Modern Female Says There's No Reason To Be Good Women, Tonight's Conversation Topic SB & Men Respond
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Communication or not. People cheat because they want to. End of story.
I believe you're correct
Or some cheat to “End the story.” Cheating is an unofficial breakup on women & men’s parts.
Cause you cheat slut
Exactly.
I don’t agree with that. Reason is that my friend she this man. And she felt like she was doing everything possible to stop him from doing the same thing. I told her give it to him more. Keep his balls, MT and see what happens. It worked, when she couldn’t have sex. give him head or hand off him. Do something keep it empty.
“When you enter the relationship to give as opposed to to receive
Well said !!!!
Kita didn’t drop any bombshells in that clip.
Women do THE EXACT SAME THING. How many times do we here “he was boring” or “he didn’t have enough time for me” or “I got bored” as a woman’s justification for cheating?
Most of the time, it is, they play the game, they go out with the boys, go play ball. All good, but where is the time and communication between all that. The only communication you want us to understand is reaching for them pants to come off. That's the only clear communication you want our full divided attention on. Lmao. Ijs!
Well I that clip the guy was specifically making a justification for men.
@@trenastewart2599you just proved the point, it's never enough!
This was got to be one of the best and most insightful conversations I had ever heard on a podcast. 😮 I truly learned something today.
If there's no sex happening then that's a conversation. Whatever the reason is behind it, it needs to be addressed. There's a small window for something to change or the relationship needs to change.
oh sex is happening,just not with you.
If a man loses his job and lays around the house letting me handle everything, I would lose respect. If he's actively looking for a job, helping around the house, and still being a good husband, I would not lose respect for him.
Women with money again. Can you imagine a men and say the same thing?
@@Gmnjeanmem literally say if a women doesn't give sex then he will find someone who will. He will lose interest. The guy in the clip says if his women doesn't do tricks like another women he will stray. In our world, a man's wallet is like a woman's pu$sy
@@Gmnjean 👈 Broke @$$ N.....
@@Gmnjean 👈 Broke @$$ N.....
13:00 I find it funny and disingenuous that whenever an issue with the sexual portion of relationships comes up, women always default to “well the man must have done something wrong”
There are times, especially when a woman is in a relationship with a good man, where the man has done NOTHING wrong or different from normal, but he still winds up with a wife who is withholding.
This is why you get so many of these stories.
Sometimes the only thing that changed is the woman’s PERCEPTION of the relationship, her level of SATISFACTION with the relationship, her EXPECTATIONS for the relationship or some other internal mental/emotional gymnastics which she doesn’t voice, but thinks should be obvious.
We’ve all heard women use the excuse “it should be obvious” or “he should just know” or “he should be able to tell if her really knows me…”
In short, in many of these instances women are TERRIBLE communicators and the man has no idea what’s going on. Especially when many times the real issue is entirely on her end.
No lies spoken.
I agree 100%. Women are not the super amazing communicators they make themselves out to be. They are just as bad as men are, just in different ways.
My wife catfished me the other day, and now I feel guilty for cheating on her with my imaginations...😂
Caught the replay, great convo. Good topic. @SBU @LIT 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
It takes two people with emotional intelligence, effective communication, self-accountability, and security within the self.
Triggers happen, but you have to be mindful of your response.
We also have to acknowledge that many people are going into serious connections, and they are not compatible.
Chemistry is not compatability.
I think this all depends on the type of man or woman you are married to. A good man and a good woman are not having these problems.
Yes communication will always be a huge part of the relationship. It seems that a lot of women have no idea what it’s gonna take to keep a good man around. The woman in the video is lost. Not every man is gonna cheat on you.
Theres benefits in being a good woman of course. Us women who are “good” aren’t “acting” this way to put up a front for a man. It’s who we are at our core. You don’t allow another a person to change who you are at your core. You need to be grounded in your where you stand! Either your for the streets or your wife material.
If just out of curiosity alone after 9, 10 yrs is exactly why marriages are failing. Bc most don't wear jimmies if their making babies and in marriages or relationships. Trust me, I been there from a curiosity man. 💯
SB, Lost In Translation was 'found' by ME on Thursday's podcast.😅
He hit the 🎯 on ALL of his responses. Much 'respect' for sure.
