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  • čas přidán 2. 05. 2024
  • In this week's episode of Minutes With, we hear the first part of the incredible Nina Aouilk's story. Nina opens up on suffering abuse at the hands of her father and his friends, being forced into a marriage as a child, and surviving an 'honour killing' attack.
    Part two of Nina's story is available here - • Losing My Unborn Child...
    You can find out about the work Nina does at www.ninaaouilk.com / www.endhonourkillings.org
    Follow Nina on instagram at londonslife....
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  • @LADbible
    @LADbible  Před 7 měsíci +2900

    Part two of Nina's story is available here - czcams.com/video/mcSsrYXuqs0/video.html. You can find out about the work Nina does at www.ninaaouilk.com and endhonourkillings.org/
    Follow her on instagram at instagram.com/londonslifecoach/?hl=en

    • @kathoproductions
      @kathoproductions Před 7 měsíci +139

      Oh Nina it's so hard to hear I can't imagine what it was like for you to live through all of that! Honestly it's a testimony to your strength of character as a human being that despite all the torture and abuse you endured from birth that now you present as a kind decent human and I wish I could be your friend! Please keep sharing your story because there's a young girl that maybe is on the bus on her way to or from school that will see your story and know that what she's enduring is not okay! I think you're beautiful and I'm so grateful you're alive!!!!❤️

    • @MishMashOz271
      @MishMashOz271 Před 7 měsíci +158

      As a woman of southeast asian descent, your story broke my heart because I relate to this abuse. Nina, I am so very sorry that you endured this - you deserve all the happiness and safety in the world. The cultural and religious abuse is one of the main reasons why I left India and moved to Australia on my own as a teenager. When I was growing up I remember leaving my body and thinking "not yet, it's not your time to go" to get through each traumatic event, the bride burnings, and the incessant death threats made to 10 and 8-year-old little girls (my sister and I) for years. Your kindness radiates through your entire being, I wish I could hug you and tell you that you are loved. Thank you so much for speaking out xx

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 Před 7 měsíci +110

      @@MishMashOz271 Thats horrific. Right now in Afghanistan women are killing themselves because they cant go to school or work anymore. Iranian women are being arrested for not wearing hijab. All these stories of abuses but its rarely discussed in the mainstream or by the social justice advocates.

    • @jj-gk6rj
      @jj-gk6rj Před 7 měsíci +98

      ​@@tubester4567people shy away from these issues in fear of being perceived as "culturally insensitive" or racist which in itself is bonkers.
      No woman or girl should be treated as less than human. It should be unacceptable anywhere and everywhere.

    • @michaelhoggarth89
      @michaelhoggarth89 Před 7 měsíci +65

      Mrs H 🇬🇧 ... If they don't want girls then why did they keep you...Many in UK would of raised and loved you.... No innocent child from any culture should EVER such suffer such heinous abuse ... I have no doubt you'll carry this trauma for the rest of your life BUT I think your AN extremely brave survivor.... Thank you for sharing your story .... I'm so sorry you suffered so much...💔

  • @beltigussin81
    @beltigussin81 Před 7 měsíci +33654

    She got crap at home and at school. How this woman is still sane and seemingly functional is beyond me.

    • @xygenplasma3715
      @xygenplasma3715 Před 7 měsíci +2245

      her resilience is actually out of this world

    • @alien.superstar
      @alien.superstar Před 7 měsíci +1056

      literally, the universe know if I was her i'd be 6ft under. Her strength to continue in life is beautiful

    • @EveningMoonlight
      @EveningMoonlight Před 7 měsíci +1136

      “Survivor” doesn’t even begin to cover the surface of what this woman is. She’s a goddess.

    • @yourfavoritecoffeehouse9343
      @yourfavoritecoffeehouse9343 Před 7 měsíci +619

      She's not seemingly functional. She is functional. Don't assume abused victims are broken, often they are the strongest, most aware and fully functional people you will ever meet.

    • @alisonmercer5946
      @alisonmercer5946 Před 7 měsíci +146

      ​@@yourfavoritecoffeehouse9343 wouldn't say it means they are broken if they can't cope with years of abuse

  • @karmentolable
    @karmentolable Před 7 měsíci +7827

    The British police has failed this precious woman, what a shame

    • @johnali4022
      @johnali4022 Před 7 měsíci +256

      yes SHAME ON THEM!!

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b Před 7 měsíci +306

      Out of the fear of being called r.cist..

    • @dianelipson5420
      @dianelipson5420 Před 7 měsíci +150

      Worse than shame. Dishonor. A stain on honor that would take a century to repair. How disgusting.

    • @chioma5633
      @chioma5633 Před 7 měsíci

      More likely because of racism

    • @phylicia41
      @phylicia41 Před 7 měsíci +262

      @@eily_bplease they weren’t scared of being called racist they didn’t see any value in their lives to they couldn’t be bothered to help

  • @Tambourina8
    @Tambourina8 Před měsícem +685

    Never in my life I wanted to hug anyone so bad. Sending all my love and warmth to Nina, what an absolute treasure of a woman. I’m so sorry.

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy Před 15 dny +1

      Listening to her horrific story makes me feel like mine, I should never feel sorry, never hurt for myself and never be so dramatic when I have flash backs or dreams of...

    • @VEttariPEPC
      @VEttariPEPC Před 4 dny +1

      You should vote for Trump and keep Muslim Men out of the US.

    • @michelleroberts6597
      @michelleroberts6597 Před dnem +1

      so true.

  • @creativeandaliveat65
    @creativeandaliveat65 Před měsícem +445

    This woman's story makes my own abuse in childhood seem like a picnic in a rose garden. The amount of violence and horror... May her life be blessed with love and kindness.

    • @bengal_tiger1984
      @bengal_tiger1984 Před měsícem +95

      Never compare abuse. What she went through is horrible but it makes yours no less. Ideally neither of you would experience what you did

    • @TheMockatiel
      @TheMockatiel Před 27 dny +15

      Was just thinking the exact same thing 😢

    • @MichealRealman
      @MichealRealman Před 3 dny +4

      Never compare your suffering to others all your doing is making yourself feel worse there will always be someone who’s been through something worse but that doesn’t mean your suffering is invalid

    • @marinaa.1993
      @marinaa.1993 Před 2 dny +5

      never compare your trauma!! acknowledge it and understand it was traumatic for you, no matter how many worse
      are out there.

  • @shelley90
    @shelley90 Před 7 měsíci +16283

    So her brother, a man who beats his partner with a hammer openly admits to attempted murder and NOTHING happens? This is beyond disgusting and a travesty of justice

    • @SexRealist301
      @SexRealist301 Před 7 měsíci +1452

      IKR? Plus the cops knew about it when she first escaped, just before she was in hospital! Wtf?

    • @sophiagrace6361
      @sophiagrace6361 Před 7 měsíci

      @@downieduck2414Her family isn’t muslim

    • @delilahsimmons1842
      @delilahsimmons1842 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@downieduck2414sources?

    • @yo5947
      @yo5947 Před 7 měsíci

      @@downieduck2414 she mentioned Sikhs, Punjabis and Indians, idk where you got Muslim from, thats a dumb assumption

    • @huntergreene9781
      @huntergreene9781 Před 7 měsíci

      The authorities there are useless. It’s no wonder the area is being taken over by foreigners they cannot control

  • @HEVRTLESSOFFICIAL
    @HEVRTLESSOFFICIAL Před 3 měsíci +4881

    There’s a special place in hell for people that treat children like this.

    • @christy76840
      @christy76840 Před 2 měsíci +35

      I wish I could love your comment 1 million times

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@user-dw4cs4xv8y how do you know heaven and hell doesn't exist? did you die and saw nothing, then came back?

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Před 2 měsíci +8

      ​@@user-dw4cs4xv8y I don't know if it exists, but how can I know? I question you because you seem so sure of the answer, but based on what you wrote, it was a bit disappointing. If you have no evidence or can't disprove something, how can you be so confidence about your answer?
      What's funny about your comment is that you didn't used any reasoning or logic to come to the conclusion that heaven and hell doesn't exist, you just used common internet answers and questions as if you got me.
      I might be wrong, but I have a strong feeling something broke your faith, and now you're just throwing a tantrum on the internet. I doubt you suddenly reason your way out of your religion. Nothing about your reply indicates that

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@user-dw4cs4xv8y again how can you be so sure? this is what I'm trying to get out of you. how do you know god only exists in our minds?

    • @HaltDieKlappa
      @HaltDieKlappa Před 2 měsíci +17

      Hell doesn't exist, and saying and thinking that is just a lame cop out to make yourself feel better about the fact that they never receive the punishment they truly deserve.

  • @lucijai882
    @lucijai882 Před měsícem +476

    I am absolutely disgusted by the fact that these people get to live on this earth and breathe the same air. Angry and unable to comprehend the true evil! Devilish behaviour!! The system had absolutely failed her.
    At the same time, I am amazed by her strength. I am so happy that Nina survived. The woman she has become inspite of all her pain. WOW!

    • @VEttariPEPC
      @VEttariPEPC Před 4 dny +1

      Then you should vote for Trump and keep Muslim Men out of the US.

  • @leleprtk
    @leleprtk Před měsícem +254

    I feel so powerless watching these. The horrors of this world are simply unimaginable. The fact this wonderful woman as a child had NO ONE to aid her and only cruelty laid upon her and she still came out from the other side such a stunning, intelligent and wonderful person leaves me in awe.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +14

      It’s Nina, I appreciate your kind words 🙏🏼

    • @user-xh6ub4hv8j
      @user-xh6ub4hv8j Před měsícem +2

      There ARE things you can do around where you live ...maybe you have a safe home or someplace for abused women to flee to in your town or city? You could volunteer there perhaps or you can if you have a channel on youtube and are a creator, offer like a bundle of survivor stories/biographies during April (Domestic Violence Awareness Month) to your viewership or some such to help spread awareness and educational packet or pamphlets to folks. Just some ideas. Don't want you to feel or think you are powerless.

    • @nedunedu747
      @nedunedu747 Před 22 dny +2

      @@londonslifecoachNina. Your story. I have no words. I am so sorry for what you lived through. I see strength, beauty, and intelligence when I look at you. I pray that you have and will continue to find true love and genuine relationships in your life. In Jesus name.

