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  • Instant Family - She's Not Coming: Lizzy (Isabela Moner) finds out that her biological mother isn't coming for her and her siblings.
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    FILM DESCRIPTION:
    When Pete and Ellie decide to start a family, they stumble into the world of foster care adoption. They hope to take in one small child, but when they meet three siblings, including a rebellious 15-year-old girl, they find themselves speeding from zero to three kids overnight. Now, Pete and Ellie must try to learn the ropes of instant parenthood in the hope of becoming a family.
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    Cast: Gustavo Quiroz, Isabela Moner, Joan Cusack, Julianna Gamiz, Mark Wahlberg, Octavia Spencer, Rose Byrne, Tig Notaro
    Screenwriter: John Morris, Sean Anders
    Director: Sean Anders
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  • @StarrChild.
    @StarrChild. Před 3 lety +5730

    The neighbour went from "wtf you doing in my garden" to "oh, understandable, have a nice day".

    • @QueenShireen
      @QueenShireen Před 3 lety +278

      the best reaction though in a lot of cases.

    • @luci4087
      @luci4087 Před 3 lety +228

      @@QueenShireen definitely a good reaction. sad reality though in many parts of the usa, some crazy karen would be screaming and yelling to get the kid off of their property instead of being sympathetic and understanding.

    • @robinbrown2256
      @robinbrown2256 Před 2 lety +91

      That scene was cute. Did anyone catch the reference to The Help when Joan Cusack said she had pie, and then Octavia Spencer was like OK

    • @isabellascott3443
      @isabellascott3443 Před 2 lety +34

      That’s the woman from shameless

    • @Chaotic_Observer
      @Chaotic_Observer Před 2 lety +25

      @@luci4087 okay but also think about it, a random group is on your property, you wouldnt know if youre being robbed or something

  • @joshuagarrett2759
    @joshuagarrett2759 Před 4 lety +5072

    It’s so sad that Lizzie couldn’t just accept that her mother didn’t want to raise her. I know how that feeling when your mother, you’re own parent, the one person who you’re supposed to look up to and idolize, walks out on you and doesn’t look back.

    • @blueflame4762
      @blueflame4762 Před 3 lety +144

      Some women aren't meant to be moms.

    • @crimescene25
      @crimescene25 Před 3 lety +30

      life is full of obstacles to overcome, that is just one tiny, one.

    • @HenshinHeroesMedia
      @HenshinHeroesMedia Před 3 lety +22

      It reminds me of Angels in the outfield when the lead's dad signed papers to let his kid be a ward of the state. In short: he is in the foster system.

    • @goofybutserious4807
      @goofybutserious4807 Před 3 lety +16

      It's like finding out God isn't real.

    • @zhanejackson5062
      @zhanejackson5062 Před 3 lety +58

      It’s not that the mom didn’t want to raise her it’s more of the fact that she couldn’t and she knew that too

  • @whorable
    @whorable Před 4 lety +10130

    If only Lizzie knew they chose her first, they didn’t know about Her siblings

  • @markmywords785
    @markmywords785 Před 4 lety +3123

    "And we can figure something out. And she can take me home." 😭 😭

    • @samjones6046
      @samjones6046 Před 4 lety +141

      Truly how saddening that statement is , she's broken in between two places . She knows this family is looking out for her best interests , but she held out hope for her birth mother even though she betrayed her multiple times.
      That mix of pain , separation , resentment, anger and loss will break anyone.

    • @jessicacuevas7083
      @jessicacuevas7083 Před 4 lety +13

      Honey. Honey

    • @Some_One_One
      @Some_One_One Před 3 lety +10

      @@samjones6046
      Great comment

    • @WizardOfHumor1989
      @WizardOfHumor1989 Před 3 lety +15

      Wonder what it took for Isabella Moner to conjure her emotions for this scene?

    • @kristineoliver6370
      @kristineoliver6370 Před 2 lety +4

      1 thousand liker!

  • @katebarton1018
    @katebarton1018 Před 4 lety +4152

    1:03 “and she can take me home”. That actress deserves some sort of recognition for her performance. I’m about the same age that Lizzie is but I haven’t had any of the same experiences, being moved, losing a parent, etc. but when the actress said that line it struck very deep. I don’t know her name but that girl is very talented.

    • @redvelvetcake813
      @redvelvetcake813 Před 4 lety +23

      Kate Barton Agreed!

    • @isaaclooper1298
      @isaaclooper1298 Před 4 lety +98

      Her name is Isabela Moner.

    • @jules_leblanc22
      @jules_leblanc22 Před 3 lety +17

      Her name is Isabela Moner

    • @goofybutserious4807
      @goofybutserious4807 Před 3 lety +3

      @Yashvardhan SINGH I can't tell which is worse. That door movie or the first two Scooby-Doo live action movies

    • @tomedy_official
      @tomedy_official Před 3 lety +7

      Even is she did take her, would you call a single room apartment a home for a family for 4.

