Therapy, pre 30’s anxiety, birthday gift unboxing

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 82

  • @TygerBlueEyes
    @TygerBlueEyes Před rokem +10

    Happy Birthday 🎂🎊🎁 ❤ a lot of people love you Soobin. I’m 56 and had lots of ups and downs in my life. What I learned overs the years is not to fear the future. Just enjoy the ride. 🏄‍♂️ 🌊 ❤

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +3

      Yeah! Just trying to enjoy the ride ;(

  • @ObrienDavid01
    @ObrienDavid01 Před rokem +19

    I felt that 30's anxiety a lot too, but with a couple of years in I don't see much of a difference. If you stay fit and keep pushing on your career and dreams it isn't too different from 20s. The catch is that you feel more pressure to settle down and more carefully tailor your job skills because time is more precious. On average, people tend to be happiest in their late 20s and early 30s.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +5

      Everyone is giving me therapy today in the comments! Appreciate the life insight !

    • @diyanasyarfa
      @diyanasyarfa Před rokem

      @@soobeanie I enjoyed your new vlog today

  • @mattevans6752
    @mattevans6752 Před rokem +10

    I love that Idol Insider video idea! Another idea that is kinda similar could be whether the company cares about group chemistry when assembling a group or manufactures group chemistry or if it just grows due to the shared trauma of being in a group together.
    I definitely feel your stress about getting older. I'm also gonna be 28 soon and it's becoming very real to me that I'm almost 30 and for some reason that feels very scary.
    Also, that wedding invitation with the baby photos is so cute! I love that!

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +3

      Oh Matt! Thanks I try to see if I can make this a video or add it in :) Its scary I feel ya, but also hoping to grow mentally and emotionally by then

  • @tiggerisheeyore9350
    @tiggerisheeyore9350 Před rokem +9

    Welcome back to CZcams, Soobeanie. Happy birthday again, i hope you had a great day. Everyone makes a big deal about age, but it really isn't anything more than a marker of how long you have been in the world. If you look back on your life at this point, think about all of your achievements and failures, how does it make you feel?
    You should be proud of all of your achievements. No matter when you achieved your goals, you did it. You. Perhaps you had help, maybe you didn't. But you stuck with those goals and got them done.
    As fair as failures go, yes those happen. Looking back on some, you can think "what was i thinking?! That was a crazy idea!" and others you can try again if you wanted with new experience and people to help you.
    Milestones take place at different times in people's lives. I hope you are happy and proud of who you are today and the direction you are going, it's never too late to change directions if you're not.
    In the relatively short time i have known you via radio and CZcams, i would like to say that you're an amazing woman and I'm proud to support you. You deserve love and support, you know that.
    Life is full of ups and downs, like the rolling of an ocean. You're the captain of your ship, but you're never alone. No matter how dark and bleak the horizon may look, you got this. Climbing out of your mind is incredibly difficult, but you manage to do it every time.
    Thank you for being you, Soobeanie.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +4

      This was something I needed to hear! Thank you🥹🥹

  • @evelynemartin989
    @evelynemartin989 Před rokem +8

    I’ll 30 next year and I decided that I might want to go back to studying after working full time for years 😅 so I have a bit of anxiety as well. You’re doing great. Doing things for yourself is important, whatever it is! ❤

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +2

      This comment💋 i feel ya… Ive been feeling pre-30s anxiety a lot but we will get through it

    • @evelynemartin989
      @evelynemartin989 Před rokem +1

      @@soobeanie And next month I’ll be in South Korea, visiting friends, improving my Korean and travelling a bit. Something for myself and I can’t wait! 🤗

  • @ervintoth_
    @ervintoth_ Před rokem +3

    Nice video your friends are so sweet btw so excited to watch your idol insider videos . I miss em so much .

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      YES next video will be a idol insider video

  • @_aelai_k1954
    @_aelai_k1954 Před rokem +4

    Omg yes @soobeanie very much interested in the idol insider video that you suggested making ! I've always wondered about that specific topic so I'm really excited and for sure I'll enjoy watching the video.
    Anyways, tysm for this video and pls stay safe and take care . We love you ♡

  • @iris_softhenic4173
    @iris_softhenic4173 Před rokem +4

    Can't wait to watch the next idol insider video 😍 idk if I sound stupid saying this but I would be glad if you can talk about how idols always look pretty I mean like in expressions I swear every angle they look so pretty and I can never relate lol . Do they practice their face expressions during training period ? Was always wondering that hehe .

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      Ih yes maybe ill include this in the video!