  • @missmenace1
    @missmenace1 Před 7 měsíci +7793

    The irony in a so-called “honour” killing is that there is nothing more dishonorable than hurting a person who you are supposed to love and protect.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před 7 měsíci +237

      In my TEDx i question that as it’s title states “There is no honour in killing”

    • @OkayCoolGuy
      @OkayCoolGuy Před 7 měsíci

      They should be called "pride killings." When the predator is at risk of being exposed or held accountable, they try to get rid of the victim. Sounds like a bunch of psychopathic narcissists.

    • @watchuwant1560
      @watchuwant1560 Před 7 měsíci +82

      @@londonslifecoach Will be checking out your TedX immediately. Your resilience should have NEVER been necessary, but it is truly mind blowing what you have survived and how you have managed to thrive despite it. Thank you for sharing a piece of your life with us. There are so many woman out there with similar, it has to stop. Thank you.

    • @vero9348
      @vero9348 Před 7 měsíci +15

      In India the vast majority find honour in killings, as in Russia the vast majority find homosexuality same as paedophilia. Welcome to reality.

    • @a.walters123
      @a.walters123 Před 7 měsíci +134

      100%. There is zero honor or exhalation in abusing, starving, molesting and killing your children, especially as a “punishment” for being a girl or birthing a girl.

  • @AlphaGamer1981
    @AlphaGamer1981 Před 7 měsíci +27866

    There is absolutely NO honor in killing your own child to appease your public image and opinions of others. It is shameful and detestable

    • @Muffinga
      @Muffinga Před 7 měsíci +439

      They’re not children they’re property.

    • @AlphaGamer1981
      @AlphaGamer1981 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Muffinga the fuck you saying? Property? That is the most backwards inhumane shit I have ever heard

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 Před 7 měsíci

      Clearly these parents are mentally ill

    • @michaelhoffmann510
      @michaelhoffmann510 Před 7 měsíci +925

      * There is no honor killing, period.

    • @missaniebananie6473
      @missaniebananie6473 Před 7 měsíci +498

      It is just absolutely vile

  • @mel.santia
    @mel.santia Před měsícem +246

    The fact that she can even utter any of this out loud shows just how brave she is, and how far she has come mentally. I pray she experiences only good from here on out.

  • @cheshirelizzy
    @cheshirelizzy Před měsícem +53

    The people in the clinic should have inquired and should have reported the abuse immediately. Her parents failed her. Her school failed her. The clinic failed her. Everyone failed her.

  • @karicooper9464
    @karicooper9464 Před 7 měsíci +3382

    Blaming her for not being a virgin yet HE and his buddies were the ones to rape her, while he mother stood by. The sense it doesn't make is astounding. The fact that she has been able to rise above the hurt and torment she endured for so many years of her life is a testament to the kind of person she must be. wishing her nothing but happiness and love for the remainder of her life

    • @beatricefaria-clendinning8943
      @beatricefaria-clendinning8943 Před 7 měsíci +232

      There’s a special Place in Hell for this despicable family… What a strong and wonderful woman, Godspeed to her…❤🙏🇨🇦

    • @tinahackney8111
      @tinahackney8111 Před 7 měsíci +26

      That's what they do

    • @centripetal6157
      @centripetal6157 Před 7 měsíci +119

      These people cannot take responsibility for their actions and must blame the victim.

    • @jojocandy2025
      @jojocandy2025 Před 7 měsíci +96

      This is just sickening. Honestly, this woman is one of the strongest humans. What a survivor

    • @starrywinny6642
      @starrywinny6642 Před 7 měsíci

      U r unfortunate to have a devil parents .

  • @shatteredshards8549
    @shatteredshards8549 Před 7 měsíci +6157

    Her family has no honor to retain. The fact that so many years have gone by and they still send 30-40 death threats a month is absolutely insane. When her parents die, I hope the only tears she sheds are tears of relief.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo Před 7 měsíci +607

      She needs to press charges. At the very least, get restraining orders and then change her number, address, everything.

    • @ensghost7833
      @ensghost7833 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@BeckBeckGowhat will a restraining order do....the police watched other girls in similar situations get burned to death , they did nothing....they dont want to be involved!!! Probably apart of the same occult

    • @shatteredshards8549
      @shatteredshards8549 Před 7 měsíci +197

      @@BeckBeckGo Assuming she's in the UK, I don't know how restraining orders work there. I *do* know how they work where I live in the US, that they expire after 2 years and you have to petition to renew them. They do also require you to give your location of work and/or location of residence, so that the person is barred from going to those places or calling landlines.

    • @freespiritable
      @freespiritable Před 7 měsíci +14

      That is so sad

    • @psychicbyinternet
      @psychicbyinternet Před 7 měsíci +251

      Those parents need to burn in hell. That's disgusting. How can you be such an awful person and keep living life thinking you deserve to live?

  • @Zacky703
    @Zacky703 Před měsícem +286

    This isn’t culture, this is pure evil that should be stopped at all cost. My heart goes out to this poor woman and all who have had to live a life like hers.

    • @eadweardwoden7309
      @eadweardwoden7309 Před 15 dny +7

      it is a culture, it happens all over south easten countries all the time and brought to the uk

    • @lemonosity7
      @lemonosity7 Před 15 dny +14

      @@eadweardwoden7309 "southeastern countries"? lmao what? what does that even mean? no, this is not culture. i'm punjabi, like the woman in the video, and i assure you that no sane person sees this type of violence and oppression as culture.

    • @eadweardwoden7309
      @eadweardwoden7309 Před 15 dny +11

      ​@@lemonosity7 y don't you dare sit there and play ignorant when you know fully well it's a heinous part of your culture, forced marriages etc.
      These crimes take place throughout the world and are not limited to one specific religion or faith. However, they have rather significantly and consistently occurred in various parts of the Middle East and South Asia, with nearly half of all honor killings occurring in India and Pakistan.

    • @lemonosity7
      @lemonosity7 Před 15 dny +6

      @@eadweardwoden7309 i know they're common where i'm from, but that shit is NOT a part of our culture. nothing oppressive should EVER be considered culture. and i'm 1000% sure i know MY culture better than you do. if you wanna include oppression in culture, should i include the heinous colonial crimes of the british as part of british culture? bc then we could be here all day discussing every monstrous thing european culture has done to the world.

    • @eadweardwoden7309
      @eadweardwoden7309 Před 15 dny +4

      @@lemonosity7 be mad all you want, it is.

  • @catlovely5438
    @catlovely5438 Před 24 dny +92

    Dear God!
    What have I just listened to??
    Absolutely harrowing
    My mind cannot conceive the depravity and cruelty inflicted upon her
    My heart then breaks for this incredible woman, who I hope has finally found love and peace in her life.
    What a survivor!❤

    • @jasonsandifer3250
      @jasonsandifer3250 Před 24 dny +3

      Amen, This was absolutely horrific ACTS done this Woman

  • @MissmonalisaD
    @MissmonalisaD Před 3 měsíci +2156

    I AM SO ANGRY THAT HER PARENTS AREN’T IN PRISON!!! How can they still to this day be making threats to her??? The police failed her

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Před 2 měsíci +187

      her country and people failed her, not just the police

    • @margaretjohnson6259
      @margaretjohnson6259 Před 2 měsíci

      yoko ono: woman is n-word of the world. we are mistreated the world over.

    • @chris1638
      @chris1638 Před 2 měsíci +19

      @@Dave_of_Mordor It's more prevalent in their culture than Americans realize.

    • @chris1638
      @chris1638 Před 2 měsíci

      Americans don't realize how these people and their "culture" bring their evil ways to this country.

    • @user-cx7wf4xv6x
      @user-cx7wf4xv6x Před 2 měsíci +125

      @@chris1638 She's from the UK. America is irrelevant in this discussion.

  • @shahzadahmed6638
    @shahzadahmed6638 Před 7 měsíci +4663

    Im a grown man, 50 years old and not ashamed to say ive cried at every turn of this story. As a father of 3 very much loved daughters i feel SO hurt for her.

    • @saffronlps2522
      @saffronlps2522 Před 7 měsíci +178

      Don't be ashamed. You seem like a genuine caring person❤

    • @ameliawilder28
      @ameliawilder28 Před 7 měsíci +113

      Don't be ashamed. It's not weakness it's human. Please remember that. Crying is apart of us yet somehow it's a crime. It shouldn't be that way. Normal human emotions should never be a sign of weakness or should be suppressed. Guys who say it isn't manly are cowards.
      You sir, are human and you should never apologize for your feelings, nor be ashamed of feeling empathy for someone. You are clearly a person with a heart of gold. That's rare nowadays! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

    • @user-wh5ir4fo4r
      @user-wh5ir4fo4r Před 7 měsíci +66

      I respect you immensely. No need for shame.

    • @nonenone8655
      @nonenone8655 Před 7 měsíci +98

      Wish all of us had a father like you
      I told my father that one of our family member is very in appropriate with me. He just nodded and went back to using his phone. My mother told me “we’ve known him for a long time and we grew up together. He’s not like that. You’re lying”
      If any parent is reading this, I beg you to listen to your children when they say something vulnerable.

    • @Study_with_txt
      @Study_with_txt Před 7 měsíci +49

      there is nothing to be ashamed
      A man who can feel a woman's pain
      And a woman who can respect a man are always to be respected

  • @kellygill1374
    @kellygill1374 Před měsícem +59

    I desperately want to be a real mother figure for this woman! Show her kindness & caring motherly behavior. She is so brave and beautiful!

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +12

      It’s Nina, thank you for extending your love, please know Part 2 proves I’m living a life of purpose happily with my 3 amazing children ❤

    • @Yormomma214
      @Yormomma214 Před 5 dny

      @@londonslifecoachnina dear, i come from very different culture but still as a human being I apologize that you had to go through such thing as part of humanity ❤ sending love and so much respect 💘 you are the true example of woman warrior 🩷

  • @hsiangjien2787
    @hsiangjien2787 Před měsícem +173

    The way I held my breath in fear the entire time, knowing, waiting, for when she would bring up the sexual assault. My entire heart, my existence, goes out to you. Sending all the love in the universe. I hope you feel safe now.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +10

      It’s Nina, Thank you for taking the time to sit through this interview 🙏🏼

  • @nimzipow
    @nimzipow Před 7 měsíci +3180

    I love that she called her dog “the loudest person”. It shows how much she loved her dog and what they meant to her. I’m so glad she had her dog.