  • @siobhanconneely4199
    @siobhanconneely4199 Před 4 lety +4577

    The girl doesn't want to be a child anymore
    But she acts like a mum, not a sister. She used her mum to get out of the system and just act like the first time she came in

    • @andreeric175
      @andreeric175 Před 4 lety +23

      Siobhan Conneely u hurt me

    • @siobhanconneely4199
      @siobhanconneely4199 Před 4 lety +119

      @@andreeric175 the girl doesn't want her brother and sister to live with strangers!!!!! She wants them to live in a home!
      And I don't mean her mum

    • @kaitidc5452
      @kaitidc5452 Před 4 lety +42

      Siobhan Conneely yeah but her mom doesn’t want them what did you not get from this clip

    • @andreeric175
      @andreeric175 Před 4 lety +6

      Siobhan Conneely u made it seem depressed

    • @ia7212
      @ia7212 Před 4 lety +46

      Siobhan Conneely You need to understand that even if they went back with their mom, it wouldn’t be a home because she wouldn’t love them. People take all foster homes as a bad thing but there’s times where it’s the best thing because there are many foster parents who actually love the children they take in when the biological parents don’t want them. You can see that a lot of foster parents love the children but because of the word “foster”, everyone thinks there’s no way it can be a home.

  • @vardhinikarun2086
    @vardhinikarun2086 Před 4 lety +3136

    The entire time , it was the girl who wanted her mom to take them back . It was the girl who was convincing her mother to take them back when in reality she didnt actually want to raise them .😭

    • @emilyencarnacion5020
      @emilyencarnacion5020 Před 4 lety +209

      Well can you blame her? At the beginning of the movie, they said the mom made promises that she couldn’t keep. No matter how bad a mom is, a child is always going to want her mom. Lizzie has been wanting a mom to depend on for so long and the scene shows how desperate she wanted this to work out and she didn’t want to believe it’s the same scenario all over again where her mom promised to take her home and once again she choose drugs over her child.

    • @arturtrzepacz3918
      @arturtrzepacz3918 Před 3 lety +21

      You didnt know that it was the oldest daughter/Lizzie that wanted to live with her real mother you really didnt know that i mean whatever

    • @arturtrzepacz3918
      @arturtrzepacz3918 Před 3 lety +13

      @@emilyencarnacion5020 thats messed up in my opinion

    • @itzslayr1435
      @itzslayr1435 Před 3 lety +8

      2:06 She saw her then she was like 👌

    • @tomedy_official
      @tomedy_official Před 3 lety +22

      She probably had a bad time through foster care who previous foster parents who probably neglected her. So that's why she felt uncomfortable being in foster care.

  • @graysonwhite5441
    @graysonwhite5441 Před 4 lety +11384

    If you have actually done foster care you'll know this movie is very realistic. Its hilarious but sad at the same time.

    • @hockeyfan7189
      @hockeyfan7189 Před 4 lety +231

      I was in foster care and I acted like the 15 yr old girl in the movie..

    • @rayray8430
      @rayray8430 Před 4 lety +79

      Reminds me of me and my 2 sisters when I was at foster home

    • @graysonwhite5441
      @graysonwhite5441 Před 4 lety +85

      I actually had 2 foster sisters and I remember their parents start using again after they had gone home.

    • @vc9491
      @vc9491 Před 4 lety +5

      @11 11 proof?

    • @ANTONl027
      @ANTONl027 Před 4 lety +5

      NinjaCat so you were as annoying as her

  • @caradesapo1611
    @caradesapo1611 Před 4 lety +4189

    Honestly wish foster parents could handle a situation like this and still care for the child, most parents do this for the money.

    • @aishahsiddeeqa8311
      @aishahsiddeeqa8311 Před 4 lety +23

      YummyNutty what about checks done my the fostering agency? Also it doesn’t seem like you would make much in comparison to the amount you would spend and the effort. Seems like it would be easier to get a job

    • @liamisaac1152
      @liamisaac1152 Před 4 lety +36

      Aishah Siddeeqa Not if you’re neglecting the kids and using the money for yourself . Which a lot of foster parents have done. Plus the more kids you take in, the more money they give you

    • @shahadshd5165
      @shahadshd5165 Před 4 lety +25

      Actually not "most" but some cruel ones

    • @kalki2312
      @kalki2312 Před 4 lety +52

      Man wtf is that dp😂

    • @jjrodriguez3426
      @jjrodriguez3426 Před 4 lety +30

      Lol I wouldn't take anything you say serious with a profile pic like that haha, hilarious though

  • @benm5970
    @benm5970 Před rokem +864

    Lizzie saying “And she can take me home” Really reveals a lot about her, for the whole movie she was acting like she was the emotionally stable one who was looking after her siblings and that Juan and Lita were the ones who were emotionally broken, when in reality it was her who was the most broken

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +54

      I mean yeah duh. She was a child herself, looking after her siblings because she was in the foster system. That breaks you.

    • @captainobvious6070
      @captainobvious6070 Před rokem +41

      She has the maturity and knowledge to understand her own situation better. She's the oldest and had to act as an authority and support figure to the youngest.
      They on the other hand has Lizzie as this support. And the youngest does not have enough knowledge of the extent of the situation. Awareness.
      Liz the older sibling had to stay strong in their face, in order to act as a support system.
      She's also the one that kept more hope and kept trying to fix the situation as the older sibling. The disappointment and hurt is even stronger for her then.
      It's pretty much simple.

