Ok let me ask you this if you made a best friend you two are just getting to know each other would you start off with your darkest and biggest secret. Or of your on a date is the first second third or 61st thing your gonna say your deepest darkest secrets. People hide stuff from others cause it’s a natural behavior for humans and for you to just look at things so shallow honestly has me confused if I’m for disappointed or amazed
The thing is that people forgot the op is a sociopath and don’t even understand why it was bad to lie or hide his past to his partner And in the logic we can diagnose someone has a sociopath before 15 even if the kid has a lot of symptoms
That is a good point! I am like how can you not tell your wife about your background? I feel for the wife she really walked into it! How would she know or figure it out?
@@AdrienneBingi think it was bad for him not to tell her but I'm also wondering why she didn't ask? If she did and he blew her off why would she marry him? 🤔 I think the fault is on both of them
@@AdrienneBing he wants to leave his past behind he changed but she blames him for their son because a lot of the times when people are sad and they can't do anything about it they blame it on someone else
The last part is very disturbing 😢😢, the guy literally want to either manipulate his wife into liking him or abduct their son. He sounds very disturbed and anyone believing that he is changed haven't heard the last part. This guy is a walking Red flag 🚩. I hope that poor woman is safe
I mean, I just think it’s more of a funny feeling he gets like when I do something dumb and I remember it makes me laugh and feel a little nostalgic. I think that the feeling he gets.
I mean, I just think it’s more of a funny feeling he gets like when I do something dumb and I remember it makes me laugh and feel a little nostalgic. I think that the feeling he gets.
@@Eggsforlifeif you listen to the extended version. He screams at his wife, he wants control of his marriage and he’s not taking his son’s behavior seriously. This is designed to test social behavior and how much people will tolerate from others in difficult situations. It’s to develop algorithms to match the majority of watchers. This is why we get violence in our feeds.
He is literally describing a sociopath when he talks about himself. How can you hide something that important and not understand why the other person is angry that you manipulated them into getting married to you by omitting a very serious information about yourself. This man is a sociopath himself.
He manipulated the wife into marrying him by not disclosing very important information about his past, 2. He doesn't see anything wrong with what he did, 3. He is gaslighting his wife for being mad at him for lying by omission, 4. Even the way he narrates the story, no empathy, just a psychopath angry at the fact that he is not getting his way. This man is a red flag 🚩 I listened to the whole video and the last update is very scary, OP wants advice on how he can manipulate his wife into loving him again, alternatively he is asking for signs that someone is leaving so that he can abduct their son and leave flee first. This guy is sick, I just pray that the poor woman is safe because it doesn't sound like she is😢
I feel so bad for that woman, I hope she can get her son in behavioral therapy and get away from her husband. He is the problem for sure. It wasn’t fair for her to have made the decision to have kids with him with no way to know what she was getting into, that’s something he definitely intentionally hid because he knew how she would most likely react. OP ITA 😒
He says he wants control of his marriage and screams at his wife at a shop. He still has ASPD. The kid is picking up on that. The dad is not innocent. Most kids are mean because they are acting out. Something else is going on. Parents should talk to the family who enjoys their son’s company. He must feel safe with them.
Should get the son into behavioural therapy so he what and what isn’t acceptable (behaviour wise) he doesn’t need be emotional, but he learn to understand the logic and understand in that way,
He didn't seem sociopathic throughout the whole part related to the present,if he said things in sociopathic mannerisms than he defiantly meant them differently.
He manipulated the wife into marrying him by not disclosing very important information about his past, 2. He doesn't see anything wrong with what he did, 3. He is gaslighting his wife for being mad at him for lying by omission, 4. Even the way he narrates the story, no empathy, just a psychopath angry at the fact that he is not getting his way. This man is a red flag 🚩
As someone who is at least partly sociopathic I know how they think,he meant that way different than how it sounds.He meant "How can I make this marriage situation easy to stabilize?"
This dude is acting like this is all NBD and "it's all behind me now" bullcrap and you dragged this woman into it, the wife should leave him with his devil spawn that he lied to create with her and run for the hills.
@@pwn3ronetwothree Well, he deceived her. There's a very good chance she would have never had the kid with him to begin with if he had been honest. Maybe the noble thing to do would be take the kid and try to fix him but since the problems were caused by dad's lying I wouldn't blame her if she left him to fix the problem he caused himself. Either way from the way he reacted with his "Well I guess you were too dumb not to end up with a POS like me!" comment it's clear she needs to leave him no matter what... And if she does try to take the kid and fix him I hope he doesn't just end up hurting her for it...
