Spilling The Perfect Match Tea w/ Tolú Ekundare

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
  • This week, Tolú Ekundare AKA the main character from Netflix’s hit dating show “Perfect Match” is here for some spicy girl talk! Get ready for an unfiltered conversation where Tolú spills all the tea about behind the scenes drama and what really went down with her “relationships.” Don’t miss this tell-all episode!
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Komentáře • 224

  • @juliannatrure
    @juliannatrure Před 18 dny +445

    Tolu was the only woman who knew her worth, and carried herself with class and FUN on the show. So much respect for this queen 🎉

    • @mummytwinsj
      @mummytwinsj Před 18 dny +3

      I agree with you 💯

    • @nanettexg
      @nanettexg Před 18 dny +24

      I think xanthi is on the same boat. Classy queens 🥳

    • @Young4eva121
      @Young4eva121 Před 18 dny +11

      And Xanthi and Alara too! Honestly I really wish all the ladies were treated better ❤

    • @naabilariaj4207
      @naabilariaj4207 Před 18 dny +5

      No because she took Chris back

    • @lifestylemood
      @lifestylemood Před 18 dny +7

      🤨 She settled with Dom after he failed with Alara & then settled with Chris after basically several women told her he wasn't committed & he was trash

  • @valentinanagy4008
    @valentinanagy4008 Před 19 dny +342

    Everything that features Tolú gets a like

  • @LG-zg8mw
    @LG-zg8mw Před 18 dny +154

    They casted the most boring people, no wonder they thought she was too much, because they were NOT enough!!! Justice for Tolú!!! .

  • @lindaa.o8605
    @lindaa.o8605 Před 18 dny +268

    Tolu is such a QUEEN. Can @Rihanna please get her to model Savage Fenty? Gorgeousness and Class GALORE

  • @DaintyAbby
    @DaintyAbby Před 19 dny +244

    No Tolu.. ur not crazy.. Netflix purposely casts black men that hates black women… its not ur fault

    • @TennisBarbie119
      @TennisBarbie119 Před 18 dny +20

      This is true. They don’t know how to find black men who like black women. And it’s a superficial dating show

    • @Zzz3331
      @Zzz3331 Před 18 dny +10

      Feel like y'all blaming the wrong thing. There's a bigger picture here.

    • @silviamateevaloveintimacy6591
      @silviamateevaloveintimacy6591 Před 18 dny

      Of course. The whole world spins only around making things bad for black women. The only agenda that exists in this world. Nothing else matters, for nobody. We all participate in a big conspiracy against black women, without exception.

    • @midsectionmark8956
      @midsectionmark8956 Před 18 dny +4

      Hates a strong word. I understand the frustration though. For someone who dates anyone he finds attractive despite the race, I do think that netflix just needs to bring on more bombshell black women that guys of any race would gravitate to more, to satisfy the fanbase. Other shows like too hot to handle had better luck forsure. On a side note in season 1 of Perfect Match we had Calvin, not bad looking dude preferred Black women, and look what happened to him. I mean let's not act like Black women are not desirable on these shows. The problem is that it's not a majority black cast. There's a handful of Black men and women. They all have a chance of getting picked or not getting picked. That's just reality tv and dating in general.

    • @miekaxiii
      @miekaxiii Před 18 dny +4

      They pick the wrong men and women in my opinion, tolu is beautiful. I’m just saying women that are strong valued like tolu, jess and zanthi make theses men have to be better and they’re not ready to be better.. So they’ll go for the easier girls who are just as messy as them. Not to mention the fame is not good for young men while trying to be in a serious relationship. The entire thing is set for failure 😂

  • @anxhisenja
    @anxhisenja Před 17 dny +66

    She is beautiful but her personality makes the whole package supreme. She is such a bright girl

  • @Lindy-nw9rd
    @Lindy-nw9rd Před 16 dny +35

    hearing tolu roast Chris into oblivion gave me LIFE 😂😂

  • @EmeraldArcherr
    @EmeraldArcherr Před 18 dny +122

    child, i can't get enough of Tolu! Put her on EV-ER-RY-THING!

