Obsessive Step MIL Thinks OP's Daughter Is The Child She Never Got To Have.

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  • čas přidán 11. 03. 2024
  • My SMIL thinks my daughter is the child she never got to have. Help! (r/JUSTNOMIL by u/pantherpurple)
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  • @jacearmor5274
    @jacearmor5274 Před 3 měsíci +446

    "Babies are supposed to be with their mothers." Yes, OP, not her.

  • @jmarie9997
    @jmarie9997 Před 3 měsíci +414

    Call me cold blooded, but if someone I'm actually afraid of threatens to commit suicide...... I would not try to talk them out of it.

    • @RealShrigmaMale
      @RealShrigmaMale Před 3 měsíci +97

      If someone threatens suicide as a means to manipulate you, 10 times out of 10 it’s an empty threat anyways. Somebody that narcissistic would never actually go through with it.
      Edit: I wrote that before I got to that part of the story. I actually believe the MIL would try to because she’s that unhinged.

    • @leeknowsair-fryer8707
      @leeknowsair-fryer8707 Před 3 měsíci +10

      @@RealShrigmaMale so true

    • @mightyactionx9391
      @mightyactionx9391 Před 3 měsíci +20

      I understand you, dear. I'm the same. We're the type of people with enough spread of sociopathy to not care while still being capable of empathy. Unfortunately, most people are not like us.

    • @Nerdbookworm
      @Nerdbookworm Před 3 měsíci +18

      Every single time anyone has ever threatened that on me, I’ve told them to do it. To stfu and just go ahead and stop bugging me. Usually they let that mask slip and get angry

    • @jeffreymoespot5402
      @jeffreymoespot5402 Před 2 měsíci +17

      My mother would just stare and say "do it."
      She has absolutely no patience for those kinds of dramatics.

  • @jmcg9822
    @jmcg9822 Před 3 měsíci +240

    She’s not making progress if she’s manipulating and lying about what happened.

  • @DancingLynx37
    @DancingLynx37 Před 3 měsíci +254

    What the actual heck just happened-

  • @kgunitkeese17
    @kgunitkeese17 Před 3 měsíci +228

    What in the actual f**k?! This is beyond f**ked up. This sounds like the perfect story for a horror movie.

    • @karinefonte516
      @karinefonte516 Před 3 měsíci +24

      From both sides! DH's father has a special taste for crazy women - DH's mother thinks she can have her son as Husband #2, stepmother of DH thinks she can mother her grandchild just because.

    • @xaviersmith8456
      @xaviersmith8456 Před 3 měsíci +14

      @@karinefonte516I was so confused about the husband #2 part until I got close to the end. What the hell.

    • @dtorres333
      @dtorres333 Před 3 měsíci +2

      This is a story. The way this is written is def some sort of fiction. Someone sharing their own personal experience doesn't describe things the way this thread does

    • @shuichisaiharasimp
      @shuichisaiharasimp Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@@dtorres333 Who cares

    • @kit4616
      @kit4616 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@dtorres333Look, I agree that all stories on the internet should be taken with a grain of salt. That said, the complexity and sheer sadness of this situation makes it a lot more plausible. It’s incredibly rude and ignorant to dismiss any tale of severe mental health issues as, ‘fake stories,’ just because OP describes their life experiences in a different way than you would have. People this unstable do exist and they need support in their lives. The forums and threads these stories come from exist solely for the purpose of seeking advice and support. I don’t think you should blindly believe everything you read, but you should understand the greater context of the situation at hand and think before you speak.

  • @TheLovelyRarity
    @TheLovelyRarity Před měsícem +60

    Op needs to stop feeling guilty bc "she's ill 🥺". Her being ill is no excuse to fail to protect your family, sometimes you have to lose whatever empathy and do what needs doing

  • @denisebrown7680
    @denisebrown7680 Před 3 měsíci +114

    The interactions with the S-MIL were both scary and tragic. I'm so glad OP and DH were able to handle and resolve in a satisfactory way for them.
    OP's written interactions with her MIL, however, were laugh out loud, funny to downright hilarious! What a mood booster!❤

  • @robynsnest6242
    @robynsnest6242 Před 3 měsíci +129

    When the MIL said Mother’s Day was invented by God I was like… Girl, Google easily debunks that. Whatever church she goes to got her programmed well though.

    • @Aetriex
      @Aetriex Před měsícem

      Lol it's not her church that is teaching that God invented Mothers Day, it's her delusions. It is very common for the mentally ill to blame/name God for their thoughts and actions. That is why in the Bible it states to never take the Lords name in vain. This doesn't mean to not say "God damn it", it means to never use the name of God for your own agenda and pretend that it's His.