Y have an aunt who was on a "similar" situation, but her husbad actually explained this to her, about the problems his family has and they decided not to have kids, they are the happiest couple ever.
Idk in their writting it has a lot of words like "control" And also i feel like op is not telling much info about his marriage before the situation. Edit: I do not think the husband has changed
first off Op is the a hole completely you have to tell your partner these things, especially this will dictate their future and the future of your children. This is something you communicate about not you talk about in the midst of all this and that when you’re married and have a child that is basically acting out behaviors you used to act out they should put their child in therapy and OP needs to get therapy and they need marriage counseling. What is wrong with them he clearly hasn’t gotten better because he thought it was OK to one not tell his wife about his past, but to then get mad Or upset about how she’s reacting about it and be confused why she’s upset when this is really important information like oh my God
It does matter because even though it’s his past it’s still a part of him and if your married and have children you should at least know those basic parts.
@@Buttercake293sociopaths, narcissists, and other personality disorders cannot be cured, they are literally who you are. Op clearly hasn’t learned how to cope with his mental problems and is actively passing them onto his kid.
OMG I really feel for the wife! She really walked into it! Listening to him he is exactly the same! I hope she does take the son and flee, go underground at this point she has to do all she can to save the boy!
This is so creepy. The updates keep getting worse and worse. It's like we're listening to the inner thoughts of a sociopath as he unravels. He always has an excuse for his bad behavior, for yelling at his wife in a store, for hiding his past. It doesn't sound like he really changed deep down. He genuinely cannot understand the wife's viewpoint, like he doesn't have the capacity. He mentions, "how can I control this situation" and mentions things she likes and wants to get done, like the new landscaping and ebike because he expects other people will view that as a viable option to try to manipulate the wife with objects. I'm sure people called him out for that on Reddit and then he said it was "for personalization". So stupid. The creepiest part is when he realizes the wife has seen his true self, he starts to think about abducting their child and running off. It's scary that some people out there are like this and are so good at hiding it at first, but they cannot hide it forever.
I don’t think he meant it in a bad way. When i talk i sometimes phrase things differently than what I mean. He wants to have his wife see his view of things, and the things he mentioned were not wats to manipulate her but as what I believe to be sorry gifts or goals for the future. And for the child part, think about it as your pet you raised with your sibling and suddenly they want to take it away from you, your only option is to take it first. He is being reasonable and his wife is a little over dramatic.
I think both the husband and the child should go to therapy, therapy for the child as a way to get their behavior more manageable early on, and therapy for the adult so he can realize that his actions tend to be dick moves
Honestly, I question that. It all felt to... real, I suppose. I myself am diagnosed sociopathic, but am in therapy for it and its going really well, but the whole thing was to close to my own thought process and mind. Pointing out something a bit more believable, he mentioned that he'd been going under aliases in the past. Then, he was allegedly making new accounts to say it was fake. The whole thing doesn't feel right.
Definitely the asshole. This is stuff you need to tell your partner long before marriage. On top of that, how can you say these behaviors aren't very alarming? They're very alarming! Children are not typically amused by people in pain. Wtf
I don't think OP is completely wrong, but I don't think he's right either. It seems like he's sociopath, or similar, and told from his viewpoint, they way he sees things, he's not the asshole. That perception isn't quite right, but I believe he legitamitely thinks leaving everything in the past was correct and he doesn't understand why his wife was upset. I think this is something they need to try to work through
@@radish6740bro what is wrong with you? If you listened he’s changed, if people born with things they can’t control that means they don’t deserve love. It’s not his fault and if she couldn’t notice it their whole marriage,hes clearly changed. And from what you’re saying you should leave the baby because he did nothing wrong, if OP could do it the baby can also change. wtf is wrong with you. People with disabilities don’t deserve anyone or love. Your insane and just horrible
@@radish6740 first of all he said she was taking the kid with her, but I guess that's less relevant. But I mean like. should the dude really just be all alone just because he's a sociopath? I think they may be able to work it out through therapy. It didn't seem like he even realizes he still has sociopathic tendencies, how he mentions "that was his past" and how he hasn't shown any sociopathic behaviors somce. I don't think he realizes that functioning like a normal person/possibly emulating the emotions and behaviors pf a neurotypical person doesn't make him not a sociopath, and I think they should attempt to pursue therapy before she runs away with their child
I'm not really sure it is actually fake. He gets it spot-on, and mentioned having an affinity for aliases just because he could (mentioned in update 1), then turned around and allegedly used aliases to say it was a social experiment
In this story,they need both therapy and counseling to overcome this situation and hopefully salvage this relationship before it's too late down the line.
