Remarkable Interview With An Anxiety Sufferer Now Recovered...MUST WATCH

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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
  • Shaan Interview's Nico on his recovery journey and his experience in the Bye Bye Panic Mentorship. In this interview, Nico and Shaan dive deep into the nuances and complexities of anxiety recovery, what common pitfalls to avoid, and how to focus on long-term freedom from anxiety symptoms, depersonalization, and derealization.
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Komentáře • 127

  • @garyparker6583
    @garyparker6583 Před 2 lety +19

    "freaking out cos you opened your fridge and thought about existence" lol
    I love it, absolute legend 👍👍👍👍

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad you enjoyed

    • @figsworld6977
      @figsworld6977 Před 8 měsíci +3

      These are the kind of things I wish people would say. But I understand why you wouldn't want to. But I really believe these things are what resonate with people that have anxiety. The really strange intrusive thoughts.

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Před rokem +10

    The acceptance is so hard. Especially when more symptoms are being added on

  • @charlesbarkley4765
    @charlesbarkley4765 Před 3 lety +51

    Love how Shaan got more personal in this interview every recovery story convinces me I will get out of this!!!

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial Před 2 lety +1

      i doubt if shan himself got out of it

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 Před 2 lety +6

      @@ApulicaOfficial lol I’m damn near fully recovered already

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial Před 2 lety +1

      @@charlesbarkley4765 it will always be near...not 100% ..never seen anybody telling he is 100% recovered..

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 Před 2 lety +9

      @@ApulicaOfficial na u can fully recovered trust me , I can see it and feel it I’m back to my old self going out with friends to bars have some drinks meet people I feel like this anxiety / depression open up my mind and made me a much better person

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial Před 2 lety

      @@charlesbarkley4765 that much I am always doing...the only thing is random thoughts..which sucks

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Před rokem +4

    The way he puts that "its a new landscape" so simply and clearly ❤️

  • @SeanLeonDrumz
    @SeanLeonDrumz Před 3 lety +15

    Tremendously insightful for those who are suffering. Nico the wise.

  • @deon_pet
    @deon_pet Před 3 lety +6

    Very great, insightful, and relatable interview. The Apple store story is so real. And I hate when people figuratively say they’re gonna have a panic attack when I’m like “you don’t know the half of it”. But that’s just shows the difference in baseline’s of the two

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 Před rokem +4

    I must have had 100 panic attacks in that SAME bathroom 😂😂 I needed a laugh today.. life is funny.

  • @cardad2220
    @cardad2220 Před 3 lety +8

    This has to be one of the best videos.

  • @vinylg3421
    @vinylg3421 Před rokem +9

    I love this ❤ truly wise and inspirational .. hoping full freedom for myself and everyone going through this

  • @rickm6232
    @rickm6232 Před rokem +5

    Another great interview! A true blessing ❤ Thank you Shaan & Nico! 😊

  • @user-xd8pj2mm4t
    @user-xd8pj2mm4t Před 10 měsíci +4

    You are ALL AMAZING! The more i listen, the more i feel "normal", always feeling like im the only one "going crazy", you folks sharing your this issue is absolutely astronomical! Anxiety is an isolated, terrifying experience,thank you so very much

  • @pkc3168
    @pkc3168 Před rokem +2

    I desperately needed to hear your guest's genuine experience and advice. I hope to be like him.

  • @friendofclaire
    @friendofclaire Před rokem +8

    Insightful and well delivered. Everything resonated with me. Well done and thank you for this labor you have taken on!

  • @hugo3conde
    @hugo3conde Před 3 lety +13

    "It feels like both your mind and body have betrayed you" - wow ...How I feel everyday. The physical symptoms, the intrusive thoughts, the derealization, I mean.... this is no easy feat. Wish he would have listed all 70 symptoms he wrote down :/

  • @toshuarussell4703
    @toshuarussell4703 Před rokem +4

    Wow he’s amazing ! You two together are gold

  • @Nick__E2
    @Nick__E2 Před 3 lety +9

    You’re the man Nico!! Would love to see you become a coach!