    • @simt84
      @simt84 Před 7 měsíci +245

      I thought the same thing, ironic that the most humanity was shown by an “animal”

    • @CompUter-oo7er
      @CompUter-oo7er Před 7 měsíci +175

      That dog showed more humanity than the so-called humans in that house. Poor woman. I hope she’s thriving

    • @nimzipow
      @nimzipow Před 7 měsíci +81

      @@CompUter-oo7er absolutely! That dog was more human than those monsters. I haven’t stopped thinking about this woman’s story and imagining how many others are going through this as we speak.

    • @lahaza6515
      @lahaza6515 Před 7 měsíci +34

      My heart goes out to this woman.
      How are people so horrible and evil allowed to carry on.
      Her treatment is unthinkable.
      A dog can literally save your emotional health and your heart if you are in terrible home life as child.
      Until I was allowed to have one I knocked on every neighbors door who had a dog as a little girl.
      I proved to them I could handle walking their large dogs and eventually it became expected that I'd
      be taking their dog for walks every day.
      We had the best moments of my life. We'd sit together, we'd go to abandoned buildings, eat lunch together by the creek,
      and they let you love on them as much as you want to.
      Finally I was given a small dog.
      She was the best thing to ever happen, but my mother came home one day and said we were getting rid of her.
      I pleaded, cried until I couldn't breathe, but we still drove to give her away.
      I remember her fur being soaked from my face as we got out of the car and I touched her.
      My hands couldn't let go of her.
      I will never forget sitting her down in the people's driveway and am suddenly unable to write this without crying at the memory of it.
      Now, decades later I try to get to know my mother in her older age, and we pretend to like each other more than we do, but I lost
      trust and feeling for her that I will never get back no matter how hard I try.
      Please if you have kids who are dedicated to taking care of things, and ONLY if you trust that they will give the utmost care to a pet, get them a rescue dog from a shelter or a dog rescue.
      If there is screaming and constant strife in the house though, please please don;t do it because it is painful for animals to live
      in domesticated, loud and stressful households and more than any creatures on earth; they deserve nothing but good because they are pure, and are angels.
      God Bless.

    • @victoria9535
      @victoria9535 Před 7 měsíci +28

      I wonder what happen to the dog 🐕?

  • @thatswhatshesaid.literally737
    @thatswhatshesaid.literally737 Před 7 měsíci +3725

    It enrages me that all these cultures that praise boys and men, and shame girls and women, seem to forget the fact that all their prized boys and men would not even exist in the first place if it weren't for the women. It makes my blood boil!!

    • @qwmx
      @qwmx Před 7 měsíci +350

      They seem to forget that a woman is another human deserving of equal opportunitities and rights DESPITE however they feel about them.

    • @carolined5923
      @carolined5923 Před 7 měsíci +142

      So this happened in the UK , shocking !! I do hope her parents and the filth that abused her pay for this,

    • @yurironoue5888
      @yurironoue5888 Před 7 měsíci +8

      This!

    • @CharoThomas0720
      @CharoThomas0720 Před 7 měsíci +14

      Wow I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Be strong god’s had special place for you. & Karma will definitely deliver it for all who abused you.

    • @Mm.kay.
      @Mm.kay. Před 7 měsíci +28

      Exactly this. Unbelievably ignorant. I hate it

  • @alixthompson2836
    @alixthompson2836 Před 28 dny +37

    There is no honour in this treatment of a young woman. She is so incredibly strong and brave for telling her story

  • @SlowBloke123
    @SlowBloke123 Před 23 dny +41

    I am completely and utterly humbled by this amazing woman. This is what bravery looks like folks.

  • @ShinyBubbbbles
    @ShinyBubbbbles Před 7 měsíci +2820

    This poor woman was raised and surrounded by monsters. God bless and be with Nina.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před 7 měsíci +156

      Unfortunately, there are lots of other “Ninas” out there which is why I’m doing what I’m doing so that they too can find their own freedom

    • @dea9457
      @dea9457 Před 7 měsíci +11

      ​@@londonslifecoach
      Are you helping other people like Nina? I'm so proud of you! ❤🎉

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @londonslifecoach:
      Thank you for doing this incredibly important work.

    • @tensemurm5924
      @tensemurm5924 Před 7 měsíci +35

      ​@@dea9457 The person you are responding to is Nina, just as a heads up.

    • @John_Merritt
      @John_Merritt Před 7 měsíci +43

      Not sure if you missed the part that this woman was tortured by the beliefs of her family and countries religion, why would she need another blessing from another God that is make believe. ALL religions should be globally banned for the what the do to humanity, every single religion is a plague on society.

  • @omri6938
    @omri6938 Před 7 měsíci +4078

    What a force of nature Nina is to survive such a horrific childhood.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před 7 měsíci +94

      I appreciate your response and extended love ❤

    • @sanjaydosanjh218
      @sanjaydosanjh218 Před 7 měsíci +6

      @@londonslifecoach when is the part two getting released?

    • @daisysfield5456
      @daisysfield5456 Před 7 měsíci +43

      ​​​@@londonslifecoach I just want to say you are an incredible woman. If no one's told you today, then I want you to know you are beyond gorgeous, soo brave and courageous! You are a SURVIVOR and by telling your story you're helping other girls recognize abuse and giving them the strength to survive as well! Your story broke my heart! No one especially a child should ever have to endure such hate and horrific abuse by the hands of family or anyone for that matter. You are so beautiful and one of the strongest women I've ever seen!! ❤️

    • @robbieward9709
      @robbieward9709 Před 7 měsíci +5

      💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @perkyfawkes
      @perkyfawkes Před 7 měsíci +20

      ​​​@@londonslifecoachYou are truly an amazing woman and though I may not know you, I love you and I am so proud of you. ❤ You are an inspiration to me as a female and as a human being. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. I would hug you if I could.

  • @nataliebertoncello2995
    @nataliebertoncello2995 Před 15 dny +17

    Her immense tenacity is something I don't think I've ever witnessed in another human - her strength to sit there and talk about such abhorrent experiences with such eloquence is truly remarkable. What an incredible inspiring human being.

  • @engreja
    @engreja Před měsícem +50

    Can’t find words for this poor woman 💔….
    Her father is a prime example of why capital punishment is needed for some horrible people in the world….

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +13

      It’s Nina, please know I’m still fighting for justice 🙏🏼

    • @ynwa3476
      @ynwa3476 Před 25 dny

      ​@@londonslifecoach You are an incredible person. I hope you get justice one day.

  • @nadiakhan765
    @nadiakhan765 Před 7 měsíci +1500

    This woman looks like she is carrying so much trauma in her yet still managed to share this heartbreaking story in such a well articulated and graceful manner. The fact that she is still here with us looking beautiful and full of kindness in her eyes makes her a true Queen.Nina you deserve the world, You are a true jewel.

  • @Jch833
    @Jch833 Před měsícem +1909

    I’m a 43 year old man. No kids, never married. Even my paternal instincts is so strong that I find myself in tears, wishing I could just give this young woman a long, warm hug and tell her she’s a wonderful woman and everything is ok. How ANYONE could treat their child this way is beyond me.

    • @mgee0024
      @mgee0024 Před měsícem +81

      Im 41, female, no kids and never married either. And i could truly and genuinely feel and understand what you are saying here.. this so disgustingly terrible.. i cannot believe how evil this family is.. and the kind of culture or belief is there in this community. I genuinely admire how strong, intelligent and resilient this woman is despite all the terrible inhumane things done to her.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +90

      It’s Nina reading your comment gave me such hope that compassion and kindness exists and will carve a better path for others with men like you being on this world 🙏🏼

    • @user-kr2yr9dc4t
      @user-kr2yr9dc4t Před měsícem +7

      @@londonslifecoach I barely watch documentaries but i sat through this one from beginning to end, the way you convey your message is so unique and heartfelt I couldn't help but cry. I hope all is well for you my love,,

    • @grumby111
      @grumby111 Před měsícem +5

      You're just a normal, humane person. Her treatment was hell. It's sad, but her stories are happening to others today.

    • @guysumpthin2974
      @guysumpthin2974 Před měsícem +1

      “Even if your friends & family betray you, i shall send for you , to be your guide , the spirit of truth” -the owners manual

  • @VeRonicaMitchell-ii1pm
    @VeRonicaMitchell-ii1pm Před 25 dny +15

    I can’t imagine how evil one would have to be to treat someone like this woman was treated as a child

  • @anonymouslyawesomeO_o
    @anonymouslyawesomeO_o Před 8 dny +5

    She went through that living hell and yet she has the softest, kindest eyes I’ve ever seen.

  • @MeridiasBeacon371
    @MeridiasBeacon371 Před 5 měsíci +1626

    This is horrific. She is an elegant, well spoken lady. So many parents would be beyond proud of her. It won’t help heal her but the women of the world are beyond proud and in awe of her.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Except for the women who abused her.

    • @monolith_music
      @monolith_music Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@davidlamb7524, those are not women, those are monsters.

    • @SweetChicagoGator
      @SweetChicagoGator Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@davidlamb7524
      Why would you say what should be without saying about the other women?! 🙄

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 Před 4 měsíci

      @@SweetChicagoGator Can you repeat that in standard English please ?
      It is not coherent.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I didn't say " what should be" plus there are no "other women".
      Meridias etc mentioned the women of the world and I mentioned the exceptions .
      What other women can there be ?

  • @barrronessa
    @barrronessa Před 7 měsíci +1348

    the fact she refers to her dog as a ‘person’ shows just how attached she was to her and how isolated from human contact she was in childhood. so proud of this wonderful brave woman for saving herself

    • @EllyLugosi
      @EllyLugosi Před 7 měsíci +105

      And that darling dog was the only soul who loved her unconditionally!! Imagine how traumatised her poor dog is after that 😢

    • @sugarfreeXcandy
      @sugarfreeXcandy Před 7 měsíci +116

      That dog was a person, her parents were not

    • @pinkfeet518
      @pinkfeet518 Před 7 měsíci +56

      her parents were the animals in this case

    • @michellevandermerwe204
      @michellevandermerwe204 Před 7 měsíci +32

      Dogs accept you no matter what. My dog is my best friend

    • @yyg4632
      @yyg4632 Před 7 měsíci +40

      I'm sure that dog was the only pure soul in that house who showed her love and saw her as more than an object.