    • @juanitamorgan5475
      @juanitamorgan5475 Před rokem +1

      I haven't seen my mom in decades since I was Little

    • @jwill5892
      @jwill5892 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@DeathnoteBBsettle down there cowboy

  • @KirstenFaithy
    @KirstenFaithy Před 2 lety +495

    Poor girl is probably thinking “why wouldn’t my own mother want me?”
    No kid should ever go through that 😞

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +26

      True. But she shouldn't think that. The mother probably does want her kids, she just knows she's not able to take care of them. That's the best thing for the children. A safe stable home life. Some parents are too selfish to realize that.

    • @KirstenFaithy
      @KirstenFaithy Před 2 lety +3

      @@trawlins396 you’re right! I agree with you

    • @TatankaTaylor
      @TatankaTaylor Před 11 měsíci +3

      ​@@trawlins396​​​"She shouldn't think that"
      Oh please. That's the worst thing you can tell a kid in this situation. They're KIDS. They're not supposed to automatically know how the world works.
      With all due respect, its asinine to expect a mere child to understand how things work at that early stage of their life.
      That's why adults need to behave like one and show patience and help guide them during such a traumatic phase. Without being patronizing or playing the blame game.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@TatankaTaylor she's not THAT young. It's not like she's 5. She's old enough to understand how the world works. Stop coddling.
      *"Prepare the child for the road. Not the road for the child."*
      Old proverb

    • @erykperez1002
      @erykperez1002 Před 10 měsíci +1

      It builds character

  • @Karlsteins
    @Karlsteins Před 4 lety +1060

    If only this movie was hardly campaigned for Oscar then I think Lizzie’s actress could’ve been nominated, her acting was very good

    • @II-gg5my
      @II-gg5my Před 3 lety +16

      True! And she is a great singer too!

    • @emiliobello2538
      @emiliobello2538 Před 3 lety +8

      It should have, and also for Best Original Screenplay

    • @masonkelleher1243
      @masonkelleher1243 Před 2 lety +2

      @@II-gg5my I agree.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +6

      @@emiliobello2538 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Be serious. it was a cute movie. Hardly Oscar worthy.

    • @alenanela1743
      @alenanela1743 Před rokem +2

      @@trawlins396 CODA won best picture this year so anything can happen

  • @robertcampbell8070
    @robertcampbell8070 Před 2 lety +729

    This is actually extremely accurate. I used to work with "at risk" kids that for various reasons didn't have someone who could take care of them. It really didn't matter of their parents were alcoholic meth addicts that constantly beat them or worse, they wanted to be with them.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +26

      ??? That's not hard to believe at all. Most children want to be with their mother..no matter what.

    • @ENFPSIS
      @ENFPSIS Před rokem +44

      @@trawlins396
      Yea because it's the only parent or person they've ever really known. Children of addicts and abusers etc, tend to get attached or to love them. They often blame themselves even though it's never their fault

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před rokem +16

      @@ENFPSIS it's instinctual to want to be w your parent(s)

    • @ENFPSIS
      @ENFPSIS Před rokem +8

      @@trawlins396
      Exactly.. It's like not every child is gonna hate their parents because of a bad action. I agree

    • @princess_ama
      @princess_ama Před rokem +6

      ⁠@@ENFPSISIt’s called a trauma bond. It’s honestly more common than we’d like to think, even amongst people who weren’t in foster care.

  • @melodym3703
    @melodym3703 Před 4 lety +406

    I have lived with my foster parents for 15 years. My biological parents were never able to get us back. I remember countless times we would go on visits and have to go home because my mom or dad didnt show. I remember vividly when I was 5 that a social worker asked if I wanted to live with my mom and dad or my foster parents. I chose my foster parents and I dont regret it. This movie really helps to show foster care and parenting of it.

    • @emiliobello2538
      @emiliobello2538 Před 3 lety +4

      Did you feel like how Lizzie did at the moment?

    • @melodym3703
      @melodym3703 Před 3 lety +40

      @@emiliobello2538 oh definitely. You have a lot of hope left in your biological parents and they just keep letting you down. I’m glad Lizzie was able to stay with them.

    • @MF-ow5in
      @MF-ow5in Před 3 lety +11

      I am so sorry you had to go through that.. but I am so happy for you because you found your real home, and you're surrounded by those who love you :')

    • @tadejaivanic680
      @tadejaivanic680 Před měsícem

      When I was 5 my biological dad died a I was already in foster care at first I was mad at my real parents I throught they abandoned me until I learned the truth

  • @thebee9907
    @thebee9907 Před 3 lety +926

    For all the young people, that neighbor, is Academy Award winner Joan Cusack. An actress for literally 40 years, and hand chosen by the director Sean Anders. She was an icon during my childhood, and in alot of films during Generation Z's beginning.

  • @ThatweirdEMTnerd
    @ThatweirdEMTnerd Před 4 lety +1355

    "Hey, wth is going on here?" "Give us a second damnit" looks at girl** "Oh, okay sorry." Lol

    • @bellabiscoe4888
      @bellabiscoe4888 Před 4 lety +4

      LMao

    • @umiu2336
      @umiu2336 Před 4 lety +29

      Lol, Sheila get out the house, she made it

    • @shadow_the_wanderer
      @shadow_the_wanderer Před 4 lety +2

      I started to laugh sorry I dunno why

    • @shadow_the_wanderer
      @shadow_the_wanderer Před 4 lety +1

      @@lemonade507 bro can you summarize my big brain doesn't understand

    • @fortminor85
      @fortminor85 Před 3 lety +1

      @@shadow_the_wanderer A Black girl witnessed her friend wrongfully shot by police, and she becomes an activist.