😊 Lady M, I ♥️ you
@@SBULIVE
Backatcha! Mwuah💋
Communicating is one thing communicating effectively is another
Open communication is important.
We understand what she said and it makes sense too. We have to be honest, if you attract a highly desired person, that person’s sex drive and options are usually very high.
We are a shallow group of people, and did I mention selfishness.
@@SBULIVE I understand the shallowness and selfishness. Most women don’t won’t to work for anything they actually want or need and if a man has exactly what women say they want or need he’s going to supply as many women as he can, and those are the men and women who usually link up. Sad part is there are many of women like this but only few men who supply what women say or think they want or need.
Women the man you're looking for you put them in the friend zone those are the man that would treat you righteous and won't cheat on you but you don't want them. You want Lil D so we don't want to hear that BS
Not true
I’m a female & I agree. I’ve literally walked away from a proposal, now that man is married & I’m still unmarried with the man I waited to propose to me. I wish I had dodged that bullet‼️
Friend zone doesn't exist. What you want is for a woman to pick you because of some checklist, then 5 years in the marriage she stops having sex with you cause she never really likes you. You were just the safe bet, the "nice guy"
Cant cosign judgment free communication... some reasons for things aren't good ones and deserve judgement!!!
RIP TO THE BLACK COMMUNITY
The black community has been long dead for about 6 decades now.
The black community has been long dead for about 6 decades now.
The treatment after. Some men don't think it was a mistake.
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SB, this conversation is a great one, but too many times, black people want what they want instead of having respect for each other. Black people in these times are cursed with not learning anything from one another. This will be our demise until a time for another societal change. I appreciate you and your endeavors.
I definitely agree about the communication and not put in the effort or action of whether you wanna save the marriage or relationship. Women are divorcing bc we have those curiosity men who are never satisfied and always wanna test the waters regardless of the fact that when they do, its all about how they feel at the time and nobody else matters, most men will do anything to mess the relationship up and still blame and deflect it on you. I dont put all men in one basket, but I stopped dating and became happily single bc men just want their cake and eat it too and wonder why we dont submit and become masculine , as they say .. .... smh!
It appears as though we know what just don’t know how.
H- honesty
O- open-mindedness
W- willingness
Can we be honest?
Are we open minded?
Do we have the willingness?
She right.
She can’t get mad at that man for being truthful. ( Because Men and Women get cheated on ) 💯💯💯💯💯💯
I didn't listen to the message, but the topic moved me enough to comment.😊 Time has NO barren on one's values, morals, or accountability to God, yourself, and others (in that order). This brokenness has to be healed and it's through Christ. Now, there are some that are destined for evil. However, it's still their choice. Choose to make your life better with peace, joy, love, and positivity before anyone or thing else. Seek Jesus & start healing!
Women don't want to be accountable
Very True
Men are never accountable, it’s like it doesn’t even apply to them ever. And they always make up an excuse to try and justify themselves
I totally agree that there’s no need to fake being a good woman⁉️Stay in the street rotation and own it⁉️Good Women move in silence and good men will find them⁉️✈️💸✈️💸✈️🌎👑🦁🏆🔥
There are only two kinds of men 🤔........"GOOD MAN" & "BAD MAN"💯.... choose wisely 🧐
Now, I didn't get a chance to listen to the podcast. However, this title got on my nerves more than anything because it's time for "modern" women to open their minds. It should always be about HER self worth, confidence, and love above any relationship. Women, you will NEVER experience true love from ANY man until you accept God's unconditional love & see yourself HOW HE truly see you. You have all that you need to WIN and your "man" will see YOU! There will be snakes, pits, and unknown occasions, but you're STRONGER in HIM! Life is so much better in HIM.
If a man loses his job, he then now must wash the dishes in order to get some… that’s the disrespect that he’s talking about
@darlyantoine3738, just as I mentioned in the clip, my husband washed dishes and prepared meal prep would make me want to love him more. That means he understands he's the head, and his provision goes further than his income. When did household duties become a form of disrespect?
