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  • čas přidán 19. 07. 2023
  • Reese and Dr. Charles navigate the devastating diagnosis of a young kid with a degenerative condition and how to deliver the news to the parents and the little boy.
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  • @trickster3696
    @trickster3696 Před 10 měsíci +3508

    This has to be the worst part of being a doctor, knowing what's wrong and there's nothing you can do to fix it.

    • @jeanneparisot237
      @jeanneparisot237 Před 10 měsíci +123

      Yeah. Powerless is the worst feeling in the world.

    • @jacquiethebibliophil
      @jacquiethebibliophil Před 10 měsíci +73

      And for the nurses too. If he were to have home health nurses you often come to love the child and the loss is awful too.

    • @koolkittykat04
      @koolkittykat04 Před 10 měsíci +18

      @@silentstarlight3322Why did the doctor have you do that as a shadow? I could understand if you were already a med student, but shadows generally aren’t supposed to do that because it’s a liability.

    • @honeybee2587
      @honeybee2587 Před 10 měsíci +32

      Doctors and nurses don't get enough credit. We as the public forget that they are human too. And while modern medicine can do a lot now. There are times when doctors and nurses cannot do anything to help or cure someone. And they feel just as powerless when they cannot keep a patient from harm. After all doctors and nurses take an oath to do no harm. But what happens against a disease they cannot stop or cure? It's extremely gut wrenching.

    • @jilla-dr9hu
      @jilla-dr9hu Před 10 měsíci +16

      I agree. I couldn’t help but feel completely. Helpless. Telling the parents had to be hard and difficult in real situations like this

  • @thenu7770
    @thenu7770 Před 9 měsíci +687

    It is hard to believe that Dr. Charles, played by Oliver Platt, isn't a real psychiatrist.
    He has totally nailed the role!!!

    • @jugurthasyphax6341
      @jugurthasyphax6341 Před 3 měsíci +8

      What do you mean? Platt isn't a real psychiatrist or Dr. Charles?

    • @charlottethomsen8076
      @charlottethomsen8076 Před 2 měsíci +14

      @@jugurthasyphax6341I think they are trying to say that Platt has done such an amazing job portraying Dr Charles, that one could almost assume they were watching footage of a real psychiatrist interacting with patients.

    • @thepainfuljournee
      @thepainfuljournee Před 2 měsíci +9

      His mother was a social worker

    • @hellsmyhome8979
      @hellsmyhome8979 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ikr

    • @faithcastillo9597
      @faithcastillo9597 Před 12 dny +2

      ​@@thepainfuljourneeI did not know that. He picked it up by osmosis.
      Adding this to another one of the reasons I love this man and his work.

  • @Gasssolo
    @Gasssolo Před 10 měsíci +1969

    Dr. Charles is such a professional. He manages to deliver devastating news without offering false hope, but at the same time remain compassionate.

    • @MaddoxMelton
      @MaddoxMelton Před 10 měsíci +38

      Yeah he’s my favorite. Best character in the show

  • @runsoncaffeine
    @runsoncaffeine Před 10 měsíci +2424

    I love the approach that Dr. Charles took when explaining the illness by lifting Parker's spirits assuring him that he'd live longer than Parker thought. He made light of the situation and that's admirable behavior (even if it is a tv show).

    • @everlasting9292
      @everlasting9292 Před 10 měsíci +50

      It’s a tv show about real life things. Real diseases and illness. Real injuries and traumas that do happen to people. So folks can make a connection to it. The way they tell the stories and delve into the depths of the emotional side of much of this is actually very impressive, I think. Even the way it affects the doctors, cuz they’re people, too!

    • @MikelosM
      @MikelosM Před 9 měsíci +27

      It's also pretty realistic. To kids that age, 5 years feels like more than a lifetime. Adults getting that kind of news would break down over it because that's very little time (plus we have a better sense of our own mortality) and that's why being in a situation like the parents & worrying how to explain it is so scary. Perception of time dramatically changes as we age.

    • @frankm.2850
      @frankm.2850 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@everlasting9292 Yeah, I'm guessing you never quite get used to dealing with cases like that.

    • @feraltaco4783
      @feraltaco4783 Před 7 měsíci +4

      I want Dr Charles to be my therapist.

    • @feraltaco4783
      @feraltaco4783 Před 7 měsíci +2

      ​@@frankm.2850if you can get used to things like this, you aren't in the right profession. As much as it hurts, I never want to become accustomed to seeing anyone suffering, especially children.

  • @fr0stw0lf97
    @fr0stw0lf97 Před 10 měsíci +2039

    Damn, the kid imbraced his fate with such bravery. Nice episode

    • @Augiegrl12
      @Augiegrl12 Před 10 měsíci +92

      No kidding. Making instructional videos for his little brother.. that really set me off with tears.

    • @Loserkid420
      @Loserkid420 Před 10 měsíci +41

      No hes just to innocen and nieve to know what 5 years means .

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 10 měsíci +58

      @@Loserkid420 To him 5 years is longer than he can even remember. It's a long time.

    • @stephenking5852
      @stephenking5852 Před 10 měsíci +10

      Is a vegetative state no different from being born without all five sense?

    • @foolslayer9416
      @foolslayer9416 Před 10 měsíci +11

      Such heart for someone so young.

