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Daily Life Vlog #14/Healing the mind after childhood trauma

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  • čas přidán 11. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 65

  • @happycardosa8149
    @happycardosa8149 Před 2 měsíci +12

    I truly enjoy your videos, but I was not sure if you would be back? Three days ago I thought I'm going to look up coffee with Kate nothing came up. Then after some search, there was your channel! I'm thankful for what your videos bring! Thank you for coming back and for all your work!

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +7

      I'm so glad my talks bring something to the table, that's so meaningful to hear.

  • @carriemarie7535
    @carriemarie7535 Před 2 měsíci +9

    So glad you’re back, Kate! I just love your talks! And I love the dr emoto water experiment! The words we speak to others and ourselves matters! Change your mind(the words we think and speak) & change your life! And about the rice experiment, the one that was ignored/neglected also molded. Take good care of yourself and those around you❤ Your personality determines your personal reality ✨ Stay Blessed Kate ❤️🌻☀️📚✨🪴🍉🏡Stay Golden✨☀️🌻

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yes! You must be a studier of Dr. Joe Dispenza? Personality makes for your personal experience.

    • @carriemarie7535
      @carriemarie7535 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes, We can re-wire our brain and manifest our reality from within and then it becomes real in our world. I also hear of writers tapping into the “ether” I don’t know how to explain…but they kind of tap into the story as it comes to them and they say the book writes itself…not sure how that works? It’s a focus and in the realm of stories waiting to be told…when you find that, I can’t wait to find the 📚 books you captured 🐠☀️✨🦋✨☀️Have a great week! ✨Stay Golden Kate ✨Be Blessed ❤

  • @jenanderson7549
    @jenanderson7549 Před 18 dny +1

    I’m trying to catch up on your videos! I appreciate your sharing! It’s healing for me as well to listen to your journey. You remind me of a close friend (or my Grandmother who I used to have coffee and conversations with!) My Grandmothers have passed. I’m 54! Keep sharing. It makes a difference ❤️

  • @jenniferbrooks6303
    @jenniferbrooks6303 Před 2 měsíci +8

    This talk helped me, Kate. Thank you.

  • @summerflowers2436
    @summerflowers2436 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Good morning Kate and community!🌞

  • @cynthiacombest5
    @cynthiacombest5 Před 2 měsíci +4

    You did a fabulous job of healing and changing your life!

  • @ValerieinSC
    @ValerieinSC Před 2 měsíci +1

    As a child, the town library was my escape and saving grace. It even led me to my career. Last month, 40 years later, I was able to go back to that town and that library and make a generous contribution for their children’s library. I sat there and cried. It was one of the most cathartic experiences of my life.
    Valerie in SC

  • @creativelauri
    @creativelauri Před 2 měsíci +1

    Kate, I think it's great that you're leaving your doors open. It will be so much easier for you to receive the gifts you were meant to have. I think you being a writer is definitely one of them since you've been doing it since a child. I love that you are accepting of what you've become; like a writer, influencer, moma, wife, etc. It's important to love what you do and it shows with you.
    Oh my gosh! Jean Nate! That brings back memories. I remember the huge bottles at Christmas. Do you remember Baby Soft? Ha Those were the days. 😁

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +1

      I do! Yes, and the big bottles. We treasured that sort of thing back then.

    • @creativelauri
      @creativelauri Před 2 měsíci

      @@CoffeeWithKate4 I know. Now, there's no patience or saving up for anything.

  • @Lapetitebruno
    @Lapetitebruno Před 2 měsíci +1

    Glad to hear that you are enjoying your CZcams channel… I love your transparency and thoroughly enjoy these longer chats! You are a beautiful soul!

  • @normaoshea4460
    @normaoshea4460 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Wonderful chat; Enjoyed right to the end! Thank you Kate🤗

  • @DeniseODaniels
    @DeniseODaniels Před 2 měsíci +5

    i have to say i sure miss your cooking video's! the pancakes with the trail mix in them. all the soups and bread going and the rice pot going. u sure had it going on and all the many big jars filled with lovely wonderful things!