At first the advice is to find a good counselor for their son. The dad needs to get counseling & they need marital counseling. Then they all need specialists. Finally they still need counseling but the wife needs a good lawyer, custody of the son, a restraining order…
It's in the DNA but you was doing this to fix this! And it should be done too! If not he will end up murdering someone and end up in jail! Please take good care of him and do your best to support and explain things for him! ❤ from another mother in another country to your son🥰
Trying to change? Dude disclosed his past, then gets angry at his wife for not reacting the way he wanted him to. Even worse, he doesn't see anything wrong with lying to a person he is married to because he is a pathological liar, which is a trait for psychopaths. He haven't changed a bit, he is just an old psychopath.
Your family has a long history of mental and behavioral issues, and it seems that the seriousness of the situation is not being fully recognized. Despite your efforts to work through these issues, there appears to be a lack of regret for the actions committed. Now, with concerns that your son might also be struggling with similar problems, it is imperative to acknowledge the gravity of the situation. Perhaps normalizing certain behaviors, whether from family members or elsewhere, has led to a lack of perception of these behaviors as abnormal. There is an issue that demands attention. It appears that you are not genuinely interested in resolving issues with your wife, but rather attempting to manipulate her into accepting the situation and dismissing the manipulation and mental health concerns. The fact that you are more concerned with her 'fleeing' with your son, and calling her an unfit parent for him, and the fact that you have said you lost control of your marriage like your wife is something to control, makes me concerned for her safety. What have you done or said to her that would make her feel so unsafe? Your reactions to your past about how you almost feel happy remembering those times and don’t seem to exhibit even an ounce of regret is telling. The thing to remember with sociopaths and psychopaths is that they do not necessarily understand morality and do not understand empathy for others, because all they’re concerned about is themselves - what makes them happy, what brings them pleasure and joy. And it’s really scary when somebody that you have known a good portion of your life, maybe even your whole life, reveals themselves to be a sociopath or psychopath. Because in the end, you don’t know how far they will go to ensure the happiness that they have created for themselves is not lost. Or what they willing to do to maintain control of there lives and the lives of those around them.
psychopathy is hereditary but extremely rare and this sounds like every single person in his family has it go to an ivy league psychology school and become rich for just being studied kid will own up in politics or CEO so his future is safe too
Quick question if your son was four how would he have threatened to stab her with the knife he probably didn't even know what it was and the wife was probably lieing
How would he not know what a knife is are you crazy. You must be because at 4 I’m sure he has Sean people use knives and used those little ones himself.
He may have seen them use them, but he's 4yrs old! He probably doesn't even understand/comprehend that a knife could even be dangerous. A 4yr old is still in the developmental stages of their life, they're still learning. How would he know if it was dangerous unless someone showed him or explained it to him? You don't gain knowledge from nothing. Both his parents are doing a shit job. With a child, they need structure, and clearly, his parents are not providing it. As far as therapy goes, they all need it. Their marriage needs it, and their child needs it. A child can sense when something is wrong in the home. He honestly could be acting out for attention for all we know. Yes, mental health is important to check into, especially with a family history, the op has, but how his wife is handling it, its childish, the silent treatment gets you nowhere, it only makes things worse. They both need a reality check.
Honestly I don’t think either of them are innocent here. Op withheld information about him possibly having ASPD or being a Sociopath (it wasn’t clear to me what exactly he has going on mentally), or that his family on both sides have multiple mental disorders. One could argue that this wasn’t completely his fault because if he is a sociopath or has ASPD he wouldn’t fully understand how important that is. He was also clear he didn’t grow up in the best circumstances, which would add to his case of why he wouldn’t know because he was probably never taught about it. The wife on the other hand isn’t fully innocent here either. Yes Op wasn’t truthful and yes he made a fair number of mistakes, but nothing will get fixed if she keeps bringing up and rubbing Op’s mistakes in his face. Even when they started talking about things that had nothing to do with his mistakes or the mental health issues in his family. Frankly after so much of that it would piss anyone off, and at this point it doesn’t even seem like she wants to fix anything she just wants to keep the excuses to continue punishing Op. Neither one of them are right here, and everyone in this family should probably start therapy if it’s not too late already, especially the kid from sounds of it.