  • @christinaluna2055
    @christinaluna2055 Před 4 lety +5969

    Some women aren't ment to be mothers

    • @sapphi31
      @sapphi31 Před 4 lety +225

      a b o r t i o n i s t h e a n s w e r

    • @jerryalamo3
      @jerryalamo3 Před 4 lety +62

      @@sapphi31 if you wanna go to jail

    • @sapphi31
      @sapphi31 Před 4 lety +87

      @@jerryalamo3 according to KSI, that's not true

    • @theodunnett6002
      @theodunnett6002 Před 4 lety +45

      sapphire that’s cause Ksi is from England where it legal

    • @sapphi31
      @sapphi31 Před 4 lety +16

      @@theodunnett6002 well damn, ok

  • @taajwarpope2708
    @taajwarpope2708 Před 4 lety +993

    This scene made me cry about lizzy's mom being unsupportive.

    • @The_Beast_666
      @The_Beast_666 Před 4 lety +12

      Taajwar Pope same here dude I cried my eyes out!!

    • @melnaobrooks4933
      @melnaobrooks4933 Před 3 lety +22

      It's wasn't that Lizzy's mom was unsupportive. Sometimes, biological parents knows that they don't have what it takes to take care of their children and so the best thing to do is to give their children to someone else. In this scene, Lizzy's mom knows that she can't take care of her children and that's why she didn't show up to pick them up

    • @louisastoltzfus9304
      @louisastoltzfus9304 Před 3 lety +4

      i know when lizzie said that her mom could “take her home”. that line gets me every time. i think just the fact that she just wants to be renunited with her mom, but is unable to is heartbreaking.

    • @arturtrzepacz3918
      @arturtrzepacz3918 Před 3 lety +1

      It was hard for everyone my friend but its ok the important thing is that your a good person and you would never do that to a child well that whats i think about you Hope im right

    • @tomedy_official
      @tomedy_official Před 3 lety +1

      Her mum got high again for a good reson. At the court when she saw she them and knew deep down what was the best choice for them. And that was to be with the foster pearents

  • @tobennaokoli4450
    @tobennaokoli4450 Před 2 lety +136

    I have MAD respect for the neighbor immediately understanding and being nice instead of being a Karen. Regardless if it’s real or not.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +5

      Respect for someone acting like a normal adult????

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +4

      Your standards and expectations of ppl must be pretty low.

    • @tobennaokoli4450
      @tobennaokoli4450 Před 2 lety +17

      @@trawlins396 whether this is an insult or not I’ll just tell you,
      Yeah my expectations of human beings are kind of low. It’s sad but that’s what the world has shown me.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +2

      @@tobennaokoli4450 I'm guessing you spend a lot of time judging society by what you see on social media. That's not real. Get out into the world, talk to ppl, socialize. People are nicer than you think.

    • @tobennaokoli4450
      @tobennaokoli4450 Před 2 lety +10

      @@trawlins396 it’s actually by what I’ve experienced in real life as well as social media and the news. While the latter two are very good at twisting the narrative, they are not capable of fully hiding the truth about our society.
      And this doesn’t mean I haven’t met nice people I’ve met MANY. It’s just that they seem to be more of a rare gem than a common stone.

  • @victorgallego-anyi9322
    @victorgallego-anyi9322 Před 3 lety +210

    I love it how the neighbor gave them privacy when she understood ❤️

  • @sundaeplays5366
    @sundaeplays5366 Před 4 lety +951

    “Oh ok sorry“😂

  • @hoolala1857
    @hoolala1857 Před 4 lety +2138

    Hard to believe she’s Dora 😂

    • @opiumfields3285
      @opiumfields3285 Před 4 lety +165

      Theroy: this movie is a sequal to the dora the explora series. After the events of dora, her pearents disowned her and put her into a orphanage, she connects to her adopted mother in the movie, she changed her name to linse

    • @francescabailey7550
      @francescabailey7550 Před 4 lety +26

      @@opiumfields3285 ummm... Good conspiracy, but Dora and this movie are 2 separate things. I don't think it's possible

    • @RedRacc
      @RedRacc Před 4 lety +63

      @@francescabailey7550 r/wooooosh

    • @opiumfields3285
      @opiumfields3285 Před 4 lety +13

      @@francescabailey7550 this is satire

    • @user-xm1wn5ms9j
      @user-xm1wn5ms9j Před 4 lety +19

      I KNEW IT
      I KNEW SHE WAS FAMILIAR

  • @marge9149
    @marge9149 Před 3 lety +216

    incredible acting from Isabela in this scene (and the rest too!) because it does show how any teen or child that still wants their mother to just be with them would react. The instant panicking, tearing up, the stuttering, and breaking down during a sentence while talking afterwards almost made me forget this was just a movie.

  • @victoriajenkins1424
    @victoriajenkins1424 Před 2 lety +71

    “No, we’re not [your parents]. But you know what we are? We’re here. That’s right, we’re here and we love you.” 💜

    • @khateshaholley4302
      @khateshaholley4302 Před 2 lety +12

      I tell my kids this all the time , I may not be your father but I love love uuuu . more than he ever could .