  • @user-xq1gd8xl8n
    @user-xq1gd8xl8n Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’ve had intense generalized anxiety for 50 years. I had friends in high school, but was made fun of constantly. Since then I’ve had very low self esteem. I’ve been on medication but your videos are the first thing that has really helped. It helps to know I’m not alone.

  • @aishabenyahya4125
    @aishabenyahya4125 Před 3 lety +8

    AMAZING video!!! Iv watched all of Shaans content as I’m recovering on my own and this is a really good video! Thank you both so much for this 🙏🙏

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin Před 4 měsíci +1

    My favorite part from this is that “ The answer is to recognize the world you are in and learn from that. Don’t take the knowledge you had previously to solve the current problems “ Thank you!

  • @carliebryant7627
    @carliebryant7627 Před 4 měsíci

    I love hearing that others don’t notice you’re having panic symptoms. Hearing you guys talk about that really helps.. that he couldn’t see any signs of anxiety in you when you asked him for help at Apple.

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Před rokem +2

    Nico is smart! Perceptive! And makes good metaphors. Such an inspiration!

  • @smartpanna1975
    @smartpanna1975 Před 3 lety +5

    wonderful story, Thank you so much.

  • @alphaomega7433
    @alphaomega7433 Před 3 lety +7

    Great Interview!

  • @zoemilinkovic
    @zoemilinkovic Před 3 lety +4

    Great interview. 👏

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you Nico! You describe just how I feel

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 Před 7 měsíci

    Listening to this guy has helped me so much because he described how a change of weather could or hot it really shakes your system. That happened to me recently and it really scared me not knowing why.

  • @BrendaHall1
    @BrendaHall1 Před 2 lety +1

    Great interview!!! Nice is very insightful

  • @slv6470
    @slv6470 Před 3 lety +7

    he seems super cool! also love listening to this.

  • @maralynrigby9157
    @maralynrigby9157 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Now I understand why I have been described as being aloof... This constant cultivation of my difference from others rather than the opposite...

  • @mouthearnose
    @mouthearnose Před rokem +4

    26:25 "Sitting with it"
    35:52 "We are here not to fix anything, but to point you to the understanding that there has never been anything to fix :)"

  • @suzanaflorestherapy
    @suzanaflorestherapy Před rokem +1

    Great discussion

  • @mandarsawale4596
    @mandarsawale4596 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for your guidance 😊

  • @Truth_Bringerxx
    @Truth_Bringerxx Před 3 lety +5

    God bless you both

  • @patdaniell5528
    @patdaniell5528 Před 2 lety

    Just found you yesterday l can not believe l am hearing me in both of you 16y it started 71y now phobia of vomiting and the things that were said about going out the reason why different places in the house safe etc
    I am going through it at this moment as lot of health problems don't stop

  • @evelyndaisy9722
    @evelyndaisy9722 Před rokem +1

    He gives me hope 🙏

  • @knowledgecorner2944
    @knowledgecorner2944 Před 3 lety +6

    Shaan thnku for everything..:)

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican Před rokem +2

    It's interesting how I hear different people's perspective on why "this" issue seemed like the most important to "me." Probably why the symptom/issue persisted - because of the fear of it.

  • @amdphen
    @amdphen Před 3 lety +12

    Nico the philosopher!! 😁 . He's really good! 👍🏻

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  Před 3 lety +3

      Nico is a sage.

    • @amdphen
      @amdphen Před 3 lety +1

      @@byebyepanic hehehe.. thanks Shaan for all the amazing work that you do!

  • @But_Whyyyy
    @But_Whyyyy Před rokem +1

    When they talk about the weight loss part, I was smiling cuz of happiness due to the fact that I am 88 pounds at 20 age

  • @effortless4588
    @effortless4588 Před rokem +1

    Amazing content

  • @JerothyOle-pt2ee
    @JerothyOle-pt2ee Před 10 měsíci

    You both are amazing ♥️♥️

  • @MrSKlim
    @MrSKlim Před 2 lety

    Lol! So funny, Apple store was a trigger place for me as well. I would just be sitting waiting for a tech to help and it was I just wanted to leave. Shallow breathings, hard time swallowing, abdomen tightening, non stop restlessness lol.

