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  • čas přidán 12. 02. 2023
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Komentáře • 582

  • @vaijoyantakundu9670
    @vaijoyantakundu9670 Před rokem +96

    The content of these videos is so so unique...amazing clarity on an issue which no body will ever discuss..I really feel that these videos should be part of school and college curriculum of our country...priceless contents

  • @ritavaishnav6123
    @ritavaishnav6123 Před rokem +26

    Kitna sukoon milega aajke youth ko …they are lucky to get such videos ….we had to experience life the hard way as there was no clarity giver ….could have avoided so much heartburn…anyway umr ke saath maturity aa gayi …good for youth 👍 thank you for providing clarity ….God bless 🙏🏻

  • @vaibhavgautam4600
    @vaibhavgautam4600 Před rokem +35

    Just wanted to share... You can compare two salaries, two houses and perhaps two ages...
    But two lives (persons) are totally unique and incomparable. God bless all of us !!

  • @kalpanasriwastava3702
    @kalpanasriwastava3702 Před rokem +11

    Class bias is very true and real
    My in laws were from richer class
    They ill treated me always in life
    Now i am older ...
    So i am ok about it
    I am detached

  • @jdtalks24x7
    @jdtalks24x7 Před rokem +14

    Frustration comes when parents knowingly don't earn more money and relax throughout life thereby making the children poor.

    • @AnkitKumar-kk3iw
      @AnkitKumar-kk3iw Před rokem +3

      +1
      Mera baap to Kamata bhi nhi hai

    • @dshbhkt6186
      @dshbhkt6186 Před rokem +1

      @@AnkitKumar-kk3iw mera baap hi nhi hai

    • @sakshamprajapati1023
      @sakshamprajapati1023 Před 4 měsíci

      Bhai sabse bhadiya agar tumhare baski kamana khana nhi hai to bacche paida mat kro bekar mai auro ki zindagi bhi kharab kerni

  • @biswaMastAadmi
    @biswaMastAadmi Před rokem +15

    ID, It took me 4 years of working to realise this fact. I was amazed how colleagues with same salary have better life than me, now I know the fact. Thanks sir, wanted to hear this from long. I feel good now.

  • @profarvind
    @profarvind Před rokem +50

    100% identifying. Thanks for making this video. This video should be played in school, college and corporate houses. It will save people from developing negative thoughts and getting depressed. In my own case, I could not make much in life for all the reasons you said in the beginning. But now, after hearing you my regrets have disappeared. Yes, but my son will definitely live better life that me.

    • @Hypocrite420
      @Hypocrite420 Před rokem

      It is so funny that how we keep the baggage with us & someone says that it's a fuckin baggage you've been carrying since 10yrs & it looks so easy to drop it then n there n also looks foolish n painful to see that how we wasted so much energy for that

    • @DharmajBhardwaj
      @DharmajBhardwaj Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@Hypocrite420yes

  • @mohinderahuja8543
    @mohinderahuja8543 Před 7 měsíci +4

    गुरु जी,
    जल्दी से किसी को मैं accept नहीं करता, महीनो सुन ने के बाद आज कमेंट डाल रहा हूं,.
    You are very good in Clarity for youth.
    However I am 53 and relate in almost in all, what you say.
    I haven't seen such content any where and the style and presentation.
    I am impressed and bow to you.

  • @koustuvdutta
    @koustuvdutta Před rokem +18

    I liked the starting line concept very much. I think "don't compare others to yourself at all' kind of advice never works. So, whenever we are about to get frustrated by this comparison, the starting line concept along with the idea to focus on our own journey of life can provide a rational way to stay calm and satisfied!
    Thanks for the content!

  • @ManeeshSolankiVideos
    @ManeeshSolankiVideos Před rokem +8

    I also noticed this when I was in services. Leave the senior juniors, Group A officers compared their savings, assets with me, a Group C soldier.
    My parents were both working and have achieved a lot which gives me absolute financial freedom. My officer IC used to say in informal gathering that he has more money in PF, i felt- why is he comparing apples to oranges!
    You were about to say that 'I have seen this in services also' 😁

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 Před rokem +4

    Intersting topic. It's better to maintain distance from these kind of jealous comparing people. You find them everywhere. It could be your siblings, relatives, neighbors or friends.

  • @akshatsharma2064
    @akshatsharma2064 Před rokem +19

    Sir so many languages but you always speak #facts.
    Huge respect!

