Failure Doesn't Exist.
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2023
- Failure. Let's talk about it.
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Masked man never stop making videos on vagabond wheter he get views or not
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blud really replied to his own comment
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and i appreciate that
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There are no painless lessons in life
- Edward Elric
Everybody makes it sound very easy, that rising from your mistakes and failure is just simple but in reality it isn't.
That is the exact reason why it has value. Easy things have close to zero value but when it is hard and you overcome such matter it gives value and improvement to oneself.
For me, those failures tend to hold me down
You only fail if you give up, even tho it’s hard, no matter what YOU GOTTA KEEP MOVING FORWARD and be driven by love and positive things. Way easier said then done but once that idea is in your head you just can’t help but do everything NOT to fail
Allen walker is my goat for this
I'm your worst nightmare...
I grew up being taught never to fail
If you make a mistake, it's treated like the literal end of the world.
Long story short, that mentality fucked me up
Now I've realized that we have to try and fail and try and fail, all while needing to change and improve and evolve.
Now, I would rather fail but have direction and movement than do nothing just to keep that failure score at 0.
Sorry to hear that man. I hope you’re doing better today 🙏
👍 I hope ur doing better 💯.
That mentality is still holding me back. How did you start overcoming it?
@@NinthShinigami Getting there. It's taking longer than I thought, but I am getting there.
@@wwhhaatt I haven't fully. There are still days when I have to get something done, but I just stare at the project thinking "oh, shit, I could mess this up big time."
But when I start working on it (after a few days due to perfection paralysis), it wasn't as hard as I thought it was.
Having friends around who you tell them what you're going to do helps. I'm blessed to have friends who understand the creative process as well, and so I relay to them the work I have to do so they (in some way) can hold me accountable. It sort of.. "lights a fire" up my ass haha, and that's how I've noticed I slowly get to get out of this mentality.
And then I apply that to myself. For lack of a better term, I "conjure" an older, wiser version of myself in the back of my head and a younger version. The younger one does the work while the older one tells me to keep on going. I don't know if that sounds crazy, but in lonesome moments, the thought of being guided by someone does help.
Yesterday was my first day of university. Well, my first day of my second semester. Lemme tell you, failure is haunting me at night lol 😂 I want to succeed, make my parents proud, get them and my lil bro in a new house, one we can all be in, and live happily. I know that’s gotta come with some failure first tho. I wanna be ready to face it so tomorrow I can emerge a better, stronger person. Great subject Masked 👍
Really Masked. Thank you. I needed this.
I feel the same way. During last semester I found myself having an existential crisis almost every week because, I couldn’t accept that I could spend so much time studying and still fail to get the results I set out for.
It was during last semester where I learned outcomes are almost completely out of our control. And we should never base our self esteem on it. The best thing to do is focus on your effort and be proud of that.
Best of luck to you and everyone who reads this ❤
@@MoriohAnime thank you man and to you as well 🙏
University is the ultimate antagonist.
Gonna be starting my university soon & I feel the same way.
Good luck at Uni! As a quick bit of advice I'd suggest trying to make friends with some of the people in your classes who talk about making study groups and to remember that if some of the material you cover in classes gets too complicated to not be afraid to ask other people for help with it
I needed to hear this. I've had a difficult few years, with college and job searches. I've placed my worth in my successes and failures, and recently, there's been a lot of failures. It's taken such a massive toll on my mental health. But this video is a gentle reminder that my value isn't dependent on that. I'm alive and kicking, and that's all that matters. I'll learn from my experiences, and keep moving forward.
Well put
3:26 I did the same thing. Procrastinate because, I was scared of failing. Thank you for making this video it’s real AF. Please don’t ever take it down this video will help so many people.
It’s better to try and achieve your goals even if you don’t succeed in the process overall good message.
Fax 💯.
Thanks for this. Its always good to hear others stories of struggle. I've had my fair share of bad cards. My lowest point was my chest reconstruction. Metal Titanium Plate drilled into each rib. 6 Long years of struggling through pain and failure, I still haven't given up. Each day I'm still alive is a chance to succeed one step more.
