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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2023

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  • @Emma-pe7tz
    @Emma-pe7tz Před rokem +78

    I love how calm you were while you explained the situation. You are such a great mom!

    • @schoolwerk3744
      @schoolwerk3744 Před rokem +5

      Calm and unbothered 👏🏾✌🏾I love to see it

  • @kittywafffles
    @kittywafffles Před rokem +132

    Growing up with rigid parents who would not have let me do that kind of stuff freely, I appreciate this so much cause not only should there not be quick assumptions, but also let your kids play and be kids. I can’t wait to watch my baby who is only crawling run around and play someday, thank you for your videos! 💕

  • @monicadelreal8212
    @monicadelreal8212 Před rokem +52

    Honestly, they look like they’re enjoying summer, using their imagination, and building summer memories. You’re doing nothing wrong. People just find unnecessary things to be upset about. You and your wife amazing moms.

  • @witheredbonniez
    @witheredbonniez Před rokem +192

    People need to chill

  • @TheSlb1984
    @TheSlb1984 Před rokem +18

    Lol, funny how they assumed it was an AirBNB and then came for blood like y’all were just trashing homes and moving on to the next without a care in the world.
    My parenting style is so much like yours. Live and let live and clean it up after 🤷🏾‍♀️. Childhood is only a speck in our timeline on this earth but it’s so critical to who we are, let kids live it!

  • @duncansonoryan
    @duncansonoryan Před rokem +39

    Y'all are amazing parents. Don't let those judgmental folks get you down.

  • @tracinha6935
    @tracinha6935 Před rokem +34

    It’s crazy that people would see your content and then think you’d let them destroy someone else’s property. You’re raising kind, thoughtful boys who respect others! Don’t let anyone drag your shine, Ms. Chang! Happy pride month! ❤

  • @killacraft131
    @killacraft131 Před rokem +64

    I don’t understand why anyone would ever say some of those things. Obviously you are a wonderful parent! I am from Georgia too and watching your videos reminds me of being a kid in the south where you had to just make it work. That creativity feels so lost among the youth and it is definitely a good thing for them to be able to have fun so openly. We love you ms Chang!

    • @hollieu8757
      @hollieu8757 Před rokem +3

      I am also from GA as well, and this was just how we “summertime.” Mom always, and I mean always, ensured we cleaned up, but the fun that was had made the clean up worth it...almost! 🎉😂

    • @karenneill9109
      @karenneill9109 Před rokem +1

      I think it’s called racism, homophobia and classism. The assumption that it isn’t their property underlies the comments. ‘How can two lesbians, one who is black, and one a lowly teacher, own such a lovely summer home? They MUST be renting it.’. It’s screwy thinking, but those are the assumptions that bigoted people make about others. (The fact that regardless of money, the Changs are classy as they come doesn’t get through those biases). Frustrating, eh?

    • @hollieu8757
      @hollieu8757 Před rokem +1

      @@karenneill9109You made such valid and articulate points in your comment. Thank you! I wish everyone came from a place of kindness and love like the Changs, so obviously do. These two moms are doing a fantastic job, and so many could benefit from parenting/living life with the zeal and kindness they have. Thank you for your input. It helped give words to feelings I had but couldn’t quite express. It’s maddening that such bigotry and hate exist in our world, especially towards such kind-hearted people.
      Maybe with education (which you are providing) and love, we can somehow overcome this! Happy summer! ❤️

  • @hollieu8757
    @hollieu8757 Před rokem +10

    If we never let kids make messes, then they never learn how to clean anything up. Life is messy, and cleaning it up takes lots of practice. Your little men are practicing skills!❤🤣 You’re an amazing Mama, and anyone who thinks you or your beautiful wife would leave anywhere “trashed” hasn't followed you at all.

  • @anniekorn577
    @anniekorn577 Před rokem +34

    I love how confident you are in totally being yourself and not apologizing for allowing your kids to be kids! Nowadays kids don't get to be kids for very long and everyone has an opinion about what you're doing! Keep being you!

  • @patmeyers7184
    @patmeyers7184 Před rokem +12

    I have been a daycare provider for 39 years. My yard has many bare spots from lots of playing and digging holes. At the moment I have six children playing happily and using there imaginations. I wish Ms Chang taught in our school district. I love her sense of humor.