  • @-Lady_Rosie-
    @-Lady_Rosie- Před 10 měsíci +757

    When I tell you I started balling when he was explaining that he was making a “Instructional movie” for his little brother 😭😭😭

    • @TheMD93
      @TheMD93 Před 10 měsíci +34

      I got misty-eyed just thinking about it. I'm a nurse and let me tell you I could NOT do peds for this reason

    • @ThicccMadame
      @ThicccMadame Před 2 měsíci +4

      Girl me too omg it broke my heart 😭😭😭

    • @amossmith6215
      @amossmith6215 Před měsícem +3

      same

    • @Tatianna1143
      @Tatianna1143 Před 16 dny

      Myself as well. I'm an older sister and I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't be there for my younger sister. Parker is braver than me

    • @Desi1992
      @Desi1992 Před 13 dny

      I know the tears started welling up in me as well.

  • @nikkiberns1365
    @nikkiberns1365 Před 10 měsíci +708

    I love the word “yet”. I have a cousin who was born with a terminal illness that there’s still no definitive cure for-but even though his expected lifespan isn’t long, each year is a year in which a new treatment, maybe even a cure, can be found. And even though there still isn’t a cure for his illness, each year has brought new hope with reports of longer lifespans among other patients, more effective treatments, and his health hasn’t declined the closer he gets to his “expiration date”. “Yet” is a powerful word.

    • @raggarbergman
      @raggarbergman Před 10 měsíci +27

      My uncle had leukemia 1985 and had a pretty aggresive form and no match for bone marrow. But about that time they had just found a way to purify his own bone marrow so they could make a donation to him from himself.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Před 8 měsíci +15

      @@raggarbergman that sounds like the early version of stem cell transplants. my MIL had lymphoma and they did a bone marrow transplant using her own stem cells. and speaking of new treatments bringing longer lifespans, my husband was diagnosed with chronic myeloid leukemia. it used to be 100% fatal within 5 years. now they have TKI meds that put the faulty bone marrow cells to sleep so they don't multiply, and it's become a disease you die with rather than one you die from.

    • @SearchingOblivion
      @SearchingOblivion Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@dietotaku "a disease you die with rather than one you die from" that's a great way to say it, I'll remember that!

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Idk it can be really rough. I've been living with chronic illness since 2017 and I've had so many doctors tell me they think it's this and I do their treatment and they end up being wrong. That means not only did I go through painful treatment I also wasted 6 months on one that didn't do anything. I can't take any more false hope

    • @brendacarlson6575
      @brendacarlson6575 Před měsícem

      Each day is so precious when we know that our loved one is only here for a short time. We seen to slow down and enjoy each moment, each day is a blessing. Time spent with someone who has only a short time has more significance, more enlighten, more peaceful. Their look on life is sharing time, love and happy memories with family and friends. I pray that your cousin will be able to be cured. God's love is eternal, whenever Time that comes.

  • @nikithegenius
    @nikithegenius Před 9 měsíci +267

    I teared up when the little boy said that 5 years is a long time 😢

    • @supersaiyaman11589
      @supersaiyaman11589 Před 2 měsíci +8

      to a kid 5 years is a long time.i mean wene i was his age time seamed like it was moving slower for me.

    • @kdizzle901
      @kdizzle901 Před 2 měsíci +4

      To a kid 5 years is a lifetime

    • @supersaiyaman11589
      @supersaiyaman11589 Před 2 měsíci

      its the same for me wene i was a kid time seamed to move slower now it seems to move faster for me.

  • @btsarmyforever3816
    @btsarmyforever3816 Před 8 měsíci +103

    A lot of adults/teens fear death. From what I have seen personally, a lot of kids don't. They fear pain and their parents getting hurt. Losing the ones around them. It's cause the kids just live in the moment. They don't care what the future holds too much. Dreams are different. They would even say, it's okay I can still play doctor/police with my toys then. As we grow older we start fearing things. It is why we consider kids as pure and innocent souls. This kid is ready to just leave future in the future and just live in the present times. Calm and collected. He doesn't fear the unknown.

    • @kibauno
      @kibauno Před 2 měsíci +2

      I wish I could go back to being this way. Sure would make living life a lot easier.

  • @sabrinatheteenagedbitch3248
    @sabrinatheteenagedbitch3248 Před 5 měsíci +200

    Props to the parents for actually telling him he’s sick and what it is instead of keeping it a secret until later

    • @Morgainell
      @Morgainell Před 21 dnem

      He didnt need to know that yet.

    • @Desi1992
      @Desi1992 Před 13 dny

      I agree i mean i understand the original commenter saying props to the parents for telling him because some dont like lying to kids and some kids don't like being lied to but sometimes in this situations the parents who don't tell thier kids see it as protecting thier kids because telling a child they are going to die is life changing or that they are so siick that they cant do this or that anymore takes a toll on them mentally. Think about it if that type of news could shock a grown adult what would the news do to the underdeveloped brain of a child. ​@Morgainell

  • @enternickname
    @enternickname Před 10 měsíci +837

    The kid actor deserves all the awards just for that seizure scene - I actually gasped!
    Flooded with tears right now, what a great and heartbreaking little story. Making the videos for the little brother, five years being a “long time”, I would hope I would handle such terrible news with so much grace.