I've been trying to understand myself for a while now. I keep procrastinate or just dont do things I planned for myself. Am I lazy? No not exactly. Am I afraid of dealing with people? A little but still no. "You'd rather there was no outcome than another failure that confirms your insecurities." was what I feared. And even if you got up and tried the effort you put into it doesn't feel like it justifies that. It is just so tiring. Still it is encouraging that I was finally able to put it into words. Thank you, words really cannot express the gratitude I feel towards this video.
Ngl I hope we see more videos like this. Really feels refreshing and calm.
"Do or do not. There is no 'try'."
I understand what that means now.
I totally get what you mean about not understanding yourself too well. I felt the same way as a much younger man as I get older though I’m 29 now, I’ve started to gain confidence, knowledge, authority, calmness, freedom, faith, and self assurance. For me it started around 25-26 and I’ve just gotten to where I feel overwhelmingly positive most of the time. You have to build the beast you wanna be but that takes doing it every day friends. I wish you all the best!
From my middle school years to my college ones, I felt trapped by my shortcomings. I just froze because I was too scared to move. But I took it one step at a time and arrived at a great place.
You encapsulated everything that I felt. Thank you for this video, for letting everybody know that failure doesn't exist.
Thank you for making this video. Right now I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and confusion over where to go in life, and finding out what is the next step I should take. I'm also struggling with the fear that I fundamentally am a failure and this is as good as it will ever get. But, I guess there really is no such thing as failing, right? I hope you all find what you are looking for.
This video wasn’t as much for the algorithm as it was a genuine message from the heart that you were compelled to share with us, views and engagement be damned.
And to get a video like that, once in a while, after becoming a bigger channel is nice to see.
Keep at it masked ❤
10:28 my past year essentially.
Thank you Masked. I found this video to be very encouraging
Can't tell you how much within the past 6 months I've felt like a failure. But looking back on things I've accomplished/accomplishing my dream. Sometimes life is hard, And It only gets harder. But keep that chin up and always keeping yourself looking forward. I have the utmost respect for you as a creator, Keep doing what you do man, Keep being a passionate dude in the space. Wishing nothing but the best for you. Chin Northbound and always forward.
This hit me on a different level. As someone who just accepted that as a writer the happiest I will be is serving tables and writing stories on the side. This lesson has hit me in a different way, thank you for this.
Personally I really resonated with this video and it's been something I've struggled with in the past as well. Even though I already came to terms with the fact that as long as you "fail" at something it's not really a waste unless you couldn't learn from it, there's still alot of situations where that fear of failure hits really hard for me especially from when I was younger. Personally I want to go into writing and drawing but I keep putting it off, in some part due to wanting to currently focus on actually getting a career in a field that pays worth a damn but also in part due to not having any writing experience. I spend alot of time consuming media I think have very well developed stories and fleshed out characters and I'll talk about why I think they're good with my friends to also get their perspective to keep myself engaged but when it actually comes to putting pen on paper and doing it I can rarely do more than typing out situations or world building instead of actually beginning somewhere. I'm getting better at it a little over time but it's hard and usually starts with some baby steps.
This video really came at the right time and i can't express how much i appreciate it.
Thank you for kind reminder that most of us really needed now and im praying that you and everybody here will succed 🙏
I felt the threat of failure during an animation course earlier this year. However with guidance from my professor it was fulfilling in the end and I’m proud of myself for sticking with the class. Life throws everyone a challenge but it’s how we confront them that is important.
This was a great listen, and always try and try again if something doesn't work the first time plus keep looking forward baby
Respects bro. That cart analogy put what I've been feeling in a beautiful way. I've been trying everything I can to escape the path set out for me and change fields/majors. Too far into my degree and it feels damn near impossible to get my foot in the door in what I wanna do. Every prof I try to get a research position with doesn't have room in their lab. Every program I look into has a dozen prerequisites and I can't spend another 6 years studying. Need to support my dad. Rejection after rejection has been getting me down and making me feel like I'll be stuck in a career I don't enjoy. Its reassuring to know i'm not alone.
this job market feels impossible sometimes
I deeply relate to this. I feel like now more than ever, especially in the digital age, people tend to judge you so harshly for your failures, which leads you in turn to look down on yourself as a human being in general. I feel as though I'm so paranoid of failure that i'm just living my life doing nothing and with nothing to look forward to, when I know in my heart that I am meant for something in this world, something creative and interesting, and that i just need to stop living my life being afraid of mistakes and taking leaps of faith. Maybe it will work out, and maybe it won't. But even if it doesn't at the very least I can say to myself that I was thankful to exist to have this opportunity. That despite it all at least I did, indeed, exist and live. But that's just my rambles on the matter. This was as thought-provoking as always l, Masked Man, and I hope that you rise above your failures and live a great life!