    • @janinelew2483
      @janinelew2483 Před rokem

      I have the same situation!😂 Homedaycare, 6 kids, and bare spots!😂🤣

  • @reversestudios1055
    @reversestudios1055 Před rokem +8

    I agree with you, those other people have no right to attack you and your family for having fun, especially when it’s on your own property

  • @gratefulgram
    @gratefulgram Před rokem +7

    Wow, those very opinionated people are something. Just keep being you and you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Much love and many blessings

  • @toniross8759
    @toniross8759 Před rokem +4

    Even if it was a b&b. Let them have fun and clean it up later. I am sure the b&b would not get upset. As long as you left it the way you found it.

  • @jobethdavis9720
    @jobethdavis9720 Před rokem +5

    I am a retired teacher …and mom of now grown daughters. Imagination in play is SO important. I am so happy when I see parents or teachers posting about the creative play the kids are involved in. I’m so sorry people misunderstood what was going on here.

  • @embrio.
    @embrio. Před rokem +8

    My parents hated a mess, so I was always walking on eggshells. It's lovely to see you demonstrate something different ♥️

  • @firebear369
    @firebear369 Před rokem +2

    Wow, maybe OG Chang could prank some other people's lunchs because they obviously need a little humor in their lives. Keep doin' you! Your family is awesome

  • @Autumn_Green7
    @Autumn_Green7 Před rokem +5

    Good on you for speaking ur mind ❤

  • @sarahdoanpeace3623
    @sarahdoanpeace3623 Před rokem

    “For those of you who enjoy a pine cone less yard, I hope
    Y’all having a good time!” Lol! You rock!!!! Thank you!

  • @pookieloo7707
    @pookieloo7707 Před rokem +15

    I honestly assumed it was your home. You have said in multiple videos that you are going to the lake house or the cottage or whatever term you used. So I assumed you owned the land. I am suprised so many people think you would allow that to happen on another persons property. But that is a fault of thier own device, either they know people who would do something like that, they have done it/would do it themselves, or they have had it done to them. Either way, I do not see why they thought that your cute 2-3 minute video was the end of the story. It certainly was not the beginning, so I do not see why they would think it was the end. I am sorry you had to deal with that crud. Hope you have an amazing summer!!

  • @vzmkitty
    @vzmkitty Před rokem +11

    You’re an awesome parent. When I watched your video I thought “those kids are creative and having a ton of fun!” My kids would also be pulling the grasses and playing with them. Let those kiddos enjoy all the sunshine, outdoors and free play they want!

  • @montananerd8244
    @montananerd8244 Před rokem +3

    All the hard work of maintaining a perfect lawn will ultimately get you....a nice lawn. So glad I was raised rural, we got to PLAY! I have a feeling New Mrs Chang didn't grow up necessarily taking it for granted that she'd have a wife, 2 kids, and a summer place...let her enjoy momming, she's obviously a hands on, involved, loving mama & partner, etc. I was mad because I thought there were actual frat boys being destructive (I'm slow on the uptake sometimes), but active play and destructive adult shenanigans are not the same. Maybe we assume, based on every tiktok Jere has made, that the Changs are great parents unless we have hard evidence otherwise.

  • @heatherh.j.6369
    @heatherh.j.6369 Před rokem +2

    Seriously! Why do some have to create drama when it's not necessary. I love that your kids made their own Mario cart obstacle course. I love that your boys get outside to use their imagination & you keep them safe & happy all the meanwhile. While not being a helicopter. PPL, SERIOUSLY, CHILL! Keep mommin' just how u do Jere.

  • @witheredbonniez
    @witheredbonniez Před rokem +7

    Love your videos❤

  • @OhMyCherries
    @OhMyCherries Před rokem +4

    Absolutely right we should be lifting each other up not tearing down.
    Personally 'messy play' is when kids can be their most creative and curious but this is from a girl who grew up in the English country side.
    Stuff can be cleaned when you are ready to clean stuff.
    Enjoy your holiday ❤

  • @jessicalynn9173
    @jessicalynn9173 Před rokem +1

    I completely agree!! We all don't parent the same, and things are tough on our kids. There's so much more pressure on kids today, and if there's a momma letting her lil ones enjoying themselves, they are just letting their kids, be kids!! ✌️💕

  • @BrendaBodwin
    @BrendaBodwin Před 5 měsíci

    Im 100% country. From the mountains, & farmer/rancher from birth. Let the kids play. Your doing a great job. 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @christined4842
    @christined4842 Před rokem +7

    I grew up like that and had the absolute best childhood. My family actually owns vrbo rentals and the kids can be hard on things but honestly for the price people pay to stay we just let them have fun and replace things occasionally as needed. They’re only kids once!