  • @SW-vn7ve
    @SW-vn7ve Před 19 dny +142

    She is everything! I know people are like she has no hair, men like hair, but she is strikingly beautiful without hair. With hair she is just another pretty girl with fake hair trying to fit into a mold. For the record, the men on the show just did not like darkskinned black women....hair or no hair. I hate she went through that.

    • @RochellBarbara4690
      @RochellBarbara4690 Před 19 dny

      Men also like big fake butts so I hope she doesn’t change for a man

    • @sshias278
      @sshias278 Před 18 dny +12

      She’s really beautiful…I can’t even picture her with hair at this point..this is definitely her signature look

    • @LG-zg8mw
      @LG-zg8mw Před 18 dny +7

      I agree, those men did not like anything else than white women, and both the show and some men tried to profit from Tolú’s likeness. They knew the viewers will love her and wanted to tag along.

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today Před 16 dny +1

      ​@@sshias278I think she wore wigs on TRUST. She looked different with wigs. This other short wig she wore made her look like an Egyption Godess.

  • @TheMelmel18
    @TheMelmel18 Před 18 dny +56

    I love her bald head I think she’s sooo top model coded

  • @Smiley-yk7vw
    @Smiley-yk7vw Před 18 dny +87

    I don’t like that you said she was a personality hire. That is what she says herself and I don’t think that was kind to say. You probably confirmed her negative thoughts without realizing it. She is a beautiful beautiful beautiful girl inside and out. I love her bubbly personality, her confidence. She lights every room she walks into (all the podcasts, interviews, every episode on perfect match)team Tolu all the way through and through ❤️

    • @simbaladesignsinsights
      @simbaladesignsinsights Před 18 dny +15

      Yeah unreal! She’s in a league of her own of beauty and THEN a personality and spirit to match. People like Jess and are a dime a dozen. Not sorry.

    • @Smiley-yk7vw
      @Smiley-yk7vw Před 18 dny +3

      @@simbaladesignsinsights ahhhh yesss!!! Jess too!!! She is gorgeous and people hate on her just because she is beauty and brains lol

    • @EMILY_RACHEL_
      @EMILY_RACHEL_ Před 15 dny +1

      agreed

  • @Young4eva121
    @Young4eva121 Před 19 dny +115

    How does this only have 500 views? WHAT? This is such a well-conducted interview and Tolú (or ✨TuhLoo✨ as Chris likes to say) is a beautiful soul! Ah!

    • @AfterCurfewPod
      @AfterCurfewPod  Před 19 dny +8

      THANK YOU! 🤣🥰

    • @svmto
      @svmto Před 19 dny +8

      The algorithm is not in your side sis ..cause the production and interview is top tier

    • @AfterCurfewPod
      @AfterCurfewPod  Před 19 dny +3

      @@svmto thank you! 🥰

    • @en9665
      @en9665 Před 19 dny +3

      It just came out lol

    • @RochellBarbara4690
      @RochellBarbara4690 Před 19 dny +2

      Because it’s not some plastic YT woman

  • @mayaalexis9012
    @mayaalexis9012 Před 19 dny +56

    I loveeee Tolu she was the realest and funniest girlie on the show and chris is a FOOL

  • @coder001
    @coder001 Před 19 dny +50

    Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The producers needed to get men who liked her look and personality or else get another woman.

