Trust Your Gut - 3 Signs to Watch out for
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- That constant battle between our head and our gut is a tough one to navigate. There are times when we're faced with a decision and logically we know what makes sense. The only problem is it just doesn't feel right. That feeling is your intuition and it's trying to tell you something.
There are many times we choose to ignore this feeling because it seems risky. There's no solid evidence telling us this is the right move to make. However, most of the time when we choose not to listen to our intuition we end up wishing we had. To help you gain more confidence in trusting your gut, check out my 3 signs you should pay close attention to in this weeks video.
When to Listen to Your Gut:
Despite the Facts you Can't Commit
Everything might make total sense on paper...so if that's the case it should be a no brainer, right? So what's keeping you from moving forward? Something isn't sitting right, and your gut is trying to let you know. Be careful not to ignore those feelings. When you ignore it that's when you might end up going down the wrong career path, or get into the wrong relationship, or even marriage!
You're Looking for a Sign
You're looking outside of yourself for an answer because you know something isn't quite right. We tend to do this a lot through other people. Sometimes we ask the opinions of others but secretly we already know what we want them to say. Even if we may not realize it. Sometimes we're seeking validation to help us confirm that feeling in our gut.
You Keep Trying to Convince Yourself
You find yourself coming up with all the best reasons in the world as to why something is a good/bad decision. You're trying to convince yourself what to do. But here's the thing - you wouldn't need to convince yourself if the decision felt right. You would just do it no questions asked. Pay attention to when you start questioning yourself. Your gut is trying to tell you something.
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Thank you for saying, in three minutes what most people take thirty minutes, to say.
Thank you! I'm so glad you found it valuable!
Exactly
Your right your mind reads situations and tells you whats going on. Your gut might not always be logically right. But your gut will never get you killed.
When my Intuition talks to me... I just know... I also find out things that I couldn't possibly know and my Intuition is always right it's that little voice that says don't go down that road there's been an accident!
rob bierd yes!!! It’s amazing how powerful that little voice can be!
I can so relate with "taking others permission" or relying on them for validation part. For years I couldn't discern my intuition demanding me to apply to the University of my dreams and for years I forced myself to be "logical" and hang on to the old career path. Had it not been for some great friends who inspired me to tread on the path of my dreams I would have ignored my intuition completely. But now that I'm in the path. I don't ask for anyone's permission anymore. If I feel it, I just go for it.
Manal Khan thank you so much for your comment! I love hearing that you’re able to relate to this. Good for you for recognizing when you weren’t listening to your intuition and learning from it!
Sharon Stokes lol thanks. And nothing in this world is more agonizing than people / friends "logical"-izing or as you say rationalizing your thoughts emotions intuition whatever it is. It's best to talk to your intuition about your problems than to people. Friends always unintentionally lead you astray. When you share your problems or feelings with someone even when you are not really looking for advice or suggestions just a mere shrug or frown can take you off course or even simply hearing their opinion can confuse you or make you second-guess yourself. People are always going to be logical about your problems even if they are intuitive about their own Lol. Plus everyones intuition is different. Their intuition won't benefit you. It will only benefit them.
This is very true... had to learn the hard way
third eye thirst me also, unfortunately.
Man if you didnt hit the nail on the head, ill pay u ever dime I got........ thank u sooooooo much....... i know exactly what it is I need to do but yet I try to seek validation through my friends just to see if im correct or not..... from now own. Im sticking with my intuition... no more seeking validation from no one..... cant no one make a decision for me but me.
So true. No wonder your gut is called your second brain. Your gut reacts to the situation first. Even before your brain does. Always listen to your gut, if you get some sensation in it.
Thank you so much for this. I've been struggling with some decisions myself lately, and this is the proper kind of validation I was looking for.
Taylor Muniz I’m so glad this video was able to help!
Keep them coming girl. This was very insightful and precise.
Thank you so much! And thank you for taking the time to watch and comment. xo
You hit the nail on the head for this one so true
I've always listened to my gut, I mean I learnt the hard way to listen to it, and I've done it so many times before in different situations... But now that I'm in a relationship, my gut keeps screaming I'm being cheated on, but I don't have the time and resources to look into it properly, and it's causing a lot of stress, resentment and mistrust.. I've been hurt a lot in the past and I struggle sooo much to trust anyone really...