  • @samantha14843
    @samantha14843 Před 2 dny +3

    All the monsters in Nina's life failed her. The fact that she survived all that and is able to tell her story is mind blowing and actually beyond my comprehension, I hope she gets everything good in life

  • @patchsmum
    @patchsmum Před 5 dny +5

    that poor darling woman. what she said about her dog brought me to tears. dogs are emotionally intelligent, it wouldn't have known WHAT was happening, but it would have felt that ladies pain and suffering and wanted to ease it. that woman is astoundingly brave, the fact that this happens and is not punished with the full force of the law appalls me.

  • @lizzie1721
    @lizzie1721 Před 6 měsíci +2009

    Everyone in Nina’s life failed her. Unfortunately there are many who can relate to her story. Nina you’re a survivor and you’re here for a reason. Thank you for sharing your story

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před 6 měsíci +62

      Since speaking out I have had over 14,000 victims and survivors call out for help via my non profit… the power of standing in your truth is immense ❤

    • @demonflowerchild
      @demonflowerchild Před 6 měsíci +2

      @londonslifecoach Nina may I ask if you know what happened to your sister?

    • @pamelafletchersturt823
      @pamelafletchersturt823 Před 6 měsíci +18

      Everyone didn't fail her. As usual, the non human (her dog) was a better person than the humans.

    • @deputybluevein93
      @deputybluevein93 Před 6 měsíci +13

      Let's not forget, it's also the disgusting culture. Which comprises of that misogynistic thinking. In order to show unconditional love, you have to be human first

    • @_gross
      @_gross Před 6 měsíci +6

      I don't think her friends failed her. I'm glad she had people in her life looking out for her, be it by giving her jam sandwiches, knowing they were such a luxury for her - or by giving her a shoulder to cry on, with nothing to gain from it. They were treating her like a person, even though they were no more powerful than her.

  • @dogoshi5633
    @dogoshi5633 Před 7 měsíci +1438

    In a family of psychopaths, one empath was born. Thank goodness she made it out alive to tell her story.

    • @eyennordic348
      @eyennordic348 Před 7 měsíci +29

      If they were psychopaths they would not think of honor or shame. Truth is they all were healthy in this sense. Just too afraid of shame. They felt guilty, so tried to cover their asses at any cost.
      Children only fault is that they are, weaker in such families.women and children are to blame because they cant defend themselves. Being afraid is empathic trait, but its an egoism that turns this trait into raping and then killing your daughter.

    • @adderae
      @adderae Před 7 měsíci +45

      @@eyennordic348in that case it makes them worse. if you are not born with apathy and still are that cruel and self serving, you’re a pretty abhorrent person.
      arguably, sociopaths/psychopaths DO still care about self image. psychopaths especially. that’s how they rise to the top.
      sociopaths are more likely not to care.

    • @playdoh658
      @playdoh658 Před 2 měsíci +14

      @@eyennordic348this is not psychopathy this is the consequence of letting misogyny take full control of a culture. All these ideologies are fully embedded in these people since birth. They genuinely believe what they're doing is righteous.

    • @shadelings
      @shadelings Před měsícem +4

      It's not one family though, it's literally the society upon which India was built. Women are just less and it's played out time and time again in regards to gang rapes of vacationers even.

    • @harrydavey9884
      @harrydavey9884 Před měsícem

      ​@@eyennordic348You're a mile off. Psychopaths experience jealousy, insecurity and pride. Their sense of "honour" is one of their biggest red buttons. If you think psychopaths don't experience feelings, you don't know what you're talking about. OP is on the money, these sound like violent psychopaths.

  • @xanny6034
    @xanny6034 Před 17 dny +15

    I want to give this woman a hour long hug.

  • @tinytokkie7136
    @tinytokkie7136 Před měsícem +15

    When animals have more compassion than humans. This is so…just so sad. I can’t even imagine. Really can’t even begin to understand this horror

  • @danigolightly799
    @danigolightly799 Před 6 měsíci +2043

    They allow a group of men to assault her and then are mad that she gets pregnant from it. Like what did they expect? Sickening people.

    • @felistuswanjiku6174
      @felistuswanjiku6174 Před 6 měsíci +36

      Strongholds controlling them.They should repent

    • @Krolted
      @Krolted Před 6 měsíci

      her family is made out of demons theyre not humans

    • @markbeale7390
      @markbeale7390 Před 6 měsíci

      Stupid + sickening.

    • @fredskolnick1183
      @fredskolnick1183 Před 6 měsíci +61

      Sucking Favages!!

    • @Don_Yuan
      @Don_Yuan Před 6 měsíci +76

      Sadly, this is par for the course in many religious fundamentalist groups (read: cults). Horrifying.

  • @JeanineBruen
    @JeanineBruen Před 7 měsíci +1491

    Every time I thought she'd told the worst of it, it got more horrific. I can't believe anyone could survive this. What a warrior, what an outstanding human being. I hope the rest of her life is peaceful and she can finally have some happiness.

    • @redheadredemption3
      @redheadredemption3 Před 7 měsíci +37

      YES! I hope the rest of her life is peaceful and she finds a safe place to heal and live her best life. She's suffered long enough at the hands of monsters.

    • @JJ-hp6mb
      @JJ-hp6mb Před 7 měsíci +10

      She should get them arrested. Why forgive? That's not something to be forgiven even if it was part of the culture. Bringing them to justice will lead to a positive change and will be helpful to many others in the future. But I don't blame her if she doesn't want to fight on her own. She might be so tired and seeking some peace in life. Some Humans rights organisation or activists must fight on her behalf.

    • @chriskyle9713
      @chriskyle9713 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@redheadredemption3hey she still says it's her culture, have fun in your culture.

    • @peachesandcream22
      @peachesandcream22 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@VolodymyrTheJewishClown "Nobody gets away with attempted murder". They do get away, and more than you think. Stop denying that.

    • @terezka5340
      @terezka5340 Před 7 měsíci

      @@VolodymyrTheJewishClown Muslims are untouchable in EU f.e.x pakistani r@pe gang went on for decades with police and everyone else knowing... People are being stabbed, robbed, beaten with police doing nothing if the perpetrator is muslim. For victims of honor violence there is no safe place - their community is violating them and police won´t help frequently. It´s insane.

  • @valerielopez7957
    @valerielopez7957 Před měsícem +55

    What an absolutely remarkable and strong woman. She’s faced so much adversity and continued to be someone with such a bright, forgiving energy. May god grant her healing, prosperity, health, and good fortune 🙏🏼

  • @noewantstosleep
    @noewantstosleep Před měsícem +20

    My heart is in pieces. As a fellow woman, this sort of violence feels particularly violating and cruel. Her perseverance and incomprehensible strength in spite of such experiences is awe-inspiring.

  • @joidk3961
    @joidk3961 Před 6 měsíci +2213

    I’m only half way through and I can honestly say that this is one of the most horrible cases of child abuse I have heard in my entire life. It actually brought me to tears. To be abused to this extent at all is completely and categorically wrong but to have this happen to you because you happened to be born female…. The fact that she is still here, strong enough to talk to us all about it today is so remarkable.

    • @MisterSantilli
      @MisterSantilli Před 6 měsíci +10

      Did this happen in Great Britain?

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 Před 6 měsíci +24

      ​@@MisterSantilliyes, it did

    • @MisterSantilli
      @MisterSantilli Před 6 měsíci

      Did they all go to prison for attempted m-rder?@@sheilae.9670

    • @nakano6234
      @nakano6234 Před 6 měsíci

      And this is common among that religion and they bring the crap to Europe.

    • @joya7304
      @joya7304 Před 6 měsíci +21

      “Normal” parents usually protect and care for their children, so what does this tell you about these parents and the religion they practice ? ! The word “demonic” comes to mind, certainly not “godly” ! However they will pay for the atrocity they have perpetrated on perpetrated on their own child. Shame on them !

  • @jj-hb2ke
    @jj-hb2ke Před 7 měsíci +1061

    I hope her family is watching this and know none of us respect them and we see them as honourless people.

    • @elifnazsinav312
      @elifnazsinav312 Před 7 měsíci +127

      They wouldn’t care, they see the outsiders as shameful people anyway

    • @curse.d5980
      @curse.d5980 Před 7 měsíci +69

      We dont even see them as people

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania Před 7 měsíci +63

      Narcissists don't care about things like that.
      (Their old traditional "cultural" ways were built on narcissism - yeah, I said it)

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo Před 7 měsíci +15

      I hope they know they should be in prison. If anyone watching this knows who they are, that might be the safest place for them.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@elifnazsinav312 well then why the hell did they move to the UK?
      Don’t tell me. I know exactly why. They want the safe and prosperous society that reasonable people are capable of architecting, but don’t want to let go of the very practices that ruined their own. Absolute hypocrites. I hope they’re citizens, because, if not, they should be deported to the country and culture they see as so very superior.
      It is also an offence to all those immigrants who retain the beauty of their culture, whilst still respecting and embracing the one that welcomed them. And are useful and loved additions, instead of barnacles like this poor woman’s family.
      I am an immigrant. I can say this without any malice toward most of us. I know what culture adjustment is like, and I know it’s natural to balk against some unexpected realities you face in your host country. But this? Absolutely unacceptable.

  • @terrygigliovoss9635
    @terrygigliovoss9635 Před 6 dny +3

    She’s so beautiful, articulate and kind. I hope her family pays the price.

  • @yariholzer5615
    @yariholzer5615 Před 27 dny +9

    I am still wondering why these creatures are not in jail. Forever.
    I know its anger and demand for justice speaking out of me, but I cant help it.
    I feel so much warmth for this incredibly strong woman.