  • @SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane
    @SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane Před 19 dny +56

    Honestly, I’m here because of Tolu 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤🔥💐

  • @NenaBabe
    @NenaBabe Před 19 dny +34

    Tolú’s energy is unmatched ✨ and that’s the tea 🫶

  • @irina1siren
    @irina1siren Před 18 dny +10

    Tolu is so gorgeous. If some men don’t like her it’s bc she’s not the cookie cutter insta filter look. She’s naturally model beautiful not slutty hot. And yeah women will appreciate that ❤

  • @Ireneshaban
    @Ireneshaban Před 19 dny +56

    Tolu is gorgeous

  • @alannashea6344
    @alannashea6344 Před 18 dny +14

    She is the absolute best thing Netflix ever gave us ❤

  • @hailey8708
    @hailey8708 Před 18 dny +10

    i could genuinely listen to tolu speak forever

  • @ninaenamorada079
    @ninaenamorada079 Před 18 dny +14

    In the end, the prize wasn't a relationship with Chris (more of a punishment) or the vacation. The prize was Tolú, & the men lost out 😊❤

  • @jenniferhatfield6640
    @jenniferhatfield6640 Před 17 dny +13

    Such a fun convo style interview. Honestly I immediately watched The Trust after this and thought Tolu was the absolute perfect way to advertise better shows than The Perfect Match. I'd watch her just for the outfits. And I loved hearing her perspective on how you don't need a partner to match your energy just someone who appreciates you without expecting you to change.

  • @carinelaberge5352
    @carinelaberge5352 Před 4 dny +1

    This woman gets it. A breath of fresh air. From another loud, unapologetic eccentric woman!

  • @juliexjune
    @juliexjune Před 18 dny +18

    the way tolu emphasizes things makes me crack up 😂❤

  • @nicolelittle6429
    @nicolelittle6429 Před 18 dny +18

    Crazy that the best looking girl with the best personality wasn't the first choice.

  • @karennnnnn17
    @karennnnnn17 Před 16 dny +16

    Tolu is real as fuck, love her energy 🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼

  • @mariahkamora6953
    @mariahkamora6953 Před 18 dny +54

    Did anyone else peep at the end she called “talu”😭 my girl can’t catch a break 😭😭

    • @spongebob468
      @spongebob468 Před 16 dny +1

      I thought she said it right

    • @skybritnei
      @skybritnei Před 15 dny +1

      Clocked it! 🙄 and it was goinggg so well before that lol

    • @bjsiau
      @bjsiau Před 13 dny

      Bro my mouth was hanging wide open!!!!! DIRECTLY after they talked about the correct pronunciation too!!! Unrealllllll

  • @you_are_welcome97
    @you_are_welcome97 Před 19 dny +13

    I hope Tolue starts her own podcast or channel love her and I feel like her content game is on point

  • @queenk838
    @queenk838 Před 12 dny +3

    One thing about me is!!! I love me some Ms TOLU!!! She is definitely the most beautiful and inspiring person from the show that represents us black girls right!!!

  • @adorastarr5090
    @adorastarr5090 Před 17 dny +7

    Tolu, your outfits were my faveeee! Every time you were on camera I was likeee "OOOOHHH GURLLLL" You're such an icon and your light is infectious!

  • @closcrazy
    @closcrazy Před 17 dny +8

    Tolu saved that season! The host is right she was THE personality.

    • @BibasBlessingsBox
      @BibasBlessingsBox Před 2 dny

      She is the ONLY reason I watched after the dumpster fire that was the first season.

  • @shellybelly6191
    @shellybelly6191 Před 19 dny +19

    I love her so much!! Tolu’s energy is literally EVERYTHING!!

  • @jessicawalinski
    @jessicawalinski Před 18 dny +24

    The interviewer is trying too hard to use Tolu’s slang and vibe. It’s cringe to watch. I watched her other videos where her voice is lower and not the preppy crackle voice.

    • @itsmorganalexis
      @itsmorganalexis Před 18 dny +2

      girl stfu this is how she normally talks lol you’re just trying to stir the pot

    • @bolu101
      @bolu101 Před 18 dny +9

      It’s normal for an interviewer to try to match their guest energy, y’all need to chill out

  • @TheStinkified
    @TheStinkified Před 17 dny +5

    this made me love tolu even more from the show! such a smart genuine woman, love to see it

  • @hafsahtauseef391
    @hafsahtauseef391 Před 18 dny +14

    She really is a girls girl. I love her sm 💕🎀

  • @cookeechoc8824
    @cookeechoc8824 Před 7 dny +2

    Out of the Perfect Match bunch, Tolu was the most beautiful, sexy, warm, genuine, kind, fun.....❤️

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today Před 16 dny +8

    I would rather women tell me i am beautiful and not men. Women know a womans beauty more than men.