  • @sukhimahal5153
    @sukhimahal5153 Před 3 lety +5

    Suffering as student from 2 years

  • @justinpemble7453
    @justinpemble7453 Před měsícem

    Hello. My name is Justin. I have suffered with anxiety for so many years. I have now watched a number of your videos and would really like to join your program! Please let me know what I need to do or where to find your application? Thank you so much for all your content! Have a great day!!😃

  • @alpal681
    @alpal681 Před 3 lety +4

    Amazing video guys thank you

  • @brianschnurr3254
    @brianschnurr3254 Před 3 lety +6

    This is literally me. My entire life has been just like this, and i am 31 now and STILL struggling.

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  Před 3 lety +6

      Stay strong!

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct Před 3 lety +5

      Looks like u still haven’t accepted your anxiety

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 Před 2 lety +3

      8 Months with dealint with gad and panic disorder , last 3 months my panic attacks are gone my normal life is back im not recovered 100% i still deal with my setbacks and my symptoms but i totally accept that its just anxiety i dont judge or justify any symptom you have to accept it like a sneeze and trust me you will start making progress im 19yo btw i had my first panic attack in my last 18y

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 Před 2 lety +2

      Another advice its the best for me , just live your life do what you used to do even if you are dealing with heart palpitations whatever you have to do that and live with the symptoms and they ll start disappearing

  • @crystal_vvave9045
    @crystal_vvave9045 Před 3 lety

    Speaking about health anxiety there is a 6 minute cartoon called kikoriki, episode: "Chiko and his health" which is very accurate

  • @danielpolednik
    @danielpolednik Před 3 lety +7

    My story is very similar. Indigestion, Gad, terror.. Right now I'm in process of finding if my symptoms are physical. Blood testing tomorrow. After results it will give at least some certainty. I wish everybody to find certainty, I wish you to heal, we can do it!!!

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik Před 3 lety +1

      Just follow up. My blood is ok just low vitamin D + lower testosterone. I will take vit. D3. My nervous system is still very sensitive even if I'm calm. I'm gonna continue to apply acceptance. I will follow up with my progress later - i hope this could help at least one person in the future.

    • @user-eb3ut2ij8d
      @user-eb3ut2ij8d Před 3 lety +1

      @@danielpolednik hey daniel
      if i can suggest some tool to help while u doing this work
      try wim hof method watch it carfully and understand the process very well before u apply it
      its like anxiety meds without the side effects it will only take the edge off but wont fix everything but will help to work on urself calmer

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT Před rokem

      how you doing 2 years later?

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik Před 11 měsíci

      @@TheSpectraYT Hi, I'm doing well. If i can recommend something to other people -> Focus on something else (job, project, hobby, family). I know it's hard and you want to fix your problem now! But if you want to fix the problem you are telling your body there is a problem. Also don't consume coffein and go to sleep early (max 10pm). The other part is acceptance. How can you accept suffering? For me it was easier because i had this episode once before in my life. So i could assure myself, that i know what's going on and my body will come back to balance again. YOU WILL GET THROUGH AND OUT - ACCEPT!!!

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT Před 11 měsíci

      @@danielpolednik so are you fully recovered now? no symptoms?

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Před rokem

    I would like to listen Nico more

  • @umbertofurlan501
    @umbertofurlan501 Před 3 lety +9

    anyone has persistent chronic muscle tension due to stressfull anxiety period? me its 1 year and a half without any improvements.

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde Před 3 lety +1

      I’m going on 6 months :(

    • @itsjen94
      @itsjen94 Před 2 lety

      @@hugo3conde how are you feeling now? Still physical symptoms?

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde Před 2 lety +1

      @@itsjen94 I still have symptoms - but other ones now - the muscle tension is not as prominent but now I have migraines and tingling on my face that really freaks me out … it’s tough :( but we can do this !!!!

    • @mikepaquette1245
      @mikepaquette1245 Před rokem

      @max how you doing these days?

    • @crystalH30
      @crystalH30 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes lots of shoulder tension

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Před rokem

    Actually it's true' doing job helps 👍

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 Před 7 měsíci

    Could you please elaborate more on how or when is the insomnia gets better and how?

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Před rokem +2

    He quoted Joe Dispenza who is phenomenal!