  • @bearhugsplans
    @bearhugsplans Před 2 lety +129

    This is such a good movie. Even though I was adopted as a baby and don't remember my biological mom this still hits home. Love the neighbor being like a karen one moment and then seeing Lizzie is upset and being like "omg take all the time you need

    • @LucyQ-ew6zp
      @LucyQ-ew6zp Před rokem +10

      Well, she wasn't really being a Karen. She was being someone who had just found two strangers in her garden and didn't know what was going on. She was a really sweet person, though.

  • @Tkssa580
    @Tkssa580 Před 4 lety +662

    So messed up, because this kind of stuff is real. 😞

    • @Davidscomix
      @Davidscomix Před 4 lety +15

      I think humans need thanos fr

    • @uhniq
      @uhniq Před 4 lety +7

      Yeah it does, know from personal experience. Adopted 2002. I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy

    • @Tkssa580
      @Tkssa580 Před 4 lety +4

      uhniq sorry to hear that🙏🏽

    • @noelle7786
      @noelle7786 Před 4 lety

      TKSS this is a true story lol

    • @AlyxAesthetics
      @AlyxAesthetics Před 3 lety +1

      This movie is based on a real family

  • @lunaranger4921
    @lunaranger4921 Před 4 lety +479

    She just wants her mom

  • @camacho.48
    @camacho.48 Před 3 lety +50

    When she said “and she can take me home” made me shed a tear when I first watched this movie. Unfortunately, I know the feeling of not being loved by a parent.

  • @Some_One_One
    @Some_One_One Před 3 lety +86

    0:55 that is some darn-good acting. Even real tears came out

  • @empirestate8791
    @empirestate8791 Před rokem +44

    This was a really good movie! I love how the director included both comedy and drama. The performance by the daughter was very emotional and hilarious at the same time. Even though her mom was a drug addict who wasn't particularly interested in raising kids, the daughter still didn't want to give up on her and still considered her as mom. This is emblematic of real-life scenarios. A very realistic performance indeed!

  • @ChazzJster
    @ChazzJster Před 4 lety +1047

    “Uhm uhm what the hell is going on?”

    • @notmu5ic54
      @notmu5ic54 Před 4 lety +17

      XdCrispy the girl is a foster child and she wanted to go to her real mom but he mom wasn’t ready to be a parent and that’s why she was crying

    • @JsosGames
      @JsosGames Před 4 lety +46

      “Oh ok sorry”

    • @iloylunabellaterrispiky5735
      @iloylunabellaterrispiky5735 Před 4 lety +12

      Not MU5ic r/woooosh

    • @tempoticandmeepstar7584
      @tempoticandmeepstar7584 Před 4 lety +4

      @Not MU5ic He was quoting a line from this movie. Glad to see you are paying attention though

    • @JamesParker1998
      @JamesParker1998 Před 3 lety +3

      @@tempoticandmeepstar7584 I was going to say that as well.

  • @tyreseandujar5841
    @tyreseandujar5841 Před 4 lety +154

    2:06 so this where Sheila has been after shameless

  • @ilovedragonball2435
    @ilovedragonball2435 Před 4 lety +54

    This was sad scene on many levels. Lizzie had been put in foster care at age 11 and she had hoped for years her mother would come and help her. Now when it seems her mother might do so she can’t. Lizzie hasn’t had a good home in years. It took Pete and Ellie telling her she was missing in their lives and they would be there for her to accept them

  • @yuh7754
    @yuh7754 Před 4 lety +122

    They really made me laugh when that lady came out while they were talking to lizzie, they really know how to lighten the mood😂

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb Před rokem +2

      That annoyed me I get they didn't want to make it the movie too dark but that moment should have been fully on Lizzie. Love the actress tho.

  • @andrewkolb6309
    @andrewkolb6309 Před 4 lety +462

    Even tho I am adopted I am adopted by real parents unlike my real parents only real kids know this!

  • @yeageren
    @yeageren Před 4 lety +423

    Ma is in this movie I’ll watch it😍

    • @jussace2375
      @jussace2375 Před 4 lety +6

      You can be anyone in the comments he’ll no she’s crazy

    • @yeageren
      @yeageren Před 4 lety +1

      Renji thanks 😅

    • @songbird2149
      @songbird2149 Před 4 lety +2

      I know I love this actress.

    • @songbird2149
      @songbird2149 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kh745 Jesus dude, chill out.

    • @jamamason6258
      @jamamason6258 Před 3 lety +2

      I knew I wasnt the only one who thought that was Octavia!

  • @zacharygarrett661
    @zacharygarrett661 Před 2 lety +29

    I worked at a movie theater and they had a premiere showing of this film. When I saw this scene, my heart broke for this girl; her own mother not wanting to take care of her and her siblings was like a giant slap in the face. 😢😭💔

  • @michaelrunk5930
    @michaelrunk5930 Před 2 lety +90

    I grew up in system. There where parts of this film that made me cry. As most of this film hits home. The part with trash bag broke me down in tears.
    This is a great movie for people who don't understand what it's like to be foster parent. More to point you will get a glimpse at what it's like for the kids.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety

      Did you have good fosters? That's a rough life. I can't even imagine.
      I hope you're happy now.

  • @tomassoejakto
    @tomassoejakto Před 4 lety +213

    "And we could figure something out so she could take me home" is the point of her frustration and longing for stability. It's a great line and it got me.
    She just wants a nornal life and she wants her mom to be the one to provide that, because of course she does.
    It does a number on you when you spend youth being tossed around from foster to foster, you can't help but wanting to settle with the obvious choice. The hard part is accepting that that obvious choice is sometimes somebody else.