  • @zencee7543
    @zencee7543 Před 19 dny +30

    Awkward when the interviewer says her name wrong right at the end of the interview. 😫

    • @jene70811
      @jene70811 Před 18 dny +4

      Like why did she do that 🤨

    • @Perennial1997
      @Perennial1997 Před 18 dny +6

      As she’s talking about her name being mispronounced.

    • @zencee7543
      @zencee7543 Před 18 dny +1

      @@Perennial1997I know. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @amandamoore6789
      @amandamoore6789 Před 15 dny

      Hahaha I just got to that part and was like YIKES and ran to the comments. The disrespect 😭

  • @fabimendes9512
    @fabimendes9512 Před 19 dny +16

    Tolu is a wonderful woman, I loved Tolu and Alara on the show xx

  • @freyas5809
    @freyas5809 Před 17 dny +7

    Tolu is literally helping me become more confident. Watching her mannerisms and hearing her speak, I get so inspired to match her qualities.

  • @Duckduckobtusegoose
    @Duckduckobtusegoose Před 18 dny +20

    Girl not you saying her name wrong at the end of the video😭😭😭 she deserves an apology after she just clarified it a bunch two seconds before that. You said it like tah-loo and not toe-loo

  • @hawiioceanview
    @hawiioceanview Před 19 dny +13

    Main character energy! I love that and I'm going to add that to my affirmations ❤️

  • @LG-zg8mw
    @LG-zg8mw Před 18 dny +6

    We ride at dawn for Tolú!

  • @daniellanduati915
    @daniellanduati915 Před 15 dny +6

    I totally agree with Tolu on Stevan. I don't know how most people didn't pick up on his fake 'loyal good guy' vibe. As much as I appreciated they were the longest-surviving couple, he just seemed so disingenuous to me. That's why I think Christine and Nigel def deserved that win! The other couples were just so off.

  • @codewithmurial5944
    @codewithmurial5944 Před 18 dny +9

    Tolu is gorgeous and all natural, don’t listen to the haters.

  • @kadeembest4752
    @kadeembest4752 Před 19 dny +14

    I just love Tolu!!!!!!

  • @mqk1697
    @mqk1697 Před 18 dny +10

    Tolu, you are that girl!

  • @AprilT72
    @AprilT72 Před 17 dny +10

    Aww I thought Tolu was in on it with Chris. This fool is still running around getting clout from her because she was a fan favorite. Let's be for real if it weren't for Tolu noone would be talking about him, just like noone was talking about him after the show he was on.

  • @blockiana9714
    @blockiana9714 Před 19 dny +18

    Be patient sis I know this video will blow up, also I love your energy

  • @JennyVanessac
    @JennyVanessac Před 17 dny +3

    I absolutely love her! She is stunning on the outside but her inside is even better and that’s the most important thing. She is a queen

  • @hurrjenkins4916
    @hurrjenkins4916 Před 19 dny +18

    Tolu!!!!! Great interview!!!!

  • @rinverno9
    @rinverno9 Před 19 dny +12

    i love the fool isn't even mentioned by the name :P

  • @pamelahernandez4453
    @pamelahernandez4453 Před 15 dny

    Tolú you were a delight to watch, your outfits, your personality, every time you were on the screen I was like, dude shes so beautiful. Thanks for being so real

  • @kandeebaybee2492
    @kandeebaybee2492 Před 15 dny +2

    They could NEVER make me hate Tolu 😭❤️

  • @melody556286
    @melody556286 Před 17 dny +1

    The fact that this video has less than 1k likes is crazy! I love tolu and i loved this episode. Such a vibe!