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +2

      I have been cooking up a storm lately but those videos are down the road in August. I forgot all about the trail mix pancakes. I did used to cook a lot and I'm getting back to it to improve our health and save a lot of money right now.

    • @DeniseODaniels
      @DeniseODaniels Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@CoffeeWithKate4 Thank u Kate. good to know! yay! yes i surely remember all your cookings. u are doing so good on your cooking now too.thank u.

  • @debrabutler2516
    @debrabutler2516 Před měsícem +1

    Love your videos your so down to earth.

  • @melaniebaker2233
    @melaniebaker2233 Před měsícem +1

    Your humour is so funny, you always make me smile and laugh when I see your videos, usually in observations of other people or how ridiculous life can be at times. I want that fridge magnet - paddle faster, it’s one of the funniest things I’ve seen in ages. I think people who value humour have usually seen the dark side of life, I completely agree about harsh words and trauma. I have a similar story and you help me feel less alone. Thank you Kate x x

  • @dawnlaw3266
    @dawnlaw3266 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you Kate for coming back, for sharing. I think the word you were looking for is empathic, as I am one. Take everything in. Negative and positive. Years it has taken to not absorb the negative. I relate so much to this, trauma, healing from childhood, not with my momma, with my father. Thanks again

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes, I have to be very careful with what and whom surrounds me.

  • @mm-qi3jq
    @mm-qi3jq Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love the beautiful artwork on the corkboard behind you. Thanks for sharing with us. You’re an inspiration for sure. ❤

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci

      It's Sam's lovely work. I thought they were sand dollars but he says no. Still hasn't told me what they are so I stick with sand dollars.

  • @WayCrunchy
    @WayCrunchy Před 2 měsíci +4

    We have so very very much in common

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +1

      I think so. I'm very impressed with all you have done and how far you have come. You are a wise woman.

  • @lateshachurney5965
    @lateshachurney5965 Před 2 měsíci +3

    He wants to be the provider. That’s great though. You each can get a say and compromise. I have to say I see both sides of that.

  • @RootedMystic
    @RootedMystic Před 2 měsíci +4

    I keep promising myself that I'm gonna WAIT and not watch each vid right away on Weds and Sunday so that I can save them for when I'm on the treadmill (because so far this is the only thing that keeps me walking for more than 30 minutes! lol). And then you release a new one and I'm always "Oh, let's just pop over and see what this one's about". [ONE HOUR LATER] "Oh that was SO GOOD!!!" 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks - as always - Kate!

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +3

      See, and I'm making these long ones for you to get the work out in. I'm so happy they are enjoyable! I feel I'm just yackity yacking. I'm happy to know the talks give something.

    • @RootedMystic
      @RootedMystic Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@CoffeeWithKate4 Oh they definitely do 😀

  • @TheTnaidu
    @TheTnaidu Před měsícem

    You make us happy too ♥️

  • @mexmorena13
    @mexmorena13 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Lots of hugs mi amiga y hermana! I really enjoy your videos and knowledge. I want you to know that I believe it or not, I have learned a lot from you. My respects to you for understanding, accepting, and supporting your daughter Moriah. In this crazy world, we have to be there for our children and protect them from whoever and whatever! Unfortunately, some parents don't support their children, and the outcome is not so good. Lots of hugs and blessings to you and your familia😊🩷🫶

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you, mi amiga! It is true, we must love and nurture how ever our children grow (encouraging positive behavior, of course) but it's their life and their path they chose. We are just here to protect and adore until they fly the nest and still I will be there.

  • @JennyOSunshine
    @JennyOSunshine Před 2 měsíci +2

    I didn’t read that book but from what you’re explaining and describing I agree with you. It does seem like he hasn’t healed.

  • @paulagamache982
    @paulagamache982 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your struggles. This video reminded me how important forgiveness is for our soul. If Jesus can forgive us we need to do the same! You are an inspiration for sure!!! Thank you Kate!