  • @lavahurricane2
    @lavahurricane2 Před 6 měsíci +2237

    So sad what happened to this woman. This is why we need to criticize the bad parts of each culture. Just because its "part of their culture" doesn't mean its ok.

    • @Azaarv
      @Azaarv Před 6 měsíci +101

      That’s so true because honor killings happen in Europe still and no one ever talks about them but when it’s in the middle east or south Asia people it’s the only time people talk about

    • @hml25
      @hml25 Před 6 měsíci +51

      ​@@Azaarvyes and they blame the religion as a muslim honour killing is totally prohibited and seeing people thinking that it's part of it is very sad

    • @bigmuchknow342
      @bigmuchknow342 Před 6 měsíci

      it's unfortunately the evil people and not the culture which cause this. If you have an evil person, you can't change him. I mean like how can a father (with friends) rape his own daughter? That's not a thing that belongs to any culture.

    • @yucol5661
      @yucol5661 Před 6 měsíci +23

      @@Azaarvpropel do talk about inter family killings in Europe. They are just harder to spot because the perpetrators are either in rural areas where no one will find out or more in tune with the rules of their country and how to not be caught. Plus it’s way less common. And WAY less boring. “Honor killing in UK” sounds interesting, “husband killed wife and daughter” is just another repeated news headline.
      There is a difference in magnitude and media attention.

    • @arulj1791
      @arulj1791 Před 6 měsíci +5

      ​@hml25 please read quran chap 4 verse 15

  • @swampcrotchmcgee1728
    @swampcrotchmcgee1728 Před 7 měsíci +993

    The irony of calling it an "honour killing," and it's the most cowardly thing to do.

    • @maroontiger1361
      @maroontiger1361 Před 7 měsíci +61

      So true. Her "family" only did it to cover up the abuse. It's beyond cruel and despicable.

    • @RollerBaller
      @RollerBaller Před 6 měsíci +12

      Honour. Honour my ass, absolute monsters.

    • @jimathybindlenim6359
      @jimathybindlenim6359 Před 8 dny

      ​@@RollerBallerIslam is a beautiful culture

  • @brooktown7977
    @brooktown7977 Před měsícem +16

    😭😭😭 how could both parents and more fail a child.. I’ll never understand.. My heart is both broken and amazed at how far she has come. She is beautiful inside and out

  • @martymcfly9582
    @martymcfly9582 Před 23 dny +3

    You can see the hurt in this woman’s eyes…. Breaks my heart man.

  • @kathleenthomson6672
    @kathleenthomson6672 Před 7 měsíci +2006

    The police need to arrest these evil people. They need to find the babies who were buried and all those involved. Nina has a beautiful soul. I’m so upset that these people got away with such horrible acts of evil. I’m so so sorry this happened to you Nina. I’m so sorry, you really are a gentle soul.

    • @michelleelvir5633
      @michelleelvir5633 Před 7 měsíci +19

      I’ve been on google and nothing can be found. I agree with you.!

    • @MangHaokip777
      @MangHaokip777 Před 7 měsíci +70

      Not just arrest they deserve life sentence

    • @tigergreg8
      @tigergreg8 Před 7 měsíci +57

      They didn't get away from it, trust me, when people die, it will hit them with a force unknown to man. You suddenly realize what you did, and the Eternal consequences involved in it.

    • @AbdulMuqeet-xn5sk
      @AbdulMuqeet-xn5sk Před 7 měsíci +4

      💯

    • @feduntu
      @feduntu Před 7 měsíci +18

      that's islam for you

  • @soniaverduzco3799
    @soniaverduzco3799 Před 5 měsíci +1434

    What hurts me most about this beautiful woman's story is that she is willing to relive it every time she retells it, and she does it solely for the benefit of others so that they may find hope and hopefully never experience this again. What a saint this woman. I pray that she is receiving all the love and support and blessings that she always deserved. We love you Nina. May God bless you and your children for generations to come. Amen.

    • @markohakkola5180
      @markohakkola5180 Před 5 měsíci +21

      Sharing the story more and more helps her to integrate and heal. It's good for you to share your story in a safe place.

    • @penacle7
      @penacle7 Před 5 měsíci +11

      she must have relived it a hundred of times when she would close her eyes, cross that house, hear news about her family members or pass those streets.

    • @user-uv4ne8mc6c
      @user-uv4ne8mc6c Před 5 měsíci +3

      SWEETIE YOU HAD MR AND MRS DEVIL FOR PARENTS 👿👿👿

    • @user-uv4ne8mc6c
      @user-uv4ne8mc6c Před 5 měsíci

      INLAW DEVIL 👿👿 TOO YOU LIVING IN HELL😳😳😳

    • @hellabella8295
      @hellabella8295 Před 5 měsíci

      Watch ‘girl in the river’.. because THOUSANDS OF GIRLS ARE KILLED BY THEIR OWN FATHERS AND ITS A SICK CULTURE.. SICK..

  • @simoneconti71
    @simoneconti71 Před měsícem +29

    Nina, when I started watching I was struck by your beauty and then by the horrific abuse you endured. I admire you, you have so much purpose and you've given me strength to rise to the challenges I face.

  • @S2creatorr
    @S2creatorr Před měsícem +18

    I have so much respect and admiration for her strength to survive all of that. It's so hard to imagine how every single member of her family participated in her abuse, especially her mother.

  • @gordonmillsjr.1957
    @gordonmillsjr.1957 Před 7 měsíci +1817

    Nina had told the world about her awful family - why don’t the police just arrest them all? Murdering baby girls and an attempted murder on their own daughter?!?! Where is the justice?

    • @poisonkiss201
      @poisonkiss201 Před 7 měsíci +138

      that's the culture there. they obviously don't care. it's disgusting how they mistreat their daughters.

    • @ciaa8387
      @ciaa8387 Před 7 měsíci +258

      @@poisonkiss201this happened in the UK…. Did you even listen? How ignorant.
      This can happen anywhere. People and especially young girls are hurt and abused here in America everyday.

    • @carmenalexis4787
      @carmenalexis4787 Před 7 měsíci +75

      @@ciaa8387FYI… ppl can be arrested in the UK.

    • @babybug2023
      @babybug2023 Před 7 měsíci +160

      The way the police responded to her saying "it was an attempted honour killing" and how the police would assume it was a suicide anytime they came across a bride-burning says everything you need to know. At that time, religious and racial tensions were clearly affecting local law enforcement. Either they were under direction to stay out of it, prior legal rulings made it impossible to prosecute, or they feared retaliation. Altogether a disgusting failure.

    • @Jigpikchu
      @Jigpikchu Před 7 měsíci +124

      @@ciaa8387 yes it happened in the uk but the family is indian ....they did not assimilate into british culture they brought their third world culture with them where it didnt belong

  • @violacesario4389
    @violacesario4389 Před 7 měsíci +1039

    What a brave woman Nina is. I'm horrified listening to her story. Her parents; her brothers; her in-laws have absolutely no honour. They are shameful wastes of oxygen.

    • @connect_or
      @connect_or Před 7 měsíci +12

      Jail!! Extradition.... im portuguese! I lived 7 yeras in london... and 2 years a a sik house they was cool.. police should go after her family... her voice is very important... for teachers and people from outside looking after clues on young girls...

    • @yeseniah7373
      @yeseniah7373 Před 7 měsíci +10

      Yet, she never pressed charges. They were never brought to justice. They and their culture will continue to perpetuate this. Because they were never punished.

    • @violacesario4389
      @violacesario4389 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@yeseniah7373 It's so frustrating.

    • @tbex613
      @tbex613 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@yeseniah7373 The laws need to change so that one doesn't NEED to press charges for assault.

  • @kennysherlock6534
    @kennysherlock6534 Před měsícem +18

    This interview affected me deeply ...... my heart goes out to this women ....I wish you a full recovery and a happy life

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Před měsícem +7

      It’s Nina, please know I’m
      Living a happy fulfilling life

    • @kennysherlock6534
      @kennysherlock6534 Před měsícem +1

      @londonslifecoach thank you Nina , long may it continue 🙏 all the very best to you and your family in the future .

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT Před 11 dny +1

      ​@@londonslifecoach You are truly such a beautiful, intelligent , brave, strong, kind woman. I pray you feel safe &loved. As a woman I cannot even begin to imagine what you've been through. I very rarely cry but listening to you tell your story I couldn't help but get emotional & struggling to hold back tears. I am so genuinely sorry for what happened to you. U did not deserve any of this & I hope u truly know that. You were surrounded by pure evil & you were the only light in either of those houses. You have such a beautiful heart & I can't imagine the strength it takes to tell your story. I'm so glad you're away from that evil & that you're here. ❤

  • @daniellejoens6920
    @daniellejoens6920 Před 7 dny +2

    God please 🙏🏻 heal this woman. There is so much love in her heart.

    • @pub652
      @pub652 Před 5 dny

      There are only two possibilities: whether there is a god then he is responsible for what happened and he endorsed that or there is no god and you must blame the society for what happened, including everybody who knows about those things and decides not to help that poor woman.

  • @YachnaP
    @YachnaP Před 7 měsíci +1878

    As a punjabi, this is horrifying to hear and I feel ashamed that our culture allows this kind of evil to exist. Unfortunately this is one of many stories of women I’ve heard over the years who have been through similar horrors and a lot of them do not make it out alive. How one inflicts that kind of pain on their own flesh and blood is beyond me. Gender-based discrimination and voilence is a huge problem in my culture, but it doesn’t get the attention it needs and the system fails these women over and over again. I applaud her for having the courage to speak out about what she went through, it has shaken me to my core and I cannot stop crying. We need to do better to protect our girls and women. This is not okay, nobody should have to deal with this kind of pain and trauma.