    • @NobodySpecsh
      @NobodySpecsh Před měsícem +7

      Pretty sure it has more with the grief-induced breakdown than any church.

  • @vdotkog7126
    @vdotkog7126 Před 3 měsíci +71

    FIL has a type.. Yeesh

    • @blepblep7245
      @blepblep7245 Před 15 dny +2

      yea why is both his wife and ex wife crazy..

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před 2 měsíci +38

    People that become so deluded into thinking that someone else's child is their own have a very high possibility of kidnapping that child, even if that means hurting or even killing the real parents or anyone that gets in the way of them attaining their "child". Op and her husband absolutely did the right move with getting far away from the step-MIL

  • @amandafranks8400
    @amandafranks8400 Před 3 měsíci +50

    S-MIL needs to go to intensive therapy.

  • @pabriela
    @pabriela Před 2 měsíci +19

    the first story is absolutely tragic, I also feel rage towards FIL who was acting like a coward by not helping his wife. I knew a person with similar delusions and that woman was suffering so much. My heart goes to all women who can't become mothers 💔 It's sad that nobody proposed to S-MIL that she could adopt a child before she spiralled

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 Před měsícem +2

      sadly there is a chance that it wouldn't have worked, or even make the situation worse

    • @MsAnimefan95
      @MsAnimefan95 Před měsícem +3

      A lot of places do require some sort of evaluation before they let you adopt. It's possible that she may have tried and wasn't allowed to.

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 Před měsícem +2

      @@MsAnimefan95 I completely forgot about that, thanks for the info

  • @nicknitro86
    @nicknitro86 Před 3 měsíci +80

    This sounds like a very stabby rippy stab stab movie plot.

    • @nicknitro86
      @nicknitro86 Před 3 měsíci +19

      Holy shit I didn't even get to the knives part. I'm either psychic or this is super cliche.

    • @gingersnap22
      @gingersnap22 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Cue the Psycho shower scene music. 😳

    • @Arkryal
      @Arkryal Před 3 měsíci +9

      @@gingersnap22 Agreed. That's why that's my ring-tone. I figure with the number of spam calls I get and my resulting mental state when receiving them, one day it will seem shockingly serendipitous, lol.

    • @gingersnap22
      @gingersnap22 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @Arkryal and on that note.....I'd like to speak to you regarding your car's extended warranty. 😂

  • @mattdunkley130
    @mattdunkley130 Před 3 měsíci +46

    Wow this just sucks for OP

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před 2 měsíci +15

    TW: mentions of SA, suicide, and miscarriage
    For anyone who's genuinely curious, The Hand That Rocks The Cradle is a 1992 psychological thriller in which a woman is m0lested by her OBGYN and reports him to the board, with four other women coming forward about him as well. In order to avoid getting arrested and losing his license, he takes his own life and the shock of this results in his wife miscarrying. She ends of seeking revenge on the main woman by posing as a nanny with the end goal of taking her children for herself. Additionally there's a 1917 silent film of the same title that is completely separate from this film and a Hindi remake that came out a year later in 1993 called Kaal-Naaikaa

  • @cris4ever70
    @cris4ever70 Před 3 měsíci +51

    I literally snorted when the comments went to horror movie references and extreme situations but BOI, I had to pick my jaw from the floor.
    Yep. Lesson learned. Crazy can happen to you, me and any ol’ regular Joe 🗿
    I hope OP’s life is blessed in the future, and for her to be surrounded with just regular people, with no horrible trauma to deal with.

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 Před 3 měsíci +29

    Sometimes i think we're too quick to believe people like this are genuine in having psychological issues and that some people are mimicking those issues in order to get what they want as well as be the center of attention being a drama-wh**e.

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 Před měsícem

      pardon my ignorance, but is there a way to tell the difference? I can understand to the untrained eye it would be easy to jump to phsycological issues, but what about the trained eye?

  • @muggyate
    @muggyate Před 3 měsíci +30

    like wtf?? this cant be real right?

    • @mightyactionx9391
      @mightyactionx9391 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I don't know. With the shits I'l already seen, this is extremely plausible.

  • @darrylblanch8463
    @darrylblanch8463 Před 3 měsíci +29

    I think S-MIL took the make-up in preparation for replacing OP as "Mum" (familiar Mum smell mixed with familiar G'Mum smell) making it easier when S-MIL absconds with the baby.
    Comment made just after S-MIL held knives to her own throat.