People of this comment section,circle round'.I have sociopathic tendencies,mother nor father did anything wrong...The son is ACTUALLY displaying more psychopathic tendencies something that would be inherited not from the father but a more distant relative.Nobody is at fault.
i agree with the wife on the note that he should've told her his past but i feel like she resents him for something he cant control also sociopathic tendencies ARE NOT GENETIC only psychopathic tendencies are genetic i feel like everyone in he comments is being to hard on the husband
Is it me or is she not aware that she’s doing the same thing shaming you basically bullying you and acknowledging the simple fact that you have changed. It is clearly that you have been a good husband and a father to your child and her so she’s gonna suddenly throw away just by bullying you and constantly reminding you of your past?? I mean, she is better herself all of a sudden, dismissing all the positive things that has happened after you change your ways. And what’s even more bothersome is that instead of focusing that energy to find a solution for your child mental well-being she is mostly focusing on in you and your past. It’s not about her or you is about trying to find a solution for your child and that is something that she’s not understanding.
Comments refuse to acknowledge that OP was actually trying to get better. He is no longer the man he was, even if he was a bit nostalgic. Everyone pretends he's some kind of psychotic monster when he tried to comfort her even when she blamed him for the kid being a sociopath
Story one: his wife was older than him right now when she was carrying the child, maybe is her organs that failed her son? How come no one mentioned this?
She was 31 when she was pregnant. That's not very old and if the father has multiple family members with mental issues it is probably his genetics that caused the issues.
first off Op is the a hole completely you have to tell your partner these things, especially this will dictate their future and the future of your children. This is something you communicate about not you talk about in the midst of all this and that when you’re married and have a child that is basically acting out behaviors you used to act out they should put their child in therapy and OP needs to get therapy and they need marriage counseling. What is wrong with them he clearly hasn’t gotten better because he thought it was OK to one not tell his wife about his past, but to then get mad Or upset about how she’s reacting about it and be confused why she’s upset when this is really important information like oh my God He clearly hasn’t changed as much as he thinks he has, especially if he hasn’t put himself into therapy, or thought of putting his child into therapy, or even questioning his actions and self
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How can you just *not* tell your life partner about your past? How the hell do you just not ask your spouse about their past at all?
He didnt want to scare her off and for a good reason
This is the inner dialogue of a narcisist, this is how the justify themselves
@@loreposi92that’s a bit off of narcissism but in some way correct
Ok let me ask you this if you made a best friend you two are just getting to know each other would you start off with your darkest and biggest secret. Or of your on a date is the first second third or 61st thing your gonna say your deepest darkest secrets. People hide stuff from others cause it’s a natural behavior for humans and for you to just look at things so shallow honestly has me confused if I’m for disappointed or amazed
He already said it why he didn't told her
The thing is that people forgot the op is a sociopath and don’t even understand why it was bad to lie or hide his past to his partner And in the logic we can diagnose someone has a sociopath before 15 even if the kid has a lot of symptoms
That is a good point! I am like how can you not tell your wife about your background? I feel for the wife she really walked into it! How would she know or figure it out?
It's not bad to hide something unrelated to what and who you are now if it will cause something that everyone is put in a bad spot from.
@@AdrienneBingi think it was bad for him not to tell her but I'm also wondering why she didn't ask? If she did and he blew her off why would she marry him? 🤔 I think the fault is on both of them
@@AdrienneBing he wants to leave his past behind he changed but she blames him for their son because a lot of the times when people are sad and they can't do anything about it they blame it on someone else
The last part is very disturbing 😢😢, the guy literally want to either manipulate his wife into liking him or abduct their son. He sounds very disturbed and anyone believing that he is changed haven't heard the last part. This guy is a walking Red flag 🚩. I hope that poor woman is safe
He described his childhood as being nostalgic and happy, he obviously doesn't regret anything
I mean, I just think it’s more of a funny feeling he gets like when I do something dumb and I remember it makes me laugh and feel a little nostalgic. I think that the feeling he gets.
I mean, I just think it’s more of a funny feeling he gets like when I do something dumb and I remember it makes me laugh and feel a little nostalgic. I think that the feeling he gets.
How can you fix yourself if you've done no wrong?
@@Eggsforlifeif you listen to the extended version. He screams at his wife, he wants control of his marriage and he’s not taking his son’s behavior seriously. This is designed to test social behavior and how much people will tolerate from others in difficult situations. It’s to develop algorithms to match the majority of watchers. This is why we get violence in our feeds.