    • @cici2369
      @cici2369 Před 10 měsíci +12

      Agreed ! He is such an incredible actor

    • @laurenorourke2442
      @laurenorourke2442 Před 6 měsíci +7

      as someone with epilepsy, he did a great job with that scene!

    • @Sup_Jerk
      @Sup_Jerk Před 5 měsíci +7

      It may seem really unbelievable but I actually do know the actor who played the kid, he’s a great kid and I see him going very far

    • @hothotheat3000
      @hothotheat3000 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Is that the kid from Iron Man 3?

    • @christinahasting5828
      @christinahasting5828 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@laurenorourke2442 I have seizures that look like epilepsy I've had them over half my life, and honestly, I don't know why or how people imitate seizures on movies and TV shows

  • @BeckaEmma1980
    @BeckaEmma1980 Před 5 měsíci +262

    I've been the parent receiving the news of a terminal, incurable degenerative disease for my child. I've been told he will live only a couple more years. My son turns 10 in February. This hit me HARD.

    • @ludodev
      @ludodev Před 5 měsíci +19

      God bless you. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through.

    • @sarakaplan3791
      @sarakaplan3791 Před 5 měsíci +14

      Wish I could give you a hug. Wishing your family peace.

    • @melindaboyd9830
      @melindaboyd9830 Před 4 měsíci +9

      My heart aches for you. I'm praying for you and your son. ❤

    • @lillienorrie4303
      @lillienorrie4303 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I'm really sorry to hear that! Wish u and ur son the best ❤

    • @rrancani444
      @rrancani444 Před 4 měsíci +2

      im so sorry. praying for you and your family ❤️

  • @freedomwriter1995
    @freedomwriter1995 Před 10 měsíci +647

    We have made all these incredible medical advances and yet we still can't cure the worst of our illnesses.

    • @p1nk5p1d3r
      @p1nk5p1d3r Před 10 měsíci +52

      at least we can treat more simple but very lethal conditions. Trauma surgeons are saving thousands victims of various accidents

    • @peter_pansexual6243
      @peter_pansexual6243 Před 10 měsíci +42

      That's one of the reasons why I'm for crispr or gene editing. I've also inherited a rare genetic mutation. They are currently still trying to figure out which gene is causing it.

    • @toobig7399
      @toobig7399 Před 10 měsíci +36

      Genetic conditions are ***really*** hard to do anything about yeah.

    • @freedomwriter1995
      @freedomwriter1995 Před 10 měsíci +21

      @@peter_pansexual6243 I'm also talking about brain and neurological damage. Too many people suffer from paralysis and cerebral palsy and dementia and neuro degenerative illnesses like Parkinson's and Alzheimer's.

    • @obamaprism4168
      @obamaprism4168 Před 10 měsíci +16

      @@freedomwriter1995well those are the most sensitive and important parts of our body so their needs to be a lot of things taken into account and figured out to stop treatments also hurting them

  • @SeleniteQuartz
    @SeleniteQuartz Před měsícem +29

    man this little kid has such emotional capacity. “am i gonna die?” “yes” “am i gonna die in a year?” “no, way longer than that” and he takes it like a champ. the child actor is a 15/10, what a trooper.

  • @kirkygirl
    @kirkygirl Před 10 měsíci +529

    I *love* that idea of taking videos.
    First, on the clinical side, it helps to show practitioners what the beginning stages might look like, especially if photos and video are taken later with patient and family consent.
    Second, on the personal side, it gives the parents and the family a look back on who the person was and who they are currently, even if little brother might not understand it at the time.

    • @eileensnow6153
      @eileensnow6153 Před 10 měsíci +11

      I don’t think they’re using those videos for clinical purposes tbh

    • @kirkygirl
      @kirkygirl Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@eileensnow6153 neither do I, more for his family, but it's a thought. 😊

    • @eileensnow6153
      @eileensnow6153 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@kirkygirl yeah I think those videos would have way more value for the family. Although you’re right that they would want to further study his case, with the onset of the disease being so late

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 Před 10 měsíci +7

      @@eileensnow6153I don’t think they are going to be used clinically but they could be useful for clinical reasons. Part of why rare conditions have so few treatment options and cures is because doctors/scientists/etc. can’t study them as well as common ones. If you have a sample group of 2 your gonna have less information to work with than with a sample group of 10.

    • @rocklizardds
      @rocklizardds Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@eileensnow6153 It could be both! They say it's a demyelinating disease that's affecting his nerves, so they could be using the video as a record and assessment of his fine motor function when he's tying the laces. Plus the added benefit of making memories for his brother and family, it's really sweet.

  • @misterbin00
    @misterbin00 Před 10 měsíci +190

    Calling 5 years a 'long time' is very heartbreaking.

    • @louiscyphre2267
      @louiscyphre2267 Před 10 měsíci +48

      Nah.
      As a kid everything seems long.
      Except summer break.
      Those always went too fast.

    • @pandroidgaxie
      @pandroidgaxie Před 10 měsíci +14

      Compared to his dog, it was.

    • @marybell2897
      @marybell2897 Před 9 měsíci +15

      As young as he is, it is a long time to him. It's more than half his life so far.