I hope you have a blessed rest of the day
i have finished first year in medical university after i tried to transfer to another, better school and i got an email that im accepted the day before yesterdey. in a month ill be continuing studying there, basically in the best medical enuversity in my country. i could've say that i got extreamly lucky, even tho i tried hard on my exams results weren't encouraging at all but hey here i am. everyone's proud of me, especially my parents but the thought of how huge this challenge is to me to learn there is scaring the crap out of me. i am not ready at all and i know itll be extreamly hard and today while i was thinking i somewhat coped with the idea of dissapointing everyone in my family with my future fails as i highly doubt the end of 3rd semester will go smoothly, but ur point made me realize that it really doesnt matter does it? if i win its gonna be more future challenges to me and same if i fail. i really appreciate you just sitting down and making this video masked, this seems like a proper way to motivate someone who is afraid of losing. so fuck it ima smash those exams and earn my damn future, after all smart or not those are just same 19 year old kids studying there as i am so why not give it a try. big respects masked, from now on ill be watching more of your videos :DD
So I’m not a failure
That's right you aren't a failure
i love how collectively we have all learned things through manga as an artform. It's stories and messages have taught me a lot growing up.
Thanks man I really needed that and I pray you have a blessed and peaceful life
Masked man, thank you for the reminder and good luck on your journey
Thank you for this video. Been a couple hard weeks trying to get by. Being myself. I really needed to hear this
Your words are beautiful, if anyone is struggling with life this is what they would need to hear
Also wanted to say I've been following your channel for a few years, and you should be proud of what you have accomplished. Things may not be 'perfect' but that perfection is just a heat haze. It's hard to step back and see just how much we do. So yeah, just a reminder to be proud! I can't count how many times i looked forward to watching your videos as sort of a background podcast while I'm doing stuff. We're similar in age (I'm 20) so I tend to share a lot of your takes on stuff. You got me to read a lot more manga and I'm really glad you have this channel.
Thank you for this. I needed it ❤
Thank you so much for making this video I really needed this ❤
Thanks for this 100% true I’ve wasted so much time of my 20s because I failed bad early on and from that point was scared to ever try again as soon as I start getting my goals together I stop because I tell my self Im a failure and I just stay in limbo thanks for this msg
After wasting so much time I’ve finally said fck it and going for my goals and finally decided to join the army for my dream career I know I will have set backs in life but now I refuse to look at it as failure but as a teaching moment
I really love seeing you upload these types of videos. I’m glad you feel comfortable sharing these thoughts even though it’s probably hard. It also helps me and I’m sure many others feel more comfortable sharing their thoughts/feelings❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this. Pretty much everything you talked about is what I'm going through. It honestly felt like you were addressing me, specifically.
I really needed to hear this, so again, thank you. I hope you, too, can see your worth.
For who else needs it, because of everything the last years I had to throw my whole life around. It took a WHILE but things are starting to look up. It might take years and the tunnel might seem endless. But eventually, EVENTUALLY there will be light. Until then, don’t let ya’lls go out. There is always one person that needs you.
Thank you for posting this video, this was definitely something I needed to hear. Been in a negative headspace that I'm not doing what I want(also kinda caused it cause I lost some motivation) and been a bit negative to myself that I haven't found a job in what I want to do, but this video reminded me that everyone moves at their own pace(some slower or faster than others) and I just need to keep my pace rather than stopping and being too critical of myself
This was a great video, it taught me so much, and I think it will help me with my more negative mentality, truly thank you
Thank you for making this video 🙏
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video man I really mean it. Not alot of people hear this but they really need to and I'm one of those people. It takes too long for us to understand that failing once doesnt mean it is the end of it, we have to push through times like that, times where we fall on our faces or times were we just dont understand things.
