not understand that they are very niche and not at all the average Muslim.

Good initiative. A little feedback, respectfully. The sister in the red niqaab needs to learn to give others space. She was interrupting EVERY sentence of the others. It felt like it was HER show. Like, it was RELENTLESS. I noticed Amira continuing to try to speak and finish her sentences, but the sister just wouldn´t get the hint. I´m sure she´s a lovely sister, no offense! But we can all learn, and insh´Allah the sister will be able to reflect without feeling attacked. She´s our sister in Islam, and I respect all my sisters. We NEED Muslim women on the forefront, heard and visible (hijabis, non-hijabis, niqaabis and even ex-Muslims), so I hope that my feedback isn´t taken negatively. I WANT to see you all successfull.

Assalamu Alaikum, congratulations on your podcast sister!!! Allah Humma Barik ❤️ I love sister Bint Athens, I have been watching her content for years, Alhamdulillah, I actually just published a book ‘Gold Bars and Gowns’ it’s available on Kindle and Paperback, I would love your review on it, I tried to write a book that would be entertaining, but at the same time halal, it’s a crime/thriller but there is also some romance, no explicit content, clean book for Muslims, please check it out and let me know your thoughts, JazakAllah Khair

Assalamu Alaikum, congratulations on your podcast sister!!! Allah Humma Barik ❤️ Lovely group of sisters, I have been watching sister Bint Athens content for years, Alhamdulillah, I actually just published a book ‘Gold Bars and Gowns’ it’s available on Kindle and Paperback, I would love your review on it, I tried to write a book that would be entertaining, but at the same time halal, it’s a crime/thriller but there is also some romance, no explicit content, clean book for Muslims, please check it out and let me know your thoughts, JazakAllah Khair

Hope for your success

These are narcissistic mens they are really controlling they will manipulate you gaslight you then they will love bomb you to get you back.a lot of girls don't want to leave this abusive relationship they don't have supportive family to financially provide them they don't have back up plan they can't get job.they think there child's is going to feel left over with out father. You are putting your self in more danger just by staying with this kind of mens.they will never change .you need to run if you are with narcissistic.

Sister why you say mile end, nothing wrong with living in mile end

I thought I was seeing things! Alhamdullilah so happy for you, couldn’t have subscribed fast enough

Very good discussion. May Allah bless you all. Amin

You have the name of a spy novel main character. ❤

Should you be going public with your personal life like that ? And is it right, the person concerned does not get a chance to tell their side of the story. Please, try to be a strong person from refraining from publicising your life like that. If someone is being criminal and breaking the law, report them to the police. We shouldn't constantly be seeking people attention to sooth us. That's not how healing works.

New subscriber Mashallah keep going sister big fan here.❤😊

Mashallah I subscribed immediately I love her. I watched you on Ali dawah.

Mabrouk 7abbiba ♡♡♡ Im happily surprised about your new podcast, you were one of my faves on bitter truth show. Im your proud 374th subscriber, May this be a successful and beneficial podcast filled with barakah and blessings❤❤❤ Allahuma Ameen

Proud of you my beautiful sister 🎉 love the content. Can’t wait for the next one ❤

Sister Amira I have been waiting for this channel. MashAlah finally we can hear you speak without interruption 🎉

51:50 I agree!! Men need to be shamed for abusing When I was in an abusive relationship, I left. I sought divorce and didn't look back I didn't have family members to help me out so I had to have the courage to leave It's the fear of change that holds you back. As far as I'm aware when you're being abused and the man is not providing you can seek khula and leave. You do not need to stay in a relationship where you are being harmed because Allah says He has FORBIDDEN oppression upon on and also said "Save YOURSELF and then your family" Also you need to heal the belief that you're unlovable. Usually we attract abusive men trying to subconsciously heal our fathers. But you can heal and find a good man

When we look at the ayah of marriage Allah says "men are the protectors and providers of women and women obey your husband" So when we look at the verse, Allah is saying if a husband wants obedience he needs to provide for her and protect her Just like Amira said some men want the soft life but expect obedience, but Allah said he can only expect obedience if he is doing his job And also that ayah shows that the men that should be getting married, should be responsible. Marriage is NOT a solution to your traumas or your bad habits (which is why a lot of men are getting married for a maid, mother etc) 46:20

After moving to West Africa I learned the west has marriage all messed up Here marriage is meant to strengthen families and society. Its normal for men to be away and women working together, to build communities It's not perfect here but, the women here have so much wisdom and feminity. The society is calm, and slow paced which I feel like why marriages are failing in the west Another thing I've noticed is Muslim men are shaming women into getting married, because they have unhealed traumas with their mothers and fathers They're expecting their wife to be their mother or replace that motherly role From my experience of being in an unhealthy, unhealed marriage to now being married to a great guy The big thing I've noticed is the men who speak good about their parents and actually fear Allah and LOVE SERVING are the good men (you can see through their character by how they treat people, their family) etc Also, Allah says good men are For good women, meaning if you want to be with a good man, you need to be that good woman Whatever you want in a man, make sure you are that yourself Inner work is super important. Make sure you've healed your traumas and when you see a red flag, run. A lot of men nowadays are not being initiated into manhood. Where I live, then men go through an iniation at the age if 10 where they hunt and learn how to provide for their man

The sister in the maroon hijab is spot on . Dont expect a super rich guy . How rich is ur dad? Yeah if ur used 2 a luxury lifestyle then fair enough if ur dad is a working man then u cant expect someone super rich . Earn ur own money

new subscriber!!!!! amiraaaaa ❤️🥰

Salam Sisters One of the last points the sister suggested to go to the Imam to resolve it what if the imam is the perpetrator of it too.In my locality theres not 1 but 2 of them if not more i do not know of leading rhe community rather hypocritically and its all buried under the carpet because it's a 'personal,private issue' according to the committee.!!?

I only watched the bitter truth show because of you. So happy that you start your own podcast now!!Allahumma barik, Congrats on the launch sister keep it up! Much love❤️

there’s definitely not enough people/brothers speaking about the topic you sisters spoke about something the sister said really hit me, nothing you do or say makes you deserve abuse or humiliation may Allāh reward you all and bless you, thank you 🤍

Awwwww you did great hosting this. Always enjoy your content on the bitter truth, so it is great your doing your own podcast now. A lot of podcast tend to over look ensuring all their guest have same amount of time to contribute so it was nice to see you giving both guest equal time to contribute. Wishing you many blessings for this podcast and may the context you produce continue to educate and be engaging.

This podcast is therapeutic! Allahumma barik ❤

Please speak into the mike next time the volume is so low

yayyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Yaayy!! ❤🎉 Congrats on the launch!

Best one so far❤

🥳🥳 Mabrookah! May Allah grant you to be a role model for the ummah and successful always

This was super interesting! And easy to watch !

The wait is over finally! 🥳🩷

Amazing, finally For the future: A simple thumbnail+ short intro

Ooh, I'm early!

FINALLY!!!!

❤❤❤❤❤❤ can’t wait x

100000% agree this would prevent a lot of issues in marriage 😅

Can’t wait for this 🎉

Can not wait 🎉

Too excited for this