  • @ayakuma52
    @ayakuma52 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday💛LOVE!!!!I always hope your happiness😍

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Aw thanks aya! Always appreciate the love and support

  • @tubby_1278
    @tubby_1278 Před rokem +1

    I have 30s anxiety myself as I'am 28 but then again you just gotta push through life the best you can.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      Yeah! We just gotta push through and be thankful for the many great things we have in life :)

  • @kenyoung6666
    @kenyoung6666 Před rokem +2

    Some questions I have for your consideration for the next idol insider(s).
    1) With all those apps where idols are able to send exclusive messages to fans (Weverse, Universe, Bubble etc...) are the idols really the ones who talk to fans as well as post photos/stuff in general on the app or are those fully and/or partially controlled by their managers as well?
    2) The idol's personalities that everyone sees when the cameras are ON, what percentage is their real selves and what percentage is the PERSONA set by the company?
    3) Idol groups whose contracts are expiring in 2023, what are your thoughts on which groups companies will actually wish to keep (not counting whether the idols want to re-contract or not)?
    *This isn't really an insider thing but more of a topic for discussion*
    4) NEW and/or common idol dating spots and methods of how they date. 2022 update.
    5) Idols who are actually dating but lies to the public they're single or still maintain an image that they're still single. I mean c'mon, not everyone's naive to think their favorites are ALWAYS single!
    6) LGBT idols, everyone knows that there are a big enough percentage of male LGBT idols but what about female LGBT idols? Has the number of female LGBT idols increased over the past 2 years? What's the percentage of current LGBT female idols vs LGBT male idols now in 2022? *Not naming any names of course, to protect them*
    Many thanks.

  • @snaxman
    @snaxman Před rokem +3

    omg hi soobeanie ive missed your videos!!
    youre actually wearing a beanie this time hahaha

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      Hi thanks! Next will be a idol insider video hehe

  • @_shruti_6845
    @_shruti_6845 Před rokem +3

    Girl you're so pretty like you don't look 28 you look like early 20s ? ♡♡ I hope you're not offended . I really admire your personality as well . Pls stay safe

  • @boombayuna536
    @boombayuna536 Před rokem

    happy to see a new video of you, i missed them! :) i'm looking forward to your next idol insider video, they're always so interesting! but i enjoy watching all kinds of your videos though like your vlogs are nice as well so i hope you don't feel too pressured on what to upload. just do what you feel the most in the mood to! hope you stay healthy and happy!

  • @RockingMarshall
    @RockingMarshall Před rokem

    Missed you so much over here Soobeanie!!! Happy belated birthday!!! 😍❤🎈🎉🎊🎁 Always funny to see some unboxing. 🤩 Great to hear your current state & situation. Hope you are doing well. Take care of yourself. ❤ Like your daily vlogs, lookbooks, idol insiders and collabs of course. A bit of everything would be good. Pretty outfits! 😍😍😍

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Thanks for showing love hehe☺️

  • @ADifferentVibe
    @ADifferentVibe Před rokem +1

    Totally getting your anxiety. That being said, if you want to get married, just let me know because I'm open to a date! 😁👌🏽

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy Před rokem

    that little cooking video at the end was legit👍

  • @sehjalmaan9768
    @sehjalmaan9768 Před rokem +2

    Happy Birthday to you and happy Birthday to jimin❤️ May God bless you both❤️ we

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for watching! Thank you for the late birthday wish

    • @sehjalmaan9768
      @sehjalmaan9768 Před rokem +1

      @@soobeanie aww welcome ❤️💜

  • @Hi_Lynn
    @Hi_Lynn Před rokem

    hope u be happy and healthy. I enjoy watching all of ur videos and your posts on Insta❤ love u

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Awww thanks! Im striving more to be positive and not take things to my head too much

  • @yee2minty
    @yee2minty Před rokem

    I'm turning 27 in December.. and have a lot of thoughts too. I'm also starting another new job too and hope this one will be my favorite or closer to discovering what I would like to do.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Yeah… same still deciding what I would like to do or what Im possibly good at🥹

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy Před rokem

    seeing the blady members together. man, kpop fans live for stuff like this.

  • @atruth257
    @atruth257 Před rokem

    "Speak Your Heart Out"
    Yes first time hearing this phrase before. Learning new everyday; this is good new knowledge. A true good -thought of the day- always helps all tomorrow's smiles.
    Speaking of new discoveries...that kimchi!
    Traveling around CZcams and saw an interview where you mentioned your experience as a KPop artist. What caught my attention was you standing up for yourself by holding the company accountable for their actions and asking for legal help. Those two years must of supplied you with vast amounts of knowledge to help others interested in navigating a world of unreality.
    As with the music charts, numbers can be manipulated.
    One's age number is all in the mind.
    Although...biology does have a say in life, so yes self care is not selfish.
    Speaking of life, I'm i right in saying Koreans add the womb time to be included in calculation of wisdom?
    Ha, just had a thought... Imagine you're born in a leap year; you have a birthday once every four years.
    just got another thought... think Benjamin Button hehe
    In the interview they showed clips of songs you sung. I don't know your music or band, you thanked the interviewer in the comments and that classy move brought me here.
    This video smiles, and those smiles smile at others causing more smiles that smile at unsmiling then they began smiling creating more smiles etc etc etc!
    Anywho, good luck, happy day, always remember; You decide.