  • @Ajayvijayraniya
    @Ajayvijayraniya Před rokem +7

    बेहतरीन टॉपिक , सोच को नई दिशा देते हुए ।
    धन्यवाद अमित जी

  • @ravipato
    @ravipato Před rokem +6

    ID. True.... Most of the people in my family do lot of comparision and feel jelois of others. Baselining of their position of current and past and comparing that with ourselves will give clean comparision. Starting line is very important.

  • @jirgis13
    @jirgis13 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Agree with you. I stand on the shoulders of my grandparents and father, so don’t just compare with me, I have 3 generations behind me

  • @ashitmukherjee5934
    @ashitmukherjee5934 Před rokem +8

    Destiny sets the starting line different for different people.What an original idea of yours sir ji.🌹

  • @saleha575
    @saleha575 Před rokem +2

    Aajkal aise bahot km log h jo itna clear baat krte h....Sahi me Apni apni destiny ko accept karna bahot mushqil ho gya h.... Truely all youngsters need to hear this topic🙏

  • @apoorvchauhan4707
    @apoorvchauhan4707 Před rokem +4

    1000 percent you’ve hit the bullseye

  • @mysoredurgesha9712
    @mysoredurgesha9712 Před rokem +8

    Dear Sir,
    FANTASTIC ANALYSIS. MIND BLOWING EXPLANATION.
    The statement "There is nothing great in being either poor or rich" and also adding bombastic metaphors like "Being poor I struggled a lot and made every effort to come up in life". Being poor it is quite natural for anybody to work hard in order to come up in life otherwise please accept the status quo.
    In the below mentioned book
    Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - June 10, 2018
    by Yuval Harari (Author)
    Author makes a statement. If you find any rich person in any part of the world one thing is clear that he or she would have been born to rich parents. Because of this reason only "RAGS TO RICHES TO STORY" becomes sensational and it is a rarest phenomena.

  • @ajaykumar-banker
    @ajaykumar-banker Před rokem +8

    Excellent video. Always original, Always correct. Hard hitting and true. "Comparisons may be made only when the starting line is the same" Don’t compare yourself with people who are ahead by a generation as their parents have left them a fortune. Don't be bitter about your situation by comparing with them. Understand the difference.Dont be jealous. Accept your destiny and be at peace.

  • @supriyabajaj9822
    @supriyabajaj9822 Před rokem +1

    Yes identified. This gives lots of clarity and sukoon.

  • @tinathakur8698
    @tinathakur8698 Před rokem +7

    ID sir !! Amazing unique content you bring...no one talk about this. The best line was Garibi is not great thing. I don't understand why in india people glorify Garibi. You are truly blessing in my life sir 🌟🙏🙏

  • @auiiem
    @auiiem Před rokem +2

    Maharaj jee
    Excellent sukoon giving video to avoid useless frustration faced by youth. Which
    many times leads to many serious health issues.🙏

  • @anujbhardwaj5753
    @anujbhardwaj5753 Před rokem +4

    Enlightening video

  • @rushikesh.chaubal
    @rushikesh.chaubal Před rokem +2

    Absolutely brilliant and much needed for today's times!! ❤️👍🏻

  • @saumyapunekar8625
    @saumyapunekar8625 Před rokem +1

    Good one , nice topic need of the hour 😃👍❤️😇🙏

  • @skblabla
    @skblabla Před rokem +5

    Everything that you have told in your videos, at some point of time my husband has told these things to me..he is a wise man no doubt.

  • @puneetbasson5901
    @puneetbasson5901 Před rokem +2

    Moment of Truth... 👌

  • @manjurajput3946
    @manjurajput3946 Před rokem +3

    Yes sir.. fully identifying.

  • @akankiagrawal3313
    @akankiagrawal3313 Před rokem

    Yes, I identify with the issues & advice you bring

  • @ashalatadhone
    @ashalatadhone Před rokem

    Most fantastic....sir ji, behatareen content....

  • @sakshi23927
    @sakshi23927 Před rokem +3

    Last 19yrs.se is type ki jeaoulsy tolerate kar rahi hoon. My inlaws think why my myaka is fortunate & priviliged with money & family????
    They torture me mentally & curse my siblings also. 😔😓

  • @saimeghnathmacha4296
    @saimeghnathmacha4296 Před rokem

    You are changing my thinking and perspective!