  • @John.Philip.Tan876
    @John.Philip.Tan876 Před 2 měsíci +16

    At first it sounds like a tragic story and MiL got a granddaughter she could love then it turns into "That sh*ts not normal" fast. Deranged people can go around unchecked. Damn

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian Před 3 měsíci +15

    I just cant even right now 😮

  • @silviaflorez-ramey6350
    @silviaflorez-ramey6350 Před měsícem +3

    OML that woman’s crazy, she thinks the world bloody world revolves around her! I’m so glad Mom put her foot down so her daughter didn’t get all full of herself!!! I so wish more parents would strive to raise responsible members of society!!! ♥️♥️♥️😊

  • @nancyoneill-buck6033
    @nancyoneill-buck6033 Před 3 měsíci +23

    I really don't know what's going on either . It's a real mess.

  • @FreedDailyByHIM
    @FreedDailyByHIM Před 2 měsíci +9

    Never. Argue. With. Crazy.

  • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
    @user-bj8rk4rj7w Před 3 měsíci +22

    I know it's fake but i honestly thought it was pretty well written and engaging and has pretty good attention to detail

    • @charadreemurr4839
      @charadreemurr4839 Před 2 měsíci +16

      I've met people this out of touch with reality and worse. It could be real and I think this may be legit.

    • @Neda_Williams
      @Neda_Williams Před měsícem +9

      Oh sweet summer child. Never stop thinking that everything that's bad in this world is a fictional story.

    • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
      @user-bj8rk4rj7w Před měsícem

      @@Neda_Williams i mean it's just written like a creative writing project especially near the end you can really tell, ik bad things can happen this is just obviously not a real story

  • @anq4274
    @anq4274 Před 3 měsíci +32

    This is so fucked, it's like reading a horror story.

  • @THELTX427VA
    @THELTX427VA Před 3 měsíci +27

    WHAT THE FUCK.

  • @joanns7007
    @joanns7007 Před 3 měsíci +8

    She needs intensive therapy!

  • @Zminator1986
    @Zminator1986 Před měsícem +4

    Story 1: THANK GOD OP FINALLY CALLED THE COPS AND PUT HER IN-LAWS IN THEIR PLACE!
    And the FIL is a horrible and abusive husband to never give his wife the treatment she so desperately.

  • @user-xd6ni8cr2i
    @user-xd6ni8cr2i Před 3 měsíci +12

    It's not called Timbuktu it's called tombocto, I saw it on the sign when somebody was going into that town on a documentary show

  • @BPJD2004
    @BPJD2004 Před 3 měsíci +28

    Feel so sorry for OP in Story 1, but HOLY SHIT, OP OF STORY 2 IS MY HERO!

    • @SnowWolfAlpha
      @SnowWolfAlpha Před 3 měsíci +8

      I think they're both the same OP. Story 1 is about the step-MIL whilst story 2 is about the MIL.

    • @BPJD2004
      @BPJD2004 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@SnowWolfAlpha ahhhh, possibly.

  • @missamanda2703
    @missamanda2703 Před 16 dny +1

    My grandmother pinched my son 1x, and she didn't see him until he was 7 and couldn't be harmed and could defend himself. Just because my mother allowed it doesn't mean I would.

  • @samaustin339
    @samaustin339 Před měsícem +4

    Why couldn’t S-MIL just adopt, and not do this shit? If I found out I couldn’t have bio kids that’s what I would have done!

    • @RylieRiddle
      @RylieRiddle Před měsícem

      Some people have hang ups with adoption, not wanting to raise another person's kids.

    • @jmarie9997
      @jmarie9997 Před 26 dny +1

      Likely she wouldn't pass the psychological tests any reliable agencies would require.

    • @izzisart
      @izzisart Před 6 dny

      I mean, I wouldn't want someone like that looking after an adopted kid (or any kid) but it is odd it didn't seem to be something that was tried.

  • @Polygonyall
    @Polygonyall Před 13 dny

    whoever sent op the "the hands that rock the cradle" clip is not seeing the light of heaven

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Před 5 dny

    NOT HER GRAND DAUGHTER ! NOT YOUR MOTHER ! NOTHING TO YOU !

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Před 5 dny

    GOD DEFINITELY ! MADE RIGHT CHOICE ! NEVER ALLOWED HER TO EVER BE A MOTHER !