@@tamsintarshish3905 oh dang the algorithm is manipulative as fuck lol
The ai voice:👨👨👨👨👨👩👩👩👨👨👨👨👨👨
When the voice changed I started looking for a comment related to the ai voice
This man has not changed he just put up a mask of deception
He is literally describing a sociopath when he talks about himself. How can you hide something that important and not understand why the other person is angry that you manipulated them into getting married to you by omitting a very serious information about yourself. This man is a sociopath himself.
He manipulated the wife into marrying him by not disclosing very important information about his past, 2. He doesn't see anything wrong with what he did, 3. He is gaslighting his wife for being mad at him for lying by omission, 4. Even the way he narrates the story, no empathy, just a psychopath angry at the fact that he is not getting his way. This man is a red flag 🚩
I listened to the whole video and the last update is very scary, OP wants advice on how he can manipulate his wife into loving him again, alternatively he is asking for signs that someone is leaving so that he can abduct their son and leave flee first. This guy is sick, I just pray that the poor woman is safe because it doesn't sound like she is😢
I feel so bad for that woman, I hope she can get her son in behavioral therapy and get away from her husband. He is the problem for sure. It wasn’t fair for her to have made the decision to have kids with him with no way to know what she was getting into, that’s something he definitely intentionally hid because he knew how she would most likely react. OP ITA 😒
If this is a true story this guy
ís crazy. Totally a narcissist too.
Bro the last part is him trying to figure out how to tell his wife his side of the story. He is not bad.
Agreed. He is definitely a red flag 🚩
He says he wants control of his marriage and screams at his wife at a shop. He still has ASPD. The kid is picking up on that. The dad is not innocent. Most kids are mean because they are acting out. Something else is going on. Parents should talk to the family who enjoys their son’s company. He must feel safe with them.
That's a very good point! There's obviously a reason he after out at home and school, although it could just be down to being a spoilt entitled brat!
Should get the son into behavioural therapy so he what and what isn’t acceptable (behaviour wise) he doesn’t need be emotional, but he learn to understand the logic and understand in that way,
0:57 for people who came from shorts 👍
Thank you!!
You droped this 👑
i saw this after i watched the video 💀
Your a gift from God 🙏
@@lv_xx same lol 😂
Sociopath tries to convince world he ‘got better’.
"instantly regrets it 💀"
He didn't seem sociopathic throughout the whole part related to the present,if he said things in sociopathic mannerisms than he defiantly meant them differently.
He manipulated the wife into marrying him by not disclosing very important information about his past, 2. He doesn't see anything wrong with what he did, 3. He is gaslighting his wife for being mad at him for lying by omission, 4. Even the way he narrates the story, no empathy, just a psychopath angry at the fact that he is not getting his way. This man is a red flag 🚩
It’s literally OP fault wife don’t do nothing wrong
Take control of his marriage? Yikes
As someone who is at least partly sociopathic I know how they think,he meant that way different than how it sounds.He meant "How can I make this marriage situation easy to stabilize?"
@abbottschorsch2056 That was my conclusion, too.
This dude is acting like this is all NBD and "it's all behind me now" bullcrap and you dragged this woman into it, the wife should leave him with his devil spawn that he lied to create with her and run for the hills.
"His devil spawn" Sanest reddit story commentor.
@@pwn3ronetwothree Well, he deceived her. There's a very good chance she would have never had the kid with him to begin with if he had been honest. Maybe the noble thing to do would be take the kid and try to fix him but since the problems were caused by dad's lying I wouldn't blame her if she left him to fix the problem he caused himself. Either way from the way he reacted with his "Well I guess you were too dumb not to end up with a POS like me!" comment it's clear she needs to leave him no matter what... And if she does try to take the kid and fix him I hope he doesn't just end up hurting her for it...
Y have an aunt who was on a "similar" situation, but her husbad actually explained this to her, about the problems his family has and they decided not to have kids, they are the happiest couple ever.
A broken clock is right twice a day.
How has counseling been overlooked?
Idk in their writting it has a lot of words like "control"
And also i feel like op is not telling much info about his marriage before the situation.