  • @suzannemcguinness8030
    @suzannemcguinness8030 Před 5 měsíci +109

    To tell a child they're dying and make him smile is really special

  • @sakurafalls2468
    @sakurafalls2468 Před měsícem +21

    When Sarah cried, I lost it. It reminds you that while medical professionals may seem composed on the outside, they feel such strong empathy and powerlessness that they, too, break down when delivering such horrendous news. I can't imagine how terrible that must be.

  • @cherie7100
    @cherie7100 Před 10 měsíci +416

    If only there were more real Dr's like Dr Charles! He has such patience and understanding, which most actual Dr's just don't seem to have anymore. I know he's a character, but there is such a truth to his acting.

    • @jbreezy4958
      @jbreezy4958 Před 10 měsíci +26

      He's also a psychiatrist, which makes him more attune to human behaviour and psyche than the average doctor.

    • @deebullock9284
      @deebullock9284 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Really really good actors make every character they portray believable!!! When they play a good guy/girl, you absolutely love them..when they play a bad/evil part, you absolutely hate them...that is full credit of that actor!!! The first movie I saw with John Malkovich, he played a monster in CON AIR..then I saw him in THE MAN IN THE IRON MASK, and absolutely fell in love with him!!! He is a consummate actor!!!
      Same with Jim Caviezel, a couple first movies I saw him in he played bad men, ugh, then came PASSION OF THE CHRIST and what it took to portray Jesus Christ!!!! Seen him on interviews, and this man is just beautiful!!! So sweet, loving, kind, that you just love him dearly!!! Consummate actor, real amazing man!!!!

    • @Gmthekiller
      @Gmthekiller Před 10 měsíci

      @@deebullock9284 Jim caviezel has one expression in his entire career lol

    • @deebullock9284
      @deebullock9284 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Gmthekiller you're being cruel

    • @matthewgilfus1640
      @matthewgilfus1640 Před 9 měsíci

      Most doctors are in it for the money. You'd be surprised how many.

  • @dazzlingcelery5285
    @dazzlingcelery5285 Před 10 měsíci +491

    wow this one was a tear jerker. what a brave kid!

    • @louiscyphre2267
      @louiscyphre2267 Před 10 měsíci +1

      He’s an actor.
      There is no bravery.

    • @amberanime
      @amberanime Před 10 měsíci +20

      @@louiscyphre2267 The point of actors is to portray characters in stories. The boy in this story can be considerd brave, regardles if the actor is or is not. In the same way that Tony Stark can be considerd a genius super hero even if his actor is not. As they say, duh. I personaly would argue the kid is not being brave however. Being brave requires being afraid. The kid doesnt seem afraid and mostly just practical/accepting or maybe just to young to really fear death.

    • @maidahaltrecht6577
      @maidahaltrecht6577 Před 3 měsíci +1

      It was for sure. When they showed the boy playing with the other kids and then the doctor crying in the washroom I just couldn't hold it in.

    • @logant9546
      @logant9546 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@louiscyphre2267 Nothin gets past you huh

  • @wamengxiong0409
    @wamengxiong0409 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Reminds me of the fact of "period of time" for diffeeent age groups:
    For a kid, months feel like forever.
    For an adult, years feel like a couple minutes.
    The reasoning is because of the percentage of life theyve lived.

  • @MrDogHeartsJudyJenningsss
    @MrDogHeartsJudyJenningsss Před 6 měsíci +59

    When Sarah (Dr. Reese) entered the bathroom and broke down, i almost immediately did the same thing. ☹️ I can’t imagine how hard it’d be to tell a child they’ll die soon. 🥺 Let alone, she’s a doctor so she does that a lot! 😢But because they could have a long, long life ahead of them, they could have fun opportunities like marriage, children. But because of Parker’s disease and his upcoming death, he don’t have them. And it breaks my heart. 😭 Not only that, but I’m super emotional. When I see ppl cry, I cry (or at least start to) as well. 😕 Also wonderful acting. 😃 Parker depicting seizing was amazing. And Sarah’s break down was also very realistic! 😊

  • @deniseeulert2503
    @deniseeulert2503 Před 10 měsíci +120

    These days, when a child has a fatal condition it comes as a surprise to us, as when the parents were bewildered that there was no treatment. As my grandmother told me she never believed in "the good old days" because life is easier now, with technical and medical advances. Her mother lost three of the six children she bore, to things we have vaccines for now.

    • @Tinky35
      @Tinky35 Před 4 měsíci +6

      And yet, we still have those few antivaxers. 😒😔

    • @terri348
      @terri348 Před 3 měsíci

      Same for me. Grandmother ( mom's side) lost 3 children at a young age due to things we have vaccines for today. My mom lost 1 child- same thing. It took a doctor, more than a century ago, 25 years to come up with a vaccine for a single illness. In the meantime, many were stricken with the illness and died from it.

    • @truckercowboyed2638
      @truckercowboyed2638 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@Tinky35no one is antivax to those that are proven....stop being a clown

    • @Tinky35
      @Tinky35 Před 2 měsíci

      @BCTMB it is.

    • @deniseeulert2503
      @deniseeulert2503 Před 2 měsíci

      @@terri348 So sorry.