    • @autumnstar7346
      @autumnstar7346 Před 7 měsíci +146

      I agree. I'm Punjabi SIkh from Vancouver, Canada, and let me tell you, I'm truly disgusted by our community. Even if families don't do to their daughters to the magnitude that this woman's family did to her, but a majority of the community stays silent on the issue, and they too are part of the problem, because they feel disappointed at the birth of a girl child, think girls should act, dress a certain way, do what they are told, and so in my eyes, most people are part of the problem, that gives rise to shit families like this, who have the audacity to do what they did. This so called friend of this woman's who gave her the advice to go back home was so wrong. Why would you want to go back to a place where your father and all his friends raped you. I thought my family was bad, my parents are just plain toxic in terms of mental and emotional abuse, but I endured nothing like this to this magnitude, actually I had it much better after I got married and moved to the United States, and after I left one night my dad almost ended up killing my sister because she had to work late, and he thought she was out slutting around, and my parents the next day said, oh it was nothing. Like fuck this shit. I wish I could have 5 minutes with this piece of shit father and her brothers, and still them in a room with big military guys and lets see how fucking tough they are then. I've heard so many stories like this, it's disgusting. Glad I distanced and disassociated myself the the community.

    • @manjitpannu5408
      @manjitpannu5408 Před 7 měsíci +62

      I cried throughout the video too. It’s beyond heartbreaking how your own family can break your spirit like this. Except for the rape and breaking of bones, I suffered a lot like this woman by my family. My mother was the same kind of angry abusive lunatic. And my dad a violent drunk. My school removed me from home when I was 17 and they always told me the same thing, “so many women don’t make it out alive.” I consider myself lucky. But the emotional pain this experience leaves you with is unlike any other. My only two options in life were 1. Live without a family and be completely on your own. 2. Be seriously abused by your parents and brother because you’re a girl. I chose the first one. This is the first time I’ve heard a story that’s much much worse than mine. And mine is pretty evil.

    • @hillmidget1326
      @hillmidget1326 Před 7 měsíci +19

      I hope you know you are with so much more, you deserve love, you deserve respect ❤

    • @Azs-hb9mr
      @Azs-hb9mr Před 7 měsíci +26

      I'm shocked beyond belief. To think that this had happened and continue to happen is something I find reprehensible. I will only advise that she cuts all connections with all those who made her suffer. She should live her life and face everything with the courage, confidence and determination that is needed. I salute her for speaking out. I am surprised that a country like England would not take cognizance of such behavior in a community.

    • @amodiarosemary1331
      @amodiarosemary1331 Před 7 měsíci +10

      Bad parents..!

  • @alexavitali
    @alexavitali Před 7 měsíci +934

    As a nurse, it pained me to the core to hear her say that she was ignored even by one of us. How I wish I could have been there to hug and comfort her. I’m so sorry you were let down even by us Nina. Truly am.

    • @adrianlouw2499
      @adrianlouw2499 Před 7 měsíci

      To think people have been conditioned to be so petrified of being labelled a 'racist' we're willing to turn a complete blind eye to an inhumane situation...is it worth it?

    • @M73ss
      @M73ss Před 6 měsíci +18

      As a nurse student that hurted me too and I was searching this kind of comment, Bless you Alexa and thank you for speaking own our behalf❤

    • @hello-nq3ze
      @hello-nq3ze Před 6 měsíci +3

      You don't need to speak on behalf of all nurses even though you may feel obligated to. We appreciate your hard work.

  • @uggggggghhhhh
    @uggggggghhhhh Před 29 dny +8

    I literally cried listening to this. Its such a shame that people like her parents exist in this world. Just cruel, cold, bitter and entitled. I'm so glad that she survived and was able to get out of that awful cycle.

  • @jmpomerleau
    @jmpomerleau Před 2 dny +1

    Oh Nina, can you feel our virtual hugs? I am dazzled by your poise and sweet demeanor as you tell your story of horror. You are a blessing to the world. 🫶

  • @MaddieFishblob
    @MaddieFishblob Před 3 měsíci +1736

    Respect for religion, culture, and personal beliefs goes 100% out the window in cases of child abuse and murder. I have zero respect or understanding for anyone who would do this to a child

    • @tomsd8656
      @tomsd8656 Před 3 měsíci +60

      I only respect that which is kind and loving. But I don't respect any part of a culture or religion just because it is. There has to be a reason for respect to be shown. I am a Buddhist. The Buddha said never take anything at face value, even the Buddha's teaching itself. You have to examine it yourself.

    • @IlyanaMoussa-nu3dx
      @IlyanaMoussa-nu3dx Před 3 měsíci +44

      This has absolutely nothing to do with religion but more so cultural this is very common in their culture.

    • @amibedi1231
      @amibedi1231 Před 3 měsíci +16

      This is so horrific and heartbreaking to hear what this lady Nina has had to endure, and no one should ever have to experience this.
      I have read many of the comments from the various talks given around this traumatic and difficult story, (which hopefully will encourage and inspire others who may suffer in silence to share and speak up.) However,It's important not to have a judgmental perspective that gives the distorted and negative bias that this happens purely because of cultural patterns of behaviour and differences and is therefore a common phenomenon within .
      It is important to remember and point out that there are deeply loving Punjabi and Sikh families (parents of Nina’s era), including subsequent generations, who adore their daughters, treat them with the utmost love and respect, and nurture them in a safe and happy family environment. Let’s not vilify all Punjabi, Sikh, and Asian families under the label that it is cultural appropriation to treat their girls or daughters with hate, contempt, or abuse.
      I have five sisters, one of whom was adopted by my parents. We were so fortunate and truly blessed to have parents who adored each of us, treated us with nothing but love and respect, educated us, and allowed us to form our own paths and identities in life, despite the challenges they had to face, pleasing the extended family and sometimes wider community in the process.
      Sadly, so much of this has to do with individual parents mindsets, personal morals, and perhaps unacceptable behaviour patterns learned from their own past and personal experiences as opposed to cultural.
      Abuse, whether it's sexual, physical, or emotional It is not mutually exclusive to the Indian and Asian cultures; ill treatment of children happens in all parts of society.

    • @Charmienckaieo-qr3ri
      @Charmienckaieo-qr3ri Před 3 měsíci +4

      Well said totally agree with you

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 3 měsíci

      Look, i know someone who is indian, lives there, children are starving on the streets, govnt does nothing, nor for the elderly, blind or poor lepers. my friend vomited into a clean diaper due to the filth and stench on a bus, afterwards she saw street kids eating the grapes out of her vomit. @@amibedi1231

  • @colly3333
    @colly3333 Před 4 měsíci +805

    Her family should be in prison. Their faces shouldn’t be blurred, instead let the world see their faces and shame them for being vile and wicked people. If I was her I don’t think I could forgive them. She a gentle and good human being that deserves a great life.

    • @Charmienckaieo-qr3ri
      @Charmienckaieo-qr3ri Před 3 měsíci +15

      Well said totally agree with you

    • @Antinatalists_Unite
      @Antinatalists_Unite Před 3 měsíci +28

      What's not usually talked about is in countries that hate on women, is how much worse or just as bad the child abuse in those countries are.

    • @matthewweng8483
      @matthewweng8483 Před 3 měsíci +18

      We'd have both been orphans if she was my sister...

    • @dotamaze
      @dotamaze Před 3 měsíci

      Why do not think whatever she is saying is true? She owns a vagina so she must be telling the truth right?

    • @CyberGlock1
      @CyberGlock1 Před měsícem +6

      As much as I agree with the sentiment, it may only agitate them more and drive them insane to the point that they would do literally anything to ensure her death. Those kinds of parents are so warped by the sense of maintaining their reputation and image among their peers and other family that being humiliated further would likely drive them to do some vile stuff. They care far more about their “honor” than being a loving parent to their children.

  • @chumark54
    @chumark54 Před 24 dny +4

    Her message is way more important than religion. Let's help spread her words and her strength.

  • @markbeddow9220
    @markbeddow9220 Před 24 dny +7

    You are an amazing person. To have survived this and find the strength to tell your story.
    I worked in adult mental health services for many years. I worked on one particular project to help repatriate individuals who were housed within asylums from an early age. Asylums had been created to help those that suffered emotionally and some did great work. Unfortunately some of these institutions also serviced another purpose. Many of the people I met were elderly Women who had probably suffered similar fates as yourself; although not to the horrific extent that you experienced. Many through passion within youthful adventures had become pregnant outside of Wedlock. A great shame in our culture back then. They were labelled as insane and incarcerated, their children taken and bereft of familial support due to shame, they often ended their lives or lived them out as involuntary prisoners. Victims to an immature honour based culture known as the Victorian era. I pray your story reaches those who are currently suffering whatever their culture is. You are awesome and I pray that you find peace and freedom from immature bullies who perhaps could consider what next good deed they could do to compensate for the torture they have subjected you to. I pray both the Woman and Men of such cultures free themselves from the burden of such abhorrent and destructive ways of being. Blessings be super kind to yourself and thankyou again for your bravery.

  • @AB-py2hj
    @AB-py2hj Před 7 měsíci +1180

    It’s infuriating that these people are not charged with abuse, rape, kidnapping, attempted murder!! Am I missing something ?

    • @lesley5445
      @lesley5445 Před 7 měsíci +40

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @christendenise220
      @christendenise220 Před 7 měsíci +180

      She is not old either, it's not like this happened 100 years ago, this must be fairly recent? The authorities obviously do not interfere with the cultural garbage rules this family had. This must be stopped.

    • @Joelswinger34
      @Joelswinger34 Před 7 měsíci +137

      Yes, it's a misogynist culture, and lots of stupid people never question it.

    • @PetersonJoseph
      @PetersonJoseph Před 7 měsíci +101

      Forget 100 years ago, this is probably happening right now as we speak to another poor soul. @christendenise220

    • @Alice45894
      @Alice45894 Před 7 měsíci

      It's sooo messed up how the British judicial system just takes a backseat and allows this because this is their "culture". It is inexcusable.

  • @caseykendrick5484
    @caseykendrick5484 Před 2 měsíci +1226

    This is why I feel it’s so important to discuss abuse of all kinds in school. Because for so many children, they don’t even realize that what is happening to them is wrong and unacceptable. I wish I could hug this woman.

    • @gayaneg.3805
      @gayaneg.3805 Před měsícem +20

      Sadly very little can be done by teachers. The abused kiddos go home and to their abusers. Even when child protective services are involved, the abuse continues. Just what happened to poor Gabriel Fernandez. 💔

    • @debiclark4362
      @debiclark4362 Před měsícem +16

      This is why sex education is so important in schools

    • @sterling8298
      @sterling8298 Před měsícem

      It should be a curriculum class all the way up into junior high school.