Edit: I do not think the husband has changed
Confirmation of a background check before marrying.
first off Op is the a hole completely you have to tell your partner these things, especially this will dictate their future and the future of your children. This is something you communicate about not you talk about in the midst of all this and that when you’re married and have a child that is basically acting out behaviors you used to act out they should put their child in therapy and OP needs to get therapy and they need marriage counseling. What is wrong with them he clearly hasn’t gotten better because he thought it was OK to one not tell his wife about his past, but to then get mad Or upset about how she’s reacting about it and be confused why she’s upset when this is really important information like oh my God
He wanted to block out that life hes not got those mental illnesses anymore so it doesnt rly matter they just have to discipline they're son
It does matter because even though it’s his past it’s still a part of him and if your married and have children you should at least know those basic parts.
@@Buttercake293sociopaths, narcissists, and other personality disorders cannot be cured, they are literally who you are. Op clearly hasn’t learned how to cope with his mental problems and is actively passing them onto his kid.
OMG I really feel for the wife! She really walked into it! Listening to him he is exactly the same! I hope she does take the son and flee, go underground at this point she has to do all she can to save the boy!
This is so creepy. The updates keep getting worse and worse. It's like we're listening to the inner thoughts of a sociopath as he unravels. He always has an excuse for his bad behavior, for yelling at his wife in a store, for hiding his past. It doesn't sound like he really changed deep down. He genuinely cannot understand the wife's viewpoint, like he doesn't have the capacity. He mentions, "how can I control this situation" and mentions things she likes and wants to get done, like the new landscaping and ebike because he expects other people will view that as a viable option to try to manipulate the wife with objects. I'm sure people called him out for that on Reddit and then he said it was "for personalization". So stupid. The creepiest part is when he realizes the wife has seen his true self, he starts to think about abducting their child and running off. It's scary that some people out there are like this and are so good at hiding it at first, but they cannot hide it forever.
right, and it's not like. Lets go to couples, lets get therapy. Blah blah blah.
I don’t think he meant it in a bad way. When i talk i sometimes phrase things differently than what I mean. He wants to have his wife see his view of things, and the things he mentioned were not wats to manipulate her but as what I believe to be sorry gifts or goals for the future. And for the child part, think about it as your pet you raised with your sibling and suddenly they want to take it away from you, your only option is to take it first. He is being reasonable and his wife is a little over dramatic.
We found OOP
I think both the husband and the child should go to therapy, therapy for the child as a way to get their behavior more manageable early on, and therapy for the adult so he can realize that his actions tend to be dick moves
I understand why he wouldn’t want to share his past but he definitely should’ve
If anything they really all need therapy
if this child is real i hope they're okay
anyone gonna talk about the voice swap? 💀
Yeah
everyone here doesn’t have the attention span to see at the end of the video this was all fake 😭
Honestly, I question that. It all felt to... real, I suppose. I myself am diagnosed sociopathic, but am in therapy for it and its going really well, but the whole thing was to close to my own thought process and mind.
Pointing out something a bit more believable, he mentioned that he'd been going under aliases in the past. Then, he was allegedly making new accounts to say it was fake. The whole thing doesn't feel right.
Definitely the asshole. This is stuff you need to tell your partner long before marriage. On top of that, how can you say these behaviors aren't very alarming? They're very alarming! Children are not typically amused by people in pain. Wtf
You ARE the FAH! Concern for kids starts BEFORE they come! And yes, I DO mean FAH!
She wouldn't be abducting the son, she'd be saving him from the sociopath father.
0:58 for people from the short
This kind of behavior has reduced positive outcome if treated after the age of 2….
I don't think OP is completely wrong, but I don't think he's right either. It seems like he's sociopath, or similar, and told from his viewpoint, they way he sees things, he's not the asshole. That perception isn't quite right, but I believe he legitamitely thinks leaving everything in the past was correct and he doesn't understand why his wife was upset. I think this is something they need to try to work through
Your advice is for the wife to stay with her sociopathic husband & their hellspawn?