  • @davidf2244
    @davidf2244 Před 9 měsíci +164

    Best thing about Charles is that he always pushes others to try and try again, and doesn't take over until his hand is forced. He doesn't mind discomfort and difficulty. He welcomes it as part of the learning process. Brilliantly written character.

  • @Real_G077
    @Real_G077 Před 2 měsíci +27

    Goddamn, The kid is A warrior. The guy accept his fate.

    • @williamwaters6803
      @williamwaters6803 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Little kids are made of iron on the inside. They accept what is as it is. Big hearts, eager minds, and soul made of solid iron

  • @danieldevito6380
    @danieldevito6380 Před 10 měsíci +45

    People have no idea how grateful they should be just to be healthy.

  • @jaybear57
    @jaybear57 Před měsícem +12

    We underestimate kids so much too often. I know this is a TV show but I know a 9 year old who has now passed away from cancer, who faced it as bravely as this kid in the show. He even made a friend in the hospital and played with her like nothing was wrong while he knew he was never leaving the hospital. I was so inspired by him.

  • @acolytetojippity
    @acolytetojippity Před 5 měsíci +30

    not including Dr. Charles' conversations with Reese is unfortunate. Him explaining that this is the most difficult part of medicine, and then explaining how the conversation normally goes, Reese's shock at the mention of the parents maybe wanting the doctors there when they tell the child ("The child actually needs to know.")
    And then him understanding that Reese wants to ask him to accompany her, even though she can't figure out how to put it into words.

  • @justcallmejessz3712
    @justcallmejessz3712 Před 8 měsíci +22

    Being honest with kids is often the best way for everyone to deal with harsh situations. They can handle so mich more then we give them credit for.

  • @RedWolf777SG
    @RedWolf777SG Před 6 měsíci +14

    Life can be so unfair and cruel to those who didn’t deserve it. Especially when it happens to young children.

  • @valfenia
    @valfenia Před 10 měsíci +130

    This is why I love Chicago Med. Sure, this is just a show, but I actually felt sad knowing what the parents would go through. Dr. Charles being one of my favourite characters of the show, too... he's explaining the situation pretty well!

  • @Whoisthiscantaloupe
    @Whoisthiscantaloupe Před 9 měsíci +51

    This is so bloody heartbreaking, I started crying. How do you tell a little boy that he's gonna die in 5 years?
    Oh, painful!

  • @cinemaipswich4636
    @cinemaipswich4636 Před 2 měsíci +5

    How honest are children. They know that they will die before they become an adult, but accept it, so as not to have their parents suffer.

  • @Noahsgirlfriend2006
    @Noahsgirlfriend2006 Před měsícem +3

    The fact that he’s making stuff for his brother is the sweetest thing ever

  • @trashpanda2312
    @trashpanda2312 Před 10 měsíci +16

    i know this is a tv show, but I cant imagine having to tell another parent that their kid has a disease like that.
    when my mother way dying of cancer this year we had to go to a cancer hospital, broke my heart to see young kids there for treatment.

  • @jenniferromero571
    @jenniferromero571 Před 10 měsíci +29

    Isn't it crazy how kids look for the best in things even when it's bad.

  • @amelonnamedkate1400
    @amelonnamedkate1400 Před 10 měsíci +123

    This is so heartbreaking. They did a great job representing the emotion of this situation. It’s even worse because it’s a very real thing some families have to go through

  • @amyfletcher4749
    @amyfletcher4749 Před 10 měsíci +97

    He is staying so positive...bless him!!

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 Před 10 měsíci +200

    Seth is an amazing young man. Many children are wonderful, brave, carring. His disease has no cure because it is rare and sadly not funded for study to find treatment. Very glad the wonderful doctor told Seth about his condition in words Seth could understand and accept. He did so much better than his parents. Wish the full episode was shown. This was interesting.

    • @DreamBelief
      @DreamBelief Před 10 měsíci +13

      Of course he did better than the parents. He is a trained professional and expert. Parents are not. It's no different to how an oncologist would obviously be better at treating a child's cancer than the child's parents would be.
      On top of that, they are going through one of the worst days of their lives. Being in shock and under extreme emotional and mental stress significantly compromises your ability to think, communicate etc. The doctor can be more removed from that

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 10 měsíci +36

      That's Parker. Seth is the baby brother.

    • @runsoncaffeine
      @runsoncaffeine Před 10 měsíci +10

      Seth was the little brother.

    • @BuckyBarnesATL
      @BuckyBarnesATL Před 10 měsíci +1

      It’s a TV show, Seth isn’t some real patient.

    • @paulamarentette695
      @paulamarentette695 Před 10 měsíci +8

      @@DreamBelief I think she meant that the child reacted to the news better than his parents did.

  • @xXSakuraTearsXx
    @xXSakuraTearsXx Před 10 měsíci +56

    Dr. Charles is an amazing & well written doctor.
    He knew exactly how to handle this situation & he knew exactly what to say to this kid.
    It makes me think of that old trick where you ask your parents for something big first, making your actual ask feel small by comparison.
    Except this is sad, precious, & wholesome.
    Manipulation made to help instead of harm; Psychology used for altruism & not selfishness.
    A great example of what a real Psychiatrist is capable of doing- you gotta love it!

  • @NH-tb2sm
    @NH-tb2sm Před 8 měsíci +37

    Dr. Charles is definitely the best character on the show. I wish there were real doctors like Dr. Charles.