  • @malakelnaggar8991
    @malakelnaggar8991 Před měsícem +5

    sobbing so hard, you’re incredible and i’m so proud of how far you’ve come and how strong you are. you deserve everything good.

  • @katherineharper8963
    @katherineharper8963 Před měsícem +6

    I've read several of the previous comments and feel a sense of relief that there is such a huge outcry and rage at the horrendous way Nina was treated from a tiny defenceless child. It is so beyond any normal person to imagine how parents could ever treat their little girl like this. Nina, I wish so much I could step back in time and hold you as a little child and give you all that love and protection you deserved. You are an amazing person. I hope you will know only joy and love from now on.

  • @JohnSmithNYC
    @JohnSmithNYC Před 7 měsíci +720

    As a man born and raised in streets of New York City. This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever heard. Much respect to this woman.

    • @connect_or
      @connect_or Před 7 měsíci +19

      My friend that shit happend in london!!! LONDON!! probably still happen... wonder in india..

    • @josephhoward4010
      @josephhoward4010 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@connect_orNYC is wicked hard

    • @hzjc9680
      @hzjc9680 Před 7 měsíci +3

      For the mountains may depart and the hills be removed,but my steadfast love shall not depart from you,and my covenant of peace shall not be removed,”says the Lord , who has compassion on you. (Isaiah54:10 ESV)

    • @meowy4720
      @meowy4720 Před 7 měsíci +13

      @@hzjc9680 Religion is how we got ourselves into this mess, and religion can't get us out.

    • @hzjc9680
      @hzjc9680 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@meowy4720 Lord Jesus gets you out of darkness into His marvellous light

  • @donnabalnaves6452
    @donnabalnaves6452 Před 7 měsíci +514

    May all the men and women who treated her badly rot in hell

  • @madelineh574
    @madelineh574 Před měsícem +4

    Thank you - thank you for sharing your story Nina. It was difficult to hear and, I'm sure, astoundingly more difficult to talk about, but I appreciate your bravery, courage, and willingness to open up about your awful experiences. You are a Warrior and sharing your truth not only reveals what's really going on but inspires others to do the same and fight against people and societal norms that perpetuate and allow the same injustices to go unpunished. Again, from the bottom of my torn heart, thank you Nina. Just know I'm sending all the warmth, love, hugs, and comfort I can without actually meeting you

  • @lucyjones9678
    @lucyjones9678 Před měsícem +1

    Everyone needs to hear your story. We can’t choose our family and I am truly sorry for what happened to you. I can’t even imagine. Thank you that are here. You have achieved so much. You are so strong and I admire you. You are special and deserve all the love in the world. Bless you.

  • @anikadelabajo759
    @anikadelabajo759 Před 7 měsíci +1003

    The fact that she is still alive is fascinating. I can’t imagine surviving that kind of abuse. I can’t imagine surviving and still having a desire to live. That’s the strongest woman I’ve ever seen in my life

    • @prophet1782
      @prophet1782 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Lucky to be alive. Strong will power to survive.

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. Před 7 měsíci +7

      I agree, can't imagine being able to want to live after what happened to her.

    • @sonickautschuhe
      @sonickautschuhe Před 7 měsíci

      If you don’t have a desire to live, why are you still here?

    • @mylordtakemeaway
      @mylordtakemeaway Před 7 měsíci +3

      o Allah, destroy these oppressors with a destruction never seen before and annihilate them o Allah for the abuse they have done to your creation. dear Allah, respond

    • @sonickautschuhe
      @sonickautschuhe Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@mylordtakemeaway here to response, chose your own path. Stop believing in an all seeing god..

  • @Thehonestruth
    @Thehonestruth Před 7 měsíci +977

    So its ok to be a mother but not a daughter? That’s outright bullying, I am so sorry you went thru this.

    • @FaelineVox
      @FaelineVox Před 7 měsíci

      It's a cycle. You either abuse your kids and the other women around you or you get abused and killed yourself. It's all you know.

    • @existentialhangover1124
      @existentialhangover1124 Před 7 měsíci +106

      I think this is way beyond the scope of bullying.

    • @marzipanmerci1068
      @marzipanmerci1068 Před 7 měsíci +57

      ​@@existentialhangover1124agreed. This is downright abuse stemmed from cultural prejudice.

    • @TT-ri3dv
      @TT-ri3dv Před 7 měsíci

      This is what I don’t get. Isn’t her mother a female of their culture? Aren’t females needed for marriage and children. They had already had two sons so…it’s all so illogical. One can’t blame culture or tradition, they are just evil, evil using culture and tradition as an excuse to enjoy perpetuating violence against those less powerful.

    • @bgggggg8688
      @bgggggg8688 Před 7 měsíci +1

      So. Right , my bully’s mother was sh*t

  • @4leafff
    @4leafff Před měsícem +7

    what an extraordinarily resilient woman. i wish her the absolute most healing, peace and happiness in her life

  • @Mauichi97
    @Mauichi97 Před 12 dny +3

    I just want to let you know Nina, that I am so proud of you beyond words could ever describe. Your strength and courage is beyond anything I’ve ever seen, and I hope you’re able to get justice for what happened and that your family will pay for what they’ve done to you. Already subscribed to you, you’re such a beautiful soul, anyone that’s around you is so lucky to have you in their lives. You’re such an inspiration to me now, I pray that your life continues to flourish.

  • @zarajones5428
    @zarajones5428 Před 7 měsíci +487

    This lady is incredible. She has overcome some of the worst abuse a human can go through. I hope she has peace now.

    • @katierojas8066
      @katierojas8066 Před 7 měsíci +20

      She seems like such a sweet soul. I wish her peace.

  • @KayRo101
    @KayRo101 Před 7 měsíci +693

    The fact that she was beaten at school in addition to all her horrors at home just makes me furious. As if being raped at home wasnt enough being beaten for the simple fact of not being white at school is disgusting. Her family failed her, the UK failed her, the school, teachers and stidents failed her. Its disgusting

    • @fofocuddlypoop2084
      @fofocuddlypoop2084 Před 7 měsíci +79

      Don't forget the police failed her and so did the hospital as well

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 Před 7 měsíci +19

      Imagine her bullies listening to this story

    • @josephaltman460
      @josephaltman460 Před měsícem

      Absolutely 😭

    • @harrydavey9884
      @harrydavey9884 Před měsícem +1

      It sort of confuses me how you're more outraged by ignorant children bullying her than her own family beating and raping her. They're just not even in the same league.

    • @kalicat9492
      @kalicat9492 Před měsícem +4

      ​@@harrydavey9884 that's not what that comment said. You are adding to it.

  • @angiesiana1877
    @angiesiana1877 Před měsícem +4

    You’re so strong for even sharing this story. You are amazing. You are so strong. You inspire many.

  • @sss_Shaq1496
    @sss_Shaq1496 Před měsícem +4

    Nina, first I would like to say You are Amazing, Your are Worthy and You are Loved! The courage you have shown is astounding. I wish you all the healings, blessing, and a safe beautiful life going forward.

  • @beniaminmotac9107
    @beniaminmotac9107 Před 6 měsíci +1231

    This is the most horrific story I’ve ever listened to or wactched. I’m in absolute shock, and cannot believe that she’s still alive and sane. Huge simpathy for this poor woman. What a dreadful horrible hamily to grow up in.

    • @Paul94096
      @Paul94096 Před 5 měsíci +23

      I watch a ton of true crime, but this is literally the list horrific thing I’ve ever seen/heard about. Ted Bundy has NOTHING on this poor woman’s family.

    • @terriandlola
      @terriandlola Před 5 měsíci +29

      @@Paul94096i think the thing is Ted Bundy was a lone ranger…… and he clearly had mental issues…. This is an entire family!! Living life ‘normal’ and thinking this behaviour is ok. It is sickening to get your head around isn’t it!

    • @dru8432
      @dru8432 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Honestly.

    • @tiffanywhite2121
      @tiffanywhite2121 Před 5 měsíci +11

      There is no point of that honor killing. Those families had no honor to protect. The truth of the matter is that they didn't want their secrets getting out.

    • @barbaraportis2338
      @barbaraportis2338 Před 5 měsíci +12

      There are worse stories that are just as common as this one. In the Asian and African worlds, many parts of their cultures still allow this kind of abuse. I worked with women who had their genitals cut when they were 12 or so, the reasoning is they will remain virgins and respect their husbands because they can't feel sexual feelings. This woman's family is everywhere. Many people who practice as she reports live in Europe, especially England, and here in western US. Women are still burned to death, and in Saudi Arabia, stoned (I've been to the stoning circle) to death.

  • @tinkerbelle5240
    @tinkerbelle5240 Před 7 měsíci +895

    I'm an Indian and I don't think you are bringing any undeserved disrepute to Indians or Sikhs or any group of persons. This is the truth and you've tolerated and faced the worse kind of abuse. And others should be able tolerate the truth. It's a common practice to abuse women and shout them down when they speak up. Women are blamed for bringing disrepute to the country or religion or community. It is not our job to keep this facade of reputation intact. Those who did that to you will carry the shame and I hope people here shame them plenty. Pretending to be civilized when they are far from it.

    • @sucedeu
      @sucedeu Před 7 měsíci +127

      Very well said! No more hiding behind "culture." Like she said, culture is music, arts, theater, beauty...this is abuse.

    • @PittheadX
      @PittheadX Před 7 měsíci +4

      This is a Bjp-rss culture.

    • @SafavidAfsharid3197
      @SafavidAfsharid3197 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Aren't Sikhs indian too?

    • @tinkerbelle5240
      @tinkerbelle5240 Před 7 měsíci +20

      @@PittheadX this is any culture that is regressive and people who are uneducated. So, be it Muslims, Sikhs or Hindus. And those BJP RSS will also be included in it who believe, propagate and practice this. But not every BJP person does things like this

    • @tinkerbelle5240
      @tinkerbelle5240 Před 7 měsíci

      @@SafavidAfsharid3197 all Sikhs aren't Indians. Sikhs live all over the world

  • @ngitd
    @ngitd Před 20 dny

    hearing her story, thinking how can someone suffer so much in life and still seem so strong and then at the end finding out theres a part 2.... this woman deserves all the love and care in the world

  • @HardcoreYTAddict
    @HardcoreYTAddict Před 6 dny +2

    You are a miracle of a human being. Absolutely beautiful soul. I wish you nothing but peace and blessings

  • @birdsongvalley
    @birdsongvalley Před 7 měsíci +706

    I do not know how this level of evil is possible. My heart breaks for this women.