  • @goblin7762
    @goblin7762 Před rokem +12

    Happy Pride!! :))

  • @camillalindeblad4492
    @camillalindeblad4492 Před rokem +1

    Funny how perception works. I saw your video and thought it was so refreshing that all of you were so relaxed and enjoying your vacation in your own summerhouse

  • @ronaseiple
    @ronaseiple Před rokem +1

    You just keep doing you. You and your wife are fabulous, Moms. Happy Summer✌️❤

  • @lifeincolor2045
    @lifeincolor2045 Před rokem +10

    I just recently found you, and I have completely enjoyed watching your shorts. I think it’s awesome to let kids just be kids. And who cares if they pull a few pieces of grass to make swords with. I would join right in with them. It’s summer vacation, I think you guys are awesome, and I enjoy watching you content. Also, if ppl would just chill this world would be a better place. Keep up the awesome content!

  • @IamSnowbird
    @IamSnowbird Před rokem +4

    I wonder why people jumped to the conclusion it was an Air b&b? I love kids enjoying themselves outside. Being in nature is so important for kids. There is a woods by my daughter's house and I love seeing all the kids go back there (supervised) to play. Vacation houses are meant to be relaxing. So what if there are some toys scattered around. So glad you and your wife can offer the boys a place to play in nature and enjoy a relaxed lifestyle. I'm a retired teacher and I know how precious summer vacations are.

    • @pandorahunter
      @pandorahunter Před rokem +6

      The are women and one is black and one is a teacher so obviously they can't have property let alone 2. It's bigotry, that's why the comments were attacks and not asking if it was theirs first. Still none of our business really, social media creators do not owe us explanations or full inclusion there's some weird thing with some thinking they do.

    • @valcomments3045
      @valcomments3045 Před rokem

      Wow that's quite the accusation. I think a majority of people only own one home if they even own a home at all and most of the time those people assume the same of others especially such down to earth, humble people such as the Changs. I highly doubt most people assumed that based on race or gender or even one person's career.

  • @shannonly23
    @shannonly23 Před rokem

    My gosh. The quickest way to find out who has too much time on their hands is posting something that shows unabated fun. Haters will hate…and most of them do because they are jealous. I hope you continue to enjoy your summer and thanks for sharing it with us.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @findingfreedom9674
    @findingfreedom9674 Před rokem +1

    Honestly, when I saw that video I was so happy for your boys that you just let them be kids and do what kids do! A mess outside means they are being creative and using their imaginations. Keep on keeping on in your own unique way! You and your family bring a smile to my face. Thank you for sharing your life with us to bring a little joy to our world. 🥰

  • @LyricTheMusicFox
    @LyricTheMusicFox Před rokem +4

    I love when parents love their kids, I'll never want to be a mom but sometimes I see parents and kids just hanging out and being family and I have some motherly instinct, you're doing a wonderful job here and people need to just mind their own business if they can't be kind.

  • @debschlehlein5090
    @debschlehlein5090 Před rokem

    Love that you let the kids be kids. How fun! 😊

  • @andreaostler1710
    @andreaostler1710 Před rokem

    I wish my kids were little again. I miss those days of imagination and play, and yes, even the messes.