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin Před 4 měsíci +1

    Can I ask from what age did you start to have anxiety? Did you have that since you were a preteen?

  • @editinglearn4395
    @editinglearn4395 Před 3 lety +5

    Suffering rn

  • @dompurpura
    @dompurpura Před 3 lety +3

    Shaan, do you have a patrion? I would love to give back to you for giving so much to me. Thanks

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  Před 3 lety +16

      Best way is to help someone else :)

    • @dompurpura
      @dompurpura Před 3 lety +8

      @@byebyepanic you are a legend.

  • @laurenbaldwin6068
    @laurenbaldwin6068 Před 3 lety +2

    Is this fo DPDR i have it feel like giving up

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 Před 7 měsíci

    My biggest symptom is insomnia and loss of appetite. And also loss of appetite. How did you start getting those things back?

    • @ElenaRata-iv5pk
      @ElenaRata-iv5pk Před 6 měsíci

      Yeah me too exactly insomnia and loosing a appetite and loss weight. How you accept insomnia and be friend with when you feel so bad. But I’m still wake up and do lots of stuff. I’m not afraid to go out or in shop and if I sleep 4-5 hours I feel better. Pray for you to start feeling better soon!!

  • @tonima4784
    @tonima4784 Před 2 lety +1

    I can't sleep because of anxiety. Or not good sleep.

  • @SoberAgoraphobic
    @SoberAgoraphobic Před rokem

    I get intrusive thoughts..I don't know how to move forward riding in car because my kids are with me and I fear if I react

  • @byebyepanic
    @byebyepanic  Před 3 lety +8

    To accelerate your recovery journey, book a discovery call to see if the mentorship with Shaan will help your specific situation:
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  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 Před rokem

    Was Nico recovered when you two worked together?

  • @suukinsin6771
    @suukinsin6771 Před rokem +1

    My anxiety went away just after 1 week of black seed oil daily...all the inflamation and stress in my body dissapered..great oil..iherbs

  • @nitesh7397
    @nitesh7397 Před 3 lety

    Is the freeze response also Anxiety?

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  Před 3 lety +1

      It falls under the stress response. For simplicity we throw it under the anxiety umbrella. It’s a different mechanism, but the solution is the same . Good question tho h

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 Před rokem

    It becomes familiar ....ya

  • @johnlant1730
    @johnlant1730 Před 3 lety +7

    Shaan why does the body change up symptoms on you. Sometimes I feel like my body is saying this symptom isn’t getting a reaction from him anymore so let’s now send this. Sometimes I feel like I have the upper hand on this then I will get a new symptom and be like WTF is this now. Is your body intentionally looking to spark fear by doing this?

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 Před 3 lety +6

      U dont need books to move over anxiety , the easiest way to recover is to absolutely do nothing and live ur life back , u want the mechanism behind it ? Intense fear stored in the mind and body , does the body heal ? Yes . How ? By releasing the fear (aka u feeling rotten and fearful ) do u let it ? No , there u go u stay in the cycle , the longer u stay the longer the memory the longer the recovery . Its not magic its a pattern , and to answer ur question why the symptoms change because an anxious traumatised mind will play every trick in the book to survive ..... ur job is not even accepting ur job is to live ur life fully with or without anxiety

    • @johnlant1730
      @johnlant1730 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you friend. This makes complete sense.

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct Před 3 lety

      @@ghassenbohli4056 so acceptance

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 Před 3 lety

      @@Idontknow-uq2ct when u tell people accept , their anxious mind outsmart them and turn it to a technique to get rid of anxiety

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct Před 3 lety

      @@ghassenbohli4056 some do do that but acceptance is not supposed to be used as a technique

  • @tannerbrandon5211
    @tannerbrandon5211 Před 3 lety +3

    Did he experience 24/7 depersonalization? Did he recover?

  • @kamaconnection
    @kamaconnection Před 3 lety +3

    That quote is from joe dispenza

  • @katelyndefreitas2810
    @katelyndefreitas2810 Před 2 lety

    I'm stressing out but only getting fatter :-(

  • @ApulicaOfficial
    @ApulicaOfficial Před 2 lety

    he says he still has some symptoms..how can u tell he is recovered...u can say he is managing