  • @miahsimone
    @miahsimone Před 10 měsíci +66

    i just wanna say how much i LOVE reese, she is like one of my favs. the way she cares and how shes improved is so great! love her actress too !!!!

    • @AmyJiang
      @AmyJiang Před 10 měsíci +5

      I love how she improved and grew over the series!

    • @BitterCyder
      @BitterCyder Před 3 měsíci +2

      I wish she hadnt left 😭

  • @vadersfather1248
    @vadersfather1248 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The thing with children being told this kind of news they handle it with such strength that it belies their years

  • @carlossilverio7325
    @carlossilverio7325 Před 10 měsíci +25

    Dr charles' impact when giving bad news, feels diferent, even knowing theres no hope left, he makes it feel there is.

  • @faith191901
    @faith191901 Před 10 měsíci +22

    This made me tear up. 😢 nothing worst than hearing that you are on borrowed time from the one that is meant to fix you up. 😭😭

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 Před 10 měsíci +97

    The kid took the news better than the parents

    • @Shadythestar03
      @Shadythestar03 Před 10 měsíci +51

      cause the kid doesn't realize the danger of his diagnosis

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 10 měsíci +15

      I think getting old or even being an adult seem slightly unbelievable sometimes when you're a child. Maybe that helps.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 10 měsíci +16

      @@Shadythestar03 He does know that his dog died and is gone forever. So he does understand the basic idea. Although when you're that young 5 years is super long.

    • @DreamBelief
      @DreamBelief Před 10 měsíci +14

      Young children do not fully grasp the permanence of death. Also, one's initial response can be quite unemotional. It's a process, and the way our brains process such things and try to help us cope.
      There's nothing wrong with how the parents responded. They didn't respond worse or poorly. Experts recommend parents do show their grief and emotions when telling their child about a terminal diagnosis. When they weren't in front of the child it's also healthy to let yourself cry and express your thoughts

    • @qveenora3
      @qveenora3 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@junbh2yea when I was little I wasn’t scared but when I got older I start realizing

  • @jamesbaggett7223
    @jamesbaggett7223 Před 9 měsíci +27

    Oliver Platt is incredibly underrated as an actor

    • @whyanything3879
      @whyanything3879 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Words have never been truer

    • @thebyrd433
      @thebyrd433 Před měsícem

      Totally agree. I've seen him in multiple genres with multiple character types, and he nails it every time.

  • @thethundernado6670
    @thethundernado6670 Před 8 měsíci +10

    God that boy is so pure and innocent! This is so unfair

  • @Drakeawake
    @Drakeawake Před 6 měsíci +7

    Okay out of all the episodes of Chicago Med this one made me cry. Man he's so young hes too you young to comprehend something of that magnitude. It killed me when he said "A year?". He is so innocent. Man i wish there was cures for all deadly diseases hopefully one day.❤

  • @472bdhrn
    @472bdhrn Před 10 měsíci +52

    Honestly love Dr Charles he’s such a kind and caring guy

  • @charliemercer2593
    @charliemercer2593 Před 9 měsíci +43

    What a brave little man. This was very heartbreaking and was also so adorable when he made a video for his little brother to team him ❤

  • @dennyalfro9832
    @dennyalfro9832 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This show is the reason I love my field of adolescent psychology. I am in love with the minds of kids and adolescents because they see the world with the best and purest curiosity of their world around them. Absolutely amazing!

  • @juliawalsh2572
    @juliawalsh2572 Před 3 měsíci +5

    My mom is an orthopedic surgeon. She used to work at Valley Children's in Fresno, CA, and one of her coworkers there was a pediatric oncologist. This coworker specialized in treating cancer in children. I remember overhearing her saying something to the effect of, "How do I explain to parents that their child has leukemia and the chemotherapy will make them sicker before they die, and that that is the recommended treatment because it will buy them six months or a year with their child? And how do I explain that through a translator to these Hmong refugees who fled horror overseas, who don't even have a word for cancer, or leukemia, or red blood cells?"
    I would have been younger than eight years old when I overheard this. To me, this was a message of compassion. Somehow this doctor is still working, still treating these patients. Her patients do live longer now. Maybe that's a comfort too.

  • @aquatofana9257
    @aquatofana9257 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This hits. I have 2 adult children. It's amazing how strong you can be when you don't have a choice. I want to hug every parent who is dealing with something like this, or has dealt with it. I can't imagine.

  • @narniasheep
    @narniasheep Před 9 měsíci +10

    Is no one talking about Dr Reese? I respect her character that shows the world of humans who work in medical...... i have more empathy and view from the writers reminding/humanizing people who has to do things such as breaking news and their perspective, hopefully it brings us humans closer and work together for the better, and seeing each other such as oneself.