  • @Loveforeverss-cs7ew
    @Loveforeverss-cs7ew Před rokem +1

    Soobin imiss you ♥️♥️

  • @gumdeo
    @gumdeo Před rokem

    Happy birthday! Mom said you only really notice an energy drop in your 40s, so being 30 is no big deal.
    Oh wow the Leader got married, I love weddings.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      Yeah she got married 🥹🫶🫶

    • @markigirl2757
      @markigirl2757 Před rokem

      i beg to differ, my energy levels starts to go down in my 20s and by the time 30 came around its at a all time low and my health as deterioted massively

  • @abdullahbaguffah4898
    @abdullahbaguffah4898 Před rokem +1

    Good Luck .

  • @confluxes5514
    @confluxes5514 Před rokem

    Don't worry your good looking just keep on looking you will find someone and if you haven't tried online dating yet go for it and don't just limit yourself to location, for all you know the right person could just be at the other side of the world

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Ive never tried online dating🫢

  • @nothing-lf3vl
    @nothing-lf3vl Před rokem

    Belated Happy birthday 🎂

  • @franciswax
    @franciswax Před rokem

    missed you!!!!!

  • @ariannedacuma2129
    @ariannedacuma2129 Před rokem

    Belated happy birthday 🎂🎉
    By the way, I'm curious why Koreans don't have stretch marks and make a video of it. I really want to know and how they maintain white teeth and have a good teeth like they straight teeth

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      I did talk about teeth but not stretch marks! They do use laser for some stretch marks

  • @davidvahido
    @davidvahido Před rokem

    I think it’s therapeutic to stare at the images placed on the wall behind Soobeanie, which would cause me to reflect upon never winning the spelling bee when I was in elementary school, but of course I should look for better horizons in the infinity-of-the-future

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      That poster is always so interesting to me as well LOL

  • @Viewplay12
    @Viewplay12 Před rokem

    비니 이쁘고 입술 섹시한데 색깔 잘어울리네요 ㅎㅎ 오늘도 영상 잘보고 브이로그 영상 많이 올려주세요😘❤

  • @movies_matteo7271
    @movies_matteo7271 Před rokem

    Have you ever seen the K-Pop Horror Movie 화이트: 저주의 멜로디 (White: Melody of Death)? I'd love to hear your thoughts on the depiction of the industry in that movie!

  • @slavvalb3933
    @slavvalb3933 Před rokem

    What a resemblance ! You look so much like a British pop singer of Chinese origins, Fifi Rong .

  • @IncredibleAnyway
    @IncredibleAnyway Před rokem

    Is going to therapy a stigma in Korea or is accepted? Would an idol be applauded for going to therapy or criticized? Way to go for doing therapy! It has really changed my life. 💜

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +1

      This might be a good video to touch up on!

  • @Andretx5
    @Andretx5 Před rokem

    I'm going to send you my bday gift through pokemon go! Litwick CD ticket 🤩

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      Awww🥹🙏 thankssss hehe

    • @Andretx5
      @Andretx5 Před rokem

      @@soobeanie it's there! Happy bdaaaay 😎

  • @nothing-lf3vl
    @nothing-lf3vl Před rokem

    But ur still young and cute unnie 🤩🤩

  • @Spider-time
    @Spider-time Před rokem

    Why did you leave radio show?

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      They were starting a new season 🙏🙏

  • @mitumoben8358
    @mitumoben8358 Před rokem

    can you please make a video to how to online audition. to kpop idol. for high-bek entertainment. please. make it soon please please. and what things would we peak to the entertainment. like our dress.i whent to audition in 2023 please make it. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem

      I did a video o what to do for auditions :)

  • @xXHanna84Xx
    @xXHanna84Xx Před rokem

    I will be 40 soon.....then it's time to panic. 30 is young....

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie  Před rokem +2

      I think anxiety of getting older will always be there but age is only a number and we limit our potential the more we think about age so lets just be happy for all the achievements we did

  • @gabrielmeth4844
    @gabrielmeth4844 Před rokem

    I am 40yo male. You get used to it 😅