@@radish6740bro what is wrong with you? If you listened he’s changed, if people born with things they can’t control that means they don’t deserve love. It’s not his fault and if she couldn’t notice it their whole marriage,hes clearly changed. And from what you’re saying you should leave the baby because he did nothing wrong, if OP could do it the baby can also change. wtf is wrong with you. People with disabilities don’t deserve anyone or love. Your insane and just horrible
@@radish6740 first of all he said she was taking the kid with her, but I guess that's less relevant. But I mean like. should the dude really just be all alone just because he's a sociopath? I think they may be able to work it out through therapy. It didn't seem like he even realizes he still has sociopathic tendencies, how he mentions "that was his past" and how he hasn't shown any sociopathic behaviors somce. I don't think he realizes that functioning like a normal person/possibly emulating the emotions and behaviors pf a neurotypical person doesn't make him not a sociopath, and I think they should attempt to pursue therapy before she runs away with their child
Remember people this is fake, to get to angry at each other
Thank fuck too because imagine 😰
I'm not really sure it is actually fake. He gets it spot-on, and mentioned having an affinity for aliases just because he could (mentioned in update 1), then turned around and allegedly used aliases to say it was a social experiment
Sounds like me in kindergarten
In this story,they need both therapy and counseling to overcome this situation and hopefully salvage this relationship before it's too late down the line.
At first the advice is to find a good counselor for their son. The dad needs to get counseling & they need marital counseling. Then they all need specialists. Finally they still need counseling but the wife needs a good lawyer, custody of the son, a restraining order…
Tell him to lock in
.... sir you are crazy
Full stop.
Why the story tolled twice
It's in the DNA but you was doing this to fix this! And it should be done too! If not he will end up murdering someone and end up in jail! Please take good care of him and do your best to support and explain things for him! ❤ from another mother in another country to your son🥰
At least he’s trying to change and if his soon is exhibiting these behaviors at least he’s trying to keep his marriage running and help his son
Trying to change? Dude disclosed his past, then gets angry at his wife for not reacting the way he wanted him to. Even worse, he doesn't see anything wrong with lying to a person he is married to because he is a pathological liar, which is a trait for psychopaths. He haven't changed a bit, he is just an old psychopath.
@ lebitsolebeserome4682 he didn’t lie he just did not say what he was uncomfortable saying.
Your family has a long history of mental and behavioral issues, and it seems that the seriousness of the situation is not being fully recognized. Despite your efforts to work through these issues, there appears to be a lack of regret for the actions committed. Now, with concerns that your son might also be struggling with similar problems, it is imperative to acknowledge the gravity of the situation. Perhaps normalizing certain behaviors, whether from family members or elsewhere, has led to a lack of perception of these behaviors as abnormal. There is an issue that demands attention. It appears that you are not genuinely interested in resolving issues with your wife, but rather attempting to manipulate her into accepting the situation and dismissing the manipulation and mental health concerns. The fact that you are more concerned with her 'fleeing' with your son, and calling her an unfit parent for him, and the fact that you have said you lost control of your marriage like your wife is something to control, makes me concerned for her safety. What have you done or said to her that would make her feel so unsafe? Your reactions to your past about how you almost feel happy remembering those times and don’t seem to exhibit even an ounce of regret is telling. The thing to remember with sociopaths and psychopaths is that they do not necessarily understand morality and do not understand empathy for others, because all they’re concerned about is themselves - what makes them happy, what brings them pleasure and joy. And it’s really scary when somebody that you have known a good portion of your life, maybe even your whole life, reveals themselves to be a sociopath or psychopath. Because in the end, you don’t know how far they will go to ensure the happiness that they have created for themselves is not lost. Or what they willing to do to maintain control of there lives and the lives of those around them.
psychopathy is hereditary but extremely rare and this sounds like every single person in his family has it
go to an ivy league psychology school and become rich for just being studied
kid will own up in politics or CEO so his future is safe too
5:22 this had me dying
The wife lied he is so young 5:42
bro the end.
Talk about a unreliable narrator
Quick question if your son was four how would he have threatened to stab her with the knife he probably didn't even know what it was and the wife was probably lieing
How would he not know what a knife is are you crazy. You must be because at 4 I’m sure he has Sean people use knives and used those little ones himself.
He may have seen them use them, but he's 4yrs old! He probably doesn't even understand/comprehend that a knife could even be dangerous. A 4yr old is still in the developmental stages of their life, they're still learning. How would he know if it was dangerous unless someone showed him or explained it to him? You don't gain knowledge from nothing.
Both his parents are doing a shit job. With a child, they need structure, and clearly, his parents are not providing it.
As far as therapy goes, they all need it. Their marriage needs it, and their child needs it. A child can sense when something is wrong in the home.
He honestly could be acting out for attention for all we know. Yes, mental health is important to check into, especially with a family history, the op has, but how his wife is handling it, its childish, the silent treatment gets you nowhere, it only makes things worse. They both need a reality check.