    • @melnaobrooks4933
      @melnaobrooks4933 Před 3 lety +10

      True, things like this happens in real life. Sometimes, even biological parents knows that they don't have what it takes to take care of their kids, so the best thing for them to do is to give them to someone else

  • @Truck-Kuns-next-victim
    @Truck-Kuns-next-victim Před rokem +33

    My sister went through the same thing when our parents were adopting her. Took awhile to realize that our parents chose her and that we would always be there.

    • @Krishnadiadas2011
      @Krishnadiadas2011 Před rokem +5

      Hope you and your sister are friends!

    • @Truck-Kuns-next-victim
      @Truck-Kuns-next-victim Před rokem +4

      @@Krishnadiadas2011 we are! We are much closer now that we’re older. She’s coming to visit soon with my nephew and I’m so excited!

  • @juliafloreshernandez6854
    @juliafloreshernandez6854 Před 2 lety +14

    Watching this movie make me say god bless all good foster parents Who are out there trying their Best to be there for those children

  • @audreycabrera4562
    @audreycabrera4562 Před 4 lety +294

    2:08 me as a neighbor lol

  • @Tyler_Mills26
    @Tyler_Mills26 Před 6 měsíci +5

    You can see despite her getting super upset because she can't go home the minute the social worker says that her mum is using again she looks up with a look of disbelief like she stops crying in shock. I also think it's sweet how when the social workers say that the mum didn't show up at the office the foster mum whispers "oh no" under her breath because she knew how much Lizzie wanted to go home

  • @Hockeyfan268
    @Hockeyfan268 Před 4 lety +21

    As someone who has dealt with this type of stuff, including running away..I felt this scene on a whole new level, she acted that part so so well!!

  • @katsuminara4036
    @katsuminara4036 Před rokem +25

    I understand how Lizzie feels. I may not have been in the system but neither of my parents have time for me and I'm their eldest daughter. My Nana and the Lord has been there for me all my life and I am forever grateful that someone cares for me. I pray that everyone will have love and care they all deserve. That's all everyone needs is love and care. Not materialistic things but quality time and compassion and unconditional love.

  • @acacia3843
    @acacia3843 Před 4 lety +178

    Can’t wait for this to be on Netflix

  • @lorieneconstanceturner165
    @lorieneconstanceturner165 Před 4 lety +67

    This scene actually reminds me when my mom did drugs and never raised me and my gma had to do so i can definitely relate to this part

    • @tattyhuman4989
      @tattyhuman4989 Před 3 lety +6

      Im sorry you had to go threw that.

    • @MF-ow5in
      @MF-ow5in Před 3 lety +3

      Oh my goodness, I am sorry you had to go through something like that.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +2

      It's not about you.

    • @eunicedavis3254
      @eunicedavis3254 Před rokem +1

      My grandma and sis dropped me off in foster care

  • @cicithestoryteller7416
    @cicithestoryteller7416 Před 3 lety +17

    And honestly I know how Lizzie feels. I'm not in foster care but what's she's going through, and how she feels is exactly what i used to go through. I wanted my grandma to adopt me. She's been a real mother and father who have ever been there for me. The family that loves you for you are your real family.

  • @o.m9514
    @o.m9514 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Isabela Moner is an AMAZING actress!

  • @amazantaarchives9289
    @amazantaarchives9289 Před 4 lety +111

    I loved isabel moner’s character

  • @trashpanda9615
    @trashpanda9615 Před 9 měsíci +7

    I can tell you this from first hand experience; no matter how abusive, dysfunctional and disordered a home is the children always want to go home to the parents more than anything

  • @natxon
    @natxon Před 3 lety +62

    0:59 this part broke my heart the most..

  • @dwightschrute9312
    @dwightschrute9312 Před 4 lety +145

    She is an amazing actress :)

  • @xxhorror13
    @xxhorror13 Před rokem +15

    My heart completely breaks for Lizzie here 😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Especially @ 1:03

  • @RodsAndAxes
    @RodsAndAxes Před 3 lety +15

    I am a 6'4", 240lbs Stoic muscular man in his mid-30s. Few things phase me. I cannot watch this scene without tears. This is a highly underrated film. Well done.

  • @marcusanderson-yeager6740
    @marcusanderson-yeager6740 Před 8 měsíci +4

    How sad that Lizzy had to become the "mother" and take care of her siblings and herself. This is a true reflection of any Foster Care situation..

  • @davidhutchinson5233
    @davidhutchinson5233 Před rokem +5

    Jesus, this takes me back to when I worked in a non profit in the mid 90s. Heart breaking scenes at times. This does take me back. Great movie.

  • @kevinminogue5109
    @kevinminogue5109 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I get it that Lizzy wanted to be out of the system and wanted things to be normal again with her mom, but I felt that Lizzy was carrying more for herself than for Lina and Juan. That was not fair to force something that was not ready nor ideal. That her mom was not in the condition to be not to be a mom. Lizzy's mother will always be her mother, but never her mom because her mother did not have the capability to be responsible, care, nor love her own children as a real mom would. Those are the requirements to being a true mom.