The problem isn’t what your doing right but what your doing wrong. You might not be listening to the concerns he does bring to your attention. Do You disrespect him? Do you emasculate him? Do you undermine his authority? Are you combative and confrontational as opposed to being assertive? Imagine having to deal with that for 10-15 years and nothing being done about that or perhaps getting worst as time goes on.
I've said it before kita always plays to the crowd.
She plays the female victim hood.
I enjoy her because she compiles the talking points that are made. She brings up the constant contradictions in the messaging that women receive when it comes to dating and being a good gf/wife.
@@destined2bebossy I understand. She sounds like a person that has not gone thru the process of healing. She is hurt and now trying advise others which I feel is dangerous. The dark skin Women (who is beautiful) provides information that will help with someone's growth in relationships.
@@orangegreen7 pointing out contradictions has nothing to do with healing. If men say it's the women's fault for the man cheating because she wasnt playing her role properly, but also say it's just in a man's nature to cheat even if the women I doing everything right. It doesn't take a healed or not healed person to see that makes no sense.
@@destined2bebossy If you ever want communication to break down in a committed relationship, listen to her. Your goal will be accomplished. If a man is listening to these videos trying to learn female nature and improve his understanding of women, she offers NOTHING. I can listen to anyone else on this panel and pull something away to ponder. When this individual speaks or utters anything, it is a negativity. She is not offering anything to a man who is truly trying to improve his communication and understanding of Women. If a man would constantly echo the issues men have had dealing with women he is called sassy, gay, he told who hurt you. I get it. It's about putting the other gender down.
Kita says stuff like this all the time, I can tell she has deep wounds and emotional scars. Some Men and Women get bored and curious in stable or unstable relationships, this is nothing new. I have had many women tell me they cheated or left the relationship out of sheer boredom even though she has a good man and provider. The bottom line is that communication has to be very direct and honest to go the distance. Couples need to do the work in the relationship, this includes sex, regular dating, vulnerability, and intimacy.
Marriage should be the most important relationship you have in life, outside of your relationship with God. Let's take life seriously!!!!
Kita plays to the crowd. She doesn't belong on stage with trip and kitty.
If there's no need for women to be good women, then there's no need for men to be good men. You see how this logic WORKS?!! Now regarding women initiating 70-80% of divorces, this is true. But regarding the reasons for these divorces, adultery is now 5th or 6th on the list depending upon which part of the country (USA) where these divorces are happening. In conclusion, "The Men Are Cheaters Narrative" is old and played out!!
@JamesASharp, please add additional information to sexless marriage, divorce, and cheating. We need solutions
A good man leads, and a good woman follows. Most good or real women will never cheat if she was led by a good man who made her feel secure in the relationship by effective/affective communication. If intent or motives were not in the hearts of many in a bad way, we all would be good.. ijs!
@@trenastewart2599 You're partially correct. Women follow and submit to good men if those women see and respect their good husbands as their first choice.
@@SBULIVE Men need to stop anticipating getting with women who will never see & respect them as their first choice, and women need to stop constantly anticipating getting men who will never be their first choice. I think that it's that simple. Men need to value themselves.
SBU live is the place to be but these CZcamsrs is why I stopped watching these other platforms and videos these dudes will say anything for likes and attention I wish they would stop sayin all men cheat when majority of men get ignored smh
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Let stop categorizing sex under wife's duty and let's put it under optional. Duty means without exception. Let's make sure we make a disclaimer with the wedding vows too that as long as she deems his emotional contributions to her are to her satisfaction then sex can be requested. Let's be clear that a wife's duties are only applicable when it comes to her boss. Even though she doesn't feel appreciated at the job, she must still perform there. Please, add this to the wedding vows. Thank you and I appreciate it guys.
@charlesbeatty888 In our conversation at SB Nation, we are using marriages built on GODs principles and the Bible as the blueprint. We know we all fall short, but we have a solid foundation to build on. So the husband and wife bodies belong to each other's and we are becoming one. Let's remove all obstacles and get out of the dysfunction.