  • @akhild69
    @akhild69 Před rokem

    Guru Tatva,
    Very true, well connected and very well explained.
    There is no point in being envious, accept and move forward

  • @juniorpratap
    @juniorpratap Před rokem +1

    Abs correct and well put

  • @realtimequickie
    @realtimequickie Před rokem +1

    Making total sense. Unfortunately people tend to compare unfairly

  • @priyanshtalan4343
    @priyanshtalan4343 Před 11 měsíci

    Good msg for youth
    Absolutely ✅️

  • @jayantdrummer
    @jayantdrummer Před rokem +29

    100% identifying. I think the art of comparing properly and effectively requires high-order thinking which majority of people (who can be otherwise smart) dont think about.
    Whenever my wife/friend shows some other person living a lavish lifestyle, the first thing I ask is how loaded are their parents. Agar loaded hain, tab mera brain ke andar ke comparison ka switch hi off ho jaata hai.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 Před rokem

      Right.Very wise thinking.

    • @ArvindSethi61
      @ArvindSethi61 Před rokem +3

      Good morning from ottawa .you have punctured various minds .keep,these type of videos in future .

  • @sahilsrivastava17
    @sahilsrivastava17 Před rokem +2

    Yes we are identifing❤

  • @amitsharma2686
    @amitsharma2686 Před rokem +2

    ID sir, what a way to communicate such a grave topic. Hats off to you

  • @mukul0786
    @mukul0786 Před rokem

    Bohot badhiya video..... 100 baat ki 1 baat....

  • @yogithashetty2587
    @yogithashetty2587 Před rokem

    Great video, so true 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @jasmitsingh3197
    @jasmitsingh3197 Před rokem

    Brilliant content
    Will be sharing in my channels

  • @rishabhchaudhary5126
    @rishabhchaudhary5126 Před rokem

    Kya bat kehte ho sirji.. Gazab

  • @latinopapita
    @latinopapita Před rokem

    What a content ...just ground breaking!!!

  • @AyushSingh-me5si
    @AyushSingh-me5si Před rokem +1

    Its a great video, I've spent years of my life feeling depressed because of this. Thankyou sir

  • @undiyos
    @undiyos Před rokem +1

    Very right. As said by you in the nepotism video, the difference between a struggler and a protégé is one generation.
    ID

  • @meenalpande2868
    @meenalpande2868 Před rokem +1

    This is 💯 % true sir.

  • @rahulsinghjosan10
    @rahulsinghjosan10 Před rokem +2

    Excellent concept and content, makes life easier

  • @nid2598
    @nid2598 Před rokem

    Very well said!

  • @gahland451
    @gahland451 Před rokem

    Very well identifying, as always a unique topic 👏 covered nicely thanks sir ji

  • @rahulk948
    @rahulk948 Před 5 měsíci

    100% identify this as 45 years old. Thank you for sharing this. Hope younger people understand this & avoid unnecessary stress.

  • @monalinmishra7514
    @monalinmishra7514 Před rokem

    Amazing and outstanding 👍

  • @hirokjkonwar8622
    @hirokjkonwar8622 Před rokem

    Needed to hear this. Thank you very much sir.

  • @rahulgautamj6351
    @rahulgautamj6351 Před 7 měsíci

    Great much needed! 🎉

  • @prakharsarkar691
    @prakharsarkar691 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Great clarity Sir

  • @anuanu2337
    @anuanu2337 Před rokem

    100% identify sir. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and guidance.

  • @nitishamishra5461
    @nitishamishra5461 Před rokem

    Video bhuttt acchaaa haii....Please keep continue😀🙏

  • @saikumarravula
    @saikumarravula Před rokem +1

    Yes sir, your videos are very much relatable and thank you for speaking hard facts without any filters.

  • @amaantalha1036
    @amaantalha1036 Před rokem +1

    Great analysis and teaching sir💐💐

  • @sandypearls5276
    @sandypearls5276 Před rokem +1

    Very nice content.. Great work!!

  • @pgentreprise3079
    @pgentreprise3079 Před rokem +3

    I understand in summary: don't get dissatisfied with looking at others, try to get satisfied with what you have achieved .

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205 Před rokem

    ID
    Sir you are genius because you discuss things which ppl think in their hearts but are embarrassed to discuss !

  • @drpabbi8295
    @drpabbi8295 Před rokem +1

    Excellent 💐

  • @healthshield499
    @healthshield499 Před rokem

    Very valuable ideas
    Pure gold.

  • @ganapatihegde1024
    @ganapatihegde1024 Před rokem

    Yes, what you are saying is true.