  • @andreaf5765
    @andreaf5765 Před rokem

    Ugh internet "parenting" moms are always the best smh. You seem to be raising amazing kiddos!! ❤

  • @laney120
    @laney120 Před rokem +4

    I’m so sorry that you had to deal with that!🥺 It’s frustrating when people assume before knowing the whole story and telling you how to be.
    You are an awesome mom! You keep supporting and encouraging your kids to be creative!! My best memories growing up are when my brother & I were turning a box into a spaceship and all sorts of imaginary creative ideas with whatever we had around us.🥰
    Love your videos, thanks for the smiles & laughs and enjoy you vacation!!!!🌻💛🤍🐸

  • @ruggedcoons
    @ruggedcoons Před rokem +1

    Online unsolicited judgement is OUT OF CONTROL. They are literally RUINING it for everybody. People can’t just be cool anymore. Social media has unleashed this entire herd of “I know what everyone else should be doing and how they should be doing it”. Anybody who knows Mrs Chang knows she would NEVER let her kids ruin another persons property. So maybe if you don’t really know someone just keep scrolling and keep your two cents worth. ✌️ it’s good, y’all

  • @yowzersnow
    @yowzersnow Před rokem

    MissChang, I wish more parents were as thougtful as you. You examine situations without prejudice and then lead with kindness and grace. I raised 3 kids and I was strict but not rigid. There were 4 rules my kids had to follow and those rules were not negotiable. Those rules were,be kind, help without being asked,be polite and respectful, clean up any mess you make. My kids are incredible adults now and part of that is because they had the freedom to be themselves within certain boundries.

  • @iCookMe
    @iCookMe Před rokem +2

    Oh Ms Chang, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with that, it was a fun reminder of childhood imagination and play! Pretty sure you even stated that in the og vid… hope your lake time is lovely and filled with many more days of play and joy!!! 🌻☀️✨

  • @kakainisnato
    @kakainisnato Před rokem +1

    Them keyboard warriors are wild.
    You’re a really chill mom and a great example for me who wants to have kids one day! Please keep the videos coming.

  • @RC_0669
    @RC_0669 Před rokem

    Mine are adults now and I wish I could go back and worry less about the mess. They are only little for the shortest amount of time. Hang in there, mama!

  • @jeremyouellette2842
    @jeremyouellette2842 Před rokem

    I absolutely love you, your family, and your content… Lmfao when you shut the haters down with “it’s OUR property!”

  • @kelley695
    @kelley695 Před rokem

    I LOVED THAT VIDEO!! I even made a comment about how much I loved your boys imaginations. We all parent differently and people need to understand that but you and your wife are amazing. Parents put your hater blockers on. Keep doing what you doing mama.❤❤

  • @elainecobb6583
    @elainecobb6583 Před 11 měsíci

    Ms. Chang: You rock. Please don't ever change. Your friend, Elaine from Florida. ❤️😎🌴

  • @evar.7286
    @evar.7286 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Honestly your wholesome way of addressing issues is…well…adorable and sweet. Idk how anyone can be negative with you? I really can’t imagine that. Your like the sweetest mom ever ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Julie-si3hi
    @Julie-si3hi Před rokem

    As a child who wasn't allowed to play freely/get dirty/make a noise....i thank you for being awesome parents x

  • @abbybrowitt1658
    @abbybrowitt1658 Před rokem +12

    YES!! 🩷 My 2 boys (a month from 16 & 14) just left for a mission trip to Florida this morning, so I NEEDED to see your positive video 😁🥰 Thank so much for all the love you spread!!

    • @pookieloo7707
      @pookieloo7707 Před rokem +1

      My prayers are with you and your boys. You are raising them right, good job!

    • @abbybrowitt1658
      @abbybrowitt1658 Před rokem

      @@pookieloo7707 Thank you!! 🥹🥰 We wouldn’t be this far without Him 🙏🏼❤️

  • @amyspeers8012
    @amyspeers8012 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love you and your wonderful family. I figured you were at your own property. I am so sorry you had such negative comments. Much love from SW France.

  • @pandorahunter
    @pandorahunter Před rokem +1

    Plain and simple IGNORANCE they thought you couldn't own that space HA. I appreciate your calm demeanor as I am not that way and have to work hard to not go back at people like that. Aways a great teacher thank for sharing your family and yourself, were better for the example❤

  • @Small_Lady
    @Small_Lady Před rokem

    It's amazing how calm and respectful you are. It doesn't even have anything to do with me and I got madder than you did 😂😂 I was up in every Karen's comments😂😂

  • @gimmeamarg
    @gimmeamarg Před rokem

    I once heard someone say “messes make memories.” That shifted my whole concept of play being messy. My childhoods happiest moment were toy throw about, my hands in some mud, and bare feet in the grass. Idk guys take a deep breath and let it go because the pictures of your clean home on your Instagram story doesn’t actually matter when your kids were screamed at to clean it up.