  • @alejandraromaniortiz6107
    @alejandraromaniortiz6107 Před 17 dny +1

    I love her so much! She really is everything!

  • @chelseanmars
    @chelseanmars Před 18 dny +9

    Tolu is too funny 😂😂 love herr

  • @justytem07
    @justytem07 Před 17 dny

    What a beautiful woman! The way she talks the man she needs is amazing 👏👏👏 Really hope she finds her person soon ❤️

  • @jadetotherescue
    @jadetotherescue Před 10 dny

    I really like your podcasting style! I’m interested to listen to you more! Subbed! Also Tolu’s energy from The Trust to Perfect Match and these interviews is so lovely! It really changed my opinion on her.

  • @tfoxx17
    @tfoxx17 Před 18 dny +1

    The motivational speech at the end 🙌🫶

  • @Lillytodd1
    @Lillytodd1 Před 19 dny +3

    Excellent advice!

  • @jillianlenna
    @jillianlenna Před 18 dny +3

    Such a fun episode! 🎙️💞

  • @jaydedean7648
    @jaydedean7648 Před 15 dny +1

    Def a fav on both of the shows she was on she is an icon😍😍😍

  • @Bookalicious1717
    @Bookalicious1717 Před 18 dny +8

    This is such a good interview ❤ the energy here is so amazing

  • @m4cks165
    @m4cks165 Před 18 dny +9

    Tolu you inspire me to death girl you make me cry happy tears❤️🥺

  • @tylargrant3441
    @tylargrant3441 Před 18 dny +7

    This interview was EVERYTHING 💕

  • @missabeerk
    @missabeerk Před 18 dny +3

    HERE FOR THIS AND FOR TOLU 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @otherjackieo
    @otherjackieo Před 17 dny +3

    My favorite interview so far! We stan Tolu!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @LavenderDreams6762
    @LavenderDreams6762 Před 18 dny +1

    I loved this!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @katrinarositaa
    @katrinarositaa Před 16 dny +3

    Love this episode ✨✨

  • @Barcelonabby11
    @Barcelonabby11 Před 18 dny +3

    2 weeks and Jessica was saying I love you after two days lmfao 😂😂😂💀💀

  • @seallover4565
    @seallover4565 Před 4 dny

    She's so true she said she didn't wanna be love bombed she just wanted a man who shows love. And she wants a man who communicates and wants their woman to shine. 😢 She's like me fr fr like we don't wanna be judged we wanna be listened to.😍❤️

  • @143Shayx
    @143Shayx Před 11 dny +1

    This lady is queen

  • @Perennial1997
    @Perennial1997 Před 18 dny +5

    She literally called her “tuluuu” right after Tolu was talking about people mispronouncing her name 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar Před dnem

    I loved Tolu on the show!! she is absolutely beautiful with A- one personality. None of those dudes were worthy of her time and beauty.

  • @StephanieLouise
    @StephanieLouise Před 15 dny +1

    She's everything 💜

  • @bigbrotherspoilers9756
    @bigbrotherspoilers9756 Před 18 dny +2

    tolu is a queen!

  • @alyssamelody
    @alyssamelody Před 18 dny +5

    Tolú is the best 💖💞💖💞

  • @eauxkei702
    @eauxkei702 Před 17 dny +1

    This interview is so relatable. I too am tired of these dusty streets!

  • @its_maya_hee
    @its_maya_hee Před 19 dny +19

    I totally disagree. Tolú’s beauty is conventional and is for everyone, why can Doja Cat be bald and no one bats an eye, but a dark skin woman is bald and everyone gaslights her into believing her beauty is not attractive to men?? The only men that aren’t attracted to her are weirdos or have micro aggressions

    • @TennisBarbie119
      @TennisBarbie119 Před 18 dny +2

      Doja Cat looks crazy bald too. Looks way better with hair.