  • @loserkai
    @loserkai Před 4 lety +112

    2:06
    So that's what happened to Sheila from Shameless

  • @KC25572
    @KC25572 Před 2 lety +5

    As a social worker, you see this stuff too often and it breaks my heart

  • @heyheymey8405
    @heyheymey8405 Před 2 lety +9

    0:27 her face was in distraught. I believe they want the best for the children even if it means losing them.

  • @stuck_oncloud9740
    @stuck_oncloud9740 Před 2 lety +7

    This movie really surprised me, I was not expecting the realism and dramatic scenes to hit so hard. Definitely a good watch

  • @samanthaeusebio8720
    @samanthaeusebio8720 Před 23 dny +1

    The "oh, okay. Sorry." was so sweet.

  • @kbob9625
    @kbob9625 Před 2 lety +9

    Your mom doesn’t want you. Deal with it. I’m adopted. Don’t waste any time on the people who don’t want you around and enjoy and appreciate the family that choose to be with you. Not forced to because you share the same blood.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety

      Relax. It's a movie. You're right though. Focus on those who do want you around. And it's not that the mother doesn't want her kids. She just knows she's not able to take care of them properly. Some parents are too selfish to realize that. Kids need a safe stable home.

    • @kbob9625
      @kbob9625 Před 2 lety

      @@trawlins396 lol why do people feel the need to tell others to relax… did I type in all caps? How do you know I’m not relaxed… obviously it’s a movie 🤦‍♂️ don’t look now but people have all sorts of opinions on movies and tend to voice those opinions in the comment section of the video clip they are watching. I know it’s shocking…

  • @thebakeosaurusrex8361
    @thebakeosaurusrex8361 Před 4 lety +15

    This scene was heart wrenching and just so gutting at least their was some humor in it

  • @h3nryatkinson402
    @h3nryatkinson402 Před 4 lety +63

    I love this film 🤩 This scene made me cry 😭😢

  • @TheLenealove
    @TheLenealove Před 4 lety +18

    This was one of the saddest scenes in this movie

  • @khateshaholley4302
    @khateshaholley4302 Před 2 lety +4

    i would never let my kids feel like this I'm crying real tears because my kids father is like this

  • @nerdygamerguy8378
    @nerdygamerguy8378 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I can relate 1000% when my mom left my dad at a very young age. I remember her just packing her car and simply just leaving without even saying goodbye.

  • @cazia9
    @cazia9 Před rokem +4

    ‘We’re not your parents but you know what we are? We’re HERE’
    When that sweet girl grows up,
    She’ll look back at that moment as the turning point - these are two people who love her already and showing up for her when she needs it most

  • @sk8terbl0x12
    @sk8terbl0x12 Před 3 lety +6

    Pete: can you just give us a free moment pls?
    The neighbor: ohhhh, ok sorry.
    *perfect*

  • @zoereed3421
    @zoereed3421 Před 3 lety +8

    wow, that was some of the best acting i've seen in a while, it's refreshing

  • @brendenslock290
    @brendenslock290 Před 3 lety +8

    1:53 no we’re not but we’re here

  • @lydiastormberg1075
    @lydiastormberg1075 Před rokem +4

    I got so emotional when her parents ran after her

  • @stitchedmouthgirl
    @stitchedmouthgirl Před 2 lety +17

    I know exactly what Lizzy is feeling her. My Dad really didn’t want me or my sister. He never properly openly said it but everything he did to me when I was younger made it obvious. He wouldn’t show up to places to pick me up, couldn’t stand being with me for more than a few hours and told me I could never live with him because it would take away his freedom. He knew my mother was struggling financially to take care of me and my sister, and despite being rich himself he never bothered to help once and would ignore my mother (and me and my sister) for weeks if my mother asked him for any form of help. It’s a shame because like Lizzy, I idolised a parent that didn’t want me for so long too.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +2

      If your mother's in the US she needs to pursue court ordered child support. ASAP.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +1

      Maybe your father doesn't know how to properly express love. People can't give you what they don't have. Try not to take it personally.

    • @stitchedmouthgirl
      @stitchedmouthgirl Před 2 lety +1

      @@trawlins396 Unfortunately we’re in the UK. And she was too chicken to persist with child support.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +2

      @@stitchedmouthgirl oh wow. That's too bad.

  • @spicegirl6790
    @spicegirl6790 Před 4 lety +6

    Honestly I know this feeling cause I had an absent druggie mother and it’s the most heart breaking feeling ever

  • @tomclancy6242
    @tomclancy6242 Před 4 lety +53

    Hey what’s going on here kid cry’s she’s like ok

  • @gourobkundu2173
    @gourobkundu2173 Před 3 lety +5

    Family is not whose blood u carry, it is about who u love and who loves u- Jackie Chan.

  • @Littlething41
    @Littlething41 Před 2 lety +2

    Joan Cusack coming in at the end was random and brillant!

  • @annaesparza6157
    @annaesparza6157 Před 2 lety +2

    Most kids have to accept the fact that most of their real parents can't be there or want them. In reality, they can learn that family isn't raised by blood but love. I went a foster care once with an old lady, who is kind woman and help me through until my mother and my stepfather take me and my brothers to live with them. I never know what happen to her since but I know it's her kind yet wisdom of her life kept me be happy even I want to help those who need a family, even they aren't my family but love is more powerful than everything.