Failure shouldnt let us feel worthless but it should make us want to achieve what we want more. Its incredible hard but it will all clear up in the end. Thank you Masked Man for this video❤
I enjoy videos such as these. This is the real reason I love your channel. The authenticity that you bring with each video ,the vast aspects of your personality that you express through the visual media. Always will support you, thank you.
Thank you brother,I needed this today. Ill be starting my senior year in a few weeks so this is the perfect mass of encouragement that I could have possibly watched and resonate with. Thanks again bruf.
P.S : I think Ima start reading Vagabond,ive been putting it off for like forever but i think that ill actually start reading it this month.
Love you man...And thanks for this video
Thanks for doing these videos
Thx so much bro. These past years ever since 2020 were nothing but absolutely horrible to my mental health and social health. I have had good grades at school and all, but it felt like what I strived for was equal to nothing at school. I didn’t bother making friends, didn’t bother learning new skills, and didn’t bother with the act of “doing” itself. However, as I watched your videos, I became more happy watching all your anime and manga reviews. But most importantly, what I liked about you so much is that you did what you liked so much. Thx for giving me the encouragement. God bless.
This was a genuinely powerful little moment of self reflection. Hit me at the right point in time, just wanted to say I appreciate that.
Hope your difficulties have "smoothened out" and you're taking off in the direction you're meant to.
You are the first person that I have learned have the same problem as me. I feel like I'm repeating the same mistakes all of the time. Thank you for making this video. Thank you really.
You can't even tell how well timed this post was for me. Thank you
Thanks Masked, glad you exist. This did help me btw
Beautiful video! Body and mind develop on failure. Muscles, and learning needs repetition, failure and try and try and fail and fail. Then after some time, we start to notice small changes. It's just the messed-up economic system focused on do-or-die situations.
As many here, I grow up with that mentality. It takes a lot of ego demolition to understand the importance of failure to go further in life. And then explore one's strengths mental and physical to overcome them. And that's the toughest part. We must find our very own ways of exploring it..
This video really helped man I just failed 3 subjects in my exams I've been depressed for 2 weeks now this video really brought a new perspective for me thank you for that
Thank you so much masked. This vodeo is much more important than you think...
This was an incredible video.
You could really feel his emotions through the video. It's like listening to a friend telling you something important
Glad I have a shit sleep schedule and started working out tonight. This is something I needed. Thank you Masked ❤
waiting for the csm chapter and got a surprise upload by the 🐐
Masked, you were freeing up the realness on this one. Thank you for this defo needed this
@TheMaskedMan
I needed this. Thank you. Hopefully I can snap out of it and push through in my life.
This man be dropping deep as shit on us I sopport his success 100 I hope u go big dawg
thank you bro...needed this
I needed this, thank you
No matter what someone might say or what you might think just opening up like this is invaluable and I bet it was therapeutic to just get your thoughts out and I'm here for it fam
Yeah, it really feels like you kind of said just about everything I’ve been wanting to tell people in my own life at this point. Coming from incredible difficulty it can be confusing on whether, or not moving forward is even worth the struggle. No one can really confirm that for you other than you, and that only comes about by us just being curious enough to keep on moving forward. Just enough to see whether, or not the worth is actually there. Perhaps the curiosity is part of solving this problem. How do we spark that curiosity enough for the gears to stay in motion? The best thing I’ve seen is just looking at others who have been to their lowest points and came out on top. Look to pillars of hope and see how they go about things. The point isn’t for us to necessarily be original, but to utilize what’s necessary to keep going.
I love hearing your voice
Your on a spiritual journey man, it's beautiful to see
I love your videos! Thank you
Idk if you’ll ever see this, but I just want to say thank you. I revisit this video, a couple days, every week as reminder of how to view failure or sometimes when I feel bad. I can’t stress enough how much I appreciate you for making this video. Thank you much love 💙🤝🏽
thanks for the vid bro, i really do appreciate it
I resonate this video so hard these days. I've been out of work and denied from jobs for over a year now and I've been trying to fill that time by doing art and making videos and whatever I can make. Nothing has seemed to go right for all this time and I've watched people around do so much more. But I've also had that realization that right now, I'm may be directionless but it's my own journey to make and I can't control where my life is headed since so much of what's happened is out of my control. Everything you said is valid and I hope we can all get to a better place in our lives. It's been a tough few years but we do have to keep going. Funny enough, I listen to Crawl from Guilty Gear Strive a lot, especially the chorus that says "But I'm not going to be lost tomorrow, even if it is hell, I'm gonna crawl."