  • @riversongsmelody
    @riversongsmelody Před rokem +2

    I grew up in Georgia and it melts my heart to see kids having fun outside and getting creative! That’s how memories are made❤

  • @crisVA510
    @crisVA510 Před rokem

    Agreed! We have two teen boys who are delightful, kind, and helpful AND YET we sometimes refer to our basement as “the frat house” cause they aren’t always the tidiest. 😆 But they are quick to clean up when reminded and are generally helpful. Anyway, I get it and agree with you 100%. Enjoy your break! Love your videos! Keep being you.

  • @Avizarr
    @Avizarr Před rokem +5

    Let kids express themselves. Especially in this day and age. I never see any kids outside playing or being creative. It breaks my heart because that’s all my friends and I would do. It warms my heart to know that your kids have creative ideas for games. That video made me smile. You could clearly see how much fun they were having just by the state of the yard. Thank you for being understanding and fun parents ❤️

  • @heiditate6989
    @heiditate6989 Před rokem

    No big deal that they had a good time and glad that they helped clean up. Beautiful place. It looks so peaceful and serene which is exactly what you need at the end of the school year lol. I'm a substitute teacher and I just love the kids.

  • @Nopeydope
    @Nopeydope Před rokem +1

    I love how supportive you are and so amazing you are, some people need to take a chill pill

  • @kimberlygathings2936
    @kimberlygathings2936 Před rokem

    You are an awesome mom .

  • @byeteaching
    @byeteaching Před rokem

    Can’t worry about what people think. You keep doing you!! ❤❤

  • @jameseddy7485
    @jameseddy7485 Před rokem

    You rock as a parent.

  • @rf3811
    @rf3811 Před rokem

    They are boys with a lot of energy, and it is so great for their health in every way !! ❤❤

  • @bethanyk.5378
    @bethanyk.5378 Před rokem

    I always appreciate that you always respond with kindness.

  • @lisalee9182
    @lisalee9182 Před rokem

    We ran through the country side like the wild feral kids we were. Let kids have fun!

  • @kayti8719
    @kayti8719 Před rokem

    I think it’s awesome that your kids had a blast!!

  • @heather1872
    @heather1872 Před rokem

    Enjoy your kids. ❤️

  • @michellelee5163
    @michellelee5163 Před rokem

    Great mom.❤❤❤

  • @half-n-half8646
    @half-n-half8646 Před rokem

    "I picked up the pine cones first, and then I just started having my kids do it"
    Haha, yes, same!

  • @carriedobbins2742
    @carriedobbins2742 Před 11 měsíci

    Sending you and your wife all the mom ❤❤. Keep doing you!

  • @nicolejones8807
    @nicolejones8807 Před rokem

    You are the sweetest. I love listening to your voice and watching your shorts!

  • @tonyawood2911
    @tonyawood2911 Před rokem

    You handled that with grace.

  • @shellypiester6094
    @shellypiester6094 Před rokem

    Don't let people get to you. You're doing a great job with your boys, and they're making great memories. Enjoy your summer.

  • @natashakinsley6642
    @natashakinsley6642 Před 11 měsíci +2

    People need to get a life your kids are amazing they are just having fun you are amazing strong beautiful mum ❤️

  • @Raevynwing
    @Raevynwing Před rokem +1

    I love how people just automatically assume that it's somebody else's property. People just need to keep their thoughts to themselves sometimes. They are your kids, you've got it covered. They need to back off. Hard.

  • @jamwi5233
    @jamwi5233 Před rokem

    All positivity here - love it when the kids are outside and having fun. We live with woods all around us so I love it when my kids are in the woods making a mess and getting muddy. All fun here - love your positive videos!

  • @FeistyShlomit
    @FeistyShlomit Před rokem

    Your yard is my whole childhood!!!❤❤❤

  • @michellek2872
    @michellek2872 Před rokem

    Creative play is awesome and the best part of childhood.

  • @thealanford4780
    @thealanford4780 Před rokem

    My goodness your house do what you want! People are crazy you are an amazing parent!

  • @DAQ34
    @DAQ34 Před rokem

    You're so level headed and not critical but set your clear boundaries, I love it!