@@FloralLife02completely agree sorry I just don’t think it’s the full story
@@JaylinFahnbulleh-jg7dh I mean he probably won't be able to comprehend what hes saying he probably doesn't know what stabbing someone means
Good god have ANY of you met a 4 year old?? 💀
4:28 voice change 💀💀💀
Why is this ai so angry,
Honestly I don’t think either of them are innocent here. Op withheld information about him possibly having ASPD or being a Sociopath (it wasn’t clear to me what exactly he has going on mentally), or that his family on both sides have multiple mental disorders. One could argue that this wasn’t completely his fault because if he is a sociopath or has ASPD he wouldn’t fully understand how important that is. He was also clear he didn’t grow up in the best circumstances, which would add to his case of why he wouldn’t know because he was probably never taught about it. The wife on the other hand isn’t fully innocent here either. Yes Op wasn’t truthful and yes he made a fair number of mistakes, but nothing will get fixed if she keeps bringing up and rubbing Op’s mistakes in his face. Even when they started talking about things that had nothing to do with his mistakes or the mental health issues in his family. Frankly after so much of that it would piss anyone off, and at this point it doesn’t even seem like she wants to fix anything she just wants to keep the excuses to continue punishing Op. Neither one of them are right here, and everyone in this family should probably start therapy if it’s not too late already, especially the kid from sounds of it.
No you’re ok
whoa... that poor woman he's married to.
People of this comment section,circle round'.I have sociopathic tendencies,mother nor father did anything wrong...The son is ACTUALLY displaying more psychopathic tendencies something that would be inherited not from the father but a more distant relative.Nobody is at fault.
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The way he talks, it seems like he is also a narcastic person. A true sociopath
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you should've told your wife about your backstory regardless if its important or not
apologize to her
he definitely did something to the wife
Him : "I've changed"
Also, him : "but I refuse to twll my past to my partner."
Bro, really be living in delulu land hard thinking he's in the right.
This guy is so in the wrong. He’s so weird the way he talks about himself and his relationship. The “balance” is off ???
i agree with the wife on the note that he should've told her his past but i feel like she resents him for something he cant control also sociopathic tendencies ARE NOT GENETIC only psychopathic tendencies are genetic i feel like everyone in he comments is being to hard on the husband
also the wife was being too hard on him
@@user-zp5cy9hf6pare you stupid? He lied about being a dangerous person. Wife needs to run!
That kid has a demon
Ur cooked
Is it me or is she not aware that she’s doing the same thing shaming you basically bullying you and acknowledging the simple fact that you have changed. It is clearly that you have been a good husband and a father to your child and her so she’s gonna suddenly throw away just by bullying you and constantly reminding you of your past?? I mean, she is better herself all of a sudden, dismissing all the positive things that has happened after you change your ways. And what’s even more bothersome is that instead of focusing that energy to find a solution for your child mental well-being she is mostly focusing on in you and your past. It’s not about her or you is about trying to find a solution for your child and that is something that she’s not understanding.
Comments refuse to acknowledge that OP was actually trying to get better. He is no longer the man he was, even if he was a bit nostalgic. Everyone pretends he's some kind of psychotic monster when he tried to comfort her even when she blamed him for the kid being a sociopath
I feel like why is everybody mad at the OP the wife never asked
😂😂😂😂 you can't be serious
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Story one: his wife was older than him right now when she was carrying the child, maybe is her organs that failed her son? How come no one mentioned this?
R u dumb that is not how that works
She was 31 when she was pregnant. That's not very old and if the father has multiple family members with mental issues it is probably his genetics that caused the issues.
Her organs Simone obviously needs to go back to elementary school
She was not old, she was 34 bruh, WTF?
My mum had me at 36 - it has nothing to do with it? That’s not how it works? It’s much more likely because of the family line.
Lying, fraud, theft aren’t psychopaths or sociopathic traits
This guy is completely the AH, terrible parent
first off Op is the a hole completely you have to tell your partner these things, especially this will dictate their future and the future of your children. This is something you communicate about not you talk about in the midst of all this and that when you’re married and have a child that is basically acting out behaviors you used to act out they should put their child in therapy and OP needs to get therapy and they need marriage counseling. What is wrong with them he clearly hasn’t gotten better because he thought it was OK to one not tell his wife about his past, but to then get mad Or upset about how she’s reacting about it and be confused why she’s upset when this is really important information like oh my God He clearly hasn’t changed as much as he thinks he has, especially if he hasn’t put himself into therapy, or thought of putting his child into therapy, or even questioning his actions and self
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