Take care of yourself man, thanks for sharing ur thoughts.
Thanks man. Needed this.
"Failure is the first step on the road to success."
_-- Every GOAT in History_
You made my day, lets both try to overcome this
Feel with you brother. We all need to learn accepting ourself at the core base and be able to do things again without the fear of failing :)
Thank you, I have masked my fear of hard lessons with a “I don’t care and don’t need to succeed”
Bro im planning to start doing youtube, and i scrolled down to see what is the worst performing video of this amazing channel that I like, and this is one of the best videos I’ve seen and it really describes me as a person. I can relate so much to this!
Fear of outcome was such a good point!
That part at the end, the "live for yourself" part. I don't think I've done that in a long while. And unforetunatly, it doesn't seem like I can start now. Much like with everyone else here. This did hit close to home. I just think I'm too far gone at this point. I believe this for reasons that are peronal. But, this did resonate with me.
Thank you so much for this video you have no idea how much this touched me and was needed. You’re amazing! 11:14
great video bro. failing is always one of the posibilities. i think the reason why most people dont create o do the thinks that will make them happy is because they are afraid of failing
I dont know.... I hope you the best.
The video made alot of sense it wasnt nothing it was meaningful thank you, I got better insight now because of you and now understand that I too base my worth from achievement and will try to better myself to not do it so much.
"I am special because I was born into this world" - Eren
Stay safe man, keep strong and go always forward 😎✌️
Not gonna lie this mentality is what made me not do videos for the longest cuz I dont have any good equipment or edits to "compete". Overtime I just saw it as a dumb perfectionist mentality it really does come down to the simple phrase "Just Do It". Everyone gotta start somewhere.
Doing something for the simple fact that you enjoy it. Not because of everyone else. Not in spite of anyone. If it goes well. Great. If it doesn't, you still enjoy it.
It's a form of self-love. And when it's all based on accomplishment...it just sucks the joy out of it. It sucks the self-love you had left.
It's.....really painful 'cause it's almost like your compass is not only malfunctioning. But you've lost it completely.
Great video actually n as a college student i fail a lot but I always come back up n keep trying
Thanks, Mask. I need it 👍
Thank you for this video. I will learn, and I will accomplish.
From what I've experienced failure is something which was once stigmatic that somehow became dogmatic along the way. This made everyone succumb to doubt and fear. I feel that especially for me it all goes back to purpose. If you have a strong inclination towards something, then flow with that. It's nothing like going with the flow, cause it inculcates everyone's flow which if left unnoticed can make things very erratic. I believe that you were right about the fact that things can just happen. Though that's the effect, not the cause. I believe that if you make enough adjustments to the cause, the effect will change if you still feel that inclination with you.
Bro got that podcast quality audio and video style. Brilliant video. Brilliant content.
Great video, and yeah failure doesn't you as a person, it's what you do after that is what matters 💯.
I implore those going thru hardships to venture into art.
Life is just like brushstrokes, you need upwards and downward motions to create a masterpiece.
I have a niece who my older sister abandoned for me and my mom to take care of it’s a long story but I get what you’re saying mask being afraid of failure I’m constantly afraid to fail my niece to be the best she could hope for I myself am trying to make a story to try get out as well but it’s hard I know just how tough it is working a really crappy job being worried about the future and the outcome of what your efforts could bring it kind of exhausting but I know I can’t give up and you won’t either no matter how devastating failure can be no matter how tough times can get just knowing your life is with it is enough
You got this man
Glad I watched this with a bowl set to the side listening to this and the rain come down.
The only thing that guarantees failure is giving up. Nothing is ever certain if you keep fighting. If you keep fighting, even if you ultimately fail, you will know that you will have failed giving your all, and have no regrets.