    • @lauracortes7720
      @lauracortes7720 Před 7 měsíci +33

      seriously, this is one of the most tragic and disturbing and evil stories I've ever heard

    • @sandrahatherley2184
      @sandrahatherley2184 Před 7 měsíci

      One of the horrible parts of this is that it has happened to many other girls/woman who don't live to tell their story.@@lauracortes7720

    • @girlwhomustnotbenamed4139
      @girlwhomustnotbenamed4139 Před 7 měsíci +39

      Patriarchy, religion, violence and ignorance. They go hand in hand and are a particularly toxic, often lethal combination.

    • @kerstiny4698
      @kerstiny4698 Před 7 měsíci +11

      This is utterly disturbing to watch...how can human be this cruel...

    • @AzulaZuko100
      @AzulaZuko100 Před 7 měsíci

      I hate her whole family & I don’t even know them

  • @Gringa_L
    @Gringa_L Před 6 měsíci +929

    It's striking how soft and sensitive she is considering the evil cruelty she endured. She managed to retain her beautiful soul and her humanity and not let those horrible people turn her into one of them.

    • @roystonmarshall5027
      @roystonmarshall5027 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Only 1.6 billion to go..

    • @Vukkica
      @Vukkica Před 6 měsíci +15

      This show you have a choice to break the cycle and you can come out stronger than ever.

    • @jocelynneville8504
      @jocelynneville8504 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Most women that go through things like that are softer and more sweet.
      That's why it often happens to them repeatedly.
      Like, people who were physically and sexually abused as children end up experiencing the same as adults because abusers can spot them from a mile away.
      They're passive and softer and don't see red flags.
      It's hard to break the cycle.

    • @benfranklin5335
      @benfranklin5335 Před 6 měsíci +1

      when you've experienced great pain at the hands of others. You gain a great fear of causing pain to others.

    • @roystonmarshall5027
      @roystonmarshall5027 Před 6 měsíci

      I've listened to her before powerful speaker,..what really gets me angry is knowing that millions of girls are going through exactly what she is and it's somehow been normalised by a society because a bat sh!t crazy religious belief system that treats women/girls,like personal property,I cannot for the life of me,understand why we do trade with countrys like this,..I hear the argument that we can show them another side to life by trading with them,but i feel we are giving them legitimacy in their eyes,.I think that's the wrong approach,..Ending apartheid only worked because the whole world stood firm against an idea that divided people by race and once everybody was on border with that process of not working with that government in anyway,..it fell,they could no longer justify their political decision of government or feel thst they were somehow being accepted in anyway whatsoever,...invading country's and trying to impose our standards of humanity might seem the right way to go but these peoole still have their pride and ot must come from within and be forced into thst way of thinking as the world turns its back on them,...all we do is get country's to double down on their backward ideology and they have the money to do this,thanks to the trade we still do with them...country's I would not do business with..
      Saudi Arabia
      Pakistan,
      China
      Qatar
      Iran
      Would be a good way to start and thst eould put other country's on notice obviously it would work better one country at a time and I would start with Pakistan..
      There hatred towards Christians in Pakistan is horrendous and without trade they would collapse within months,we would demand fundermental changes gender equality, religious freedom,property rights protection,a new consitution and they would be helped financially with infrastructure projects and increased trade.....it could work but do we have the will...?

  • @RKupyr
    @RKupyr Před měsícem

    How brave you are, Nina. How good you are, to share this. I will now watch part II, hoping too that you are now living in a wonderful place in this world.

  • @genericwhitefemale6752
    @genericwhitefemale6752 Před 28 dny +3

    HOLY HELL. This woman is so strong. I hope she has a good support system. She deserves so much 😔

  • @PIttPensFan55
    @PIttPensFan55 Před měsícem +917

    The fact that she can talk about this without completely balling is mind boggling to me. Such a strong woman.

    • @haylinpm8973
      @haylinpm8973 Před měsícem +34

      She's able to do this because of all the years of crying she's already done

    • @MohamedAli-qi4zp
      @MohamedAli-qi4zp Před měsícem +4

      She probably got used to it

    • @daniellaherget3878
      @daniellaherget3878 Před 28 dny +8

      Seriously, I’m sitting here crying and I’m just listening to her. The world truly can be such a dark place. I just don’t understand how anybody could do this to a child. Children are some of the brightest lights in this world, why are some adults so intent on snuffing it out. Do they not remember what it was like to be a child? To feel not listened too? To be abused and not be able to fight back?

    • @christaoo4347
      @christaoo4347 Před 21 dnem +3

      Top tier forced strength

    • @thebravemind_hq1762
      @thebravemind_hq1762 Před 19 dny +3

      Therapy

  • @TheLastProzacNation
    @TheLastProzacNation Před 7 měsíci +2838

    With all due respect, this is not a culture, this is psychopathy. All those people need to be behind bars. All of them. Poor woman. I'm so happy she escaped all that. And I'm truly amazed at how she turned out after all of this horrific abuse, she's a true inspiration. Idk how she remained kind after having such a life.

    • @v.9964
      @v.9964 Před 7 měsíci +94

      With all due respect,you don't get to tell someone from another culture that this isn't their culture. That's rude, especially when something tragic happens to them. She's basically telling you about the culture of violence she grew up in and you have the nerve to tell her,that's not a culture. That's a little racist to be honest. You're not the judge of what is or is not apart of their history or culture.

    • @RespectMeBitch
      @RespectMeBitch Před 7 měsíci +391

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@v.9964because that isn’t culture and she would agree too, killing a child ≠ culture its just disgusting and beyond selfish trust me who tf would think its racist to think thats wrong

    • @phishcatt
      @phishcatt Před 7 měsíci +202

      @@v.9964 Calm down. What they meant is that people from western or any other cultures can monsters like her parents too. And I think it needs to be said, because a lot of behaviors are justified as ''culture'' as if that makes it ok. Like there are people who will be like ''how dare you criticise someone else's culture'' as if culture is a holy thing, not the world we live in.

    • @v.9964
      @v.9964 Před 7 měsíci +19

      @@phishcatt I am calm,maybe you should stop whining about my comment. Which by the way,I don't need you to explain their comment to me, I am fully aware of what was said hince my response. I can read,and am a female. Shocking to this third world mentality,I know.But just because /you/ personally didn't like my comment, because it didn't fit /your/ 'agai', point of view doesn't mean I am neither not "calm" nor am I wrong. I said what I said. If you come to a Western country to leech off their system for a better life , then you should at least leave your barbarian practices at the door. This is a third world mentality that is unacceptable in any point of view. But to deny that this isn't a problem, be they Christians or Muslims households,is a problem. This happens in those cultures, if the West can learn assimilate to tolerance,so can Middle Easterns. Maybe you should try it sometimes,instead of trying to police people based on your personal feelings of what is or isn't right by you. It takes away from the victims when you're apart of the problem.

    • @v.9964
      @v.9964 Před 7 měsíci +28

      @@RespectMeBitch obviously,your comprehension skills aren't that great because she said several times in their culture that this is what happens. maybe next time, learn to use your listening skills and stop being an enabler just because you personally failed to listen to the story. Just because you personally don't practice that side of things doesn't mean other people don't. Leave that barbarism at the door.

  • @a8ras
    @a8ras Před měsícem +6

    this story shatters my heart in ways i cannot explain, all i can say here is i hope this women lives a comfortable life that is not even remotely close to how she suffered in her childhood

  • @TaahiraLuckan-wu6hz
    @TaahiraLuckan-wu6hz Před 4 dny +1

    This broke my heart, I could not even watch this video half way as it is so painful to watch. Prayers and thoughts go out to you and everyone who has to go through this or has gone through it. Your bravery is really admirable.

  • @Trip_Fontaine
    @Trip_Fontaine Před 7 měsíci +934

    I'm almost half a century old and this might be the most horrific account of child abuse I've ever heard. And I haven't even made it to her describing the attempted honor killing yet. I can't watch any more right now. This woman's strength in surviving this stuff and having the courage to talk about it is mind-boggling.

    • @mayaneuhoff5929
      @mayaneuhoff5929 Před 7 měsíci +41

      The thing is most women who experience this kind of abuse don't survive it to talk about it. Between honor killings, suicide, or death by accident in the beatings- its so rare to see someone survive and flourish. This kind of abusive is not uncommon in some middle eastern/asian cultures.

    • @Trip_Fontaine
      @Trip_Fontaine Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@mayaneuhoff5929 Great point.

  • @sonali3591
    @sonali3591 Před 7 měsíci +715

    It's crazy that her brother admitted to a police officer that he had ATTEMPTED MURDER but they said they would let him off if he apologised?? What??? I cannot imagine how strong she must be for dealing with all this abuse her whole life.

    • @barkingapollo
      @barkingapollo Před 7 měsíci

      Likely the legal system just freezes up since this is a 'cultural' issue. They don't know how to handle it and these in-groups can be very secretive and uncooperative so the police just turn a blind eye. They're likely already just pretty racist and don't care much for these people and at the same time they don't want to rile up these communities. So nothing gets done. Tale as old as time.

    • @krischette4108
      @krischette4108 Před 7 měsíci +41

      That’s the British Police for you, good job UK law enforcement! Also, it’s cultural enrichment just fantastic? 😊

    • @willnestor6422
      @willnestor6422 Před 7 měsíci

      @@krischette4108 Can you imagine if a white person said he attempted to kill his sister.... Absolutely fucking disgrace this country has become.

    • @mimi4sure
      @mimi4sure Před 7 měsíci +31

      Also, why do they even know where she lives? She said she get death threats on the daily why do any of them know where she lives?

    • @noellebazzi5618
      @noellebazzi5618 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Indian are men worshippers and to them they can use and abuse women the police are men too what do you expect😅

  • @jims6056
    @jims6056 Před měsícem +3

    She is fearless in coming forward to share her story. Please continue to speak out. 💪💪💪💪💪💪