  • @mardukhorus5936
    @mardukhorus5936 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My senior used to compare with me and used to make my life miserable. I have generational wealth and house near workplace. He used to say this guy has a palace even if it is a 30x40 site private home and I was planning to buy bmw in corporate senior can see what you browse and always used to mentally torture me by saying he will buy a bmw by making me feel even tough I am working hard he wants to put his insecurities onto me.

  • @PremiumOOO7
    @PremiumOOO7 Před 10 měsíci

    Great sirji

  • @amitachandrakant688
    @amitachandrakant688 Před rokem

    Brilliant!

  • @geetaranibaidya2308
    @geetaranibaidya2308 Před rokem

    Very good vdo.
    You are absolutely right 👍👍👍👍

  • @shivdhankumar9164
    @shivdhankumar9164 Před rokem

    Sir, you are changing people's life.

  • @ArjunKumar-fk1kx
    @ArjunKumar-fk1kx Před rokem

    Amazing video sir… totally identifiable

  • @jaisriram2530
    @jaisriram2530 Před rokem

    Very nice video sir 👌👌keep making these kind of video 👍👍

  • @DebjyotisGaming
    @DebjyotisGaming Před 10 měsíci

    Very aptly said, can co-relate this in today's time

  • @albertishu9066
    @albertishu9066 Před rokem

    Very practical thought ❤️

  • @sahilgarg2487
    @sahilgarg2487 Před rokem +2

    id
    Sir totally identifying with your content 🙏

  • @studyhelper632
    @studyhelper632 Před rokem

    Sir I was facing the issues with you told in this video. Thanks for wonderful guidance. Seriously this kind of content is not there on net. You use to observe real problem or society and give us proper solution.

  • @satyadevgupta5404
    @satyadevgupta5404 Před rokem

    Dhanyawad Guruji!🙏

  • @akshaychand2783
    @akshaychand2783 Před rokem

    crystal clarity u have given sir

  • @BlenderXpert
    @BlenderXpert Před rokem

    Everyone is traveling in their own timespan , you are great sir

  • @shahnawazpatramor6981
    @shahnawazpatramor6981 Před 11 měsíci

    Excellent sir, it's wisdom what you preach, hats off

  • @manishkumar-yq7yr
    @manishkumar-yq7yr Před rokem

    Identify undoubtedly.✌️

  • @leowalia2263
    @leowalia2263 Před rokem +1

    Instead of options or variety, I really like the word buffet.....because clarity comes itself when you think about buffet.

  • @Swan-rb4jq
    @Swan-rb4jq Před rokem

    Wow wonderul explanation about this topic which is never discussed👍

  • @princijain9609
    @princijain9609 Před rokem

    Very unique perspective sir.. i m very happy listening to you

  • @swethaanthony4958
    @swethaanthony4958 Před rokem +3

    I think it is good point for marriage also..

  • @rajeswarsharma3848
    @rajeswarsharma3848 Před rokem

    Sir,you are showing us path of our life ahead!

  • @akshayyadav3911
    @akshayyadav3911 Před rokem

    Sir ye bilkul sahi baat hai, i have experienced it

  • @thekrantimanch7880
    @thekrantimanch7880 Před 10 měsíci

    Gazab ki teaching h. Very nice

  • @AD-iu2hr
    @AD-iu2hr Před rokem

    Awesome ❤

  • @jayasoni5333
    @jayasoni5333 Před rokem +1

    Best content,thank you Sir
    Saaransh yahi hai,k apni life aur growth pe focus Karo
    Jo gadi mili hai wo chalao,audi, Mercedes se compare karne ki jarurat nahi.agar apki Tata Nexon hai to wo Khushi se chalo.

  • @uttamkumarpathak1365
    @uttamkumarpathak1365 Před rokem

    So true.. In an office environment.

  • @Amol-D
    @Amol-D Před 7 měsíci

    Loved the video, excellent views

  • @shuklavismay6292
    @shuklavismay6292 Před rokem

    Wonderful video sir ji

  • @aashayjoglekar591
    @aashayjoglekar591 Před rokem +5

    an eye opener for all who r in Rat race 👍🙏

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 Před měsícem

    Very much appreciate your directness Phaji 🙏

  • @sugandhalal302
    @sugandhalal302 Před 7 měsíci

    ID, Thanks for this insight sir

  • @shrutisingh5339
    @shrutisingh5339 Před rokem +1

    I so wish your videos were there when i was 21-22. I could have been in much better place than today. Maybe its just my destiny.

  • @karla7765
    @karla7765 Před 5 měsíci

    Amazing video. Bring more like this

  • @SymphonyKol_androidLover

    Sir you are doing a great job🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