  • @JB-pd4ni
    @JB-pd4ni Před 2 měsíci +3

    Kate the way you turned your life around is amazing. So interesting that your mother's death played a role in that, my guess is the two of you settled some karma. Finding Bali was such a blessing, with him and his hard work youboth made a good life. Not easy BUT good.

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci

      Definitely some HUGE karma, because after she passed, I have an easy life.

  • @vannesagannon4555
    @vannesagannon4555 Před 2 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @joannereid5848
    @joannereid5848 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Emotionally deprived children don’t hate their parents they hate themselves. Came across this saying and for me it explained everything about my childhood and why I was on a course of self destruction.

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you for sharing that. I never thought of that. We learn to think we are the problem and to carry a lot of guilt that doesn't belong to us as well.

  • @doxiemom6850
    @doxiemom6850 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thought of you kraft mac and cheese has a plant based mac and cheese. 🎉 thanks for coming back

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +2

      There are all sorts of plant based mac and cheeses.

  • @marshamagic8551
    @marshamagic8551 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Mine was too..

  • @esteeb42
    @esteeb42 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I get what you're saying about basically trying to reinvent yourself. I was raised in a very strict religious household.. I really appreciate the values that gave me however, now I am not interested in being in any organized religion.
    I feel the same as you when it comes to home improvements. My home was built in 1956 I have lived in it for 25 years and there's always home improvements sometimes you just need to take a break from it all.
    Just a thought lol if the time comes and you are feeling up to changes...😄.. wonder if you could knock a wall out in your kitchen in that corner where you used to have your dining table, and just expand the room bigger.. you wouldn't have to mess with the bathroom🤷‍♀️😊

    • @CoffeeWithKate4
      @CoffeeWithKate4  Před 2 měsíci +3

      I love the separate rooms so I would never knock out a wall, although Bali keeps trying. I don't feel we need a dining room, it's Bali's obsession. I just want to water the garden and rest.

    • @esteeb42
      @esteeb42 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@CoffeeWithKate4 the idea that I had would not involve having separate rooms. I was thinking knock the window out, not the new window and expand out. But I totally get what you're saying enjoy the garden and I'm happy you guys for taking a trip. I agree especially if you have children you need memorable experiences....🥰

  • @tammystegall5130
    @tammystegall5130 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Hello Kate

  • @yadymoncayo294
    @yadymoncayo294 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Good morning ❤

  • @vannesagannon4555
    @vannesagannon4555 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Fantastic xxx

  • @carriemarie7535
    @carriemarie7535 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I agree with you on the David Goggins point of view…he seems to think he is transmuting the negative energy into positive energy, but it’s unnecessary to seek out the negative to do that…I think it’s a pretty toxic pattern and I feel bad that he is stuck in that. I thought he was inspirational before you enlightened me on this. I work at B&N and we sell a lot of his books to young men & it’s sad they have to seek that negativity to find positivity. Some people want to learn the hard way & I’m just concerned that they are making neural pathways for negativity and will get sick in that rut. 😢

  • @sissy9405
    @sissy9405 Před 2 měsíci

    You've come a long way Girl :-)

  • @janetcabrera7465
    @janetcabrera7465 Před 2 měsíci

    Todo lo que realmente importa es en la persona qué eres hoy en día, y que tus hijos y tu pareja amén a la persona en la que te haz convertido. Si cambiamos para bien es lo que realmente importa y que seamos felices, bien por ti Kate

  • @alycer.8158
    @alycer.8158 Před 2 měsíci

    🫶 u r so much loved outside of that family of yours...How do I know? I'm one of them....u can come and go as u please...me...well I'm always gonna be here- much like your trees I am planted in this channel of yours

  • @marshamagic8551
    @marshamagic8551 Před 2 měsíci

    Haven’t seen you lately..

  • @nelliebly6616
    @nelliebly6616 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤🎉😊

  • @vannesagannon4555
    @vannesagannon4555 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