  • @ayakotami3318
    @ayakotami3318 Před 10 měsíci +34

    I would have done the same as her. Went to the nearest restroom and cried my eyes out for a few minutes. Delivering news to a child is the worst. It's absolutely heartbreaking knowing that a child has a devastating disease. 😭

  • @zerodragonsaiyen3268
    @zerodragonsaiyen3268 Před 7 měsíci +6

    This kid is so innocent and sweet man omg 😭

  • @honeybee2587
    @honeybee2587 Před 10 měsíci +23

    Oh my Lord God above this is absolutely gut wrenching. Poor kid! Those poor parents! Doing everything right and then this happens. 😭 That poor doctor who delivered the news! 😭

  • @thomasplouffe1363
    @thomasplouffe1363 Před 10 měsíci +44

    hes gonna die at only 13-14... whats said is this is a real condition, its mostly picked up when a child is very young and i mean young young, around 1-2 years

    • @OmGitsMarijaME
      @OmGitsMarijaME Před 10 měsíci

      maybe they cant afford doctors its america

    • @laurenorourke2442
      @laurenorourke2442 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Maybe the mutated gene he inherited must have turned on later since he was diagnosed so late? regardless it’s still so sad. Genetic diseases are horrible and just bad luck :(

    • @tcbobb1613
      @tcbobb1613 Před 7 měsíci

      That's why they called it late on set

  • @francostevo9939
    @francostevo9939 Před 10 měsíci +41

    2:10 I wish I could hear those words coming from Dr. Manning once and a while.

  • @nataliemaja2947
    @nataliemaja2947 Před 9 měsíci +18

    Some kids are so resilient. What a nice thing to do for his brother🙏🏽

  • @davidaikman1920
    @davidaikman1920 Před 2 měsíci +1

    That child took the news very well. Granted, he probably doesn’t fully understand what’s happening, but still very brave and willing to help others, for when he can’t anymore.

  • @goodvibesstation7835
    @goodvibesstation7835 Před 10 měsíci +4

    His joy at having 5 years 😢😢

  • @timgrove5757
    @timgrove5757 Před 10 měsíci +15

    This was heartbreaking no kid deserves to go through anything like this

  • @Ellsa_Lee
    @Ellsa_Lee Před 9 měsíci +24

    Sometimes, we aren't inherently brave. Sometimes we need other people to make us realise our bravery. I'm glad Parker had Dr. Charles for that, and I hope Dr. Charles has someone to make himself realise how brave he is, too. :)

  • @Jasonslittlesister1
    @Jasonslittlesister1 Před 10 měsíci +14

    Omg bawling my eyes out! So happy and grateful my boy is 12 now and, as far as I know healthy.

  • @user-ru3rj7od1t
    @user-ru3rj7od1t Před 10 měsíci +12

    That Kid Took It Like A Champ!

  • @thepainfuljournee
    @thepainfuljournee Před 10 měsíci +56

    Seeing Dr. Reese breaking down in the bathroom crying her eyes out literally broke my heart. I can't imagine what it's like for a doctor, nurse, or even EMT to see a child slowly die from a very rare disease. It's one of the most soul-crushing things to see. Babies, children, animals, veterans, and elderly people passing away break my heart to pieces. Any humans in general but especially listed above... The most vulnerable is very upsetting. Seeing this kid being told that he's going to die in the next few years, he took it so well. Kids are so innocent, God bless them. I know this is just a television show and not real, but the fact that this stuff happens in real life makes it even worse. Dr. Charles is one of my favorite characters on the show, so compassionate. I wish there was more doctors like this in real life. Especially psychiatrist. Dr. Reese doesn't get much credit either, I know a lot of people don't like her but I think she's very empathetic and compassionate. Just very quiet and keeps to herself. I know season one she was just beginning her medical student career, but later on in the seasons she does become a psychiatrist. You learn that she has a really dark past with her father, didn't have a good childhood. She does mean well, she does have her bad moments but I think she's very compassionate. You can tell here in this clip, she was very upset about giving this diagnosis to a very young kid that slowly dying from Krabbe disease. If I had to do this in real life, I would have broken down in front of the this sweet child. I would ask God to give me the strength because I don't know what I would do.

    • @laurenorourke2442
      @laurenorourke2442 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I had an epileptic seizure with the door locked when i was in high school. From what my mother told me, i screamed before collapsing with a hard bang to the floor. It woke her up and she had to call 911. EMTs almost had to kick down the door because it doesn’t unlock from the other side. Luckily I regained consciousness on my own and opened the door myself to see the paramedics with my family standing next to them. I don’t know how long I was unconscious for nor how long my episode lasted, it was definitely more than 5 minutes if she had to call emergency services. My mom from that day forward tells me not to lock any doors, because that day forever traumatized her and she thought I wasn’t going to make it. I’m very glad it wasn’t SUDEP. It’s so scary to watch your child suffer and go through something traumatic and not being able to do anything about it.

  • @opstac
    @opstac Před 10 měsíci +9

    Im crying right now because theres times when a kid has something wrong you just cant fix it no matter how hard you try and its awful but you should always take the time you have and make the most of it.

  • @laurenorourke2442
    @laurenorourke2442 Před 10 měsíci +20

    This episode made me bawl my eyes out. My heart broke for Parker

  • @cindygilmer2311
    @cindygilmer2311 Před 2 měsíci +1

    We all need a Dr. Charles in our lives. I love him.

  • @Salem-we1ey
    @Salem-we1ey Před 2 měsíci +1

    I can’t even imagine what a parent has to go through in real life situations like this. My heart breaks for those parents and my prayers go out to them.