My mind is in conflict with my gut and it's driving me nuts... 😔 But one thing I am sure of: I'll know the truth, in its time... 😶
Wow especially the second one.
I agree with you completely BUT intuition can be detrimental as well...I process a strong aura and I look very intimidating which throws people off about me for example.
Thank you for this concise video Sharon. I appreciate how you talked about the effects of ignoring your intuition.
Thank you so much for your comment! I appreciate hearing that :)
This is the validation I needed. Everyone keeps telling me to move on but my gut says otherwise and not to give up yet. I keep seeing signs and synchronicities too. It’s way too coincidental to ignore and has never happened to me in the past.
This was great, thank you!!! But how come I don't see any new videos?!? Come back!
In other words, if you really want/don't want to do something, but you're having second thoughts about it, do the opposite of what you want/don't want.
Yeah it may not get what you want, but if it'll keep you safe, listen to your guts.
So good 😊❤
Thank you for sharing your insight into trusting your gut instinct!
Thank you so much. I was wrestling whether to take a job opportunity if it’s offered to me but something about the job doesn’t feel right but I really need the $$. I do feel like getting a second option which probably means I know the answer. I guess I worry that another opportunity wont present itself.
Okay, that ”Something is wrong” feeling was judt that I had set my alarm clock to ring at the wrong time.
this was perfectly well explained. The problem is that people will always believe what they want to believe...and many folks still don't believe that "intuition" is even a valid thing...otherwise, this was solid...
I agree with Gordo B right down to the point, I love it! Thank you
Thank YOU! Appreciate you taking the time to watch!
My girlfriend has been acting different towards me on and off since last March. I caught her crying in bed after she got home from work once saying she’s confused about life, she didn’t know what to do. A bunch of red flags went up as well. At the same time she talked about a new guy that started at work on her floor at the veterans hospital she works at. She said nothings ever happened. I don’t know what to do Period I’ve been confused and depressed lately. My gut has been in knots lately. I hope I didn’t mean a narcissistic person who can easily lie. I’ve been committed our entire relationship of being honest with her about everything. I caught her in a couple of lies one was her watching porn behind my back. I even looked on her phone and saw she was watching porn on her break at work rather than call me like she usually does. I have a a lot of hurt feelings inside. What if all of this is just insecurities developing in paranoia from my past bad relationships. 😔😢😒
These three signs are great! Thanks for sharing.
Well said, great vid!
Thank you so much :) Thanks for watching!
I think life was meant to be a rich mixture of logic and intuition. Always thinking logically is not only stressful but super-boring and "khet". I got told off in the past that apparently I'm a person who doesn't want to hear what she doesn't want to hear. Yes when it's about my situations or personal life I don't want to hear anyone's advice suggestions opinion or perspective even if they are "rational". Now someone (I got this from a lot of people) might say then why talk to us about your problems. It's very hard not to talk about it to someone when the stress levels are alarmingly high and the other person sitting down and just listening without saying anything is not that realistic either.
Otherwise, I don't mind getting into a discussion about non-personal topics, such as climate change religion politics where everyone is sharing their opinion.
I have this gut feeling about something, But I'm too scared it might be wrong. Lately, my instincts were going wonderful! It was soo strange how everything I had a gut feeling for was right, But this one...I don't know. I feel that I'm wrong.
It can be tough to know sometimes. It's important to reflect on any fears that might be getting in the way of your clarity.