@@SBULIVE thanks for responding. This is the reason for my comment. I'm coming from a 100% biblical principle. A woman cannot provide excuses for holding back sex especially if it's emotional. That's biblical. If there's a medical reason of course, that's legitimate. Just like a man can't stop providing for her on days the husband believes she's not up to par, a woman cannot withhold sex with the excuse , " how she's feeling about him". Of course, issues need to be talked out but, wife cannot with hold sex. Biblically, it's a wife's duty. Duty means with exceptions.
Yea your original comment is confusing. Sex is a duty and all the emotional communication that comes with it must be had and even then both partners must still perform
@@JesRocWitMe that's not scriptural. At least Paul wrote, do not withhold sex from each other unless both agree. He didn't mention a disclaimer. Your wife cannot refuse. We cannot add to the Word.
@@charlesbeatty888 well i stand corrected
The problem is men have duties and women a have options. That’s a recipe for a bad marriage.
Men need to do a better job vetting women.
All these sound bites sound good. But in practice they are difficult to maintain. God’s marriage and the legal marriage are not the same.
Women never hold other women accountable. Anisa just made a bunch of nonsense to give women no accountability.
Stop making excuses for these women.
I like this dude lost in a translation.
SB is lying….. No man want to make you food to get your respect.
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Is this bill Bellamy I’m hearing???
Naaa🙅🏾♂️aaaaw.......Be a heaux.
Having random reckless sex comes with not so good consequences.
The woman on the panel (Kita Rose) is typically known to be the ‘bitter’ one on the panel. Her opinions and views on relationships are extremely pessimistic and seem to come from a place of personal hurt. She needs some therapy. The guy that was speaking also misses the mark often, as seen here.
I've said it over and over. Kita doesn't belong on the panel with kitty and trip. Kita plays to the crowd.
She annoys me almost every time she opens her big mouth!!
@@johnmoore4714Facts. I have said this as well
@@nakitapalmer656Facts
The sex issue, your guest said its God, its medical, then she blamed the man. Sad!
Very sad 😔
She didn’t even answer the question. Why women not sleeping with thier husbands and she turned it on the men. Boy they need to always blame a man. The shit is sad.
But the question was about why men cheat. Not "why women withhold"
I hope each of you go home and pick up your Bible. Start with the first 4 books. Then read Matthew and Hebrews. Read Numbers 11. Read Revelations. It's right there if you'd stop ignoring Truth.
SB will be live on Tuesday, let's talk about what you translate different from the Bible🫣
@@SBULIVE sounds good. I take the Bible just as it is written. I love that there is no need to translate or interpret. We can take it literally
Men want variety, get over it ladies
Random reckless sex. Ladies, please preserve yourself for marriage.
So why aren't they honest about that in beginning?
*Some* men want variety. Please do not speak for all men on this issue.
And if a man wants variety, then he needs to tell a woman upfront that he cannot commit to monogamy, instead of lying to her and making a promise he knows he can't keep, and then following it up by betraying her trust, betraying the relationship, and engaging in A LOT of dishonesty and sneaking around in order to hide their infidelity.
And if men choose to want variety, us as women, can choose to want the same. Yall ain't special: can't reproduce or birth your own child, can't mirror and multiply your own value as of in a household, career, or family. We can.
Moral obligation to the Universe.
You gonna get what you gave.
Yeah, it’s funny now ladies.
The karmic repercussions of yourself will break you.
If all women were good, men would not have the option to stray.
ALL MEN WOULD KNOW BETTER, DO BETTER, BE BETTER👈🏿🫡
Listen to yourself... "ALL men would DO better" => if women.... Meanwhile the conversation is what do we tell women who did the right thing... 🙄
Continue to do the right things (align with God) and preserve your
@@SBULIVE telling people the what without the how is quite dangerous. Not that I agree with your opinion.
@MissOshunPossible If a woman needs personal direction, she can definitely email me. But like I mentioned in the comment, continue to be a good woman and align with God. Once that relationship with God begins to form.......
@@SBULIVE The question isn't about anyone needs for direction rather you're disrespect inadvertently trying to be popular versus real. And based on how you move why should anyone contact you versus the men you seem to believe has all the answers for women's issues? Smh
For a young person to ask what's the incentive beyond maybe what I get when I die, that requires you to be experienced so that you can =>>innerstand