  • @brockbell9429
    @brockbell9429 Před rokem +3

    When she said “she was using again” did mean drugs or something else

  • @arnitoe8716
    @arnitoe8716 Před 2 lety

    To all the good and caring foster parents out there, i love you

  • @brooklynrose2911
    @brooklynrose2911 Před 3 lety +9

    I really want an instant family 2 it would be so good

  • @mebert1008
    @mebert1008 Před 8 měsíci +5

    All she wants is her Mom. She wants the woman who birthed her, because that is a bond that cannot be broken, no matter how many times life gets in your way. But sometimes... You can't have that. Sometimes you can't have your Mom, because it would hurt you more than anything else. It's not her fault her Mama is not ready, but you can't rush the healing process. Sometimes it takes longer for some than others.

  • @dudeOVER9000
    @dudeOVER9000 Před 3 lety +9

    This scene was so emotional inside I was crying but not in the outside I was trying to not cry and in the end made me happy 😆

  • @JusticeFortheSilenced
    @JusticeFortheSilenced Před 11 měsíci +1

    As a former foster child with an addict for a mother I know the feeling......it is heartbreaking how well she played thst part.

  • @Phyroson
    @Phyroson Před 2 lety +1

    This girl is a good actor.

  • @rosierennie5867
    @rosierennie5867 Před 3 lety +5

    "And then she can take me home" 😭💔💔

  • @victoiresouledelafont3428

    To me, what felt the saddest is how the ladies’ words seemed to imply that the mother had basically put all the blame on her daughter : saying she was the one who had filled the forms, that she *pushed* into something she wasn’t ready for… she was basically implying that it was her daughter who had been pushing and forcing her, who had decided everything without asking her opinion. As a grown up, she’s totally able to say « yes » or « no, I can't » but rather than refusing from the beginning or admitting that she simply never had the guts to speak honestly to her daughter, like a real adult, she kinda pushed all of the blame on her teenage daughter, as if she wasn’t the adult who should have been able to refuse it from the beginning and not give fake hopes to her daughter.
    And another bad part ? I think she did say the truth when implying that her daughter had decided of all of this on her own. It’s still her fault as she’s the adult who should have taken her decision from the beginning and not let a kid make fake hopes.
    But this made me think about something. Why had Lizzie filled these forms ? Why was she so determined to go back to her mom who didn't really want her from the beginning and even rejected her foster parents who liked her so much ? I suddenly wondered : the fact that she rejected so much her foster parents, was so determined to go back to her mom, going as far as to make the whole procedure herself… was it really because she wanted to be with her mom ? Or was it because she actually somehow felt that her mom was actually the only one in this world who would be able, would agree to love her and stay with her ?
    But in just a minute, this hope was shattered. Let’s remember that after crying in the backyard, she offered her foster parents to keep her younger siblings while she would go elsewhere. Because she actually though no one could love her, not even them. Since ever her mom didn’t want her, she probably thought she was unlovable at this point 😢
    Thank God, her foster parents proved her wrong

  • @wilmerjulian7
    @wilmerjulian7 Před rokem +2

    Seriously and I will always believe it, I will always miss her because in addition to having an impressive talent for dramatic acting, Isabela Moner in real life was a girl, a teen, a very respectful and exemplary woman, a great inspiration for young people due to her intelligence and maturity. I miss that unique and authentic Isabela very much, very valuable to me 😟😞♥️👉👈
    In the movies, that month of December 4 years ago I secretly cried in that scene, I felt that moved me, it touched my heart to see her cry and suffer that duel that mom doesn't love you, she won't come back for you never, You know, drugs are the bane of all aspects of life.
    Lizzie was one of the best characters played by Isabella exploring new facets of her career in Hollywood.

  • @nitko1287
    @nitko1287 Před 3 lety +13

    "What the hell is going on?"
    'Yea just give us a minute'
    *understandable have a great day*

  • @jediwizard1237
    @jediwizard1237 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Lizzy: How come she don't want me, man?

  • @nexern3211
    @nexern3211 Před 3 lety +11

    Can we just appreciate that woman at the end for understanding and leaving them be?

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety

      ???? What's to understand??? Someone asked for privacy and she said "ok". That's how 9 out of 10 adults will respond.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety

      Why does BASIC kindness impress ppl now???

    • @nexern3211
      @nexern3211 Před 2 lety

      @@trawlins396 Yo! Gobaglaboglabglab 🫡

  • @RokinMan
    @RokinMan Před 3 lety +1

    Her acting in that scene was no less than amazing

  • @chloesein7768
    @chloesein7768 Před 2 lety +2

    this scene always gives me chills

  • @alyssagandara2638
    @alyssagandara2638 Před 2 lety +6

    I remember when this happened to me when my birthparents told my mom and dad that they were gonna pick me up. I’m actually glad they didn’t because I love my family.

  • @12angelman
    @12angelman Před 3 lety +7

    Shelia def saw that moment and she thought "Oh no, another gallagher family."

  • @fe.rya.lazeem
    @fe.rya.lazeem Před 4 lety +1

    isabela is one of the most underrated, talented actresses ever

  • @harrynielsen1282
    @harrynielsen1282 Před 3 lety +13

    Lizzie : You’re not my parents
    Pete : No we’re not but you know who we are ? We’re here
    This was suppose to be a sad scene 😂

  • @lailajones2865
    @lailajones2865 Před 4 lety +9

    dam she fast, she can run track with that