  • @nicholaszikos3851
    @nicholaszikos3851 Před 9 dny

    She made a go bag to make it look like you just left when she murdered you

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Před 5 dny

    CAMERAS EVERYWHERE ! MOVE OUT OF STATE ! SHE WILL HURT YOU ! SHE WILL NEVER STOP 🛑 ! MOVE ! PLZ ! STAYING IS NEGLECTING BABY ! MAMA BEAR MODE ! TRUST NO BODY

  • @neuvibathwaterpavedtheway
    @neuvibathwaterpavedtheway Před 2 měsíci +1

    Bro... this is so messed up

  • @fumkioyuki8457
    @fumkioyuki8457 Před 10 dny

    ....reading the title and the frist few seconds im just like how the heck people like this exist

  • @lucyroberts2800
    @lucyroberts2800 Před měsícem

    Jeez you did the right thing protect the babies look after yourself because I think it will hit you at some point .

  • @zoevendle9708
    @zoevendle9708 Před 3 dny

    I want to say something but I don’t really understand what just happened

  • @sarahb933
    @sarahb933 Před měsícem

    Great movie😂

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Před 5 dny

    MIL PROBABLY LACTATING ! READY TO BREASTFEED DEAR DAUGHTER ! MIL. HAS BABY AND HER PASSPORT READY 2. BOUNCE ! MIL WILL NEVER ! EVER ! STOP 🛑. UNTIL SHE GETS BABY !

  • @s0upsp00ns
    @s0upsp00ns Před 19 dny

    yeah no. after she broke in...i would be considered armed and dangerous.

  • @gavinwilliams1288
    @gavinwilliams1288 Před 2 měsíci

    Holy crap, she’s crazy!!

  • @brownsugar7922
    @brownsugar7922 Před 26 dny

    What does BEC mean

  • @betzahiarvayo7230
    @betzahiarvayo7230 Před měsícem

    I knew that people with problems like s-mil can have some type of breakdown but this is just so fucking crazy

  • @mog-gyveroneill2500
    @mog-gyveroneill2500 Před 22 dny

    I'm hella confused..what??

  • @karenmariewalker143
    @karenmariewalker143 Před 3 měsíci

    Ol girl has lost her damn mind 😮😮😮

  • @blepblep7245
    @blepblep7245 Před 15 dny

    wht is wrong with FIL's taste??? like bro if both ur wife AND ex wife is crazy i think there's smthng wrong with u... tf

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 Před 3 měsíci +3

    😨

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 Před 3 měsíci +4

    she should have just gone and worked with kids. it would have helped

    • @randomloseranddull1560
      @randomloseranddull1560 Před 3 měsíci +7

      I have the odd suspicion that would make her worse. the only difference is that it's stringers' kids

    • @kit4616
      @kit4616 Před 2 měsíci

      No, she would have been doing this same creepy shit to children under her care. She’s DEEPLY traumatized and delusional about her situation. Having her work in childcare is a great way to end up with some poor girl getting kidnapped.

    • @foureyedelf6151
      @foureyedelf6151 Před 2 měsíci +3

      She would have ended up on the nightly news.

  • @daaaaaaaaaanay
    @daaaaaaaaaanay Před 2 měsíci

    Woow

  • @abbasturd
    @abbasturd Před měsícem

    Are these 2 stories or one?

    • @RylieRiddle
      @RylieRiddle Před měsícem

      This is one story for the video, this creator is typically good with timestamps in the description. So if people have heard a story they can skip to other stories.

  • @HauntedGalMars
    @HauntedGalMars Před 3 měsíci +3

    👁👄👁

  • @hgfggjhg
    @hgfggjhg Před 3 měsíci +8

    what an elaborate fake story

    • @MissCandyTattoo
      @MissCandyTattoo Před 3 měsíci +11

      Wow, you’re highly privileged in life

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 Před měsícem

      Must be nice having a life where everything is sunshine and rainbows

  • @dallasisgood
    @dallasisgood Před 3 měsíci +2

    This was a solid F in creative writing. Absolute garbage.

  • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
    @user-hz8iv9fh5r Před 2 měsíci +1

    1st story op is a stuck up AH

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins Před 2 měsíci +10

      For protecting her child? You sound like the step mother in law

    • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
      @user-hz8iv9fh5r Před 2 měsíci

      @@MarionRobbins how? What grandma doesn't say that's their baby?

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins Před 2 měsíci +8

      And your silence is loud. Obviously if you are a grandparent you’ve probably overstepped many boundaries.

    • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
      @user-hz8iv9fh5r Před 2 měsíci

      @@MarionRobbins you are a snowflake

    • @oh.s
      @oh.s Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@user-hz8iv9fh5ryou’re clearly the snowflake here. Being involved in your grandchild’s life is a privilege, not a right. Don’t overstep the parents’ boundaries.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Před 5 dny

    NOT HER GRAND DAUGHTER ! NOT YOUR MOTHER ! NOTHING TO YOU !