    • @95luannaable
      @95luannaable Před 18 dny +15

      Stop capping. I seen a lot of men saying Doja isn’t attractive anymore because she’s bald. But obviously we know black women and darker skinned women have it 10x harder.

    • @Pushnotificationsalwaysoffbye
      @Pushnotificationsalwaysoffbye Před 18 dny

      Doja cat has been getting dragged since she shaved her head, she’s written about the feedback in several of her songs including some chart toppers, people have written essays and done video breakdowns on it, what are you talking about? lol

    • @lifestylemood
      @lifestylemood Před 18 dny +1

      1. Doja is thicker men commonly like thicker women - Also are we going to act like Doja & Tolu do not have two completely different facial structures ?
      2. You don't see people mad at Nia Long with short hair in the 90's because she is .. conventially attractive
      3. Are we going to act blind & oblivious like back in school & the workplace there are not people we deem commonly attractive & not ? Women went crazy for Michael B Jordan because of his looks I don't see them do the same for Kevin Hart or Jay Z .. Stop this nonsense

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Před 10 dny +1

      ​@lifestylemood I think she is conventionally attractive. Tbh, her a doja have similar facial structures, and Doja has lost weight lately....maybe she undid her bbl. She may have a longer nose than Doja and fuller lips but other than that, similar Sharp features and bone structure. The biggest difference is she has kinky hair and is dark skinned. If that's not conventionally attractive than that's not something she can change or anyone who falls into that category.

  • @StarGirl_C
    @StarGirl_C Před 6 dny

    I’m loving the roast go TOLU 😂

  • @marielaurenadiaz6679
    @marielaurenadiaz6679 Před 18 dny +3

    Hahaha 😂 I love when they are roasting chriss

  • @rosie-en1lz
    @rosie-en1lz Před 17 dny +2

    Love Tolu! ❤️

  • @sescalante7587
    @sescalante7587 Před 18 dny +3

    I love my girl Tolú

  • @ashleed12
    @ashleed12 Před 17 dny

    “She’s giving, it’s giving ” but say it like a million times.

  • @Baloney01
    @Baloney01 Před 17 dny

    Tolu needs to be on season 3!

  • @angesosamx
    @angesosamx Před 15 dny +2

    If anyone deserves all the backlash is Dom and Harry

  • @laurecuvillier
    @laurecuvillier Před 4 dny

    We love Tolu!

  • @Fazs1144
    @Fazs1144 Před 16 dny +2

    Rare beauty requires a rare man. Its about quality not quantity

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968

    i love this interview 😭

  • @lhollyrivera3408
    @lhollyrivera3408 Před 7 dny +1

    Tolu u are stunning those men were intimidated and knew they can't handle this goddess

  • @izeyodiase
    @izeyodiase Před 19 dny +5

    Love Tolu ❤

  • @DaintyAbby
    @DaintyAbby Před 19 dny +3

    Good job with this podcast!

  • @katelyncarrera6910
    @katelyncarrera6910 Před 19 dny +2

    Love it

  • @JanzZone
    @JanzZone Před 13 dny

    What’s wild is, to me, Tolu was and is the most beautiful lady to have graced that show

  • @cafewithexotiese2722
    @cafewithexotiese2722 Před 18 dny

    Why is this interview only about Chris? let me see if topic changes as I go🙂🤔

  • @carlinebarnes4953
    @carlinebarnes4953 Před 18 dny +6

    Corkscrew sent me to heaven. Not in a good way.

  • @gladiceiglesias9885
    @gladiceiglesias9885 Před 18 dny +2

    What month was Tolú born December or January? January capricorns are usually known to be super kind while December capricorns are headstrong. Just curious!

  • @bigbrotherspoilers9756
    @bigbrotherspoilers9756 Před 18 dny +4

    lol she said tolus name wrong at the end

  • @dayna7401
    @dayna7401 Před 17 dny +4

    I hated Chris. In person it might be different but anyone could tell he was fake even from the first show he was on. Thought he was the shit when he clearly isn’t