  • @beautifullifesageg.3951
    @beautifullifesageg.3951 Před rokem +1

    I love that you handle things like this with humor and class. Assumptions are the root of all ( fill in the blank.). I never doubted whether it was your property. I thought how lucky you are to have a relaxing and beautiful place to take your family. Folks should assume the best. Life’s more peaceful that way. ❤

  • @Starburst514
    @Starburst514 Před rokem +4

    People complain when kids spend time inside, and say "kids don't play outside anymore" and then turn around and complain and moan and police how "unruly" kids are when they do actually play outside. Ya wanna say to them "so what? Did you just play hopscotch and do community service as a kid?" You can't please anyone 😑

  • @AbsolutelyNot86
    @AbsolutelyNot86 Před rokem

    100 percent! People need to RELAX! It was all great momming on your part! I also love when my kids get creative outside etc.

  • @meowlissa8031
    @meowlissa8031 Před rokem

    Absolutely love your channel, your family is beautiful...keep enjoying your summer filled with love n making memories ✌️❣️

  • @kateroberts000
    @kateroberts000 Před rokem

    Sending love from Canada-mom of 4 just absolutely adoring you and your precious family. You are a gift of kindness, love and joy. Such Amazing mama's-lovin you!!!

  • @bforgiveness
    @bforgiveness Před rokem

    Well said! Life is too short to be little. Keep smiling, Valerie in Colorado 🏞️

  • @lisemzarate4029
    @lisemzarate4029 Před rokem

    Yes Ma'am I appreciate your patience as a human being, your a great example ❤

  • @jessicam6694
    @jessicam6694 Před rokem

    Im just glad your kids are even outside playing!
    Glad you are letting them have fun.. actually playing mario cart sounds like fun! 😊

  • @littlefreak42069
    @littlefreak42069 Před rokem +1

    Jere followed you here from ig😊 you do enough as a teacher and parent. If any idiots dont like anything u do screw them. Your also a good parent❤

  • @chatterboxbudgets
    @chatterboxbudgets Před rokem

    Sounds like a great place to just relax & enjoy being around each other!

  • @elaineparker1458
    @elaineparker1458 Před rokem

    Oh my I love this so much, just stumbled across your channel. Your family is charming ❤️

  • @RifeLife420
    @RifeLife420 Před rokem

    You’re an amazing fun mom & person Ms. Chang! Don’t let the haters wipe away that beautiful smile & energy of yours! ❤

  • @christak8221
    @christak8221 Před rokem

    Your attitude about life is absolutely infectious! You inspire me daily to just enjoy life and all things that are beautiful and positive around me. Thank you.

  • @kaseyy51
    @kaseyy51 Před rokem +1

    Love your positive and sensible approach to parenting! Some of these folks need to mind their own business. Thanks for all you do!

  • @twilaa4606
    @twilaa4606 Před rokem +2

    Oh good grief...some people really need to get over it. I knew when I was watching it that you were being funny when talking about the "frat boys in training." They are children having fun. At the end of the day, the messes are cleaned up just in time for a new day with new messes to start. These are the times the memories are created. Those children are going to one day be in their 30s, 40s, and 50s and will look back and say "I remember our summers at the lake." Live, love, and enjoy each day with all the blessed messes!

  • @LOL6JIGGY
    @LOL6JIGGY Před rokem

    When I watched it, all I thought about was how great of a time the kids were having with their summer. They are only this age once. And it never occurred to me that there wouldn’t be a clean up session either at the end of the day or before you left. Those people must have not had good childhoods. Also, I hate Pompus grass so let them tear it up. It’s nearly impossible to kill it even if you want to. Keep making their wonderful childhood memories. ❤️

  • @Aunty_JoJo
    @Aunty_JoJo Před rokem

    I sooo wish I lived next door to y'all! You'd be amazing neighbors 😁

  • @MeOnly580
    @MeOnly580 Před rokem

    I’m sorry they are being boys! I live in the country too and I love when my son uses his imagination outside ❤ I loved seeing that the boys were having a blast!

  • @daniellej1077
    @daniellej1077 Před rokem

    Those big Mabel’s we got one for our kids and literally I couldn’t get it back off the water😂😂 I had to get my sons grandpa out there to help, since it was his boat we borrowed. Must be doing something right to have folks coming this hard at ya. Love you & your family❤