  • @kdizzle901
    @kdizzle901 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Oliver Platt has such range I can’t believe he’s the same guy that is in The Bear

  • @RogueMustangMare
    @RogueMustangMare Před 10 měsíci +15

    This reminds me of my mom, the doctors say that there are multiple ways to treat abscesses on the colon but they couldn't help her.

  • @lethalprincess2087
    @lethalprincess2087 Před měsícem +1

    It’d be so hard for me not to cry in front of the dang kid

  • @normab2897
    @normab2897 Před 9 měsíci +18

    Sometimes when we think Doctors are heartless, it could be a way for them to cope with situations on hand ❤

  • @bigkid5226
    @bigkid5226 Před 8 dny +1

    Omg God bless any doctor in this position 😢

  • @NimdaChayse
    @NimdaChayse Před 3 měsíci +1

    I don’t know why but this episode shattered my heart. Just imagining my own child and being in the parents shoes… my gosh. My girlfriend and I suffered a miscarriage and this just brought up what I thought was in the past. I imagine what could have been and it breaks my heart every time.

  • @SeanPynrose
    @SeanPynrose Před 3 měsíci +1

    When I was younger, part of me wanted to go to school to become a pediatrician or cardiologist. Seeing scenes like this makes me in a way glad I didn't. I have such a soft heart that you can't win 100% of the time, and I couldn't handle this.

  • @stringbeanii
    @stringbeanii Před 10 měsíci +14

    doctor charles is a *_legend_* !!!

  • @chamberpethrese
    @chamberpethrese Před 10 měsíci +9

    Wow my heart can't take it , hearing this as a parent

  • @STackinDre
    @STackinDre Před 10 měsíci +6

    This just broke my heart 😢 💔 I’m trying to remember it is a show . I couldn’t imagine knowing my child only has a few years . And the way he just gracefully took in the information 😢 ughh

  • @williamweber9390
    @williamweber9390 Před měsícem +1

    This is the reason I never pursued being a veterinarian like I wanted. I wouldn’t be able to seperate my personal feelings from professional. Would be way too hard. It takes a special kind of person to do this stuff

  • @049_kavyasrivastava8
    @049_kavyasrivastava8 Před 10 měsíci +5

    His bravery made me cry

  • @APerson-oy2yy
    @APerson-oy2yy Před 10 měsíci +19

    Everything keeps complimenting the characters in this show
    The writing and acting in this show is incredible, like a ridiculously high standard consistently

  • @jackmeyhoffer5107
    @jackmeyhoffer5107 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Nothing more devastating than learning that your kid is dying.

  • @whywar1986
    @whywar1986 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Never seen this show but thats one heck of a way to deal with that sort of thing hats off to that kiddo.

  • @johninsalisbury2010
    @johninsalisbury2010 Před 5 měsíci +2

    if you ever want to cry watch the show. Talk about sadness

  • @Luna_moon_1127
    @Luna_moon_1127 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Can we please talk about how sweet this kid is literally told he was going to die in five years and his first thought is ‘I need to make instructional videos for my brother so that he can learn the things that I learned if I’m too sick to teach him’ I know they’re TV characters and stuff but if this was actually real, I would’ve literally been crying for the little brother who would eventually lose his big brother😢 my best wishes to everybody who has family members who get this disease

  • @kivrinsagchannel791
    @kivrinsagchannel791 Před 8 měsíci +3

    It's so hard to tell if they are acting they are that good

  • @craigsutherland4726
    @craigsutherland4726 Před měsícem +1

    My 4 year old niece started tripping up when there was nothing there. She eventually got MRI scans and found out she had a very rare disease called Leigh’s disease. My sister was told her daughter would probably only live 7-9 years maximum and they were going to put her in a hospice for kids. 2 days after saying this beautiful 4 year old kid would only live 7-9 she died. A couple days later. Absolutely heartbreaking. She never even made it out the sick kid’s hospital before her heart stopped a couple times. They managed to bring her back once but pretty much straight at the back of it her 4 year old heart stopped again 💙🙏

  • @KarenLee-bs5ms
    @KarenLee-bs5ms Před 2 měsíci +2

    How awful you get to sit there and watch your own child shrivel away.. children are supposed to bury their parents not the other way around.. as a mother myself this episode broke me in half

  • @Husker_XIII
    @Husker_XIII Před 10 měsíci +5

    Even if he's alive being in a vegetative state isn't living. I'd rather die than live like that.

  • @agni2003
    @agni2003 Před 10 měsíci +8

    I don’t know where this show casts the kids…they are some of the best child actors I’ve seen!

  • @Steddy1434
    @Steddy1434 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Sometimes the truth is the best. As sad as it is, everyone could live honestly despite the inevitable

  • @user-qf3oj6ri7m
    @user-qf3oj6ri7m Před 6 měsíci +2

    You will never see a O.G cry in front of nobody only when he's alone

  • @UZl--
    @UZl-- Před 10 měsíci +19

    Absolutely heartbreaking man I cried at this episode.

  • @KarenLee-bs5ms
    @KarenLee-bs5ms Před 2 měsíci +1

    Who else was crying in this episode😭😭

  • @uri65
    @uri65 Před 10 měsíci +8

    doctor charles might be the love of my life

  • @madcatter576
    @madcatter576 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Leaves me sobbing every time