Storytime:
I have this crush on a guy from my school. We interacted a few times, sometimes he would say something to me, and the thing was normal at first (he’s not in my class). But one day, he did a weird conversation opener: he said my name, I turned around and I said his, like in acknowledgement of his presence or something, and then he said “How are you?”. I said “...Very good, thank you...!” And that was the end of it. IT WAS OUT OF THE BLUE. We started saying hi to each other, high-fiving and all that stuff, but we never really had a real conversation. I soon developed a bigger and bigger crush on him, and I wanted to talk to him, but...I have a friend who had already told some time ago that she liked him. And this was BEFORE I started crushing on him. He’s now gonna be moving to another school, and I don’t know what to do...I’ve think about him a lot and I really want to contact him through text or get to see him in person somehow. But I can’t bring myself to do it because of my friend...I have this weird feeling that maybe he liked me too and that we were both interested in each other, but:
1) There was a dance, and he had invited one of my classmates to go with him
2) My friend told me some stuff about him that made it seem like he had interest in her as well :\
I don’t know if I feel this sort of connection with him, and that we’re both ignoring it, but I seriously want to text him to find out...but I’m scared that my friend will find out and get mad at me :( Or that he doesn’t feel the same and that I’m just overthinking everything...
Wow, the way you explain it is very precise and simple. You have helped me
Always trust your gut. It does not lie, justify, rationalize, or complicate, & it is VERY rarely (if EVER) wrong. Don't listen to your brain OR your heart. Both are known to send you down the wrong path. Not always, but sometimes. Your gut is by FAR the most trustworthy & accurate organ in your body with regard to decision-making. Just go with it. You'll never regret it.
Most times I'm a bit disappointed with vids like this, but this was super insightful.
Jayson T thank you so much! I’m really glad you found value in it 😃
Direct accurate I appreciate it so much
Yes
This video helped thank you❤️
I have a crush on someone. I don't even know him well but I have a feeling that it is not the right thing. Yet I want him a lot and now I am stuck and I don't know what to do. Can anyone explain please!!
Better said then done
Just see where it goes and let it happen
I have zero sense of direction and I think my intuition is also broken .. thanks
whats the difference between assumptions and guts?
Waiitt what does the gut feeling feel like?
How do you use your instincts in sports kinda like soccer and others?
How do you achieve this?
In a beginner
Well said. It really ressonated with me.😄😘 But f#@k. That mean I should start my own firm, instead of getting a job.... 😵Help!!
Marianne Rognerud that’s super exciting! It’s totally normal to be terrified - wouldn’t be normal if you weren’t! I always say it’s better not to spend your life wondering. Take a risk 😃
Wow thank you. How do you trust your intuition when fear is blocking you?☹️
Michael Recinos it’s important to understand the specific fears, know where they come from and acknowledge them. It will allow for your intuition to become more clear
You should work on your root chakra, that's where fear comes from.. maybe you some blockages there who knows
Spirit of the Lord is in thy Belly.
Thank you🙄😃
What advice do you have for someome if they feel their instincts are damaged?
I was in an abusive relationship and sometimes it can have the effect of causing you to feel you can't trust your instincts (after all, your instincts "seem" to have driven you to the toxic relationship to begin with).
How can I figure out what my instincts are saying or what is left over fear from past trauma?
Sheryl Tucker I heard there are videos opening your third eye and maybe your instincts need a break. But you can also look for red flags that are more logical. For some examples, if someone said “all their exes were crazy”, moving too fast, their actions don’t match up with their words and etc
Sheryl Tucker I would like to recommend a few channels and a link that helped me and also it’s nice to have a community. I suggest watching, Stephanie Lyn Coaching, Nu Mindframe , Angie Atkinson and Lisa A. Romano
Sheryl Tucker here’s the link czcams.com/video/CTKPPcS0QX4/video.html
2020 anyone 🙌🏾
I feel fear in my stomach too though... how do you tell difference
What's with the Very Loud Introduction Music?
Hey i have these three signs for the past two weeks on my relationship. Shld i continue with it? Everytime thinking of him i feel something is not sitting well. Wat shld i do
thanks Love the Jacket
What if you trust your gut and it seems to always be the wrong choice?
Jim Walker then it’s not your guts it’s you making the choice lmao
You are very beautiful!
what if you have a feeling of I hate you about someo e
I think it's important to understand where that feeling is coming from and what's triggering it for you.
I the hatred comes from fear a nd abandonment by someone and wjat triggered it was this particular person coldn t give me exact date he return from china. I got upset because I fear my dreams with this persob was shattered, no marriage or kids...
please slow down, wow you talk fast!